50: Catching Up: More Blake Lively Drama, Breastfeeding, Christmas, Health Food Brands, and MORE!

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Hey, y'all Sarah hitting the button. Yep. Well, because sometimes we talk about it too much and then we get to the episode and it's not as, not as in the moment, you know, we just got to start it and go. Well, let's jump right in. We're jumped Blake Lively. Wait, we didn't introduce ourselves. Oh, we have a guest again. Daneisha's with us again. Yeah. We can talk about some stuff. Okay. Now go Blake Lively. Yeah. I was in Target the other day and. Same. Every time I've, I'm in there, the Blake Lively hair stand is right when you walk in through the grocery side. It has been fully stocked every single time. And I also heard that, um, it's one of the highest returned products. Yeah, I saw that too. Okay, do you guys return products? Like I don't return products. Like if I don't like it, it's like, well, darn out of money. I've returned clothes that don't fit. But other than that, no, like are you talking like a, like a shampoo, shampoo? I probably would. Really? Yeah. Cause if it's yucky, it makes my hair yucky. I'm like, what am I going to do with it? I just wasted like 20. Yeah. And then I just feel like that's just life. Nah. Do they say anything to you when you're turning? Oh my gosh. They have to. It's like returning makeup products and they just crash it. I don't do that. I just get stuck with the wrong shade and make it work. Oh, wow. I only do that at Sephora because I don't know if we can return our stuff at our Sephora. It's not really a Sephora. So on that, I keep stuff from Sephora. Speaking of Sephora, I was just on my phone and I'm just like, Oh, I really want this Selena Gomez kit. And the internet said that there was one left and it was already late at night because I tried to boil my mouth guard, but I melted it. Oh my gosh, Hannah. So Nick was like, I'll just go and get you another one. And then I texted him, can you get me the Sephora? Go to Sephora and Kohl's and get the Selena Gomez. Kit, did he get the right thing? Yep, he got it. Wow. Good for him. Wow. And um, it was like eight 30 at night. Mm-Hmm. They closed at nine and he said he walked up to the makeup and he the poor little Sephora girl just looked at him like, ah. Hello. And my husband's like, my wife would like the Selena Gomez. I just can imagine. And he just got his hand tattooed on and everything. So he looks kind of like a weirdo bandage. But she would like, she had no idea she was talking to a celebrity. But she immediately went, Oh yeah, I can help you. We have one left and it's right here. It's like. I'll take that. And a mouth guard cause my wife snores like an elephant. Was the hype worth it? I, I had the mouth guard in and I, I just couldn't relax. Yeah. So I just went back to my no, no strip. Okay. But was the hype of the makeup worth it? Oh yeah. What was it? Was it the blush trio or whatever it was? Nope. I got her perfume and her lotion and then I got her lip oil. Oh, really like it. Boring. Yeah. I only care about the makeup stuff. I'm sorry. I don't care about the lotion. Well, it smells good. So I'm wearing it right now. I didn't smell it on you. Thank goodness. Stinky. I don't like smells. That's why you stink all the time. I don't use like scented laundry stuff. So I don't either. Oh, okay. You put other like scenty stuff on. Well, I'm using Molly Suds because my youngest has really bad eczema and so I got him clean diapers Like I think Millie Moon Millie Moon, I got water wipes and then I bought Molly Suds. I don't know his skin just sucks Is it work still react to the water wipes? Nope, his butt's fine. It's just his creases and his arms and his legs. Nick and I, we bought like a water, it's like a children's water filter that you can put on top of their tub spout. So it filters the bath water. Have you tried going dairy free? You know, it's not really, well, a night, but, I know, I'm like, maybe I should try gluten free and dairy free. Could be eggs too. You could try Tram's Ceylon cream. Yeah. I have all the medicated creams. Did you see that guy on Tik TOK who does the, um, see, but like from a doctor, ocean cream, the guy on Tik TOK who does the seawater ocean cream. I heard of it. I S I saw that. And, but I, I feel like once my Instagram knows I'm looking for eczema stuff, then they're like, my son's legs look like this. And now they look like this. And then the creams, creams, creams. And I'm like, okay. Yeah, yeah, try and sit alone cream works well for Gannon because he does the same creases creases creases and then behind his knees Yep, it'll work and then it just flares up again. So yeah, I think I need to start Well, good kudos for you, because I did not try that hard to get rid of his eczema. Yeah, and I didn't either. It sounds like you've literally done everything. I didn't either. I'm just like, well, we'll get some creams. And I'm like, well, that's life, so. Yeah. But I, I could just hear him itching, and I'm like, ew. And see, Gannon doesn't itch. My kids didn't either, but it looked painful. Yeah. Yeah. And it does look painful cause I see his skin flaking and he bleeds cause he itches so much. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. So I'm like, that's a little different wrap them up like a little mummy. Literally. And my doctor told me, she's like, well, you could do like a, like a mummy wrap wrap and just wrap them up in like warm towels and keep that moisture on him. And then I don't know, it was like a whole process. Do you still have breast milk? I've heard that. Yeah. You can make the cream out of your breast milk. Bath bath. Yeah. It's just the bath. You can make a cream out of it too. Whipped breast milk butter. I've heard that. I've heard good things about that. I used to put my girls in breast milk baths, even Amara, up until I'm running out. So I can't do this. But I used to put them in like every other day. And you, you pumped doing work and everything, didn't you? Good for you. It was a lot. I'm not going to lie. I did like clocking out and going back there, but it was too much work. Seriously. No, I was like cutting hair one time in the middle of a haircut and like, I looked at myself in the mirror and I'm just leaking through my apron in the middle of a haircut. I'm like, I'm like looking, I'm going to try not to make it noticeable, but like, you know, when you like leak so much, you can start seeing it beating. Yeah. Oh my gosh. I was so embarrassed. I'm like, I hope this person doesn't see me leaking right now. Hopefully they like, I would have just taken the spray bottle and been like, Oh my gosh, look at that. I used to think that all the time. And I'm like, why did nobody tell me this? I'm walking around and I'm like, Oh wow. That happened to me at work before. Yeah. My letdowns always hurt so bad. I would always feel it coming. I would have to like hold my nipples in because I'm like, Oh my gosh, it hurts so bad. Only when I was pumping though, it would hurt. It was so weird. Cause it was like, you almost felt like a pop, like pop. And it was like, everyone, I'm just trying to get out of there. Wow. Okay. Have you guys ever had, um, it's like this crazy depression, emotion, like when you let down, so sad and contemplate like, why the heck do I do this? There's actually like a thing like it's a syndrome that like when you let down it's like you get really really depressed and like Overwhelmingly sad. Wow. I was already really depressed so I don't want to say that. I was getting those, uh Breastfeeding blues. Mm hmm. Like I wanted to quit but I also wanted to hold on but I wanted to quit but I wanted to hold on It's like a lot of back and forth. And I remember Nick and I, we went out, we were just out for lunch and I just started crying. Why are you crying? Cause I don't want to stop breastfeeding. Every other day. I swear. I'm like, okay, today's the day. I'm literally just going to stop. And then like next day I'm like, no, I can't do that. I'll try tomorrow. Let me try tomorrow. Okay. Then I'll just take a pump. Okay. No. Let's do this again. Okay. No. Mm hmm. Yeah, I did that for like a whole month. And then finally I was just like when did she stop? Um, a little after seven months Long time it was a long time, but I don't know I was pretty like my house I was producing so much and my boobs were huge. I was like, I can't hold this Yeah, it was the holding it was working and then they're just whole heavy and I'm like, yeah I'm like, I can't do this. Yeah. I hated that full feeling. Yes. Mm-Hmm. I still sometimes get like phantom fullness. Do you guys ever get that? Yes. And it's like, oh my gosh, it feels like I need to breast pump. And then it's like, oh no I don't. No. Never had that. No. I'll get like pto. You do. I get phantom kicks too. Me too. All the time side. Serious. Me on my one side. It's really strange. Yeah. And then I remind myself, if you were pregnant. You would know because the baby would have to be big enough to feel a kick and you would know and I'm like, okay I'm not a period for months. Yes, not everyone's dumb like me and doesn't know that just message Charles the other day talking about Oh my gosh, I feel like something's kicking me and I'm like, I can't be I'm like, this is crazy But it's like when you're pumping like me cuz I didn't start my period until like a month and a half ago So up until then I I was freaking out every month. I'm like, Oh my gosh, I'm like, I can't be pregnant. It could be actually, technically, but I was freaking out too. Nick went and bought every single pregnancy test. He's like, are we going to do this every month? And I'm like, I just need to know. Why don't you just use condoms, you freaks? Order them, order them in bulk on Amazon. Oh my gosh, you guys are psychotic. Uh, I just, especially when you have two little ones. Just wrap it up ladies and gentlemen. Well, sometimes that doesn't work, but show you our Amazon order. Oh, good gracious. Did you order bulk size condoms? Not size, but like when you were breastfeeding, did your armpit hair grow in? Yes. You had armpit hair? Yes. I've always had armpit hair. What does that mean? I sweat so much too. I was so smelly. All the time. When I was breastfeeding with my first one. All the time. Oh, smelly. Rancid. I didn't grow hair. Wow, that's impressive. That, I wish. Oh my gosh. Cause I went to go shave and I'm like, it's been two months, where's my hair? I probably didn't shave my whole entire breastfeeding journey with Gus. Really? No. I didn't know this was a thing. I just was like, What do they suck out all the hair? I was only showering like once a week. Yeah, I googled it. Gross. Just wasn't shaving. It was long. Some women. It was in there. Do you remember when, what? Hannah made a comment about getting her armpits waxed or something. The wax lady told her it doesn't need to be this long. And you're like, yeah, I was just playing with it. Do do do do do do do. Ha ha Sometimes I do like to just feel after a few days. Like, oh, it's been three days since I've shaved. Yeah, the wax lady was like, you don't need to wait this long. Oh, sorry. I get so itchy now that I'm on birth control. Itchy. Itchy in my armpits. Itchy everywhere. Itchy in my c section scar. Itchy under my boobs. I'm just so itchy and the only thing I can think of is that I started birth control. You know what? I was really itchy too when I was on birth control. Yeah. Armpits all the time itchy. Itchy itchy. Oh my gosh, yeah. And when you take your pants off. And I can just like raw scratch. Yeah, when you take your pants off at night are your legs really itchy? Yes. Yeah. Oh, me too. No, my c section scar. Me too sometimes. So it just clawed off. Do you have like nerve damage? Yeah, there's like a good part of my belly that I don't feel. Okay, me too. Yeah, okay. Yeah Do you do sometimes I just like touch it and I'm like, Ooh, can't feel that at all. It's weird. Sometimes I'll get an itch there and I'm like, man, I am itching, but my itching stuff is not going away cause I'm keep itching it, but I can't feel it. So I'm like, it's not going away. It's still itchy. I have a theory. I think that my nerves are confused as they're like coming back alive right there. That. Okay. Sorry. I was gonna bless you. I was waiting for it. Such a dramatic sneeze in there. Sneeze. Um, uh, that my, they're confusing, like, nerve growing back for itching. And that's why it itches so bad. Oh. That it's like sending the wrong feeling signal. Do you have more feeling in there now or? Yeah, I feel like it's like coming back. Really? And I think it's itching as it's coming back. And that's why my, like my nerves are confused. I don't know. Did you have a C section? No. No. Nice. Yeah. I just can't imagine. I just, like I said earlier, I would just. Knock me out. I don't want to see anything. Yeah. I mean, I didn't see anything, but Calvin Castle's some stuff. The curtain up and then you knowing what they're doing. Yes, it feels weird because you can feel like tugging. Yeah, you're kind of like, yeah. I was like, ugh. Just knock me out. Honestly, I feel like I'd knock myself out. I don't like blood. Oh, I think like and it was so crazy because even like right now like the scariest thing clearly giving birth is scary No matter like if you have a c section or if you give birth vaginally, it's scary, but the IV Oh my gosh I know Because it's right there and I can see it. I can see it. Oh my gosh down there. I can't see what's going on I don't want to look Up here. Absolutely. I could, that makes me want to throw up. Oh man. I love starting. I got to look away when I get my blood drawn. Oh, and I'm like, please just do it successfully once. Exactly. And they mess up like four times. And then they sit there and dig and dig. And I'm like, I'm about to throw up right now. Like two weeks ago, she was like, she was starting my right arm. Poked around a couple of times. Couldn't get it. Started in my left arm. Oh, I hate that! Couldn't get it, so then she had to go in my hand. Yeah, I was gonna say, you've got great hand veins. And, yeah, that's the only place I have good veins. Yeah. So she went right there in that one. Yep. And then she got the first try and I was like, thank goodness. Yes. And I was bruised everywhere. Oh, yeah. It was terrible. Nick, his, he's so lucky because his veins just stick out. So like, they're like You could just like throw a dart. Literally. Across the room. So do Katlin's. While I sit there for like five minutes while they're like slapping me in my arm cracks. They're just slapping. I'm like, where are they? I'm like, they're not there, girl. You gotta go somewhere else. I'm like And Nick's like, and I'm like, why do your, why do your veins stick out? And he's like, I drink water. No, that's not right. I think it's partially genetics. We could Google that, but It is, I don't know. It is a little Uh, contra, contradicting because sometimes those valves you have little, or those veins, they have little, they have more doors in them called valves. So you can put your IV in here and then it, when you try to thread it through, it gets stuck in the door and it won't let it through. And then you can actually miss those big, huge, juicy veins cause they've got all these valves in them. Gross! Oh my gosh. So just a PSA, if you've got big, juicy veins and your nurse doesn't get it on the first try, don't hate her. I guess it happens. I just say not to me, but it happens. I am a great IV starter. I will not lie. Okay. I'll go to you. Yeah, I can see your veins from over here. Where? Yeah, look at those. Oh, wow. Yeah, absolutely. So, well, why did she miss so many times? Well, those aren't the spots where they take it. They take it in your crack. Because, because when you have a baby and you put it, nobody wants to put it up here. ER nurses want to put it up here because this is quick and fast and dirty, but you're going to bend it all the time. So that's why nurses start to go like down here in your hand, your wrist, and your forearm. Yeah, I think I had to do forearm for Bronson. Hey, look at me, nurse. Oh yeah, so I would go right there. And I would say bad things to you in my head. In my head. And then you'd thank me for getting it on the first try. Yes. If you can do it on the first try, then I'd be like, okay. Give her a raise, give her a raise. Can I ask her that one every time? I do have my preferences where I go to get blood draws. My favorite thing in the world is when someone's like, Oh, I'm a really hard stick. Good luck. And I was, and then I get it on the first try and I'm like, Oh, so you're a hard stick. My favorite thing to say, you're such a dad joke. But do you think they want that attention? When they're like, yeah, it can happen with hair too. They're like, no one can ever get my haircut right. Let me try. Yeah. All the time. Does such a good job. Oh goodness. I just love when they sit in your seat, the last person who cut it did so bad. And I'm like, Oh yeah. It was me, Sometimes I will go up there and it is me like, yeah, like, you know, I'm the only one in here. You know that. Oh, so they're talking, you knew it was me. They just expect that you won't remember or what? I think so, or like won't look it up or like they'll say it and I'll go through the haircut and I'm like. This haircut is fine. Like, what are you even talking about? Do the same exact thing. Oh, this is so good. I'm like, the next time you come in, you're going to tell the next person how terrible I did. No, they're going to be like, I want you every time. Oh my God. Oh, some people always like love hate relationship with request clients. Yeah. Yeah. Sometimes I love them. Most of the times I'm like, anybody can cut your hair. That's not true. No, I, some of'em, I think they just want a friend. Some of'em I do too. And I'm a talker. I'm not gonna lie. I'll be talking people's ears off.'cause at home I got two little kids I can't talk to. Yeah. So, yeah. At work, that's when I get all the talking out. I just talk to myself if I'm feeling chatty. Oh, I do. More than I should. Nah. Or I'll talk. No such thing. And answer for them. Mm hmm. But yeah. There's no problem with that. Yeah. Right on. Raya, are you hungry? Yes. Yeah, like. Cause I just know she's hungry. Yeah. When I get back to, when I like go in to cut hair, I'm like super chatty and I'm like, why am I so chatty? And I'm like, Oh, cause I don't want to talk to you. Those first couple of times when you go back to work and you're like, dang, there's other people here. Yeah. But then I need to like work on my social skills. Cause I'm like, I haven't talked to anybody else in like 10 years. I took a really big dump this morning. What's appropriate to like say and stuff. I wish clients would think that like, please do not. I don't want to talk about the debates. I don't want to talk about. Like, like you learn in school, do not talk about like religion, politics, and then they'll sit there and that's all they want to talk about. And you try to switch the subject. I don't know. Why would anyone want to talk? Because they're obsessed with it all the time. Yes. Sometimes I want to say it's like that generation too because that's always the older, what are they called? Boomers. Oh, X. I think it's Gen X. I think that's the next one. Right. Didn't boomers have X? I think my mom's a Gen X. Are we Z? Yeah, my mom's a Gen X. Same. Gen X. We're at the tail end between Millennials and Gen Z. I identify as a Gen Z. I identify as a Millennial. I think I'm cool like a Gen Z, so. I'm definitely not cool to other people. I'm cool to myself. No, you're cool. You gave off Millennial vibes. I'm so cool. I'm so cool. I think I'm extremely cool. Other people, I don't think. We were like spending the day or something and you got a compliment at every single store we went to. When you had your round glasses, the TJ Maxx girl said, I love your glasses. Oh, after I had brownie? I think so. Oh. And then we were at Culver's and then you whipped out your diaper bag, which was adventure time. Yeah. And the Culver's kid was like, I love your backpack. It's a great show. And then I swear we went somewhere else and they like complimented your shoes. I'm like, dang, Sarah, you're so cool. So cool. I am so cool. Just so effortlessly cool. Make sure everyone tell Calvin that because he tells me I'm not cool, but I know I am. So he thinks he's cool with me. He's not, he's not. I have a question for everybody. Great. What's your conversation starter? What's something you're really looking forward to? Win. Specifically, I need a specific timeframe for me. It's Christmas. I'm so jazzed for Christmas. We bought all of our Christmas supplies, like our new ornaments. We're doing a new tree. We've got a disco ball for the top of our tree. Cool. Yes. I would just put a disco ball in my living room. Seriously. It might stay there forever. Get a karaoke machine. Yeah. I wouldn't match anything with a karaoke machine. Yeah. What kind of tree did you get? We didn't get a tree. We have the same tree. It's a green tree It's a fake tree, but now we're doing blue and silver is the theme Isn't your house green though? Yep. Okay, we're going for it. Right on. I love that for you. Mm hmm. Yeah, I want those Artificial trees where they're it's like white Green but with like the white snow. Yeah. Yeah, it's called flocked. Okay I don't know what it's made out of. But I love it. They do look pretty. Yeah. With the, with the lights already like inside there. Ah, that'd be nice. Yeah. Mmhmm. Are you guys gonna get a big tree? Um. You should get a real tree. You should get a huge tree. Put it in your sun area. A huge one that goes all the ceiling. Like a ten foot. That would cool. You could have a whole Christmas room. You could have, you could have a Christmas room. Mmhmm. You could, oh my gosh, you could put a train set. You should make some shelves so you can put train set in the seat. I don't want that. That'd be cool But I want to get like a Christmas village. Oh On all your little window sills. My mom used to have a little Christmas people. Yep, and then I need that ceramic tree No, it's a sir, it's so have lights inside. Yes light that I think you can pull out if you want to Is it like the white one? It's like an antique. Yes. We have a pottery place in town and I am almost sure that last year they had something just like that that you could paint. That'd be fun to do with the kids. Cool. Taking the kids to a pottery place. Well, okay. I could imagine telling my three year old no and she'd chuck it. That's her thing. We literally were at Walmart the other day and she had a, yes, show me. I knew what you're talking about. My grandma had one. Oh, that's not what I was thinking. I was thinking the white ones that have the holes, you know? Anyway, what were you saying? Oh, yeah, we were at walmart and she had a little toy, but I said no to something She took it and shut that thing. There was a person walking down the aisle hit i'm like, oh my god I'm, sorry She's she's got a little attitude right now Speaking of christmas What do we think of her toys? Nintendo switch nothing as few as possible Okay, I'm like Calvin bought the kids a new alarm clock and it was a hundred dollars and I wanted to absolutely murder myself Wow, cuz it's a Mario like Nintendo alarm clock. He pre ordered it and I was like, what are you thinking? See anything from now between and Christmas like it is a gift like you need a new toothbrush. You're getting it as a gift You need new shoes, you're getting it as a Christmas gift. You need new socks. So Christmas gift. How my mother would do things. Yes. Well, you gotta ask. We gotta wait for Christmas. Maybe you'll get it for Christmas. I did that with Gannon last year and he needed a new pair of shoes so I got him a pair of Hey Dudes and he was so excited and he's ripping open the paper and he opens it up and he, he just deflates. You can just see him just, ugh. And he goes, this is not enough. What? Cause he got shoes for Christmas. He's five. Like, of course he wanted a toy. He wanted a toy. Yeah. And he was shoes. I'd rather buy an experience and go do something. Okay. So I was thinking, yeah, there is this thing and I think it's called like the five gifts. I think that's what they're saying. Something you need, something you want. Something to read, something to experience, something you want, something to need, something to read. But yeah, it's need, something, read, and then something to wear, and something you Experience something else Can't remember what the other one is. Yeah, it's a cute little rhyme, but I can't remember it right now But I know a couple of people hurt who are doing that So they kind of limit a lot of the toys and I'm like, that's kind of that's fun But then I get kind of sad. I'm like I wanted them to have more stuff. Yeah, what though? We have so much junk. I think that and then I go into their toy room and I'm like, yeah And see, we're so limited on like, I'll get sick of something and I'm like, I'm done cleaning this up and we'll just get rid of it. So I'm like, at the beginning of summer I looked around their room and I'm like, oh man, Calissa, you went a little too far. You had like nothing. So we did like a Christmas in June. Yes. And like did, um, got like probably 125 bucks worth of toys or something. Um, and. Yeah. Which is like two toys nowadays. Exactly, exactly. It's ridiculous. Yeah. So lots a birthday party and people were like buying this girl gifts and I was like, oh my gosh, that was probably like$40. Mm-Hmm Like, I am giving you a$10 gift card. Girl, figure that out. that's not on me. I'm not buying a$40 gift. That's crazy. And you know, cutter's still holding onto those. Two cards that you gave them. We haven't even spent that's all he's just obsessed with. It's just the cards The other birthday gifts. I don't know. I don't even know what they were But it's so funny what kids latch on to those two cards. He's a saver though He's got like his little wallet his little money money bag and he keeps all his little stuff in there Every time I see him he's like you want to see what's in my bag And that's why i'm like I want them to have the best toy ever that they're gonna play with they're gonna cherish And it's not. It's always going to be a tiny little trinket. I want them to love the toys as much as I love my American Girl doll. I did everything with my American Girl dolls. Like, I took them everywhere. We danced. How many did you have? I had two. Wow. Dang. Molly. Molly. Yeah. Yeah. Molly was the redhead, right? No, the braids. Oh, Felicity was the redhead. Oh, Felicity and Molly. Molly had the braids, and then Kit had the short Bob. They're both from the nine early 19 hundreds. So, but I just cherish them so much. And now like toys are like, yay. Yep. On to the next thing. It's not fast fashion. It's like fast toys. There's not really like a real classic thing that you could, that's why I'm thinking Nintendo switch. Yeah. My kids love ours. Yeah. But so much to the point of where we live at them now. Yes. I was going to say, do they each have one? They each have one. Okay. Which originally I was like, let's just He can share with Gus. It's fine. And Calvin was like, no. I was like, okay. And so, but they're limited now to the weekends. See, Gannon won't touch it. Gannon. Doesn't care for it? Does not care for screen time. Hmm. Does not want, he just colors and draws. Good for him. That's awesome. I can't get him to watch TV if I wanted to. No. Yeah, so. That's cool. But I feel weird getting it for Carver. Why? Because that's a lot of money for just like one thing. Yeah, but honestly they use it for years and years and years. Yeah, so I'm thinking of buying it and opening it as a present to myself. And then, like, letting them use it. Does that make sense? So it's mine and I can decide who uses it. And it's, like, not specifically for Carver. It's not specifically for Ganon. And then Anders is just That seems fair. If you buy a couple extra handhelds, you can put it on the TV and you can all do it together. Yes. Family night. Exactly. Which I'm looking forward to because we play, we have a Nintendo 64 at my mom's house and we love playing Nintendo 64. Mm hmm. So I just really try to beat Nick at Mario Kart. I will never win. Calvin's really good at it. Yeah, sometimes I beat him. Not that often. I have never. I believe in you, you can try hard. Yeah, you just need to practice. With what? And you need to pick the right people. I don't know. He's always, he's always, um, what's the donkey Kong. He's always donkey Kong and he has to drive. And you should be Bowser. They're very similar in like their weight. Their statistics are very similar. I'll see. That's why you don't win. That's why you don't win though. Yeah. Well, just saying one day I will now at peach, but I have really good luck with toad. I'm a toad girl. Yeah. Toad is good. Usually it's cute. So, so yeah, that's where I'm kind of stuck on Christmas toys. Like I'd like to spoil them, but then I, I just look in the rooms and I'm like, no, we're throwing everything away. Yeah. Go through a good clean out. Do, um, that's what I'm going to do. People like you have to donate toys. around this time of year, um, tip for Santa to bring you new toys or whatever. Well, I have a lot of like those baby puzzles. Oh yeah. I forgot. You're not a Santa lady. Santa people. Montessori toys. Oh, the open ended toys. Yeah. So I think I'm just going to put it on like a mom's page that I'm at and be like free. Just take it. That's what I need to do. So bad. Go through twice. Yes. Yeah. It's terrible. I hate doing that. I do too. Cause then it's like, now I have to find all the pieces, and I have to find all the people. Can't do it in front of Amara. I know. You have to like literally go to bed and that's my alone time. Is she gonna come home and know which one I took? Yep. It's your mommy. Where's Peppa Pig? Um, Who's Peppa Pig? Toys they haven't played with in months. Now they come back and they're like, uh, where's my so and so? I'm like, dude. Ganon does that with pictures that he's drawn. Uh huh. Uh, Maybe the landfill by now. I feel bad because I can't, he makes 20 pages a day. I can't keep all of them. Yeah. You should get those picture frames that you can just like, um, keep loading'em in. Put them in, yeah. Yeah. That it would be stuffle in a get'em a binder to put'em all in. Yeah. I should get'em a binder. There's your, there's your Christmas present. Get'em a couple binders. Yeah. And some slicks. Some of those Slicky pages. Maybe I should do that.'cause cutter, I mean, they'll just draw. It's like crap. Yeah. Like I'm just gonna be for it. Two colors and just scribbled. I'm like, here you go. I'm like cool Yeah, I just wait till they go to bed then I go They have those one things where you can like take a picture of something and then upload it to like a slideshow You can do something like that. That'd be cute Yeah. And then you can give it to him as a Christmas present. Yeah. He'll be like, look at all these drawings you've made this year. Or when he gets married. Wow. That'd be cool. He'll be like, we're going to watch a slideshow of what Gannon has drew over the years. Do you know what it'd be? This is year four. Titanic and army tanks. That's all it is. He had got, he got talked to at school that he is not allowed to draw guns or tanks. Why? That is so stupid. Like. I kind of, okay. Well, okay. We made that last, last week or two weeks ago. I had the kids make like flags cause it's. We tied it to history. So they were studying like settlers, um, like Viking settlers or Nordic settlers or whatever. And so some of them, I was like, okay, so you know, you might want to choose what kind of settlement you are. Maybe you're a farming settlement or a scavenging settlement, whatever, a hunting settlement. These kids are drawing like war things. Yeah. And they're like things of like shooting each other. And I'm like, guys, Guys, we're at school. We can't draw people shooting each other. If you want to shoot some animals, that seems fair. We can't shoot other people. No, my brother drew, he's fifth grade, he drew himself crappy stick figure and a crappy stick figure gun and a crappy stick figure deer. Immediately sent to the principal's office. Yeah. Got home with a note. I think that's totally fair. Considering our community, it's totally fair. Like half these kids go hunting with their parents or whatever. Like, like understandable that like shooting a deer. Yes. And also this is like, for us, this project was like tying it back to history. So how were these people hunting their, like getting their food? They were hunting their food. So if you want to put that on your flag, and we weren't cool to use bare hands. Yeah. Yeah. Nice. And guns. But yeah, like shooting each other don't do that. Yeah. But if you want to shoot an animal, that's okay. That's all right. But no, he, uh, yeah. And my parents were like, We went hunting this weekend Yeah, it seems silly. Yeah So yeah art Yeah, yeah. Yeah, it's hard. I couldn't pick a single thing that I'm looking forward to. I have no absolutely. I haven't thought about it Hmm, I would say If we go to the post mortem concert this month, hmm, that'd be fun. Why isn't it if now wasn't it a for sure thing before? It should have been for sure, but, uh, we need to find someone to watch the kids. Well, I still need an answer to my post mortem question, so. I'm not asking him that. Well, I will continue to ask Nick until Nick asks. He won't. He will. I'll make him ask. How about you just write him a letter and see if he gets back? He won't answer my letter. That's what I'm saying. And he wouldn't want to answer to me if I say, Is your bra think? He'll be like, um, no. That's so insulting. I'm not asking that. Is that insulting? That's like asking someone, do you lip sync? Yeah. Oh, is it? Oh, shoot. Well, make that other guy ask. They're not gonna listen to me. I'm just kind of looking forward to this month and then his tours. Yes. So, hoping that goes smoothly. Yeah. Hoping I don't get kidnapped. Don't be fine. You'll be fine. Yeah. What about you? Oh shoot. Um, I don't even know. Okay, same. I say I would also say Christmas because I love Christmas, but I'm also in that spot where I'm like I don't know what the heck to get them. Yeah, like they got everything. Yeah Everything that's why I just want to do something as a family. Yeah, I I've always thought about, I've never been there before, but I don't like swimming. Neither do my kids, but they have arcade stuff. They've got arcades. They've got a lot of money, a lot of water parks, vacations usually are a lot of money, a lot of money going out to eat, um, spending stuff on souvenirs. Yep. We got to pay taxes. I don't want to do that. Taxes. I know this is a bad time of year. We got to pay taxes. I don't want to like. Yeah, we buy in crazy stuff. Taxes are the worst. Wait, do it on Black Friday vacation? Yeah. Book your you vacation on Black Friday. Yeah. You can book your hotels on Black Friday. I never heard That makes sense. That's true. It pops up on Facebook all the time. I'm like, you're trying to tell me to go somewhere and I'm not going anywhere. Now that you said that, that Mm-Hmm. Our phones are gonna gonna, yeah, you're gonna get Wisconsin Dells Seriously, black Friday. Bye now. Gotta screenshot it and send it to me when you get your Wisconsin Dells ads and your newsfeed. Well, maybe we'll pick where we want to go and then on Black Friday we'll see if it's on sale. Mm-Hmm. We love the Facebook tries to make me go on cruises and everything, and I'm like, dang, cruises are scary going anywhere. Think I would do one. You'd go a cruise? I think so. What if it, but I don't wanna. Huh? What if it sinks in the ocean? Oh, I'm not worried about that. I'm worried about, like, if I'm on a cruise with old people and it's a big swingin party and Oh my gosh. I'm worried if, like, the sewer stops working and Then you can't poop? Yes. Or you could poop. You could poop in the ocean. Yeah, just hover up over the side. Oh my god. Yeah, just hold on. Seriously. Get a bucket. They'll catch you on security camera. No. Just hold on to me while I go to the bathroom. You've seen those ships where like everybody got food poisoning or something and then everyone's like puking and shitting everywhere. Yeah. I haven't seen that. My worst fear is it sinking. Oh, I've never seen that. Bob's Burgers, Sarah. Bob's Burgers. Yeah, but my worst fear is it sinking. Cause if we're in the ocean, then sharks are gonna eat me. Seriously, and I can't. Drowning. How terrible would that be to drown? I can float. That's about it. I can float, too. Yeah, I'm not a very good swimmer. I'm not a good swimmer. Just float. You just gotta lay back. Yeah, but then you'll look like a seal and a shark will come and eat you. Oh my gosh. That's scary. I just can't. The ocean freaks me out. The ocean does freak me out. It freaks me out, too. I can't do it. I would, yeah. I have that fear of like, um, when you can't see the bottom of stuff. Even swimming pools, I get freaked out in swimming pools. I can get in a pool, but like as soon as I get in somewhere and I can't see my feet, like lake waters, probably the ocean water, that's where I draw the line. Oh, the lakes around here. I think it's even worse when you can though, because like, I can see that fish right there. I don't like fish. It's scary. Oh, I hate fish. I just don't like water in general. I'm not a water lady. That leads me to my next question that I had. Are you ready? Yeah. What's something that you're worrying about or anxious about? Oh, everything in life. Are you kidding me? Everything ever that could ever enter my mind is a worry. There's no part of my life that isn't like stress and anxiety. You're just like a ball of nerves. I am all the time. I like feel like I'm losing more hair and I think it's just cause of stress. Just stressed. So everything, everything. Okay. I've got deadlines to meet that I'm not. Taxes is stressing me out right now. Mm hmm. That's not fun. It's not fun manually. I miss when I was, like, a regular paid employee on W 2 and they took the taxes out beforehand. And if you just didn't look, it didn't hurt so bad. But now, like, manually handing 27, 000 over to the government is, like, Yeah, that's wild. It's just gonna kill me. This is our first year of taxes with the business. Yeah. We're, like Just not sure what we're doing yet and like how much and what and we're just like, oh my gosh. Yes. I used to work with a girl who would get like the best tax returns and you know, she's just live our life and I'm like, man, I want that. And then when Nick started doing his YouTube, I was like, are we going to get anything? And he's like, we own a business. No, I'm not getting shit. Never. You're going to start owing girl. Yeah. I'm like, dang it. So that's the downside of a small business. A small business. Big business. I don't know. Just a side business. It's a small business. It's just a very big small business. Multiple small businesses. Cause really, okay. Who's on like Nick's team? He's got Nick, his editor. Calvin. Nick, his editor, and Calvin. Mm hmm. And then, um, we just bought a part of Bunker Branding. Mm hmm. And then we own part of Pepperbox, which that might get bought out. Mm hmm. And then, his Unsubscribe. Sure. Mm hmm. Team. About six. Yeah. That's a lot. Yeah. And he doesn't tell me anything about money, so when we were on our date, you know, we just tried to be whatever. And then, I just had this question, like, if you die, what do I do? Like, tell me what to do. Just tell him to put it all on his will and that'll figure it out. He's like, I, you know, I'd have to write a whole book to tell you. He can hire someone to do that. If he dies. There is something I heard advertised today on TV. It's called a knock box. Next of kin knock box. And it has like, you just fill it. It has like all of the life insurance policies, everything in it. And it's just like in a box for your next of kin. You should get that from for Christmas. He also can hire someone to like financially take care of all of those things. Yeah, but I, there's so much that I don't know what's going on. And that's why I'm living a financial advisor that would take care of it. Right. But that's why I am so carefree and I don't know this. And that's why he's the big ball of stress. Cause he's like, I have to do all of this by myself. And I'm like, yeah, I have no idea what you're doing. I'm just living here. I'm just here. I just, I just live here. She's just living. Yeah, and then he tells me all this and then like that stress gets onto me and I'm like What do I do? Because you don't handle stress well. I'd like to think I do. Okay. I don't, I just think about me in the, that's husbandly love to handle that kind of stress in my opinion for me at least. Cause when one's freaking out, the other one's pretty calm. And that's from birth. We've dealt with this. I'm freaking out. He's calm. He's freaking out. I'm calm. This Calvin pretty tone. Yeah. And I'm psychotic. But it works. There's always one person in the relationship. That's just, someone's got to be okay. Someone's got to be leveled them out and be like, it'll be good. Just even your, you can't both be okay. Yeah, that would be weird. Weird. That'd be so weird. That'd be a really stressful. It'd be so not stressful, but like maybe not in a good way. Cause apparently we all know that we thrive on the drama. Yeah. Maybe. It'd be like that Spongebob episode where Squidward is just with all the other Squidwards. Oh, yeah. Yeah. oh, this is kind of boring. Your quash Oh, yes. Canned bread. Spongebob episode. Yes, exactly when he's in the grocery store there. Yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Sorry. Yeah. Your, um, references today are pretty on point, Hannah. Nailed it. Nice. Yeah. Um, what's something you're grateful for? Long pause to edit out there. Well, I'm grateful for a lot of things, but nothing like specifically like stands out as like exceptional right now. Is that a bad answer? No. You start. Well, this kind of goes into, um, What I'm looking forward to as well, other than Christmas. Um, I have a opportunity to teach nursing students. So I'm going to be doing that in January, I think. So I'm grateful for that opportunity. I've done it before. I taught four semesters and I work with them like at the bedside and like teach them how to give meds and how to assess a patient. And I have usually eight students with me. And then we like take care of eight patients on the floor together. Do you feel so cool because you're young and you do that? I feel like it's, uh, I bring a different perspective to the, yeah, cause a lot of the other nurses haven't worked bedside in a long time and I'm still working bedside. So I feel like, um, what does that mean? Working bedside, um, means you're actually directly working with patient care. Um, there's a lot of positions in nursing that you don't work with patients anymore. So like, um, informatics is like, you could literally work from home and you would like build epic, you build the medical systems that we use and the screenings that we use and all of this stuff. And it's like, you are the it nurse. building this health care system or like, um, if you're a nursing instructor, you don't necessarily work with patients direct care anymore. Like work as a nursing instructor and, um, you're away from the bedside. is what you call it. So bedside nursing is like, you're actually working with patients. You're actually giving pills, you're giving medications, you're whatever. Or like management, some management positions aren't bedside positions anymore. So you're not working bedside nursing. So I am excited. I love working bedside. A lot of nurses work up to a point so that they can get out of the bedside to get away from nursing, um, and get a cush, kind of a soft. They call it soft nursing job versus working bedside and I love working bedside. I don't think I'll ever not work in that environment. Like see you as a professional working. Yeah. I feel like it wouldn't be professional if she was working with us. We'd just be goofing. If you were taking care of me in the hospital, we'd just be goofing. Like, yo, what's up? You want to change my catheter? I'll hold it open for you, I guess. Sorry. If you needed a catheter change, I would change your catheter. Woo! I hope I never need another one. Yeah. I tell you. Yeah. Yeah. So anyway. That's a new opportunity for you. Yes. I'm grateful for that. Very cool. Because I've been looking for something to, something new, something different, some change. So yeah. Hmm. Are you grateful for anything? I mean, I'm grateful for a lot. I'm grateful for a lot of things. It's, but like nothing new like that really. I suppose. I'm just always grateful for my kids. Don't know where I'd be without them. Yeah. I'll be sad someday when they move on. I'll be happy too because you know, I'll be alone, but I'll also be sad cause I'm alone. Yeah. Yeah. You can take up knitting. I already know how to knit. Oh, okay. I have to do something else. Then knit me some blankets. No, that's too much work. I have to, I would want to get those really giant needles, you know, where they're like 10 foot long, it'd be like that because they're so big. So the clicks would be like a little ASMR for you. When I was watching the playoff game at the WNBA. Someone on TikTok was like, now why would you pay so much money to sit this close to the court just to knit? And it's just like this lady knitting and I'm like, it's probably stressful knitting Like I get stressed when I'm like when I went to go watch The Fever. Yeah, you need to have your hands busy so you can have your mind free. Oh, yeah. Yeah, so I totally get it but I guess I'm grateful for my family and then I can What? You and me, we're just like, yeah Our family. Our family. and then um I don't know. So I'm going to go back to the gym again. So I'm liking the results. So I'm just grateful that I can work on my health. Yeah. Next is, uh, trying to figure out why I snore. You just have a fat tongue. That's what they told me. Yeah. That's what they told me. So stick out your tongue. Oh, I mean it is kind of big, I guess, but I don't know. Oh, I brought, I brought, I brought, Speaking of tongues, I bought tongue scrapers and I feel like that is a holy experience, but you can't do it too hard. No, I love it. No, no, no. I do it hard. That's what I did. Show me your tongue. No, let's see. Cause if it's yucky, then I don't want to do it. Okay. Mine's super yucky. It's never been scraped. Okay. Okay. I've only done it. Let's see. I'm going to buy them. Does it come off in like a sheet? Like three times, twice maybe. It's like, um, it's just kinda, but also like. Sexy. Yeah, but also like, I feel like now I've eaten, I just drank sweets. So it's, you know, sugar. You can buy disposable tongue scrapers. Nice. Did you know about this? I've seen it before, but I've never, I don't have one. You have a nice tongue. Just when I just peeped it just there, which we, Oh, you said, I was, I feel like I have a tongue tie. I'm not even gonna lie. Cause I can't stick my tongue out that far. Ties are hereditary. Well, like, Oh, Oh yeah, you definitely have a tongue tie. What's a tongue tie? It's, it's like when Uh huh. Oh yeah. Yours is huge. Oh yeah. Is it really? Yeah, for a real girl. I've always wondered that. It's big. Because I cannot stick my tongue out that far. Yeah, it's big. And like I no, I don't think you do yours looks good hannah. Oh, don't you're gonna gleek on me I forgot that was a word. I when I was in like fifth or sixth grade You have those things down there your saliva glands and it like spits out on you I used to have a kid that sat next to me in like fifth or sixth grade and he'd literally be sitting up Sitting next to me It's so gross. And I'm like spitting under his tongue. Yes. It's so gross. What? I've never heard of this before. How? It's so gross. How? This was like, middle school, like just, this was middle school, gleeking. So you're telling me that your tongue can just like Shoot spit out of your tiny, your gleek holes. I don't know if a gleek hole. You have like, you get it to do it? Um, sometimes it just happens naturally. Sometimes when you're speaking, you just get those little, you That's, that's ek. Maybe that's what happens to me sometimes when I talk, like I'll spit, but I'm like, what happened? I didn't. It's a gleek. Okay. I gleed ged, I geeked myself. Thought that was a word. It's weird. That reminds me of, um, like glee geeks. Yeah. Mm-Hmm. Yeah. Oh, gleek. I was a gleek. Yeah. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I loved that show. I loved Glee. No, the only thing that kids did was that. This thingy. Yeah, I still don't know how they did that. It was only the boys that could do that. Or the thing where they would like Nick can do that. That's annoying. And they would make little water droplet sounds their, you ever have their kids who like their teeth? I was gonna say that. I was saying, my gosh. Oh yeah. We're all, I could name all of the kids literally class. This kid did this, this kid did this, this in class last week. I had some kid do that and I was just like, get away. Can everybody do that? No, I can't. No. Um, actually yes, you can't. So sometimes like in the er, um, we have to flip your eyelid to like, if you have a corneal abrasion. So like, if you have something stuck in your eye and we have to look for it, you can, you can flip anybody's eyelids because we have to do it, but I don't wanna do that. Yeah. Oh, thanks. How, how does one kid do that? You know what I mean? Like how does someone just like, I'm that out one day. Yeah. They just like are experimenting with their body parts. Ew. This reminds me of an episode of, I was just watching Tik Tok last night. And there's this episode of, maybe I shouldn't say this. We can cut this, but basement yard, they were talking about like, gosh, what were they talking about? I forget something about touching their wieners or something. And the one was like, no, I don't remember doing that, but I do remember opening my pee hole. And it was just, sorry, I'm sorry, it was just funny. People do that. Yeah. Yeah. Cause, okay. We, we know anatomy. We don't need to talk about it too much. We can delete that part, but I just thought it was so funny. And cut. Oh, it was so funny. I'm sorry. Boys are gross. Boys are gross. Yeah. Sorry. Definitely agree to that. It was just so funny. It was just so funny. I could just imagine one of my kids sitting there and doing that. Oh, I'm so happy. I have girls like, don't gimme girls. Do gross stuff too. Gimme a few years. Yeah, give a few years. Yeah. Girls are gross too. They're already arguing. Don't pretend like they're not. Gosh. Yeah, it's terrible. Yeah. Well I say that, but I don't know. Little boys gimme anxiety. Why? My girls, they have all boy cousins. Those things, they jump off of anything. Quite month. Anything. I'm the aunt. I'm like sit down. No, you can't eat chalk. No, you can't drink bubbles. No, but they also always come to me for things. I'm like, go get your mom. I'm trying to get my kids food. Go get your mom. That's my sister in law's. My kids will always go to them because they just give them whatever they want. Any more questions? No, but I had something. Oh, did you have more? Okay. I had something that I wanted to bring up unless we wanted to save it for a different episode. No, I think we've got time. Okay. I'm really annoyed about something specifically, and maybe I should have put this in my pet peeves thing, but when health food companies or like health companies sell out, This happened with Braggs. There's tons of other companies that have done it too. But just in my mind recently was Braggs, Katie Perry, what's his name? Orlando Bloom. They're like investment group bought out Braggs, um, apple cider vinegar. And I know that they had, I don't think they have done it, but they've been in talks before of using the APL, um, apples, which is, uh, what's his name? Bill Gates apples. So they're just like fake apples. Um, and then recently Siete was bought out. So we grew, when my kids were growing up, they had really severe like food allergies that caused a lot of stuff. And so we were very careful about being gluten free, dairy free, whatever. And these chips were so clean. Like they were just so clean. And now they've been bought out. And I worry because every time that a health food company gets bought out, they always change and they get less healthy. They get so gross. Like the quality goes down. So I'm just annoyed. I'm so annoyed. It's annoying how healthy being clean and eating clean is so expensive. It's so expensive. It's crazy. It is. Yeah. But now they're not even going to be as clean. They're going to be gross. I'm sad about it. Especially healthy stuff that actually tastes good. Yeah. That's weird. And the recipe will change and yeah. Why would Katy Perry buy this? I don't know. No, no, no. She didn't, she didn't buy the chip brand. She bought, um, apple cider vinegar, but it's with the mother. They were just like a really clean brand and they were like a small business brand and then they got bought out. Happens every time. Nestle buys people out. Um, Procter and Gamble. It's like Nestle and Johnson and Johnson. Yep. They are like the biggest. There's like four or five companies and some of them are more like investor groups, like this Katy Perry thing. So it's like a group of rich people who all go in together and like buy things. So like, you can look up like their, I forget what it's called, but it's like a wheel of all the companies that have been bought out and they're in their pie slice, they have all these small businesses, these small companies that this big investor group or this big Nestle or whoever has bought. So like garden of life, they used to be a really good vitamin brand. How do you find out that these things get bought out? Because I don't pay attention to anything. I frequently will hear it from other people who also use these brands. So like, nutrition groups that I'm in or like health food stuff that I'm follow, especially with people who have like food allergies. Yeah. My mom has to pretty closely follow when she's on her iodine free diet before her scans or whatever. Um, she has to pretty closely follow, like which company uses iodized salt in their food and which companies don't. And she has got like a list. The lid diet is what it's called. Low iodine diet. Yeah. It's really annoying. Yeah. I suppose if you have to pay attention to that, then it makes a big difference. Sometimes they also make it difficult. Yeah. So like, and I know that there are laws about listing ingredients and stuff like that, but even just like listing things like natural flavors and stuff like that, it's kind of a workaround when like, it'd be nice if it was just listed exactly what it is. And I don't know, you just find the whole thing very annoying. Why? Because or. anywhere else that does clean eating or like Italy. I've heard Italy is really good. If you go to eat their pasta, you won't have as many issues. Yeah. Like some people lose weight while on vacation. I saw that somebody moved to, um, it must've been Italy and they ate pasta like almost every single day and lost weight, but they didn't have gut problems. They didn't have like all the other problems, like none of that. Yeah. It's because all of our food is garbage. Which is crazy. Like if you look at the ingredients list between, I think it's like even Cheetos, like some sodas and things like that between here and like the uk Vastly different. Hmm. They have outlaws, subway was banned in country outlawed. So many things talked of like our crush, Umhmm they sent our crush to a different country. I don't remember where. And they like looked at it, like, why is it orange? Yeah. We specifically color ours to be that shade when like in the UK, it's like a yellowy color because it's naturally colored with oranges or whatever. Frickin stuff's in there. That's wild. And I'll watch, like, I always watch people who make food like on TikTok. Cause like, I'm like, Oh, that looks good. I'll make it. And someone commented, I'm from Norway and why do you people eat S outta can so much like she was using a can of chicken, a can of blah, blah blah. Like just, he's like, all your stuff is all canned and boxed, and I'm like. Oh God. Like, yeah, no, it is. Yeah. Like every time that I'm looking up something, like I was looking at roast recipes or something and I have a pork roast or something like that. And they're all like French onion soup or this other aju packet or like this ranch packet. And I was like, Oh my God, I don't have any of that. I don't buy that stuff. I don't have any of that stuff. So like, I can't even make, I Unless I make my own, like, ranch powder recipe, like, I don't know. Be like that Nara Smith. My husband wanted a piece of gum, and we didn't have gum. So I just made it. Ballerina Farm. We ran out of hair gel. So I went out to my garden and I got my aloe vera planned. Yeah. I made homemade cereal. Oh my gosh. And she did, she makes homemade, um, what are those crackers? She made a homemade gum, these crackers that are the fish, goldfish, goldfish, homemade Ritz. Yep. And I'm just like, oh my god. Cream. And she always close. I mean, she does it to make fun of. I think it's satire. To the point it's gotta be satire. I don't think the outfits just get crazier and crazier. I don't think it is. The last one, she was wearing like a ball gown. I think to some degree it maybe is, but she does do that. The shoulders were like way out here and I'm like zero. Yeah, I think she's just playing into the comments now. Probably, I'm sure, yeah. She's rage baiting. Did you ever see the Ballerina Farms whole controversy and stuff? She wants to go on that vacation to Greece and he got her a fricking egg apron. Man. Yeah. And they've got like 25, 000 kids. So many kids. And she makes, I mean, he's a billionaire. She's making everything homemade and everything. But I know, but then I saw that like she did an interview and she was talking about how she does all the homemade stuff. And then like, She'll go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go. And then she'll have to spend like two or three days in bed with like migraines and like severe body pain. And because she's like, I just exhaust myself. And then there's like two or three days where I can't function. I'm like, girl, for what? Cause she's like, no, but like, what's the point? I mean, if you can't function for two to three days, how productive are you really? Like, cause then you lose all that productivity within that amount of time. And then what do you, what does your family do to like eat if you're making everything homemade during that time? Yeah. I bet they have like a secret stash of Tysons. I bet they secretly go to Pizza Hut. Well great, I'm like, you've got 20, 000 people. It's not like you've got a butt ton of leftovers. Yeah. No kidding. I used to feel guilty watching her and Nara. I'm like, man, they're like clean eating. Well because when I was home I was like, what else do I ever going to have to do except cook all the time? But I'm like, I'm tired and I want to have stuff for myself too. Well then I'll make all this food and then we'll just take like two bites. And then I just want crackers and I'm like, Oh, stop. Yup. Gotta eat more. Which then I'm like, now I need to buy the healthiest crackers that I can possibly find. Otherwise I'm going to be even more guilty. And it's like the smallest box and it costs 8. And I was like, I know, they get like 12 crackers in there. I'm like, guys. They're like, oh, good old goldfish, rainbow. But they don't have, uh, the goldfish ones didn't have art, red 40 or anything in it. But they've got all their long words, so, but. Yeah. I don't look at any of them. Oh, for you. Ever. Don't put that stress on me. Cause I was, um, even like, uh, Pediasure, or like, uh, the Pedialyte. You know, they're like, why would you even like have your kids drink this? It's got red D40 in it when it's supposed to help the kids. And I'm like, again, you can make your own at home. It's like, actually, I've looked up recipes. It's actually pretty simple. It's pretty simple. Making your own Pedialyte. Yeah. It's pretty simple. Really? Yeah. I have a fun fact. Won't taste as good, but you could put other stuff in it to make it taste better because it's pretty simple. Speaking of Pedialyte, we are stocking Gatorade zero in the emergency department now, because you know how you feel sick, you go to the IV fluids. There's a national fluid shortage because the hurricane hit a plant that makes the most 60 percent of the United States is sodium chloride. Wow. So, we are on, like, way, way low rations. So if someone comes to the emergency department, like, vomiting, diarrhea, like, we have to try giving them Gatorade to see if they can tolerate it first before we give them a bag of IV fluids. That's crazy. Yeah. Why even have the plants down there? Makes no sense to me. I think it was North Carolina. Although, to be fair, here we have tornadoes on the west coast. North Carolinians don't usually get hit with hurricane, but they have like the offshoot storms, right? Yeah. Yeah. I don't even know where North Carolina is. So don't get a stomach bug and go to the emergency department. It's like kind of in between like Florida and like Rhode Island area. It's still a coast coastal state, but it's like in between it's like middle coast. Yeah. Okay. We could Google that just to make sure, but I'm pretty sure. Well, this is why I like when I'm sick, I just, you know, just give me some seven up salting crackers and judge Judy and I'll be fine. Like in my head, that's what cures me. But then my husband's like, you need antibiotics. Yeah. Well he grew up in his mom, took him to the ER for like everything. Everything. Yeah. We were the opposite. My grandma was a nurse. At the nursing home. Mm-Hmm. So my parents would take her to her first, and if she's like, oh yeah, just, you know, I can do it. I can fix it up. Or like, no, you need to go to the er because I can't, it's outta my control. So yeah, I've just, in my head, we never went to the doctor as kids. No. Like it took me, gosh, I was. Went 22 when I finally got diagnosed with asthma. So I went 22 years without, you know, did I almost die a few times? I think, yes, but I eventually think of all the bills I've saved. My mom saved so much money, just letting me suffer at home. I'm sorry, mom. Oh, shoot. Yeah. So Nick is good. Cutting that old habit of mine. No, I'm fine. Just let me Only judy can judge me You do have to wait it out sometimes sometimes you do because calvin doesn't understand that either when he sometimes he'll be like Will you just go take the kids for this and i'm like babe, they're gonna tell me that it's a whatever it is. That's yeah. It's, and I'm like, they're going to be like, you can take antibiotics, but they're not going to do anything. And I'll be like, okay, then I guess we'll just go home. And now we wasted our money on a visit that didn't matter. That's what they're going to tell me. So unless I for sure know that they have an ear infection. Or that like they need antibiotics for this chest issue. Like we're not gonna go, that'd be wonderful if they had a, just a machine where you can just scan your body and like, seriously, you have the flu and you need this. Or like, um, car chargers, you know, or you know, when you take your car to the mechanic and they like hook up the little thing and it's like, it's this code, this code, this code, this code. I wish people were like, that truth just plug'em in. This and this. You need truth. Yeah, that'd be awesome. So get on it. Somebody. Wow. We have made a long episode. If you're still listening, thank you. Well, there is a couple of places we can, we can cut some stuff. So this is going to have to listen to this one all the way through to make sure we get that one part. Exactly. Yes. Oh my gosh. Sorry. I just, I had to say it. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I just had to. That's funny. It was there in my brain. Anyways. Okay. Sorry. Goodbye. Oh, this has been Melissa, Hannah, and Sarah, and Danasia. Okay. Bye.