Wedding Songs Podcast for DJs
How to Handle Wedding Song Requests Without the Stress (with CP Heda) | E177
Apr 02, 2026
Episode 177
Matthew Campbell
What do you do when a guest shoves a phone in your face with a song request? As a wedding DJ, your "flex" isn't your gear—it's your ability to turn a boring moment into a lifelong memory. In this episode, Matthew Campbell sits down with CP Heda, founder of ESSTART, to discuss how DJs can embrace requests to actually improve their performance and business branding.
In this episode, we cover:
- The "DJ Flex": Why reading the crowd and pivoting is more important than your equipment.
- QR Codes vs. Chaos: How to guide "request traffic" using digital tools like ESSTART.
- RSVP Curation: Using guest requests during the planning phase to build a better playlist.
- Branding Every Interaction: Turning a song request into a digital business card that follows guests home.
- The Power of Obscure Requests: How one "hidden gem" request can break the dance floor wide open.
Links Mentioned:
- Visit ESSTART: https://www.esstart.com
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