Spicy Spectrum
I’m Pepper Kat, host of Spicy Spectrum, an award-nominated podcast that dives into male desire, sex, and fantasy through the lived experience of an adult industry professional. I talk about the things most people are curious about but rarely hear explored this openly: kink, intimacy, emotional needs, power, pleasure, and what it’s like behind the scenes.
Whether you're part of the kink community, a curious listener, or a woman open to understanding male sexuality in a new light, you’ll find raw truth, depth, and connection here. My guests range from experts to fellow creators, and together we challenge assumptions and explore what makes us human and what turns us on.
I’m also the founder of Design Your Dreamgirl™, an award-nominated fantasy fulfillment experience that reimagines personal connection.
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Spicy Special: Redefining Manhood: A Conversation with Kristal Desantis
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Kristal Desantis, a marriage and family therapist and author of "STRONG: A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man," discusses the evolution of male roles and the challenges men face in modern society. Her approach integrates attachment-based trauma-informed therapy to help men navigate issues like loneliness, societal expectations, and the impact of the digital age on intimacy. DeSantis emphasizes the changing expectations of men, shifting from traditional roles of protector and provider to being emotionally supportive partners. She also highlights the influence of social media and dating apps on relationships, the lack of social spaces for men, and the importance of creating authentic connections. Finally, she offers advice on balancing the consumption of adult content and building real-life relationships.
Connect with Kristal Desantis: https://www.strong.love/
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The 2026 AVN Awards pre-nominations are OPEN and I need your help to get Spicy Spectrum on the ballot.
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⏰ Deadline: Saturday, September 20th at 11:59 PM PT
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