Ready to harness the luminescent power of the full moon in Leo? Join Myrah and Robindra as we uncover the secrets to transforming a victim mentality into a triumphant mindset. In the glow of gratitude for life's simple pleasures, we explore the four personas that define our journey — victim, villain, hero, guide — and how they influence our interactions and self-perception. We'll share the catalysts for change that can lead you out of the shadows of victimhood and into the sunlight of victory, offering practical tips and heartfelt advice to nourish your inner hero.
With the full moon as our backdrop, we celebrate courage and triumph, discussing the importance of evolving from hero to guide in our own narratives. This episode traverses the landscape of personal aspirations, turning a blueprint of a home into the foundation of a community retreat center, illustrating the power of expansive visions. As the cosmos shifts with Pluto's transition into Aquarius, we examine the impact on collective consciousness and personal growth. Stay heart-centered with us as we navigate these cosmic currents, empowering you to maintain a victorious stance amidst life's ebbs and flows.
Embark on the path to discovering your calling and the mastery of habit formation. We delve into the art of being present and the critical role self-awareness plays in catalyzing meaningful transformations. Whether it's committing to a morning writing ritual or carving out time for self-care, we highlight the discipline and vision needed to turn aspirations into reality. We wrap up with a gentle reminder of the journey's gradual nature, encouraging you to weave your personal growth into a tapestry of a purposeful and love-filled life. Don't miss this episode, as Myra and I guide you toward a self-cultivated life of victory and intention.
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Ready to harness the luminescent power of the full moon in Leo? Join Myrah and Robindra as we uncover the secrets to transforming a victim mentality into a triumphant mindset. In the glow of gratitude for life's simple pleasures, we explore the four personas that define our journey — victim, villain, hero, guide — and how they influence our interactions and self-perception. We'll share the catalysts for change that can lead you out of the shadows of victimhood and into the sunlight of victory, offering practical tips and heartfelt advice to nourish your inner hero.
With the full moon as our backdrop, we celebrate courage and triumph, discussing the importance of evolving from hero to guide in our own narratives. This episode traverses the landscape of personal aspirations, turning a blueprint of a home into the foundation of a community retreat center, illustrating the power of expansive visions. As the cosmos shifts with Pluto's transition into Aquarius, we examine the impact on collective consciousness and personal growth. Stay heart-centered with us as we navigate these cosmic currents, empowering you to maintain a victorious stance amidst life's ebbs and flows.
Embark on the path to discovering your calling and the mastery of habit formation. We delve into the art of being present and the critical role self-awareness plays in catalyzing meaningful transformations. Whether it's committing to a morning writing ritual or carving out time for self-care, we highlight the discipline and vision needed to turn aspirations into reality. We wrap up with a gentle reminder of the journey's gradual nature, encouraging you to weave your personal growth into a tapestry of a purposeful and love-filled life. Don't miss this episode, as Myra and I guide you toward a self-cultivated life of victory and intention.
www.myrahpenaloza.com
Instagram @myrahpenaloza & @robindra
So now I'm welcome to the Bloom Into Abundance podcast. My name is Rabindra and this is my wife, myra, and we're gonna dive right in today. First things first, one thing you're grateful for.
Speaker 2:The best sleep ever we had last night.
Speaker 1:Yeah, true story that, and I'm grateful that we got our kids to school on time. And that they were happy today. They had a really happy morning.
Speaker 2:Yeah, they had a good morning. Yeah, grateful for that. Not always that way.
Speaker 1:We like to start everything in gratitude our mornings, our days, our podcast. So today we're gonna dive into. The theme is kind of how to move from victim to victorious. And it's a full moon in Leo, so it's a perfect time, like a full moon is a really good time to talk about victory. So in this podcast, we're gonna talk about self-awareness, how to take responsibility, how to cast a vision, goal setting and habits. By the end of this podcast, we are gonna give you some very tangible, a very tangible formula you can use right away to get your life into a victorious stage.
Speaker 1:Are you ready?
Speaker 2:Let's do this. He used it on me the other day and I was just like All right, let's go.
Speaker 1:So, victim to victorious. So I feel like we all. There's four main personas that we all play in our lives. One is victim, one is villain another one is hero and then the transcendent one is guide. So we kind of go through these different personas and one of the personas we, that society, culture, definitely give us, is the victim, the victim persona and this victim persona.
Speaker 2:Well, it's also kind of made to be so available to fall into it Like none of it is my problem or none of it, it's happening to me, I have no input. It's easy to fall into that. Oh, it's not my fault. It's almost like this kind of safety knit.
Speaker 1:If you scan your life you can say, oh yeah, this area victorious, this area, actually, maybe not. It's not working out as well. So maybe in that area of my life there's some victim energy happening, but there's definitely kind of a victim, villain, hero and guide kind of happening in all the areas of our lives. So if there's something you really wanna get done in your life like if you have this one projection of what you want this year to look like, then definitely we need to shift from victim to victorious.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and if you don't know where you fall, what category you fall in in a particular subject matter or a particular project, or how you identify with whatever is in front of you. To relate to what you did with me the other day when we were talking about this, really kind of set the perspective of where I fell and I was falling into villain and it was kind of, you know, it was difficult for me to swallow, but it was the truth and sometimes the truth is hard to accept, but it was definitely. I was in the villain.
Speaker 1:So the villain energy is it happens in the moment, and this is what this podcast today is about is catching yourself in the moment. So villain is quite often when we shame ourselves. So villain is really us being a villain to ourselves, not to the outer world particularly, but sometimes it will show up like that. However, if you have this kind of shame attitude towards yourself like, hey, you know, we missed the first two weeks of filming our podcast, you know I could in January because we were just busy moving and getting our kids in school I could shame myself or I could just be like, ah, this is the moment where, you know, I noticed that I didn't do something and then I shame myself for it.
Speaker 1:And then I put myself in the villain stage, Right? So villain is associated with shame, Victim is associated with guilt, and shame and guilt. You know, I don't know if there's other people of color out there watching this, but or any color really. I mean I just, know from my experience in a Punjabi Indian raised in Canada you know, Mexican in America. You know, our parents really were experts.
Speaker 2:At shaming.
Speaker 1:At shaming and being victim. You know the victim thing was really big. My mom, you know there was a story of how much she worked and it was an amazing story because she really did work all the time and to just to get us to where we were. And so we learned at a very early stage a lot about guilt and being a victim and quite often why we like being a victim. It's like why would someone want to be a victim? Quite often it's. You know, it gets you attention. There's a reward for being a victim.
Speaker 2:And that attention gives you a dopamine hit.
Speaker 1:Yeah, so the dopamine is what we're after, right, so we have to redesign things. We have to like really let the subconscious know that, hey, there's a place in our lives, there's a way to be, where there's way more reward, way more dopamine.
Speaker 2:You want the dopamine.
Speaker 1:We got it in the hero state, yeah, okay. So yeah, victim. We see it in our kids, you know. Sometimes our son, you know, when he's feeling like a victim, like oh, nobody wants to play with me in school today, it's really like he's telling us he wants nurturing, you know, and he's telling us he wants a hug, that he wants daddy to put his phone down, mommy to put the computer down, to nurture Him. In that moment then you learn a lot about yourself through your kids, right?
Speaker 2:Exactly, and we're so quick to just like, push independence, but let that independence happen outside the home, when they're in their home, in your home, in, like, their safe space. That's when, like in our experience, that's where they feel the most Liberated to be themselves fully. So when those moments are being expressed, you know it's your opportunity to embrace, to hold for longer periods, because eventually you know they're gonna push away and they're gonna be gone.
Speaker 1:So another way, hero, our victim mentality shows up is when we're using emotions To control reality a little bit more. You know so. You see it in our kids all the time. Oh, maybe sometimes my wife she's pointing at herself. I'm not gonna call anything out.
Speaker 2:My mom was a very much a role model of that behavior and I see it, I can see it, I can. Like you know, the beauty of having a practice or, you know, developing a practice relating to a practice is that you get to see that when it wants to come through. So I've been seeing how, like you know, my emotions wants to yeah, so kids do it all the time.
Speaker 1:Yeah they cry and they want you to. You know they want their, they want number one, they want your attention number two, they want your nurturing. You know, in the same thing with us, you know. So we use emotions to try to oh my god, you know like I know a lot. My victim state was a lot in my 20s, you know, my best friend had committed suicide and that was a kind of a my big crack in the shell. That's really what cracked me open and I was definitely in a victim state for a long time until I pulled myself out and you know, I was shaming myself. There was a lot of that heavy energy and it took a long time to kind of pull myself out and be the light for my own life, to choose that, hey, I believe that I can do better. I believe that you know that Experience of my life set me up to support and guide others in in living a life of light. You know.
Speaker 2:I mean we're not, you know, of the light, but we love, you know, we love to lean towards the light. So please don't, you know, don't think that high and mighty. We have our defaults.
Speaker 1:Yeah. So what we're talking about here with victim is a mindset. A mindset is just more clearly defined, like the way you see life Right, or your view on life right. And your view on life includes, like your bank statement Includes your bills, what you have to do, dear to do list. It includes your upbringing, it includes all the things in your life. So you see life through this lens right. Ultimately, how you see the world is your mindset. So what we're talking about here is shifting your mindset to be victorious and and, trust me, there is a Wonderful, wonderful life. When you move from victim to hero. You know there's way more number one, way more reward, way more Dopamine.
Speaker 1:If that's what we're after, he being a hero is about Conquering your life.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you can also, you know, explore the. You know the story of the hero's journey. You know that's a great story in terms of helping navigate that direction.
Speaker 1:Yeah, joseph Campbell's Created this beautiful heroes journey where there's, you know, there's the fall, and then you know, you go through the victim stage and you come up and you become the hero of your own story.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and there's also kind of you know for, for the women who you know don't necessarily, you know, want an author that is the feminine out there. There's a really beautiful book called made into mother, which speaks about these different layers of the feminine aspects in relation to, you know, victim and you know, villain and heroin and and then medicine woman which is really beautiful. It's called made into mother.
Speaker 1:And for me, the big shift, the big aha moment, from moving from a victim to being a hero of my life was when I found meaning in life, when I started to think about my Dharma, when I started to think about my calling and how I impact others, even just like we're just in. So so surprised, like my rose at the shop the other day and a woman walked in from another country visiting and and she are, if you're watching her daughter and shout out and she mentioned to my early she watched this podcast and she was inspired and we're just like wow.
Speaker 1:We're already impacting people through this, this medium, which we're just so honored and grateful that you're here.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that it's landing in your life. You know, like a lot of these teachings, it's really so that you, you know, have whatever practice you're, you're in, in, you know with, in relationship with, and to have kind of your life, meet your practice, or your practice meet your life.
Speaker 1:Yeah. So the two things. One was I was looking for meaning, because you get to this low point and you're like, okay, what is this all about? Why am I here, you know, and so for me, I Figured you know it. Just I kept doing the same patterns over and over again, no matter what. I was always in the world of Trying to inspire others, always trying to help others. I did never wanted anyone to go through what I went through in that state, so I was always about helping others bloom. So people are blooming. Is is what kind of. I realized that, no matter what, I started a festival with my rock called bloom and we started Inspiring people to live and design a life that they love, and that's what this podcast is all about. Right, and so being a hero is about turning the light on it's, about giving life a try and ultimately, the big shift, the big turnaround, is Taking a hundred percent responsibility.
Speaker 2:Which is difficult to swallow, you know to be. You know able to respond. You know not react. You know, if you take the word responsibility to, you know.
Speaker 1:Yeah. So when you take a hundred percent agency of your life, like, oh, the market is crash, or it's low season or high season or COVID or whatever, this comes up in the collective and in the personal space, if you can just say, okay, yeah, this is what's happened, I own my part in it and I'm responsible for it and I just keep going. People love the world loves people who just try, the people who are just going, no matter what, you don't even have to win to be a hero, you just have to try.
Speaker 2:You just have to just continue to be and oscillate between doing and being.
Speaker 1:And being a Capricorn, the Seagull, I really relate to the hero. You can see that I just take the littlest step and I'm stoked about that little step. And then I take the littlest step and I'm so stoked about every little step along the way. It keeps me in that hero state.
Speaker 2:I sometimes come in as the villain and I'm like, yeah, but what about? You know so? But it's that duality, it's perspective, it's not so much as the villain but more so as like I'm a realist in many ways and I like to come in and be prepared. And that's where my shame comes in, right, because of perfectionists. And it needs to be perfect, because I needed to be perfect.
Speaker 1:Okay, and then we take responsibility for that, and then we take action. And that's really what heroes do is heroes take action, right? So, for example, even with this podcast itself like we have booked a weekly session to do it you know, and just like that, you have something in your life. You want to move forward. You want to be a hero in your taxes, in your personal life, in your business, in writing a book and launching a course, all those things you need to simply be responsible be responsible book time every day, every week, to do it and do it and just like what we're doing with the podcast, like.
Speaker 1:It's like, wow, we're on episode. What is this? Episode five, six, I don't even know. I lost count already.
Speaker 2:Yeah, but it's great. It's great to just be in this unfolding of you know what is possible, you know the possibility of more positivity in your life and you have to pencil it in, you know.
Speaker 1:Yeah, so you know, if you have the mindset that you know the world is a dark place, we kind of create the self-sufficient fulfilling prophecy and we keep looking for that. But what if the world was actually awakening? What if the world was stepping into this age of Aquarius, like Pluto just entered Aquarius, marking the age of Aquarius, which is a beautiful time for the planet, for humanity?
Speaker 2:It's, yeah, it's liberation. The theme in and of itself is victory. It's full on victory, yeah.
Speaker 1:So let's get into that. So you know, it's full moon and we wanted to talk about victory, because, I mean, what better time to talk about victory than during a full moon?
Speaker 2:Yeah, and the moon is in Leo, and Leo is courageous. It's the lion heart, it's, you know, definitely holds this kind of ignition to fire up your life into victory. I mean, the lion isn't a villain and the lion is also not a victim. The lion is a hero, you know. He holds his domain, he holds the kingdom, she holds the domain of her. You know, lion king, you know. So it's all of that archetype.
Speaker 1:Yeah, so Leo, Leo the lion, everything during a full moon is magnified.
Speaker 2:So during the full moon, I mean she's full and she's in your face.
Speaker 1:We like to focus on the vision right. So vision is a key to permanently not just kind of going between victim and hero and villain. It's permanently stay in a hero and then move ultimately to the guide the oracle of your life is to have a vision for your life right. So, we start to see the importance of catching yourself. Moment to moment, I see that this is happening and I'm acting like a victim. I'm going to catch it, stop it, not judge it, and I'm going to take the next best step.
Speaker 1:Then I have then I set, then we make goals that are wrapped around a vision, right? So, for example, I will just make it more clear for you. So, for example, we have a goal of building our home this year and just the other night, me and Myra, you know it's a beautiful goal. However, to make it a vision, to make it a vision makes it even more powerful. So we started to unpack what it looked like. So we started saying, whoa, this is actually more than a home. This is a retreat center. This is a place where families are going to come, women are going to come when they're pregnant to heal, to get guidance. People are going to come and learn entrepreneurship. We're building a little mini yoga studio, so this is going to be a place where people come to heal. So the goal becomes a vision and it becomes bigger and more grander.
Speaker 1:It includes others. Right, that's a big part of the puzzle.
Speaker 2:And in that space that we make, we give that you know, the entity of that vision to commune with you as well, because the vision is going to incept what it wants to reveal to you, of what it's going to move into, which is beautiful, and that's what it does, that's what it did, that's where you know, that's the insight that came out of that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, so you know. Act 1 is like what does it take to experience meaning in my life? So moving from victim to hero. Act 2 is to make a plan and to own it, which is moving from hero to guide, right, and when we do that again, it's really wrapping around the vision piece of our lives, right? Let's dive a little bit further into this full moon. Can you tell us more like? Well, it's, you know?
Speaker 2:it's, it's a lot of cosmic alignments are happening. I mean, I'm sure you've all Are caught up with Instagram's, like you know Saturation on on these aspects, but only because it is a big deal and we're talking about it because it is a big.
Speaker 1:Shift. It's the first lunatic full moon of the year.
Speaker 2:First, full moon of the year. It's, you know, the biggest shift that Pluto is gonna make. Pluto takes about 248, you know years to move through the zodiac, so now it's moving from Pisces into Aquarius and it's it's this whole experience of even no sorry from Capricorn into into Aquarius, and it's this, you know, confirmation that where we're going as, as you know, the collective consciousness is that we're leaning towards. You know the unexpected. You know, and some of us may perceive this preparation for the unknown, for the unexpected you know revelations and confirmations, and you know things that we could have never conceptualized before, but now the proof is in the pudding. I mean we, I know that, you know that you've seen it all. We won't get into detail, but it's, it's this grand Revelation, you know, and in this revelation there is this discernment of revolutions and solutions as options and Pathways yeah, so you know the Sun.
Speaker 1:That's interesting here is that the Sun is in a quay. Sun is moving into a queries of five degrees. Pluto is moving into Aquarius right now as well. Pluto brings this underworld into our lives.
Speaker 1:It shows the dark so that it can be revealed, shows the truth so it can be healed, and so there's a lot of things in the collective right that will trigger us and and we're knowing that Pluto is in Aquarius and knowing that the collective is going to be triggering we need to find ways to stay in our heart center and yeah, I'm on. Leo is all about.
Speaker 2:Leo is man governing the heart right yeah, it's about your, your true, your true self. You know it's the true, it's when the heart is in full Balance and alignment. You know it will not waiver, it will not steer you in the wrong direction. And it's, it's embodied, it's internal, it's felt and inner resources.
Speaker 1:We cannot step out of our bedroom, our Telephones. There's nothing that you cannot do to avoid. There's not? I mean, the collective is is Intermoil. It's a US election year Again. Last time Pluto was in Aquarius. The American Revolution, the French Revolution this was in the 1700s, so we're gonna be constantly triggered by the collective. So then, our superpower. The thing we have to focus on is catching ourselves in the moment and bringing ourselves back to hero.
Speaker 2:I am victorious, yeah and there's also another aspect to this Lunation is that you know Jupiter is creating a t-square to the Sun and Moon and t-squares are generally challenging times there. You know, in the sense that it's a it's a pressurized moment, right, but you want to leverage the positive aspect. You know Jupiter is expansion, it's joy. You know Jupiter, joy it's it's, you know it's in and of itself. It's also this liberation because it's ruled by Sagittarius. Sagittarius, another fire sign. Leo is a fire sign ruled by the Sun. That is a fireball, you know.
Speaker 1:Yeah, so you know, when you're in the hero state and a challenge arrives, you're like give it to me, you're like go for it.
Speaker 2:Well, you're ready. What's that?
Speaker 1:movie that our child. That's all they love right now the monkey king.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, the monkey king.
Speaker 1:Have you guys seen this monkey King?
Speaker 2:It's on.
Speaker 1:Netflix it's. It's hilarious. It's a cartoon. If you have kids, you probably have watched it. If you haven't, it's a really good.
Speaker 2:Before you let your child watch it, just because there might be some things that they might not be prepared to be more mature than yeah, no, for our kids like mature things.
Speaker 1:However, the monkey king faces he faces the most challenging of things. You know he wants to become immortal, and to become immortal he has to fight All the gods and the most impossible odds. Yet he takes every challenge on with such a smile and such vigor. It's, it is the archetype of hero. It's pretty cool.
Speaker 2:Yeah, he's just tenacious, you know, and people love heroes, the world loves heroes.
Speaker 1:A goddess Lakshmi loves heroes and goddess Abundance loves action, loves people that take action. Yeah, so this isn't a.
Speaker 2:This is a very, you know, bound to full time, very affluent, very, you know, abundance Generated. So in full moons, during full moons, we like to talk about combinations. You know, to have that gratitude to be grateful for, for what already is and is to come, you know. So, within that vision, you hold a sense of gratitude for already embodying this vision.
Speaker 1:Yeah and so, okay, so, Wow, so, and then also there's the five degrees.
Speaker 2:We're inspired by our own inspiration. Yeah, it's like a quadruple five Unloaded, which is freedom and five is kind of this universal little number, universal code of Liberation, which again confirms this victorious notion, and you kind of take the archetype of five. It's like both kind of directions going in opposite sides, so it's also change. It's also, you know, not necessarily Crossroads, but just like having options, you know, and discerning those options.
Speaker 1:So the word victory I we hear it a lot in the Kundalini yoga practice. It's we talk about it a lot. There's victory, kriyas. I'm victorious, you know. There's victory breaths. There's victory, all of it. Can you dive into that a?
Speaker 2:bit. Yeah well, I mean, there's a simple victory Practice that you can take on, and that's whenever you find a moment when you're waiting in line where you're, you know You're, you're in your car, sitting in the traffic, or you are having anxiety about a meeting, or you know Presenting your project to someone that's a gatekeeper, or wherever you are in the spectrum of your trajectory or where you want to be and you have this sense of anxiety. To move it into, move the anxiety into the ancient wisdom of yourself, which is, to note, to use the method of the victory breath. And the victory breath this is one there is many, there's like probably over a hundred in the archives but this one that we like to use is to you know wherever you're at. You don't need to like pull up a mat or anything like this. You just take an inhale and you hold the breath and you pump your navel. Your navel point is like this power center you pump it, pump it, pump it, and for every pump, your inner mind's voice is chanting victory, victory, victory. And you do that for as long as it takes. Ideally, you want to do it, for you know 11 recitations. If you can get 108 recitations a phenomenal, you know, not in one breath retention, but you know, in those, a compound of. You know, reciting that as much as you can, right, and you can even reduce it to just a minute. Right, you can do it for a minute, which would probably be like two or three breaths, or you could do it for three minutes. You know which multiplies your, your inner resources to vibrate into that victorious frequency and word on the street.
Speaker 2:I know that you know, is leaning towards. You know the future is Frequency. Right, we have all these gadgets that are floating around, in these pyramid things that are floating around. That's already really promoting the sense of Frequency, is the new Trajectory of the human, you know, consciousness, and you have this inner device, this human vessel. That is the technology of the future. Right, if you can truly, authentically, genuinely, with passion and heart and courage, utilize your inner resources, you become a living walking frequency. Right, and, and you have to do that it's a discipline and it's again going back to responsibility. I am responsible for the frequency that I carry.
Speaker 2:This vessel is trying to be, you know, manipulated and reproduced on a global scale because it's so intelligent. So, if we can utilize without outsourcing I mean if you've already outsourced good for you. I'm sure it's working for you. But you know you have also the opportunity that that technology is inside of you. You know, and it's such a gift to be able to utilize that and take that. You know practice of chanting victory, pumping the naval, awakening that. You know money Pura. You know for a second and third chakra, so that then it becomes the whole. You know geometric Astro anatomy that you start to walk with which is quite simply break it down.
Speaker 1:Victory and Kundalini yoga happens in the Prana. Yeah, it happens in the Prana.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, breathing and the again the mantra. You know the vibrational sound that reverberates through your system. You know just by focusing on that, because once you're doing that and pumping the naval, there's I mean, yeah, maybe there's some thoughts that filter through, but you know you also have this direction.
Speaker 1:So To bring it down into the present moment, make it really practical what we do can you tell?
Speaker 1:What we do is In the moment-to-moment. We catch ourselves when we Are thinking like a victim. So we're like hey, becomes. So. Number one thing we do, the number one thing about All of this is becoming self-aware. We do Kundalini yoga, we do whatever practices we do, whatever mindful practices you do. It's all about self-awareness. Like, hey, when this happens, I react like this. When that happens, you act like this.
Speaker 1:We become quite aware of our children and how they react to certain things. Oh, don't put them there is gonna act like this, but don't put them in too warm of a room. They're too sensitive. You know all these things, but in the self-awareness, in our own self-awareness, is where the magic starts to happen. So, number one, self-awareness. Make notes about yourself. Like, oh, I react like this when this happens. You know this really triggered me. And in the moment, say, hey, you're doing the thing where you're acting like a victim and Don't go any further. Don't judge it, just stop in your moment and Reset. And what does the hero do in this moment? Right? Then, over time, as we become more and more self-aware of how we're becoming victim, our behaviors begin to shift Into this hero state that I'm victorious and we choose that we choose that. I want to be victorious. I mean, nobody would not wants to be that right. Way more dopamine, way more reward in the hero space than in the Victim space right, get a lot more done.
Speaker 2:You know you get a lot in that victory state. Your return on investment is it's amazing.
Speaker 1:It's magnificent now that you've stabilized yourself through self-awareness. Now we take a moment and we cast a vision. You know, casting a vision. We have a vision, for we have a three month vision because we're doing the 12-week year. So the three month vision, we have a one-year vision, we have a three-year vision, we have a five-year vision and a 10-year vision, and we kind of start with the 10 and we work our way back.
Speaker 1:And if you want to go deep into casting a vision, you write your own eulogy like this is what you did in your life. Right, that's deep, yeah, that's. You know that's casting a vision. But we can just start with, like the five, three, two, one kind of visions. Start to cast a vision for your life, start to dive into why, you know, look at the patterns of become self-aware, of a wow, like, everything I do is all about helping other people in this way. And so start to put a word or name to it, start naming your Dharma, start calling it out. That's that's the work that we're gonna be doing. Bloom into abundance. The membership that we're starting together Is to help you get really clear on what that Dharma is.
Speaker 2:Yeah, there was. There was also a woman that came into the shop the other day, kind of a friendly acquaintance, and she was saying, you know, she was so proud of what we had accomplished in Bali in the short amount of time that we've been here and she was like, wow, I need to find, like what my calling is, you know and? And you know, it almost felt like, oh, I have to, you know, have to do it. You know, and, and in that having to do it there was, there was no drive really, or like passion to you know. You know, find her calling in a sense because it felt like she needed to just be doing something. You know, because everybody's doing something. And in that moment I kind of paused her and I was like just focus on being for now.
Speaker 1:You know that's the first step, self-awareness being, behavior shifts. Then you have the space.
Speaker 2:Yeah, then you have the space to the cast of vision.
Speaker 1:Yeah and then, within the vision, we create goals. So we create goals within the vision and then we ultimately work on the discipline To execute the habits that make the vision come true right. So, for example, we're having we're being disciplined with filming the podcast right weekly. If You're writing a book, the discipline would be okay. 7 am Every every day, I'm gonna go to this coffee shop and write for a one hour, and if you did that for three months, guess what? You probably have a book written in three months you know what I mean.
Speaker 1:So, whatever you have going on, whatever project you have going on in your life with the, whatever the most important, most impactful, most creative, whatever it is you want to get done, then set the goal and then have the discipline to execute on those. So so our goal, then, is to move from self self-awareness, casting a vision and then developing the habits that we need to execute on that right. So the habits are Okay. I'm gonna make a habit of going again to this Workspace, and you know I'm gonna do. I'm gonna work on our course program once a week for three hours a week on this day, and just stick to it, even if you pick one day a week and go for it you know like one power hour, like we talked about last time.
Speaker 1:Yeah, even a week. You're gonna be really progressing and you're gonna start to feel like the real hero in your life.
Speaker 2:One of the habits that I know that I just like to do my work on my phone half the time, and so I need to Sometimes leave my phone at home, just so that I change the habit, you know, and I actually make space to work, so that I'm not working when I'm, you know, waiting to meet a friend, or when I'm at the shop and like waiting to go into our staff meeting, or you know those kinds of things where it's like, oh, I need to fill time, or I could just actually create space to just Be and focus on what's in front.
Speaker 1:What's? What's one, one habit that you could add to your life that you do every day? That would move the needle.
Speaker 2:It definitely creates space to physically move, like to work out.
Speaker 1:Okay, so one hour a day to work out.
Speaker 2:One hour a day. I mean maybe not a day, but you know twice, three times a week, okay, three times a week, that seems reasonable.
Speaker 1:Hold me accountable. Next week she's going to be wearing her workout clothes because we're going right to the gym after this. But that's really it just calling yourself out in not a shameful way.
Speaker 2:Yeah and there is resistance to the things that take a lot of effort to get you there right. But there's a teaching in that too. You know one of our beautiful friends and assistant. She was like, you know, I had to go to this breath work, exercise and I didn't want to go, my body didn't want to go, but I knew that I had to go. And she's like, and when I got there, thank goodness the woman you know didn't have another appointment, but she was like thank you for coming, thank you for making the effort to come, and in that moment she's like it was hard but it was so worth it, you know.
Speaker 1:And yeah, the so we got to bring all of this full moon, Pluto, Aquarius, into the moment. Decide, you know, on the habits that we're going to do every day to reach us, to get our goals, and to the goals that kind of get us to our vision right.
Speaker 1:And you have all that in alignment. And if you add your calling, like your why, into the whole picture, yeah, there's no way you're not going to move from victim to hero. And then moving from hero to guide is the next shift, you know. So that next shift is like, kind of what we're doing here is we're kind of guiding, because we found a way, we found a path and we're guiding those who want to follow and figure it out as well. So, and we do that for a sense of meaning, a sense of giving back, it's really fulfilling. So we go from victim to villain, to hero to guide the oracle.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:All right, I guess that's a wrap.
Speaker 2:That's a wrap. I mean, you know, take it in bits and pieces. You know it's a big cake to digest but, you know, and it doesn't have to be all of it right away. You know, sometimes we need to sit a little bit longer with the clarity as to our why. I know my why for going to the gym and needing to move my body is that it makes me a better person to be around.
Speaker 1:It makes you less shameful about yourself. Yeah, less shameful about.
Speaker 2:It doesn't make me feel like I get to move all of my system and, yeah, it makes me a better mom. I'm not so quick to react, you know. I'm more responsible to my responses and I have more prana. I have more vitality, I have more strength, I have more courage.
Speaker 1:All right, so we'll both be in our workout gear next time.
Speaker 2:Sweat sets.
Speaker 1:That being said, yeah, full moon in Leo, uplift your spirit. We're going to be going to an ecstatic dance class with our friend Kelly.
Speaker 2:On Sunday. And we haven't been in one of those for probably the longest. I remember when we first got to Bali, we like showed up with like hero as four months.
Speaker 1:Our daughter was so late and it was just all these adults dancing.
Speaker 2:It was so loud there were some kids but, like you know, between hero and like older right Like maybe like eight or nine at the time. But it was just, it was cool, but we were overly stimulated at the time.
Speaker 1:Yeah, so do something weird that makes you happy and fun and really amplify the fun in your life. This week, full moons are all about that Uplift your spirit and watch everything move, yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah, stay in the love. Venus is also doing a beautiful aspect. So just kind of, you know, romance yourself, you know, be in your own romance and nourishment and nurturing and if you want, if you're calling in your beloved, you know, cast the vision and be proactive.
Speaker 1:Show up at that dance class. Show up at that dance class. Okay, so yeah.
Speaker 2:This was good. I feel good about this. I'll be teaching also a live workshop with live kick, if you want to drop in. We're going to get more into, like the physical, practical matters of how to utilize and leverage the energy in the cosmic field.
Speaker 1:So if you want to join.
Speaker 2:It's hot.