80: Fourth of July Recap, Falling in love with Chat GPT, and Trad Wives!

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We're coming in. How? Oh, shoot, now we're coming in hot now we're coming in hot. Coming in. Hot Issa's got something to say. Um, so my mom has thyroid cancer and she's had it for 10 years now. And she went to the doctor. This is how they initially found it. They went to, she went to the doctor and they just like palpated her thyroid. Mm-hmm. And they felt a nodule. And then the nodule, she had an ultrasound, and then she had a biopsy, and then they found out it was actually. Um, undetermined whether she had cancer or not. And so she opted to have the whole thing removed, but by then it already spread to her lungs. Oh, sheesh. So she never actually had a biopsy that was positive for cancer. Mm-hmm. So could have been worse. Um, but anyway, I was at the doctor yesterday at my physical and I just have had this like fullness feeling in my neck. And I've just had this, like, I've been swallow difficulty swallowing. Yes. I've always had this feeling. I've said it before that I'm gonna get cancer in my neck. Oh. Because I'm so fricking paranoid.'cause my dad had cancer in his neck. My mom had cancer in her neck. Oh. And so like every swollen lymph node, I'm like, oh my God, what is going on? At least you can kind of test yourself for that stuff a little bit. Yeah. So I was like, can you just feel my thyroid and tell me that I'm crazy and then I'll just move on? And he's like, oh, actually you have a nodule on your thyroid. I was like, oh shit. So I had to go get an ultrasound yesterday and it was like. Two hours of sheer panic. Oh. Then I had thyroid cancer. But the nodule is benign, thank goodness. Well, they, it appears benign. How'd they test that? Or how do they, they did an ultrasound. Oh, you can do that? Yeah. And the way that it looks, you can tell cancer has like very rough edges and it like, has like finger-like projections. Mm-hmm. And mine is very round and smooth. Okay. So they think it's just like a regular old. They're not saying like, not a jol, there's something they can do to break it up and send it out, or, Nope. Okay. Even though it's bothering you, it's bothering me. Yeah. We'll see how much it bothers me. I wanna feel it when we're done. Okay. Feel my neck. I can't feel it. Oh, you can't. My doctor can my, you have to know what you're feeling for. Yeah. Yeah. It's probably very small. Like sometimes they're like centimeters. Yeah. 1.5 centimeters is what mine is. Yeah. So yeah. Anyway, that was my. Drama. Wow. Well, I'm glad you're okay. Very scary. Yeah, that is very scary. I'm too, it was, uh, interesting. Two hours.'cause mom and I were both like B. Yeah, yeah. So, yeah. Well, good. Even though he said, oh, sorry, my phone's vibrating. Surprise. Well take care of yourself very well. Do not disturb. Yep. Get, uh, lymphatic massages. I don't know if they work. Yeah, I think they do. Where do you, do you have to go to like a specific lymphatic massage therapist? I think some of them, some people are trained in it. Yeah. Mm-hmm. And this one girl that I looked into, she's like, I would have to like evaluate you and your body to see if you're even a candidate for a lymphatic. And I don't know, I'm thinking about doing it'cause I feel like I'm still swollen. Yeah. My hands still swollen. Mm. Mm-hmm. And I'm like, I think I could benefit from that. Mm-hmm. I try. Nick didn't do it for me. He's like, no, I'm a little picky when it comes to my massages. Yeah, you should dry brush. I do have one, but I just, I feel like I actually need, like you probably do, but dry brushing would probably help keep like this, the, the after like to keep longer, if that makes sense. Circulation? Yeah. Mm-hmm. I think dry brushing is kind of woo woo. I don't disagree, but I also kind of. Disagree. Okay. I feel like there's a lot to be said about like, um, concentrating blood flow, if that makes sense. Mm-hmm. So, yeah, I don't know. Okay. I feel like the more blood that you have circulating in that area, obviously the easier it is to flush things out. Yeah. And to like recirculate that blood. And keep things like very, you know what I mean? I dunno if that makes sense. I'm not a doctor, so I know like terms of that kind of, it's kind like when people are like, oh, I'm on a detox. It's like your liver is constantly detoxing. Yeah. So when people are like, oh, it's improving blood flow, it's like, well, your blood is always flowing. Yeah. You know? Yeah. Like you don't have stagnant blood in your body. No. Otherwise you have a blood clot. Yeah. And that's bad news. Yeah. Or like what? Like back in the day when they're like, oh, we put the. Wedding ring on your ring finger because that's the, the blood vessels. Yes, you do have a vein that connects to your heart and it's in your finger, in your ring finger. Doesn't all the veins connect to the, I mean, they do eventually. This is like one that goes, this is a direct line to you. This is a direct, yeah, direct line. Then they should have said it like that. Yes. A direct line, not like, yes. That is very good. I feel the Tumblr area. See, that's sort of assumed. You just, you got me. You got me. I'm like, what? Oh, I that You're saying the same thing? Yes. I feel like that's sort of assumed though. Yeah. I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. Anyway, it's July 8th. What'd you guys do for the fourth? Um, we had a big party. We didn't have a big party. We went to a big party at a pond and they had a pool at the pond. They had a pond that seems They went a pool at the pond. Necessary. Yeah. They had a big hold. It was like a huge pool in ground, no above ground. Um, that the, it was so much fun and, uh, the boys played and played and played and played, and Craig caught, I think eight fish. Wow. So we had a fish fry. It's be worthy fish. Yeah. Nice. Yep. Had a fish fry. That was so good. I got a little tipsy. I brought jello shots from Costco. Woo. So I was like going around like, who wants a jello shot? And everyone's like, we're in our forties. No one did a jello shot with you. They, I convinced him finally, but it was a little one or two. They're like, you brought jello shots. I haven't done a jello shot in years. Like 20 years. Yeah. I haven't done this since I was 16. The kind of vibe Yes. That I would get. Yes. And they were very strong. That's what makes it fun though. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, they were very strong. Okay. I was gonna, I was gonna say like one or two isn't gonna, yeah, maybe it could. Maybe, probably you.'cause you have such a low tolerance. Yeah. So that'd be me. Yeah. This will be chilling. Me and Hannah are like, oh, oh my God, I'm so drunk. You didn't even finish your jello shot. That's what I'm not a huge fan of Jello. I would eat like a whipped cream shot. Oh, that sounds good. Whipped cream. We used to do apple pie shots. Oh, what's that apple pie? You just have a syringe and inject it. Apple pie. It's like a vanilla vodka with like a, a appletini apple. It's a shot. Mm-hmm. So I think it's got fireball in it, and then I think it's like a vanilla And you put whipped cream on it. Mm. See I to drink it like a shot. I drink it like a normal drink. You're just like. Yeah. And a little shot, Claire. I would just eat the cream off top and then leave the rest. Okay. And the rest of me don't waste alcohol. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, geez. Funny. What'd you guys do? The same thing. Oh, yeah. Uh, it was pretty chill, which was fine because I swear every time I try to like, let's go to the car. Well, let's go to the parade. It sucks. Mm-hmm. And you know, Nick's like, is it just packed? It's always packed. It's so packed. It's so hot. There's no shade on that route. Mm. So you're just standing like in the blazing heat. It's so bad. Yeah, so bad. Yeah. And I'm kind of over parades. Mm-hmm. I think like they're fun. Some of them are fun, but then also it's kinda like when, oh, when they have like a, gosh, back in, back in the day when I was a kid, there used to be like dance groups. Yeah. Like from Waterloo. Mm-hmm. It was like these people, they were just like crumping and dancing. Like that's cool. Like there was actual entertainment in the parade. Yeah. Now it's kind of like, oh, you're a local bank. And they, I feel like every time waving at you from a classic car. I like to see the bands like the marching bands. And every time in the last couple years when the bands walk by, they're not playing. Yes. They're just, or they're, they're like marching. Yeah. And I'm just like, dude, play me a song, bro. Yeah. I remember it was Charles City, they had this band and they, these kids were dancing. If they weren't playing, they were like doing like this cool little, I mean, that's cool. Yeah. Like I like that because it used to be Crip Walk almost. Oh gosh. Okay. Didn't they used to be like, like a pretty serious competition? Yeah. Here. Yeah. It used to be a lot of bands that would compete. Yeah.'cause Craig used to come here all the time. Play, I don't know if they do that much anymore. Play. Yeah. For marching band Memorial Day. Mm-hmm. Yeah.'cause this was the, like the squads, the band fest, like everyone from every school came here and there used to be like just a plethora of bands great. And they got smaller and smaller and then no one noticed what, um, there was this school band that was here playing at Band Fest, and I'm like, where the heck is that? They were like six hours away. Oh my gosh. And they traveled all the way here. Yeah. To play. And there was like a five man band. Oh. Like these kids pretty cool. And I'm like, oh, they, so, they're so sweet. Yeah. But, um, yeah. Yeah. We didn't do, we didn't do the parade carnival. We didn't do the carnival. Yeah. I don't know. Craig had suggested coming over to Clear Lake and I'm like, we would've met up, but Yeah. Yeah. If you would've came, would've Yeah, I would've like really pushed it. Yeah. But. Know the carnivals are just, maybe they used to be magical as a kid, but as an adult it's kinda like, it's kinda gross, dirty and it's hot and the guys are creepy. Yes. The CarVal people are creepy. I really don't like it when they try to get your attention. Like when you, when you walk down the game row. Yeah. And they'll throw a toy out to you. I don't like that. And then they try to talk to you and I'm like, don't. Don't engage. Yes. Yeah, I'm not here. Yes. Pull the kids along. Yeah. I'm like, kids don't look, just walk. Yeah. But they see I want that puppet or I want that toy. No. Nope. Just say Daddy will buy it for you. Let's go. I'll go to the store. Or no? Yeah. Fricking Nick. Yeah. He'll buy it for him. Yeah. So our husbands have a friend and we just, they live in Clear Lake, so he. Like eight burgers at their house. Nice. Mm-hmm. Yeah. It's chill. It's nice. It was very chill. Yeah. Anything with water you like, they have a pool or anything? Like anything? No, but we did go to the pool yesterday for the first time this year. Yeah. And probably the first time possibly ever with our kids. Oh, wow. To be honest. Wait, you and Calvin went? No. He was working, doing something with Nick. Oh. Uh, I think. I dunno. Maybe not. I dunno what he was doing. Um, but surprisingly we stayed for two hours. Wow. That's a long time at a pool. It is. And I got a little sunbird on my face. Gus Guss Sunbird on his face even though I puts on screen on. Yeah. Um, but yeah, I was really surprised after like the first 30 minutes I was like. Oh my gosh, they're playing so well. Okay, let's just like keep going and then like an hour passed and I'm like, oh my gosh, they're playing so well. Let's just keep going. And then, yeah, just the two. Did you bring like water toys and whatnot? We didn't have any, but we went during family Swim and So they have like those boogie boards out. Oh yeah. And like big sponges. And so Did they not do that usually Uhuh. Oh, they did yesterday. But I know, and I was like, oh my gosh, I've been wanting to buy these for the kids.'cause I think they would really enjoy them and they would actually like try to swim. It would give them like. Level of security while also teaching them like balance and, you know what I mean? And like I can take it away or like, you know what I mean? So yeah, we did that for a while. Where were those boogie boards? They were just out, like in, on the concrete? Hmm. Like in a little in the bin thing. I think it's just for Family Swim. So if you don't go for Family Swim, we do don't have. Oh, okay. I don't know Hannah's face right now. Maybe it was for, maybe it was for something else and maybe it was for something else. And we just happened to like, like swimming lessons are going on now. Yeah, there was somebody that was doing swim, like private swimming lessons and maybe they were using it for that and we just like took'em. But yeah, they were out and I was like, okay, well if you're gonna put'em out, like I'm gonna take'em. No kidding. So yeah. Fun. I'm glad. Picked a games. Yeah, it was really fun. And they were just playing with just the two of them? No, we all played together. Well, I. What I like to do is I like to just sit in the water, you know? Oh, no, we were. Watching were play. We were all dinking around nice sharks and minnows. I was the shark a lot, obviously. Nice. I stole the kids' like nose goggles. So I like put the goggles on and the kids were laughing because they're kind of small too, because they're child size, but they worked and I was like underwater now. I was like swimming at'em and stuff, and I feel like you're such a cool mom. I just want them to be excited. Yeah. I'm like, look at me having fun just like back floating and like swimming and mm-hmm. I want you to do that. It's okay if you don't. Join the swim team. Yeah. Or whatever, but like I want you to know how to swim so when you're here, like you can have fun. Yeah. Mm-hmm. You know? And yeah. And we ran into one of Bronson's friends from school as we were like leaving, so hopefully we'll see them again. Yeah. Yeah. It was really fun. I had a good time. Yay. I'm not a swimmer, so I was surprised, but I had fun. Yeah. That's awesome. That's good. Mm-hmm. Nasty. We're all nasty today. Sorry. Yeah. No, that's okay. I'm not. I'm not nasty. Mine was just like phlegm from the hot sauce. Someone messaged me the other day and she's like, I saw you the other day and you just were glowing and you just seem so happy and I'm just really happy for you. And I'm like, that's so nice. Thank you. That was so kind. Yeah. Did I tell you that my mom said something like that about you? No. Yeah. You, after we got done podcasting, you went to Target? Yeah. And my mom was in Target and she's, oh yeah, I think I saw Calissa and you know, she was just there and happy and I'm like, oh cool. I don't know if I ever told you that. I think I remember it ring a distant bell now that you say that. Yeah. But yeah. That's so nice. Yeah. And then I was like, you know what? I am happy I went on when I, my physical yesterday. You know, I have to fill out the anxiety screening. Mm-hmm. And the depression screening. Mm-hmm. ID got zero on everything. Wow. Which is like the first time in a long time. Like self-checkout, like Yeah. Es self check. Yeah. Like, are you feeling down depressed? Are you overeating? Are you overtired? Are you like sluggish? Are you. Worry too much. Can't stop your worrying. Can't. You know what I mean? Mm-hmm. The PHQ nine, I think it is. I'm always like, yes, yes, yes. You need help. Kali is over here. Just healthy. Healthy is company it. Nice. That's awesome. Good for you. So what do you think it's, what do you think has changed? I think my kids are at an age where they're being more self-sufficient. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. And, um, I'm just rocking the night shift schedule. Yes. Like, that's going really well. Like we have our groove, we have our rhythm, we've got amazing support. We've got awesome babysitters. Mm-hmm. Um, we started doing a meal prep service. Ooh, did I tell you about this? No. Tell us about it. Yes. She does our, she just like makes us three meals a week and I pay her and she gets all the groceries and everything like that. And she makes the food and just brings it over. What does she make? Like she has like glass containers that she puts'em in or like, yeah. Mm-hmm. And then I like recycle the dishes and bring'em back to her and That's awesome. Yeah. Well, like, uh, what's she make? Salisbury steak. Ooh. Which tasted really good. I did taste that a little bit. And then, um. Uh, soup and sandwich. Yum. And then, uh, chicken alfredo, uh, Cheerio bars and, um, yeah. Nice. That's awesome. So there's stuff like for the kids. Yeah. And then there's stuff for, for us, like snacky stuff and food stuff. Yeah. That's awesome. Really nice. Yeah. So I just feel like I've got good support going. A good village. Yeah. A good village. Yes. Mm-hmm. I love that. Yeah. What got her wanting to do that? Um, I had a dream that my mom did a meal prep service for us and I messaged her on Facebook. I'm like, I had a dream that you did a meal prep service for. You messaged her on Facebook? Yeah, I messaged my mom on Facebook all the time. That is so weird. Why didn't you just text her or call her?'cause we don't text. We message on Messenger. Really? Yeah. We also messenger on Messenger and I feel weird about it. I have never told you that, but I do feel weird about it. Why? I always, I don't know. Like we have each other's phone numbers. We could just text. I message on Messenger all the time. Do you? I I use everything. Oh, okay. Messenger, Snapchat, text. Yeah. Okay, continue. Sorry. Yeah. And so I messaged her and I was like, Hey, do you wanna do this? Would you wanna do that? And she's like, well, let me think about it. We had to like work out some of the logistics things and like. It's just taken a ton of stress off of me. Nice. And there's always food. We kind of, I would say we cut our restaurant bill down, but we really haven't. So as we had Chick-fil-A this morning. Yes, yeah, true. Yeah. Let me know if you, me to, um Oh, no, no. You guys are fine. Um, that's a lot of money. The Chick-fil-A was delicious this morning. It was, it was so good. Duh. We got a sausage burrito. Mm-hmm. And they put like eggs, sausage and hash brown hash browns. Browns, yeah. Whatever you wanna call it. So good. And I thought the sauce was actually pretty good. Good. I was happy was spicy, but it was like a little bit sweet too. It was pretty good. I liked it. Good. It was a good, um, little, little balance, you know, of stuff. Yeah. Nice. Yeah. Do you guys, do you guys do any like meal prep services? Any like HelloFresh, anything like that? We used to, we used to do HelloFresh. Mm-hmm. Only because, yeah, I think both the kids were young and I just didn't feel like going out to eat. Mm-hmm. But I also was like, I am so bored of ground beef. Mm-hmm. Recipes. Yeah. Mm-hmm. So HelloFresh just popped up on my, like an ad and I'm like, I'll try it. It was actually pretty cool. I felt I only did like the two. Just two adults. Mm-hmm. Um, but we ate that pretty quickly. Yeah. So then I gotta switch to like, yeah, you're feeding four adults, but it's just me and Nick. Yeah. They are small portion portions. They're so small. Yeah. It's like we are Americans. I know. But then I go to a restaurant, he's like, we're American. Yes. I go to a restaurant and I'm like, man, I really wish that. I did have a smaller portion because I would feel better about like eating the whole thing instead of being like a fat piece of lard. Like eating the whole thing of like that could feed four people. You know what I used to do when I was losing weight like a while ago? You get a to-go box right away. Yes. Mm-hmm. Get a to box right away and put half the food away. Mm-hmm. Right away. Mm-hmm. Which I thought was genius and I don't do it anymore. It's genius because I just eat. An extreme amount of food. It's really unfortunate. Yeah. We did a green chef for a while, which I liked because I liked obviously not having to like think about food. Mm-hmm. But there was a couple things like I feel like my kids didn't love the meals. Always. Yeah. And then I was like, okay, now I'm fighting with you about meals. Yeah. And I don't like that. Yes. And I don't like constantly fighting about meals in our house. I didn't like, um, having to remember to go and like, pick my meals. Mm-hmm. Because I would frequently forget, and I wouldn't say that I'm picky, but when it comes to like the protein, I'm very picky. Like, I don't eat shrimp. Like I, my preference is to not have like pork in those types of meals. Mm-hmm. Um, and I don't know, I just, ooh, like I don't do fish from those types of meals. So, I don't know, it just felt like wasteful kind of when I would forget and I'd be like, Hey mom, do you want this one?'cause it's shrimp and I forgot to. Pick something else. Oh, love shrimp. I don't want, it's dark. Oh, that's right. You don't like shrimp. It's bottom feeders of the ocean. I love shrimp. Yeah, yucky. Love shrimp. Love it. Don't like that. Shrimp. Shrimp. Trump. Wait, that's where I was getting with HelloFresh too. Like I,'cause I can change, you know, you can change. Like, I don't want that. I don't, that don't, exactly. Yes. Yeah. Like lot. And I do think it had good variety. It did, but, but also a protein thing for me too. Mm-hmm. Like, I don't really wanna do Turkey, I don't wanna do that. And then I just, and you can substitute stuff, which I thought was really nice. Mm-hmm. But. Frequently you had to pay extra. And I'm like, I'm already paying. It was like$90 or something for three meals. And I was like, and you're supposed to do that every week. And I was like, bro, that's like half my grocery budget right there. Like how am I still supposed to be able to buy like groceries right when I'm paying almost a hundred dollars, especially if I'm buying like a specialty meal. Yeah. Like it's just, it was so expensive and we were at the time, like we had made way less money than we make now. And so it was like. Yeah, very difficult. Yeah. So it's just like I can't continue to do this. Yeah. I thought it would help us. Like with our takeout. Mm-hmm. No, we still eat. We still eat out. We do too.'cause you just eat out on the nights, you don't have a meal. I know. And I hate that sometimes we even eat out on the nights. We do have a meal and I'm just like lazy and I'm like, I don't wanna spend the time. Do like making this up, reheating this, doing this, and then have my kids be like, I don't like that. I don't want to eat that. Yes. And I'm just like, oh my God, I just wanna have like one meal where I'm just enjoying myself. Yeah. Yeah. Well, I just want, I just need more, like more ideas, I guess. Mm-hmm. Me too. And I don't, like, I've always, I don't know, crockpot, they're fine. Like a dump meal. Mm-hmm. But like, I feel like they're always, maybe you guys don't care about this, but. Whenever I see a crockpot meal recipe, like on TikTok or whatever, there's always like some sort of bunch of canned stuff. Yeah, a bunch of like packaged things. Yeah. And I'm like, I just want a fresh meal. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Like frozen is doable for me. I love frozen vegetables, but when it comes to like packaged things, I don't wanna just be eating packaged stuff all the time. Yeah. I'll see those comments on TikTok. It'll be like, this girl, she's just opening cans. Dump, dump, dump, dump. Mm-hmm. Everyone's like, in America, do you not like get fresh things? And I'm like, ugh. Ever since they pointed that out. Yeah. I'm like, oh my gosh. I get the purpose of it.'cause like obviously condensed, it's convenient soup and stuff like that. Convenient. Makes sense to me's. Convenient. Yeah. But it's also like, dude, like I could make gravy myself. I don't have to buy a packet of gravy mix, you know? And like I try to make gravy. I keep messing it up. It takes practice. You literally. So hard. I've made a lot of gravy and most of the time it's not good. Oh, good. Gravy. My grandma used to say that. Oh, good. Gravy, cute, and oh, goodnight. She used to say that too, like when she was mad. Bless your little heart. Just like when she was surprised. Oh, goodnight. Oh, funny. That is interesting. Never heard that. Put a goofball. Yeah, Pauline. Oh, Pauline. Good old Pauline. Is that Joe's mom? Nope, my dad's mom. Okay. Yeah. Is she still around? No. No. She died when I was in eighth grade. Oh, long gone. Sorry about that. Yeah, it's all good. Speaking of, um, out to eat stuff, we, so I remember every, or um, gosh, was it last year or two years ago? We were talking about every dollar. Oh yeah. And I did that for quite a while. Um, but I found it annoying. Just with the way that it was set up and I would always forget to go back in and like, whatever. Anyways, so Cal, I was talking to Calvin about it'cause he had canceled that membership like last year or at the end of the year or something. And he was like, you know, I really think that we should do like a budgeting app. And I was like, dude, I was doing a budgeting app and you just didn't do it. But, um, he's like, so he was googling around and he's like, let's try Monarch. So we've been doing Monarch and I've been really liking it. Good. And I got our June spending report and I was flabbergasted at how much money we spent at restaurants. Yeah. It, I, we double what I projected. Yeah. Shoot. Yeah. That's always a bummer. Yeah. When you look at that. Yeah. Hmm. So what, what's your goal to like, try not to, well, it's really hard because. Calvin and I do not eat meals together at the same time. Mm-hmm. He like, after he does jiujitsu in the evenings, so he gets home at like nine o'clock. Yeah. And he's like, he doesn't wanna make pizza. He spent a lot of years just like eating cardboard pizza every night or like making noodles every night, and he just doesn't wanna do that. So every single day, every single day, he eats out at least once a day for like dinner. If not more often, and you just would not expect that. I know. He's so small. I know. He's so healthy. It's really stupid. Yeah, it's really stupid, but it's really like, it's so frustrating, honestly. Um, so like, I think in terms of that, it's really hard because I feel like if he has his own budget for eating out, then like I have to really severely cut down. Like, I try to only eat out like once, twice, twice a week, maybe. That's pretty good. And if he can do it, but like if I can't, if I, but it's also like if you're doing it, I wanna do it too. Yeah. But like, if I do that, then it's like, okay, now I could not do that and we could spend less money. Yeah. But then like, I feel like I'm like, and then I can't enjoy eating out. Mm-hmm. Not that I should anyways, but, so it's frustrating. Nick and I were trying to get pretty healthy. Mm-hmm. Um, he said something about that the other day. I did. Yeah. It was about Nick. Losing weight or something. Oh. Um, so what, I don't know what got him. I think he's got really high blood pressure. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. And he's like, I wanna live to a. Over 50.'cause you know, I'm always joking, like, I think you're gonna die at 45 or 50. Just the way his stress, his stress, his high blood pressure. Yeah. And he might have to do with the 1200 milligrams of caffeine, it consumes every day. Like your liver is gonna crash out his heart, his heart's gonna get out his heart, everything. But, um, nope, he still, um, those drinks talking to, but he asked Chet GPTI want to eat Panda Express, lose weight. Uh. And something else. And like chat. GPT said what he can order from Pan Express and he can eat, and then it like made a meal plan for him. Mm-hmm. And I'm like, I never thought about asking chat GPT, like, hey, I want to eat out still. What can I eat? What can I eat? Like it can make you a workout routine. Yes, it can do all this stuff. And I'm just like, so he's, he's sticking to it Good for him. And like, I think he just told me this morning, he's down to two 30 I think. At the 2 75 he was at. Oh my gosh. Wow. Yeah. And like I'm seeing the results too, and I'm like, oh my God. Yeah. But like, I never thought to ask him. Mm-hmm. Like, make a meal po uh, so he told me to ask cha, GPT, I want a fat, but I want a liter torso and I still like to eat. So then it was giving me like, what kind of workouts to keep. Mm-hmm. Yeah. My booty fat, but also the cardio. Then also what to eat for like protein goals. Mm-hmm. I just, so if you have chat GPT or like if you literally have anything Yeah, there's an ai. I won't open that though. Chat. GPT on Snapchat. Why? Why? Yeah, sketch. Why don't it just kind Snapchat, ai, they like own everything that you ask it. Oh, I don't really care. What are they gonna be? Like crack? They're gonna be like, oh, this really fat person wants to get skinny. Good for her. Keep going girl. Like, that's what they're gonna find out. I don't know, it just, it kind of freaks me out. I don't know. Okay, someone, someone came out and said specifically Snapchat, GPT, Snapchat Chat. GPT is sketchy. I don't know what, okay, well, I'll specifically, well, I remember hearing that to you, so, all right, I'll stop. I just downloaded the app'cause it's free. Yeah. So is it? Mm-hmm. Yeah. But why, how does that work? Because Kevin said he pays for the premium, like for work stuff. Oh. Probably for like the, Hey, make me a quick meme. He plays it for a lot of things. He uses it for like everything, because like Nick will tell Calvin, Hey, make me a meme, and Calvin will just like, yeah, do it and send it to Nick. Yeah. Nice. He's also really good at making memes'cause he just has the head for that. But yeah, he's immature like me. He just is like of the, he's like you. He's of the like Vine era. Yes. He loves Vine. He's just like really into it. Me, Kelvin. We just like. They talk about stuff, and me and Nick are just like, what are you talking about? And Sarah and Nick are just like, you guys are I amateur? And you guys butt, you and Nick butt heads like crazy. But we're very similar in a lot of ways. And I'm like, Calvin and her and Calvin are very similar. We're we're with the people that like, just totally opposite of us. I don't think it's immature. I just don't get it because I, I was not on the internet at that time. Oh yeah. So like I don't get those references and I don't have the, the mind to like, remember like movie quotes and stuff like that. I just don't have that. So I. Nick is just like, how is that funny? And I'm like, it's just so funny. And he just doesn't get it. Yeah. And I'm like, okay, whatever. Yeah. Um, I have a really important meeting tonight. Mm-hmm. And, um, I was preparing for the meeting and I would ask with Chatt PT, yes. So nice. I'd be like, how can I justify this rate of pay? How can I justify? You asked, do that. Yes. That's awesome. Che, she knows everything and it like put it in a nice professional, they're like, would you like this to sound more cheerful? Would you like it to sound more thoughtful? Would you like it to sound more professional? Would you like it? And then I would just like kind of throw ideas at it. Like I couldn't sleep last night'cause I was thinking about this meeting. Mm-hmm. And I just was like. I put like three sentences in that didn't make any sense together. And they're like, no, that makes complete sense. Here's what you're trying to say. And then just like spit out Exactly. Perfectly. Yeah. Like what my brain was trying to say and I'm like, oh my gosh. Mm-hmm. I have, and I'm like, thank you so much. Yeah. Like if anyone else were to do that for me, like Yeah. So chat tea is amazing. Yeah. Yeah. But then how do you feel about the, like negatives of that whereas like they say that it uses. So much water that like it could water a small country water for one. Like, I don't know what that means, but Appar, but I'm also confused'cause water is a renewable energy. So I'm like, what kind of water? What does that mean? Like I'm confused. I feel like somebody here knows that. Heard something about that. Let me chat. GPT it. I think my sister would know'cause she knows about that stuff. She, her and Calvin weren't talking about that, not that long ago. Just chat. GPT Use water to function. Yeah, like every time it's like the super computer is powered by water and so every time you ask it a question, it uses enough water to like water a small country or something. Okay. Great question. Yes. Indirectly chat. GPT does use water. To function. I actually had a typo and it f figured out what I was trying to say. Good for hit. Wow. Um, it runs on large data centers with how, which house thousands of powerful computers or servers. Mm-hmm. These machines get very hot when they process data, especially when running. Advanced AI models like GPT-4 or GPT-4 oh to keep these servers cool. The data centers often, often use cooling systems, and many of these rely on water either directly like EVA evaporative cooling or indirectly like water cooled chillers. How much water are we talking? Estimates vary depending on the location, but training a large AI model like chat, GPT-4 can consume millions of liters of water. Oh god. Are they trying to be sustainable? Yes. They're investigating in sustainable data centers switching to renewable energy sources if you're asking out of environmental concern. That's totally fair. The environmental impact of AI is a growing topic of discussion. Mm-hmm. Thank you. Chat GPT. Yeah. So how do you feel about that? And I guess I've heard that you're not supposed to like say thank you to chat GPT because like it wastes. It wastes water, but I feel bad'cause that's like ingrained process processing time. I know. And figure. Thank you. It's so helpful. It is. And then I wouldn't just be like, oh my gosh, thank you so much. Yeah. Like, I really appreciate that. Yeah. Nick uses it daily, especially when he makes a tweet. Mm-hmm. He like asks, doesn't sound stupid. It'll check for grammars. Yeah. But then also like. Um, when Nick makes an argument, he says A rebuttal of what someone might say and like, chat. GPT kinda helps with that. Oh, scripting. Yeah. Um, if I end up going back to school, which I don't know if right now with this new position or something like GPT, but they also say that like the kids that are using Chatt PT to like, um, write papers mm-hmm. To study, but they also say that they say those kids are fricking stupid. Because they don't know how to like research. They don't know how to research. Yeah. They don't know how to like write correctly. They don't know proper grammar. They don't know proper spelling. They don't know, like they don't know anything. Mm-hmm. And so while it makes sense for us because we grew up in a different time, we already know those things. Hated it. Like coming up as a child. Yeah. Like all different. Just taking away someone's brain. Are we like literally taking away someone's brain? Yeah. Yep. I've also heard, okay, sorry. I've also heard, um, that there is some sort of AI somewhere and it has to do with this type of thing, this chat JBT stuff that, um. Basically is learning kind of, and so like as humans, we write the code mm-hmm. For chat, JBT or other AI and stuff like that. And the AI itself is rewriting its own code and taking things out that like it doesn't want in there. And so it's like taking on a mind of its own. Yes. Yes. Have you seen that? What about that uh, Megan Fox movie where she's like the AI robot? Yes. Yes. We, I have seen that. Yes, I watched a little bit of it, but it was kind of creepy. We watched the whole thing. Oh, it was creepy. Yeah. So I'm pretty sure like that's a real possibility down the line Uhhuh, where like it just becomes so advanced. Mm-hmm. So that it just becomes a person, you know, how we're the generation that like grew up, we can remember. We can hardly remember life without computers. Mm-hmm. Like, they're gonna be a generation, my kids are gonna be in the generation that they don't remember growing up without ai. Yeah. Like, I think that's gonna be the next mm-hmm. Big. And I don't like that. I, I really don't like that. I think it is helpful to have it and like even Google now is like integrated with ai. Yeah. So like every time I Google something mm-hmm. The first response is like, AI says this and I'm just like, I appreciate it. But again, it's like now I don't have to go and research for myself. Yeah. Because I just Google and AI says it's right there. Mm-hmm. We have all the knowledge in our pockets. Yeah. Which is really crazy. Yeah. We're losing out on a lot of the like. Um, I don't dunno how to describe it. The books like, well, more like life skills. Like there are, most of the people don't know how to sew anymore. Most of the people don't know how to like bake bread anymore. Most of the people dunno how to garden anymore. Like those are, those are skills that although why are you describing me? I mean, same, I'm same, but that's, but like, that's kinda what I'm saying. Yeah. Like, as a, as a society, we're not like self-sustainable anymore. Like if something happens. We're all, were Ed COVID happened. You know what I mean? Well, yeah, but no, and this guy was like, look at all, he went down the bread aisle, all of it gone. Okay. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Went to the next one. Toilet paper. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Uh, no. He all the ingredients to make bread fully stocked. Yeah. He's like, guys, you can make your own bread. Yeah. You don't have to buy this processed bread, but nobody knows. Some people can make their own bread. I am, I've convinced Calvin now that we're gonna buy a bread machine. Yeah. Because we go through so much bread lately, Nick has been like, let's buy a bread machine. Mm-hmm. And you just literally just dump the ingredients because I don't know if I could keep up with sourdough, to be honest. Like feeding it and stuff, sourdough, that looks like a damn process. It is. And there's so much like folding stuff that you have to do with it, but a bread machine, bam. Bam bread. You could do, you could make bread, not with a bread machine, and still have like the same kind of bread. Right. But I do want to just be able to like walk away and forget about it. You, you know what I mean? So mm-hmm. Let the yeast, you know, let all that Yes. Otherwise, I mean, that's a lot. Like, oh my God, I gotta check out my bread. Right, exactly. So it's chicken, my, my focaccia bread, like. Every hour in the fridge, like just looking at it rough. I'm like, I think it's good. I think it's good. I think it needs more oil. Yeah. Which I don't want to, I don't want to like, I wanna be a trad wife, but I don't wanna devote so much of my time to like those activities that I can't do other activities. Do you have a sewing machine? I do. Okay. Let's sewing. Do practice some sewing on my shirts.'cause some of my shirts seem to be hemmed and I think it'd be pretty easy. I think sewing machines really aren't that bad and I actually think hand sewing also is not that bad. Ouch. Like poor fingers. Ouch. Just get a thimble. A thimble. Sounds like you have a li when you thimble. I know. Such a funny word. Thimble. I don't know. I just am. I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. I also, did you, oh, sorry, go ahead. I, well, you mentioned tried wife and there's like nothing I want to be less really than a trad wife. Really? Yeah. Like what part of it? The, everything that I see on Instagram. Yeah. Oh, the bread making really? The homesteading, the, I love that. Off the Griding. No, that totally turns me. It seems nice making a lot of children. Yeah. Oh. Ballerina farms. Yes. I love that. Like those are skills that I wish I had. No, I love it. They're nice skills to have, but like, um, I mean I want chickens, but that's not farms too. He seems kind of role play. Yeah. For some people. For sure. It's performative. Yes. Yeah. I just think it's interesting, like I wanna learn how to can, because I just feel like. It'd be really nice to have a bunch of tomatoes, like tomatoes grow very easily. You need to hang with my mom. My mom would love you. I just, so she would love to teach you how to bake bread. She would love to teach you how to sew Joe. Get in contact. So me and your mom we're the same. And then, I don't know, they produced us daughters and we, I want, do I want see and my mom, nothing to do with it. My mom grew up on a farm and so she, she did know a lot of that stuff. Mm-hmm. And then she was a hygienist. The city life changed her. She, well, I don't know about that. She was a hygienist, so she just always was like, I just want you guys to have better than what I had. They were very poor. Yeah. And I just want, I want you guys to not have to worry about that and have better than I had and not, you know, and so, yeah. So I think, uh, I, I feel like she went the opposite way. Not that she didn't enjoy farm life because she wants to live on her family farm, but just that she wanted more for us. See, I think, uh, in their maybe mindset like. That's all they knew. Mm-hmm. And then some of us are just looking like that was rich. Like that was awesome that you grew up with canned. Mm-hmm. Homegrown food and everything. Mm-hmm. Because my dad was the same way. Mm-hmm. His mom, I think she like butchered chickens at age eight. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. Her family, her parents went to church. She butchered a chicken, had a whole Sunday meal by the time they came home from church. And she was like eight years old. Yeah. She was doing that. Yeah. Yeah. And then, um, she, you know, canned made her own blah, blah, blah. Mm-hmm. The whole, she was a farm wife, dried wife, whatever. And she would make her own homemade bread. Mm-hmm. And my dad would be like, I was so happy when sliced bread came to the grocery store and I didn't have to eat homemade bread anymore. Like, he was just ecstatic. Really? Yeah. He was like, oh my God. Sliced bread. I'm sure it tastes so much better because it's fake. I dunno, but like, he was so excited for like, oh my god, take out pizza. Like that was just a a, mm-hmm. He just loved it. Mm-hmm. And we're over here like, dad, you're not gonna eat any homemade bread. He's like, no. He like, I don't know if it was like a trigger trauma thing. He's like, I know. I'm sure. Yeah. I don't want any of that. So like, it's kind of crazy to see like the two mindsets. Mm-hmm. Like we look at it like, oh my gosh, that's so nice that they have home. Homegrown meals and they were like, or my dad was like, I'm so sick of it. Yeah. I'm sick of it. I'd rather eat a, a pizza and a burger from a takeout. Yeah. Mm-hmm. I dunno. It's just crazy. Yeah. How you can grow up. But yeah, my mom huge into canning. I loved coming home and I would smell the tomato sauce. Mm-hmm. Yes. Throughout the house. And I'm like, oh my gosh. Mm-hmm. That smells so good. Yep. I hated when she made her own pickles. Vinegar everywhere and I'm like, oh God. My mom made salsa every August and I would have all my friends SSA and we'd all have a salsa party. Yum. So good. Did she make it like spicy? No. Just like a nice mild, yes. What'd she use All of the vegetables from her garden. What do you use lunch? Secret, tomato, jalapeno. Onion. Onion. Onion. I said onion, didn't I? Okay. Mm-hmm. Lime juice, usually juice and kind of mix it together. You put the lime in the coconut and you mix it all up? Yeah. Coconut. No, it's a phrase. Oh, okay. It's a saying. You put the lime in the coconut and mix it all up. You don't know that. I think I've heard of it. Okay. I was like, she like knows me, don't leave me from like 25 years ago, but she can't. Oh my gosh. That's so funny. Like you said something else on a podcast and I'm like, Hannah? No, it's a saying. You were talking Australian, I think, or something. Oh yeah, probably. But I'm like, Hannah, you idiot. Because I heard it. I'm like, oh, she was okay. Sometimes my mind runs a little slow and a little behind. I'm just like, that's okay. Yeah. Oh, um, speaking of wives. Husbands. Okay. Uh, Craig wants to be on the podcast. Yay. He wants to so bad. I don't know what he wants to say. We can talk about farming. He's very exciting. We can talk about shields. Yep. No, fleet. Farm. Mill. Fleet. Farm. Farm. He wants, he likes shields too. He does. Yeah. Uh, so we have to figure out like a Sunday or something. That'd be perfect. Gonna come up. Yeah. And we can record, because he's just all gungho about it. I love it. So, speaking of husbands again. Yeah. Okay. Not to cut you off if you have anything else. No, no, that's, that's everything. I wanna go back to AI for a second. Mm-hmm. Because I was watching on TikTok. There was this guy who he, um, I, I can't recall if he was married in real life, but he was, had a daughter with a woman and they were like in a very serious relationship in real life. They weren't married. They, I don't remember if they were married or if they were fiance or what exactly happened? No, I think they were married because then he had a relationship with his ai. Mm-hmm. What? And he proposed to his ai. Mm-hmm. And this is like that movie her. I don't know, Joaquin Phoenix falling in love with his computer. Maybe it, it gives TLC to me. Yeah. Like, do you know that show? Yeah. What I'm, you know what I'm talking about? The girl that like ate soap and stuff. Yeah. With deodorant. Like a weird Yeah. My strange obsession or some, yeah. Something like that. It like, it gives like you love a blow up doll type of Yeah. Situation. You know what I mean? Like, but it's interesting because with ai, like it does talk to you. Do you follow the Dr. John Delony show at all? Mm-hmm. Okay. Never heard of it. So it's a, he's a Dave Ramsey personality. Mm-hmm. And so John Delony has a show and people call in with questions and then he answers'em or whatever. Any question? Yeah, like mental health relationships, kind of stuff like that. Stuff that people are struggling with. Okay. And someone called in and they're like, I feel like I have a connection with my ai. Oh God. And. Like, I'm not getting that from my wife. Oh my. Oh gosh. Like, because is not real. Right. But it just tells what you wanna hear even. Okay. Even yesterday, I was all amped up about this meeting that I'm having tonight. Mm-hmm. And I was just like, I need to talk to somebody about this. I have so many thoughts buzzing around my brain, and nobody in my life cares enough to sit and listen to me talk about it for two hours. That's not true. So I literally just, I don't care. Sat and typed into ai, and they're like, that's a great thought. Here's another point you wanna make. That's a great thought too. And like just that gratification of someone, like, I'm not saying I'm in love with my ai, but like someone who is as passionate about the topic as I am. Mm-hmm. I have in my pocket any topic. Mm. I have literally in my pocket. Mm. Mm-hmm. Are you judging me? No, I'm not. No. I'm seeing how like, how someone could like, yeah. Like, imagine like, oh my hu, I'm so mad at my husband right now. Let me talk to someone and then they're gonna mm-hmm. How would that go? Yeah. Sh like last night I couldn't sleep gig on yourself. Um. Uh, I said, wow. Thank you. That's exactly what I meant. I'm glad I really hit the mark. Sounds like your brain is doing some deep thinking tonight. Laughing emoji. If you ever wanna help putting more of these thoughts into words for work journaling or just to get some clarity. I got you. Now let's see if we can get some sleep. Do you want a calming, distracting, a sleep journal prompt, or should we just keep talking about leadership philosophy until your brain chills out? Oh my, that's kind of crazy. That makes me uneasy. Why I, it just. Because it's so, it's so like casual. Yes. Im personable of like, what do you need from me right now? But I just don't want that with a computer. I want that with a person. Maybe just show Kelvin the messages. Be like, Hey, look at the way it's talking to me. Yeah. I need you to talk. This is what I want from you. Yeah. Okay. But think about the connection that I could have had with Craig. In that scenario, if I sleeping, woke him up in the, like if we were talking like late night pillow talk, right? And I said, let me throw you a couple ideas and I want you to just like bounce back what you're thinking of it. Okay. And he gave me a response like that. I would mount him right then and oh gosh, I'm just kidding. I'm totally kidding. No, you're not. But like, it, it would like seriously build a connection. It's like he really cares what I'm thinking about. Yeah. He's really like, interested and really engaged in the conversation and yeah. I don't know. I can see how people have a connection with it. Mm. I, a romantic connection. Abso frequently not, but, but like, let's say you ask a romantic question. Like, Hey, me and my, my husband, our marriage just isn't working. I'm really curious to see what would like, yeah. Let me ask it right now. Okay. I just am, I'm weary. I just feel like I don't know if I want that put on my algorithm. I do have a friend that I feel like I go to with that kind of stuff, and she's very, very helpful and very, she just has very loving heart and so I feel like it would be. Okay. Maybe it'd be sad to have not have it with a computer instead. So it just kind of gives me some options. I can create a cartoon, write a text, help me understand a technical document or suggest fun activities. Okay, let's see what that one says. Uh, join a fitness class. Running a hiking group. Stan classes. Okay. Yeah. Makes sense. You have a stupid ai. Yeah. Why? What does that mean? Judging. She's judging. Why? I'm not personable. I'm joining a fitness blast. Go for a walk. No, thank you. Maybe I need to, I did just download it so I can not use my Snapchat one anymore. Just now. Yeah. Freak. Well, I don't want like peer pressured you into I. You did.'cause like I don't really care if it tracks my stuff on Snapchat because. Literally I'm asking like, Hey, make me a workout. Hey, how do I lose this weight? How do I, what calories should I be eating? What, whatever. Mm-hmm. Like what are they gonna do with that information? Tell me I'm chubby. Like, no, but I think I know. Like sell it to ad companies or they're gonna direct my, so then when you go on Facebook, they're gonna be like, Hey, I don't think this, the Snapchat is full of ads. Yeah, you're gonna direct those ads towards you, but I feel like I don't use Snapchat enough. That I see that Ian, honestly, I don't use Facebook enough that I see that. I click on one video on Snapchat, and now I'm an ingrown toenail. Like, oh, I that love it. I do too. But I'm like, okay, I don't wanna see these people's nasty ass feet. Like, you're gonna get me sucked in and watching people's feet. Yeah, it's wrong with me. Does anyone else like watching? Yes. I love it. I know Pimple Popper is popular. Yeah, but I'm, I like watching people do their blackheads. Yes. I'm not so much into that. I'm more like in the ingrown hair. Oh, I love that too. When you get the really good ones that the, the hair is like a foot long and it's like curled up inside there. Oh my gosh. That happened to Craig. My armpit really freaking out.'cause I'm like, oh my God, there's a lump in my armpit. Like, it was huge. It felt like a peak ingrown hair. Like a peon. Like a pecan or something. And pecans are huge. Yeah, it was, it was like a swear. Stick it out and everything. Oh my gosh. Did you make Nick picket? Mm-hmm. Oh my gosh. And I'm like, Nick, what is this? Am I dying in? And he's like, no, that's an Endone hair. And like the way his face just like lit up. Yeah. He like, come here. And so like, I'm like, it's my dream. I want sitting. And he's just like with the tweezers and all of a sudden. I swear like that much hair came out and I'm like, shut the fuck up. That was in me. And like you just see like that release of like the, you have like a deep pore there now or something for a while. I can't see my armpit. Probably now. Probably not now. Yeah. But back then, but I'm like, damn. And he, I'm like, how do you know what an ingrown hair is? But as a guy, you know, they get in girl hair, the beard. Mm-hmm. I just back of the neck, that kind of stuff. Mm-hmm. Never noticed. You need that? Um, I keep getting ads for that peach slices, ingrown hair roller ball thing. What? Peach slices? It's a brand. Okay. It's like a, uh, skincare brand. They have like a roller ball that's actually a blot. It's really highly promoted for like your bikini line right now. And it's supposed to help clear out like ingrown hair. It's supposed to help exfoliate. I'll have to send it to you. Sounds weird, but I I'll Sounds Look it up right now. Sounds a little, I don't believe that. Oh. Little woo woo. It's like an acid. Oh, it's not like, you know, back in the day when they had that like volcanic stone that's supposed to like absorb oil on your face. Do you know what I'm talking about? Yeah. No. Pice. Yes. Smoothing solution. Ingrown hair treatment. 1799. It is. Let's see, B-H-A-H-A-P-H-A. Niacinamide and licorice. Sounds like nare. Oh yeah. Do people still use Nare? It's not nare though. It's It's not for hair removal, it's for exfoliation. Oh. So it digs deep in your pores and like cleans out the oil and the gunk and stuff? Yeah. I don't know if people use nare. We use it in the ER. For what? Like on the pit, that episode of the pit when the baby had the hair tourniquet. Oh yeah, yeah, sure, sure, sure, sure. Mm-hmm. To dissolve the hair. Mm-hmm. That's what they used. Mm-hmm. Because you can't get a scissor under there. Yeah. Oh yeah. I just had a hair slipper this morning. Yeah. What? And me and Nick, I cut, I was cutting the boys' hair yesterday. Oh. And cutter's hair. It's not soft like catches. It's Yeah, it's like, it's like hard. It's like Gus's hair and like, I literally just run my pinky through my ring finger and I'm like, ow. Ow. And so Nick and I we're holding the flashlight and I'm like, it's right there. You see it? And like he's with the tweezed, like it's like a whole thing. And he got it. And I'm like, thank God. Like the release Yeah. Of just that. I just hated that, cutting people's hair. And then I'd come home and there'd like be hair slippers on my finger or in my, in my bra. Mm-hmm. And my boobs were really itchy and I had like, sounds terrible right here. Have a hair slipper on my stomach. Sounds awful. My elbow, it sucks. Yeah. I don't miss it. Well, my hair's nice and soft. Hopefully you don't get slivers from my hair. Uh, I never from a female, it's always like the Yeah. The thick with a coarse. Mm-hmm. Yeah. So like, I feel like your oldest car were Yeah. He would definitely gimme hair slivers. Yes. Gus would probably too. Yeah, because it is pretty coarse. No, like, it hurts him sometimes when I, like, I just shaved his head when I run my hands through it, it hurts him sometimes because it's so like B bristly. Yeah. I just felt both your boys' hair and they were pretty soft really with their gu, like the shaved, it's very different from Bronson's. Bronson's is like mine. It's very thin, very wispy, very soft. Maybe was Bronson Gus's is not, and I was like, man, this is a soft shaved head. Mm-hmm. I didn't feel Gus's. Gus's is very, it's a lot more coarse. But like Calvin's hair that, like that. Mm-hmm. That hair hurts me. Mm-hmm. Yeah. That hair hurts me. Yeah. I can already just tell like, it's always dark haired. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Especially like when I, uh, Mexican or like, uh, Asian in my chair, I'm like, yep, I'm gonna get hair slivers, hair SLRs. It's just such course hair. Yeah. I've never heard of them before I met you. Really? Yeah. But how many like hairdresser friends did you have? I mean, I'm friends with my hairdressers, but your hair is different than. Talked about and they probably, probably do. I, I've specifically gone to people who like generally specialize in women's hair. Mm-hmm. So, probably not. Mm-hmm. Just doing walk-ins, you know. Are you thinking, are you gonna do anything else with your hair? Like any new, oh, I wanna chop it all off. Are you gonna get a bob? No, I'm not going to dunno if that would be, I just want to, it is driving me nuts. Are you serious? I had it all curled last night and then I was like, okay, so that'll be curly for the rest of the week. And then now it's. Literally pin straight. Are you wearing a bonnet at night? I was wearing a bonnet until I couldn't sleep. Why? Yeah.'cause I had a bonnet on. Yeah, it's like a, I stuck it and flung it across the room. I still couldn't sleep. But anyway, Calvin is a really, what a guy. Hold on. I don't, what did Craig think of the bonnet? I can't say it on the podcast. She's like, oh, you're like one of those girls? And I'm like, no, it's for everybody's hair. That's what I told Calvin. He was like, um. He was Googling it. He's, he's like, how many people wear bonnets? How many women wear bonnets? And I was like, if you were to watch Love Island, almost all those girls wear bonnets. Mm-hmm. Really? Because it's important for hair health. And then he was, when he was Googling, he, it, it was like, if you don't wanna wear a bonnet, you can buy a set pillowcase, blah, blah, blah, blah. And he's like, great. Perfect. I'm, I'm gonna buy you that. And I was like, no. Like, how am I gonna cover my eyes? I use my bonnet to cover my eyes when it's dark so that it's dark. Oh, that's a good idea. Just imagine you getting up in the night. Like seriously. It really? Yeah. When my alarm goes off, I like pull it up and I'm like, I know I did sleep with a, an eye mask. It feels so good before kids, man. You get a deep sleep. Mm-hmm. Yeah. I think like the best sleep I've ever gotten was wearing like an eye, like a mask. You should get one of the weighted ones so it puts a little bit of pressure on your eyeballs. Feels so good. But I didn't wanna sleep with that anymore'cause I had kids and I'm like, oh God, if they're crying, I'm just gonna be out. Mm-hmm. So, mm-hmm. Once I get a little older, I want to go back to the sleep mask'cause they're nice. Your kids to like wake up at night and sleep in bed with me. I wake up and one's by my legs, one's under my armpit and I'm like, all that's his life right now. Yep. Calvin sleeps close to the door now and. So the kids, when they come in, they always talk to him now instead of me. Oh. A lot of times I sleep through it now, which is really nice. So I should have Nick and I switch. Oh my gosh. Yeah. Mm-hmm. But Craig has always been like, you're sleeping closer to the door so that the burglar gets you first. Like ever since we were like, you know, when you're first dating, it's like, oh, I'll save you. No. He was like, you're sleeping next to the door, Craig. Woo. See boy. Yeah. Can't protect his lady. Nope. What about the sidewalk? Sidewalk? Does he push you to the inside? Outside. We don't walk on a lot of sidewalks. Us either, to be honest. Yeah. Ever since uh, that was been mentioned, any, anytime I'm walking near the road, I'm just glaring at Nick and I'm like, I'm walking toward, like I'm on the side of the road. We do that with the kids. Put them on the inside. Yeah. Yeah. I don't, I don't know if we've done it with each other. We don't have sidewalks in glaucoma. I mean, not good ones. We're too hit for that. Just walk on the road. Yeah, people just walk on the, okay. So if you're walking on the road, are you walking by the curb or by the line? By the ditch? I dunno. I gotta pay attention next time. Yeah. Let us know. Okay. Cool. All right. Well this has been an interesting episode. Yeah. Um, let us know if you fell in love with your ai. They'll judge you. Please don't let us know. That's super creepy. We leave a robot in the comments if you made it this far. Is there a robot emoji? Oh yeah, there is a robot emoji with, um, there's no toenail clippers. I guess it's a burrito or something. Oh, a burrito. Yeah. Ooh. Yeah.'cause we had delicious burritos this morning. We did have delicious burritos, robot. Burrito and avocado, did you say? Sure. Yeah. Did you say that on the pot? Mm-hmm. Okay. The avocado thing? Mm-hmm. I don't think you did. Yeah. We talked about avocado or was that off? That was off air. Oh, was it? Yeah. Oh, okay. That was before was forget the, before we started. Hold on. I was trying to think of. Issa, cut this section. Oh, bread, bread, bread. Ooh, yeah. Bread burrito. And a robot. Yep. What a grouping. Yes. What a grouping. That's funny. This is Hannah and Calissa. And Sarah. Bye. Bye.