75: Another Reddit Episode - Am I the Asshole? + Teen Mom Drama

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Hello, we're on. This is Hannah and Glisa. I already forgot that we were recording. Sorry. I know I already forgot that. There's a camera there. Hello. This is maybe our second filming or third. This way. This way. Fourth this way. Oh yeah. So we're, we're just, uh, just be patient with us. We're getting there. Some of'em, like the battery dies halfway through, so like half of it's live and half of it's not. Mm-hmm. You know, so, but for our listeners, our Spotify listeners, apple Music listeners, whatever it is, apple Podcasts. Apple Podcasts, we're always on. Yeah. Yes. Courtesy of Buzz Sprout. Thank you. You can find our voices everywhere. You can find our faces. Some places not rhymed. Yeah, it did. That's impressive. I like it. Merch idea. Yeah. Nice. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Anyway, so, uh, we're, um, we just got done with an episode and if you're tuning back from this, like a short Yeah. This was, it was like a fun little short with my husband. Um, so now we're gonna carry on the, you know, the rest of the episode. Yeah. Have thoughts. Yeah. Continued, yeah. Continued cliffhanger. Yeah. So this is brought up from a follower who, Danielle, shout out. She's been listening to our old podcast episodes. She's been catching up. Yep. She's been catching up. And, uh, she really liked our Reddit episode. Mm-hmm. So we were all like, oh my gosh, we haven't done a Reddit episode in a while. I completely forgot that we even talked about the Reddit thing. Mm-hmm. Completely forgot. So we appreciate, um, her listening to. The older podcasts. Mm-hmm. And commenting on the older posts. And, um, so we are doing another Reddit episode. Yes. And we're all gonna take turns reading. Are we all gonna do, am I the asshole? I think, I think I have a variety. Mine are true off my chest. Yeah. I was just scrolling through this morning and yeah, find a couple and mine have questions that kind of go with it, I think. Yeah. So we're gonna read a post and then kind of discuss what we think about Yeah. What was said. Yeah. All right. Okay. And Sarah wants to go first. Okay. So our last, our like little mini episode was about tariffs. Then we got onto like marriage and stuff. Okay. So this is kind of a marriage one a little bit. And I'm just curious what your guys' thoughts are. So this is an update to a post actually,'cause I couldn't find the actual post, but it was something that was posted a couple days ago and it's update to the y to yesterday's post about the scandalous wife who didn't wear a bra herself. My husband posted yesterday on this sub about a house guest we were hosting his friend Jeff. Whose wife did not appreciate that. I have at times not worn a bra around our apartment. She learned this by seeing a photo Jeff sent of all of us hanging out at home. My husband deleted the post. There was a lot of identifying details, but I really appreciated the discussion and advice I wanted to update folks. Oh, that's why I couldn't find it. I wanted to update folks that I had a conversation with his wife this morning, Jen. She told me some things that had become an issue in their marriage and things about Jeff as a result. We have asked Jeff to move out by tonight. I wish I could say more, but based on responses yesterday, I thought folks might want an update. So I did not remember reading that part about Jeff having some issues. But I was curious about your guys', um, like thoughts about that. About because like I be at home without a bra sometimes and sometimes when people are there, I guess like it depends like did they just pop up and be like, Hey, like unannounced. Because we come out unannounced at my place. I might be missing some pants or a bra. I know, like, yeah, I'm half naked sometimes at home. Like sometimes. Yeah. Where, where, I'm curious what the line is, like, how do you feel about like, walking around with no bra and like your husband's friends there? No, no, no. Not with my friend. I mean, not with no one, not with Nick's friend there and stuff. Okay. Nobody, not even, uh, not even my mother. But, um, yeah, I guess it, it depends on the situation. If it was like unannounced, like, hey, we're just popping in. Yeah. Or if it was like kind of set in stone, like, yeah, we're gonna throw you a party, come to our place, blah, blah, blah, blah. And then they roll up and you're just like half naked. Yeah. Like, Hey, I'm here, uh, out there. So that the girl that wore no bra is having issues with her husband? No, it's her husband's friend, Jeff that was over, is having a marriage issue. And it seems like maybe it's like some, does it have to do with her not wearing a bra? I don't, I think that it's kind of where the links too, think she maybe was having some problems, like personally, like with Instagram or with, like that kind of thing. And maybe that just like triggered the wife, this Jeff's wife, because she saw that the wife, the, the like husband, this lady didn't have a bra in the pictures. I do not worry at all about my husband on social media because he doesn't have social media. I know, yeah, it's true. But like there's a lot of, it's very, there's a lot on the internet. Okay. Yeah. Like there's a lot of opportunity to slide into someone's dms. People are in bikinis. Mm-hmm. Like if you're, you. Like I was talking with a friend of mine and our coworker, and he's like, all of my TikTok is, uh, pretty girls dancing. Literally. Yeah. And it's like mm-hmm. That could be the feed that my husband is looking at. And I just am glad that he's not. Mm-hmm. Because I think that could be a real issue. So then how much control do you think someone has over, like, what you do in your home? So like if, okay, if this was you and Craig and you're the one at home not wearing a bra Yep. And Craig's friend is the one who has an issue and then comes to stay with you guys and this friend's wife sees a photo of you guys and you're not wearing a bra, like how much control do you think that has over like what you do in your own home? I just think this is such a bizarre scenario. It really is so bizarre. Yeah. But then this is like kind of what, and like how do you focus? Like you see a group picture, how do you be like, oh my god, nipples. She's not wearing a bra nipple. She's in the photo with her husband. Right, right. Yeah. And they're in their own home. Yeah. So then it's kinda like, um, it's insecurity from the Yeah, yeah, definitely. So then do you care as a friend, do you be like, oh, I'm so sorry that's happening, but like, this is my house and I'm gonna continue to not wear a bra. You know what I mean? Like what, how do you handle that? I don't know. That is so weird. I would never reach out. I would never take a picture of me braless that I would post. This is the new normal though, I think, but then it's, um, insecurities from the wife. I mean, it looks like it's been going on for a while probably with whatever the friends issues are. Yes. And then this just happened to like, Hey, I thought we were friends. And you wear that or wear nothing. Yeah. And take a photo so it, it could be in my husband's phone forever. Yeah. So, well, I'm president of the itty bitty Titty committee and, uh, we go Braless quite often. Mm-hmm. Because we can lucky and nobody notices because there's like, if there's like somewhat of a built-in bra in a tank top, like that's enough, like for me. Jealous. Yeah. Yeah. I'm not, so it depends on, and you know, was she exactly nipping out? Was she low, super low cut was like something hanging out, you know what I mean? There's just so much context. Well, there's, see, I don't know. I missed the, and it, apparently it was deleted, so Yeah. Not even, that's why I couldn't find it. But yeah, so it depends. Yeah. Was it a calissa or was it a I but I just, Pamela Anderson situation, I thought this was interesting because I feel like this kind of scenario I feel like is gonna be like the new normal mm-hmm. Because of how, how crazy the internet is. Mm-hmm. And I just think it's weird. And I'm also glad that someone doesn't go and post our marriage problems on Reddit too. Yeah, yeah, that's true. But then it's um, what's it, everyone don't live like the Johnsons or something, or like, not everything. Oh, keeping up with the Jones. Yeah. Yes. I think everyone wants that. Mm-hmm. So they perceive that on in, you know mm-hmm. Social media. And it's not that, and I have, but again, that's more of a social media issue. We can go back to social media. It becomes like, oh wow, look at them. They just bought a new car. Like, must be nice. Yeah. And then I, you know, it's, it's that green-eyed monster mm-hmm. That's behind every, that's on everyone's shoulders. Like, Hmm, I'm jealous. And like, it's just making me mad because I'm not there yet. Yeah. Mm-hmm. So I think it's, I think it's just a human thing. Yeah. We all want what someone else has, but we really don't know what's going on underneath. Yeah. Underneath it all. Interesting. Unless you're me and I find out everything that's true and I'm like, oh, they're totally lying. There's so much like blah, blah, blah. Yeah. That's funny. That's true. She do be known everything. Okay. That was, that was a good one. Yeah. Um, let's see. Uh, this is kind of interesting one. It's a long one. It's a long one. It's, it's a little long. Uh, not too bad. I'm up for it. Okay. Okay. Am I the asshole for going on a second date with the girl? My friend set me up as, set me up with, as a prank. I 28 male am a medical resident, so I barely have time to sleep, let alone date. My friends also in med school have been pushing me to go out more, insisting that I need a break from the grind. A few weeks ago, they set me up on a blind date. They wouldn't stop talking about how perfect this girl was for me. So I thought, why not? I met Emily, 26 female, that's a fake name at the restaurant, and right away I could tell she wasn't what my friends probably expected me to go for. Emily is not super skinny. In fact, she's a little chubby, but honestly, I thought she was really cute. So she had this amazing smile and the way she left just made me wanna keep the conversation going. She's studying geology and was so passionate about her work, talking about volcanic rock transformation, rough transformations, boring formation, boring. Like it was the coolest thing ever. And by the end of the night, I agreed it was a lot more fun to talk about than cadavers. The best part was how comfortable the date felt. We both found out we're autistic, both late diagnosed, and we mask a lot, meaning we're used to putting on a social act to fit in, but with each other. It felt like we didn't have to pretend so much, and it made the whole evening feel super easy. It wasn't like most dates where you're constantly trying to impress the other person. We just clicked physically. Emily wasn't the type my friends thought I'd be into, but I didn't care at all. She's sweet, funny, and I had an amazing time with her. By the end of the night, we exchanged numbers and we've been texting pretty regularly ever since. Aw. A few days later though, I got a really sad message from Emily. Turns out my friends told her that they set us up as a prank, that they set me up with her because they thought she wasn't my type and they picked her specifically because she's chubby and not at all what they'd call conventionally attractive. Wow. Thinking it would be funny to see how I'd react. Emily was obviously hurt in texting me, apologizing if she wasn't what I expected. She said she understood if I didn't want to talk to her anymore, she was wrong. She, I think she's beautiful body and spirit, to be honest. She's my new type. I was furious when I found out what my friends had done. I immediately apologized to Emily telling her my friends are idiots and that I genuinely enjoyed our date. I reassured her. I wasn't texting her out of pity and that I thought she was awesome. After we talked it out, I asked her if she'd like to go on another date, just the two of us with no pranks or games. This time she said yes. Now my friends are pissed at me saying I ruined the joke and that I'm being weird. By asking her out again, they're acting like the whole thing was just harmless fun, and they can't believe I'm going on a second date with someone who, to them was supposed to be the punchline. They even joke that I'm only doing it because I feel bad, but that's not it at all. I actually like Emily. I'm looking forward to seeing her again, and I don't see why I should let their prank dictate how I feel. So now I'm getting all this backlash and my friends think I'm the asshole for continuing to see her. I'm just so confused. They keep saying it's my autism and that I just don't get it. Am I the asshole? Drop your friends, keep Emily, cut your friends. Literally, they've got literally never talked to them again. Little man syndrome. Yeah. Seriously. Like that is very high school. Yeah. And like, first of all, who thinks that that's funny. I don't know. To like, put someone on a date that they think isn't gonna go well. I don't know. I read it and I was just like, wow. That is, wow. How, how old were these people again? How would you say they were? She was 26. So they're like full adults. Mm-hmm. Their brains have developed and they still think That's funny. Don't be like them. Yeah. People don't be like them. That is tragic. Yeah. I feel bad for her because they're, his friends are psychotic. Okay. So there's that, uh, TikTok couple. Well, they're kind of, um, they're like social media famous. And because the wife is overweight ish and the husband is built like a supermodel, like he looks like a supermodel, like he's beefed up abs chi, I mean like nice beer. Like he's groomed cut and the wife is just pretty, but everyone was just like, um, that. Like, what's up with this marriage? But like, he's so hot. Mm-hmm. He should be with someone who's as hot as him, and I think they're high school sweethearts. Yeah. And she's always been that weight. Always. Mm-hmm. And he's just kind, you know, he's been to the gym, you know, goes to the gym and everything, and everyone's just like, this is such a weird couple. Like, he shouldn't be with her. And so I think that's, they mostly got hate for a long time, but they're like, no, we love each other. He loves me for me and my personality. Um, and I think, yeah, they're so strong and all these sponsors and all these trips and everything, and they're just living their life. They're having a great time. Yeah. Like, why are people so concerned about like, but they're just, they're just mad that like, but why? I don't, why are the inter, why is the internet so concerned about like, the attraction level of like a couple? Yeah. Like how does that affect literally anyone else? Yeah. Like, I just don't care really get it. Social media is so weird. It is. Ugh, yuck. Although, um, so Jenna Kutcher, I've talked about her before and how I, Ashton Kutcher's sister? Nope. Oh, not even a little bit. Um, just, she's like one of those gurus. She can't think your way out of anything and I like, can't stand her. Okay. But she calls her husband Mr. Sixpack all the time, and like her entire personality is like, her husband is hot. Wait, what's her name? That's annoying. Jenna Kutcher. But now she lost a bunch of weight, so she's, she's not one of those fitness people. Okay. Oh, I love her. Yeah. She, she's really fun to follow on social media. Yes. She's really funny. She's, I mean, she seems like a really good person. Forget what her name is, April or something? No, O Oh, Alicia. Alicia. Yep. McCarville, yes. So that's her husband and that's her. And, uh, they were just, uh, everyone just hated that they were together and they're like, uh. I don't even know some of the ignorant comments that they said, but they're still proving them wrong. They're like, Nope, we love each other. Always will. Yeah. Have you talked about this Jenna Kutcher before? Yes. Okay.'cause I'm like, I'm looking at her pictures right now. I see. I, she blocked me and she so blocked. She did. I can't find her. We definitely, yeah, I've talked about her before because I think I looked her up on Instagram. Yeah. And, um, now i's Googling her and she's super, she's super skinny now. She Oh. Um, I found, okay. Online business coach, that's influencer couple Alicia, I think it's Alicia MCC CarVal. Mm-hmm. Um, these are all the ignorant things that she posted that some people said, why her husband's with her. One person says, you gotta have money, or you're blackmailing him with something. Okay. Okay. He could do so much better. Never understand why a king settles for a tub of lard. Oh, that is so mean. Oh my God. Your husband. How come both of y'all are so different? Okay. Like do they, do they want them to look exactly the same? I don't know. I don't know what I think if she, what does the internet want? Yeah. Does he want her fat or does she want him her skinny? Like, yeah. Uh, bro could do so much better. Why is he with her? How much do you rent him for? Bro was trying to secure a life insurance payout. He could do so much better. Why did he decide to marry you Bro's. Doing charity work. That's the number one reason I don't wanna be an influencer, is because I could not take comments like that. That would go straight to my heart. That's what I said when we started this. I'm like. Once we get to video, hello people, if you ever tell me that I'm fat, it's like, hello. I already know, like I have eyes and I own mirrors. Like you don't need to tell me like mm-hmm. Zip it online people, but just to be like carrying all like, there's so much more. Yeah. And she, I mean I, you know what's crazy though too is she posts Vic, um, videos of them like working out together. Yeah. Like she can lift and stuff. So I, I think, um, it's not like, she's not like lifting it, it, yeah. No. Like she, she is active probably way more buff than I am. I cannot lift anything. Oh yeah. I saw her weight lifting. I'm like, dang, girl can get it. Yeah. But um, yeah, I know they trained together. Yep. But, uh, they just happy in love and deal with these kind of comments every single day. It's kind of crazy. But no, they just, uh, let, I'm sure the comments did get to her at one point, but they just kinda learned to just. Yep. I think probably because at, at one point like that became part of their platform. Yeah. Was like, and I think that's a, you get so much hate. What?'cause when I first started TikTok, that was one of the first videos I saw. Yeah. And they were just doing like the musically audios. Mm-hmm. Like they were just dancing and Sure. I was like, oh, are they married or the boyfriend girlfriend, what's going on? And then I'd read the comments and it was stuff like that. Yeah. I'm like, oh, interesting. Yep. I bet they get it all the time. All the time. Oh yeah. I just, you can't get away from it. I just, ugh. No, and they're happy in love. Good. But it's just, it's crazy that like, people would think that way and like feel the need to say it. It's just so weird. Yeah. Yeah. Very weird. Do you guys, I saw, um, on the poll that we did about burner accounts, like we forgot a lot of followers with burner accounts. What the heck. I didn't even What, so what do you use your burner account for? Yeah. People Now I wanna know. Yeah. People forgot you were there again. Yeah. People like, what are you guys doing? Are you leaving these nasty comments? I hope not. It better not be you. I don't know. Yeah. Is it, do you have a burner account? Mm-hmm. Oh my God. What do you do with it when someone's mean to my husband? I'm mean to them back. Hannah. That's terrible. No, it's not. He's an adult. He can defend himself. I can defend him. You're so funny. Okay. I love it. Okay. If I was in your situation, I would definitely have a burner account and I would definitely, but I wouldn't just like, leave mean comments just to leave mean comments. Uh, like I think that's what some people use their burner accounts for. Oh yeah. Or, um, I think they're strong behind the screen stalking. Like, let's say you're mean to someone and that person blocks your account, you're like, oh crap. Yes. Now I can't, now I have to create this account. Yeah. But if they're not a public profile, you have to ask to follow them. Then you have to like see if they can, you know what I mean? I don't know. I can't remember what I, I did leave a me, I didn't leave a mean comment, but I left a comment on Jenna Kutcher something about how, I can't even remember what it was. Yeah. But it was something controversial that was going on. And I'm like, why aren't you addressing this? Because like, and then she blocked you and then she blocked me. So we've definitely discussed this before.'cause I remember having this conversation and I go back to one of our first, first episodes and it clearly still bothers me. I follow her, um, snark page on Reddit. So there, take that John. I, my gosh. Oh my goodness. I left a Snar comment on Kaylin Lowry Teen mom two. You did? Mm-hmm. Is that the one with the daughter who's trying to get adopted? No, this is the one with like eight kids. Yeah. She has her own podcast. Baby mama. No drama. Oh, she's the one And her, um, husband Tyler is like trying to get divorced. No, that's Caitlyn and Tyler. I'm sorry, did you not literally just say Caitlyn? No, I said Kaylyn. Calin and Calin. Caitlin and Tyler are getting divorced? No, no, no, no. Yes. Caly? I think so. No, no, they're not. Yes, yes. He like left her, he had a girlfriend and he was like moving out girlfriend or boyfriend. Oh, okay. Whatever. Oh, whatever. I'm pretty sure he's getting divorced. I follow all these teen mom update. Sure. Or just teen mom updates. And there allegedly, there's a rumor that Tyler is gay guys. I've literally never even seen this show. This is just stuff that I randomly, like clips I saw on TikTok. Mm-hmm. And then that, so he was having this affair with the guy and then when, allegedly, allegedly. And then when teen Mom too was like, Hey, we wanna start rolling the cameras again. He had to leave him, go back to Kaitlyn and continue on their same storyline of Carley. But then they had like more kids. After that, right? Yeah. They have like two other kids, I think. Yeah. Three, I think. Yeah. But they, um, they're just kind of fixated on the daughter that they gave out for adoption and that storyline, I mean. Yeah. Huh. I mean that's what made them famous, so. Yeah. But like it's, um, it's gotten to the point where, uh, is it Brandon and Theresa? Brandon and Theresa, yeah. They just like, kind of put a, like, not a, what's it called when there's someone stalking you and you had to put like a restraining training order, order no contact. Yeah. Yeah. Because they were just getting way too crazy and they were like, we need to see Carly, like, they thought they had rights over Wow. Their daughter that. They gave up for adoption and Brandon Theresa's, like we were okay with open visitation, but now you guys are taking this way too far and now there's no visitation. Yeah. And they're pissed. Yeah. Because they wanna see Carly and everyone in the other is like, uh, you're ruining your relationship with Carly. Yeah. Because that's her mom and dad and you guys are trashing them. Mm-hmm. And it's, you know, it's affecting her. Wow. So it's a whole thing. Wow. Is that, no, but Kaylin, I made a, a Smartt comment on her Instagram.'cause this was in 20 15, 20 16 era, everyone was wearing waste trainers. Mm-hmm. And I was like, what is a waist trainer? And I remember Chloe Kardashian, she posted her skinny little body and she's like, waist trainer. And I'm like, what's that mean? Like, did you get a trainer to focus on your waist? And I asked Nick about it, and he's like, no, they're wearing corset to make them smaller. And I was like, I want that. I wanna be small. And he's like, no, it's gonna crush your ribs. Like it's not good. And he's like, don't you remember the women in the 18 hundreds that had to wear corset and yank those things? Yeah. Yeah. They like ruined their ribs. And I was like. So, you know, I didn't care. And he's like, no, just go to the gym and watch what you eat. And I'm like, no, I wanna, you know, this is when like stuff was coming out, like, be snatched. This will be, this will make you skinny. This will make your lips bigger. This will Oh, and peak MLM. Yeah. And I was like, I want that. He's like, no, it's really unhealthy. And Kaylin Lowry posted my waste trainer and she's like, posing. And I just left a comment. I was like, Hey, just go to the gym. You're ruining your body. Everything Nick said to me, I said to her, and you know, I'm just, she gets thousands of comments. I didn't think she'd see mine. She did. Oh my gosh. She blocked you. She didn't block me. She just like, I do go to the gym. I do watch what I eat. This is to help me and push my, you know, push it even more. And, you know, that's, she left, she responded back to me. Oh gosh, my gosh. I was like, oh, I didn't think you'd see it. But no, I, she is definitely, if she sees a hey comment, she will respond. Yeah. That's a lot. That's a full-time job. She is a mama bear. Not that I've said anything about her kids. She's with the dark, reddish hair. No. Okay. Dang. That's Farrah. It's Kaylyn. No, not her. Oh. Mm-hmm. You're thinking Macy, maybe she's Oh, or uh, you could be cha thinking Chelsea. Oh, that's not who I was thinking of. No. Okay. You have Kaylyn. I, I mean she has a ton of kids. Boy, mom, extreme. And I think she finally got her girl, she finally got her girl after her ninth kid. Yeah. What, how does she not have like a uterine prolapse? I don't know. I dunno. So many. I don't know so many kids. But then she like shoots herself in the foot a little bit when she says stuff like, it's so expensive. Take my kids to Chick-fil-A because you had 80 of'em. And people were like, yeah, like, go to McDonald's where you can get a dollar cheeseburger. No, no, no. Like, not only that, but like. She makes so much money. Yeah. She's like so out of touch. Very out of touch. And then what does she do that makes so much money? She podcast teen mom, teen. She uh, she does a lot of podcasting. She had, which is, I think this is hilarious. She had a podcast with her second son's current stepmom, wasn't it? Her first son, v Isaac. So Kailyn had a baby with Joe, their divorce. And they had a son, Isaac, Joe got with this girl. V, yes. There you go. Yes. And for a while. And teen mom, early teen mom, they just like, they butted heads, they hated each other. And then all of a sudden they got back together and then they, and there's a podcast called Baby Mama, no Drama. And they were talking about like how Kailyn's the mom. And she loves vie as a stepmom. She's a great stepmom, adores her. And then there was some drama. Something happened. Yeah. Do you know what? No. Santa Knows. Allegedly. Knows. Allegedly. Allegedly. Um, Isaac, everyone can see the rainbow colors on him. Kind of obvious that he's allegedly gay. Well, he went to prom with a boy, boy. So everyone's like, yeah. We're not surprised. Yeah. Um, and everyone thinks that Joe, his dad, has a real problem with him being out and open, and v is with her husband and she thinks the same way. And this is what people are saying. And I'm kind of agreeing that Kaylyn, she's like, I love my kids. They're gonna be whoever they wanna be, and I'm gonna love'em and, you know, be proud of whoever they are. Mm-hmm. And Joe and VI are like, no, you're like feeding into it. So I think that's what kind of like made some drama broke relationship. Yeah. So they canceled the podcast. They just, there was no words said like, Nope, we just split. Yep. But I think it's has something to do with Isaac. Isaac. Interesting. Mm-hmm. That's too bad. That's a lot of stress for a kid. Think about Yeah, for sure. How he would feel. Yeah. Like, I mean, his whole life has been public. Mm-hmm. It's been, um, tv it, teen moms should have been what they wanted to be kind of like a a hmm. Like a warning. Like, Hey guys, you know, if you have sex, there's consequences. Mm-hmm. And you could have a child and then they were, and child children are great, but like, look at all these also really hard things that come from that. And in the beginning of Teen Mom, it showed their struggles. Yeah. It showed Kailyn and her stressful relationship with her mom. It showed Janelle. And how she just wanted to be a teen. She didn't want to grow up and go to Kesha concert. Yeah. She wanted to go to Kesha and her mom's like, you need to stay home and you're so hot, Wes. Yeah. Well, Janelle, I just love it. And that's such a hilarious comment. Oh my God. But then the MTV money started rolling in and all of a sudden they were, they started becoming outta touch. Mm-hmm. It, it wasn't focused on kids, it was focused on like visitation rights and court orders and going to Kesha or not getting the card that they wanted. I'm just like, this isn't like relatable. This isn't relatable at all. If anything, it's more like trash tv. Mm-hmm. And everybody loves trash tv. We wanna be fixated on someone and hate on'em and judge their parenting. Interesting. And then it just became like, not what MTV like thought it would be. Yeah. So now it's awful of drama. And baby mama's with drama. Yep. It's funny watching their kids kinda You don't keep up with any teen mom that's never watched. Oh my gosh. I am. I didn't either till I went to college. Yeah.'cause my roommate was obsessed with Chelsea Debo. It was Chelsea Huka. Huska. Yeah. And she just lives in Nebraska. Mm-hmm. Like, she's not very far away, but yeah. Bara was from Sioux City. Yep. Iowa. Mm-hmm. And um, everybody wanted Chelsea style, especially my roommate. Like she dressed like her, got her hair, like, watched her Instagram and tried to get outfits. That was like Chelsea. And I'm like, girl, you're a little obsessed. Yeah. But she got me hooked on Teen Mom and the Kardashians and knowing more about music. Like, she got me like fixated on all that stuff and now I can't get out. Now you're stuck. I'm stuck. That's funny. Yeah. But that's, yeah. Crazy. Well, do you have a Red Story story? Okay, so I saw this one. I just kind of skimmed it a little bit because I felt like it was kind of like, because we all lost our fathers. So this is kind of something about that. Um, the caption is, am I the asshole for refusing to allow my sister to wear our late mother's jewelry using a throwaway because my family uses Reddit. Um, I 23 female and my sister Abby 20, have always had a bumpy relationship through our childhood. After our mother's death two years ago, we've grown a little bit closer. My mom didn't leave a will, but our dad gave me jewelry because I wear jewelry every day and have always loved jewelry, especially our mother's jewelry. My sister never wears it because she doesn't find it comfortable, so she always takes it off within an hour. She is also prone to losing things because she sets them down and forgets where she puts them. We would have to wait for her before we could leave the house because she would constantly forget where she plays things. I would carry her phone and her wallet and my purse'cause she doesn't carry one. Next week she's going to a destination wedding and she's asking to use some of our mother's jewelry to take on the trip. I said no and explained why she took offense. She's my mom too. You can't gate keep her jewelry. I told her it's not gatekeeping and I don't want to lose her jewelry and I don't even wear jewelry a lot because I don't wanna lose it. Our dad thinks I should just give it to her and keep the peace. Some of her friends think I'm not the asshole because she does in fact lose the smallest of things. So am I the asshole? No, I don't think so. Excuse my tummy. I disagree actually. Oh really? I think she's kind of being asshole ish. Really? Like just because. Don't wear jewelry doesn't mean you're not entitled to like the one day you wanna wear jewelry, like you should be able to wear it. I think it doesn't have anything to do with like that necessarily. For me, it's more like she's irresponsible, she's gonna lose it. Hmm. And it's not just jewelry, it's the moms it for the mom's jewelry. Like she can easily, she's going to a destination wedding for some other person. She can easily find a pair of earrings from Claire's that then don't matter if they get lost. Like you could make the argument that like the, the writer, the op is like equally irresponsible. It's like you can't just how, I don't know. Not, not with the context of the story, but like everybody like has areas of irresponsibility. Yes. Yeah. But jewelry is one of the specific areas for the other sister. So why would she feed into that? I dunno. I think some self-awareness there by that other sister would be good. I would be like, well wear jewelry for at least a day and it's got, you know, I'll give you some jewelry, just not your mom's jewelry. Just a test like, hey, you're gonna wear this necklace and this bracelet and these earrings and by the time I see it, at the end of the day I should see all those three things. And if she can do it, I'm like, okay, do it. I think you've proven your test. You can wear our mom's jewelry. I don't know, should we have to do that? We shouldn't. But if I'm an older sister, I definitely would. Hmm. But that's an older sister and me, I think this girl, is she older or younger? Because that makes a difference. I don't dunno if it's, she had younger sister. She's, yep. So she's 23 and the sister's 20. So big sister vibes. Yeah. That's what I'd be like. That's exactly what I'm picking up. This is also very much like a 20-year-old issue. Yes. Like I feel like now that I'm old. If I, I would have the self-awareness to not even ask my sister, because I know that I am irresponsible with jewelry. Really? Yes. Hmm. Like I would just not even ask, because I know that like, I lose things all the time. But if you, you're like told this is a family heirloom, like please take good care of it, then in my mind, like get her a jewelry box. In my mind I would be, yeah. I would be like, okay, then I need to be extra, extra careful. Yeah. And I would have a designated place. Yeah. But I'm old. And I'm sensible. Yes. And other people are not, and their frontal lobes aren't developed yet. Yes. So, I dunno, I think not the asshole. Could you pick your least favorite piece of jewelry? But that's not fair either. It's like they have equal rights. So it's like they don't though the dad gave the one daughter the jewelry knowing the other daughter was irresponsible and didn't wear jewelry. So, okay. So let's say it's an inheritance. It's say they each get$500,000 from a life insurance policy. Each sister. Okay. And one sister is very, very irresponsible with money. Mm. Then that's her money and it's gone. So that's her jewelry and it's gone. It's not her jewelry. The jewelry was given to the one older sister. Oh, but this was split, right? Yeah. You're saying if it was split, if it was split evenly, but this wasn't split evenly. The dad knew the one daughter wore jewelry and was responsible. So that daughter had the jewelry. Now that's her jewelry and she can decide if the younger, if the other sister is gonna use it or not. That was given to her. That's hers now. Oh, I would be pod as which one? If, um, a sibling lost all my dad's, whatever. Yeah. I, if me and Catherine had split stuff, that was my dad's and we each, and we had like, I don't know, whatever it was, and I asked her, Hey, can I borrow this? And she's like, dude, no. Then I'd be like, okay, I don't know. Maybe that's why I'm the executor of my mom's whistle. Ooh, ooh. Because I, I'm, I'm like, this is all fair, all equal. Everything should have split down the middle from the beginning. What we did and what we have done is in the past where everybody goes in a circle and you say, I'll take this. This is my choice. And then the next person goes, okay, well I really want this. And then the next person goes, well, I really want this. I agree with you, but what if someone will, and her choice was obviously the jewelry. Not all of it. That's the decision. It would've been like one necklace at a time is how I would've pieced that out. One necklace. Well, that's what happened, happened. One pass outta earrings, the other sister didn't wear jewelry. It clearly wasn't that important to her. Or she would've fought for it at the beginning. Oh, that's true. I don't know. I know. Fair knows. I know. I don't know. Oh, I hope my mother like, makes it easy when she dies. We're already starting claiming stuff. Well, it'll be easy for, for you because you're a girl. Huh? You're a girl. Like what is Nathan and farmland? Oh, see, for us, we have a contract already.'cause of our, our farmland is like a business. Mm-hmm. So we already have a contract, like my mom's portion split down the middle. Me and Catherine will split it evenly. So if one of, if you would sell, we would have to sell it back to the farm. What if Catherine was irresponsible with farmland? Yeah. Um, so her and I count for one vote and so her and I have to agree on our vote to be able to. Oh, so there is no, if we don't agree, then it's not gonna happen. I think this was set up poorly by the dead mother. Yeah, that's what I'm gonna go Not having a will or something. Not having, I mean, clearly these kids were quite young. That means the mom was probably quite young at my two years ago, so 18, yeah, two years. She didn't want jewelry for two years. Now all of a sudden, this, this wedding that's on the other side of the world in some crazy place, she wants to take the mother's jewelry. Come on. It's not like she's taking a whole jewelry test. Dude. She's probably gonna take like a necklace. Absolutely malarkey. Absolutely malarkey. It's the one sister's, if she says no, deal with it, girl. Gold. Claire's buy some cheap stuff. You don't care if you drop in the ocean. Hmm. Don't be Kim Kardashian. My hue, my like Get over it. Get over it. Kim. There are people, I'm sure she has other things. And see when you went to Kim Kardashian, I went straight to Rose from Titanic dropping jewelry in the ocean. Oh, okay. Just billions of dollars. It's mine. Yeah. I think it was trillions right there. Yeah. Yeah. The heart of the ocean. Mm-hmm. The heart of the ocean. Is she the asshole who rose? Yes, a hundred percent. Yeah. For show. That's what Nick's like. He's like, imagine you survive, you get married, you have these. Like this family, a wonderful life, wonderful husband, wonderful family. But you're st. You're still one horny, homeless man. Homeless boy that you made love with. You will love him forever. Fuck. He just decided to toss a trillion dollars just down the ocean. Yeah. That's ridiculous. It's one homeless kid. It's funny. I'm like, yeah, when you put it like that. Yeah. Excuse me. Sorry. I just can't, um, romance movies, he just doesn't get it. He doesn't get it. Yeah. But that wasn't really, I don get it either romance, that was just like, yes, it was. That was so, so I think when people wanna go on vacation, they wanna find their jack, you know, and then leave him to sink to the bottom of the ocean. Maybe from hypothermia, Jack, she could've made room on that door. That was my best hollow Halloween costume ever. What? What do the, we were Jack and Rose. You know what? We were frozen. How did you make your yourself frozen. Oh, were you Rose? Yes. Okay.'cause I was like, your hair color does kinda look like Leonardo DiCaprio. So if you cut it into like kind of a nineties Yes. Would be Rose. I don't know you, you didn't say couple's costume at first. You just said costume. So I was like, oh no, we took, you can spray fake snow, like you can spray it on Windows. Oh. So we did that in their hair and then we were like really, really pale and had like, need Blue Hicks I shadow and I need to see pics. Oh yeah. Okay. Plus it on the Instagram story. Okay. Or the post. Do you wanna go onto the next Reddit story while you find that? Sure. Um, okay. Okay. My girlfriend cheated on me and I found out through a group chat. Ooh. I'm in uni and recently found out my girlfriend, 20 female cheated on me with a mutual friend. The worst part I didn't even find out from her videos and pictures of her with the other guy. We're being shared around group chats. That sentence didn't make sense. People I know have seen it. Friends, classmates, mutuals. Basically half the people in my uni circles, I didn't just get cheated on privately. I got humili humiliated publicly. When I confronted her, she admitted it, cried and said she's ashamed and embarrassed because people are sharing it. And now everyone knows, she keeps saying she wants to fix things, but I don't know how you even come back from something like this at this point. I'm just angry. Angry at her, angry at myself, or trusting her and angry that she thinks there's anything to fix. I don't even know if I wanna break up or if I'm just so numb that I can't make a decision. I feel worthless and so disrespected. Aw. Just need to say this somewhere because I feel like I'm losing it. Aw. Poor guy. Yeah. End it. Poor guy. He did say that. He did end up ending it, but I was curious about He didn't end it. He did end up ending it. Oh, okay. Okay. Okay. I was curious about what you guys, um, like if you found out, have we talked about this? If you found out that someone, you know, like, okay. So just as an example. Okay. Yeah. So Calvin and I are both friends with you and Nick. So if I found out, if you sent me your sex tape, no. Oh. If I found out that you cheated on Nick, I would tell Nick. Yeah. Even though you're my friend. Mm-hmm. Do you find, do you guys feel like you'd do the same thing? Like how weird is it? All those people that he knew? Mm-hmm. Didn't say anything? Uh, yeah, I was sure. Isn't that weird? We're just kind of on the, there's some bad friends out there. Yeah. But like is that friends to like, okay, maybe it's bad because I am, I know both of you. What if it was like my sister and her husband? Okay. Sorry you two. But like if I found out that Catherine cheated on Alex and I told Alex then like, do you think that she has the right to be mad at me because like, I should be on her side? Well. Uh, you wouldn't because they have kids, so Yeah. But take that out of it. Just like, but that kind of helps because some people like, they do cheat, but they don't wanna get a divorce because they wanna stay together. Yeah. For kids, for the sake of their kids. Kids. Yeah. So would you go up to her and be like, Hey, if you don't tell'em, I'm going to Yeah. Kind of like an ultimatum. Like I know something about you and it's kind of making me a little bit upset. Mm-hmm. The way that I found out that you're cheating on your husband, but you need to do something. Otherwise I will tell him. Yeah. Talk. If she was like, oh, it was just a one time thing, Sarah, like, I swear it'll never happen again. I love my husband. That is malarkey. We are gonna stay together for our kids. So he already knows. No, he doesn't know. But please be quiet for our kids. No. Mm-hmm. Sarah, I would say, I would tell him I would, or I would say my sister. Tell him, you tell Alex or I'm going to. No, Sarah, this will ruin our family. No. Think about Mom. You tell him, or I'm going to think about Lou. That's so silly. I, I should be an actor. No, seriously, I'm an actress. That seriously, I would say you have to tell him where I will. That's like, so that's like the worst thing Nathan do. If you tell him, we will never be sisters again. Okay. Then I guess I'm losing the sister. Are you serious? That's not right. Would you do that if it was Nathan, what would you, would you like if, what's his name? Scott, right? Mm-hmm. So would you, you'd be on Nathan's side, you wouldn't tell? I don't think so. What? Wait, what? You wouldn't tell Scott that Nathan cheated If it was, no, I would go up to Nathan and be like, Hey, what's going on? And you would make him tell you got something to say. What if Nathan didn't want to tell, like you're gonna tell, but then would you tell if he didn't? Um, possibly. I think it should come. I think it should come from Nathan. I mean, I agree, but if he's not gonna tell mm-hmm. Catherine's not gonna tell, then I'm gonna tell. What about you, Issa? I know you're looking, but I'm gonna tell my brother got cheated on in his marriage and everybody knew and nobody told him. Oh. Of like his friends? Mm-hmm. She slept with the usher of their wedding at the wedding six months after the wedding. Wow. Wow. I can't believe that. What a crap load of friends. Yeah. Hmm. Sorry to Issa's brother that you of friends. I wonder why friends wonder. They don't wanna like, I don't wanna be involved, but you know about it. You know what I mean? Yeah. I post a lot on Instagram. Holy shit. I'm just trying to get to a Halloween costume here. Oh my gosh. You need to go to like your settings and then click the date of what you want. Really? Is that a thing? Are you, there we go. You don't see it. Hey, we won. So lemme see. Okay. I don't care what you think. Okay. Oh, okay. The, um, shawl that you're wearing is giving, um, kimono, Asian kimono. Oh yeah. Mm-hmm. I'm, I'm seeing Mulan, but it was Maurice's. But I do think his costume, his, his is good costume is very good. Is good. And I like your hair. Yeah, I like the snow. That's pretty good. That's good. You kind of look like a, a stepmom on Cinderella with Brandy and Whitney Houston. He looks like, here we go. This is what I was going after. There we go. Let me see. The hair is just kind of throwing me off a little bit. Oh, okay. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, I think it's good. I think it's really good. It's cute. You should, uh, redo it, you know? Oh yeah. Have like a however many Yeah, but. You could can't do winning. You could do better. You could someone else who tragically died. Yeah. Linn. Oh, Gatsby. Oh, I feel like that's all we done. Okay. The flapper. You'd be a cute flapper though. Yeah. Oh, oh. Shimmy and shake. Just for the camera. Mm-hmm. Oh gosh. Oh boy. Do you have another Reddit story? Uh, yeah. Uh, preface with, I have not read these. Um, well, I haven't like Reddit recently, or obviously read it when I saved it, but Reddit. Reddit. Reddit. It. Read it. I read it. Okay. Another long one. Holy smokes, girl. Oh boy. Okay. Am I the asshole for canceling all of our streaming services to hire a housekeeper without asking my husband first? Oh. Okay. My 28 female and my husband, 30 male. Just welcomed our first baby almost three months ago. Understandably, has been a huge adjustment for both of us. She's still not sleeping through the night and we're back to bed, both back to working full time. We've always split the household chores 50 50. We just helped where needed, and it was always worked out well. Lately, my husband has been doing the chores terribly, and I've had to come behind him and fix things or clean them again. For example, he cleaned the bottles the other night, but they were clean so poorly I had to do'em again. He dropped pump parts down the disposal and then ran it ruining them. Ooh, there have been several clothes that he didn't clean after a blowout that are now ruined. There are many more incidences like this. I've confronted him a few times letting him know that we all make mistakes, and I know we're both tired, but it feels like he's not even trying to do things well. He just keeps saying he's so tired and is having a hard time working and taking care of the house and the baby. I do sympathize as this with this, uh, but as I'm also working, pumping, recovering, and taking care of the house and the baby. Mm-hmm. The final straw for me was when he told me to go to sleep and he'd put the milk. I just pumped to finish in the dishes or up the milk. I just pumped and finished the dishes. I was so grateful until I got up and realized the milk had been sitting on the counter and at this point was no good anymore. You do not fuck with someone's breast milk, but breast milk can sit out for, it's not all night though. It's like maybe three hours, six hours or something of six. It's not like all night. No but's. Oh. The, he said he was sorry and he put on a show to relax for a bit before doing the dishes and fell asleep. The next day I decided to cancel all of our streaming services, PlayStation Plus, and our theme park practices in order to hire a housekeeper. I figured if he's too tired to do basic household chores, then a housekeeper is necessary. If he's too tired to put milk up, then too tired to play video games or for us to go to the theme park, we still have cable and the PlayStation games can do other activities outside of the local theme park. He blew up at me and I said I had no right doing that, and I was and was furious. I thought I was doing us each a favor so that we can get more sleep and not worry so much about how skilled household tasks. So am I the asshole for hiring a housekeeper without asking? Yes, I think because Only because she was doing it to be petty. Yeah. She was doing it out of being petty, not because like she could have easily discussed that with him. Yep. It could have been like, Hey, it's not working out here. Yeah. We're both hired. I think even if it's a temporary solution. Yeah, yeah. Especially for the newborn stages. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. And then like the first newborn stage too. Mm-hmm. Is yeah. Particularly, yeah. Your first, like your first kid. Mm-hmm. Yeah. Yeah. She's just being petty. She is the asshole for sure. Edit to add. I see a lot of comments about communication. I have been communicating nonstop about my needs and my expectations. I've let a lot of mistakes slide because I know this is hard for both of us, but when it became a daily thing, I let him know if he's unable to do his part, and then I need additional help. Mm. I mentioned hiring some help. He laughed and said, what a ridiculous waste of money I knew if I asked again. So the answer would be no. So I made the decision for both of us. Hmm. That changes things a little bit. I don't think she was, I think, I still think the decision was made out of pettiness. Yes. The decision was made out of pettiness. She was at her wit's end. Yes, definitely. But I also didn't consult Craig before hiring a housekeeper. It was just like, Hey, I'm doing this thing. But you didn't get rid of streaming services. Psn, I could to do that. Craig wouldn't know how to do it, but, but you didn't do it as like a punishment. Like she, she's like punishing him. She's punishing. He watched a show and fell asleep. She's gonna get rid of the shows. Don't, he plays you don't video games to relax instead of washing pump parts correctly. I'm gonna get rid of the PlayStation network. Like Yeah. You know, that's petty. Do I disagree with her? No, not necessarily. I think you should do what you need to do to make it work. But I just, you don't fuck with someone's breast milk. Yeah. I have a friend who came over for breakfast. She had one of my, they both coworkers of mine I love, and the coworkers went over to her house and she was breastfeeding our breast pumping and. She made this big breakfast for her and all this stuff and scrambled eggs and all of the fixings and hash browns and it was so good. And then afterwards at the end she's like, ha ha, ha ha ha. No, you didn't even notice. No. Yeah, no. She put her milk in there. Not She put her milk in the eggs. Eggs. That's disgusting. Why you add milk to scrambled eggs. But why would she do that? Yeah. That's a great question. No. Huh? I think that's like a salt. Okay. Honestly, it's really not that gross.'cause it's breast milk, but it is like pretty disrespectful to not tell somebody what you're feeding'em. Yeah. She's like, well I milk. That's like poisoning someone technically. Actually, I think because it's bodily fluids. Yeah. I think that's technically poisoning someone so she could call the police. I think I just, that's gross. Couldn't believe. And then to do it as like a joke. Yeah, no, like a prank. No. That's not funny. Mm-hmm. Have you ever tried your own breast milk? Yes. Yes. I never have. And I tried my sister's sister-in-law's and it was yucky. Yeah, it was yucky. Babies love it. Robbie did not love it. Ronnie did not love breastfeeding. Oh. He loved to eat food when he was ready for food, but he did not really care for breastfeeding. It's crazy you his carver. Yeah. Gus though. He was, he liked it. He was a chain walk. He liked it a lot. I only know because like, um, were you guys ever, um, clogged? Yeah. Mm-hmm. You were never clogged? Mm-hmm. Oh, it's, I had such little milk that it was like, I had so much milk with Gus. Mm-hmm. So like, it's just stuck and it's painful. Mm-hmm. And like my, the pump wasn't taking it and his little mouth just like, he was just crying'cause nothing would come out. I'm like, I don't know what to do. And I look at Nick and Nick's like. I got it. And, um, you know, we just put the, what's the, like a heating pad or something? No, the butter, um, moisturizing nipple butter. Okay. Mm-hmm. And, you know, so he's like massaging it and I'm like, okay, it's starting to feel a little better. And then he just, yep. And I tried to get Calvin one for the team. I tried to get Calvin to do that, and he wouldn't do it. One time. It was really bad and he tried to like put a baggie over it and tried to, and I'm like, you're so stupid. No, you need to just suck it out, please. What do you mean a baggy or like a like, like like a shield. Like a nipple shield kind of, but like it's a baggy and I'm just like, you are dumb. You're dumb. No, that's incorrect. Just suck it out. Be a man. Yep. So it was just, you know, I'd raise my arm up and Nick would just like push all the milk down and then all of a sudden it was like a fountain shooting. Literally just like all over myself. Yeah. And I was like, you got it. Oh my God, this is amazing. It feels so good too. It's that relief a huge, it's like, you know, when they talk about like, um, a weight lifted off your shoulders. Yeah. Literal weight. This is literally what it feels like. It's like a physical weight being like, like a shot out of your titty. It's Oh, good. Yes. That is so funny. Nope. Never had that problem. But yeah, I was always loves you. I always was curious. I'm like, what's it taste like? It's not good. He said it tastes like a sugar milk from a cereal. No, no, it does not. Mm-hmm. And I tried it. I'm like, oh my God, it's really sweet. Like, mine was not that sweet. I was like, am I giving my kid too much sugar? Like, I was actually worried, but they're like, Nope. It, uh, breast milk can be very sweet. Huh? Like sugar milk. Yeah. From cereal. Mine was not that sweet. Yeah. How did Gus get so far, far, maybe a sour. Oh, salty and sweet. Oh, buddy. Oh, buddy Bunny. Oh, buddy. I think I read that. What? Um, my milk tasted sour one time and I'm like, Ew. It has to do like if you're ill or something too. Yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah. With mastitis. Mm-hmm. Oh, here. And it tasted nasty. Oh, the, the milk, the color change? Yep. So this is very sweet. Yeah. Very sour. Like, very sour. Oh yeah. When it's like kind of murky like that. Yeah. And more water and watery. Yeah. I just think that's fascinating. Mm-hmm. Isn't it? Breast milk is fascinating. Yeah. It's very cool. Yeah. Um, I miss breastfeeding too. I kind of do too, but I also am, don't like to be touched a lot and so then when I'm breastfeeding it's like I get really overwhelmed. Yeah. And like over sense and sensory. Yeah. Too much touching. Yep. I'd have a baby here. A toddler here. Yep. I would hear mohu. Drinking out of his bowl. Mm-hmm. And every time I could hear his licks, I'm like, mojo. I know, I know. Yeah. They could be like postpartum rage out on Mohu. Yes. With Calvin second. One second. Cameron would wanna like snuggle or something. And I'm like, oh my gosh. Get away from me. Like, I don't even wanna look at you. I didn't mind that, but like, hated it. Like, you know, just try to touch my boobs. And I'm like, smack. No. Yeah. Like, I just had to like off limits. You have to kind of cut that like mm-hmm. It's just they're not for you right now. Yeah. You can't like cross boundaries. I felt like Yeah. It was like, okay, I, I have one purpose right now. And then when that's done, then we'll have a different purpose for that stuff. Like just, but like right now, like, my brain can't Yeah. Do two. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, do you have another story? Nope. Oh, okay. Do one more. Yep. Okay. Last one is pretty funny. Speaking of like breastfeeding and like, oh, am I the asshole for asking my fiance to cover up her feminine products? What Okay, post from a burner account. I 3-year-old male have been living with my fiance, who's 27 for part of the year. Overall, cohabiting has been incredibly, incredibly well. We've both been meticulous with our chores, communicate really well. However, lately we've had a disagreement that it's difficult to sell Uhoh, my fiance leaves her used period products at the top of the open trash cans in the bathroom that guests use, and she does not like it when I ask her to cover up discarded products. I am not generally grossed out by menstrual cycle or by blood. I work in healthcare for most of my twenties. I'll pick up pads or tampons for my fiance without feeling awkward. This might be TMI, but I'm not opposed to period six. It doesn't phase me, however, neither. I nor our occasional guests should expect to see her blood soaked. Tampons complete with clots. Every time that you know, we use the bathroom, it's jarring to see a bloody scene. Otherwise, clean bathroom. Without warning, I've tried to come up with minimally invasive solutions, such as my fiance wrapping her products and toilet paper before discarding them or even purchasing closed out trash cans. My fiance firmly rejects both plans saying that if she has to go through her monthly ordeal I and extension, our guests shouldn't complain about having to see the aftermath. Ew. On recent occasion when guests come over for game night, I pull extra toilet paper and gently lay it on top of the trash can, covering the bloody products before they arrive. My fiance noticed this and confronted me after guests slapped. This is, why didn't you just take the trash out? Accusing me of being ashamed of her and going against what we have previously discussed. Am I the asshole? What would you folks suggest? Even the intervention that requires no effort on her part. The closed top trashcan was rejected and with prejudice, I love my fiance, but what could have been a small discussion be is mounting is a mountain of conflict, is becoming a mount of conflict. What the fuck? I feel like that shouldn't even have to be a discussion. Like, no. She should be like, no, I don't want people seeing my bloody tampons. It's kind of embarrassing too. Facebook even embarrassing. It's kinda like, mm-hmm. What's the purpose in that? You're suffering. So we all have to suffer by looking at it. Like, and he, how does that make sense? He sounds like, I mean, he's not gross. He's solutions. Yeah. He suffering solutions. He's trying to protect the eyes of his friends. Just get a closed garbage can or just wrap it. I was mad about that. She's like, no, he could just take the trash out. She has some weird fetish maybe that like, she wants people to see her. Disgusting. I don't know. Why would you want people to know? I don't. That's so weird. She's weird. I remember. Yeah. She's odd. When I was first during my period, and my mom, you know, I just, you know, just like, kind of shove it in the trash can. Mm-hmm. You know, a little bit. But my mom's like, um, I have some newspaper sheets, so if you just wanna wrap it in the newspaper and throw it away, and I remember getting offended by that. Why? I don't know. I just, because it's like I can take care of myself. Yeah. Kind of like, I was like, I thought I was being discreet. Mm-hmm. But apparently I wasn't. And my mom's like, these stack of newspapers are for you. I don't know. I think I felt singled out and I'm like, it's not fair. Like, my brothers don't have to do this. Like, I have to see their piss stains everywhere. Like, yeah. What do you, you know. I just felt singled out and I didn't like that, but I'm like, newspapers is so odd. Mom. Like, yeah, I'll just use toilet paper. Yeah. Um, yeah, but that's, I just thought that was kind of crazy. At least she's not weird. Like flushing her tampons. Yeah, that's true. You're not supposed to do that, Hannah still does it. No, I haven't done that, but I did it a lot when I was Me too, in my parents' house. Me too. I don't think anything of it. I'm like, it's no different than toilet paper. But it is, I guess. But then like, you know, my parents would be like, this, toilet's always clogged and I just like would always walk by. I'm like, weird. And then people were like, oh yeah, you're not supposed to flush your tampons. And I'm like, why? And they'd be like,'cause it clogs'em. And I'm like, oh shit. That's why my parents have problems because it expands so much. Is that why? I think so. Yeah. It just gets stuck in that, uh, in the septic tank. So the s septic people, they're like, look at all these tampons. I love watching septic tanks. Mm-hmm. Be like, dug up really, and spun out and sucked up. Mm-hmm. It's great. Yeah. But is there like yucky stuff in there? Oh yeah. You see? Mm-hmm. Everything. And then they go, smells like money. Okay. Yucky. If that's what keeps you motivated to keep doing this. Yeah. I guess. Yeah, that's true. But, um,, I had a roommate in college. Um, uh, her hygiene was just not there. Like, I don't think she knew how to properly take care of herself because everyone in the school kind of knew. And then we would have like this discussion like, Hey, wash your hair or wash your face. Use moisturizer. Wear a deodorant. And everyone's like, yeah, duh. And then me and my other roommate were like, they're talking about our roommate. Mm. Um, she's very sweet, but every time she had her period, she would lay all her period products on top of the waist can. So like, he'd walk in and their bloody pad bloody, and I'm like, just like, open, open. And I'm like, and you try to wrap it up. You wouldn't like fold it? I don't, no, she never did. She just kind of just with no thought. No thought. Huh. And, um. Yeah. Me and my roommate had to have that awkward discussion like, Hey, this is gross. We don't wanna see this. Let's just roll it up. I just don't understand, like, why, again, why do you want people to see that? Like, why other people have eyes, but then like yeah, if she, you know, you've been living with your parents and they just don't seem to mind like, nah. And then you think like, oh, everyone else thinks this way, I'll continue to live this way. Mm. So I don't, but we had a like, Hey girl, nip that in the bud. Ooh, yeah. Ooh, okay. I think she felt really bad. Like obviously really embarrassed, but we were like, it's okay. Like, we all get it. Yeah. We just don't wanna see it. We just don't wanna see it. Yeah. Yeah. Fair, fair. Wow. Interesting. What an episode. That's, huh. Interesting. Reddit episode. Yeah. So hopefully you all stayed at the end, you know? Stayed with us. Yeah. This was a long one. Sorry. Yeah. Um, tell us which one was your favorite? Um, answer all the questions that we asked. Yeah. Um, and if you have any thoughts or inputs on anything that we said from Reddit to Teen Mom and your teen mom, uh, controversies that you like hearing, I love hearing everything. Mostly I've been kind of fixated with Janelle. She is kind of the one to the one to watch. Yeah. Sadly, Janelle, I just will never forget that Kesha concert. I just wanna go to Kesha. Do you know what she's talking about, Sarah? Nope. No idea. I'll show you monthly. Wrap this up. She, um, she had to go to jail. I, oh gosh. But she was on an ankle bracelet or like, she was being monitored and they're like, Hey, your jail dates are this and this? And she's like, oh shit. I just, I have Kesha to go to. And the guy's like, okay, well this is jail. She's like, but this is Kesha. He's like, Janelle, I'm not gonna ask a judge to push your date. So you can go to a Kesha concert and she just, she's my idol. She's like literally my idol. That was the mistake. That's probably why she's in, what she's in. If Kesha's her idol, at least that era of Kesha. This was a, and of course it's so, so 20, like 13 era. She had feathers in her hair. She had feathers in her hair. I remember I wanted a feather extension in my hair. Same, same you guys. If you wash him up. Earrings, like all the trends that they have, like we either had it or wanted it. Yes. Oh boy. Yeah. But roll the clip. Roll the clip four is the eighth through the 23rd. It'd be a total of 16 days in jail. Well see. The only thing is on the ninth I got second row seats to go see a concert. It's Kesha tickets. I understand. The problem is. That, that's not gonna fly. What's your probation officer? No, no, no. You don't understand. This is my idol. She's like my idol and I'm never gonna be able to see her again. When is the concert? August 9th. Like, did you call her and tell like, isn't there some way you can, I'm not mentioning the concert. I I really can't miss that concert. I really can't. That's why I got all these feathers in my hair.'cause of the concert. I bought clothes for the concert. I set up hotel rooms for the concert. All right. You will have to give your probation officer your final decision. So just think about it before you tell me. I mean, I, I understand that the concert's important to you, but you can have all of this behind you in just a couple of weeks, be done with it. Like, like no one understands how important this concert is to me. It's not, it's not just a concert, it's Kesha like. Mm. Just, just think about it, what they are at. She ended up going to that concert. What happened with jail? She had to serve jail time. Like did she just not show up the first two days and then turned herself in like on the 10th? I think so. Mm-hmm. She's probably thinking worth it. Oh my gosh. Yeah. So you're saying that I should go find these shows and go watch'em? Ugh. I would. They're great. Interesting. Mm-hmm. Keep up with'em. I'm glad that you keep up with'em as well as I do, because I don't mean to, it's just, it's my feed. Yeah. I don't understand how it's still like Exactly happen perpetuating everyone is like, cancel teen mom. How many seasons of this exact same people who are all messed up, like too many. I said still on tv, they've just gone way, I mean, they're way over their head. They just crazy. Just like they're reality is just not a thing. People keep watching it. It's crazy. Sadly. I mean'cause So it's not even good. It's more like. We're watching them, like trying to promote their business. Mm-hmm. Oh, do the, I don't know. That's bonkers. Kind of over it, man. Over them. Yeah. Well on that, yeah. 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