Your Dating Profile is Your First Line of Defense Against Narcissists

Ready to transform your approach to dating? This episode dives deep into creating a narcissist-proof dating strategy that saves you time, heartache, and wasted makeup. 

Many accomplished women aren't struggling to get dates—they're struggling to find the right dates with emotionally available men who match their commitment level. After experiencing relationships with manipulative partners, you might find yourself either overly cautious or unconsciously repeating harmful patterns. The solution isn't fewer dates or lowering your standards—it's smarter filtering before anyone gets the privilege of meeting you face-to-face.

I've created a specialized free training that teaches you how to identify narcissistic traits while avoiding a common pitfall: mistaking healthy enthusiasm for red flags simply because past trauma has confused your warning system. You'll learn how to maintain authenticity in your dating profile (yes, keep showcasing your fabulous life!) while communicating expectations for emotional availability that naturally deter manipulators. The training also addresses how to recognize when you might be filtering out good potential partners due to past relationship wounds.

Stay tuned for exciting news about my upcoming book release in the next few months! Whether you're considering my Attract Your Equal program or simply want clarity on your dating approach, this episode offers practical insights for finding someone truly aligned with your relationship goals. Don't miss the limited-time free training—grab the link below  and let me know what resonates most by replying to the follow-up email!:

https://rachel-rose.newzenler.com/courses/how-to-create-a-narcissist-proof-dating-strategy

Chapters

• 0:00 Musical Introduction
• 0:29 Upcoming Narcissist-Proof Dating Training
• 2:08 Narcissist-Proofing Your Dating Profile
• 4:32 Quality Over Quantity in Dating
• 5:59 Training Details and Future Announcements

Transcript

Speaker 1: 0:00

Did I give it away? Or was it a persuasion? You all in my space. I, I owe it. I don't care what you say. I'm loving it this way. I'm hoping that you stay. I, I owe it. It's only you. Was it a persuasion? You only leave me stay. It's only you. I love what you say. I'm loving what you say. It's only you. I love you. I love you. It's only you, but it's only you. Thank you for those of you who have dm'd me about the training.

Speaker 1: 0:53

This is the narcissist proof dating strategy training that I talked about a couple of days ago. I know it's late, but do not worry, it will be with you within the next 45 minutes. You're going to get the link in my bio for you to jump in. It's free for now, but it's free from a limited time only what you're going to get in. There are ways to really narcissist proof your dating strategy. As I've just said, you know not only what those what does it mean for someone to have emotionally manipulative or narcissistic tendencies? How to spot them but also what can be misconstrued as those tendencies. Sometimes, as I go through in a lot more detail in the training, some people are so traumatized by past relationships that they've had, that when they actually meet someone who's healthy, someone who's good for them and someone who is just super interested and wants to get that timeline, that journey started together, they freak out and they're like, oh my god, another narcissist. So I address that in the training. The training is just over half an hour, so there's plenty of juice in there for you to get into and and, as I mentioned, it is free for a limited time only, so make sure you sign up as soon as possible. But for right now, what we're going to be talking about is how to narcissist, prove your profile, your dating profile, now narcissist. A key thing that they really are all about is this grandiosity of having an inflated self right, of having this sense of self-importance. Now for my ladies who love designer things you love having a big lifestyle. That doesn't mean that you shrink yourself at all.

Speaker 1: 2:33

One thing that I tell all of my clients, whether long-term or shorter-term, is that you need to make sure that you are very authentic when it comes to how you are coming across in the dating world. If you are someone who has a particularly lavish life, then go for it. There's no need to hide that, but there is a way to weed out narcissists on your profile and that is showing how you are expecting someone to be emotionally available. You know how you're expecting for your life and their life to be interdependent with each other. Now personal narcissistic tendencies may seep through, but they won't be able to last for long because they're not going to get through the filter process that I teach my clients in my longer term containers, for example attract your equal. If you are looking for much more intensive training and coaching and guidance after doing the free training, then I mentioned Attract your Equal in some detail on that training, so you'll know exactly how to get into that and how to apply to that. So there are ways right, there are ways to make sure that you're not wasting time.

Speaker 1: 3:39

The key thing that I say to every woman that I work for or work for work, or even you know come across in any kind of capacity, is that we want to make sure that you are not wasting your time going on face-to-face dates. Right where you're investing time, energy, you're putting all the your makeup together and your hair and all this kind of stuff. We want to make sure that the only men that actually get that privilege with you are ones that have been fully vetted, who are the kind of people who are showing so far that they're as securely attached as you can possibly see through pictures, the dialogue that you're sharing and that's and you know, they share that same long-term goal that you have of being married or having a life partner and having kids and building something together, being on that big journey together. Those are the guys that we really want you to be on face-to-face, face dates with, not these men who, you know, you kind of let slip through because you're like, oh well, a date is better than nothing. No, there's no such thing as a date is better than nothing. We only want quality, only the top tip quality, only someone who's there's real potential for something to grow with. Those are the people that you invest your time in.

Speaker 1: 4:57

This is not something, for example, that you need to practice with people who are not a match for you and you know that they already are not your equal. You don't practice with them and then like that's going to help you with people who are higher quality. You know, it's not a case of you not being able to be in a relationship and I say this all the time. You know, the kind of women that are in my world are not women who are desperate for a relationship. They're not people who don't have offers. It's just that you want the best offer, you want to attract your equal, you want someone who's really in alignment with you, and if you are a woman who loves so big and so freely, then of course you will have come across some people with narcissistic tendencies and it has affected how you look at love, and that is the reason why I'm doing this training. That is the reason why I am providing this mechanism for you to really sharpen your dating strategy, so that isn't something that holds you back. So, like I said, in the next 45 minutes or less you will have the link to sign up to that free training. So go ahead and, like I said, if you feel the calling to explore more, then on the training, I talk about my soulmate strategy call, which is a call that I've been holding for a long time now. It's really helped people who either invest in going into the Attractual Equal program and also those who want to invest in maybe some more free training or just other programs that I offer. It's wonderful because it just provides that clarity that perhaps you've never actually received when it comes to really looking at your love life from a really, you know, maximized lens, and especially with a relationship and boundaries coach like myself. So you have that.

Speaker 1: 6:42

I also have special news to announce. So my first book is coming out in the next few months. You're going to find out all about that. So exciting. So that's really, you know, taking up a lot of my time, but I am here still. I'm here, you know, still providing the training, still doing the masterclasses, speaking of which my next one will be next month. So, again, stay tuned for that, but for the moment, just hold out for um, the how to, um, narcissist proof, your dating strategy training, which will be available very, very, very shortly 45 minutes or less. Jump in and, as I say on the training, you know, what would be great for me is to learn about what your biggest takeaway was from that training. So feel free to just hit reply to whatever email you get from me off the back of that training so I can find out exactly, you know, what really served you the most in that training and how you're going to use it in your dating strategy this year. So love and leave you and I hope to see you on the train you.