Unapologetic Swingers

Unapologetic Swingers: Episode 8 - Viva Las Vegas Part Two

• Unapologetic Swingers • Season 1 • Episode 8

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Sometimes one taste is all it takes to get hooked. Lady and the Tramp return to Las Vegas in very short order for more crazy adventures with our new sexy friends.

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Lady:

Welcome back to unapologetic swingers. I'm lady

Tramp:

and I'm the tramp. And this is episode number seven, which is Viva Las Vegas part two.

Lady:

Oh, exciting.

Tramp:

So after lady was kind enough to take me on a birthday adventure to send city. I couldn't wait to get back. I was hooked.

Lady:

We went back three months later.

Tramp:

It wasn't even that this was a month later.

Lady:

Oh, two months.

Tramp:

Well, it would have been April and then June of 22. So five weeks.

Lady:

April, May, June. Oh shit. Sorry guys, he does not know how to count. Okay, two months. My apologies. He was like, April, June.

Tramp:

It's been a long day.

Lady:

How much tequila have you had?

Tramp:

Just a little bit. I'm just starting.

Lady:

Better catch up.

Tramp:

But we meet back with our friends that we met just a couple months prior. And we're going to simplify the names a little bit. We're just going to say Mr. and Mrs. D. And Mr. and Mrs. L.

Lady:

So many people, I

Tramp:

know I found myself getting confused even while I was editing the last episode. So we get our asses back to Vegas and let them know, Hey, we're coming back into town. And this time we're either going to stay at winter encore because lady got a little spoiled by the luxury

Lady:

Yeah. And Just went back there again, two years later, just continue to go back to the win or the encore, just love it.

Tramp:

And they responded saying, great. We're available that weekend. And why don't we plan on staying down there as well? And it was really cool. Even though we'd only met them briefly before. Over a couple of days, we just picked right up where we left off.

Lady:

I don't know if you'd call that briefly. I mean,

Tramp:

I, I get it. I know what you're saying, but it's amazing how you can step right back into it with good people.

Lady:

Yeah. Yeah. We were so excited to go back in and meet up with them.

Tramp:

So Mr. L and I go to check in and obviously we're on two different reservations and we talked to the gal at the desk and she was like, well, if you guys are friends and you're checking in together, how would you like an adjoining room? And we were like, that sounds perfect. So we get up there, got a pair of beautiful rooms with an internal doorway between them.

Lady:

I thought you were going to say a pair of beautiful boobs.

Tramp:

Those are coming. Those are coming.

Lady:

Well, there's like three pairs. Yes.

Tramp:

Very beautiful boobs. And we get set up. Now, in the time in between, one thing that I had picked up was creating a sexy environment. So I invested in lights and music in the form of a Bluetooth speaker and these little battery operated candles that you put all around the room. And these fairly small LED floodlights that you put behind furniture and they change all kinds of different colors and it really just sets the tone.

Lady:

Yeah, the ladies love it.

Tramp:

We use them often. Especially when

Lady:

we go to Desire. We're always, or you're always setting up the room, not me. He is

Tramp:

but how awesome is it to come back and you're, probably a little fuzzy from all the dancing and uh, festivities and you can see our room, not from a mile away, but as you get close, you're like, oh, there's a red glow. That's our room.

Lady:

It's the red light special. If you know, you know,

Tramp:

you may be dating yourself, babe. Actually, I think it was a blue light special.

Lady:

No, it's the red light special. No blue lights. I get what you're saying though, too.

Tramp:

So I get to work right away, setting everything up and the girls were like, Hey, let's go down to the topless pool. Why not? So we go on down, catch some rays and just having a good time. Beautiful breasts everywhere.

Lady:

Yeah, it was really fun, but I mean, I think before you move forward, you know, everybody's in their bathing suits and bikinis. And we kind of get into the pool and everyone's still covered up. Yeah. And no one's taken their top off yet. And all the girls kind of look at each other and they're like, well, if you do it, I'll do it. And I'm like, all right, let's go. You know, it's time to get the party started. So we just take off our tops. It's a European pool. Why not? It's hot. We don't want sun like tan lines.

Tramp:

That's something. Sometimes I find tan lines really sexy. And sometimes. I love you. Like when we do go to desire and there are no tan lines, obviously.

Lady:

Right. Well, because you know why there aren't any tan lines, so, but yeah, everyone's like, all right, let's just take off the tops. Go for it. I don't think there was very many other people that had their tops off. Maybe a couple,

Tramp:

maybe a couple, but I think people adults wise they go to this pool because there are no kids, it's 21 and up only.

Lady:

Yeah.

Tramp:

So, you don't have to worry about little kids being rambunctious, which is natural for kids in a pool.

Lady:

Yes.

Tramp:

So you can just kind of chill out, talk, and they usually have a DJ with pretty decent music pumping and

Lady:

yeah,

Tramp:

it's just a good time.

Lady:

It's a great pool area. I think I've been there. four times now. I have a problem. Is

Tramp:

it a problem or is it just a, a fun hobby?

Lady:

Oh yeah. We can call it a fun hobby. Yeah. It's a great hobby. Book a, the next trip now.

Tramp:

But the one thing that really sticks out to me about this afternoon, it was pretty low key, but Around the pool. There are these balconies and I think they're hospitality rooms, their balconies coming off of various hospitality suites that the wind has. And there must have been a business meeting that just let out because all of a sudden there are about a dozen people beers in hand on one of the balconies, not 30 yards from us. And all of a sudden you see the guys in their collared shirts and everything. Their eyes get really big. And they were looking at you three sexy ladies, you know, just

Lady:

yeah. They sure were.

Tramp:

And I think for a moment they couldn't quite believe what they were seeing.

Lady:

And I don't know, not necessarily. I mean, we went back to the chairs to go get dried off and of course we're not wearing any tops and we're kind of just facing the other way. I don't think I even noticed them. And all of a sudden, I think you or one of the other guys were like, hey, Oh my gosh, these guys are like right behind you in suit jackets and we turn around and the girls are like, oh my gosh I don't know what to do. And I look and I just kind of wave and like hey and they just were like cheers And I know there was a lady With them outside. And she just kind of like giggled, like, Oh my gosh, this is, this is crazy. But I was like, I don't care.

Tramp:

Yeah. I do remember a couple of the older gentlemen they weren't layering, but, but they were very happy.

Lady:

Yeah. I think they were like cheersing. They're like, this is great. And I'm like, it's Las Vegas. Yeah.

Tramp:

And really after that we get cleaned up and we probably go get dinner, I would imagine. I, to be honest, I don't recall where necessarily.

Lady:

Didn't we go to that little dive bar down the road? That's

Tramp:

right, is

Lady:

that where we went? It starts with a P.

Tramp:

Peppermill.

Lady:

Peppermill. Yeah. Yeah. We

Tramp:

had some food there and it was very like seventies lounge ish vibe.

Lady:

Yeah. It was a really cool place.

Tramp:

Yeah. We need to get back there.

Lady:

Yeah. I actually saw it this past weekend and I was like, Oh, I remember that place.

Tramp:

You're right. It's just up the strip.

Lady:

Yeah. It's really close.

Tramp:

Also, while we were in town this weekend, there was a lifestyle event called candy going on. And they had different events. It was a multi day, not so much a takeover, but they just had a whole chain of events, whether it be daytime pool parties or parties at night at various clubs around. And I had reached out to the organizers and said, Hey, we're only going to be in town for one of the nights. Could we just buy a ticket for one night? And they said, Absolutely. We have plenty to spare. So. Not a problem. And this happened to be glow night.

Lady:

I love glow night.

Tramp:

We have the pictures of light up tennis shoes and just all kinds of glow in the dark stuff that reacts well under black light, for example.

Lady:

I think the cool part about this was the hotel that they had it at. It was a boutique. hotel that's for adults only. And when you walk in, it's really dark and they have all this artwork everywhere displayed. All these really cool chairs. It feels like you're in Vampire of the Diaries setting. Just so cool. And The artwork is just amazing. So yeah, and then they have all these different spaces with bars inside, outside, upstairs. So it was really cool. And then outside they also had like a, an artist who did body tape and he was doing this body tape on all these gorgeous women and it looks so cool. It was like fun just watching that.

Tramp:

Yeah, that was fun. And we just danced and socialized and had a really good time, it wasn't a play party. It was strictly just kind of a,

Lady:

it was a meet and greet.

Tramp:

Yeah. It was basically a meet and greet with pumping music.

Lady:

Yeah. It was fun. I know. Mr. L was fun because we were wearing matching tennis shoes and we had them lighting up and then we like got out on the dance floor where the pool was and we were like so in sync we're dancing exactly the same and I was like oh my god we should like be dance like I don't know dancing Queens over here it was so much fun it was I think we have video that were like our feet were like In sync. And we're like, yeah, we know what we're doing,

Tramp:

right? Yeah. You guys fell right into the rhythm.

Lady:

Yeah. It was so much fun.

Tramp:

I unfortunately do not have a rhythmic bone in my body.

Lady:

I'm sorry.

Tramp:

I try, but,

Lady:

anyone want to give lessons? Please email.

Tramp:

I'll take you up on it.

Lady:

Yeah.

Tramp:

But we get back after this event. I'm trying to remember. We obviously took a ride share, didn't we? Like an Uber or Lyft?

Lady:

Yeah, we did.

Tramp:

But we were all dressed up in our glow stuff, which, at least for you ladies, was pretty see through. Huh. And I'm trying to remember if you guys got dressed there or if we just rolled right out of the hotel as is.

Lady:

No, we had jackets.

Tramp:

Okay. I didn't recall that.

Lady:

Yeah. Because you had asked the organizer if they had a coat rack. So that way we weren't half naked on the ride over and walking through the wind, which is very upscale.

Tramp:

well, we've seen some pretty risque.

Lady:

Oh yeah. I think now I would definitely walk out in that. glow outfit. I'd be fine. Well, that

Tramp:

yours was practically lingerie though.

Lady:

Have you seen Kanye's wife in the wind and what she walks out in? Absolutely nothing. So I would be just fine walking out with that. Okay. And I'd probably look better. Just saying.

Tramp:

But we, after an evening of, of just dancing and having a great time and probably a good couple of drinks, we get back to the wind and it's go time. And I think the thing that really stands out to me is the three of you beautiful women just started to play.

Lady:

Oh, what did that look like from afar?

Tramp:

Amazing. I believe Mrs. D was sitting in the chair and you were standing behind her and just caressing her breasts and playing with her nipples. And I think you leaned down and like was kissing her on the neck. And then Mrs. L was on her knees in front of her and just playing with her pussy. Just, just rubbing and touching. Since I'm such a visual person as well as I guess, audible I just remember the noises. just the noises, just the moans and, and all that. And the three of us guys are like, don't make a noise. Don't make a sound. Do do not interrupt this. Cause this is awesome.

Lady:

Oh, I think I had a lot to drink. So I'm glad you remember a lot of that. I remember some parts on the bed where there was just so many of us on the bed and just kind of mixing it up and going from person to person. I don't know. It was, there was a lot of play.

Tramp:

You're right. We're all on the bed. It's a King size bed and just bodies and touching and sounds and everything. That's why I enjoy, group play so much is when you make noise, I love listening to you just getting pleasure.

Lady:

Yeah, that was. It was so much fun.

Tramp:

And we're, at this point we were still SoftSwap and they were 100 percent respectful.

Lady:

Was this the time that Mr. L, choked me? And it just like, I think I came like so hard, pretty sure he like knew he was like, I need to be a little aggressive and he was so aggressive and like just playing with my clit and choking me. And I was like, Oh yeah, this is good. It's,

Tramp:

it's amazing what we learn about ourselves in those situations where you can talk about things and you're like okay, maybe, but then in the moment you can say, holy shit, that was intense in the best possible way.

Lady:

Yeah. It was fun, so much fun.

Tramp:

And so really we finish up,

Lady:

no, just you and I connect together at the end, and just reconnect because we were soft swap and then I think they swapped with each other.

Tramp:

Yes.

Lady:

And had some fun and yeah, it was really good.

Tramp:

Everyone was smiling at the end.

Lady:

Yeah, it was great. It was a great soft swap.

Tramp:

And the best part is there wasn't a walk of shame or anything across the hotel. Just kind of went back through their doorway after the end and we all went to sleep.

Lady:

Yeah, and wonderful views too.

Tramp:

Oh, definitely wonderful views. The next day, it was just kind of a chill day. As I recall, we probably did some shopping and kind of did our own thing. We did go to breakfast or early lunch rather.

Lady:

Yeah. We went to a little breakfast spot, probably like around brunch time. It was pretty good. We like walked down the strip halfway down before we decided on where we wanted to eat.

Tramp:

It was before it got too hot.

Lady:

And then we kept going and landed in a little shopping mall and did some shopping. Mm hmm. That was

Tramp:

fun. I think just exploring Vegas is something that I really enjoy. Just because there's so much to see and do.

Lady:

would recommend to anybody to go to a drag brunch. So much fun.

Tramp:

Now you just experienced that. And we've been to one here in Denver.

Lady:

Yeah. But the one in Vegas is, I would say it's a hundred times, not better, but the experience and that place is just so big. It's insane. It was so much fun. We had a blast. So yeah, definitely have to do that.

Tramp:

Okay. Next time, babe.

Lady:

Yes.

Tramp:

The day went on and we probably did some bar hopping and just kind of the usual Vegas day. I think, I don't think we went back to the pool.

Lady:

No, we didn't.

Tramp:

And they were like, Hey, do you guys like karaoke?

Lady:

We're like, we like it. Are we good at it? No. Do we like it? Yes.

Tramp:

And they're like, okay, we know the place and it was in this strip mall, not too far from the strip, and I guess I'd never been in a karaoke bar before

Lady:

no, you have to have your private room. And that's what we go into. And it was like the best food ever was a Korean food.

Tramp:

I believe so. It was just small bites.

Lady:

Yeah.

Tramp:

And. server that came around and took your order and kept the alcohol kept flowing. And all I

Lady:

know is the missus of Mr. And Mrs. L was the most amazing singer ever. I was like, Whoa, where did that come from? That was really good. And she's saying Nicki Minaj, like she was Nicki Minaj. I was like, okay, I see. She

Tramp:

looks nothing like Nicki Minaj.

Lady:

No, she's beautiful.

Tramp:

No, she's gorgeous. And yes,

Lady:

gorgeous, smart, sexy. I'm like, and you can sing. All right. I see.

Tramp:

Over the course of the evening, we would typically get up to sing and then it was almost like musical chairs where you just kind of take a seat and it's like, Oh, I'm next to a new person now.

Lady:

Yeah. And that's

Tramp:

just fun. I enjoy that.

Lady:

Yeah, that was fun. And we can just sit in there and relax and everyone can take turns. I suck at singing, but I sing, I partake. I'll do the festivities and that's fine. I'm like, if you want to hear somebody who does like has no tone, that's fine. But it was so much fun. I had, I had a blast.

Tramp:

I think we all came out of there pretty well. Lubricated.

Lady:

Yes. Yes. And then we went back to the hotel

Tramp:

and then we went back to the hotel and this night. was a little different because Mr. D produced a toy.

Lady:

Oh. Oh yes. Oh my gosh. Tell us about the toy. I remember it now. Oh my god, that was so much fun. So

Tramp:

The toy is a double ended dildo.

Lady:

We got one because of them.

Tramp:

And we haven't used it yet.

Lady:

But we've used others.

Tramp:

Oh, we have.

Lady:

Yeah. But we still got one because of them.

Tramp:

Yes. And you and Mrs. D got in position. And, legs. I guess you call it scissored together where you get your pussies as close as possible. Mm hmm. Because the toy is I don't know, 18 inches long, maybe. So to get the full effect, you have to be pretty close and yeah, you guys slip it in and just start going. And again, me being so visual I was just like, holy shit, that was hot.

Lady:

Yeah. I love how just straightforward. She is. She's just like, let's do this. Let's do that. I'm like, okay, yeah, sure.

Tramp:

That's something that you may have a problem, like thinking about things that are outside the box. You don't necessarily gravitate there. So when somebody else introduces that you're like, yeah, let's try it.

Lady:

Yes. That's me. Please introduce me to something new.

Tramp:

There you go. I think that's an offer, dear listeners. It is. But we had another just fantastic play session. And another thing that really stood out to me is that I was laying on the bed and I had both Mrs. D and Mrs. L kind of playing with my cock and it's like they were fixated on the cock. They weren't talking to me, but they were talking amongst themselves and just playing along and sucking occasionally. And something that made me feel really good. Cause guys don't get a lot of this is, I think it was Mrs. D that was like, This is an amazing cock. And then Mrs. L was like, yes it is. That kind of compliment just made me feel like a King. It was awesome.

Lady:

Thanks. That's great.

Tramp:

The rest of the session was just as amazing as the night before. Yeah. In my opinion,

Lady:

definitely was.

Tramp:

I do remember we finally wrapped up. It was probably one or two in the morning.

Lady:

Oh my gosh. Yes.

Tramp:

If you know the wind and encore, they kind of face each other and there's the day club, the encore beach club, and then the excess nightclub in the space in between. And those sound systems are just pounding. And even though this is a high end hotel, if you're on a lower floor looking pointed toward them, you will still hear the bass.

Lady:

Mhm.

Tramp:

And so it's thumping along. And I remember Mrs. D, pressed herself right up against the glass, looking down at, at the nightclub and, you have the strobe lights and everything else associated with the nightclub. And Mr. D was taking some pictures of her. And the next morning I get up and, Kind of shade your eyes against the bright Las Vegas sunshine.

Lady:

And

Tramp:

then I see something on the glass

Lady:

on the

Tramp:

window.

Lady:

I wonder what you see.

Tramp:

I see two incredible nipple prints and just.

Lady:

That's great.

Tramp:

Just boobs and nipples. And like, I remember that. That was awesome.

Lady:

That's great. I love it. Love it.

Tramp:

And that was pretty much the end of this adventure. We really need to reconnect with those guys.

Lady:

I know. I was just thinking about that right now. Because we're going to do another trip. I think we should reach out. That'd be fun.

Tramp:

Because these are two phenomenal couples. And

Lady:

we just laugh, too. Like, just having a drink or going out or they find these really cool spots and I'm like, I just have the best time. So yeah, we definitely need to,

Tramp:

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Lady:

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Tramp:

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Lady:

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Tramp:

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Lady:

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Tramp:

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Lady:

This is news to me. What?

Tramp:

I really wanted to just sit there and not be in a social environment and really experience it.

Lady:

And how'd that go? I did not know this. I seriously did not know this. No, you didn't. This is,

Tramp:

The sensations are just tingly in the best possible way. And I'm like, I wish I had someone here to share with me.

Lady:

Nice. I like it.

Tramp:

And yeah, it was highly recommend.

Lady:

And how did she feel the next day?

Tramp:

Normal.

Lady:

Did she go to the gym?

Tramp:

I did.

Lady:

Awesome.

Tramp:

I did. I went to the gym the next morning and had a good workout.

Lady:

I love that because it feels like when you drink all night and you're trying to keep up and you know, all of a sudden it's, I don't know, midnight or one in the morning. Not trying to date myself saying, two in the morning is pretty late, but, when you have to get up for the gym the next morning, you don't feel good. So I love that.

Tramp:

Yep. Please try it and please let us know what you think.

Lady:

Yeah.

Tramp:

All right, folks. Now we're going to get onto the unapologetic honesty segment, and this is basically what we learned from this trip. And what continues to resonate with me is when you find your people, it is fucking awesome. Just people that you click with. And we have admittedly have been very blessed where we have met over our experience, some incredible people that we continue to stay in touch with.

Lady:

Yeah, I think for me, I know I've changed a lot over the years on how I feel about connecting with people, but I think you can just be yourself. There's no limit. There's no stoppage where it's like, Oh, you can't talk about this, or you can't think about these things, or you can't say this, or you can't do this out in public. You know, you have to be proper, you have to be this. And I think with people who have the same mindset as us, it's anything goes. You can be your true self, maybe authentic self, authentic self. Yeah. I was just going to say that. Sorry, babe. Yeah. And there's no judgment. And I love that because there's so much judgment in the world and there's just no judgment with everybody that we meet. Mm hmm. They're truly kind and caring and it's funny, when I was in Vegas this weekend and just at the pool It's like no one's talking to each other everybody's just Keeping to themselves or

Tramp:

glued to their phones

Lady:

glued to their phones. Just unhappy and when I think of all the people that we've met, they're just, everybody wants to talk to each other. Everybody's like, who are you? What's your story? Where do you come from? Tell me about you. It's just, it's so refreshing. Or being able

Tramp:

to give and receive compliments

Lady:

without any, why is she giving you a compliment? Why is he giving you a compliment? It's just like, gosh, I don't know. Everyone's just so beautiful inside and out. And yeah, that to me is amazing.

Tramp:

100 percent babe. So now we're going to bounce into our ask us anything segments. And we did receive one from a new listener and she wants to go by Daisy.

Lady:

Oh my gosh. That's exciting.

Tramp:

She asks, we're a new couple wanting insight on baby steps toward the lifestyle. She would just like to dive in and go to clubs or something, but her boyfriend wants to go at a slower pace. So how should they proceed?

Lady:

I think for us, we have always talked about going at the other slower pace, right? You go at

Tramp:

the pace of the slowest person.

Lady:

Yeah. And I know that's tough for somebody that's like, I want to go, like, let's just go, let's just do this. Let's just dive in.

Tramp:

Right. Because it's a natural excitement. You're, you're excited. You just want to go and do and see.

Lady:

Yeah. But then I think at that point, sometimes bad decisions might be made. There's always going to be bad decisions though. I mean, we still make them. Oh yeah. So it's okay. It's okay to make mistakes and bad decisions. You just have to communicate. But if your boyfriend wants to go at a slower pace, I would say you go at the slower pace. Figure out what that is. What does that slower pace mean? Like, where does he want to start? What does that look like?

Tramp:

I would approach it a little differently.

Lady:

Okay.

Tramp:

Maybe find a quality club if one exists in your area and they're all over the country. Some are fantastic. Some are not so good, but there are reviews out there for that. But go to a club together with the predetermined agreement that you are just going to experience together. You're just going to socialize and talk to other people, but that's as far as it goes. This time you can observe, you can get in that sexy vibe.

Lady:

I guess I would like more information as to what the slower pace is because yeah, going to a club for some people, that's a big first step. To you, it might seem like it's a small step to where you're like, just do this. This is very minute. But to that person, it's a very big step. So what is, what is the slower pace for him? You know, is it continuing to talk about it? Is it continuing to listen to podcasts and people that have been there? Is it going on websites? Is it, getting on Cassidy and saying, all right, what is this all about? Like, what, what is that slower pace for him? Because yeah, again, to us going to a club, is like, that's slow. But we also have met a lot of couples who have gone to the club for the first time. We've never been in a lifestyle who are just like, I just want to see what this is about. Seems interesting. Just, trying to do something new. And we talk to them, we conversate with them. There's no expectations. It's like, Hey, yeah, come just hang out and. do you, whatever you means where you're comfortable, that's okay. So I think, I think it's figuring what that slower pace is.

Tramp:

I would agree. And I think you touched on something very important in terms of the communication never stops.

Lady:

No.

Tramp:

If anything, it needs to increase almost exponentially,

Lady:

right?

Tramp:

So, just as lady said, listen to podcasts. Obviously you found ours and it's been helpful, here's what I would do. Listen to them together and then talk about it. Talk about what you liked, what you didn't like, if anything, gave you the ick that the podcasters may have talked about.

Lady:

Right.

Tramp:

Or if you found something, that really turned you on, you could say, wow, that was hot.

Lady:

Well, I think knowing that it's okay to say, wow, I was really turned on by that and not thinking that you're wrong. Because this is the conversation that we've had before is we're just so conditioned to think and act a certain way. So when we pivot from that and now we're doing this, which is so outside the box of what a normal couple does, it's like, is this okay? How is this? Okay. But it's not okay. You know, you just have to be like. You just have to let go. And it's hard to let go.

Tramp:

It is.

Lady:

It's really hard to let go, but I think again, the communication piece, you're right on that. You have to communicate. And you have to know, like if she wants to dive in and go to a club, Oh my gosh, how lucky are you as a man?

Tramp:

Well, one thing I want to tag onto that is. A lot of men, I think, unfortunately are insecure and I've had insecure moments. I will not deny that. I think it's human nature. You really have to focus in on regardless of what happens or what you guys experienced together, because this is an adventure that you are taking together. You have to really focus in on at the end of the night, it's just going to be the two of you.

Lady:

You're going home with each other.

Tramp:

Yes.

Lady:

You're not there to be like, Oh, I'm just going to go home with this other person and now I'm in love with them. That's just, that's not how it works. I think you fall deeper in love with the person that you're with. On a different level that you did not know was there. And just remember there's going to be adventures and there's going to be

Tramp:

misadventures

Lady:

where it's like, God, that was a miss. And I did not like that. And I, I, maybe you may say, I don't want to do this anymore. Like that really sucked. But you get up on the horse and you ride again and you're like, I've had a really great time and I've met so many wonderful people. You will be amazed at how wonderful this community is, how wonderful the people are. It goes back to, your unapologetic honesty that you had for us here tonight. The people are amazing. And again, you can just talk about anything and it can be about family. It could be,

Tramp:

right.

Lady:

It could be about filling air holes. No, it can be about anything, right?

Tramp:

It can be. I've airtight.

Lady:

I'm sorry. Airtight. That's what it was. I got it. Right. Sorry. I've had a lot of tequila.

Tramp:

But ladies, absolutely correct. I've reached out to other gentlemen that are within our lifestyle community, our friends with professional questions with personal questions, and you're guaranteed that they are going to tell you the truth and be brutally honest about it. And by the same token, if you need them. Out of all of my friends, they're going to be the ones to show up.

Lady:

Yep. I agree.

Tramp:

So hopefully that helps Daisy.

Lady:

Yeah. And if you have any other questions, let us know, and we're happy that you've listened.

Tramp:

And we still love that all of you guys have come on this journey with us.

Lady:

Come as in C U M. Sorry.

Tramp:

I think you can tell where the lady's mind is tonight.

Lady:

But

Tramp:

please feel free to reach out to us at unapologetic swingers at gmail. com or you can also reach us through our website, which is also unapologetic swingers. com.

Lady:

Yeah. And you can buy us a cup of coffee and that's through the website, right? That's through the website. Sorry. I know. Mr. Tramp over here has set all that up because he's the brains of this. I'm just the beauty

Tramp:

very much. So,

Lady:

and be sure to give us a review.

Tramp:

Yeah, that would really help us out of everything. That would probably help us the most, whatever platform you listen to.

Lady:

And if you don't have an ask me a question and you have a, Hey, you should do this or. Do something differently like let us know what you want. Yeah, we're here for you. We're here to please you

Tramp:

Well done Guys, our next episode is to be determined. So stay tuned

Lady:

Okay, and

Tramp:

I think that's about it for this episode babe,

Lady:

all right until next time I'm

Tramp:

lady

Lady:

and I'm

Tramp:

the tramp

Lady:

be sexy Be

confident be unapologetic