89: Catching Up After 2 Months Off!

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We are back after a million years apart. Shadys, back, back, back, back again, again. Tell your friends, friends. No, I can do it, but I am. I know. Oh, okay. I could do it better. Oh, oh, well we know we're just, this is just for fun, Anna. I could do it better. It's not that serious man. Gosh. Yes. That's funny. So we are back. I know there has actually been a quite a few people who've come up to me and like, where is your podcast episode? I know Diana said something, huh? Mm-hmm. My friend Danielle said something too. I know. Yeah. So I got a new job. Mm-hmm. Blame Calissa. I work Monday through Friday. Now M I'm no longer a Lady of the Night. I'm the Lady of the day. We need like a new nickname. Nickname for you because Lady of the Day is boring because. It's boring. That is kind of boring. We need to think on that. Yeah. Okay. We'll think on that. If you have any suggestions, let us know. Yeah. Leave it in the comments. Yeah. So, uh, we are just trying, doing our best to get together when we can. Mm-hmm. And, uh, well, and you've been traveling everywhere. Oh my gosh. Yeah. She's been a traveling queen everywhere. And you picked up some more hours at work. Yeah. But not like, and you're doing, doing some travel too. Oh, did I? Did we talk? Oh, did you say Hoover Dam on the last one? Yes, we did. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. I knew that. That was a long time ago. Yes. I don't travel that much. I'm a homebody, but still. I mean, you were in Florida then. You were in Vegas. That's true. Like the summer was busy. Yeah, but I'm not usually like that. We're coming in the colder months and Yes, like I've been doing a lot of travel. Mm-hmm. I'm actually so burnt out. So Nick still, he has more tours to do. Mm-hmm. And everyone keeps asking, are you gonna go to Arizona? Are you gonna go to Phoenix? Are you gonna go to Boston and New j, New Jersey? Yeah.'cause what do they do? Like eight shows and that's it, right? Yeah. Like two a month. Okay. But I'm like, I'm already so burnt out. Mm-hmm. And I don't feel like leaving the house. Yeah. But it's Arizona. I would love to go to Arizona. I know there's enough cold weather. Yeah. You could go to the four point thing where the four corners all meet and you can step in all four states at the same time. You should do that. I can do that anyway. Minnesota and Iowa. Bam. Yeah, but that's only two. Take Nick and he can do like a, something about that.'cause that's like something to do with America. I don't care. Oh, okay. I'm not a sightseeing person. I know I tried to talk going to the Hoover Dam and she was like, um, no. Ew. And I was like, actually it was really cool. Ew. But okay. Yeah. I'm just more if you, if I have a really good hotel room. What constitutes a good hotel room? Yeah, like a hot tub. Oh, that'd be nice. Oh, I saw someone's TikTok. They had a waterfall in their hotel room. They had like a pool. Wait, in the room? In the room? What? I don't know where they went. Dang. But I'm like, could have been a Vegas place. What I'm talking about for sure could have been. No, Vegas was nice. This is my fourth time in Vegas. Boring. Uh, it just gets really old. Mm-hmm. So loud and loud. There's so much going on. Mm-hmm. Especially if you're on the strip or something. We were on Fremont Street. Oh, okay. Oh, so I like Fremont, but like, I mean, outside our hotel windows, it's boom, boom, boom, boom. Wow. The entire time. Mm-hmm. And they have like live music on Fremont Street too, which I don't know if you were there for that, like when they had that, but they have like concerts that go on just like randomly and they have, you literally just walk up and down Fremont. Mm-hmm. I mean, it takes you a while because there's, so, there's performers, there's mm-hmm. Performances going. There's like the light ceilings. People Zip line. The zip line. Oh, okay. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I've seen the ziplining before, which I think the old strip is so cool. It is like with the overhang and everything. That is so cool. I love it. So my eyes are so dry because weed is legal, so Oh, so much cigar smoke. Mm-hmm. Cigarette smoke and weed smoke. I'm just like, I felt like I was getting contact high probably because I'm like, I can't breathe. Yeah. It's too much. Mm-hmm. Yeah. But the casino, we were at the circa. That was probably the nice casino hotel that I've been at. It was clean. Oh. And they put vents on the floor, so like it blows all that smoke up. Oh, thank goodness. Yeah, I know. But like you can still like smell it, but it's not the worst. No. Because some places you walk through and it's like you walk into like a literal cloud and you die. The first time we ever went to Vegas mm-hmm. We stayed at the golden nugget. I swear you could see clouds. Mm-hmm. And I'm like, I can't breathe. Yeah. Oh my gosh. It was disgusting. I would have a literal asthma attack and like drop dead right there. Yeah. But like back then, I just remember looking back the first time I went to Vegas, it felt like Hollywood to me. I'm like, oh my gosh, this place is amazing. I'm taking pictures of everything. By the forward time, I'm like, who cares? Like, just get me where we gotta go. I feel like there's only so much you can see in Vegas, like it's all the same. It Actually, when I was driving by it, it kind of reminds me of Wisconsin Dells. Mm. Like why a bigger version? Like it just seems like really touristy. Yeah. Oh, like look at this. Look at this. I see. And you pay so much money. Mm-hmm. And then you're kind of like me. Yeah. That was okay. One thing I would like to do, if we ever go back, I'm sure we will.'cause there's Juujitsu stuff would be the sphere. Yeah. I'd like to see like a really cool show in the sphere. Yeah. We just picked a, but I don't know what that would be. We just picked a show. I'm like, I, because. When you see the sphere on the outside, you're like, oh my gosh, I feel like you're gonna get the experience. No. It's pretty lackluster. Oh no. Aw. But then I saw the Backstreet Boys perform there. I know. I wanted to go, so they were like almost over. Wait, hold, hold on. You saw the Backstreet Boys perform? No. They were performing there. You have seen that? They have performed there. I was like, you're just like, yeah, I saw the Backstreet Boys. They were okay. Nick could have done more. No, I wish. I don't think Nick is with them. Yeah, he's, is he okay. Okay. For a while, I think, not even with all the accusations. I know for a while he was not, when they were just doing stuff like when they were, um, what's that hair movie? Uh, the Trolls movie, you know, the, um, NSYNC has their whole thing in the t Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So Backstreet Boys was kind of like hanging out with them, like doing promo with them at one point, and Nick was not involved in any of that. Oh. So I was like, did he get kicked out? I know, I know. But then well, do you know about the job? So. You don't, there's a whole documentary on, um, Aaron, is it Hulu? Aaron Carter. HBOI think. H Man. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. I've heard of this younger brother. Yeah. Accused him of really disgusting, icky. This a yucky, like you should watch the documentary. Okay. Sorry. On your shoulder. Sorry. That was, that was his shoulder. Yeah. Sorry about that. I thought you like kicked a table or something. That was my shoulder. That's disgusting. That was really loud. Sorry about that. Just like pop it back into place. I had it and did a good crack. Oh my gosh. Ew. Sorry. I couldn't, I don't, I don't think I've ever cracked my shoulder before. Oops. I do all the time. I just take it and pull'em out. Oh, I don't do that. I just like can like dislocate his thumb. That's disgusting. Does he have ER's? Danlos? I'm sure. I mean, did we do this last time? Yeah. The, it's disgusting. Your thumbs are both gross. Okay. But yours is not quite as severe, but no, not as, as bad. We, we are. The Hitchhiker's Thumb Club over here is like straight thumb, straight. Ew, no, ew, ew, ew. This is just normal to me. I don't know. Yuck. That's cross. I think we've had this discussion before on the podcast, and then I think that, uh, we've been like, oh, we should share pictures of our thumbs. We never have Remind us to do that this time. Yes. Yeah, we can do that. Thumb picks. Okay. Yeah. So bring it up like the thumbs and like genetics or, oh, okay. Okay. Um. My friend Eli, his son just got braces. Oh gosh. And his son's very autistic, so I was like, how did that go? Because of sensory. Yeah. And he was like, he, he actually took it really well. And he showed me a picture of like his child's mouth. Mm-hmm. And like, oh, they're janky. They're just like, mm-hmm. Did he have, that's how carver's gonna be? No. Did he have, um, myofacial therapy? I don't know. Maybe they should talk about it. I don't know. But like, it just, like I said, I'm like, because basically That's crazy. Because Eli, I looked at his mouth and I'm like, did you have braces? He's like, Nope, I've never had braces. Yeah, see, he's like, it was all my wife. Oh yeah. And see has Craig. Craig has terrible teeth. He has like very little. Did you have braces? Oh yeah, for five years. Oh, you know what I remember?'cause you showed us pictures and he had braces and those pictures I guess. Oh, he was an adult with braces. Yeah, I met him and he had braces. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I remember that. Yeah. It was bad. I mean, if you need braces, I was an adult. Go for it. I had, I had braces as an adult. Really? I got'em when I was 22 and I got'em off when I was 24. Yeah. Did you know that there are actually like crazy side effects to braces though? What? I would've to look this up.'cause Calvin was telling me about this the other day. He's like, yeah, a metal, unless our kids like legitimately need braces. Like I'm not putting our kids in braces. But also Calvin, like there's something to do with like, hasn't been to the eye glass person in forever. Well, he's perfect vision. At least as far as he knows. Yes, he knows. He sees so well. He's like looking at things and he's like, do you see that over there? And I've got glasses on. I'm. Brol, what are you talking about? Seeing a lot. Okay. Coming back. Okay. Braces real. Yeah. Okay. Let me Google that while you say whatever you're saying. Oh. But like, because he was telling me about that the other day. Mm. And Eli, he is like, Nope, I've never had braces. And I'm like, I've never had braces. But Nick's had braces. Mm-hmm. And then all the people in the car and they're like, no, we've had braces. Or like, they need bridges. Huge amount of populations. Then I, I told Nick, I'm like, what's the history behind it?'cause Nick is just like, right. And he's like, it was all about the industrial revolution. And I'm like, are you Deadass? And he's like, yes. Because you know, other countries, they weren't eating processed sugars and sweets and all that. Mm-hmm. Were like America. He said the industrial revolution, you know, that they softened the food and they've made. Our mouth. They're, you know, your guys' smells weaker over time. So this goes along the lines of like the myofacial therapy. Yeah. It has to do with like, the whole change of the jaw shape of people. Yes. It has to do with mouth breathing, um, food and mouth breathing, um, nutrition. Mm-hmm. Um, all of that stuff has to do with the, well, and I'm sure there's other things too, but the general decline of like our teeth health, our jaw health, our face health in general. Mm-hmm. It's really fascinating. Yeah. Hmm. Yeah. I don't know if anyone's known that, but you know, I haven't seen a lot of pictures like of older people, like old, like way back in the day, people with like bad teeth. Mm-hmm. But they never smiled though, to be honest. True. I'm sure that did happen. Like Queen Elizabeth, didn't they say she had like the worst mouth ever? But they're also rotted. George Washington people didn't have oral care. No. So that's, that's, that has something that's like a different thing to do with, than like shape. But I was reading this book and I forget what it's called, but um, there was this picture and they did a study. This is. Probably child abuse. So sorry about that. But there was these two boys, they're twins. And so genetically they're the same. They're, they're whatever, twins. Um, and one of them was fed the original diet from this place all their life until they, I forget when, what the age was that they studied these children. Um, and then the other one was fed like our diet. Okay. And the difference in face shape and jaw shape, um, teeth. Durability, I guess you could say uhhuh like teeth. Um, proportionally like it was wild. Wild. So I wish I remembered the book or anything like that, but Fascinating. That's crazy. Yeah. Fascinating. Because I know we don't eat like the raw, like the vegetables from the garden or like meat off of deer and just Yeah. Mm-hmm. Very soft food over here. Yeah. We eat mashed potatoes from a fricking packet. Oh, like, you know, some people do. I don't do that, but I do not. I did grow up doing that. Uh, we couldn't. My dad absolutely refused. Yeah. Yeah. Same. Really? Your dad? Yeah. Real potatoes. Yep. That was it. We were convenience.'cause my mom was workeded all the time. She was gone a lot. So it's like that's, do I know how to use the microwave? Yes. Should I use the oven? Probably not. You know, so, yeah. Yeah. Back before your microwave days. Yeah, back before my no microwave days back now I haven't had a microwave in 10 plus. 12 years, 11 years, I don't know. And when I go to school and I have to heat something up, I'm like, hey. How long am I supposed to put this in here for? What does this button do? How do I do this? They're like, are you dumb? Like, ooh, it's so funny. That's crazy. Yeah. So you're using a microwave at your job every once in a while. I try not to bring lunch, honestly, to school because I don't like using the microwave. So I usually eat a big breakfast and then eat like a snack after, after school. Well, they make like lunchboxes where like you can keep it warm all day. I've heard that All you gotta do is just boil it in hot water. Yeah. The tin part. Mm-hmm. Take it out, dry it up. Mm-hmm. And then put your hot, put your hot water or put your hot food in there. Yep. And that keeps it warm all day. Yeah. Might wanna put a napkin in there so I don't get soggy. I did buy some for the kids. Yeah. Yeah. But I didn't buy myself one.'cause I feel like that's too much of an expense. I wanted to do it, but I'm also like, no Cutter can eat the school lunch. Mm-hmm. And he's liked most of it. I've heard that they have actually a pretty good school lunch. I was talking to Lana about it actually. I was like, yeah, I'm gonna make chili tonight. And Cutter goes, I already had chili today at school. Yes. But I'm like, oh dang it. He just needs to get those crispy toes. Yeah. What Cristos did You never have Cryto. I thought you said crispy toes. No, and I was like, no, no, no, we're not. What, what's that called? Cannibals over here? Yes. Okay, so let's go back to the teeth thing quick'cause I looked it up just now. And so apparently a lot of, some of these have to do with like just people don't have good oral hygiene, but it can increase your risk of gum disease and heart disease and Yeah. And to heart disease. Yes. And tooth decay obviously because you don't do a good job cleaning. Like you've got a bunch of junk in the way. So you can't clean your teeth. That's why people get those like white spots, you know? Mm-hmm. On their teeth. Um, and then apparently it can cause root, reabsorption, resorption and um, so it's a prolonged pressure from the braces can cause roots of, of the teeth to shorten. Isn't that gross? But I thought, and like TMJ stuff, it's only on the outside of the, how would it'cause it's pressure?'cause they tighten your wires. To like put things back where they're supposed to be supposedly. Oh. And so that pressure can cause your like deformity of the teeth basically. And um, yeah. Then TMJ stuff and all that kind of stuff. Yeah. So I would say I had a very average experience with my brace. I think it's probably generally people have a normal experience. Yeah. But So do they put drills in your teeth or do they put like a really good glue? It's cement, cement. Cement. Yeah. Oh, did you have braces, Uhuh? Oh, me either, but my sister had braces. You have pretty nice teeth, pretty straight. Mm-hmm. Yeah. That's what everyone, everyone that I know that have all braces, they all look at my mouth. Your mouth is, it's those jeans straight. You got good jeans. But that's what Nick is saying. He's like, oh, you know. Oh, birth the birth thing too. Yeah. I was born in Guatemala. Yeah. So like my parents, no processed foods or anything. Mm-hmm. Yeah. So he was talking about that when you guys had the kids too. He was, because Nick had braces growing up and his teeth were Jan and he had to have braces. And I feel like his teeth are pretty straight still, aren't they? He's never had to do like a, he never wore a retainer red knife. Okay. Okay. And he should, oh, he should have, do they look bad? I feel like, I don't recall. They're janky. If he, if he looks up, you can kind of see one tooth either sticking out a little too far or a little too in, oh, I think it's out far. There's like a slight overlap in the front, just a tiny bit. Okay. But he's always like, I want. Veneers. No, don't. Oh my gosh. Don't let him get veneers. Don't let him do it. It's so not necessary for most people. Mm-hmm. Even I would say for mine it wasn't necessary. Although like, didn't, aesthetically it's definitely looks better. You wouldn't have a front tooth, right? No. I have all my teeth. I had, they're called peg laterals, so my lateral teeth, they were pegs, meaning they're very, very skinny and small uhhuh because they did that. No, just because I was born that way, it's a genetic issue. Oh, I've seen you boys of it. Um, not that I have seen so far, but we'll see. Supposedly it's relatively rare, which is so stupid. You're rare. I am rare. I'm like rare Beauty. I'm like sitting in a cattleman's. Does she only get rare? Does she call it rare? Because she has that rare disease? Tricia paid us. That's so funny. Tricia paid us is hilarious. I feel like, is that even rare anymore? Lupus? Is it rare? No, it's never lupus. That's what House says. You think it's something else? No, I think house is full of it, but, oh, okay. Love. Yeah. I love that, Joe. I think real people have lupus, but he's always like, that's like his tagline, right? Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I think it's lupus. It's never lupus. It's always something else because lupus has so many symptoms. Yeah. Yeah. That's like when people say you have IBS and that's just like a blanket statement for like you have gastrointestinal something that we dunno what it is. Yeah. Yeah. They say that like this generation is gonna have a lot of colon cancer issues. Yeah.'cause we all mask it with like IPS or lactose intolerant. It could be something else. Yeah, yeah. So true. But like getting stuff diagnosed is so expensive. It is. So like what are you supposed to do? And especially if you go in and then you say something and then they're like, yeah, it's just, that's normal. You know? So it's like I know, okay, you have to hear from, put my pants every time. Five different people to like, oh, we did that with cash. I mean, yeah. We have cleared up his eczema. I need to see, is he home today? I need to see him with this cream. Oh wow. It's very, very, very, very expensive cream. Mm. And I was very hesitant on doing it. Mm-hmm. But I'm like, you know, I got a full day with him. Let me put a little bit like just a, A wisp. Yeah. A whisper of it.'cause it's expensive. I know. Yeah. And it, there was like some weird stuff on the label that you said, like age wise. Yeah. So I'm like very tiny little bit cleared him up. Wow. And so I felt comfortable setting him up to my mother-in-law's.'cause she would wake up so tired. She's like, I only got an hour of sleep. He was up all night crying. I'm itchy. I'm itchy, I'm itchy. Aw. And she's like, it could have been the aquifer. We don't know. And I'm like, so I used that little wisp of cream and a different cream I used Nivea. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. And cleared up. And now I'm like, now I kinda wanna test him and put Aquaphor on his skin and see if he reacts Yeah. To Aquaphor. And I told Nick, I'm like, what if it was Aquaphor the whole time? You should look and see what's in Aquaphor and see if there's something that, well, my sister-in-law, she's, is it like petroleum based? Is that why? Yes. Okay. And she's very, she's very holistic. And she told my mom, we don't do petroleum based shett know why, um, Hannah used Aquaphor. It's so bad for you. Mm-hmm. And I'm like, really? So now I'm like deep diving into petroleum and everything about it. So, I mean, maybe the cream health, but maybe not using Aquaphor Health. I don't know. But no, he's, that's rough. He's been sleeping through, I mean, he gets up to go in bed with us, but he's not waking up, waking us up crying. I'm bitchy. Aw, poor honey. Yes, but I'm also like, okay, we clean the outside of him. Mm-hmm. What about the inside? Because they're always saying your gut. Mm-hmm. Your gut carries so much throughout your health, like, which is why I really wanted, as the not parent, I wanted to see his allergy test because I know I was like, yes, maybe it's not causing that, but what if it's exasperating, exasperating it? Like what if there's something that's causing more inflammation and that's why it's. Even harder to get rid of. Like, I don't know. Yeah. My mother-in-law, I'm, I mean, she had'em for so long and she went on all these eczema like group chats. Mm-hmm. And like group forums. She's like, Hannah, everything you're saying to me, all these people are going through it. Yeah. And I'm like, so. They all say the same thing. Dermatologists don't know what they're really doing. Doctors they don't really like. It's called a practice, I guess. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I'm like, I'm just so sick of like poking him and prodding him. Like, yeah, skin stuff is, I feel like doubly hard because you have not only the outside like environmental issues, but it's also, it's obviously an organ, so it takes from your insides as well. So there's like two areas that really just, yeah, it's hard. It's hard. So right now, I'm glad it's getting better. We are just blessed that he's not crying, that he's itching, but yeah, I'll show you his skin after. Okay, good. Good. And he's all happy too. He's like, look how good I am. And I'm like, I know you're so clean. Last time I saw him at the gym, he, I think it was, must have been like after a big flare up or something and he was like, oh my neck, look at my neck. I know. And it was so I take him to daycare and like Holly knows,'cause she's like, he cries waking up. Most of the time, and she tries to distract him. And then like a parent saw Cash's neck and was like, does he have something like, oh, I don't know. She thought like, I don't know what she was thinking, but Holly's like, I mean, you just never know. Yeah, because she was maybe afraid of like, uh, yeah. Transmittal disease. Something, something. Yeah. And Holly's like, well, he's got eczema. And the parent's like, oh, okay. That's where I'm like, ugh. Like just leave him alone. Yeah know, but no. Well, I'm sure he overhears comments. Oh, I'm sure. Luckily he's so little still that hopefully it's not, it won't like stick with him, but Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Hopefully he won't remember this. Hopefully not. I don't remember a whole lot when I was three four. Right. I don't remember a whole lot of anything, so No. If I really think about it, yeah. I have very flashes of just like, yeah, like, I think that's probably my earliest memory. Like, yeah, just flashes. I'm curious to see what my last, what, what my seven minutes are. That's a little morbid. Yes. Do you know what I'm, what does that mean? Yeah, what does that mean? Like when you're dead? Yeah. Before you, before your death. They say you get seven minutes of. Life, I think in heaven. You can go up and you can, there's like this big screen teleprompter and this big control room and you can like fast forward, rewind, zoom in here, zoom in there. You can see what happened to Jodi. Who's intru? Gosh. Oh gosh. Jesus. It right by me. Gosh. And it was like, okay, let's see if you're meant to go to heaven. And they pull up all my past. Yeah. Your judgment day's coming, girl. Oh gosh. That's so funny. Yeah. So you guys have plans coming up for. Travel or for like big stuff coming up. Holly's dog. Like to go to Nashville. For what? I'm sorry. Big, big subject change, but never been. Really? Yeah. You wanna see the birthplace of Taylor Swift? Isn't that where she like did a lot Cafe? Yeah. Is it what? What's it called? The Bluebird Cafe is where she was like discovered by Scott Brata. Hmm. So yes, I would like to go there, um, Dolly World, get a coffee. Yeah. Um, I'd really like to go to a Kelsey Ballerini concert. Okay. You just sent a song of hers and I was like, what is those? No, she didn't. Yes, you did. You sent a, you didn't send the song, you sent like the title in the group chat and I was like, I did. Yeah. It was like Dixie Chicks or something. Oh, yeah, yeah. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. No, Kelsey Ballerini had a divorce album. Oh. We were talking about divorce albums were talking and how good they are. Oh my gosh. We need to make a new episode and d divorce Talk about this. Yes. Oh, we need a pop culture. Yes. Yes. And, and then the chick had, okay. Pause. We have to, we have to make a new episode for this. Okay. Okay, so we'll cut this segment here. Yes. Editing Issa. Yep. I'm just waiting a couple minutes. Oh, but we have to have a, a closer, we can't just be like, I'm trying to close so I can make a closer so Issa can cut this part out. I'm probably gonna leave it all in because this is hilarious. Oh my gosh. Sorry, I had to zip those lips. Alright, so we're just gonna end this episode. Um, that was like a little bit of like what we've been doing lately and where we've been. Yeah. What we've been doing. And we'll probably keep talking more and more throughout, you know. We'll bring it up in, yeah. Quick little, not like a cliff note, but like, you know what I'm talking about? Yes. Okay. Okay. I totally was lost just then, but that's okay. Yeah, I know. That's totally fine. No, Nick says, I'm not very good at explaining things. I think I am. I think Nick is just superb at explaining things. Nick is very direct and I think Hannah takes the roundabout. I do, yeah. I was saying something to this, sorry to keep going, but I was saying something to Calvin about this.'cause I was telling him some stuff and I was like, man, I just explained that. And like three minutes. And when Hannah. Said that to me. It took like 20, so maybe, I don't dunno. Something I don't know. I have found I'm really bad at like conversational recall, like, mm. If someone's like, well what did they say? I am like, huh. Yeah. Can you get something like the general principle? Yeah, the general thought process. Yeah. I'm a summarizer, so. I, I think you and Nick are more like, I mean, he has to be, we talk very similarly, I think. Yes. Yeah. And I'm just like, and I saw a butterfly over here and Oh my gosh. One day it, but I'll tell you all the details, everything I know, and I do appreciate that. I love a good detail.'cause when I ask Calvin, like, and then, and then I know the husbands are terrible and he's like, girl, I don't know. I'm just like you. I'll see a TikTok and it'll be like, yeah, my friend got a divorce, and the wife is like, well, help me everything. Of course it's his fault or her fault. What happened? And he's like, oh, well I don't know. Which is just stupid. He was just kind of sad. Yeah, it just, just stupid. Yeah. And I'm like, terrible. Okay. Okay. Bye bye. This has been what? Have you guys forgotten where you come from? Yes, Sarah rushed me. Well, I just we're done. Bye. This has been Hannah and Calissa and Sarah. Bye.