Marriage, Motherhood & the Messy Middle; What happens when the therapist gets real
What if the therapist stopped giving advice and started getting real?
Welcome to Marriage, Motherhood, and the Messy Middle - where I, Carrie Cohen, licensed therapist and creator of the Safe2Love™ Method, pull back the curtain on what life actually looks like when you’re juggling a marriage, raising kids, caring for aging parents, and trying to figure out who you are in the middle of it all.
After 25+ years of helping other people navigate their relationships, I’m done pretending I have it all figured out. This podcast is my unfiltered take on the beautiful chaos of midlife - the marriage fights that happen at 2am, the mom guilt that hits when you’re just trying to take a shower, the sandwich generation overwhelm when everyone needs you but you’re running on empty.
Here’s what you WON’T get: perfect advice from someone who’s got it all together.
Here’s what you WILL get: Raw, honest conversations about what it really takes to love and be loved in the thick of real life. Because sometimes the most healing thing isn’t another strategy - it’s knowing you’re not the only one figuring it out as you go.
If you’re a woman navigating marriage, motherhood, and everything in between, welcome. This is your space to feel seen, heard, and a little less alone in the beautiful mess of it all.
Safe to Love
Marriage, Motherhood & the Messy Middle; What happens when the therapist gets real
Rethinking Mood Through The Nervous System
What if your mood isn’t a verdict about who you are, but a message from your nervous system? We pull back the curtain on the myths that turn feelings into identity and replace them with a grounded, body-first way to understand anxiety, irritability, and shutdown without shame. Instead of waking up asking What’s wrong with me? we walk through how to notice sensations, map your state, and choose the next helpful rung on the polyvagal ladder.
I share how 25 years as a psychotherapist transformed my lens from pathologizing emotions to reading the body’s language: tight jaw, shallow breath, heat in the limbs, or heavy stillness. You’ll learn a practical ventral–sympathetic–dorsal framework, why fight or flight is adaptive, and how prolonged activation can tip you into collapse. We talk about glimmers—micro-moments of safety and connection—and how intentionally collecting them builds a wider window of tolerance so you can move through stress with more ease and less reactivity.
We also get real about the hard days when tools don’t budge the needle. When capacity is low, forcing action backfires. Meeting yourself where you are, choosing restorative steps, and trusting that states shift can be the most regulating move you make. By shifting from story-first to sensation-first, you interrupt shame loops, return to clarity faster, and show up more fully in your relationships.
If this approach resonates, subscribe, share the episode with someone who needs a gentle reframe, and leave a review to help others find the show. Your nervous system is speaking—let’s learn to listen together.
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