Letters: Gray Hair Confessions, Unwritten Text Rules & Questions We’re Not Supposed to Ask

Get ready for a funny, keep-it-real ride as Kit and Harper dive into more juicy, hilarious, and relatable listener questions!

This week, we’re talking:

• How Kit keeps her energy sky-high (spoiler: it’s not just coffee)

• The gray hair debate: embrace the silver or dye till you die?

• Group texts gone wild (should you leave? how many emojis is too many?)

• Botox, fillers, eyelid lifts… & the million-dollar question: can you ask if someone had work done?

• Future grandma names, slumber party fails, and a Jennifer Aniston sighting 👀

It’s real talk, hot takes, and deep belly laughs—aka another day inside The Coop.

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Transcript

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Hello everybody. welcome to a special edition of the Coop. It is time for more of, I can never remember Harper letters to the coop.

Sure. Mailbag. Yes. No, we don't like mailbag. All of them letters to the, it's just. 

Feels there's something about the bag part that just, I feel like our age, we don't really want things that look like bags. Like bags like feel like bags, uhhuh, whether they're on our face or on our body. We want less baggage.

We want less bags. We got a lot of bags. We're, yeah, we're trying to lighten the load. Letters to are 

letters are light, and letters are light and airy and gonna offer hard advice. By the way, tell me, Harper and I are having our coffee. We are. You brought these cute mugs. Mm-hmm. Thank you. Mm-hmm. 

tell me about your voice kit.

Oh, what is called? Hello? Hello. Good morning. 

I think my name should be Erica when I have this voice. I like it. It's, 

it is, it's very sexy. It's sexy. Mm-hmm. Not it's rough. It's, yeah, it's called 

the flu. 

Damn 

it. Dammit. I went to mom's weekend, the last Kappa Mom's weekend. Mm-hmm. For my, uh, middle daughter and, uh.

I went to visit the Duke and all the moms got sick. So there's something about this is coming for [00:01:00] you Harper, when you get back to visit your kid in college. It's so much fun. Yeah. And you're out and about and ball. Well, you're pretending like 

you're back in college, right? Yeah. 

Yeah. You 

think you are?

It's not cute. Well, no, it's. Fabulous. But I just think it's funny how you, went in strong, you went in healthy, you went in bright, you came out. I've been accused, accused 

of all gas, no breaks, and uh, let's just say I got Yes. Yes. And so what's funny is I got back and I was feeling okay and I was like, wow, like look at me.

And then two days later it hit and then I had all this work stuff I had to do. So I just had to Did You had 

a funny story you were telling me about the airport. Like something happened when you were trying to, I think you were flying east. Yep. You came back and then you went back east and days it was one.

There was, you were 

saying Harper, comedy of errors. Does everybody have those days where literally nothing went right. I get to the airport, my bag falls down the escalator and like knocks somebody out. I was like, oh my goodness. I get the bag, I get to the gate. So you're 

on the. Up escalator or going 

up the escalator almost to [00:02:00] the top.

And I, of course, you know, I only bring a carry-on no matter how long I'm gone. Of course I can't check a bag. It falls down. I go to wrap this scarf around my neck and my bag falls down the escalator. Not kidding. And like knocks out this nice man. And I was like, I'm so sorry. I get the bag. 

Did he bring it?

So then you get to the top. Did you try to run back down or you I tried to run back down. He was annoyed. Let him, I'm trying to help 

it. It made things worse. Yeah. 

Everyone's like, what? What are you doing? How's this woman doing? I get 

to the gate, I get on the flight, I'm like, here we go. We get to the runway.

Everything's like clockwork. I have a quick connection. They stop the airplane, a valve. It's not working. Mm. I don't know much about airplanes, but that doesn't 

sound good. There's a lot of airplane energy right now, so I think anything that feels loose on a plane is not great. I believe he said the takeoff valve is downwards, so 

thus we will not be taking off.

So we turn around and go back to the gate and hour later we're in the air. We land in Atlanta. Mm-hmm. If anybody's been to the Atlanta airport, you have to take a train to get to your gate. I get on the train, the train breaks down with the doors closed for [00:03:00] 27 minutes. So now I've missed my second connecting flight that I was supposed to catch there.

I finally make it to the next bird that's gonna be taking, and I'm on it, thank goodness, 'cause it was packed and it's delayed an hour. So I was supposed to be giving this speech at 6:30 PM Needless. To say I did not make it. No, 

no, no. 

But I did make it. And how about those travel 

stories? Well, and you told me, you just roll you, I mean you rolled in late 'cause you did.

And then you're like, okay. And the voice was gone. Where are we guys? Comedy. Yours feel like you're literally like a shadow of yourself and you're like, this is gonna be awesome. This is gonna be good. We got this, and we roll up those sleeves. That's amazing. So guys, 

bear with my voice. Harper got me some coffee.

I love it. I think your voice is letters. Not the mailbag. Not the mailbag. Okay. So Can I tell one more story before we get started? Oh, sure. Please, please. Hugh Harper over there. We just had a great date night with her husband, one of those nights that are so important to do.

Mm-hmm. I love how y'all carve out time for yourself Anyway. She's at this fixed, spectacular place out here. Mm-hmm. Who does she spot? Across the [00:04:00] bar, but her doppelganger, Jennifer Aniston, she was 

there. She was there. It was, we finally came face to face. And so I see, we sit down and I see her in the corner.

It's a dark, gorgeous bar. And I see her over there and she's lit up and yeah, just amazing. And I said to my husband. Do you think when she's looking across the bar at me, she's like, oh my God, there she is. There she is. I've been waiting for years to meet this woman so that we could just look at each other and feel like it's like a mirror.

Here we are. It's identical here looking. And he looked at me and he is like, mm-hmm. Totally. 

First of all, that's just one of those great LA nights. That doesn't always happen. It it was, it was, but she is just spectacular. Well, she was, she 

was, she was a bright light in the corner. And I just, I really was sort of beside myself because she's someone I've admired for years.

Yeah. Anyway, but I was like, oh, this is, we finally get just. Quick story. We did not meet, she did not listen. Steer me. I'm gonna, she definitely did not even though I was 

there. Listen, isn't she even more spectacular in person? I'll say that. She was just, she's 

all the energy and [00:05:00] all this, this stuff. She's just, yeah.

She was so cool. So when I'm at the 

airport, Harper was having a fabulous time. I was having was her twin? It 

was. It was great. Okay, bring us the letters, baby. Here we go. Okay. So this one is actually perfect for this week. This one is to you. 

Dear Kit. This is from Megan and Charlotte. Kit. How do you have so much energy?

Seriously? Do you ever slow down? You're always full of energy running, working, parenting, hosting. What's the secret? Is it coffee endorphins or just being born with extra batteries? Spill the tips because I need whatever you're having, 

first of all, that's so nice and I hear and true. Well, you know, you only know.

What you are. So I'm always surprised when people always describe me as like a firecracker. Mm-hmm. Or my energy. Mm-hmm. But I don't know any other way to be, and you know me, I think I'm actually sort of a calm person, but I do have a lot of energy. Mm-hmm. I don't know. I think, I think a lot of it does come from endorphins or I think I'm just naturally wired like this.

What do [00:06:00] you, what do you think? 'cause you know, my family, so 

when you, well. everyone has energy and you, you guys all feed each other. But I think it's like when you wake up in the morning, are you out of bed? Do you jump outta bed with energy or do, is there a sort of a runway to get you, I.

Kind of going, 

Like I just have this, I definitely wake up. Were you born that way? Did your mom I was born that way. Did your parents say like when your mom said you were born, you, well you were born early.

Yep. Right? Three months early. Back in 1970. 

I weigh like three pounds. I look like a Guinea pig. I'll show visuals. Not cute. Yeah. Giant eyes and a lot of hair. So ready to screw some stuff up. A lot of hair. Oh, that's so cute. Jet black hair. You guys, they were like, whoa, Nelly, we got a lot. And bug was like, oh Lord.

Oh Lord. You know what? I probably get it. I'm definitely full of natural gratitude, so no matter what's going on, I kind of wake up happy kind of always. 

Yeah. 

And my life, my whole life, I would come downstairs and be greeted by my mom bug with a woo morning. [00:07:00] And so sort of like, so just attack the day. So I think I was given that gift.

And you still carry it. And I still carry it with a 

little bit of coffee, a little bit of Celsius I 

like. Do you know what the key maybe is? I'm big on getting my sleep. Harper. 

Yeah. To 

me, sleep is important as exercise and taking care of yourself. Do you take 

anything to sleep? 

I don't take a thing, never.

I don't need anything and I sleep a solid eight hours every single night. That's insane. I know. Maybe because during the day. I go very hard or whatever. Yeah. But those eight hours, but I've been like that my whole life. There's a story when I was little, I had a slumber party and eight girls came over and of course we're just mocked in and I'm doing everything.

And, and then by eight o'clock I was like, yeah, I'm done. And my mom had to entertain the girls and I like put myself to bed. Like when that switches off, yes. I just remove myself. I'm done. 

Yeah. So,as well as I know you. Whenever you need to show up though, you do. Meaning if it's for work, for your family, for any event you are, even if you have zero energy.

Case in point to what we were talking about earlier. You flew across the country. Literally [00:08:00] no voice flew. Sorry to everyone that you probably had to, I wore a mask to oh, to Canoodle with while you were there. Hope you all are well. but you just know how to turn it on. You just say, all right, I'm here.

I'm doing it. But then you go back and you. Crash hard. You know what it so, so it feels like it's a natural rhythm for you. It's a 

natural rhythm and I think's so lucky. My. Parents instilled too. I would never not show up. when I was lucky enough to give the commencement speech at my high school at 104 temperature, I was really, really sick and there was no option.

I had to, there was a, a cocktail hour leg brunch for me and a speech that my, and then I had to do the commencement in front of thousands of people. So I just don't know. I would never not show up. there's that great game.

Michael Jordan was playing for the Bulls. He had the flu and he kept draining threes. And it's like, you just do, it's not Compare myself to mj. Listen, 

I'm basically like Jennifer Aniston. You're basically like Michael Jordan. Guys, welcome to the coop. Welcome to Greatness. It's Michael Jordan and Jennifer.

Oh, lord. Amazing. Okay. here we [00:09:00] go. This is from Jennifer. From Jennifer Aniston. It's, it's, it's so close. I don't think she's from San Francisco, but this is Jennifer from San Francisco. Yeah. And Jennifer's not having this problem, I don't think. dear the coop Gray hair. Embrace it or dye it till you die. My roots are a full time job, But I don't know if I'm ready to go all silver yet. You go first. Interesting. What are your thoughts? Interesting. I feel like a switch happened during covid for women who were all have gray hair now, right?

It's all coming, in different waves. And I feel that there were a lot more women who started to embrace it. let it sort of weave into their hair a little bit. So maybe still color it, but allow a little bit more of the silver to come in. I still dye my hair, so I'm not quite ready to do that. But it's coming in.

I mean, it's, I'm blonde, so I mean, I'm naturally blonde. Of course, just like Jennifer. Just like Jennifer. Um, but it, I'm sort of letting it come in a little bit. Um, my mom, after her treatments, um, for breast cancer, she was a platinum [00:10:00] blonde. I mean, absolutely spectacular, gorgeous, platinum blonde.

And after her treatments and her hair, she didn't want to go back to. Sort of damaging it. 'cause her hair was very different and she is now a absolutely spectacular gray. It is. And she's weaving a little blonde. And so she's still, it's beautiful still doing it, but kind of allowed it to, and it's looks so stunning on her.

So I, I'm curious about when is the right time to let that happen? I don't know. 

It's so 

funny. 

I just saw this with Sarah Jessica Parker talking about her new show and just like that. Mm-hmm. And when it first came out, everybody was critiquing her looks. Yes. And they were talking about some of her gray hair, and she was funny. She was like, look, I think it was blonde.

She's like, and they're critiquing me as I'm sitting next to Andy Cohen, who's fully gray. So like women get unfairly judged. Right. For this, for whatever reason, we see it with Andy McDowell, who I just love. When she came out with gray hair, everybody lost their mind. Yes. I think Jane Fonda. Jane Fonda is so, and she looks stunning.

Beautiful. Yeah. It's interesting when you see [00:11:00] younger people around our age and our fifties. Mm-hmm. I have some friends that are going full gray and it looks spectacular. I think it's whatever floats. Your boat and whatever you want. I don't, for some reason I have much gray yet, Tommy, who colors my hair laughs.

Yeah. So I don't have it yet. Yeah. So I don't know what I'm gonna do when it comes in. I did see this morning 'cause I was trying to get ready for this podcast by myself, so I was doing eyebrow stuff. You're so brave. Bear with me. You're so brave. And I've got all these gray 

hairs mm-hmm. In my eyebrows.

Your eyebrows. Al so that must be, I can't wait for you to show 

Tommy that today when you go to access, you're like, Tommy. So I have, I have an area that I need some help with. On that note, now 

that I'm going more blonde, because I literally have jet black hair, he a lot of times will dye my brows Yeah.

To match my hair. And last time he and I were like, you know, playing around and so we kinda lost track of time as one does. And my eyebrows turned white and I looked like a loo, but they were kind of orange. They showed, showed me that that was Yes, it was not good. Eyebrows are important. Yeah. So when they, I looked, um, loopy.

I was like, okay, this, this is a problem. This is not the look. No. Yeah. but I'm [00:12:00] curious for all of our listeners, tell us what you think because it's a funny subject. People feel are very passionate about the gray hair one way or the other. 

I also think, and it goes to what we were saying, I think it.

Goes to how you're feeling and how you're coloring, maybe changes even your skin and all of that over the years, because there are also women who are maybe after 70 or even 60, who are starting to go gray, but then they still keep coloring it. A color that maybe does no longer naturally fit their Yes.

Look. And so it makes sense to sort of try to weave it in. So I think it's kind of interesting that there's a, there's probably a general weaving that can happen. Yeah, yeah. and sort of accepting that this is, this is also what we're supposed to look like too. Yes. No rules. And 

let's just age and be.

Grateful for it. Yeah. Whatever way it looks. Yeah. Funny too, if you think about Golden Girls that show Harper, oh gosh. Where they all had gray hair. I think maybe Blanche didn't, I gotta think back. Blanc definitely did not, she was not, she was still getting busy. She, she needed to keep that youth [00:13:00] going as long.

But it's funny. Long as possible of those women were basically, they're in their fifties our age. Yeah. So I think that for a lot of times for men, they associate gray hair with being older. And the 

irony is. We're not, going back really quickly to, and just like that, and Sarah Jessica Parker I think I probably read something this happened recently where she was talking about all this and Kristen Davis and all of these women who, you know, had been so many years since they were on Sex in the City and came back, we're all criticized Oh, for what they were looking like.

And it was, and I think I've read and I obviously, I don't know, but 

I. Don't think Sarah Jessica's had work done. I don't think she's, she's not a Botox girl. obviously I don't really know, but I, this is what she has said, I believe. and obviously looks fabulous exactly the way that she's meant to be at this age and.

At that time there was all those women were getting a lot of flack in that about everything. That's just so crappy. I didn't go back to 

the hair thing and no one's critiquing Andy Cohen and his fabulous salt and pepper hair. His silver fox. Yeah. I'm just saying [00:14:00] how different, who do we just have on? That was so interesting.

oh, uh, Margaret Cho talking about she was told. That she, they didn't like her weight, that she was too fat. Mm-hmm. And they replaced her with Drew Carey, who at the time was really heavy. It's just that double standard Yes. Is so fascinating. And now though I find Harper as women, I wanna be kinder to one another.

I find a lot of times. Women are the ones that are critiquing other women. Yes. Not you and me. Of course. Yes. But you see it in the press or, or you are really making comments and I'm like, you know what guys? We gotta just, whatever floats your boat. I have a friend right now who's battling stage four cancer.

aging is a privilege. Mm-hmm. Let's lean in. I wanna come in sliding in sideways at 

106. 

Totally. For the best I can. 

Totally.

It'd be awesome if you like, you never really turned gray, but you just had like one, like one strip. Yeah. Like a SK strip. That's what I'm gonna do. Something. By the way, 

how does my voice, is Erica sounding good?

It, it does sound good. Yeah. I mean, it, it's good. You can actually go back to work today. The last few 

days I do it, I'm [00:15:00] not so sure. I took two days off of work 

guys, which I never do, and literally my people are like, hello? Right. You're like, listen to me. I'm gonna, I don't think you want me squeaking my way through the news today.

okay. This one's funny, dear. The coop. This is so relevant. This is from Ashley from New York. My group text is out of control. People are sending 15 texts about one dinner plan, five gifts in a row, and 100 likes.

At what point can I exit without looking like a monster? Oh my gosh. You are speaking 

our language. Harper and I are in a. Thousand. So funny group texts, they're beneficial 'cause you can get the information, but I just know for me, sometimes when they keep going, keep going, keep going. It's like, it's so over overwhelming.

What is the 

protocol around? Okay, so you're trying to make, we're trying to make a dinner plan. Great. People throw out ideas. They, wanna identify that they've liked it or that they really love the comment about the person that liked the dinner and the dinner that. What should the protocol be? You 

know what you're asking the wrong person.

You're probably better at that. I just feel like [00:16:00] I just, I just sort of let it go. I'm like, I don't even know. Don't even respond. I don't even respond. And then I, that actually my, that's the protocol. That's the protocol, yeah. Then I text Harper, what's the date again? What am I supposed to somewhere? What am I bringing?

And Harper, can you help me with this? 

It gets very overwhelming. It is overwhelming. I feel like I've actually gone to. Somewhat of that place. I'm also a team mom for my son's baseball team, so I actually just 

stop right there for a minute. What Harper does, and for all you, fabulous parents and women out there that do this, this has become a full-time job, is I cannot believe all the work.

Again, our parents, my mom was always team mom. It wasn't this. 

It's a lot. It's a lot. It's a lot. And it's, it's less about who's bringing the oranges and it's more about managing a group of parents who, are so full of love and so full of energy, so full of fashion. That's nice. And opinions so. The funny thing about this the other day is it was, definitely raining and it was going to rain and there was a lot of discussion about whether the [00:17:00] baseball game would still happen with all of the rain.

So, by the way, in California, rain is the 

equivalent of like a terrible snowstorm. Yeah, like a tornado. Basically just tornado. No one can drive just, just what the south went through. It was 

tornadoes and just everyone's lost their minds. So the net net of it was. I didn't respond to it because people were like, is the game still Should the game still on wire?

Always playing in the rain. The rain is, I see a sprinkle, I'm over here and this, I have my umbrella out and there's still rain going on. And the funniest thing was there was one parent who came in and wrote out six different scenarios for what could or couldn't happen if the boys decided to play in the rain or didn't decide to play in the rain with love.

He did not have any information as to what was going to happen, and so that spun 15 parents off in different directions. So I just came back in like you, I went away for a while. Mm-hmm. Though I'm supposed to be manning this, and I came back in and I said, the game is on at school at 3:00 PM. There you go.

And then 15 people. Put their thumbs up. 18 people did the, I mean, it's, it's a whole, it's just a lot, you know, my favorite thing is, but you don't wanna be rude [00:18:00] and not heart and not thumbs up. No. If you're supposed 

to, I'm not great at responding. I get overwhelmed with those. But what I do love is to change the group name to something funny.

Oh, that's a, that's, that's your contribution. That's my contribution. It's great. My daughters have the three of us. I'm not gonna repeat what they put it under. That's awesome. It took me the longest time to realize how to change it, but they wrote something so hysterical, but I cannot say it, but it, they are just.

So darn funny. That's really funny. Really funny. Yes. 

That's joyful. 'cause you see, so that's joyful. So I love when it pops up and it says great. Something just ridiculous. So our advice is basically I think if there's enough people on it, you're not being rude if you don't do all of the crazy emoji stuff.

Yes, I think you're fine. and probably just. Give it a beat and then respond with something just helpful. Just helpful. Yeah. Just less is more and go forward. Just a thumbs up. 

Wait. One other story about my girls It's so funny, Harper, their sense of humor. You, you know them, they are just, I love funny, they're amazing and, full of life.

We were talking about for some reason. They know that some of my friends call me Kitty or Chimney. 

Yes. And 

so they were laughing about what my grandmother name will [00:19:00] be down the road. Clearly my mom's bug, this is great. And so, I was like, oh, it should be Kitty. And they to be funny, were like, mom, we're gonna call you Gina.

Here comes old Gina. I was like, old lady Gina. Old Gina come up around the round in the corner. I wet my pants laughing. I was like, that that is, I was like, I don't wanna be old vagina. That's very special. That's very special. I was like, what about Peaches kid? The old China. Old China? Here she comes. God, it really 

just, it really encapsulates everything of what you are.

Oh, Lordy. We laughed. It's like old Lady G. We laughed. Oh, is that the name of your group chat? That it might be. It's similar. That's amazing. Okay. All right, babe, one more. I love these letters. Thank you. Everybody. Are these amazing? Yes. We sort of have a theme going today.

Okay. 

This is from Kathy, from Atlanta, or even another Atlanta. Well, you've got your Atlanta peeps. Charlotte. Atlanta. Thank you Atlanta for listening. Kathy from Atlanta, a friend of mine suddenly looks 10 years younger I can't figure out if it's a facelift, great [00:20:00] makeup, or some secret filler.

Can I just ask or is that totally inappropriate? 

Oh, this is a great one. We'll, Harper and I out out here in California. Mm. So it's, you see a lot of this, it's fascinating. Mm-hmm. I have been around, I think it depends on how close you are. 

 I want. was out with a bunch of girlfriends, Harper and our one girlfriend was late. She said she was at the dentist. Mm-hmm. And she came back with some weird lips. And so we were just like, how was the dentist? I mean, you're like, 

well, well the Novocaine wear off anytime soon or three months 

from now.

So interesting. Because I remember when Botox started years ago. and I remember trying it, and for me, my face is too, I got too much going on. Like I've got my mom's. Cheekbones and I've got really big eyes and very angular, so I just, I'm Oh, natural. Nothing really works for me. Right. And I get accused, everybody thinks that I do something to my face, which that's even weirder, Harper.

If you look jacked up and you haven't done anything, 

you're like, no, this is my natural jacked up face. Hello. 

This is so is that my kids and I laugh and bug gets so upset [00:21:00] if somebody writes, lay off the filler bug's like that. She is Oh, natural. That's my shit. Yeah, she doesn't even know. She doesn't know.

you do have incredible cheeks. They're little cheekbones. Yes. Yes. If you look at my 

mom's pictures that I post, oh, she's stunning. They're my mom's stunning. They're my grandmother pies. They are mine. So stunning. and so for all those haters that come from me, it just really cracks me up.

That's really funny. But on that said, for anybody that wants to do it again, it goes back to the gray hair. Yes. Whatever makes you feel good. Yeah. Do your thing with thing. Do your thing. Do your thing. 

I, I mean, I've had friends who have gone to get Botox or do whatever and. Don't tell their husbands. Yeah.

And one 'cause it costs money and Yeah. Maybe they don't, they don't wanna understand. They don't want the opinion. Yes. Um, but also because they're just doing it for themselves. and then, and they're not really coming back with like weird lips. They're, they might come back refreshed. Yeah. Refreshed, you know.

but there was a friend of mine actually a long time ago, and it was kind of during, this might be 10 years ago, and it was during a, uh, winter break for the kids or something like that. So we weren't at school. All the time. And, I met her for a walk and so we were about a week into winter break [00:22:00] and, she was wearing really big sunglasses.

And so, and she wore that, which would make sense. It's a walk, we're going outside, it's sunny, it's beautiful. And we get back to the house and she's still wearing sunglasses and I, but the, but the light came in, like the side of her sunglasses a little bit. So I'm looking at her and I said. Did you get your eyes done?

Because I couldn't take it. I love it. And she's like, I did. I did get my eyes done. Can I show you what? But she was actually so excited to share, but she didn't. Yes, she wanted to go understandably through it. Secretively and she did it younger. She did it. I'm, I'm gonna say around 40, which I've also heard is if you're going to go get work done, you're supposed to do it earlier, younger.

I know. So I It's really hard. Well, yeah, we we're way past 

that. We're way past that. But um, no, but I do, there's that. You heard Cat Sadler who, is a TV host, just did it very young, I think at 40. Mm-hmm. I might be wrong with her age. And it looks fabulous. She documented all and talked about it and looks great.

It's a huge thing in the south. I know a bunch of like southern ladies that all went younger to do it and look fabulous. So again, I think And how's it, how's it working out? Like how it they look [00:23:00] fantastic. Me do. Yeah. That's so nice. But, but then, you know, you risk it not turn. I don't know. It's a little scary.

It's your face. It's your face. It's your face. But I think that we've gotta get a good doctor. Yeah. 

Yeah. A good referral. Yeah. Get a good referral and look into it. Look at their Yelp reviews for sure. Check 

all of that. 

But wait, how did her eyes look? 

I have to be honest, I couldn't really see a big difference, but I think, um, her, it's all personal.

Yeah. So it, that's what I mean. It's just I couldn't see a big difference. Now, I think maybe the point is why you do it early forties or something is so that when you turn 50 and beyond, like you've, you're kind of starting into it. Yeah. You're kind of starting. with a refresh earlier. So, you know, you won't have like, like what my, like my, I mean, my eyelids are like falling on top of my eyes.

Okay. Well, I 

told you, my mom is so funny. She keeps laughing and especially the right one. Really? She said she was taking a picture and they were like, Suzanne, open your eyes. She goes, honey, my eyes were open. So when those lids get heavy, oh my god. I've had a bunch of girlfriends that got their lids done.

They look fantastic. It looks great. Yeah. My dad, by the way, is 90. This is a man that has total [00:24:00] space to twin his teeth. He would not get his teeth fixed 'cause he considered that cosmetic surgery. And he's just like, you need to. Whatever you're dealt with. Yeah. That's what you know, you need to roll with it.

Totally. This is my dad. But anyway, his eyelids started covering his eyes, so he had to get surgery. So my brother and I were calling him Baby Kenny for Kenny Rogers. We're like, okay, Kenny Rogers. Oh yeah. Look at you. And 

did 

he 

love 

it? Look fantastic. Exactly. We were like, look at dad getting it done. See.

Oh, Kenny. Oh, Kenny. Oh, Bucky. Oh, 

Bucky. Oh, Bucky. Bucky is Kenny. well, we have so many, but 

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