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#93: LEAVING MY TWIN FLAME & LOCKDOWN LOVE PROBLEMS? LOVE TRAUMA AND HEALING W. MY SOULMATE

Ninka-Bernadette Mauritson Episode 93

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A juicy conversation w. Wynford.

This conversation between me and my soulmate - the love of my life was recorded in the beginning of the lockdown. We wanted to talk about love under pressure and offer some support for couples who are struggling right now.

Are you feeling the tension in the relationship? Feeling claustrophobic, doubtful, irritable or tired of conflicts and arguments?

Maybe you feel like you have been growing apart, maybe you feel needy, insecure or jealous.

Maybe you are TIRED of the whole situation.

When we go through challenging times (Like lockdown, autism, financial crisis, fear and uncertainty) - we get a second chance to truly face the truth about our relationship:

In this conversation, we cover: 


Why men are attracted to other women (a man's perspective).

Trauma and how to heal trauma in your relationship. 

Why we lash out, become jealous and aggressive and how to heal together. 

How to keep a safe environment.

Should you leave or should you go? When do you know for sure that you are ready to let go.

The portal for divorce and separation that no one talks about (keyword - grief).

Why you shouldn't get into a new relationship until you've done THIS ONE THING. 

fight and flight survival and hurt inner children. 


The best form of therapy (that we tried). 

How to generate more love in families. 

Why I got divorced from my ex-husband. And how we handled it without creating rootlessness in our children. How desire and excitement can grow over time.

Why "pretending" and playing games in bed and being a pleaser in bed can ruin the depth and juiciness sexually. 

Why you need to heal your relationship with your body and heal your trauma to fully let go and surrender into a deep, soulmate connection and deep sexual experiences. 

How can we cultivate love, desire, depth and a long-lasting bond to provide a safe family for our children? 

Why everything that ISN'T love is coming up to be released. 

My trauma that healed in our relationship. 

How to tell the difference between healthy and unhealthy conflicts.

How to deal with neediness, jealousy, emotional instability.

How the fear and tension in the world can amplify relationship challenges.

Conflicts and challenges in the relationship. ANd how to heal and move through it.

The real reason why you meet (or grow) emotionally unavailable partners. A

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