Ep 165: How to Write a Memoir That Actually Lands With Rachel Weaver

Write the Damn Book Already

Write the Damn Book Already
Ep 165: How to Write a Memoir That Actually Lands With Rachel Weaver
Apr 22, 2026
Elizabeth Lyons / Rachel Weaver

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Rachel Weaver wrote her memoir Dizzy at a seven-day writing residency in Wyoming where she was, by her own description, "the depressed one in the corner the whole time." The (ultimate) result? A beautifully structured, deeply honest book about chronic illness, power dynamics, and what it takes to keep living the life you want even when your body has other plans.

In this conversation, we dig into the craft and business of writing memoir. Rachel talks about why she swore she'd never write one, what finally changed her mind, and the specific structural problem that kept the book feeling like "just a story about me" for years.

We also get into the pitch that got her on this podcast (four sentences, total), what it actually means when agents say a genre is "hard to sell," why bringing in outside eyes too early can kill your momentum, and what her writing group friend Erika Kraus said about her early draft that I am going to be repeating for the rest of my life.

If you're writing a memoir and you've wondered how to make it about something bigger than yourself without losing your own story in the process, this episode's for you.


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