The Menopause Disruptor Podcast
Welcome to The Menopause Disruptor Podcast, I’m your host, Mary Lee, a compassionate Menopause Doula and Licensed Menopause Champion in partnership with The Menopause Expert Group.
My mission is to challenge outdated narratives around menopause. The menopausal transition is a natural phase of life that deserves to be embraced, not stigmatized.
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Harness the Balancing Energy of Gemini: A Meditation for Intuition and Mindfulness
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Today, I bring back the Goddess Journey meditation series with a new guided meditation for the wise woman's personal shift toward intuition, letting go of mental rumination, while integrating spiritual wisdom.
You don't have to be a Gemini under a Sun or Moon sign to reap all the benfits of balancing dual forces that reside within each and every one of us.
This journey will begin with storytelling of how I arrived back in a place of quiet reflection while taking a pause from pushing the play button on life, accepting the intuitive call to rest in the flow of life instead.
This meditation calls for you to soak in stillness and allow what arrives in mind and body without pushing against it, judging, or analysing. Listeners will be guided through breathwork, nervous-system calming, and positive affirmations to cultivate heart-centre self-trust with intuition.
Use this practice to begin your day, during a work break, or to gently close out your evening. Anytime of day is a beautiful time to return home to you.
00:00 Intuitive Stirring
02:36 Astrology Shift
04:02 Heart Chakra Bridge
04:59 Grounding and Sisterhood
06:51 Settle In and Breathe
09:22 Gemini Breath Balance
10:55 Hands and Integration
13:35 Safety Affirmations
14:55 Embody Your Wise Self
17:18 Closing and Return
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Good morning, my lovelies. I'm coming to you with another meditation for the Goddess Meditation series.
It's been a while, and this one is stirring inside of me because today, the day I record this, May 19th, the end of Taurus season there's a stirring of intuition, of this deeper knowing that this is time to really start honing my skills, my love for and my passion for creating space for meditation, creating space for mindfulness, and bringing together a culmination of all of my spiritual practices and practical practices of mindfulness and yoga as well as my teachings in fitness and wellness, being a menopause doula.
in the past few weeks, I've been really feeling a stir, a change in me. A need to quieten the mind and to step into the things that I feel that I'm, I'm called to do rather than pushing against things that I think I'm supposed to do. That's, that's the old self. and I feel that finally has to, dissolve completely so that I can step into something that's more comfortable. More aligned.
There's a side of me though , and I'm sure it's not just my story, but everybody's story.
a side of us that feels like we don't have permission to do the things that we really feel called to do or a little bit of imposter syndrome combined with the fear of judgment
The point of the matter is, though, that, um, I need to give way to the thinking mind and lean into the heart space, the intuitive side, which I speak about often, is where the wise woman's energy is supposed to reside moving up from the sacred chakra of creation- into the third eye of intuition, and yet I don't allow it myself.
But today is different. I woke up knowing that there was a stirring, and I don't know much about moon signs and astrology. Fascinated by it, but I do know that this is an incredible universal shift in energy. The guides and spiritual intuitives that I lean into, both in physical form here on Earth and in the angelic realm that I call upon in my meditations, are all kinda saying the same thing. that is, there's a time for growth, but with growth and expansion, there has to be a letting go and a shedding. And I think that this is a point that the excessive mental stimulation, the excessive mental rumination no longer has a place. It's a time now that we need to, lean further into what's arriving in our intuition.
Interestingly enough, from an astrology point of view, we are moving into A shift, an awakening. This is a time, and I'm drawing upon the work of others to bring you this, but this is a time where we're seeing the planets realign. Uranus , For example, entered Gemini. Mm, that's my sign, my sun sign. And it's beginning to reach a place where everything is going to change with a new lens, a new perspective.
And a Gemini, she's a communicator, um, intuitive, but also has to find the balance between the mental and the intuitive rationale, if you will.
Gemini is about balance, balance of many dualities, masculine and feminine, the creative mind and the logical mind, left and right. It is the twin sign, so there is the duality of one side and the other. And in many practices, particularly chakra balancing, if we lean too heavily on one side and not enough on the other, you know, putting too much pressure on one foot and not on the other, we don't have complete stability .
And the masculine, the structured side , which is important, it takes the creative ideas that are born on the feminine side and brings them into structure and reality, well, it can become overbearing when we get into more of the thought process and less into the feminine, which really needs to feel into what are the signs telling us?
So, I created for you a guided meditation that speaks to feeling into our intuition, discerning the difference between what is mental triggers and stimulation and what is coming from the heart space. Gemini is an air sign, and a couple years ago I released a Gemini meditation speaking from the heart space.
The heart is ruled by air. In terms of the chakras, the heart is the bridge between our lower chakras of matter, the root chakra, the sacral chakra, and the solar plexus, and the higher chakras of spirit, the throat, communication, and the third eye, intuition, and of course, moving right up into the crown, a place of ascension, a place of deeper inner knowing, of who we are truly at the soul level, where we find and meet our divine self Whoa, that was quite a lot to give to you.
But suffice it to say, this need to shift into something more intuitive is, I would say, as a result of maybe the concussion, which has forced me to pause, a pause I didn't know I needed. It's forced me to slip into silence and to do some mental clearing house, clear away old thought patterns, and step into a growth, growth that I've always been yearning for.
Just wasn't expecting it to arrive on my doorstep this way I honestly feel my soul is asking for a different rhythm, I feel it in my nervous system. My body is asking for more groundedness, which I feel I can only get in stillness. Stillness insofar as giving up the noise of busyness and activity and always doing, doing, doing and going into being, being, being.
That groundedness that we only truly can cultivate when we balance the root chakra, the foundational work. I feel that as I connect with inner circles of friends who are also aligned and on this same timeline as I am, my sisterhood, a small collective of women who are all feeling that our psychic abilities are starting to switch on.
Some in our collective already have them quite profoundly willing and ready to guide the rest of us as we step into this space.
So, I feel sometimes that maybe my role is to support you as you move into this space, or to at least validate what you're feeling and give you permission, like I'm giving myself permission, to feel the feelings, and to allow what is coming up from an intuitive level to surface without over-processing it, without over-analyzing it. Exercising some discernment of, does it feel right?
So without further ado, let'sfind a comfortable seated or lying down position, a position that's just right for you, and we'll begin today's meditation.
Let's take a cleansing breath to begin.you can place your hands on your belly, maybe one at the heart space. And breathe in deeply through your nose, feeling that full expansion in the front side of the body.
And as you exhale, feel your body melting into the surface beneath you, feeling all points of contact with the surface beneath you begin to soften as though earth was reaching up to hold you, to cradle you.
Again, a full, deep inhale through the nose and an audible exhale, sigh, release, For this meditation, we gather in the energy of Gemini, the sacred messenger, the bridge between heaven and earth.
The energy of movement and stillness, the energy of curiosity and wisdom. It is the energy of thought and feeling. Of the human mind and the deeper knowing of the soul.
Feel the earth holding you without condition, without expectation, without urgency.
Gently bring awareness to your breath. Not forcing, not fixing, just simply noticing. Inhale slowly through the nose, allowing the breath to expand into the chest, deep into the belly, the sides of the ribs, the back body, the diaphragm softening, downward, and exhale with ease.
Again, long, slow inhale and a soft release.
Gemini rules the lungs, the breath, the nervous system. The pathways between the right and left hemispheres of the brain. So in this practice, we invite balance. The balance between thinking and feeling, between doing and being, between movement and rest.
Notice now the activity of your mind. Perhaps thoughts are dancing quickly, Perhaps memories or plans, questions, possibilities.
Gemini energy moves fast. Bright, curious and electric at times. And yet you do not need to chase every thought .You are allowed to pause. You are allowed to breathe before responding to life. And you are allowed to soften your nervous system enough to hear your own wisdom. It whispers.
Bring your awareness now to your hands.
Gemini rules the hands and arms, the extension of the heart chakra. These are the instruments through which we reach, create, communicate, nurture, and hold.
Notice any sensations in your palms. Perhaps warmth, tingling, energetic.
Imagine now a soft golden light moving from one hand to the other, crossing gently through the body, right to left, left to right. A sacred cross-patterning. A balancing like the hemispheres of your brain learning to speak to one another with compassion instead of conflict. Your logical mind does not need to battle your intuitive heart.
They work together. It's okay to think deeply and to feel deeply at the same time. You can be intelligent and intuitive. You can be grounded and mystical. You can be wise and have a childlike playful spirit.
Gemini energy reminds us that wisdom is not heaviness. Wisdom can laugh. Wisdom can dance. Wisdom can remain curious.
Feel now your breath moving like a bridge between worlds as you inhale receiving insight from above and as you exhale grounding into the earth below.
Your body, you in this place here are the bridge now, a messenger between your soul and your body. And perhaps for so long you believed wisdom required perfection, that stepping into your voice meant having everything figured out first.
But true wisdom is not perfection. True wisdom is safety within yourself.
Safety to evolve, safety to change your mind, safety to rest, safety to speak. Safety to begin again.
Take a deep inhale here and as you exhale silently repeat, "I am safe to trust myself
I am safe to trust myself
I am safe to embody my wisdom.
Now imagine the version of you who no longer apologizes for her knowing. She is not rushing, not proving, not over-performing and pushing to earn her worth.
She moves with presence. She listens to her nervous system. She honors the rhythms of activity as well as restoration.
She understands that rest is not stagnation. And she no longer abandons her intuition in order to stay busy.
See her clearly. Notice how she breathes, notice how she speaks, how she carries herself.
This version already lives within you. Gemini energy is not asking you to become someone else. It is simply inviting you to reconnect the pieces of yourself that were never meant to live divided.
The two versions of you can blend together like two forces of air coming in from the east, coming in from the west, merging as one. Mind and body, logic and intuition, strength and softness, earth and sky.
Rest now in this integration. Breathing slowly, deeply, fully. Allowing your nervous system to receive the message.
You don't have to rush to become wise. You already are.
And as we come to a close, I invite you to bring one hand to your heart and the other hand to the belly, and feel the conversation between them from hand to hand, belly to chest. Solar plexus chakra of doing to your heart chakra of being
Take one final nourishing breath in and release with ease. May you move forward with curiosity, with courage, with discernment, and with playfulness. And most of all, may you feel safe enough to become fully yourself.
Slowly begin to return, wiggling the fingers, wiggling the toes, and ever so gently, only when you're ready, gently flutter open the eyes, welcoming in your day, welcoming in your evening, welcoming yourself back into this space.
And whether you're a Gemini by sun sign or moon sign or not, allow this meditation to fully engulf you as you take this energy forward into your next day, into your week months, and years ahead.
Always remembering to practice the balance between heaven and earth that resides within you.
Namaste.
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