On this podcast we discuss how to ignore what is and focus on the desired reality...
https://manifestwithashley.org/
On this podcast we discuss how to ignore what is and focus on the desired reality...
https://manifestwithashley.org/
Welcome to the manifest with Ashley podcast. I'm your host, Ashley Vaughn. I'm a mindset specialist and intuitive business coach on this podcast. We dive deep into the intricate realms of mindset and manifestation. Here we uncover the profound connections between our thoughts, beliefs, and reality, unraveling the secrets to unlocking our highest potential. So prepare yourself for a deep experience as we embark on this journey of personal and spiritual growth. Today's podcast is all about how to ignore what is and stay focused on the desired outcome. What does that mean exactly? So What I mean by that is it, you have to become like strong enough to stay extremely focused on the vision that you're creating and feeling more like you're in that vision than you are in the physical world and being able to ignore what happens in the physical world because you know that that's just a manifestation of your past thoughts, beliefs, emotions, assumptions. So once you really grasp this concept and you really understand that you're living out what you used to feel, what you used to believe, all of that, and now, if you want to create a future that is one that you actually love and you're creating intentionally, then you have to be strong enough to stay focused and Even when the physical world feels like it's falling apart, staying focused on that desired outcome. Because when you start to focus more on the outcome you desire, then your energy flips and that's how you actually start to pull it in. This can definitely be challenging. But once you master it, you are going to become like the most powerful creator when you can be strong enough and in your power enough to know I'm not letting what's happening in the physical world affect me because I know who I am and I know what I'm manifesting. I know where I'm going, then I'm telling you, your life just gets better and better and better when you can master this. So today I'm going to be giving you guys six tips on how to stay focused on the desired outcome and ignore what's happening around you. But before I do that, I want to give you guys an example of how I manifested 85, 000 years ago to move my nail salon when I only had about 15, 000 in the bank and the process I had to go through to ignore what was, you know, what was happening in my physical world in order to get there. So the first thing I did was I got this amazing vision together that Excited me like on such a deep level and it was so aligned with like who I was and what I wanted at that time So it just meant the world to me. I think you have to have a vision that is like I have to have this, like I'm going for it and I don't care what all I have to go through to get it. So I was very determined to make this vision happen and I got very, very clear on what it was going to look like, how big the space was going to be, how many nail techs I was going to have. I was going to have a receptionist and then I started to go on Pinterest and get all of the The ideas on how I was going to decorate it together and that excited me. So I really got excited about the vision and I would kind of build on that vision all the time. And I started to meditate on it every day. I would just meditate and feel the feeling of what it felt like to move my salon and have space to hire new people. And I, um, I just. I threw myself so deep into that vision that it became so exciting that it took my attention away from the fact that I was in a small space, I didn't have that much money, I only had a couple nail techs and I just wasn't there yet. So whenever you start to focus on your new reality so much and you're getting all the details of it and you're sticking with it, you're being consistent, the universe starts to move things around and shift them to align you with that vision. So I remember one morning I was meditating and I was meditating on the fact like how do I bring this vision to life? I was kind of praying on it and just setting there and all of a sudden I heard God or my higher self Whatever you want to call it say move to your mom's And that kind of shocked me. So I remember sitting there thinking, move to your mom's? And I knew this was being said to me, just because of the way it was like, move to your mom's. You know, it wasn't a thought that I had, it came to me. And I sat there for a second and I was thinking, okay, you know, I'm in my 30's, I own my own home, and of course I don't ever want to move to my mom's, but. Yes, that would allow me to cut my bills in half and I could even make a profit, you know, from renting out my house. And the more I sat there, the more I was like, this makes sense and my mom has room for me. So I called my mom and I was like, you know, this sounds crazy, but I really want to save up this money and move my nail salon to a bigger location. And I just got the idea to move in with you. You know, would you let me come and live with you for a year? I'll Clean your house and cook dinner and stuff. Uh, if you let me live there for free and she said yes and by this time I had been on my like spiritual journey long enough to know that when some guidance like that comes through it is It is for a reason and I just I trusted it So I actually started packing my stuff within an hour of hearing that and I moved to my mom's house the next day I found a renter within 24 hours and I spent that whole year Working really hard staying focused on the vision ignoring the money that was in my bank account And it was like everything just like helped me to get that vision together and it didn't take me a year It took nine months nine months later I had 85, 000 in the bank. At the same time, my friend called me and said, I just rode by Bridge Road and there's a beautiful space available and I think your nail salon would be perfect there. I ended up getting that space and long story short, I got the money. I moved my salon up there. Everything happened. And it just worked out because I was so excited about that vision. I didn't let the stress of my bills coming in and the stress of me being stuck in this small space. I didn't want to be in like, I didn't let it get to me. I was so excited about the vision. I held onto it and the universe, you know, told me, move to your mom's like, that is how it's going to happen. And I followed it. So I kept the vision. I was in the receiving mode, you know, when I'm meditating, you're in the receiving mode to hear the guidance. and everything just worked out for me. So anyway, uh, you know, it's, that's just a story that I'll always go back to when I'm like, remember, you create your own reality. It doesn't matter where you are. You can get to the vision, just hold, you know, hold the focus, stay in your power and know that it doesn't matter where you are, you know, where you're going. So that's just one story. You know, I've been doing this year after year to manifest. I'm going to talk a little bit about how I held the vision and pushed through and I changed my money reality. I went from 15, by focusing on the 85, 000 and the excitement of it, no matter what was happening, no matter how many bills were coming in and the universe. Made it happen for me because I was more focused on the 85 than the 15. So now that I've told you all that story, I want to give you some tips on what you can do daily to stay focused on your vision and ignore what is happening around you. So the first tip I wanna give you is to create that vision. Decide what is it that you really want, and it has to be something that is so exciting to you, something that you're like. I have to have this, like this is everything to me because it has to be that important or you're not going to do the work to actually stay more focused on that than what you're living right now. So the second tip is after you have that vision together, Dive deeper and deeper into that vision every single day. You want to turn your focus to the outcome, you know, of your desire and all of the exciting details because this energy is like what makes you so excited to be living in the manifestation itself. And when you're focused on that, it takes you out of your physical reality and puts you into that one. And you just start to build all of these details and it just becomes more and more exciting to you. And that's the energy that you want to be in to create. So once you have that vision together and you're getting all these details, start to write little notes, little affirmations, put them all around your house. In my bedroom right now, I have a photo of like, it's a photo that matches my vision that I have for myself right now. And it is hanging on my mirror in my bedroom so that when I'm laying in bed, I constantly see it so that it reminds me that's where you're going. So you're going to want to put photos, affirmations, all of these details. You know, of course I want you to have a vision board with it on there and all of that, but even besides the vision board, put little notes everywhere. You know, if you carry a purse, put it in your purse, you know, put it in your wallet. Um, just put little affirmations, photos, reminders all over the place to constantly remind you and to train your subconscious mind like this is the life I'm creating. And that will help you to ignore what is happening, to ignore where you're at, especially when you're frustrated. It's going to remind you, no, I have the power to create the reality that I desire, and that is what I choose to focus on. So the next tip I'm going to give you is use scripting to throw you into that reality, especially when things around you are, you know, stressing you out and the physical world is not matching the desired reality that you have for yourself. Use scripting. To flip your energy. Scripting puts me in the best mood, and it just reminds me I am creating this reality. So sit down, grab your journal, and just start to write like you're already living in the manifestation. Go so deep into those details, so that takes your attention and your focus away from what's happening in the physical world. That is how you become this very powerful creator, because these things are happening around you that you do not really want to be experiencing, but you take your attention and your focus And you go script about the life that you actually want. This is what makes us very powerful. This is what brings about like wonderful change. And remember this, when things are happening around you that you don't want to be experiencing and it doesn't match the reality you're creating, when you give your power and your attention and your focus to it, you are just creating more of that in your future. And that is exactly what we don't want. So when things happen around you. That you don't like, don't call your friends and family and talk about it for hours and don't continue to think about it and obsess over it. Go sit down, get your journal and start to write about the future that you actually want to be living. So the next tip, I want you to choose one or two songs. That match the vision that you have for the life you're creating. And these songs need to be like really powerful, like songs that you love, songs that really throw you into that vision. And once you have those songs, then I want you to start to like once or twice a day, whenever you can. Put on some headphones, listen to those songs, close your eyes and play out the vision of living in your manifestation. This is such a powerful way to create your reality and I'm telling you, like you got to find the right song. It really has to be one that brings up all these emotions within you. But whenever I'm doing this, like I will cry and everything just feeling like I love that vision so much. This is so exciting for me. I'm so thankful knowing that it's coming that I'm just like so emotional that always puts me in the right state of mind to where I am focused on the new reality and completely ignoring what is happening around me. Okay, so the next tip, I want you to create a list of 20 things, but you can do more if you want. Um, 20 things that. Will happen after you've received this manifestation and what this does this just makes you dive even deeper like into the vision So you've already got the vision. It's already your life. Now. What what are 20 things that you're gonna do 20 places You're gonna go how you gonna feel anything just dive so deep into what is your life like after the vision all of these things Just train your mind to go like Far beyond where you are now living into the future and feeling the excitement of it. So whenever you're stressed out and the physical world is driving you crazy, go sit down, read that list, add more to that list. Just jump to the new reality. So the next tip I want to give you is this create a statement that is very powerful and that excites you and it's a statement of like your wish is already fulfilled, you're already living in it and put that statement everywhere, have several copies of it and no matter what is going on, no matter what happens throughout the day, just look at that statement and remind yourself, focus on it. What's to come focus on what you're creating that way. You can just it's a constant reminder Do not give your attention to what's happening around you focus on the reality you're creating So make this statement really powerful make it a statement that brings up emotions within you and just let it be that reminder That what you're focusing on expands and you choose to focus on this reality the one you're creating So that's it for all of the tips, but I really just want you to remember, you know The reality you're experiencing right now is a result Of your past thoughts, beliefs, emotions, assumptions, and if you can master your thoughts right now and you can align your thoughts with the reality that you're creating, you can align your beliefs with the With the fact that you can achieve this. This is the life that you're going to have. You are worthy of it. You know, make sure your belief system matches the reality you're creating. And your emotions are just, you are so excited knowing that that is the future that you're creating. You know, I want you to feel into the emotions of that future often. And I want you to assume that it is already done. This is your reality. And if you do all of these things, I promise you, you are going to become this very powerful person who year after year, your life just gets better and better because you know how to look at what's happening in your physical world and go within yourself and change something so that you don't manifest that anymore. You know, go within, be, become a master at going within yourself and thinking, what have I done to attract this in my reality and how can I change it so that I only attract things I love? And I'm telling you, you're, you're just going to become such a super powerful person if you can ignore what is and stay focused on the desired outcome that you really want to achieve and that life that you really want to be living.