Spicy Spectrum

An award-nominated, top 10% globally recognized podcast that dives into male desire, sex, and fantasy through the lived experience of an adult industry professional. I talk about the topics most people are curious about but rarely hear explored this openly: kink, intimacy, pleasure, and what it’s like behind the scenes. Whether you're part of the kink community, a man looking to feel heard, or a woman open to understanding male desire (and your own) in a new light, you’ll find raw truth, depth, and connection here. My guests range from intimacy experts to adult professionals, and together we explore what makes us human and what turns us on.

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Bisexual, But Not Bi-Standard

May 09, 2025 • Pepper Kat • Season 3 • Episode 114

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In this special birthday episode of Spicy Spectrum, I’m opening up about something deeply personal as I turn 30. From my earliest crushes to my experiences in sex work, I’ve spent a long time trying to make sense of my sexuality and I’m finally ready to talk about it. I share how I’ve come to understand my bisexuality, what emotionally draws me to women, why men still sexually arouse me, and how my porn preferences and customer interactions reflect it all.

This episode is raw, real, and honest. If you’ve ever felt confused or in-between, I hope it resonates with you too.

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