French Kissing Life
If you were free to be who you really are deep down and who you were always meant to be, what would your life look like? What does it mean to have a zest for life? Can you *really* invite more joy into your everyday living through doable steps that don’t take a lot of time? Yes, yes, and more yes!
French Kissing Life is an inspirational podcast that guides you toward finding your spark and unleashing it into the world. If you’ve been yearning to celebrate your unique presence and fall in love with who you truly are, then you’ve found your tribe. If you believe the world needs what only you can offer, this community will be your biggest cheerleader. Picture this podcast as your weekly dose of encouragement – a sanctuary where you can escape the noise of the world and embrace the beauty of your own existence.
From skinny dipping in Portugal to auctioning herself off for a date and testing whether a slinky will go down an ancient pyramid, host Shawnna Stiver knows a thing or two about going for it and the hilarious stories that await. Through heartfelt, playful and funny conversations, Shawnna helps you discover what makes your heart race, your soul dance and your spirit soar. You’ll also hear from guest experts who share insights on how to navigate the journey of self-discovery and invite the world to come alive alongside you.
In a world that demands you be anything but yourself, this is your permission slip to be a little more YOU. Together, we’ll make every moment count and create a life that feels as good on the inside as it looks on the outside. If you’re ready to shed the shoulds and welcome in a life that feels uniquely, beautifully, and authentically yours, subscribe now and let’s make every episode a celebration of YOU! Buckle up for an adventure where realness reigns, inspiration thrives and fun is the name of the game. Are you ready to french kiss life?!
French Kissing Life
Ep 117: The Real Reason We Fear Change (It's Not What You Think)
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Something has been sitting with me lately, a contradiction I couldn't quite shake. I've always thought of myself as someone who loves change. Enneagram Seven, chases novelty, has a podcast called French Kissing Life. And yet when change actually shows up uninvited, I freeze. What I've landed on is that I'm not actually afraid of change. I'm afraid of uncertainty. And once you see the difference, you really can't unsee it. There's also a quieter, sneakier version of this that I've been living, and I wanted to talk about both.
Topics Covered:
- The difference between fearing change and fearing uncertainty, and why it matters.
- Why our brains treat unexpected change like a threat (and what's actually happening neurologically).
- The hair growth analogy that reframes how we experience gradual vs. sudden change.
- What the research actually says about stress, uncertainty, and adaptability.
- The distinction between novelty you choose and change that arrives uninvited.
- How chronic deferral, "I'll do it when things settle down," is just fear wearing a productivity disguise.
- The two questions worth sitting with this week.
Resources:
https://www.cnn.com/2023/11/03/opinions/uncertainty-is-good-for-you-jackson
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=267cB6tNeUc
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Until next time, muah!
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