Spicy Spectrum
An award-nominated, top 10% globally recognized podcast that dives into male desire, sex, and fantasy through the lived experience of an adult industry professional. I talk about the topics most people are curious about but rarely hear explored this openly: kink, intimacy, pleasure, and what it’s like behind the scenes. Whether you're part of the kink community, a man looking to feel heard, or a woman open to understanding male desire (and your own) in a new light, you’ll find raw truth, depth, and connection here. My guests range from intimacy experts to adult professionals, and together we explore what makes us human and what turns us on.
I’m also the founder of Design Your Dreamgirl™, an award-nominated fantasy fulfillment experience that reimagines personal connection.
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Spicy Special: MakeLoveNotPorn’s Cindy Gallop on Reimagining Sex
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In this Spicy Special episode, Cindy Gallop, founder and CEO of MakeLoveNotPorn, discusses her journey and the mission behind her groundbreaking platform promoting good sexual behavior and values. Since her impactful TED talk in 2009, Cindy has been working towards a social sex revolution. She shares how her experiences dating younger men opened her eyes to the harmful effects of porn as sex education, leading her to create a site that celebrates authentic intimacy. Cindy details the challenges of maintaining a venture in the adult industry, from funding and banking issues to restrictions on advertising. She also talks about the positive feedback from users and the role of MakeLoveNotPorn in combating toxic masculinity and supporting survivors of sexual trauma. Through human curation, the platform ensures a safe space for all, promoting body positivity and real-world sex. Cindy also explains future plans including MakeLoveNotPorn Academy and a new FinTech solution, inviting listeners to join the movement and invest in the future of sex tech.
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