Unapologetic Swingers

Unapologetic Swingers: Episode 7 - Viva Las Vegas

• Unapologetic Swingers • Season 1 • Episode 7

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Join us on a surprise Birthday trip to Sin City, where we find trouble in plentiful supply. Our continuation of our soft swap adventures. You won't want to miss this one!

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Lady:

Welcome back to unapologetic swingers. I'm lady

Tramp:

and I'm the tramp. And this is episode number seven. Titled Viva Las Vegas. This would have occurred in the spring of 2022.

Lady:

Oh, yeah, this was fun. This was a surprise trip.

Tramp:

It was, it all started on my birthday, and it was a surprise. So she basically said, we're going to go somewhere warm for a weekend. And. You don't get to know where I'm in control here.

Lady:

I did. I liked being the uh, dominant for just a bit. It's like, I'm, steering this ship.

Tramp:

And let me tell you, it was a fun ride.

Lady:

Yeah.

Tramp:

So I did not know until we got to the airport. I think you had already checked us in online and done all that. And it wasn't until we got to the gate when I realized that we were going to Vegas.

Lady:

Yeah. I know when we kind of first met and we're talking about places that we've been You had mentioned you'd never been to Vegas and Never

Tramp:

in my 40 plus years.

Lady:

And everything kind of shut down, in 2020. And I was like, well, we can't, we can't go now. You need the full experience. So I waited until the right time. And that was the right time.

Tramp:

It definitely was. Since we were We were still just getting into the lifestyle as a soft swap couple and let me tell you, Vegas is a playground for the lifestyle, at least as far as I'm concerned.

Lady:

Yeah, it definitely is. I know. You reached out to a couple people out there and just seems like there's, there's a lot of people that are in the lifestyle

Tramp:

between locals and visitors or travelers. There are plenty of opportunities. So definitely gets a stamp of approval in my book.

Lady:

Yes. And it's Vegas. Even

Tramp:

if you don't partake of any lifestyle stuff, you can still get into plenty of trouble.

Lady:

Agree. We still need to have some more fun and maybe go to a strip club or two. That would be fun.

Tramp:

I agree. I was trying to think of something witty to say there. So we get into Vegas and I had asked Lady Hey, can I put out some feelers on Cassidy. which is probably the strongest app or lifestyle website for most of the west coast. And she said, go right ahead. And I reached out to some people and with such a huge variety of people you're going to run across flakes. So there are people who will say, Hey, I'm at Moria Beach Club, which is a topless optional beach club that you can pay an entry fee to. You may reach out to them and say, Hey, let's meet up. And then you don't hear anything. So you have to take our recommendations with a grain of salt, I think. But if you do put yourself out there and make the effort, you will find some incredible people.

Lady:

I wonder if the rendezvous part of that works a little bit better or not. I'm sure it's a hit or miss too.

Tramp:

We've tried it a couple of times and you're absolutely correct. It's sometimes we've gotten a couple of responses. Other times it's been crickets for no rhyme or reason. I mean, our profile gets a lot of looks,

Lady:

right?

Tramp:

But beyond that. Not so much.

Lady:

Yeah.

Tramp:

But we were lucky enough to meet a couple that we were staying at the link on this trip, you know, mid strip location, kind of in the heart of all the fun there. And we're going to call them Mr. D and Mrs. J. They reached out to us and said, Hey, welcome to Vegas. We're locals and we would love to meet you guys.

Lady:

Yeah. And we met them at the bar at the link.

Tramp:

He and I went and got us some drinks after we made the initial introductions. And I just remember you had wanted a martini. And I don't think it was a good martini.

Lady:

No, this is not the place to get good drinks. Yeah, this is,

Tramp:

unfortunately it wasn't a sexy bar, but.

Lady:

Yeah.

Tramp:

We didn't have a lot to go on. They were willing to come to the strip and meet us wherever and that's where we were.

Lady:

Well, the link is more party. central. And I think we've grown up from that after that first day,

Tramp:

I think you've gotten spoiled, my dear.

Lady:

If you haven't stayed at the win or encore, you're missing out.

Tramp:

That will come up a little later in the story. So we meet this couple and they're how would you describe them, babe?

Lady:

Oh my gosh. She is gorgeous. It's just teeny tiny perfect body, dress is so cute. And he just has like this presence to him that you're like, Oh, I'm interested, like tell me more.

Tramp:

He's funny. He has the personality.

Lady:

Yes.

Tramp:

And so generous.

Lady:

Yes.

Tramp:

That was one thing that really struck me.

Lady:

Well, they were just so welcoming and so nice and they weren't pushy. They were just like, whatever you guys want to do, you know, we'll just hang out for the weekend and just talk and have some fun. And my gosh, what a blast

Tramp:

we did. I don't know if it was that first night when we met them or possibly the next night, but we went to one of the lifestyle clubs there in Vegas with them called whispers.

Lady:

Yes.

Tramp:

And the funny thing about not all, but some of the lifestyle clubs in Vegas is they are in renovated houses. So they are outside of, of they're not on the strip obviously, or even around, but they're in this residential neighborhood. So you're taking your Uber, your Lyft, and you're driving into the neighborhood. There are just houses and these are fairly large lots. So it's not like they're on top of each other, but you're wondering, is this where I'm supposed to be? Yeah. Is this right?

Lady:

Right.

Tramp:

And, they drop you off in front of this in this case, it was a ranch style house, fairly large, and it was gated, but it was just eerily quiet. It was well after dark. I think it was nine or 10 o'clock at night.

Lady:

And it wasn't like there was a ton of cars. No. Right.

Tramp:

There were some, but you're right. Not a lot. And you just kind of wander back and they have a little check in desk and a pool and a hot tub and a dance area. But if you think about it, it is laid out exactly like a house would be. They haven't knocked down walls and opened things up necessarily.

Lady:

And this is Whispers, correct? This is Whispers. Yeah. Very nice very easy to go through the check in process. But yeah, very interesting because you kind of walk in and you check in and then there's just like all this food everywhere.

Tramp:

That's right.

Lady:

And you're like, Oh, you know, where'd this come from? And they're like, it looks like a potluck. And you're like a potluck. I didn't know that was a thing.

Tramp:

Especially at a lifestyle club.

Lady:

Yeah. You just bring your own food.

Tramp:

I think they do provide it as, as part of the membership fee or the nightly fee.

Lady:

But we had fun there. We danced. Oh, we

Tramp:

did. And they had karaoke and.

Lady:

They have a pool out back.

Tramp:

It was still pretty chilly. This was April. April.

Lady:

Yeah.

Tramp:

The pool was not in use and we really didn't utilize the hot tub.

Lady:

No, it was like going to your uncle's barbecue.

Tramp:

In a lot of ways, yeah. It reminded me, since we're more experienced now, of a house party where you didn't know the other guests like you commonly would at least know some people.

Lady:

Right.

Tramp:

And you could tell that there were groups and they were having a good time, but everyone was friendly.

Lady:

Yeah. Very friendly. It was, we had so much fun while we were there. So it's definitely an, an, an, an experience. I would say try it.

Tramp:

Oh, without a doubt. Yes. And so the evening goes on and this is also a BYOB club. And they have a bartender. So you check your alcohol, just like a lot of clubs and they serve you as night goes on. We had told Mr. D and Mrs. J that we were a soft swap couple and they very, again, very gracious, no problem whatsoever. And a little bit later on in the evening, they said, Hey, would you like to, you know, come play with us? And I just remember the layout of the house. The bedrooms are kind of spread out. Mm

Lady:

hmm.

Tramp:

Unlike a normal house where you have one hallway and all the bedrooms off of it, it seemed like they were spread out a little bit more so.

Lady:

Yeah.

Tramp:

And But we ended

Lady:

up in the back bedroom.

Tramp:

It was the more private, I think, bedroom out of all of them. And Really just had a fun, sexy time. It was so low pressure and just fun.

Lady:

Yeah. And that back bedroom, I think there was two to three beds. We just grabbed another bed and yeah, we, we had a lot of fun with them.

Tramp:

I do remember when we first walked in it was empty. It was just us. And then you're absolutely correct. People started to come in. You had a couple couples that were, just kind of watching and taking it all in. And by the time we were done, the rest of the beds were all taken.

Lady:

Yeah, it was.

Tramp:

And I just remember It was so much fun with those two and they said, Hey, we'd love to get some drinks with you guys tomorrow and just kind of see how you're doing and whatnot. And we're like, sounds great. So we, do our day the next day in Vegas. And is that when we went to the the topless pool.

Lady:

Yes. I don't

Tramp:

believe it exists anymore. It was the Bear Beach Club. It was part of the Mirage. I think. Oh,

Lady:

yes.

Tramp:

I think once, you

Lady:

and I went.

Tramp:

Yes. It was just us. Yeah. And you treated me to like this little cabana. And. Yes.

Lady:

We had our own cabana, food, drinks. Yeah. Yeah. It was really nice, but it was, it was low key. It was a little quiet. I think we talked to a couple people, but. They were just there to party.

Tramp:

Yeah, and the thing that I noticed, and this is true for this place, or the Marea Beach Club, for example, or some of the other topless pools or topless optional, rather. The amount of women that actually take off their tops are honestly in the minority.

Lady:

You think there'd be more cause it's Vegas, right? Like what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas and you're just supposed to crazy and not care. But I think people still care. And I think it's hard for the normal vanilla person to like, be like, Oh yeah, let's just do this. Unless if they're really drunk

Tramp:

Or if I would like to call it the swinger gene has been activated. And they aren't in the lifestyle, but they have tendencies, whether they're real sexual people or we all know those crazy people in our lives that are vanilla, but you can say you could trip into the lifestyle and land squarely and be just fine.

Lady:

Yeah, yep.

Tramp:

So. They reach out to us later on the next day in the afternoon and they said, Hey, we're down at the wind. Come join us. And we'll have some people would like you to meet. And so I asked lady, and even though we've been drinking it in the sun all day, we said, yeah, let's, let's go back, get cleaned up and make our way on down.

Lady:

Mm hmm.

Tramp:

And I don't want this to be a, an advertisement for the winter encore, but this place is pretty awesome.

Lady:

Oh yeah. I mean, there's a lot of awesome places, but it's our favorite and that's okay.

Tramp:

And so they have us meet them at the aft bar, which, looks right over, they call it the lake of dreams, but it's one of the main kind of sexy bars for the win. They welcomed us right into the table they had, and when we walked up, we noticed that there was another sexy couple with them. And we're gonna call them Mr. L and Mrs. A.

Lady:

Yeah. That's what we're going to call them. Yeah. We see them there and everybody's sitting at the table and it's not a huge table, but we just like kind of make ourselves, you know, cozy. And

Tramp:

I think that's what swingers do. You just kind of, if you know, you're amongst your people, you just kind of write personal boundaries, kind of.

Lady:

Yeah. We just squeezed in and, and we're like, we'll make it fit. It's fine. Like we'll get cozy and comfy and you know, if my legs over your leg, it's okay. But they were so fun.

Tramp:

They were.

Lady:

Oh my gosh. We just laughed for hours and talked and drank and ate and just had a blast.

Tramp:

And this new couple, I would say physically are very similar to Mr. D and Mrs. J.

Lady:

Yeah. All very fit and they eat extremely healthy.

Tramp:

I had almost forgotten that. I think there may be paleo for the most part, except when alcohol is involved.

Lady:

Yes. Very healthy.

Tramp:

And just honestly, a sexy couple. And at one point I was, sitting there almost having a little bit of imposter syndrome saying, wow, we were with some beautiful people and apparently we made the cut,

Lady:

Oh, I wasn't thinking that they made the cut. What do you think? But what threw

Tramp:

me, it didn't throw me off, but I wasn't expecting it was we, had a couple rounds of drinks and. There was flirting, but there wasn't any over the top touchy feely type behavior. And Mr. D says, Hey, we have a room upstairs. Would you guys like to come upstairs? And it's kind of one of those oh shit panic moments. Oftentimes when you're going into. Like a true lifestyle date, in my mind at the time, I was thinking, oh, this is just social. They're going to introduce us to some of their friends and then bid us goodbye and say, we had a great time. Look us up next time you're in Vegas.

Lady:

No way. We're fresh meat. They're like, we're going to invite them like immediately.

Tramp:

And so we go upstairs just to this amazing room. And again, there's more drinks and I'm thinking, all right, this is, this is awesome. We're just hanging out.

Lady:

The views were amazing.

Tramp:

And maybe I was just dumb but When everything kind of switched. Oftentimes in these situations you need someone who's the fire starter who kicks things off. And in this case it was Mrs. J. She excused herself to the bathroom and just said, I just need to go freshen up. And she walked out of the bathroom just wearing, the robe that That they give you with this suite and it just was a spark that lit up the fire.

Lady:

Yeah. Someone's got to do it.

Tramp:

So I would say take that as a pro tip. If, if nothing is happening, but all the vibes are there, sometimes someone just has to make the first move.

Lady:

Yeah. And you know, what I love about that is, It was just natural. It was just like, I'm just going to go take everything off and walk out with practically nothing on and give a little bit of a show, just enough to make people be like, Oh, what's happening? This is interesting. I want more.

Tramp:

Absolutely. Yeah.

Lady:

It was, it was a good, good move.

Tramp:

I'd say pro move.

Lady:

Yeah.

Tramp:

So the new couple knew that we were also soft swap and they were completely respectful. And that was the first time that we had been in a situation with more than one couple.

Lady:

It was. Yeah. But the dynamic was just It was really easy just because we started off having a great time. So the transition was simple and it was like, all right, let's have some fun.

Tramp:

And fun. We had.

Lady:

Yeah. Yeah.

Tramp:

To me, it was a lot of fun just being able to, I guess, cycle. For lack of better terms, like I'd spend time with you, and then I would spend time with Mrs. J, and then I got to spend time with Mrs. A. And, I don't know what it was, to me, that was just so much fun.

Lady:

Well, that's like It's like every man's dream coming true.

Tramp:

Hey, you got to play with some sexy guys. Oh,

Lady:

I did. I had, I had a great time. Oh my gosh. I think I yeah, I came pretty hard.

Tramp:

Well, I didn't, until I was back with you and both of those couples were full swamps couples, but they respected our dynamics. So

Lady:

yeah,

Tramp:

I know that. at the end of that. Cause there was blowjobs and pussy eating and the girls played some. Yes, that was sexy.

Lady:

That was, I, yeah, really enjoyed the girl play, especially with two others. I was like, yes. Yeah.

Tramp:

Two other incredibly sexy women. So it was,

Lady:

that was, that was fun. When

Tramp:

one of those mental images that will forever be burned in my mind. Actually, we will do a follow up to this episode because there's more to our next visit with these guys.

Lady:

Yeah, we had another visit with them. And I would love to have another one. Because they're just, they're such cool people. And it's not just in the hotel room. It's, going out and having the best time. So we have some fun stories with them.

Tramp:

Yes. But at the end of the play session, the four of them were full swapping and it was you and I, and it's not that we were being ignored, they were still touching you. And I believe that you were writing me on this bed and they were playing, immediately beside us so they had your hands all over you. And then I remember feeling fingers caressing my balls. I'm like, Oh, that's new. That feels really good.

Lady:

And,

Tramp:

and I think I said something about That's now that's just cheating. And, I don't know if it was Mrs. J or Mrs. A, but just laughing. And yeah, I, just filled you up in very short order.

Lady:

Yeah, that was fun. It was really fun. They, they definitely knew where to touch, how to touch. So yeah, had a great time.

Tramp:

This will be just like a little tiny add on because right after we finished recording, Lady and I were fixing dinner and we were talking about Vegas and our adventures with these two couples. And one thing that popped into my mind, and I can't believe I forgot this, was we finished playing, it was one o'clock in the morning, I want to say?

Lady:

No, it was like two o'clock in the

Tramp:

morning. And Somebody says, who's hungry? And well, yeah, we just got done playing and we can definitely eat. And so these folks introduced us to Tacos El Gordo.

Lady:

Oh my gosh. Yes. We walked over there.

Tramp:

We walked over there from the Wynn and it was packed even at two o'clock in the morning. Uh

Lady:

huh.

Tramp:

From there we, had some just amazing tacos and

Lady:

quesadillas. I mean, the lines were almost out the door and there was like 10, 12 different lines at least. Um, yeah, definitely. I mean, highly recommended it. You have to go, you like, you have to go there.

Tramp:

But then we said our goodbyes and made our way back down to the link. And just then we truly realized that our flight was a couple hours away at that point. Back home.

Lady:

Yeah, so we get back to our hotel room and I set the alarm and I think it was literally a 45 minute alarm. And so we like put our heads on the pillow. Fell asleep

Tramp:

immediately. Yeah.

Lady:

And the alarm went off like right away and I was like, we got to get up, we got to go.

Tramp:

So we throw everything in the suitcases and I am just, I'm wasted not from alcohol, but just from lack of sleep.

Lady:

I mean, we did drink all day and all night. Most of it wore off during playtime, but then we ate and it was just, it was a long day.

Tramp:

So pro tip is never schedule a first flight out of Vegas. AM or early AM flight because that terminal was like the walking dead.

Lady:

Yeah, it definitely was. Um, but it was worth it. It's so much

Tramp:

fun. It was, it was worth it, but let's just say, and we

Lady:

said, let's never do that again. I think we may have done that again. So you'll hear it on one of the future episodes.

Tramp:

All right, guys, I'll insert this, but just a little adjunct. Thank you, babe so that is really the story. I want to touch on a couple other things. Vegas wise Vegas truly is a lifestyle hotspot. There are lots of just sexy environments, whether it's a bar or a topless pool, or even Fremont Street, you can get away with some fairly risque Clothing.

Lady:

Yeah. And definitely have a couple favorites to wear out there where I wear no bra, no pasties, and my nipples are, I mean, if you look, you can see them. But, you know,

Tramp:

and personally, I find that incredibly sexy. Yeah. I don't know if part of it is, the thrill that some other people will definitely notice.

Lady:

Right. And that's why I like wearing that and I go play craps and I'm like, I just want to see like what men notice. Just

Tramp:

follow the eyes. Yeah.

Lady:

Do they put more money down? Do they give me a tip so that way I can play?

Tramp:

So many opportunities.

Lady:

Yeah. Catch me on the floor guys.

Tramp:

And Lady attempted to show me how to play craps and apparently I'm a bad luck charm. So if some of our listeners are a good luck charm and happen to be in Vegas, let us know.

Lady:

Yeah, I would love to meet up. We can go play some craps and have some fun.

Tramp:

And I'll sequester myself to another table or maybe just play some poker or blackjack.

Lady:

Yeah. Tramp has to go away. So

Tramp:

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Lady:

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Tramp:

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Tramp:

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Lady:

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Tramp:

I truly believe that for most lifestyle events, this will replace alcohol for me. And it's really cool with a lot of edibles, and this is included, you can have one or two drinks and be fine, but you don't need them. And even better, on top of feeling good, I'm relaxed and everything is better, especially when we play.

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Lady:

Yes, we have them all the time. I love those things, especially the energy one today. I really should have had one. I was feeling a little low and I'm like, I need something and coffee's not doing it. So that helps tremendously.

Tramp:

And there you go.

Lady:

Yeah.

Tramp:

And now we're going to get into the unapologetic honesty, kind of what we learned. And I think what I learned through this trip is. Lifestyle folks overall are just pretty fucking awesome. Wherever you go, you're going to meet people that you aligned with and people that are friendly and accepting.

Lady:

Yeah, I love that. You know, this trip was two years ago. Mhm. And I'm just learning now from this trip that it's okay to stick to your rules and what you've discussed because this moment we did and I had the best time of my life. There was no off roading. As I'm going to call it.

Tramp:

I think that's a good way to put it.

Lady:

You know, we, we stuck to the road, but we still had so much fun. We still had an experience that we didn't experience before. And we walked away and we just smiled. That was awesome. I love that moment. Just thinking through everything and. Although it's good to have those trials and ups and downs because you kind of learn about each other and what you want and how to communicate. That moment makes me realize like, I love this. I love the people in this community. I love us and I love the adventures.

Tramp:

So many adventures that we have yet to talk about and so many adventures yet to come.

Lady:

Yeah.

Tramp:

I would also say that now Vegas ranks as one of my Top places as well.

Lady:

Yeah, absolutely. We've been

Tramp:

back several times and in the next Las Vegas episode, we'll tell about the return to Vegas and some more adventures that we had with these guys and kind of a a date a meet that fell flat on its face. So it's not all.

Lady:

Yeah. Tramp went to Vegas for the first time and then we went back like every six months after that. He was hooked.

Tramp:

Sorry, not sorry. But I have discovered that pool season is the only season to go.

Lady:

It's a great season to go. Yeah.

Tramp:

All right, guys, for the AMA this week, we are out of questions. So what we're doing on the fly here is I have tasked lady with asking me any question she wants, and I will Just answer it on the fly and no holds barred.

Lady:

Okay. Since we're on the Vegas topic, what is something you would like to experience the next time we go to Vegas?

Tramp:

Oh, wow. We have done so much. We've done the fancy restaurants and the nightclub. You know what? I would like to go, I believe there is a strip club. It's not on the strip. I think it's somewhere between the strip and Fremont. Where they have a topless optional pool, but it's also a day club. So I think that would be a lot of fun.

Lady:

Let's get it lined up. I'm in.

Tramp:

I'm trying to think of anything else. Are you more leaning lifestyle stuff or just Vegas in general?

Lady:

Whatever. If you want like to throw something out there, lifestyle that.

Tramp:

I wouldn't mind. Possibly getting two or three other couples that, we've played with before and all go together.

Lady:

I like it

Tramp:

and, party it up and play and just have a great time.

Lady:

Would you also maybe try to invite locals just so we can all meet somebody new?

Tramp:

I would say yes, but I would want one of the couples to be able to, I guess, sponsor or vet. They know that, Hey, they're going to fit right in with us.

Lady:

Yeah.

Tramp:

Because it, it can be a crapshoot if you just throw something out there on Cassidy.

Lady:

That gives you a story. If it's a crapshoot, it gives you a story.

Tramp:

But what, if it's just not a good fit and you all get up from, the cocktail lounge or whatever you're meeting and say, okay, it's nice to meet you. And then all three or four couples just walk.

Lady:

That would

Tramp:

be so bad.

Lady:

You have wins and you have losses.

Tramp:

Fair enough. It is Vegas. All right, guys. So we're going to keep this going with the next episode and we'll do Viva Las Vegas part two.

Lady:

Yeah.

Tramp:

Where we have more shenanigans maybe we need to

Lady:

go into more detail on like what happens during playtime.

Tramp:

Yes. I know this one was lacking a little bit, but the next one.

Lady:

Yeah, the girls doors off, you know, the girls on the bed together and what the guys are, doing while the girls are just. Plain and what that looks like. Cause that's pretty sexy. I like

Tramp:

it. Good call bed.

Lady:

All right.

Tramp:

All right guys. Oh since we are out of ask us anything questions please email us. Otherwise I'll have to torture lady next time around.

Lady:

Or he may ask me a question. Come on. I need, I need some questions over here.

Tramp:

But truly we value just all the highs and hellos that we've been sent and especially the questions that have been submitted thus far. Wherever you listen to us, if you don't mind, our big ask is just please leave us a review. We'd be eternally grateful and it helps kind of get the word out and boost us in, in the rankings.

Lady:

Yeah, agree. And even if you just send us an email with a hello, where you're from, why you're listening, what you want to hear, that's important too.

Tramp:

We will occasionally do one on a topic. So if there's a topic you're dying to hear our perspective on, let us know.

Lady:

Yeah. All right. Is that all we got?

Tramp:

That's all we got for today.

Lady:

Okay. Until next time, I'm Lady.

Tramp:

And I'm the Tramp.

Lady:

Be sexy.

Tramp:

Be confident.

Lady:

Be unapologetic.