Honestly Tho Podcast
Honestly Tho…is here to encourage thought provoking conversations of substance while keeping it raw, real, and risqué. The host Zina, keeps it light hearted while having conversations of depth relating to relationships, spirituality, parenting, and bridging the gap between black men and women.
Honestly Tho Podcast
Why Are Men Choosing Women With Children? The Truth About Single Mothers
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This week, I’m joined by CeCe from the Drivenbymotherhoodpodcast for a conversation that goes way beyond motherhood.
As a single mother of three, CeCe knows firsthand what it means to start over, lose parts of yourself, and find your spark again after pregnancy and motherhood. We talk about the realities so many women experience but don’t always feel comfortable saying out loud—including the pressure of motherhood, the lack of support, losing your identity, and how all of it can impact your mental and emotional well-being.
We also get into the conversation that’s sure to stir things up:
Why are men choosing women with children?
Why would a single, childless man intentionally pursue a woman who already has kids? What attracts him to her? Is dating a mother really that different? And what do men see in single mothers that other women may not understand?
And yes… we’re talking about the single, childless women who have opinions about it. 😂
Because at the end of the day, if a grown man knows she has children and still chooses her, is that really anyone else’s business?
We unpack the assumptions, stereotypes, judgments, and realities surrounding single mothers in the dating world—and why being a mother doesn’t make a woman less desirable, less feminine, or less worthy of being chosen.
Come for the conversation about dating single moms. Stay for the honest conversation about motherhood, identity, support, and getting your spark back.
Watch, listen, and tell us what YOU think.
🎙️ Featuring: CeCe from the Driven By Motherhood Podcast
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