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Should I Stay or Go? How to Move From Confusion to Clarity with Bridgette Jackson

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Should I stay or should I go?

If that question has been looping in your mind, this episode is for you.

In today’s conversation, I’m joined by Bridgette Jackson, a Global Divorce and Relationship Coach, Founder of Equal Exes®  (which she established in 2019), and creator of The Fence Sitter: Stay or Go?™ course. The latest course about to drop is for parents struggling to manage screen-time of their kids. She is recognised internationally for pioneering a world-first decision-support system for people who feel stuck between staying or leaving their relationship. Bridgette’s clients are based in every corner of the world, and a significant number are here in Australia, where her extended family live. She works with her partner in life and work (Nick) who meets the needs of Bridgette’s clients when it comes to them changing jobs or careers- which most times, is linked to a relationship transition.

Bridgette shares her own deeply personal story, including navigating divorce with four children, a five year court process, and rebuilding her life from the ground up. From there, we discuss the patterns she sees every day in her work with clients around the world.

We talk about the Fence Sitter Spiral, why people stay stuck for years, and how to move from emotional chaos into calm, clarity, and confident action.

In this episode, we cover:

  • Why so many people stay in unhappy relationships longer than they want to
  • How guilt, fear, and caring what others think keeps people stuck
  • The Clarity Ladder and how to take the next honest step forward
  • What it really takes to prepare emotionally, financially, and practically
  • Why relief is often the first sign you are moving in the right direction

This conversation is honest, compassionate, and incredibly empowering. Just real support for wherever you are right now.

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