Episode 63 | Season 3 | Love Moon Cycle | Full Moon

Happy Full Moon! 

Today, you will learn about the Love Moon Cycle. We dive into Honesty with Self and Others, Full Capacity of Our Heart, and Levels of Relativity: Four Questions. 

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These topics are discussed during this episode and are available as chapters.

Visiting Betty
Meeting People Orchestration
Canceling Newark Expo Orchestration
Honesty with Yourself and Others
Changes with Life Narrative 
Wendy Dating
Letting Men Serve
Full Capacity of Our Heart
Betty’s Opening
Wendy's Symptoms
Authenticity vs Facades
Deeper Dive with Physical Symptoms
Levels of Relativity: Four Questions
Wendy and the Four Questions
Betty and the Four Questions
Covid Serving Source
Life is Messy
Hail Mary Project Movie
Change and Growth Moon Weeks
Heart Independence and Freedom

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Transcript

SPEAKER_00 0:09

Hello, I'm Wendy Wrights and welcome to Living the Moon Cycles. Each episode is a conversation with me and my highly intuitive good friends Betty and Stacy, where we share our extraordinary experiences of intuition. By living an organic way of being within the sacred geometry of cyclical time, we experience the full capacity of our consciousness. Our conversation and the information you hear in this podcast is streamed from a unified collective intelligence known as the 11th Alliance. I invite you to explore and enjoy a new knowing of yourself within Living the Moon Cycles. Live it and be it. Hello, welcome to season three of Living the Moon Cycles. It's the love moon cycle of 2026. Full moon. Hello, Betty. Hello, Wendy. How's Betty today?

SPEAKER_01 1:11

Betty is amazing. These last couple weeks have been challenging. Let's say challenging at times. Do we want to dive into that or should we find out how is Wendy?

SPEAKER_00 1:25

Wendy is also amazing. That's what we said to each other the first when we when we were on the phone call. I'm amazing, you're amazing.

unknown 1:33

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 1:34

I d I do think we should update our listeners um with Stacy. Uh I um went down we have visited Betty in Florida, and Stacy lives in Florida, and the three of us got together and we had a great lunch and ice cream, of course, afterwards. And uh we talked to Stacy about the podcast and what's going on in her life right now. And right now she is not gonna be coming back to the podcast. Um and this is you know, these these choices happened in our lives that um and we respect that choice. And so yeah. Um we're gonna open up and see what happens uh with her stepping away. And that's what happens with Co-Create a lot, doesn't it, Betty?

SPEAKER_01 2:23

Yeah, and she's had a lot of challenging life experiences, excuse me, and um I I think uh we want to say how much we're going to miss her, and her contribution to Co-Create has been amazing these last couple years, and we're very appreciative of everything that she's brought forth for us and contributed from her heart. I mean, it was she was very generous and made a lot of changes we probably would not have had if she hadn't been in Co-Create Life with us.

SPEAKER_00 2:56

Yeah, especially the the all the contributions and her insights on the podcast. And uh we're very fortunate that we have all the episodes that she has we've recorded, and um yeah, to get the Stacy, tasty perspective. So all right, so yeah, um diving into um our conversation this morning was extremely interesting. I uh was coming back from my walk this morning, and there's through all these construction workers right outside my front door, um, and they were pouring concrete across the street this morning. So I was like, Betty, I don't think we're gonna record for a while. And so I was watching a lot of men.

SPEAKER_01 3:42

Yeah, and you're doing concrete. You live on a little bitty street too. There's not a lot of room for a big old uh cement truck like that.

SPEAKER_00 3:51

No, no, but that was fun this morning to watch. Um so yeah, our our conversation, where do we even start? Let's let's start with visiting each other. We didn't really realize this when it happened, but uh we spent the entire narrative week of this moon cycle together at Betty's. Okay, not all the time, like we did take break from each other.

SPEAKER_01 4:14

Yeah, and you know what, that's a new uh narrative for us because in years past we've pretty much spent the entire time together with maybe a little break in the afternoon. And um this time we kind of both did our own thing, which is very freeing, I think, for both of us. And yet there were times when we came together and got so many new um objective things that came through, such information. It this was a completely new narrative. And um the other part of it I want to mention is that first week of Inspired Next Steps, on the last podcast, I had uh shared with everyone that I had bronchitis. And in fact, the next day I lost my taste and smell, so it was COVID. It was not bronchitis. And a few days went by, the rest of that Inspired Next Step week before Wendy showed up. And I it's this is also interesting. I started to get uh a little taste back and I could smell a few things, so I felt comfortable. Wendy asked, Was it okay if she came? And I said, Yeah, because I think I'm doing better. And we agreed that yes, you could come down, and then the next day or so I lost it again. Yes, it was like it was nice orchestrated enough so that uh we both felt comfortable that Wendney would come and visit with us.

SPEAKER_00 5:36

Yeah, yeah. And I I ended up flying on the first quarter moon. So the last two weeks of this moon cycle is um near uh inspired next steps in narrative, and it was on that first quarter moon, which is the beginning of the narrative week, is when I flew to Florida. And um I'll just share what happened in the airport because um my friend Paige so nicely uh gave me a ride to the airport, and I always I'm always guided to go early. And Paige is kind of like, I can't believe you go this early. But it's two hours like you're supposed to before a flight. And I walked through security and I came out and I heard, you know, my gate was gate twenty, and I was standing in front of uh gate 16, and so I heard you need to sit down in gate 16. And see, these are these are the inspired next steps that we usually dismiss because our rational mind goes, why would you sit in gate 16 when you're supposed to be in gate 20? So I just do those now. And I walked over and sat down, of course, with my London fog from Starbucks, and That's a must I know. And then um, so I was sitting there and I felt a lot of vibration happening, and I even messaged Betty, I'm like, Whoa, this is gonna be an interesting travel this today. Um, and then a woman sat down, Caddy Corner from me, and she had this interesting tablet and she was drawing on it, and my guidance was to ask her what she's doing, because I'm product designer and I'm always like, Oh, what what's that? How does it work? What why do you have this glove on your hand? And you know, so I started explaining that I'm a product designer, and we started talking about the tablet, and then I moved across and sat next to her, and then um I was looking at what she was drawing, absolutely beautiful. Um this it was a you could tell it was some kind of a game character, um uh uh, you know, cart not cartoon, but um beautiful illustration. And so I started talking to her about how co-creatives always wanted to create a uh androgynous um character that we could make animation, you know, uh videos of our content trying to explain, you know, living the moon cycles and everything. She was all into that, and so we had a wonderful conversation. I ended up talking to her about co-create, living the moon cycles, what we do, and of course she was a conscious innovator. I pulled up her identity map, we talked about that, so this all happened before I ever got to gate 20. So and then at about ten minutes before boarding, I got up, went to the restroom, and got to the gate on time, um, and then proceeded to take my seat. And then a wonderful woman sat next to me, and then I had another conversation with that woman for two hours on the flight about you know what she does. And then I introduced Co-Create and I pulled up her identity map and I, you know. So this is the orchestration that happens a lot in Narrative Week where I was meeting these people and I was hearing a new narrative come out of my mouth about Co-Create and Living the Moon Cycles. And the new narrative, the inspired next step that's created a new narrative is that you know, co-create is more of a collaboration than it is a product or service. Because we have so many people that contribute and um it's really about everybody coming together in that way. And then so in the narrative week that's that's really what happens is that you if you're open to it, if you do inspire next steps like I did, which was sit in gate sixteen and um these things just uh happened. And then on the way home I talked to a woman in the terminal before we were boarding, and uh it ended up that her daughter went to the same college, university I did, and and then of course she's coming down the aisle. I'm already in my seat, and she sits next to me. So I mean it's just orchestration synchronicity, and we had a two-hour conversation on the way home back from Florida, and um so these conversations I kept hearing the new narrative come through my it as behavioral patterns now. So yeah. Which what would you like to add, Betty, on all that?

SPEAKER_01 10:21

I just think it it's really interesting because if you're like me, sorry, you think you're gonna go in and sit down and read a book, or you're going to um look over some paperwork, or you're going to take a nap. And that very rarely happens. You end up meeting these uh conscious innovators and having they're they're kind of trapped, and so are you, on flight. And so much it gets it's an opportunity for so much to come out to have this time together.

SPEAKER_00 10:51

Yeah, and it's even the orchestration beforehand. Um, I put my notebooks, a couple notebooks and the card descriptions and stuff in my backpack, which was already heavy to begin with. And that's what I put under the seat in front of me. And I thought, oh, I'm gonna work on some some of that stuff, and I was really kind of looking forward to you know, flipping through a different notebook. And um, and I even whispered in the car, like whispering's gonna do anything. I whispered to Betty in the car on the way to the airport. I'm going, Betty, I think I might have a very quiet flight today. And Betty just started laughing. Silly, silly goose. Silly Wendy. No, it's it's every opportunity is pretty much um the potential is is taken, you know, in that way. Yeah. So um, so yeah, then and then in the all during the flight home, I pulled out those notebooks and the note card and showed um the woman I was talking to, you know, what what we use in living the moon cycles and doing that. So of course that was the orchestration of having those with me at that time. Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_01 12:04

Yeah. Which which you didn't think of when you were packing it that morning, I'm sure.

SPEAKER_00 12:08

No. I was I reframed it as Wendy's gonna have a quiet ride home looking at her notebooks. That's what that's what I oh no, no, that's not what happened. Right. So but I thoroughly enjoy that. I I really like meeting people like that and hearing their life scenarios. Um w there the the scenario um one woman does patients, she's in she's a hospital administrator who organizes patient sitters all over the hospital, and she was telling me how those have increased in the last years after COVID. Um and then the second woman on the plane was a she owns a business that's a mental health uh business and it has, you know, nine therapists in it. So it was it was so interesting to get her perspective on the identity map and how it's a different uh modality you would use in um mental therapy. And I think they also did um drug abuse too. So yeah, and I mean that that that perspective was huge for me to get from both of those women.

SPEAKER_01 13:26

Yeah, I didn't I uh I hadn't shared this with you either, Wendy. Uh this is the weekend we were supposed to do an expo in Newark. Yes, New Jersey, and the other day I was sitting at the pool, and right next to me, of course, more orchestration, there was a woman discussing the lines through TSA in Newark. Now, Wendy and I don't listen to the news, and I didn't know anything about this, but apparently there was a concern. There was something about they weren't the TSA people weren't getting paid or something, and there was a big worry about the lines. And she said, um, yeah, she had a friend of hers go through TSA, and it took a while to get through it, like a half an hour. Um, and there are there were the ice people walking up and down the lines, keeping track of people, I guess. I don't really know, it didn't get any more there was no more drama from her conversation. I just think that's another big piece of the orchestration is that we were not meant to go through for some reason. Yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 14:28

Yeah. Yeah. And it it's it's interesting because you know, I'll get some guidance or directives, and then I'm like, Betty, I think we're supposed to cancel that, cancel going to that expo. And she's she comes and says, Yeah, that's exactly what I got to. You know, we do that a lot. Um but wouldn't you say our time together last week was amazing? And the the the the dynamics of last week within this love moon cycle, the narrative is to be honest with yourself and honest with others. And we were watching that come through the entire week, especially in our relationship. Um I, you know, I have changed a lot in the last few months, and Betty has too, and so when we spent and we spent more days than we usually do together, too.

SPEAKER_01 15:22

Right, right. Yeah. But I really think that um to me it was and I always have a good time with you, Andy. This has been the most relaxing, enjoyable time I've ever spent with you. And I think it has to do with uh the changes we've made with each other. Um we used when we first met each other, I mean we've known each other since 2014, it was it was codependence. There was a lot of codependence, there was a lot of changes going on in our lives, and um we relied on each other in a lot of ways through codependence um actions. And over this many years of talking, we've that has dissipated. This particular week to me was me opening up and being very honest, speaking my truth about some things uh with Wendy and her reciprocating, and it was like this um this give and take of in complete honesty and fairness with each other and openness and vulnerability and risk. And it it has really, I think, brought our um relationship to a much higher level. And I think a lot of this for me has to do with the uh increase in vibration from the woman ocean at the uh LA uh expo, and it's it's made all the difference in the world. I feel very comfortable. I feel like I've said everything I've wanted to say, and it's just been an amazing experience, and I really think our relationship has shifted to a much higher uh vibration between the two of us, don't you?

SPEAKER_00 17:03

Well, I I think yes. Your vibration has raised, and my intensity has lessened.

SPEAKER_01 17:09

Perfect, yes. In many ways.

SPEAKER_00 17:10

Yes, yeah. And one of the reasons is that um I have a new friend who's single, and she really relates to you know, being single, and I get to talk to her about a lot of things that I was trying to talk to Betty about. Betty's married, you know, and so I think that has taken some of the intensity off of Betty and my relationship that I I don't try to go there with Betty, and I now I have this other friend that we talk about being single and dating and all this these different things, and I do think that's made a difference in our relationship.

SPEAKER_01 17:48

Oh, absolutely, and I'm so grateful this woman has come into your life. Um, it makes me very happy to see how happy you are because she likes to do all kinds of things, which Wendy always loves being active and loves being around people, and this is absolutely perfect for you. I'm so grateful.

SPEAKER_00 18:08

Yeah, so I mean that has made a big difference and and and just understanding like how your narrative your life narrative is really determined by your relationships, these relationships, like new ones that show up, especially if you're open to new relationships, um, and how that levels out other relationships, and because your life narrative is meant to keep changing, not to be held the same. And so it's as long as you let all like these new relationships come in and you flex other ones, and you know, it it everything balances itself out. So that's been very interesting too this week. Um, but yeah, we had uh one of the biggest things, um, okay, so I'm gonna do an update on my dating situation now, uh, because I think in the last podcast was just when I started this matchmaking.com experience adventure that I was very guided to do. And um, I had my first introduction on the last podcast, and then I went on that date. And that date was a very polar experience for me. Um this company is it's not like online dating. You do a profile, and then they have this big database of other people who have done profiles, and then they they try to match you with the most compatibility. All right. Um so I showed up and um it it he was just not I'm very active, he wasn't active, he had some health problems, he had some other emotional issues, and I mean it was just at the beginning it was just like, wow, this I'm not quite sure what happened here. I didn't say this to him, I was thinking this, but this this just isn't who would be good for me. And so what we did have is a a deeper connection of creativity where he was a carpenter, a master carpenter, and um so I talked to we talked a lot about that aspect because I'm you know, I'm product designer, I build things and he he was but he's building not even just houses, but he was very much in larger construction and um so we had a great time talking about those kinds of things, but on a on a more lifestyle personal level, it was like no. Um so I actually one of the things that this allowed me to bring up with me was to say no, I'm not interested in going on a second date, which was a huge thing, don't you think, Betty?

SPEAKER_01 20:54

Oh, absolutely. You spoke your truth, especially because don't they say you have to go on three dates?

SPEAKER_00 21:00

Well, they really, really would like you to go on three dates. But I also had to speak my truth with the company where I said, I just this is not at all what you sold me, and and um I of course came back in the Wendy mode of um highly more communicative than most people would be. That was a nice butt with um uh what I really thought, and that I actually wanted a refund because this you told me that you're gonna match me with somebody compatible. So I had several conversations with them and um they were not happy because supposedly he showed up in a way that they didn't even know wasn't in his profile. And so there was you know and I can tell when people are being genuine and they were gen they were like we're we're they were apologizing and so they did not consider that my first introduction because whatever what happened, you know, they they were like, please do try this again and we're gonna we're gonna this is gonna work, you know, and and this company is pretty big and it's been around for a while and um but what I also learned was what was the reflection being brought to me in this first date? Well he showed up inauthentic. All right. And so that's I had to really sit with that. How did I show up inauthentic? And then I talked with my matchmaker about that where there is nowhere on my profile that I'm an oracle or that I'm highly intuitive or that I have a photographic memory or that I have a three dimensional mind and all these little bit kind of good things for someone to know.

SPEAKER_01 22:50

I have to I have to correct you on that I'm sorry Wendy you don't have a th uh third dimensional mind. You have a multi-dimensional mind.

SPEAKER_00 22:59

Way more I think that's interesting. That's true Betty that is multi-dimensional mind. Um so when I shared this she my matchmaker was like that is a really good thing for us to know that you didn't put in your profile and I said there wasn't really a spot to put it I mean you know the structure of it like where am I gonna put that in there? So I also talked to her about dating when you're highly intuitive and how does that work because a lot of people when they find out you're highly intuitive intuitive they're they're kind of like oh that's creepy or I mean you can get a lot of different reactions and so how does it work is that something they should know ahead of time and they're like no or yes and my matchmaker said no Wendy this is how it works. You show up and you be Wendy and you see how it unfolds in the relationship. And I was like whoa that's a novel idea showing up like Wendy not controlling the situation or no masks no masks and so then this this matchmaker also shared with me she goes I just want you to know I am watching a lot of sabotaging going on with you. And I was like oh you are too so I mean like so we got to the depths of some of the things that are going on and um so I agreed that yes I'll continue yes I'll watch some more videos and learn more about dating I mean you gotta understand I I met my ex-husband when I was 18 and we were married when I was 20. So I didn't do this part of my life in a way and um that's which they can really see like and then she said I would like you to take this blueprint for love assessment but oh my gosh here we go you know so I did that and I have to meet with you with the coach next week to get the results on that and um anyway learning a lot Betty.

SPEAKER_01 25:03

Well it's opened you up in a way it's cracked you open cracked me open. Yeah in in ways that I'm watching and it's just like it's it's pretty amazing to see this and you had mentioned a few months ago about bone crushing vulnerability and that was a way of breaking you open and this is the result of it. I'm just I'm so I have to say I'm just blown away with what how you're how you're dealing with this. It's amazing. I'm not you Betty you know you know the depth and you know every single detail of it now don't you since we spent the week together like I'm like Betty aren't you so sick of hearing about this well I have to say you shared uh something with me I was not aware of which is that uh that's how Wendy processes things is to just look come at it from different angles different angles different angles oh wait in a multi-dimensional way which is was really helpful for me to understand that about you. Well because you were witnessing it at the theme but I've witnessed it many times over the years and I just let you reel it out and think okay when are we going to be done with this? Well now I now I see that it's a process. It's something you have to that you have to walk through.

SPEAKER_00 26:22

I have to I have to go through all these different angles. And it's funny because my new friend who's single does the same thing. She has to go through she has the same kind of mind. And um so that's fun when you're trying to understand men at the age of sixty and what the heck do you do? And um it was really interesting though because with this new friend we both admitted that there's a part of us that would be just like oh well too bad we're not gonna have a relationship and we're good. You know we'll just we're kind of like and but then there's another part of us it's our heart that absolutely wants to have like an intimate relationship. And we've been talking about how if this if this heart aspect would just go away life would be a lot better and we wouldn't have to go on these adventures like matchmaking.com.

SPEAKER_01 27:10

And if you satisfy that if if you think about it though with the mind with your mind just you know constantly swirling and twirling and this inner tension that comes from that and how come I can't figure this out and you know if you didn't have that part of your heart that's all it would be so yeah maybe the heart does have a pretty active role or at least if we let it have an active role. Sometimes I shut mine down for sure.

SPEAKER_00 27:39

Well didn't I come out of the bedroom one morning and I said Betty I solved all the problems I told my mind to shut up I just said it's working it's great yeah tell us to shut up so you can hear your heart for a child I know so I have um I did I did my exercises my homework and everything and then when I got back they were like okay are you ready for your next introduction and I weekly typed or message yes sure thank you for the opportunity I and they tell what they do is they um they give you the first name what the what the person does and then um where where they live in location to like St. Louis and then uh you you go on the first date which is like a coffee and then you're supposed to go on a second date which is like an activity and then the third date you can actually like go on to dinner or something. And um but yeah I've been watching all kinds of d videos about dating and I there's a I I told Betty some stuff she didn't even know.

SPEAKER_01 28:55

Heck yeah. You're diving deep. Well you know I met my husband when I was probably about seventeen we got married when I think when I was twenty four or twenty five so I did some dating in high school but not very much you know. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 29:13

I didn't either yeah so um yes I have we have not he's not called me. He he calls me you know we both get each other's number and then he's supposed to call me and then we figure out you know where we want to go meet for the first date. And my guidance with this is that um I'm going to let him lead in and be we talk about the complete and secure in your femininity as absolute and to allow him to lead is is doing that and experiencing that. And um so that's a that's you know Wendy likes to lead and likes to control things and have things come out right and so it's just being vulnerable uncertainty and and risk.

SPEAKER_01 30:05

Well I I think that's a good point and it's something I'm learning over these last few months with Jerry in that um men w want to serve us. You know and so many times with Jerry I he would just annoy me because he was constantly doing things for me that I he thought I would like and I would get so mad at him and now I'm really changing my perspective when I realize men just want to serve us. So if I look at it from that perspective he's coming from his heart and I kept squashing it and stepping on it. And now that I have sat back he's he's done some work for himself too and he he insists on opening the doors for me now which to me before it was like I can open my own door I can do it myself. And now that I see that it's something coming from his heart I accept that gift he's giving me versus he's trying to think I'm too weak and I can't do it. It's just changing that perspective so I'm letting him lead in a lot of ways you know yeah and it's just reframing it in your mind.

SPEAKER_00 31:11

Exactly. And and that first introduction that phone call I I controlled it and we went to the restaurant I wanted to go to and we I mean and and so polarity right aren't I polarity like I need to have the contrast and so I have the contrast now that I can work with to do the opposite and it's funny because I'm taking salsa dancing at the same time as all this and which I have to let be you know when you're doing that kind of dancing you've got to let the man lead and to feel that how you surrender that.

SPEAKER_01 31:47

Yeah and that's not taking anything away from the woman. No and and uh being whole and complete in your femininity femininity is absolute that to me is a part of that if you if you actually let that unfold versus having to control it which controlling is contraction and allowing is opening expanding yeah you're still in control in a way you're still choosing whether to allow it or not choices yeah it but it's it's being soft open and receptive.

SPEAKER_00 32:24

Right. Okay and and that's how you have a heart relationship because I've had a mind relationship and it's like I really would like to experience the heart. I didn't know this was all this was going to be involved in this but I'm it's a great adventure and I'm I'm gonna follow my guidance. And also to reframe this as you know this is part of my divine life plan to do this and experience this. And I think when I got there Betty wasn't I saying that um it's when okay so Betty and I uh oh you know I don't know how many years we've agreed to do the full capacity of our consciousness and experience that and do it with divine will which is doing our inspired next steps, creating whatever that creates and enjoying it and it's an adventure. So we've we've really surrendered our lives to this. And what I heard was that you guys are saying you want to experience the full capacity of your consciousness. Well you're gonna f you're gonna experience the full capacity of your heart because that's what a lot of times people go through a whole life and not experience the full capacity of their heart. And we were talking about this this morning weren't we Betty and how you're experiencing that full capacity of your heart with Jerry in ways.

SPEAKER_01 33:50

Right, right. Um and one of the one of the things I'm being nudged very hard to share is um and I I will get to that too is about we're compartmentalizing it in a way with a heart relationship but it should be with every relationship being soft open and receptive. Yes and I can say I'm not that's not always me. I don't always do that with everybody. But yes um this is really showing up big time with um Jerry and me in that and this is something an awareness with talking with Wendy this morning that came to me there's the mind emotion spirit and body for quadrants and so um I could see how Jerry and I have connected uh many many years with the mind and what's opening up for me now for both of us is the emotion the spirit and the body um and I'll share with you where it's it has to do with having sex. For so many years we kind of were like most people I think you we were a lot more free before kids and then it became a time thing and after the kids left it was still oh wham bam slap thank you ma'am get it you know go get on to something else. And what we're doing now is we're really taking our time and allowing ourselves the freedom to say exactly what we want that's the emotion and being very open with each other. I'm also talking with Jerry about many spiritual aspects including I shared with him the uh uh angel escorting me to a higher vibration he's very open to all of this and then um the body in being very open and free with our bodies I used to cover up all the time it was I would not walk around naked because it would always be like okay that must mean it's time to fool around and it I'd be washing dishes or whatever and I just learned to cover up. So now for the first time I'm really opening up to that and he is so appreciative and he's always like your body's so amazing I never looked at it.

SPEAKER_00 36:08

He is very complimentary all the time and you know I'm gonna be 71 soon this is not a body of a 20 year old I carry a few extra pounds pretty damn nice though Betty for well thank you but still I never felt like that so yeah we're we're really experiencing this new narrative in this a love relationship moon cycle yeah it's pretty amazing and it's it's and and the theme is honesty with yourself and others you know being honest that way and then so when he's gonna be honest with others at the end of the week Wendy started getting rashes all over her body and this does happen when I'm in the sun and it's um all my life my skin has has been very very sensitive. Um you know you know how you go through the department square and they're like here do you want to try this and I'm always like no you wouldn't believe what could happen you know so and that was one of our discussions this morning before we started recording was I have three or four different types of rashes and different on my legs, on my chest on my arms on my back. And Betty being the nurse she is I would randomly expose them and say Betty what do you think these are is this rash the same rash that's on my back and she'd be like no this is quite interesting so when we were talking this morning we became very aware of how the narrative week is being honest with yourself and others okay and we're stepping into behavioral patterns week because um today is the full moon and it's the start of behavioral patterns week. And what happens between narrative week and behavioral patterns is that the new narrative of being honest with others and myself is now going to actualize within my reality. What does that mean? It means that I'm going to experience the new behavioral patterns of being honest with myself and others and in this transition um there's a lot going on in my consciousness because for me to do that I mean this is gonna be radical different behavioral patterns and in especially like going on this date the upcoming date and being very honest with myself and and showing up as Wendy okay I can understand I was in politics for 40 years, thirty thirty years and I have a s facade the political facade okay that that works very well for me. And then I also have you know doing co-create and living the moon cycles in this more spiritual um and it is in a way a a facade too where um socially I can make connections with people. I work at the booth I do you know all of this talking to programmers talking to all kinds of different people organizing managing workflow uh you know so but you know that but uh these matchmaking people have gotten me to the point okay but who is Wendy that's gonna show up authentically on these dates well obviously that's brings a little anxiety up within Wendy and the vulnerability and the uncertainty and the risk. And so this is what we were talking about with Betty in COVID last time. That your body is an expression of what's going on in your consciousness. And so in my consciousness I have some other also things happening with relationships that I'm just gonna show up authentically. And so I got really got three different relationships that that's gonna happen. And that's why I have three different types of rashes on different targets of my body because the the three rashes represent are symbolic they're well they're expression of showing up authentically in these situations coming up and to be Wendy and you know I'll just be very honest. Wendy is funny and my sense of humor sometimes you're hilarious. I I do like I mean I I just find humor in the world. Like if if you like I sit in front of this window working and I watch people walk by with their dogs which are the expression of their spiritual aspect and I I will sometimes be rolling on the floor laughing. But like I'm seeing the inner aspect of the person represented in this dog and it's just funny. So I come at the world with this this other perspective that can sometimes be I'm I people say I'm not serious enough. I can't believe you made fun of that how can you you know and I get caught in these situations like but to me it was really damn funny.

SPEAKER_01 41:34

Well let me let me share something though about with your humor it it's not derogatory and you don't make fun of people it's an intelligent humor and there's a lot of people who do not get that he sense of they don't have that sense of humor so they would be offended by that. I just want people to know that.

SPEAKER_00 41:52

Yeah so this is an example because the on that first date I was like I knew I wasn't gonna probably do a second date so I started testing things in the conversation and one of the things that he told me was that his dog ate the remote control to his television and now his television is stuck on the music channel and he can't get it to change. And I my humor what I said to him I said did you try picking up your dog pointing the dog towards the television and squeezing its belly to see if the channel would change I mean that's the windy humor is hilarious. And he's he was like that's really funny and I thought oh man that worked you know but those are like I see the world in such different weird ways being multidimensional and um so anyway I thought okay that was that that worked that was a good good sign if it if a man doesn't understand your sense of humor you don't that's he's not for you. Right exactly so I'm learning those things I'm learning the you know how to show up as Wendy and be okay with making jokes a lot and you know and that's the true wendy what happens yeah that's the true wendy that's what I do. And there's a lot of laughing in our meetings isn't there and and oh yeah we have a good time. I know oh okay so that's what's really happening now. So in your lives um it's really to to see it with that first quarter moon week did how did your life narrative change? Have you been more honest with yourself and others and then in this now that we're on the full moon right now we're starting behavioral patterns week and are you well maybe you should ask yourself do you have a physical symptom right now?

SPEAKER_01 43:48

It is the body speaks the mind.

SPEAKER_00 43:50

It is the body talking to you yeah it's it's if you have a physical symptom really look into that physical symptom um because it's very symbolic of of how you're being how your narrative is changing to be more honest and how your consciousness may have anxiety over that like my consciousness does so um you know what do you do like what am I doing with this rash or these multiple rashes um I I'm acknowledging that they're there and I'm acknowledging the anxiety that I have in my consciousness and it's really I am I am addressing or I am I am very um compassionate with my body. I put aloe on the rashes I you know trying to see what relieves them Betty just suggested an oatmeal bath but I'll try it. And uh but to to it's really in the acknowledgement yes I have a symptom what is happening in my consciousness that is this expression is coming through my body and it was Betty and I talking this morning. I really did not have this clarity until Betty and I did our boot camp that we do and um understood okay there's there's different rashes there's probably different relationships involved what are the how what do I see in that and there's three of them and well the bottom line with the rash is what or who is irritating you?

SPEAKER_01 45:42

What is it that you're that you're hesitant to say what is it that uh wants to is making your skin crawl or making you feel uncomfortable so that's kind of the narrative to look at what is it that you're is irritating you and I I'm and I gotta be honest I mean I've had rashes my entire life lupus is very much about skin I had both skin and systemic.

SPEAKER_00 46:06

But yeah it just continue you and so it does this particular point of awareness is also I'm gonna spend some time looking at how that was an expression throughout my life not knowing or acknowledging you know and it really has to do with relationships. Right.

SPEAKER_01 46:27

Well you shared that before with me about lupus that um you didn't feel like you could uh speak your mind or say who you were you were very busy trying to may be somebody that other people wanted you to be and you were not Wendy so I I could see how you would be having a lot of rashes then.

SPEAKER_00 46:45

Yeah yeah but yeah it's a to see if you you know any symptoms or that have come on lately um it can be a slight headache it can be you know anything but just acknowledge that it's present and when you acknowledge that it's present you are actually you're you're you're communicating um you're accepting uh what is trying to be expressed instead of this is a great point this is a great time Betty to talk about the four questions isn't it oh that's I was waiting for you to finish yes this is what came to it was coming to your mind too we were leading into this yes we love that when that happened and with the narrative week it came in the narrative week too it came in the narrative week right um and I'll I'll be very honest when I went on that first date the first thing I thought why is this happening to me I was like this is polarity I don't understand this this company told me the opposite that was gonna happen you're gonna we're gonna match you with someone that's really compatible so that was the first thing and then I was very guided with how to how to work with this and so what I what I heard was okay what is happening to me is is a relativity a level of relativity in your consciousness and we understand that your consciousness has really kind of four levels of relativity I, me, we, us. That was actually the name of the nonprofit we had before co-create uh me, we and us was the name of it. Um but so there's four questions that go with those four levels of relativity and you can the levels of relativity how would you say that Betty they're they're dimensional levels of relativity of understanding would would you say that? Right and I'm I'm almost getting it this has to do with the four quadrants too right yes mind body spirit emotion yeah these these match up with those but we're not going to go into that depth let's just get the four questions don't we that'll be the that'll be the part two yeah part two or three part five or six or six um so the first thing was why is this happening to me and I went through all that and then all of a sudden I heard now how does this serve you and I was like well it serves me because I need to look at the reflection that is being presented to me. How am I inauthentic? Okay and then after I worked through that talking to the matchmaking my matchmaker and everything then it was very I was I was given okay how does this serve others? And I was like this is really interesting. Okay well I presented something new to them about their their system and not having intuitiveness in there or and but they she did say that they do they do sense that in people. And then also you know how did this serve others the the man I went on the date with too um and so I came up with some definite things with that in our conversation. I I did present some new perspectives to him on different things. And then after I kind of worked through that it was how does this serve Source that blew me away. I was like whoa it totally reframed the whole thing to me because I'm an expression of Source and Source is learning through it's learning about itself through me. So that is where I really understand that all I need to do is show up and see what happens because then I am fully allow fully allowing Source to experience itself in whatever way it would like. You know surrendering the entire experience kind of like we've done with our life and you know doing living the moon cycles it's like okay just surrender into this show up and stream whatever streams see what happens do your divine life plan. Do not do not try to get it to come out the way you want see what unfolds as your divine life plan in these situations. Yeah. So totally flipped it. Then I was kind of like wow that sounds a lot easier than trying to control it.

SPEAKER_01 51:23

And that's what we try to do.

SPEAKER_00 51:25

I mean that's what I try to do is control it so that I don't get hurt so that it comes out the way I want it to that's not very innocent loving and neutral that's pretty much um I'm controlling everything and it usually turns around and bites me in the butt you know well so so then what happened was of course a message I think we got the four questions before I came to visit I messaged the four questions to Betty and I'm like how does that work with COVID?

SPEAKER_01 51:51

Blah blah blah and she goes I've only had the questions for five minutes can you give me a chance yeah yeah that's right okay um yeah take your time so for me um why is this happening to me for sure because I wasn't feeling well I had you know no zero energy constant fatigue I slept one entire day but the the killer for me was no taste and no smell which I have very sensitive heightened smell and taste I really do.

SPEAKER_00 52:26

She's here in this lifetime because of that. I mean if you watched her eat and the I mean it is just amazing.

SPEAKER_01 52:34

I mean it's beautiful too the the I I can't even imagine having your sense of smell and taste and I can't imagine you not having it what richness and fullness there is in that and the contrast that I got from that which is how is this serving me is um and now that it's back my taste and smell is back um it's it feels even more heightened and through that about five or six days there when I didn't have uh those senses which is also this is that moon cycle about senses um I really there there was no reason to eat I eat so I can taste things that's it so I was eating because I should I when she told me that I'm like that's how I eat I mean I don't food is not food's food to me I I mean it's it's boring it's I know she goes this would suck Wendy you do this all the time I mean so we were she was like yeah Betty that's that would and then when it came back I kept hearing about the matchmaking thing she was rolling it over and around and looking at it from all these different perspectives and then when my taste and smell came back I was constantly in her face going you should smell this this smell so good I can't believe this is back and on and on and on about that.

SPEAKER_00 53:55

So you can imagine sitting by the pool that's all we did. I would try to talk about dating she all she would do is say I can smell the suntan lotion now.

SPEAKER_01 54:05

Yeah that was great. So then how does this serve others um for me it was about uh it gave Jerry an opportunity to spend some time by himself alone he because I I didn't want to see him and he didn't want to see me he didn't want to come over and get it so he stayed in his condo or did whatever he wanted whatever he did I don't even know for for two three days um and it gave us an opportunity again contrast to see what it was like completely alone versus with very little contact and that was a text now and then or he'd call and say hey how you doing but that'd be about it I didn't feel like talking um and then that there was that and then how does this serve source? That was the one that really stumped me how does me having COVID serve source and um it it became it came to my awareness that it's another experience for source to see through this expression what it's like to have COVID.

SPEAKER_00 55:09

There was that on one level and then Wendy asked so um how is it that what is it about this reality that you don't want to be a part of or because I kept saying before this flip with the ocean and make it change in my okay so let me let me explain a little how I came up with that okay so you can have acute illness that is you know you have a cold or you have COVID is a collective illness all right because it it it happened to the mass consciousness. So when somebody gets COVID it's really your relationship with the mass consciousness compared to when you get an um acute ill illness it's really about the relationship with yourself. Like my rash okay is very much my relationship with myself compared to Betty's has COVID. So it's really about what part of the mass consciousness the collective consciousness humanness does she not like and or because that's the anxiety in her consciousness right now it would the anxiety would be associated with the collective more than the relationship with herself.

SPEAKER_01 56:24

Yeah and I really had to sit with that for a minute and I realized I really it bothers me a great deal that when people hurt each other and they're not kind to each other and there I don't see any reason for that. And I I really had to sit with that for a long time and how does that um come through with source and um yeah it was not that easy for me to look at that but I think that that was the main gist of it is that I it bothers me when people are not kind with each other and you know are respectful of each other.

SPEAKER_00 57:01

So how did you move beyond that then?

SPEAKER_01 57:05

That's a great question. I guess it's because I realized that those people um that bother me are still source as well. Yes I didn't was not seeing them as source. I was seeing them as somebody different from me separate from me when in reality they are me and I am them I am source and they are source.

SPEAKER_00 57:31

So the most learning potential comes from contrast and so do you see how there's all different types of experiences some are really intense and what we label as bad or we can't understand them. But source is still learning about itself through that contrast on me which was what well Betty turned the question on me. I think that's what happens. I think so yeah when I asked her what is it she doesn't like about humanity or the collective consciousness and and it really it it it and then we watched the movie Big Bold Beautiful Journey which was cool too because when we're guided to watch a movie it usually clarifies things that we're contemplating and everything. And my is it's messy that's it's it's messy and then relationships can be messy too. And but to be trying to date people and to slowly unfold this life of mine is there's a lot of messiness in it and not easy things to talk about. And so that and it really it really brought it was like huge to me I was like wow that's another reason probably why I'm anxious with starting intimate relationships too and I think level of source.

SPEAKER_01 59:10

Everybody can relate to that everybody's life is messy. Yeah even though they may not think think that it is but if they if you really sit with it unless you are perfectly happy all the time 100% of the time have no issues no drama I don't know anybody who's like that.

SPEAKER_00 59:29

But then to come to the point to realize that's what this reality is all about. Exactly it's not supposed to be perfect. It's we're diving into this duality of contrast and and the heart and mind are constantly playing with each other with that. And so it was like you know what yeah it's it it it really had me come back and look at my life and say yes and acknowledge a lot of things I didn't want to acknowledge in a larger way and then to understand it with a this new objectivity on it and acceptance like yeah you know what and I'm gonna meet people who are messy and that's it's yeah right that's the way it is. Right. So I mean but can you tell we had a really really interesting and then we saw another movie we saw the Hail Mary project with Ryan Gosling. Oh yeah of course we wanted to go watch sure I'll tell I'll watch him yeah uh and um so but the there were many things in that movie that were very symbolic of what Betty and I were talking about. He um can I give it away? No I shouldn't give it away.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:45

Well we're just we'll let people know that we're you know uh an alert here so if you don't want to hear how what happens turn it turn or fast forward.

SPEAKER_00 1:00:54

Yeah right now so he ends up on this spaceship not knowing why he how how or why he got on the spaceship he can't remember and after the movie we were like speechless because our lives have kind of been like that like Betty and I with our intuitiveness and everything and then we're dropped into this reality and we're like what are we supposed to do with all of this?

SPEAKER_01 1:01:18

Because we're not from here.

SPEAKER_00 1:01:20

Yeah we're kind of like but then to go over the course of many years and understand you know we're we're Archangel and we're and and what co-create is all about and everything and we were watching this in this movie how he unfolded it very similar to the or unpacked it in a way that Betty and I have over the years and to realize no our our lives are the experiment and you know to to just jump in it. And and in the movie he does the same thing at a certain point and accepts it as it is.

SPEAKER_01 1:01:57

Right.

SPEAKER_00 1:01:58

Yeah yeah so we had we had a all kinds of fun so what's gonna happen in the next two weeks behavioral patterns giving us a new perspective ooh yeah so okay so inspired next steps and narrative is the change that has been introduced into our consciousness and so we're at the full moon and that change is fully realized. That's what's happening. So the next two weeks the n next two weeks are growth so we got change and growth happens in every moon cycle and behavioral patterns is when we experience the change in our narrative as new behaviors. Which means it can be new relationships, new activities, new dates, new you know all kinds of different things and to be open to step into those new things so that that narrative can fully actuate within your consciousness in the reality.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:04

With the focus going to the heart we've crossed over that uh threshold from mind to heart so this that's coming up is going to be more related to the heart which is what I'm already I think we're already experiencing that.

SPEAKER_00 1:03:18

Oh definitely yeah definitely um yeah the heart wants it to play out in the reality as as an actual experience the mind would like to leave everything as just a theory and you know keep it safe. And so behavioral patterns is when you're gonna actually experience it and when you experience the new narrative it becomes knowledge. And then you cross the threshold of the third quarter moon and that knowledge then becomes a new knowing of the self. The fourth week is new perspective. So that is the week that you realize you have a new realization of yourself and you have a new knowing of yourself. And with that comes empathy because you have a new perspective on you and others in the world and that empathy is wisdom. So every moon cycle the change and growth brings wisdom within your consciousness. And then we start another moon cycle and it's continuous. Yes yes which opens it up and opens it up and opens it up yeah in this moon cycle this moon cycle is the moon cycle of love and it's also associated what is happening is the heart chakra is illuminating and and that's what really what Betty and I are you know experiencing accept acknowledging, realizing is how our heart okay that heart space, the heart is opening up in in huge ways. The I mean the more that you lean into vulnerability, risk and uncertainty with your inspired next steps, the more growth you experience. So we have a lot of accelerated growth because we're very much leaning we we understand it and we're leaning into it. And it's really a choice in your own life, you know there's if there's aspects of your life that you're like I really want things to change you can do it. I mean it's you just but it's you have to do the vulnerability risk and uncertainty of inspired next steps for that to actuate basically yeah and that can be a little uncomfortable from my experience the rewards far outweigh that discomfort. The rash the COVID all of that yep and and that's why we have m more extreme um physical uh expressions of the changes in our consciousness because this is a little bit radic more radical change. And then that new perspective week that is really about the new knowing of yourself and your heart and what that when your heart opens up you you sense a new independence and you can sense um the freedom, a lot of freedom. So the more honest you are with yourself and others, and you actually do the behavioral patterns, you are gonna experience a lot more independence in your life and in relationship with yourself, others, and the world. And that's how that works. Very cool. Yeah. Yeah. Well, Betty, you think we covered it all? It was kind of hard to think that we were gonna thread all this together or weave it together.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:51

Yeah, I think we covered the majority of it, so yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 1:06:55

All right. Until next time, life is a journey of curiosity, wonder, and adventure. Live it and be it.