Gospel Centered Education
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Gospel Centered Education
6 MORE Common Mistakes Modern Parents Make
Continuing on from our last episode, this episode examines six more modern parenting myths by contrasting them with Christian principles. Our hosts Tom and Kelly first debunk the "do as I say, not as I do" approach, emphasizing that consistency and modeling are crucial, as children watch their parents 24/7. They reject the myth that "dads are optional," citing research that links positive father involvement to better academic achievement and greater emotional security in children. The discussion moves to faith, arguing against its compartmentalization by stating that it should apply to every area of life and that reluctance often stems from idolatry. The hosts caution against making kids an idol with the myth, "my life should revolve around my kids," warning against "trophy parenting" and implicitly teaching a child they are the center of the world. They also address the danger of safetyism (the unhealthy obsession with safety) by challenging the myth, "I must make my child 100 percent safe," stressing that parents must use discernment and allow children to experience failure and practice independence. Finally, they confront the idea that "money is the final filter for decision making," asserting that for Christians, money should not be the central question, especially regarding life callings, and that the focus should be on trusting God's will and provision.
🔗Helpful Links
GCE on YouTube :
https://youtu.be/hh62LdxFtAw?si=fwUMunZtlCTV-uDX
Referenced In This Episode:
https://theparentcue.org/do-as-i-say-not-as-i-do/
https://www.christianity.com/wiki/christian-life/4-indicators-of-genuine-faith-in-everyday-life.html
https://www.irp.wisc.edu/resource/involved-fathers-play-an-important-role-in-childrens-lives/
https://www.forbes.com/sites/markcperna/2021/11/16/not-your-parents-career-or-is-it-parents-exert-significant-influence-on-kids-career-choices/
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/targeted-parenting/202412/afraid-to-allow-your-kid-to-take-risks-heres-why
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/does-performance-drive-your-parenting/
Produced by Vance Rutherford