Self Made & Single™
This podcast is all about bringing on female entrepreneurs to talk about why they are at the top their niche. We also want women like you to get behind the mic and spill the tea on the ins and outs on of dating as a successful business owner.
On the show, we explore our self made guests' dating life. We talk about everything from their last breakup, to the dodgy Hinge date from last weekend to that ex that thought it was cool to message your mother on her birthday...
So what is the end goal of this show?
Think of this as a global, on-demand mastermind to help today's Alpha and Sigma women demystify the journey to finding love. By listening, the aim is for the audience to grow from their own experiences and take ownership of where things might be going left.
Self Made & Single™
THE MALE VOICE SERIES PART 3 - Homeostasis and The Endless Pursuit of Love with Founder, Miguel Angel Diaz
Embark on a colorful ride with the ever-so-charming Miguel Angel Diaz, the heart and soul behind Sandia Creatives. As laughter fills the air, we peel back the layers of a life lived with intention and self-love, with Miguel's flair for blending humanity and technology in digital design leading the way. His spirited approach to creative services, much like the refreshing taste of watermelon, injects a zest for life into everything he touches, from Barcelona to Zagreb. Yet, it's not just about the work; it's the harmonic quest for balance in the rhythm of life that takes centre stage, as we explore how loving oneself is the melody that orchestrates our entire existence.
There's an unexpected twist in the plot when we lose Miguel to the tech gods, thanks to a battery mishap. Still, the episode doesn't skip a beat, standing as a vibrant example of how communication thrives on more than words alone. From the heart of Ibiza, where passion and culture pulse through the veins of Sandia Creatives, to the silent language that unites us all, join us in a conversation that celebrates the beauty of being human, the power of authentic connections, and the endless pursuit of love in its purest form. So, let's raise a glass (or rather, a slice of watermelon) to the stories and revelations that remind us who we are beyond our job titles, because in this space, it's the human experience that shines brightest.
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Did I give it away, or was it a persuasion? You are in my space, I I, oh wait. I don't care what you say, I'm loving it this way. I'm hoping that you stay. I, I, oh wait. You're talking me to sleep, or was it a persuasion? You are in my space. I I, oh wait, I don't wait. Welcome back to the self-made and single podcast, and I'm your host, rachel rose. You can probably hear I'm laughing a little bit already, because I'm here with someone who is just amazing. I met him years ago and when I had the idea of having these bonus episodes with all of these juicy men, I thought okay, miguelito, I have to bring on the show.
Speaker 2:Cheers for that.
Speaker 1:Cheers for that. And Miguel. So we have Miguel Angel Diaz, who is the founder of Sandia Creatives, and we have the pleasure of being with Miguel today to talk about loving yourself. I think it's such a really that's an interesting topic for these bonus episodes, you know, because for everyone. I love it. It's important right yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:I think it's the most important pillar about life family, work and all these subjects. That makes our personality. But sometimes we lost ourselves. Sometimes we start loving more the people we are around. That is good. But everything life if it exceeds your limit, it's not. It's not. So you have to go on your own road, rowing your own life, like in the river. What's going on you never know, but you have certain control of what can happen today. No past, no future, just today.
Speaker 1:Oh, I love that. I love as well, like the fact that you can lose yourself in other people as well is very true, very, very true. But before it happened and it's definitely happened to me, for sure. But before we get into the love bit, what about we talk about? You know what Sandia Creatives is all about?
Speaker 2:like, we want to hear about your business well, let's start like very humble, how we create an agency. I have a partner, a business partner, here that we create. This agency was created by very good vibes around. It was't the coffee season, so it was not quite easy to have very good vibes in that season, but we try. It was good, was nice, nice situation, nice clients, nice. That's why we are. We want to be called creative. You know so why? Because we Ciao. So we start. Yeah, I know a lot of people here. So, yeah, that's something I love about Ibiza. I live in Ibiza, so this is a great life here.
Speaker 2:Everybody knows about Ibiza, but it's not always like that. So, yeah, it was a very creative moment, very depressed in the society. So we came up with this idea like to cheer up our daily life. You know, nobody were working, nobody. So we started. We said like fuck off the news, fuck off everything, let's start to be creative, let's start spending our time, you know, into very important shit. So that's why, that's why, that's why that's why that's why, so, baby shark. So what did you say, baby shark? So, so, this is the guy who comes into the soccer teams, you know, playing around. That's Ibiza life. I love it so well, yeah, we created this.
Speaker 2:The Sandia comes with a very special situation in Ibiza. That was wonderful. It was a very creative moment, not about technology that we are like focused on website branding and consulting everything. So the name came out from a living, all our lifestyle in the island. That it's like alchemy you get, you gave what you receive, what you receive.
Speaker 2:So we call it sandia because we used to have a watermelon in a special place later I will tell you which place was it like calaconta. So we were cutting the, the watermelon we were sharing with people we didn't know about. They were sharing, you know, weed or good experience. There were a guy playing the guitar. So it was a very special moment. So we took that idea and we're developing the same idea, but into the technology. So, trying to yeah, we accept technology, because I'm starting even that like blockchain, solidity and all this stuff but we want to create like humanize the technology. That is quite difficult because technology is technology. So we are trying to twist it so we can keep it going on the technology good, technology is taking a lot about our lives and stuff. So that's the main solution about sandia about, yeah, we can do technology, consulting everything but more like humanizing the society yeah that's the main concept I like that.
Speaker 1:I like so. Is that more from? From what aspect is that from? Like a marketing aspect?
Speaker 2:no, we, we don't treat uh, marketing just technology, but what we do is like creating technology, like very intuitive, very tough about not getting the hook, so you can keep in the technology, just the necessary technology, about any project. It can be hospitality, it can be high tech or whatever, blockchain, whatever but focus on the humanity. You know, that's the meaning about us, like the pressure, that's why Sandia watermelon nothing more fresh than a watermelon.
Speaker 1:You know, know, everybody knows yeah, and I remember hearing that was the name years ago and I was like, okay, one day you'll explain to me why.
Speaker 2:Yeah there's a big, big identity behind that's why. Why? Because we develop branding and all this stuff, so we know how to tweak the detail into technology and so where are your clients at the moment?
Speaker 1:where are they based?
Speaker 2:normally I was working from barcelona and then I was working from croatia, sagreb. I was living like four months in sagreb but I noticed, like this is my place and it's not about me, it's about the business and the ideology I want to develop. It's perfect here because there is a lot of different nationalities, different cultures. Ibiza is like a mess up about culture and money and everything, so everything gets messed up here. So giving a little bit of order in this mess up is opportunity, you know yes, and particularly Ibiza.
Speaker 1:There's so many international people that like pass through the island and it's, I feel, such a big hub for entrepreneurs as well. It's. It's almost like a well, I was going to say an expensive Bali. Now Bali is on par with, I think. Yeah, but it's like the same idea you would get if you think about. You know, you're definitely going to meet a lot of entrepreneurs there and I think you picked a good spot. But I remember actually, like when we used to work together, you always had this kind of nomad vibe.
Speaker 2:You know you were not destined for London and the rain and all that bullshit no well, I started in Madrid, then I moved to Ibiza, then I moved to Amsterdam, I remember. Then I moved to Vienna, then I go back to Madrid, then I go to London, then back to Barcelona, then Croatia, then again Ibiza. So finally I said like stay in a place, please for myself. You know, just be quiet. You know it was the COVID season. Even that was my promise before the COVID. I said that was my promise before the COVID is like staying in one place for one year at least Just get your thing straight and then you can keep traveling.
Speaker 2:But well, I did it. Then I changed to Barcelona, then I changed. But well, finally, I want to establish something in the island. I know the island needs me. I know a lot of people here so I know I can work with them. That's why.
Speaker 1:Ibiza. So all the hopping around like how did that work with your love life?
Speaker 2:You're just breaking hearts, miguel, all over the content or maybe around they break my heart too. But well, something that I always, uh, since I was a little kid, like 14 years old, 13 years old, my father always taught me about Steve Covey. So he's a guy, he. He died very young, but John like 50 something, but for me he's young because he tried to explain to us the win-win situation. Negotiation, understanding the other people, understand the other side, always create business for win-win. It can be done. Maybe someone is going to be a little bit more, but everyone winning. You know it's the healthy situation in business.
Speaker 2:Because money is something that I know for experience about relationships. It creates a very, it can create, because I've been to relationship that both of us was not like big spenders, you know. But when I see the evolution, like going through the relationships, I see even me. I'm not telling the other part, I'm telling the persons, not, not not genders. You know, sometimes when you get like certain amount of money, because everyone has a limit, everyone has a top, you know. So when you get close to your top, you somehow your personality starts to be like distracted or contaminated, maybe with the money Interesting. So I always, I have always in my mind. Even I have a how do you say a poetry, like a writing about poetry? It's called Desiderata, so the thing about For our non-Spanish speakers.
Speaker 1:What does that mean?
Speaker 2:Desiderata, and I don't even know what it is. That's why the poem I explained to you like it's very awesome, you have to search, I will share it for you and it's a very complex. It's very simple but it's very complex to understand it. So sometimes the simple things in life are this is the difficult part of understanding. So for me it's the humble side. Everyone has to have a humble side in their life because you can deny that sometime in your life you will be like in the top. If you're searching the top, you know if you want to get the best of you in money, because we are always in the rat race, everyone Rat race and those stuff. No time for, not even the family. So I think, is the main problem in the society about relationships, one of them, one of them, I'm not saying this.
Speaker 1:No, Just as we speak like everybody loves. Miguel.
Speaker 2:I love them First. First, I love, I love them. That's why, yeah, so yeah, that's the. For me, it's one of the most important place, place to be like to focus about relationship, the money, how you, how you hand the money, how the money affects you, how you share the money. It's not giving away and not giving. It's not giving away and not giving. It's like it's not giving away and not giving. It's like. The perfect name in Spanish is homiostasis the balance. We are always looking for the balance. I'm talking about the balance. I'm Libra.
Speaker 1:I'm not a balanced guy you know, you are balanced, you are Libra, even but I'm not balanced, you're not balanced.
Speaker 2:No, no, no, it's our defect. It's our defect really yeah, yeah, the libra are. The defect is the they don't know how to balance and so they always in one side or the other side, but they understand the both side, but they cannot, you know, hold it. They cannot hold the balance.
Speaker 1:When I think Libra, I think someone who is always weighing up the pros and the cons.
Speaker 2:Constantly. That's why. That's why Because they are unbalanced, they know the bad unbalance of one side and the bad unbalance of the other side. Let's not talk about like good thing and bad thing, because I'm not allowed that in my life, because there is situations in life that something is not good for that time and something I are good for the time. So it's playing around, you know okay and so.
Speaker 1:So, with all this traveling, how do you fit in love? You know, because you're single, right? Just let everybody know if you yeah yeah, yeah, I'm single.
Speaker 2:I'm trying because some of my part of my life I say to myself like the fuck it, just don't even try. And that's the worst action yet you can do to yourself because you will stop learning. Yeah, I know we are all fucked up, we are all heartbroken, but you have to keep going because you know it's not only because, it's not only love, it's not only money, it's tuning. Yeah, you know the tuning about everything family, money, relationships, about yourself. Love yourself. Start with that, please, please. Even if you are a religious guy, if you are Muslim, if you are jewish, if you are catholic, all the whole religion, the whole like, if you put it all together, is love yourself, because depends on how you love yourself, you will love the other people yes how you treat yourself I love that.
Speaker 1:You said something that is something I preach all the time. You know, love and relationships it's not just about love and relationships like. It has a butterfly effect on the rest of your life, like all all types of relationships anyway romantic and platonic but when you you're choosing someone who you're going to spend an infinite amount of time with, that's a very important choice you know it's going to affect you magnetize money, how you magnetize luck in your life, what your spiritual connection is going to be.
Speaker 1:So for someone to say you know what fuck love like? I've given up it's, it's almost, it's not even almost, it is self-sabotage, it's it's suicide, as I like to say, because we are made of love. You know, that's the essence of who we are as human beings. So to deny that is to deny ourselves, deny our identity and deny any blessings coming our way if you say I won't stop loving, you will stop loving yourself because it's not enough.
Speaker 2:that's I want to be clear love yourself until you are capable to give love, but don't love yourself and keep it, because every energy, if you hold it, will explode. Even with love, even with hate, even with everything, there's no good. There's no bad. The unbalanced guy is telling you to balance. Yeah, yeah, I know, I know, but it's like I'm not talking about my reality. I'm talking like I know I've been doing it. People love it. People love to be treated like the right way. It's not, it's a general stuff. Everyone likes to be like smile, a good looking. You know it's simple, but we are human. Human when they see something simple even myself, we are all human. We we start to be boring, but if you go deep, you won't be worried.
Speaker 1:I think it's really interesting because, you know, you've always been someone to me who just exudes love, like you're very magnetic, even like as we're speaking right now. You know people are just like oh my god, you know because, you're, you have this sunny disposition, this energy, and for you it's normal, for you it's like of course. Why would I not be?
Speaker 2:yeah, I remember the opinion in london about it. Yeah, I know, but it's something that I, the first investment we're talking about, like the same structure as money. The first investment I will do is like lost. I will invest my good will and my good, uh, whatever I can show you about myself, what I have, I will show you, like pure face, but very clear. I can lose, you know well, I I bet myself to lose. Why? Because when I win it can be hundred, just one. But when I win it can be 100, just one.
Speaker 2:But when I win I see that pretty face saying like here, like hey, miguel, hey, and for me it's happiness, like social happiness, you know at least. And when I go out, I like the people, I like whatever they do. I know people here working in hospitality or design or whatever they work, whatever. I don't distinguish the people about their work. It's who you are really behind that face, behind that maybe happy or sad or whatever. Show me yourself and let's say that I will show you myself. In the beginning it's very tricky because it's not easy, I know, because sometimes you will get disappointed.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, sometimes you are. For example, you're a fuck love, you know. So you won't laugh anymore. You won't interact the same energy as you say, yeah, I've been hurt, it's okay, maybe I will. I will be hurt more time when you accept that, when you uh, let me say that, when you accept hell, because people only want to accept heaven, but they don't want to accept hell. So accept hell, accept heaven, be in between. That's why we are that. We are between heaven and hell.
Speaker 1:I love this because, um, I think it was very recently I was talking about contrast and it's exactly what you're talking about. Like we have to accept both sides. I think sometimes when people give up on love, they're only looking at it with this magical pair of glasses and say, oh, it's all supposed to be like how it is in the movies and in the songs, but actually love is that fusion of both shadow and light energy yeah, sharing, sharing, not taking exactly because there is two typing and I know that, like long time ago, there is two type of people in this world the takers and the givers.
Speaker 2:The taker have to accept that someone is giving him or her the energy, and the giver have to accept that you are giving good position. So don't be like after giving, I give a lot. No, I give it and I love to give more. Why? Because this person don't accept it or maybe don't realize this big, maybe, emotion I have for you. There's's a lot, a lot of so many other options Exactly.
Speaker 2:A lot. So keep your structure, if you, because what I say, this is not from a wide thinking, because I'm only 35, but yeah. When I start see, you don't even have like one bloody wrinkle no, no, not because my italian bloods yeah, yeah, they're like yes, so ladies, he's, he's venezuelan and and libyan and italian and a little bit of German oh, I would now no no, well, let's see, venezuelan does it now he's just adding it's like you know when you go to the ice cream.
Speaker 2:Spanish. Like one third of my genes, yeah, are Spanish because I'm Diaz carleo, so my diaz is spanish and carleo is the yeah. So well, yeah, that's my opinion about these loving business realities so what about?
Speaker 1:so, if we talk about what you wish, what is this? What is something that you wish women understood about men, do you think?
Speaker 2:I will give the same reply I give to my colleagues about girls and those uh, and it's just a step that a woman and man will never understand each other. So but keep it that idea. Maybe you can hear like no good thing, because you won't understand. Like it two persons don't understand each other so they cannot have a relationship, even a friendship or whatever. No, they can. It's about what are my defects, what I need and what the other person needs why? Because sometimes when we look for love, we just want to get our cup filled, not the other cup. So I think that's why, when I talk socially, think about invest yourself first. But to invest yourself in this society you have to love yourself. So it's like a bank you make a saving, you're going to the top of the saving. Now I can invest. So it's the easy way to explain to the business area, you know, yeah so if you exceed your saving, you can invest.
Speaker 2:So when you start investing your best of you, like two fighters, I think, yeah, two fighters, best of people, will see you shining. I have learned my shining has been taught also. It's not maybe I'm born with this because my society is different, you know. But even from you, a lot of people from Lodge, from all my experience traveling around, I call them angels, no matter the gender. I always say they don't even know the message they are giving to me. They're just giving the message. That's why I speak to you like this, because I don't mind to talk to you with the truth. Oh, you know that. You know that.
Speaker 1:But no, I love that because I always say that and you can. I don't know if you feel the same, but when you have somebody in front of you, normally maybe they talk like, and then one random moment they channel this message from the divine for you and it's clear and you and you. It just feels so like for you in that moment and they don't even know they're giving you that message, I know.
Speaker 2:I have some theory. First of all, theory Sometimes you have to hear what the other person don't don't know what to say. You said I don't know if I'm saying good english, but sometimes the the speaker don't know what he's saying. Yeah, but the receiver is feeling like identify about they're.
Speaker 1:Yes.
Speaker 2:Angels. I call them angels and they are like for a certain type of time. It's not. They are angels. You have to. If you have that person, don't tell them and make that mistake and they lose their energy. Oh no.
Speaker 2:No, it's because about you, it's not about them. They don't know what they're doing, yeah, but you feeling identify about. They say about like, yeah, man, yeah, it's happening in business, like you heard, someone is like a guy, a junior saying something and the pro say like, oh, this junior is something about, about this guy, yeah, I love that, love that okay so I will make a pause just to let you know I have three percent of the battery oh, no, okay, all right, cool so let's go, you can cut this right yeah we'll go straight to the um question about one thing you don't understand about women no, I I don't.
Speaker 2:I will talk like I'm a man of science, so I don't understand your hormones. It's like I know it's very powerful. You can have children, you can milk them. It's amazing, your body.
Speaker 2:I would accept that one body is amazing, but it's something, something chemical about it, like it's okay because we have the test around, you have the process. So that's why I told you about you. Always don't have to be like in the same, because sometimes people look for the same thinking, the same love, the same same shit. So if you want that, have a relationship with yourself. When a guy or a girl looking for someone like him, they don't love themselves, because when you love yourself, you're looking for something different about yourself, not the same shit. Wow, even you get boring about yourself. So you want to have fun. Something different, another culture, another talking, another thinking, instructor, whatever it's something like that. And I know the professor and the test around has about thinking have effects. So sometimes for me it's hard to understand just understand us, okay.
Speaker 1:What can we do to help you understand us with our hormones?
Speaker 2:they're talking talking, communicating with you I, I always, I always trust about. Like, if you talk, even you don't stress in yourself, because why I know about this is not about girls, it's about how my travelling adventures, you know. So sometimes I'm talking with people that they don't know English, they don't know Spanish, but you know it's like an Indish guy oh no, did we lose Miguel?
Speaker 1:I think we lost him. Okay, it appears that we've lost Miguelito, unfortunately. Did we lose Miguel? I think we lost him. Okay, it appears that we've lost Miguelito, unfortunately. So I will leave all of his contact details below. Oh, what a shame. He did warn us he had 3% batteries. But you know, on this show, whatever happens, we record and we just keep on going. But wasn't that such a thought-provoking conversation. I'm so glad we got to have him on the show. If you feel that you would love to connect with him, as I said, check out the show notes and definitely reach out. I'm sure he would love to hear from you. So that's all we've got for this episode, my lovely Thank you.