E116: Perinatal Mental Health Basics with Sadie Clark

The Ordinary Doula Podcast

The Ordinary Doula Podcast
E116: Perinatal Mental Health Basics with Sadie Clark
Apr 03, 2026 Episode 116
Angie Rosier

Send us Fan Mail

The moment a baby arrives, your brain and body change fast and not always in the ways you expected. I sit down with perinatal mental health therapist Sadie Clark to name what so many parents feel but struggle to say out loud: mood shifts can start in pregnancy, the baby blues have a real timeline, and “pushing through” is not the same thing as doing well.

We dig into the practical side of postpartum mental health, including how sleep deprivation affects nearly every condition, why motivation tanks when you are running on empty, and how baseline self-care like food and rest can be the most powerful first step. Sadie also shares her own experience with a breech baby and a planned C-section, plus the grief that can come when birth doesn’t match the picture you carried for months. We talk about holding two truths at once using “and” instead of “but,” so joy and disappointment can coexist without canceling each other out.

Then we get specific about postpartum anxiety, intrusive thoughts, and perinatal OCD, including the “what if” spiral, the heavy “should” list, and the relationship strain that shows up when everything has to be done a certain way. If you have a history of anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, or OCD, Sadie explains why the postpartum window of tolerance can narrow and what to do about it. We also cover treatment options, medication fears while breastfeeding, and where to find specialized help through Postpartum Support International, the PMHC credential, and Psychology Today.

If this conversation helps you feel seen, subscribe for more birth and postpartum support, share it with a parent who needs it, and leave a review so more families can find these tools. What part of postpartum mental health do you wish people talked about sooner?

https://www.serenityrw.com/meet-sadie/

Visit our website, here: https://birthlearning.com/
Follow us on Facebook at Birth Learning 
Follow us on Instagram at @birthlearning 

Show Credits

Host: Angie Rosier 
Music: Michael Hicks 
Photographer: Toni Walker
Episode Artwork: Nick Greenwood 
Producer: Gillian Rosier Frampton
Voiceover: Ryan Parker

Episode Artwork E116: Perinatal Mental Health Basics with Sadie Clark 51:52 Episode Artwork E115: Essential Oils For Labor 18:15 Episode Artwork E114: Pitocin 101 23:54 Episode Artwork E113: Tips to Avoiding a C-Section 25:31 Episode Artwork E112: Low Milk Supply 19:10 Episode Artwork E111: Why I Love Being A Doula 13:55 Episode Artwork E110: How Community Milk Sharing Bridges Feeding Gaps 22:14 Episode Artwork E109: Prepare, Stay Open, Find Power In Any Path 20:34 Episode Artwork E108: Why Chiropractic Care Helps Labor Feel Smoother with Dr Kristina Kill 30:11 Episode Artwork E107: Building Better Black Maternal Health with Hakima Payne 40:23 Episode Artwork E106: Morning Sickness, Made Understandable 25:02 Episode Artwork E105: Complete Childbirth Prep vs Scrolling with Andrea Lythgoe 32:32 Episode Artwork E104: From Birth Center Plans To NICU Reality 39:48 Episode Artwork E103: A Series of 19 Unmedicated Births 13:58 Episode Artwork E102: Sacred Birth International with Anna Lundqvist 38:34 Episode Artwork E101: Babies Scheduled My Week 22:39 Episode Artwork E100: A Conversation with My Four Daughters 43:19 Episode Artwork E99: Embrace The Wabi-Sabi Of Birth 17:55 Episode Artwork E98: Fueling A Healthy Pregnancy 21:01 Episode Artwork E97: 23 Lessons From 23 Years Of Birth Work 18:37 Episode Artwork E96: Postpartum, For Real 19:20 Episode Artwork E95: Burnout, Boundaries, and The Birth Worker 23:34 Episode Artwork E94: The Confident Birth Partner: Simple Ways to Show Up and Steady the Room 25:44 Episode Artwork E93: Understanding Preeclampsia: Warning Signs, Risks, and Real Stories 20:47 Episode Artwork E92: Role of an OB on a Birth Team 23:21