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Sparks Fly When You Ask First
Electricity crackles through this episode as we dive deep into the world of electro play and the essential role of consent in BDSM relationships. What starts as a hilarious account of shocking each other with electrical toys quickly transforms into a thoughtful exploration of boundaries, communication, and respect.
Ever wondered what it feels like when electrical currents dance across your skin? We share candid experiences with various electro play devices, from handheld conductors to specialized tools that target sensitive areas. The conversation explores how different body parts react to stimulation, with moments of humor (like accidentally shocking someone's forehead) balanced with practical safety advice for those curious about this form of play.
Beyond the physical aspects, we examine the complex dynamics of consent in both BDSM contexts and everyday interactions. From formal contracts that outline specific boundaries to the more nuanced challenge of respecting a partner's changing comfort levels, consent emerges as the cornerstone of healthy connection. The discussion becomes particularly revealing when addressing relationships where effort isn't reciprocated – when you're giving 99% and receiving minimal investment in return.
The episode also touches on navigating relationships with neurodivergent partners, particularly those who may have sensory processing differences that affect their comfort with physical touch. These experiences highlight the importance of communication, understanding, and sometimes recognizing when a connection isn't serving both parties equally.
Ready to explore the electrifying world of consent-based play? Listen now to gain insights that might just transform how you approach intimacy, communication, and boundaries in your own relationships.
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what's up, gremlins? Welcome back to another podcast. My name is daddy j. I hope everyone is doing it and doing it well. You know the drill. This is the mature mischief podcast, dd. Oh my god, can you believe it? It's freaky friday, holy shit. Ah, this is gonna be so. We, we did what we did. We talked about the contracts last time because that's what we did then we had master cat on here twice previously correct. It was great. It was a lot of fun so what's the topic?
Speaker 1:uh, you know what let's um, let's talk about consent. Consent, I think it is going to be the main thing that we want to talk about. I think anybody who's talked about anything that's freaky and we were talking about it yesterday when not yesterday, but for Wednesday we talked about how people would go to the bar and touch and you know kind of bullshit, because you know they were drinking and whatnot right.
Speaker 1:So I figured, why not let's talk about consent, because I mean it's not gonna. I mean, consent can be very simple and straight up to the podcast, like to the point. Ask consent, like literally why? Why are you? Did I give you permission to do so? Like don't do that, stop don't.
Speaker 2:But in you I digress like how you just totally went on your own there.
Speaker 1:I know.
Speaker 2:That was awesome.
Speaker 1:Well, I know it, you know it, the whole world fucking knows it. I like saying my name twice. I am your host, daddy J.
Speaker 2:And I am your co-host, Delicious D.
Speaker 1:Yo, delicious D. What it do, baby girl, how you doing Wonderful to you. What it do, baby girl, how you doing.
Speaker 2:Wonderful.
Speaker 1:Let's get kinky, let's get freaky. Well, not with you, but you know.
Speaker 2:Well, I don't want to say with the gremlins either.
Speaker 1:That sounds weird. I wouldn't mind sleeping with one of the gremlins if they were of age.
Speaker 2:Of course you would 21 and up preferably.
Speaker 1:Desperate times cause for desperate measures. Man Shit.
Speaker 2:Like there's such desperation at all like I.
Speaker 1:Like I'm desperate, like I. I haven't had dick in 10 minutes.
Speaker 2:That's hilarious, considering we're two minutes in I know like wait he just had it 10 minutes eight minutes ago, I don't know. I looked at him.
Speaker 1:He was like ah, I'm done I wouldn't know.
Speaker 1:I was just sitting here at the mic minding my own business I was telling, uh, I was telling styler, it's like can you imagine I was like y'all if you or dd were to come over and I had my own house right and I had the boys and they were like staying here and they were chilling cleaning and they were in their jock straps or whatnot. And y'all show up just literally, just like right, and then I come in and I'm like probably in my jock strap or leather or whatnot, and I'm just opening the door like, uh, hey, like is everything okay, my bad.
Speaker 2:Are we interrupting?
Speaker 1:like I told him. It's like can you imagine you're just having a bad day and you need to talk about it? But I'm just like there. I'm just like hey, he goes. You know what, Maybe this is a bad time. No, it's not a bad time.
Speaker 2:Come on in, we'll talk.
Speaker 1:It's not what you, you know what. It's not the worst thing you've seen me in. Come eyes. I'd be like am I interrupting, yes or no? No, okay, cool, not really just making sure. I'd be like, well, you're just gonna have to walk with me because I have to go to the dungeon here in a bit and I gotta go check on somebody. So you're willing to walk with me or stay here? So okay, that's cool like, be like, okay, just you're gonna just hear the whole screaming in the background. What the fuck yeah?
Speaker 2:about that I'm not even going to be surprised. I'm gonna be like what are you doing to him?
Speaker 1:electroplay.
Speaker 2:Speaking of electroplay I love how it just triggered that yeah, well, because uh, when's uh tuesday?
Speaker 1:uh, pup rad came over uh and we got to talk and whatnot or whatever, and I haven't seen him in a good minute. He's like, well, I can come over after work or whatnot. I'm like, yeah, sure, go ahead and come over, I'm working on you know shirts and whatnot or whatever. So, uh, he brought he bought it his own electric cool, it's actually way better than mine and yeah, he bought it for like about 140 for what I spent it for. But he came with more stuff, came with a fucking hard case. Okay, yeah, mine didn't come with the hard case. I'm like, oh, I need to go to these events here because I don't know. But it was really cool because he had one where you had the clip, so you saw the one, right, it's like it. It's like it's the handle or whatnot.
Speaker 1:Well, this one gets clipped to your hip and you become the inductor of electricity so you can touch yourself and no electricity will come out. But the moment I touched him and it was on low setting, but, bitch, I got scared because when I put my hands on him, I'm wearing this and I'm wearing my rings. All of it shocks the fuck out of me. So I freak out a little bit in a bit of a panic and I'm just like, ah, shit, so I'm taking off my rings and everything and whatnot. I was like, wow, he goes, dude, so I'm trying to go on. I was like I'm so scared.
Speaker 1:I was like no and what does this motherfucker do? He turns around and it just shocks me.
Speaker 1:I'm like no, touchy, no touchy um but yeah, no, I actually did like his. I need to get past that, that feeling, because your fingertips are very sensitive. Yes, right, they're very. You can feel it or whatnot. But he had a knife that you can put on and then it'll shock, it'll go through the electrical currents and it was a lot of fun. Apparently, I got him I'm just like he was right there with his nipple and it fucking zapped his nipple, she's like because why was that so painful? I was like you know what? That's kind of shocking, considering you like your nipples to be zapped. But you can feel the electrical currency through your hand, like it feels. It feels like how your arm is asleep, like on it.
Speaker 1:But that's how it feels when you're going to it, like you can kind of feel the pushback a little bit of the electricity, and it's just like you're kind of doing it and he had the wire or whatnot that I was able to turn on and kind of get him to go and whatnot. It was, uh, your back's hurting you. Your back's hurting you. Yeah, it's a chair, isn't it?
Speaker 2:No, I'm not even leaning back in the chair.
Speaker 1:No, it's just me.
Speaker 2:I'm telling you I'm tired, that's all Okay.
Speaker 1:So it was very interesting because I mean I love electro play, I really do. But that kind of like almost freaked me out because I wasn't. And can he adjust?
Speaker 2:the intensity of the setting that's the lowest setting and it still shocked you pretty good. Fuck, yes, crazy yeah, I was just like.
Speaker 1:Oh, I was like that's cool, it's kind of like you know how, like you touch something and it just shocks the tip of your finger, it was kind of like that but everywhere everywhere. I'm just like, but I was shocking him and everything, and he just like turned around. He just like hey, daddy I'm just oh you bitch.
Speaker 1:So I got his. I was like, let me see your hand. So I got him on his palm of his hand and she's like, ah. So I got him on the side of his neck and, man, when I got him on the neck he just fell. So we're just having fun with electricity at this point like kids yeah, literally like kids. It was well. I was trying to get him in the bottom of his foot. He's backed up his ass and got me right in the fucking forehead.
Speaker 1:I was like I mean not like, oh my god like I was just like, oh, that fucking hurts, so fucking bad dude. So we had so much fun with electricity we really did. I'm not even gonna fucking lie. I had a. I had a good time, but he brought it over and that like I was like that was actually pretty fun.
Speaker 2:I was like I need to get over my fear because you, you that really kind of like I wasn't expecting it to be so intense nothing like that can um trigger your uh epilepsy no, okay, but you know what they?
Speaker 1:have electrical gloves that I can actually wear. So it does, it protects my hand, so it doesn't hurt as much. So they do have the gloves. I can do that. That's not an issue. I probably would go do that because that's, I love my hands. I really do, because I use my hands a lot.
Speaker 1:Um, but no, it doesn't affect my, I was just curious, yeah I figured it would too, but that was kind of one of my concerns. But when, uh, master cat did the electro play on me now you know this is going to turn into electro play and consent at the same time, so just fyi. So it was um, it was a lot of fun, it was uh, it was different, it really was different, uh different because you were on the receiving end of the electro play?
Speaker 1:yeah, because I wasn't well, because he had that, you know, the um spear shoot type thing that had to like the little needles and everything was around oh, yes, the spur. I guess it was like that. Well, same thing, you can hold on to that and then shock somebody ah.
Speaker 1:So that shit can be very intense, because it really can be. And yeah, I can't explain like how the electrical currencies work. When that's on my hip, like it's, it comes like right into the belt loop, like right here, like a little clip on, kind of like a walkie talkie almost. So you have that. Then you have the electro electricity on there and then you're just kind of like having so much fun, but his ass hit my forehead and that's hilarious it was.
Speaker 1:It was fucking hilarious, but it feels like I can still feel it, which is funny. So, oh, and then, really quickly, we got a headbands for the mature mischief podcast. Just just two, just one for me, one for Didi. So it was actually pretty cool, I liked. I just wish they were a little bit better, but not bad for seven bucks each. Yeah, so that was it, but any little plug in. I just wish they were a little bit better, but not bad for seven bucks each. Yeah, so that was it, but anyway, a little plug in. It was so much fun.
Speaker 1:I accidentally got him on the cheek with the knife, because it's a plastic one though, but how the electricity goes through it, it's actually pretty fun. He's like oh, that hurt, I'm just like whatever, but the neck part just fucking took me out. It was just fucking. He just fell just like. That's fucking hilarious. And he was sitting on the workout ball too, as well. When I'm doing everything. He's like I was just like, if you fall on me, why we're getting, we're gonna have some serious issues because we're gonna be fucking retarded and shit and you're really gonna go full whitey this is my epic seizure.
Speaker 1:I'll be forever my stick. It was a lot of fun. We had it. I think we had a blast with it and I would 10 out of 10 would you say it was electrifying.
Speaker 2:He seemed very shocked.
Speaker 1:He seemed very shocked. It was crazy, I was it was crazy that was like the lamest dad joke.
Speaker 2:You weren't supposed to just keep it going. That was stupid on my part.
Speaker 1:That was awesome, though I don't know he seemed shocked he he was, but he had some good moves.
Speaker 2:He was dancing working at the car until he fell, but yeah, that shit was fucking hilarious.
Speaker 1:That that was fucking hilarious oh shit you good you know what it is. I think I need to go talk to master cat and talk about more about electro play with like where, where are the best spots to?
Speaker 2:be able to do it. So yeah, because you guys just experiment, let's try here, let's try here, let's try I gotta like right back to where his kidneys are, like right here just a little notch.
Speaker 1:It wasn't hard, but it was just a little, because there's some nerves that are back there. Just just. You're just like oh wait, what was that sound again? Slow motion do a slow motion for me.
Speaker 2:I would love to.
Speaker 1:I love that. I know I like doing the slow motion for you.
Speaker 2:No, there has not been a person that hasn't, and I love that In all the years that I've done that I'm gonna start doing that to my friends for whatever reason, and it's crazy because they're just like oh my god, like why did I do that yeah?
Speaker 1:I'm just enjoying the show it's fucking hilarious and, uh, what was it? It was just. It was just so much fun because they have electro play for other stuff too as well, because they have. They have for other stuff too as well, because they have. They have plugs for your butt that you can put up there. But they also electro. They're very I don't want to say they're not. They can be very light or very stimulating for a lot of people who, like that, now remember you have body fluids inside of you still, but what, however, they figured out the whole thing. It's pretty fucking like.
Speaker 1:They even have the violet one. The one's a little vibrates, that kind of has a little thing on there. They even have one that also electrocutes too as well. I've seen, I've seen, I felt the, the intensity on that one. I'm just like, oh shit, like what they say yeah, put on my balls, and I did. I remember what boy he had it. I'm just like, yeah, put it there. He goes. Yeah, turn it up and put it, put it on the right on my take.
Speaker 1:Well, okay do you know how like tom and jerry were when tom would come up behind, jerry would come behind tom and like, poke him and then he would fly up. Yeah, that was kind of the same reaction Because he was laying down. He was like yeah. I want to feel this electricity. Oh, he felt it. I've never seen a man fly so high.
Speaker 2:That is awesome.
Speaker 1:He took flight.
Speaker 2:That is awesome Experimentation with the human body.
Speaker 1:It's fun.
Speaker 2:It's fun.
Speaker 1:It's all fun and games until your twigs and berries get the like.
Speaker 2:The end of the shock until your taint gets shocked it's so funny to see because it's I can imagine dude, I can, and then naked, like that's hilarious it's one of those things.
Speaker 1:It's like it's kind of hard to sit. You can't sit down on anything because now it will conduce it would yeah, it would conduce with you, because I try sitting on the bed and I felt the electricity come up my ass. I'm just like no chale dude crazy. Yeah, so it's one of those things like either they're gonna have to stay standing up or sit somewhere.
Speaker 2:It's crazy can you sit on, maybe like rubber, like a rubber mat probably okay, I could like it would be safer uh-huh because he said he uh, one of his boys, or one of the boys that he talks to, one of the pups has a chair.
Speaker 1:And on the chair. It has metal. And if you're the conductor and you go and touch somebody, guess what happens it's amplified. It's amplified. Chatter, bro, it's fun. Can you imagine with the chair that I have here? That's all metal.
Speaker 2:I just bend the back, you have a whole chair burn on your body, like what happened. I was sitting on a chair.
Speaker 1:And.
Speaker 2:The bestie decided to play a stupid ass prank With his electro play shit.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I was playing, I was being stupid, that's what I said. It's all fun and games until someone gets hurt. But of course we we didn't like amplify it, like to see how the intensity and max would feel. We literally took it step by step, like we did at the lowest setting. We know that was yeah, we cranked it up just a little bit more, I think we got to, but you were safe.
Speaker 1:Yeah, we were like the main thing. The main thing you want to think of, as as with the electro play, is that it can be very intensified, like it, depending on what it is or what you're holding, it can intensify everything the way it is, like it's just how it is, but it's just, this is how it, that's pretty much how the how, everything pretty much flows, but it's fine, because, yeah, because it's a it's I don't know, I can't explain it it's exhilarating flows yeah, it's very exhilarating.
Speaker 2:It's very fun um I get the exhilarating part yeah, it really is because when we had gone to the shop and the girl had tried it on our arm, like like imagining that anywhere else, I'm just kind of like, yeah, I get it.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, like it's, it's stimulating can you imagine if you have nipple piercings? They would fly off. I don't know. I I don't know if it would be the same intensity, though, because I've never had anybody that?
Speaker 2:That's a good question. So people have body jewelry.
Speaker 1:How does that feel? Well, here's the thing, because he had body jewelry, but on the necklace portion that he had there's only one metal back here in the back, so he didn't feel anything on there when I hit his body too on there. But I think if it's all like jewel, like if it's on there, I want to know how like yeah, Cause I wonder like would people feel it wherever they have piercings?
Speaker 1:Well, I would assume so, because here's the thing when Kat was playing with Rad on the sling, we would feel the electricity. Now the sling has metal all around it, including chains. I've actually touched the metal while Kat's zapping him and the electricity will conduct and go through the entire thing swing and I felt it and I went like this I'm like holy shit. So if you have body jewelry, you're going to feel it more intensely in those places.
Speaker 2:Mm-hmm.
Speaker 1:Yeah, because, remember, electricity flows. Your body already has electricity going through because you have what nerves, nerve systems right, so it can pretty much go. So you're just pretty much on that. If you can find the right nerve on the body and you know your pressure points pretty well, you can make a man scream and dance all you want. Just be careful with your forehead careful with that ass dude, he's got a fucking fat ass. I forgot. It's rad, I'm like shit that's hilarious, that boy's got more fucking ass than I do.
Speaker 2:I just think it's funny because you were busy trying to shock him and then, he just naturally shocks you.
Speaker 1:Well, because I was shocking him. And then when I did it his whole ass went left and I'm just glad it was my forehead and not my eye, Because that shit would have.
Speaker 2:That's like some funny ass instant karma shit.
Speaker 1:It really was. It really was. It was so fucking hilarious. Lectra play is fun. It really was. It really was. It was so fucking hilarious. Electro play is fun it really is. You just need to be very, very safe, because if you have that much electricity coming out through your entire body, then you got to be careful with your eyes, your face.
Speaker 2:Naturally.
Speaker 1:If someone wants to touch you in your eyeballs and just be a dick that way, then oh god, yeah, we're gonna have fucking major issues right. So bitch, you're telling me, but there's some people who really love the intensity of it. Can you imagine just?
Speaker 2:picturing somebody's like. You've got somebody completely naked in front of you and that's what you want to be a douchebag about. I'm going to touch their eyeballs what?
Speaker 1:I mean, can you imagine, like how I mean it's pleasurable, it really is. But can you imagine just having that and someone breaks into your house and you just like we're going to have fun, like you just grab their ankles and just and they're just like they're breaking all their ears.
Speaker 2:Like what the hell is that? They just see the wand coming at them in the dark.
Speaker 1:It's all pink and purple glowing can you imagine just seeing me in the dark and just I turn up the intensity. I'm just amazed, man, this is gonna fucking shock the shit out of me, because Kat literally has, okay, you know how, those on top of those, they have the electricity and it's all metal right. So they let the electric, the power lines, right.
Speaker 1:Oh, yes yeah, so they are all. They're really really big. Have you seen one in your hands? They're fucking huge. Cat has one, a cable, a cable. He has an electrical cable. He puts that on, he turns it on, it turns on and it conducts electricity. He will use it on the boys who love, who are paint sluts and use it.
Speaker 2:It reminds me of a what's his face?
Speaker 1:Yeah, from Fireman. What's his name? I don't know, but I know what you're talking about.
Speaker 2:Damn it, it's going to bug the crap out of me. Oh my.
Speaker 1:God the wrestler. What's his name?
Speaker 2:Yeah, whatever, whatever.
Speaker 1:It's going to whatever. Whatever it's gonna come back to you, it's gonna bug the shit out of me, but but anywho, yeah, it's an actual cable and I think it's about maybe a foot. No, it's like two feet long. It's pretty. It's a fucking hefty cable. That's insane. Yeah, it's. It's two feet long and it doesn't seem like a lot, though, but get your ruler out. That's 12 inches. 12 inches, two feet is about this long.
Speaker 1:Yeah, just like that. Yep, I saw it. I'm just like that looks dangerous. I don't know if he uses it for the electrical current or if he uses it for like spanking, but he has one.
Speaker 2:I'm just like bro. I'm assuming it would be for spanking. I'm going to say I'm gonna assume so, but I'll ask him on thursday because an electric cable like that that would hold an insanely dangerous amount of electricity for a human being. Hence why they're coded the way they are and the people who go up there touch them can't touch them with bare hands they have special gloves for it exactly, so I'm assuming it's probably just for spanking.
Speaker 1:If I have one of those and someone broke into my house and that's what you see coming at you, can you imagine just bringing it out and just turning it on and you just hear.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you're dead. You're like, hi, that's the last thing you're ever going to see Ever, ever.
Speaker 1:Hello, 911. What's your emergency? Someone broke in my house and I shocked the shit out of them.
Speaker 2:Can you come get them please? Someone broke in my house and they touched this huge-ass cable. I don't even know how.
Speaker 1:I don't even know where they got it from. They seem shook, they're shocked. He was stunned. He still stunned, silence.
Speaker 2:He was stunned.
Speaker 1:He still stunned silence. It was electrifying to watch, if you smell. Oh, my God what the His skin is burning. What the what the fuck is that. Did you?
Speaker 2:shit yourself, ew. Why does it smell cooked?
Speaker 1:See, now my sadist side is just like I wonder how much more I can do with this. Of course it is. What else can I do? Because it's one of those things that seems like fun. But also I gotta be careful, because if a dog sneaks in and wants a lick and just like it sounds really bad, by the way that is really totally accidental like that's yeah. Dogs aren't involved well, because sometimes my dogs would like to sneak in and they'll stay quiet underneath the bed for a while.
Speaker 2:No, I know I know it just sounded weird to the people who don't know this, but like what do you mean? The dog comes in and wants to take a lick, like that's not what we know.
Speaker 1:No, no, no, like that, but my dogs will sneak in and chill and I wouldn't even know until we get to a whole scene. And then I just see, because they're all watching you well, because I've seen it happen I'm getting plowed in and I'm on the bed and I just hear dogs tags come in and it's my chihuahua laying right next to me wanting to cuddle up. I'm just like bro, what are you doing? And just like my little dog, just all cuddle up next to me. Looking at the other guy going. This is fucking weird, I know, can you just stop for a moment? Not awkward at all? No, not at all.
Speaker 1:Not fucking at all, fucking hey dude, oh my god, I that little ch well, was fucking weird, he's weird so what are you guys doing?
Speaker 1:yeah, literally, because I know you haven't laid down at all whatsoever on none of the couches or anything. But if you lay down and you have a pillow, he'll come and lay down and he's put his head in pillow. He looks like a human, like he'll cuddle your arm and he'll snuggle right up. I remember me and the roommate we were having fun because he let Tigger out but Mumu kind of, I guess, stayed because I don't know he thought Mumu went too as well. And we're having fun and I'm fucking he's clapping my ass cheeks. And then I just see Mumu come by and he's just like laying down right next to me. I'm just like bro, where did you come from?
Speaker 2:It's like no, no, no, no.
Speaker 1:No, no, no, no why are you cuddling?
Speaker 2:This is just weird.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I was just like bro it's turning me off. I'm getting soft. I know I can feel you inside me.
Speaker 2:Can you get it out? Can you or the dog, both, both at this point, stop, stop.
Speaker 1:I'm just like shit, but it's just so much fun. If you haven't, I do recommend if you know an expert who knows their shit about electro play, check it out. It's a lot of fun. I had 10 out of 10 would recommend it. Period it sounds scary. It really a lot of fun. I had 10 out of 10. Would recommend it. Period it's a if sounds scary, it really is, but it's not until you can kind of get the use to the feel of the electrical play. I think that's just pretty much it. But for your body to feel that the electrical currency of your body, it feels weird. I think it just kind of feels weird, even on my hands, because you know you got a lot of sensitivities on the thing and it's just so funny because I just like I see him.
Speaker 1:I was like, let me see your hand, so I'll just get like the pinky or the tips. He's like, ah, ah. I was like nah, because when he touched me I was like let me see your hand, that was the one thing. And I got him. Him like on the tip of his feet. He's like, ah, because I, that's what you get for touching me, that's what you get for touching me. It's like mother fucker, damn you. But it was fun. It was fun, I liked it, I enjoyed it. Now, consent so we're here, now we're going to talk about consent. Consent is like one of the 100 things that you need to have right consent for everything, no matter what it is, and then that's kind of like one of the most important things I'll actually have on it, because anytime period, before you even start a period.
Speaker 1:Yes, before you start a scene with anything, you have to consent to every little thing. And I think this is where it becomes very tricky, because I'm not saying that consent's tricky, because it's not, though, but depending on your, depending on what you're doing, because some people, they, you can consent to having sex, and then, right after sex, it's just like when you're done, it's just like stop, like, and you're still going. It's just like they've already told you no like, stop that's. That's kind of like the hard part, because you've already consented to something, to already doing and you're having to do it, her having it. And then, all of a sudden, in the middle of everything, it's just like. This is like really cut it.
Speaker 1:That's going to make the hard part. That's when people are like wait, how's that hard? Because it's like you're in the middle of doing something, you're having fun, you're having a grand time. It's like two people just having fun and then fun. You're having a grand time. It's like two people just having fun and then all of a sudden, they just don't feel comfortable or whatever it is, and I'm just like stop. Like you know, I don't know if I want to consent to this anymore. I'm just like what? Like what? What do you? What do you mean? Like it kind of throws me off a little bit.
Speaker 2:Right, because it's just naturally, I'm over here in my head like well, for what I mean? Granted, granted. You feel uncomfortable, yes, but my thing is like how, if you've already got to this point, you weren't comfortable the first half, or did you just not say something Like what?
Speaker 1:What do you mean? This is why it's so hard. It's not so hard in the BDSM, but this is why it's so crucial to have contracts to be able to do these things, because in the contracts they're set there for a reason, because you're agreeing to it. You're like, okay, cool, and we stick because the limitations are set for there. You know, even one of the ones like okay, what if you wanted to do this? Might be interested on it or whatnot. And then you try it. One time you're just like not my thing anymore.
Speaker 1:Right now that's not on the table as options right so that becomes a thing where you're just like nope, not at all. Um, I have a list of things that my boys don't like and I always try to keep it with me, or I'll try to keep it up here as much as if I can remember it, um, but most of the time I always do remember it. Like rad, he does not like being tickled, he hates being tickled. Occasionally I catch myself going you know, tickling him just a little bit. Yeah, he's like, no, like, okay. Okay, the one thing that I will say that I do like that he hates.
Speaker 1:I'm just like we're we're not taking that away and he's just like but why? It's a cold drink to the back? Oh, yeah, it's a cold drink to the back. It's one of those things. I'm just like come here. No, he'll still come by. And you just say fine, I was like I'm just kidding. Come here and my hands are already cold. So he's like ah, your hands are cold. I said I wouldn't do the drink. You never said anything about my hands, a loophole. He's like fuck damn, you're right. So it's a lot of fun, but we I mean reenrad have a good. You know strong communication and what we talk about and whatnot. We know limitations and we know, like, what, what we uh do and what is what's allowed and what's not allowed. You know, period. Um, he does ask permission for a lot of things to get consent on, because consent can just be based on very everything like, basically, an outfit to wear, like if I, if I see an outfit right and I don't agree with it.
Speaker 1:I'm just like, no, I'm just not, I'm not feeling yeah what you're, what you're wearing and if you're going out like that to represent me and you, you're not doing it yeah you know what I mean and I always want to show off his, like his ass, like his ass is definitely a great asset of his and his uh tool as well.
Speaker 1:It's one of those, are those two great assets. I'm like bro, show it off, like, have fun, like go do what you need to go do. So I'm always I, I always try to encourage him or whatnot, and I've always tried to appraise them, I try to praise them as much as I possibly can, because I know that's that's something you want to hear all the time. Right, everyone likes a good praise. Yeah, so occasionally, if I'm upset with him I've never I've never yelled at him at all period. A lot of the times in the conversations we're having and he'll tell me certain things at the last minute, I'm just like I was like why? Because I don't know and he gets very he and it's just, it's like talking to a kid, almost like because he does have the mindset where I don't know what. A lot of people don't realize that, but age regression is an actual thing for a lot of people. I can kind of see that in him a little bit. So I have to be very careful how I talk to him, uh, whatnot and it's always how I'm talking, to like how I'm talking to you right now yeah
Speaker 1:um, but yeah, it's just, uh, consent. It's just one of those things that, because we talk about a lot of the stuff, when he forgets to tell me, I'm just like, oh yeah, what should your punishment be? I don't know. I was like I'll take this paintings, yeah, but you would enjoy that a lot more than me doing something else to you. So what is it going to be? It's like, because he can do impact, but he's not a pain slut. He is not a pain slut in the slightest. He can take a spanking, but if I go ham on that ass, that's it, we're done, we can, but in the contract it says if it's spanking, he has to count them out. So, and I do tell him, I was like pick your weapon, like what is it gonna be? Because if it's one that I pick, we're gonna go something with a more thud to it.
Speaker 1:So it's, it's one of those things like you have to consent to a lot of things. And it's crazy, though, because there's one play that's cnc consent, non-consent which is very tricky on its own, because it's kind of like I'll give you an example when me and cat, when we talk, and when we say we're playing, we're like like no, I'm not gonna do it. No, I'm not. It's like you're, that's kind of that. The whole cnc play like you're, like you're fighting it but you're also being playful with, but you're also not consenting to it at all whatsoever.
Speaker 2:But it's actually really hot at the same time.
Speaker 1:So it's kind of like within that place and whatnot. Cnc I'm not going to go into it at all whatsoever because it's not something I'm very familiar with and I can't educate you on that at all whatsoever. There is one who does educate it very well, who is on tiktok in a very kinky community. I think it's moxie rose. I want to say her name is she's works for uh uh pierre's uh uh fashion.
Speaker 2:They do clothing for coin stars the one that's got the blonde hair and the little black, the cute little black cat eye.
Speaker 1:Yeah, she's cool she's cool, so she's she does have videos out there for uh, that as well. She kind of goes into it. She's very, very she's cool, so she does have videos out there for that as well. She kind of goes into it. She's very, very good at a lot of it, too, as well. I also learned it from also Repairman, too, as well 69, 67 or something like that. He's one that I found too as well, who's really really good at it.
Speaker 1:But a lot of these kink cultures that tend to do this, this is why it's kind of hard to talk about a lot of king culture because people want to fly, we want to get, they want to flag it. Oh, it's too, it's too vulgar, it's too much. I'm like, really, is it though? I don't know, I don't think so, um, but yeah, any thoughts?
Speaker 2:no, no, no. I was gonna ask to go to go into it because I know we touched on it before, but you didn't dive into it no, it's hard to die you just you answered before I even got to ask, because you said I'm not going to educate you guys because I'm not educated on it. So I was like okay, cool, don't worry about it I'm not educated.
Speaker 1:I I mean like 100, like one honest like. If I don't know something I'm not educated in, I'll give you the fucking sources. Yeah, fetlifecom, like that's even another thing too as well, to actually go and check out. Now I will say this if you're going on fetlifecom to figure out what that is and what it's all about, yeah, there is a lot of hardcore shit on there as well, but it's also not a dating site. It's basically you're there to look for your doms. A lot of our portfolios and profiles are on there, and even what I do, but my name is designed to bring an entire name.
Speaker 1:So anytime I have like shit that's open down there, I'm always in a pup hood every single time. You'll never catch my real face on anything. Yes, I go by, daddy j. Yes, it's what I do, but you'll never catch my real face on anything. Yes, I go by, daddy J. Yes, it's what I do, but you'll never see my face on anything, period, because I'm learning that if you want to keep where you're at, you cannot be doing shit like that. But anyhow, I digress. But even when you're like at a bar, like when we talked about the last podcast with the whole partying and everything.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you need to have consent. That's a fucking real. People will fucking throw punch. You now, like you just can't. It's um and I don't see how consent is something that you use like across the board in life period period and it's kind of hard because I know that those who know me I'm very cool and very chilled about being touched like I'm not.
Speaker 1:I'm not an asshole yeah if you touch me without permission or without consent, I'm just like why, or? And I'll give you a look, like really seriously, type of look. But if it's somebody I know and it kind of not annoys me, it just kind of like irks me just a bit, because it's like when someone comes by and they smack your ass really quickly and they walk, I'm just like who in the fuck it was? And they, and then they look at me. I'm just like don't do that. Don't don't do that, because not only have you spanked my ass and I'm just like you walked away. Now you're gonna have to go get me a drink, like bitch.
Speaker 1:I did not consent to that, but it's kind of. It's like it's um, it's weird, because people are just like, oh, it's jess, we can go and touch. I'm just like, yeah, but I'm still gonna punch you in the throat if you still touch me without asking. Like there's one dom I won't call him out, uh, but if he's listening to this and you know who you are, just listen and listen. Well, all of you. There's one dom that and the kinky night. Uh, he was touching me, right, he? And he goes. Oh shit, I shouldn't have asked permission and I looked at him straight in the face and said I've known you for how long already. I don't ever recall, ever, say no to you and you just touched me just by doing it, because I don't know how people are feeling that day. But why do you do it first and then say next, like that is not, like that's not how this works, that's not how any of this works. You know what I mean. But because I know him very well and I called him out on it, he's just like goes well, call me out, why don't you? I'll say, look, it is what it is. At the end of the day, like I get it. You know what I mean. I've known you for a very long time. It's I'm, I'm allowing you. If I haven't burned a bridge with you and I say you know, then no means no. You know what I mean. So I'm not gonna go and touch somebody now.
Speaker 1:Occasionally, when I'm with other friends and I'm touching, I was like do you mind if I touch you? Sometimes I forget, because it's kind of like a mutual touch type thing, right, uh, it can happen and mistakes are bound to happen or whatnot, but depending on who the person is, you know, respectfully, hey, I'm just not in the mood to be touched, like, okay, cool, I don't know, it's not a problem. Same thing with my boys. I know that I sometimes I get touch deprived and one of my boys will be like I just don't want to be touched or anything like that. I'm just like then why are we hanging out like because I'm I'm like, hey, it's whatever it's I, I rather hang out with my boys to be touched and cuddle and to be held, to actually be physical, to be physical. Then you tell me we're hanging out oh, I don't want to be touched.
Speaker 2:Then I'm just like hanging out and we're just going to be. You're going to be over there and I'm going to be way over here, Okay.
Speaker 1:Yeah, basically, but one of them is not very. See, rad is very PDA, he loves his PDA, he doesn't mind holding my hand, he doesn't mind having fun, he and I'm. I'm all for it because I love the attention when we go out into public. I think the only thing that I pretty much draw most lines is like if there's kids.
Speaker 2:you know what I mean, because yeah, I don't want to make kids.
Speaker 1:Even in general, yeah, even in general just in general, even when straight people, I'm just like really they're kids, like why are you doing that? Oh, we're straight, I'm like yeah, it doesn't matter, you're being a little excessive, yeah but if I did it in front of your kids with that, would that make it right?
Speaker 2:exactly. You know exactly time and place, man.
Speaker 1:Time and place uh, one of the other pops, uh, doesn't like period. So if we're hanging out in public, I can't hold them, I can't touch them. I occasionally I will go and touch them once in a while, but I keep my distance. He's like well, why are you keeping your distance, bitch? You don't want me to touch you, so what do you want? We can hang out in public but what do you want from?
Speaker 1:me. You need to make up your mind. Either I get to hold your hand, hug you, cuddle you, or yes or no, consent or not?
Speaker 1:But if it's not going to be the thing, it's just like. I even told him. It's just like why are you worried about what people think of who you are? You know what I mean? It doesn't matter. Like I get it where, yeah, we're in a time period. Yeah, it's getting harder and harder for you to love on your own partner, the same sex and everything. It's getting harder to do that. But if you're worried that because I'm older than you are and you haven't, and it feels weird because I even told him it's like you can come live with us why you do what you do you need to do, if it saves you money from having to stay in college dorms or whatnot, because yeah, but it just. I don't have to say explain to my dad why I'm talking to an older guy. I'm just like, okay, like why is that like a bad thing? Like I'm, I get it. You're 21, I'm. I'm like very well, I'm 37. I'm like 17 years older than you are. No, not even 17 years older than you are.
Speaker 2:I'm, don't ask me, it's math bitch, I'm 16 years older than you are, don't ask me.
Speaker 1:It's math bitch. I'm 16 years older than you are. Don't ask me, I'm 16 years older than you are.
Speaker 2:I am not going to count you like that.
Speaker 1:He's 21. I'm 37. It's simple 16 years, 16 plus 21 is 37.
Speaker 2:I love how you keep going.
Speaker 1:I'm trying to make sure I'm doing the math right, but anyway, right but anyway. So you do that, that's fine. That's fine, I'll do that. I mean, I get the age, I get the age gap and I understand it too as well. I will tell some of these young fuckers like, don't get with somebody if you're not going to want pda at all whatsoever. If you're, I just can't do it because I'm someone who likes certain people.
Speaker 2:They have preferences. If your preferences do not match or align, like what are you doing? Exactly just saying what are you doing?
Speaker 1:that's why I haven't really like claimed him or made him a big part of my life. You know, do what you need to do and and whatnot and whatever. You ready whenever you need me. We're like, I'm here for you. Yeah, he's like well, I can hang out thursday cool beans. Like we can hang out thursday if need it be. It's just kind of hard because I like hanging out with him. He's super sweet, I can talk to him, he's very open and whatnot, and I know he's stressed out or whatever. But occasionally I do have to remind them like, dude, you're like I'm hanging out and I'm saving my time and day for you and I'm already sexually frustrated and, knowing that I can't do anything with you because you're feeling a particular type of way, I have to be able to respect that consent because you don't want to be touched in any way, shape or form.
Speaker 1:I'm enjoying your company, I'm having a good time, or whatnot occasionally I would have to get on his case a little bit, though it's because it's just like I'm like you need to calm down just a bit, because you're feeling. I can feel what you're feeling and you not wanting me to kiss you or whatever it is. It's kind of hard and and he said that he goes, are you okay? I'm just like, yeah, I just didn't like the way you said what you said. He goes, well, and he, and again I get autism and whatnot. I get it. He was just like well, it's just how I am.
Speaker 2:I'm like, yeah, I'm like, bro, I'm gonna tell you this because it's a sensory issue for them yeah, it's a sensory issue which kind of sucks, because it's hard to not take it personal, because it's literally a moment meant for you to to be intimate, but it's just the way their brain is wired. You know what I mean. And when it's a sensory thing, like, it's like which I get 100 yeah they're not asking for it to be a thing, but it is a thing, and it's like oh, it really is a thing and you know and I get it and I have to teach him.
Speaker 1:Sometimes this is like look, I'm not autistic in any way, shape or form. I was like, yes, in one point in time I was told this and I don't feel that way.
Speaker 1:I was like and I understand that you may come up across something and whatnot, and people may not understand that, and I'm trying to understand you as much as possible because I'm respecting our dynamic, I'm respecting our relationship I was like but how is it that when I'm trying to be respectful to you, you can do it, when not, but you're a lot more of a big or an asshole? I was like no, I get it, you're autistic, but that doesn't stem to what you're looking for, what you're wanting and what you're needing. Because if you can tell me that you are doing these things and going on dates with somebody, having fun with somebody, somebody.
Speaker 2:What makes them different from them than it is for me that you can't make time for that as well?
Speaker 1:yeah, so this tells me, make it feel like it's a matter of convenience, all of a sudden yeah like I'll say is it a matter of convenience, knowing that I got you a pup hood and I was to buy it for you? So now that you got what you needed, I'm no longer a thing for you because, no, not at all. I'm just like, I'm just haven't been in the mood, or I'm just not in it.
Speaker 1:I'll say but why are you in the mood for with the date. So I was like I've already told you I love you, I care for you, I want to be with you, you are somebody I can definitely see myself with, but the guys you go after are guys who are fucking built, that I can never be. I was like I can definitely see myself with, but the guys you go after are guys who are fucking built, that I can never be. I was like I can never be. I go, even if I am that person.
Speaker 1:If I shut the way, got to lose the weight and did all of that and fit the bill that you were looking for, am I enough then, like you've got a member to be able to kind of pick and choose all of this? I'm consenting to the things that you're wanting and you're consenting to all the things I'm wanting, but if we're not aligning on a lot of the stuff, then something's got to give on that. You know what I mean. So this is why I was able to call her rad and do all of this stuff and get on the stuff that he wants and needs and what he likes, the toys I bought. I know I'm going to use some of the toys I have, that I just bought and whatnot, yeah, but I know that he's going to love them too and I know he'll use them a lot.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:So it's just one of those things like you've got to tell me, because if you're not going to tell me, I can't help you in the slightest period. And it's troubling, it's troublesome a little bit. You know what I mean, because it's like Naturally it fucks with me.
Speaker 2:Naturally yeah, because even if you take it all out, if you take all of the physicality out of it, you're in a position where somebody is making you feel that you are inadequate to some degree. So you're starting to have doubt. And if that's already the case, it's not like you said, it's not aligning, because nobody should feel that way in that kind of dynamic period. So if that's the case, then one of you is feeling something, the other one, it just is not.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:And it doesn't necessarily and I know that's going to sound really bad and I don't mean it personally but it doesn't really matter where it stems from. Yeah, it really doesn't. So, because there has to be at least a mutual understanding, therefore an agreement, and if it's not there, you can't have it, you just you're not going to be able to have it.
Speaker 1:And it's crazy because I, I the the autism side or the spectrum of it. I know that there are people who have are autistic 100 you know and they have a different type of feel. I get that he has a type of feel, but I I'm not, like I said, I'm not a psychopath whatsoever, but I do see his location because I it's open for me to see. I'm like, hey, I go. Hey, what are you at? Where are you doing? Oh, I'm hanging out with my friends. Bitch, you already know my schedule. You know I'm off tuesday, wednesday, thursday, even if you were here doing a podcast, it's not like you can't come over, hang out with me, chill with me, go out, go do these things. I don't mind. Yeah, you just need to tell me he goes. Oh well, I, I don't know what is it with my agent, him or whatnot he goes.
Speaker 1:I just don't want my friends to like whatever I'm like. I'm sorry what. I don't get that Like. Your friends are your friends. They're going to accept you, no matter what it's like.
Speaker 1:Why would that bother them on who you like and what you do? You say you're so blunt and open with it. But why is it that you don't want to share your personal life and what you do? You say you're so blunt and open with it, but why is it that you don't want to share your personal life and who you're talking to and who you're with you go? Why is it that I'm a secret like and I get it.
Speaker 1:You know, he's defended me a few times when I had dealt with some issues or whatnot, and he's talked shit or whatever. He's there. You know what I mean, so I can't say anything. It's just like I will tell them. It's just like I can't like not texting you like two or three days out of the week and asking you how your day's coming along, how's everything going. It's kind of hard. It's kind of hard because I don't get to see you as often. I get school and I'm not going to dog you on that, because school I will always 100% say your school comes first, no matter what. But if I see that you're actually traveling somewhere else on your live, on your snapchat, and I can see that and you're out and about hanging out with friends, you made time for them, but you haven't made time for me, like and that that in itself is everything you need to know.
Speaker 1:Yeah, straight up, Just like Straight up, but it's like I don't want to have to call off something and just be like dude. I'm sorry, I just can't. It's like I.
Speaker 2:But at what point do you draw the line where you are doing?
Speaker 1:too much, exactly.
Speaker 2:Because you're putting in excess effort to try and meet somebody where they're at, but they won't give you the same courtesy.
Speaker 1:Exactly, exactly, and that's kind of the hard part.
Speaker 2:So you're putting in what 80% to his 20?
Speaker 1:More like I'm doing a hundred. I'm doing probably 99% of it.
Speaker 2:That's your answer. You know that's your answer. Not to say that it needs to be 50-50, but meet me somewhere in this range. You needs to be 50 50, but meet me somewhere in this range, you know, yeah, like give me something to work with.
Speaker 1:Scratch your back, you scratch mine. It's like by ordeal, like it's always that, yeah, but see, this is why I kind of I've always ventured back to rad like I will always work with rad because we do give that time and attention to each other and I know what you want yeah, and we align just fine, we align great.
Speaker 1:He's a fucking horndog, so am I. You know what I mean. And then there's times where, if I can't make it to a certain event, he's always asking do I have your permission to go ahead and do it? Because that's what we put. And, yes, and I love that he wears that tag with fucking pride. Oh, so cute. Uh, so it's. I will always favor. I don't want to have to favor one over the other, but I'm starting to favor more of rad, because he does call me, he's out, he's, he messages me he's matching you, yeah range.
Speaker 1:He matches every step, step by step, you know that's awesome energy by energy. He, he fucking hits it.
Speaker 2:That's the way it should be, yeah.
Speaker 1:And I will say, in the beginning of our relationship I wasn't matching that energy. I was focused more on the other ones. Before anything else, though, but throughout the time I was just like. I remember I signed a contract with him. He had a contract, so why am I not matching that energy that he calls me every fucking day? I talk to him on the phone, see how he's doing. He's doing good when he's at work, he's driving, and, you know, sometimes you call me when I'm in the fucking restroom or when I'm doing projects, and I will stop everything to talk with him and whatnot, you know, just to get my attention, because I told him I was like I'm someone that gets very caught up, and then you have to keep my attention pretty much to every single, almost every single time, but I'll also message you too as well, but the moment you keep my schedule, yeah, I'm willing to talk to you. What's going on, what's happening, how's your day?
Speaker 2:How's work he's putting in for that?
Speaker 1:yeah, that's awesome he really is, and I need to make a little bit more effort for him too as well. And I need to go, and I try to go visit him as much as I possibly can on my days off when I have the time to be able to do it, right, so, uh, and it's just be able to kind of do that as well. So, as I told him, I was like you don't know if I'm playing with somebody or whatnot, I'll let you know which. I haven't really played with anybody at all whatsoever, probably just gonna hang out that one guy. But I don't think anything's gonna happen, period. So question mark, we'll see. Um, but it's uh, it was a fun night, it really was, and I I get to finally hang out with my boys a little bit more. He has a competition coming up on the coming up here soon, so I'm gonna be there when I get off work and go support him and whatnot so yeah that's awesome.
Speaker 1:I'm actually looking forward to that. Um, I don't know if I'll be able to do all three days, because I need my sleep I need my sleep goes back to the party.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it really does it really does like it's it's fun because it's we're having it. I'm having such a fucking grand time. I really fucking am having a grand time and I can't get not, not, uh, enough of it like it's. I do genuinely miss it. And it's not that I it's not that I miss being the center of attention, I just miss having fun with somebody who I care about, and I do. I do love and adore that man a lot. I love him a lot. I mean I it's whatever time I get with him, that I can spend time with him Like, uh, like, not today, uh, like I did on Tuesday. That's something that we always have so much fun on, you know.
Speaker 2:So that's awesome.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it really is, and it's uh, it's fun, it really is, uh, there's. You know what I mean? It's just, I think people are even pissed because some of them, I think someone, told me like oh, why him he's at that time and then rad's like the fuck. You mean that is awesome yeah no, I, I love it though, but yeah, yeah, I told him it's like I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna keep you away from what you love.
Speaker 1:You know what I mean I will always give you a till of caution. That's pretty much it. Because who am I to say no, you can't do it because I don't like them? Yeah, I will get petty like if I get a master that doesn't allow me to play with their boy and they want to try to play with mine. No, you don't get that yeah luxury at all period.
Speaker 1:Like no, you don't get to do that. The same one. Then we're talking about the same guy who's like always touching me oh, I'm sorry, whatever. Yeah, he was the one that's like uh, no, you can't play with my boy because you know this, not the other, which, by the way, I heard from him.
Speaker 1:He's just like yeah, I did not like that, I did not like that at all whatsoever, because it's just like I'm like bro, I told you, you've you, I gave you a caution tale. Like it's just how it is. Like I warned you and I don't know what else to tell you. Like I probably don't know if I'm ever gonna get to play with you ever again. And if we ever do get to play again, like is it gonna be the same thing where I, you'll never get a chance? I was like so I guess we'll never know and we'll never find out. So if it happens, it happens, and if it doesn't, it doesn't. So he's just like I know it just sucks. It's just like I, I enjoy you, I had a lot of fun with you. You know you respect me. I mean, give me, don't get me wrong. He respects me too, but in the sense is like you.
Speaker 1:You haven't did me wrong at all I'm just like yeah, of course I was like look, I'm here for you, baby boy. You always will be my baby boy, no matter what, like you've always I go. I just didn't think it was going to be to that where it was going to sustain, to like this bullshit where I couldn't play with you at all anymore. So it's just like what, what do you? What do you mean? Like, what do you mean?
Speaker 1:I don't remember ever not giving you not permission, whatnot, like. If it's, for instance, for me and cat. If I was playing with one of cat's boys, yes, he would have to ask permission or whatnot. One of the things that cat would tell us is yes, wear protection at all times, because you know you've got to protect each other, which is absolutely fine. This is why I don't play with none of the boys, because I'm not someone who uses protection, nor do I keep it in my drawer period. So I, it is what it is. So I know my status, bitch, I know who I play with. I don't know who your boys play with, but I know who I play with.
Speaker 1:But it's one of those things like it's so um, like it's so rad, it's like I want you to be. I'm not going to restrict you from having fun. I want you to be the best slut you can be possibly be and have fun doing it, but you're going to do it with caution. You will get tested, you will get on prep, you will do all of this. I'm not going to have you go have fun. The last thing I need you to do is be able to get this particular thing that I don't want you to get, because it can play a big damper, then that's going to put you in a spot where now you're having to deal with more than what the fucking meets the eye on it.
Speaker 1:I want you to take care of yourself, period. I don't have a problem playing with somebody who's uh, you equals you, who's undetectable, who has HIV or whatnot, because as long as their viral load is undetectable, they cannot transmit it.
Speaker 2:Right.
Speaker 1:U equals U, so pretty much. So that's just me, that's just me, that's just me. That's what I know, because I'm educated.
Speaker 2:I'm edumacated.
Speaker 1:I'm edumacated and PrEP pre-exposure prophylaxis helps you prevent that against HIV. To help you make sure about 99.9% accuracy, the other 1% the other 0.001% is using a condom.
Speaker 2:You're not protected all the time because not everybody takes their pills the way they're supposed to.
Speaker 1:That's just how the whole world goes around. But I digress, I digress, but anyway, that is it. This is the end of the Mature Mischief Podcast DeeDee final thoughts I got nothing.
Speaker 2:Hashtag consent.
Speaker 1:Hashtag electro play. Hashtag Hashtag consent. Hashtag electro play.
Speaker 2:Hashtag Hashtag.
Speaker 1:Electro to the bow. Hashtag.
Speaker 2:You seem shocked oh my God.
Speaker 1:See, here's the thing.
Speaker 2:Hashtag be careful with butts to the forehead that part, that part that was fucking hilarious.
Speaker 1:I was not expecting that. I can still feel it fucking hilarious. Anywho, until we meet again, you sluts, love y'all. Bye, ciao.
