Episode 64 | Season 3 | Free Will Moon Cycle | New Moon

Happy New Moon! 

Today you will learn about the Free Will  Moon Cycle. We dive into an Open Narrative with Relationships, Heart Freedom, and Polar Experiences. 

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These topics are discussed during this episode and are available as chapters.
Setting Our Heart Free
Expo
Open Narrative in Relationship
Frog
Confining Patterns
New Fun
Compartmentalizing Time
Honesty with Others and Self
Thermostat Story
Matchmaking
Artist Event Polarity
Responsibility and Accountability
Audacious - Free Falling
Move Beyond
Stakes with Relationships
Mind & Heart
Garden Analogy
How We Are Where We Are
Moon Cycle 101
Free Will Moon Cycle
Dreaming Big
New Narratives From the Expo
Freedom within Choice

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Transcript

SPEAKER_01 0:06

Hello, I'm Wendy Wrights, and welcome to Living the Moon Cycles. Each episode is a conversation with me and my highly intuitive good friend Betty, where we share our extraordinary experiences of intuition. By living an organic way of being within the sacred geometry of cyclical time, we experience the full capacity of our consciousness. Our conversation and the information you hear in this podcast is streamed from a unified collective intelligence known as the 11th Alliance. I invite you to explore and enjoy a new knowing of yourself within Living the Moon Cycles. Live it and be it. Hello. Welcome to season three of Living the Moon Cycles. It's the free will moon cycle of 2026, New Moon. Hello, buddy. How are you today?

SPEAKER_02 1:05

Hello, Wendy. It's um trying not to laugh. We're just having a good time here. You made me laugh.

SPEAKER_01 1:13

I don't know how long it took us to stop laughing to start recording.

SPEAKER_02 1:18

And here we are, laughing again.

Setting Our Heart Free

SPEAKER_01 1:21

Oh my god, I got through the introduction. That was great. Yay. It took a couple of times. But yes. Hello, everyone. All right. We this is this is like we always say, jam-packed. Um, we just had a huge conversation, and after we were done, we were like, we could talk for four hours, and we're only gonna do an hour, and we have no idea what's gonna come through in this next hour. I would say one of the themes is setting our heart free, wouldn't you say, Betty?

SPEAKER_02 1:50

Oh, that's one of many, but that that was a big one. That was a big one for me these last couple weeks. This whole moon cycle. Yeah.

Expo

SPEAKER_01 1:57

Yes. And so we're we're actually recording this. Um, if you want to get the real time of what's going on, um, we're recording this a few days before the new moon because um we are going to be at an expo on Friday uh setting up and we're gonna be in California, San Rafael. Uh we have shipped our booths. We only have one strang straggler straggler box that's was in Nevada, but I think it's it's it's gonna get we we tracked these boxes, which is hilarious. It's like but it's supposed to be there. So yeah.

SPEAKER_02 2:38

Why Nevada? I don't know. Maybe it's gambling. I don't I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 2:43

Nope, nope, this strange little box, yeah. Um so we've experienced a lot of orchestration with that too, haven't we? Oh my gosh. Um yeah, it was funny because I took all the boxes in uh and with the help of Paige, and we we sent them off, and then one landed on my front porch the next morning. And I was like, oh my god. I went back to FedEx immediately. I'm like, this box is supposed to be on the way to California. And so we had to go through um a lot of little ups and downs with getting that box shipped correctly, too. So um, yeah, it's gonna be fun and we're gonna have a good time, and we're we're we're really looking forward to to doing another booth, and this time it's gonna be Betty and I. And we're gonna set the booth up and we're gonna do the whole thing, just the two of us. Well, not really the two of us, higher consciousness is always there. Um always a big help, yes. Yes, always a big help, yes, orchestrating everything.

SPEAKER_02 3:43

And that's what this whole thing is, even with the random box, who knows? I mean, uh, that's what makes it fun, is you just don't know what's gonna happen.

Open Narrative in Relationship

SPEAKER_01 3:51

Right, right. So, one of the things that we were talking about, we've had a lot of experiences lately, especially in the last like three days, that have brought our awareness to I would say contrast. And we actually had this interesting experience with our development group where we were talking about um open narratives and relationships because this moon cycle that this this moon cycle and the next two are very much about relationships and um how relationships how your life can be so full of relationships that there's no space for anything else to grow or new relationships to come in. And that a lot of times what we do is we we do an art class for eleven years with the same people and you you love all the people and but also you walk with the same person for the last six years or however many years, or you go to the gym but with the same person over and over again every week. And um the way Betty and I understand it is that those repetitive activities hold a certain narrative with you and that person. And what we're always being shown is is how do you open up your consciousness, your life for change and growth, and also living your own consciousness and the authentic true capacity of that consciousness.

Frog

SPEAKER_02 5:33

And yeah, exact exactly, and what um I see happens is it those relationships, and this last moon cycle has been all about relationships, is um that becomes very familiar and comfortable, and you it's like the frog in the water that's the heat is being turned up. You don't realize what the relationship is anymore. It started out in one way and then it kind of got stuck somewhere and it's become stagnant, and there is no change in growth. It's just the same thing over and over again. Although, because there is a different dialogue, not the narrative, but the dialogue, does it might be different on what you did this week last week or whatever, but nothing really changes. It's the same familiar patterns over and over and over again that you're not even aware of after a period of time.

SPEAKER_01 6:28

You're not. And can I can I back up and ask about the frog in the w water?

SPEAKER_02 6:37

Yes, it's when they did uh they've done experiments where they put a frog in the water and then just slowly turn the water up till the frog dies. It doesn't jump out, it could. There's space for it to jump out, but it just becomes familiar with the temperature just slowly increasing till uh the water's boiling and they die because they're not they're not aware of what is happening, so they just stay in the same place that's familiar and comfortable, even though it's becoming uncomfortable.

SPEAKER_01 7:09

I have never heard that. We are we are such good friends, and and that's the first time I've ever heard that. Well, maybe that's example.

SPEAKER_02 7:17

Maybe that's where the nursing comes in and all the laboratory classes I had to take. Not that I witnessed that, I didn't do that to a frog, but yeah.

Confining Patterns

SPEAKER_01 7:26

That's an amazing, yeah. That's an amazing, like, and it goes with what we're talking about. Yeah. That's exactly what happens. So in our in our development group, um, it was interesting when we were talking about, you know, changing up your schedule or or allowing enough space, because when you are predetermined that you're gonna go on this walk with this person every single day, okay, that doesn't leave a lot of room for a different type of exercise at a different time of day that might allow other orchestration to happen its full capacity.

New Fun

SPEAKER_02 8:08

Right. And I I mean that's what I've been experiencing, and I, you know, not to say it over and over again, although that's what I'm doing, but my relationship with Jerry was just like that. And a lot of I see a lot of uh marriages like that. It's the same thing over and over again, with no adventure, no, it's just the usual expectations of what it was before. It's familiar, it's comfortable, and you just stay in that same relationship. And what I have found, and I shared this with Wendy earlier, uh it's our relationship has changed to the point where when we get together, we have no idea what's going to happen. And so many fun things are happening. Um, we went to uh we were running errands the other day, and um I had to drop off something at FedEx, and while I was in there getting that straightened out, uh Jerry looked up uh, we'd go to brunch often, um, and he he said, I'm I found a new restaurant you want to go. I said, sure. He said, Do you want to see what it is? And I said, No. Normally what I would do is I would say, yeah, put me on the website. I want to see if there's anything on there I can eat. And and I said, No, just let's just go. And it was the most amazing restaurant. And neither one of us knew what we were gonna uh expect, but it wasn't the normal run-of-the-mill thing that we had done before. There were so I have so many examples like that now, and it's because we don't do the same thing over and over again. He is living his life, I'm living my life, and we come together at times because we still enjoy our each other's company, but it's it's so much more fun and free, and I have I am so relaxed all the time, and I have no chatter in my head and no intertention. It's pure peace while I'm living my consciousness. It's truly amazing.

Compartmentalizing Time

SPEAKER_01 10:01

Thanks for sharing that, Betty. And and the other thing, this situational exercise, I was kind of a part of, was that Betty had a little she you were holding in mind lack where you were thinking I'm not spending enough time with Jerry. And this was a month ago or I don't know. And and you were compartmentalizing that you were gonna set aside Thursdays, and that's when you and Jerry were gonna get together.

SPEAKER_02 10:28

Right. And we did that for a while, and what happened was we did the same thing over and over and over again, and then one day out of the blue, he had set up a golf uh uh class for himself, and I'm like, hmm, I thought we were getting together. And Wendy pointed out to me how I had set this up and can find myself to this. And then the next week I had a I set up an appointment with my um my instructor, and then that's kind of all been broken apart. And what I found was I'm spending more time with him now than I was when I was just having Thursdays, and the time is so much more fun and adventurous than it was before.

Honesty with Others and Self

SPEAKER_01 11:10

So that's like compartmentalizing your time, right? Um predetermination. And one of the reasons that I became involved because I was like, Betty, I think we're supposed to talk about this tomorrow. And she's like, Nope, that's that's Jerry Day. And I was like, um that's not very fluid or so I was the objectivity that was kind of pointing it out, and you got it. I mean, yeah. So that's this whole moon cycle, this love moon cycle that we just experienced, okay, um, is really about relationships and being honest with yourself, which is a relationship, and then honest with others. And when you are honest with yourself and honest with others, that that sets your heart free and you experience extreme exhilarating freedom. And Betty and I have had some really because we lean into all of this in a very intense way, we have had um just exhilarating freedom from this. Now, I think it's interesting. One of the things I learned, and maybe you can, you know, give your perspective, Betty, but the more honest I am with myself, the easier it is to be honest with others.

SPEAKER_02 12:31

Right. And then in I totally agree with that, and then in return, it is much more easy for them to be honest with me. When I am honest with myself, I am honest with others, who then allows it opens up their possibility, their uh opportunity to become honest with me.

Thermostat Story

SPEAKER_01 12:51

Yes, yeah. So I have this situation with my heart relationship, and then I'll also do an update with matchmaking.com too in this podcast. Um, but my my heart relationship, um it's still multidimensional more than I see we see each other in the physical reality. And um I have this situation with my thermostat where it's an old thermostat and it doesn't automatically go from heat to cool. So one time I came back from an expo and the house was at 39 degrees, and I came back the next time and it was much hotter. Um, and then you know, so I put in a request to get a new thermostat. And at first, you know, he came back with what you what brand do you want? And so I said, I'll get back to you on that because I was like, I don't know brands. I so then I got a recommendation from a friend and it seemed like a little too much. And so this morning, Betty and I, you know, when we're gonna do a podcast, we're really in the flow, and I get downloads before, and so my morning goes very slow, and I have to be very patient. And I just walk through all my inspired next steps, which involves yoga, and then a walk, and then today I went and got a uh um Starbucks and I sat in Starbucks for a long time, and I and I'm just hearing how dots are coming together or ideas or concepts and what we're gonna, you know, potential what we're gonna talk about on the on the recording, the episode. And so when I left for my walk, and I knew everything was going slow, I walked down the street, and there my heart relationship has another rental property down the street, and he was standing there, and I was walking by and I looked at him and I was like, You are so damn cute. It was just this amazing, like Did you say it out loud? I don't know if I said it out loud, but I was on the other side of the street and he he was like looking in the you know, when they do a they snake the sewer or something, and he was very intent. Um but yeah, that orchestration, okay, the timing of it. So when I came this is a long story, when I came back from my walk and getting a Starbucks and everything, I came in the house and it was like this very obvious okay, after seeing him, exactly what Jer Betty and Jerry's thing is, where I sat down and I was like I would I was because I saw him and I had that feeling and everything, it was like I you know, I don't really know about the brands and thermostats. I'm open to whatever you suggest. All I wanted to do is go from heat to cool. And then I also said you know, I'm gonna be gone this weekend if you want to come in and check on things and work on things or whatever you want to do. So within that relationship, I came back very open and receptive and innocent and loving and neutral. And instead of being predetermination with what I wanted this thermostat to look like. And so that's just another example of really what Betty's talking about, where you're opening yourself up for the orchestration within the relationship in that way.

SPEAKER_02 16:18

And I think another piece of this, I agree with everything you just said, it giving up the control and the rigidity really opens up everything as well. It allows the other person to be who they are while allowing you to be the person you are, to live your own consciousness. And I'll tell you what, in my experience, amazing things happen that are way more fun than being familiar and comfortable.

Matchmaking

SPEAKER_01 16:44

Yeah. So I have a okay, the update on matchmaking.com. I think the last episode I had three different kinds of rashes because of being honest with yourself and honest with others. Yes. Um, and all of that has come to fruition. So I went on the second introduction, the second date, and it was very much like the first date where this man was not really compatible. I mean, he you know, I'm very active. We do all this, we go on expos. I mean, and uh his activity was to watch sports on television, and he was retired, and he called himself an old fart, and he said that you know, it w it was just his lifestyle and my lifestyle were opposite. So when we got there, we did meet up and uh um for coffee and actually it was lunch, but we sat there and we talked for just a little bit, and we both agreed that this was not even close, like my lifestyle and his lifestyle, and and he he basically said to me after a little while, because I couldn't keep up with you physically or intellectually. I mean, so the whole thing um but we ended up talking for five hours, which was very interesting. Five hours. Did you hear that? Five hours. And it was because we were so honest with each other that we sat there and talked that long. It was because of the honesty of no and the thing is you're supposed to go on a second date, and we were laughing because we could go on ten dates and our lifestyles wouldn't change. I mean, it would be the same thing every single date. Do you want to go do something?

SPEAKER_02 18:31

No, you know there's a football game on.

SPEAKER_01 18:34

There's a football game, no, there's a hockey game or whatever. Um, so we were really laughing very hard, and we also talked about matchmaking.com a long time. And the other thing that happened was I explained, I started talking about co-create and living in the cycles and everything. He's like, Oh, pull up my consciousness. I want to see my consciousness. And so I did. We talked about his consciousness. He goes, Wendy, he goes, do matchmaking with your your program and see our compatibility according to your program. And I was like, that's a really fun thing to do. I'd never been in a situation that was a real situation where I've been paired with someone to date and to look at the consciousness. So I went through and and we were laughing, and I said, you know, about he, I'm a speaker and you're an individual, and that doesn't go together very well. You're gonna get it's yeah, we're looking for two different things. We understand the world two different ways. And then also I said, Okay, so you have a very grounded mind, and I have an ethereal mind. And I said, After a while, you're gonna get exhausted with me. And he goes, It's only been two hours, and I'm already exhausted with you, Wendy. And he went on for three more hours after. And we went on, but do you see the honesty in the whole thing that was and we were having fun because we were just being honest about our situation in in the present moment, you know, and so yeah, I mean so my point is is that this was a very orchestrated situation for me to to s to s he was a reflection for me, okay, of uh because I'm contrasting it just makes me realize how active I am at the age I am. And um the other thing that this made me realize is because I've come to this company and said, you know, I want to date someone who's professional, intelligent, and who's active. And in all of this happening, I came to this realization about myself that those those things I'm seeking in a man is really what I need to look at in myself. The professional, intelligent male aspect of me wants to come forward.

SPEAKER_02 20:54

And so you definitely have that in you. I've seen that many, many times over the years.

SPEAKER_01 21:00

But it's like, why am I seeking that in a man when that's actually within me? And it's really that coming forward. So as soon as I had that awareness, all of a sudden I started making decisions right and left. And Betty's like, you are on fire. What is what is going on with you? Yeah. So do so the whole thing is is that, you know, I was led to do matchmaking.com to get to this self-realization within myself, you know, with that. And then I also shared it with a couple friends who are single that I do stuff with, and I said, Hey, this is what I'm understanding. Everything I'm looking for in a man is what I'm supposed to be realizing within myself and experiencing it. And so, can you see the honesty with myself in that with this moon cycle?

SPEAKER_02 21:51

Oh my gosh, yes. And that has opened up a ton of things for you that I've seen in this last month. I mean, our relationship has opened up because. Of that, I think. Yeah. Because the honesty and we have become more honest with each other, like we shared last time when you came down to visit. That's just opened up everything.

SPEAKER_01 22:10

Yeah. So now I wrote the feedback again that this was complete opposite person than I am, and blah blah blah. Not complete, because we did sit there and talk for a while. But our lifestyles are so different that that it we would just be frustrated with each other. And um so anyway, my matchmaker said, I'll get back to you when I can. And I didn't hear from her for a long time. Because I think I'm the only person that's really honest with the feedback of this. So then I then I got another text that was, Well, the match that we have for you is unavailable, and we'll get back to you when that changes.

SPEAKER_02 22:52

So you're kind of just out there hanging now then.

SPEAKER_01 22:55

I'm who knows what's gonna Yeah. Yeah. So I did text her back because I because this is about being honest, right? Like I did text her back and say, Hey, I want to talk to you about the last introduction. Please call me. Because that that's being honest. Did she I haven't heard from her? Okay. She didn't call me right away.

SPEAKER_02 23:18

But don't don't you see how this is all being orchestrated too? Because now we're going you're not gonna be available over the next week anyway, because we're gonna be in San Rafael in California.

SPEAKER_01 23:28

So Yeah. So I mean, that's where with this whole dating thing and how in my situation with being single, this moon cycle is is being instrumental with being honest with myself and the relationship with myself, you know, and under uh on a deeper level. And it's so it's really about you know, looking at the last two weeks, behavioral patterns, a new perspective, and how that honesty with yourself is trying to come through so that you can be more honest with other people. And that's what happened in this this last date was that I was honest with him, like, hey, I like to do stuff. And he, you know what I mean? And instead of just possibly talking for 20 minutes, not expressing that and leaving.

SPEAKER_02 24:20

Maybe you need a younger man.

SPEAKER_01 24:22

I did suggest that, and then I kind of just scared me.

SPEAKER_02 24:28

I'm thinking that might be what you need, but anyway.

SPEAKER_01 24:31

But I I think I think at this juxtaposition, if you want to call it, where I you know there's the heart relationship that I just saw this morning, right? That but then I'm also doing this on the other side, and it's all it's all all over the place. Keeps me in balance very nicely.

SPEAKER_02 24:50

Well, that's the polarity that you have. But I have to say, I have to say too though, this last moon cycle for me has been uh relatively peaceful and calm and joyful in a lot of ways, whereas other moon cycles were not. And I it has to do with the relationships, I think, and and how they're evolving for me. I mean, I'm it's just been even um, you know, we pull a card every day, even the cards I've been getting are very peaceful and and calm, and I'm not sure what's going to happen in the free will moon cycle. But this has been a a really pleasant moon cycle for me. I don't know, do you feel like you were at odds and ends?

SPEAKER_01 25:32

I think this was a pleasant moon cycle. Is that your question?

SPEAKER_02 25:36

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 25:36

Did you did you experience a lot of angst and and worry and fretting or I experienced pretty much intensity, I would say, with the experience I had just a few days ago with a relationship. You know? Yeah. I but see my my consciousness is polarity. So I go to one end of the spectrum, and I can go to the end of the expect spectrum in just a matter of like no time.

SPEAKER_02 26:05

Well, when we first started doing this and we did it, we were in the polarity moon cycle, I experienced what you experienced. And oh my gosh, Wendy, I don't know how you do it because it was so wow, back and forth. Now you've had it your whole life. Yeah. And for me was oh, so this is what Wendy's experience. I'll go back to my surrender, which is uncomfortable enough for me. Yeah. Not less though.

Artist Event Polarity

SPEAKER_01 26:33

Instead of leaving you hanging, I had an experience over the weekend um where I was invited to go to an artist event at this really cool house in the country. And it was with a friend of mine and her friend, and I have met her friend and done a discovery session. So I've done discovery sessions with both of them. And this friend, the friend of the friend, d didn't resonate with co-create materials. And so um it's been a while since I saw her and everything, and so it's an hour and a half to this house in the country and an hour and a half back. And so I got in the car, and and she proceeded to um be honest with me about her perceptions and everything, and it was a little disturbing um because it it was questioning co-create and how co-create doesn't create um a very simple version for everyone to understand. She felt as though that we create our material is for a person at at the level of Harvard, and that our language is very um, you can't understand, it's the new language. And she asked me, what is your rigidity in creating a simplified, more kindergarten version of co-create and living the moon cycles? And I really I was in the back seat, which I was glad. And I sat back and I was like, you know, I'm being presented with this relationship and this question on purpose. Like I I totally get that. And so I sat back and I said, you know, that's a really good question. And I said, Am I being rigid? How am I rigid? And am I at one end of the spectrum with all of this instead of creating it for the everyday person or what what is considered the everyday person and everything? And can you see the polarity going on in that? And um So what it came down to was um, and I think this is a really good perspective, is that I don't make these decisions. I haven't made these decisions in 25 years. I do my inspired next steps that lead me in creating it. And so she was asking me, what's your why? I mean, what mo what's what what is driving you and why are you doing this? And I said my why is to do my inspired next steps every day. And I pause and I see what it co-creates. But I don't have a motive or an in I mean, my intention is that uh I'm using my life as an experiment, or it's not even an experiment, it's an adventure to see if I listen to all this guidance, what it creates and what it's created so far is a is material that's a new language of how to live the true capacity of your consciousness. And so in and it was pretty intense, and I even started, I said, Well, this is a really interesting situation. I'm I'm locked in this car for an hour and a half and can't go anywhere. I can't go anywhere. And to proceed to get more and more questions along this line and everything, to to put and it was, you know, so when I pause and I reflecting or I'm processing the question, it's me being honest with myself, like, okay, this question's being posed to me. How does that work? Am I really choosing one end of the spectrum or not the other? And I was it's really not in my own power. It's like that's what's happened so far with it. And it for me to question if there's a limiting perception on that, or so it was it was very interesting. But what happened was this real this relationship that was posing all these questions to me, um, then witnessed when I walked into this event, three people who were orchestrated to talk to me completely resonated with CoCreate and were like, even the artist, she said, I want uh texted her, she's like, I want it, I want you to come back and I want to have lunch with you, and I want you to explain what you're doing, and blah blah blah. So there's a polarity in our language language and everything we're doing really resonates with people, and then some people, she said it sounded like gibberish and she couldn't understand it.

SPEAKER_02 31:09

Well, and I think the it often is it's very simple what we're what we're describing and how to do it. It's it is not difficult, and it isn't Harvard to me. It's it is very simple, and I think people don't there are those who don't want simple. They don't they think there's no value in it if it's too easy. Or I guess there it's a choice you can make, whether you find it easy or if it's too complex for you, that you want to make it something that it isn't. And she you she had the opportunity to see the other side of it, and she chose not not to go there. And that's all, you know. I mean, Wendy and I are not uh it's we have there we're neutral with it. If you don't, if this is not for you, if it doesn't resonate with you, that's okay.

SPEAKER_01 32:05

It's you know, then we don't we don't convince or prove anything. No is basically we learned that a long time ago. Right with this.

SPEAKER_02 32:12

When we were trying to, and I did. I I'll admit, you know.

SPEAKER_01 32:16

We've gone through many phases with it. So one of the things though that was very revealing on the way home for an hour and a half, and the conversation continued. So yeah, um, it was intense. And she it was um she goes, What I know is you give them what they want before you give them what they need. And I thought, this is really interesting. And then I realized what people want is to validate their consciousness the way it is, they're limiting perception. And what we give to people uh is the new perspective and narrative of the true capacity of their consciousness.

SPEAKER_02 32:57

Right.

SPEAKER_01 32:58

And it's in the objectivity and the contrast of that that there's room for change and growth. And so when we present uh the true capacity of a person's con consciousness, like this artist was amazing at and her house was amazing and in and the way her her husband and her came together in the landscape. I mean it was it was completely an artist's house in the country. And so at one point I asked her, Can I have your birthday? I said, I study consciousness and I just would like to see your consciousness to see the because it's your consciousness that said created this. And she was like, Yeah, yeah. And then she asked me, you know, why, and then I showed her and and I it was I mean, she's an off-the-wall super conscious innovator. And um, but she resonated with it. I wasn't I was she resonated with exactly what I was saying, and um I I actually her art is absolutely beautiful too. And I I can I can tell when someone has polarity in their consciousness because they get a full range of tone and saturation in paintings, and that's what makes a painting exceptional. And I saw it immediately, and that's why I wanted to look at her identity map. I was like, wow, I want to see how uh the polarity and you know, in her mind, her mind is my mind only expanded. So it's like to take my mind and expand it. That's what I was w that's what I was seeing. I because I know that's why I was like, oh my gosh, I gotta see this identity map. So, but that it see how the polarity happened. I'm in the car with someone who doesn't resonate at all, and then I'm in the next moment with the person that completely resonates, and actually met two more people that were have their information and they want to get together. And I get back in the car and I'm back in the car with the person that doesn't resonate again. That's polarity.

SPEAKER_02 35:03

And I think it's also interesting that this was in the new perspective week. Didn't this happen in the new perspective week? For one thing. And another thing that you mentioned, I believe the person in the car was also a superconscious innovator, wasn't she? Yes, she was.

Responsibility and Accountability

SPEAKER_01 35:17

I've when I did her discovery session, I'm like, oh my gosh, you're off the wall. Like they're you and and but you know, the thing that we've learned, Betty, is that when people really get a sense of their true capacity, that requires responsibility and accountability. Yeah. And that is probably the biggest thing that uh people avoid is that.

SPEAKER_02 35:42

Sure, because it's scary. They might have to do something about it. They might have here it is, they might have to change.

SPEAKER_01 35:49

Yes. Well, it's presenting change and growth to them. Yeah, and some people don't want to change. Here's the true capacity of your consciousness. This is where you are, and this is what's in between.

SPEAKER_02 35:59

Right.

Audacious - Free Falling

SPEAKER_01 36:00

And so yeah, that's the part. And I I the other part that's that I'm hearing to talk about is we had this contrast, okay, with our development group, where you know, Betty and I are what's what's the word we came up? Audacious with our life.

SPEAKER_02 36:23

Yes, and adventurous too. But audacious. Audaciousness and with our life.

SPEAKER_01 36:27

Yeah. I wanted to use the word grogarious, but it doesn't Betty wouldn't let her. I know, but I'm gonna say it anyway. I got it in, didn't I? You could. Yeah. Um so why are Betty and I like this? What has happened where we are so freely leaning into vulnerability, risk, and uncertainty? And we're open-ended and we're ad adventurous, but basically adventurous, which the definition is willing to experience all kinds of different things. Yeah. Yeah. So how did that happen within us that we came to be doing this podcast to tell everyone about these extraordinary experiences we have because we're doing it. But how did we get there? Because the people in our development group have listened to every single one of these podcasts. Okay. But we can tell the difference where they're not where we are with just being free falling, which is what we really call it. Like we're going to this expo this weekend and we're free falling. We have no idea what's gonna happen. We're not even taking our kiosk, the program, all kinds of interesting things happened. Um, and it's totally just showing up. Now, Betty, when we were talking about this earlier, you came up with an example of what built confidence in us at the very beginning.

SPEAKER_02 38:03

Well, I think the fact that we have seen this orchestration so many times. Yes. I mean, uh, we when we first went to the first workshop in at it was silver lining, it's that's closed now, but it was a really cute boutique, and she had all kind of offerings and little rooms you could use. And did the first workshop, we showed up, and Wendy wasn't sure how to hook up the TV to her computer, and I had no idea what my role was. And we just walked through the door and and start jumped in. We just started, we had no idea what was gonna happen, and it was an amazing workshop.

SPEAKER_01 38:40

Well, then I did my inspired next steps, didn't I? I opened my computer, I looked at the television, I looked at cords, I thought, and I was just I was shown. Plug this in, plug that in, plug this in, do this, do that, do this, and my computer, and boom, everything was on the television, wasn't it?

SPEAKER_02 38:56

Right. And I just started setting up tables and chairs and started it without the same thing, inspired next steps. I hadn't had no breach determination, had no idea what was gonna happen.

Move Beyond

SPEAKER_01 39:07

Yeah. And then I had a I had a you know, a workbook, and then we just I have no pre-written out narrative or anything of the workshops. I just it just comes through me. And so it's it's this is what higher consciousness was showing me just this morning and just in the last day of it is all experience. To to get to the point where you're gonna live your true capacity of your consciousness is just doing your guidance in a way that it it gradually you build trust in it. And these inspired next steps uh you just do them and then you see what happens, and then you do it again and you see what happens and you just get this more confidence and to the point where you know you're leaning into vulnerability risk and uncertainty. And a lot of times when we do that it uh we feel contraction because there's actually a sense of fear involved too. But we we move beyond that sense of contraction and know that uh every time we do that, it's just like you know, they say fear is an illusion. And so we just step through it and do the inspired next step, and so every time we step through that it's easier and easier to do it.

SPEAKER_02 40:36

Right, and it's a choice that we've made. Exactly. I mean we choose to to can to continue to go through it. Now, I can't say that the first ten years I was doing it, there wasn't a certain amount of fear involved because there was. Um having witnessed it happen so many times that the orchestration is ends up being so much better than I thought it was gonna be. I completely trust that now. I I truly do.

SPEAKER_00 41:05

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 41:06

We we know the orchestration is so much huger or than our predetermination of figuring or forcing things or yeah, that's it's just it's just that's why it's an adventure because we're like, whoa, buddy, look whoa, look at wow, look at this, you know.

SPEAKER_02 41:26

Yeah, things we had never expected. Like in a Woodhaven. We thought we were gonna go up there to spend the night and a couple in a uh bed and breakfast, and ended up being an amazing adventure of uh restoring order. So you Ness never know what it's gonna be, and um I think that has been a major contributing factor is that we've witnessed the orchestration so many times, and yet other people can see what we've been doing as well, and it's their choice whether or not they want to lean into it or not. But I have to say it's been some pretty amazing things in my life that have come through because I said yes, thank you for the opportunity.

Stakes with Relationships

SPEAKER_01 42:08

Well, and it's also because where we are with relationships, where we understand that we move through relationships, you know, that they're uh they we we have objectivity on attachment with relationships, and where they they are a stake that keep you from changing and growing, you know.

SPEAKER_02 42:36

Right, and I I think you the stake can be the what is comfortable and familiar, or you can pull out your stake and see what happens with the other relationship, what happens with the other person, what they choose to do with their rel part of the relationship, because it's two. And that goes with your relationship with yourself, too. If you choose to stay in what you've always done, you're gonna always get what you always got. And if you're okay with never changing, never moving, never having any adventures, you're you can stay there. I personally choose to jump off the cliff and see what happens.

Mind & Heart

SPEAKER_01 43:18

Well, okay, and then what we we also were talking about is the heart always lands on our feet, or we we land on our feet. Okay. When when we're free falling, we have no idea what's underneath us. Right. And that's and and it's very much now that free falling is exhilarating to us.

SPEAKER_02 43:44

It is. I mean, picture the cat where the cat just jumps or is pushed, but it always ends on its feet. That's the picture we're being shown.

SPEAKER_01 43:54

Yeah. And so that's that the the heart l lands on its feet and the mind really can't grasp that. And that's why the mind is the part that's not willing to change and it wants to keep everything predictable and in patterns so that it's safe and secure.

SPEAKER_02 44:17

Yeah and earlier this week what did you say? You said I just told my mind to shut up. I did.

SPEAKER_01 44:23

I think I said that might have said that on the last podcast where I was just like because my mind is like you have no idea what you're doing. How can you you know every now and then it's like a I it I'll dive into that um and and it was we were both kind of like that just a few days ago weren't we were like everything's wonky what the heck's going on and and I finally realized I was like ah I don't buy into this I mean I'm yeah it's it's all perfect and it's all good and just keep going. Right. Yeah and so it's yeah to really have you know a new awareness new perspective on this relationship between mind and heart and how your heart desires change and growth and the mind is what lacks in willingness a lot. And that's basically what Betty and I have is this objectivity on that so that we know what we're choosing now.

SPEAKER_02 45:27

Right.

SPEAKER_01 45:28

And and I and we gotta be honest that you know we lean into vulnerability risk and uncertainty a lot and it's and we are uncomfortable but we know when we're uncomfortable that that's good in a way.

Garden Analogy

SPEAKER_02 45:46

Right that's that's how you know something is changing. Yes. I mean I think you had the analogy of the garden that you were sh about how you pack everything in and there's no room to change.

SPEAKER_01 46:02

Well the garden part the garden analogy was really cool because if you if you have so many relationships think of them as plants okay and when you have so many relationships that are packed into your life there's no room for you could be studying new things you could be learning new things but when you throw those seeds there's no room for those seeds to land and if they do land there's no light for them to root and grow because you have so many relationships packed in together that they just so you can be p throwing seeds all the time, you know, learning new things but you're not going to experience true change and growth unless you give if you unless you give this relationships the open space and that you can have new relationships drop in. And and it's it's really like and this is hard for people to imagine but to have really a lot of open space in your schedule where you you're not scheduling yourself so tight that you don't have room for something new to come in. You know and and maybe just do play with it and just have a completely open week with no plans and see what happens.

SPEAKER_02 47:34

Right. And sometimes you need to um trim back those relationships yes just like with the garden you need to trim them back so that there is more space.

How We Are Where We Are

SPEAKER_01 47:44

Mm-hmm and that's just what you described with the not having everything so uh scheduled yeah but the so we we've come to a new perspective that you know us being so audacious and gregarious with our with with our lives um how to bring to people what it is we've actually done to get here okay maybe in a more um accessible or explanation or you know what I mean to to say these are the choices we've made this is how we're living it so that it is an adventure and it is curiosity and wonder and that that contrast that objectivity of you know what what has led us to this point that we're doing it and we have actually given surrendered our lives to the adventure of co-creating whatever our guidance is and this direction we get from the 11th alliance that we're streaming.

SPEAKER_02 49:00

Right and I think the a a lot of it has to do with neutrality and gentleness and no expectations on our part this is the information this is how it works and we're back to that word choice again guess what moon cycle's coming up um and it's up to these people who are who resonate with this information what they do with it.

Moon Cycle 101

SPEAKER_01 49:22

Yeah so we've had in this moon cycle or since the last expo we've had several key people drop in and we're co-cre co-creating with them um and they're in the focus group of what we're building which is called moon cycle moon cycle one oh one and creating material to to do a more guided experience for everyone through a moon cycle and you know what it is you look for what do you need to do what tools are you you know we're gonna we're gonna introduce all of that so that's in the making too um which is what we love we love new people to drop in and we love they bring such a new perspective they bring inspired next steps that we do and start creating on a whole new level.

Free Will Moon Cycle

Dreaming Big

New Narratives From the Expo

SPEAKER_02 50:14

Well they bring in more dots more information for us to uh uh entertain and and just it's it's always interesting to see where people are coming from and their experiences and how that applies to co-create and how that uh can help us uh further co-create expand co-create it's a it's a collaboration yeah so Betty let's talk about free will moon cycle coming up yep yep all about choice we just opened our hearts and with this um love moon cycle and we've been honest with ourselves and others okay that's exhilarating freedom now with that freedom what do we do yeah what do you do I mean this is I think exactly where the free will it's do you see how this is all orchestrated too how here's your relationships and how that opens everything up and now you have choice to do what you want with that information how the light is shown through and just keeps expanding all of this information for us and all of these experiences yeah so the inspired next steps is all about dreaming big don't you love that just as we're heading out to same San Rafael I know I know dream big the impossible possible yeah and then from that from those things that we uh with those inspired next steps the following week was going to be the narrative well we will be back from California by then so um that's what's gonna be on the next podcast is our uh uh experiences on these next two weeks of inspired next steps and the narrative based on free will yes choosing choosing so we're gonna be in the booth during Inspired Next Steps and then next week is gonna be narrative so when we're in the booth this is what's interesting because people people walk up to us and we stream their consciousness and when we stream their consciousness we hear the narrative that works best for them to understand it.

SPEAKER_01 52:35

So on our part we hear new narratives come through according to the new people that show up and so we get our new narrative according to hearing that and how how we're being inspired in a new way.

SPEAKER_02 52:56

Did that make sense how I explained that it did um we need to connect it with the inspired next steps though too because the narrative it's also related to the inspired next steps.

Freedom within Choice

SPEAKER_01 53:09

Yes so it's it's great how these expos work because we place ourselves in a random new place where there's so much potential for 3,000 people I think are going to come through this expo. Okay. And these people that show up with us at the booth want to know something about living the moon cycles so they are an inspired next step for us to explain what living the moon cycles is about and we stream that we stream their consciousness which is what we mean by that is we we say it in a way that they can most easily understand it. We never say the same thing twice. We don't have a pitch no use no pitch. And we actually that's what we say on the website if you want to come see us in a booth we will stream your consciousness and and you will hear it in in the way that's most appropriate for your dynamics. And how that works for us is that we're gonna hear our inspired next steps are going to come through the people that show up for us. Right. Did that make sense? It's gonna come through for those people because they showed up and we talked to them we're gonna hear our inspired next steps. Then what happens is when we get back home we're gonna be in the narrative week which is all about relationships. So whoever we met in the booth if they gave us their email and information we will contact them the next week most likely and so those are the new relationships that are also helping that new narrative come through there that's really good. That was it that's much better that was that gave it a lot of clarity yes so let's give it in another example that isn't with a booth okay sure sure and you gotta remember this is all about the freedom within choice okay this is what the moon cycle is about so you're gonna get inspired next steps that are big thinking big out of the box that kind of a thing so you're gonna have choice with when you experience those now this also is putting a little more light we're gonna get a lot of big ideas in our booth I think oh boy yeah but if you know just on a normal level next week you are going to get these bigger ideas now you have a choice whether you want to entertain these ideas or not whether you choose that they're way too out of the box and that doesn't fit in with my reality as I know it and what this moon cycle is all about is having objectivity on that and choosing okay yeah I will entertain that how will my narrative change and how will my life change if I lean into that inspired next step so this is what I'm getting which is very interesting.

SPEAKER_02 56:24

Tell tell please since it's just going to be Wendy and I we don't have a lot of extra stuff it's just gonna be you and me in a kiosk I mean you and me in the booth with the just the tablets and not a lot of uh extraneous stuff and not a lot of materials we'll have books to hang out but not much else than that so that gives the space see how we trimmed things I mean orchestrated we followed our inspired next steps and this is what came from this and leaves the space open for big ideas.

SPEAKER_01 57:03

Yes it does yeah how about that uh didn't catch that till just now oh man we are really free falling aren't we we are freefalling with big ideas that's right so yeah everybody else do the same too it'll be fun yeah absolutely free fall with your big ideas yeah yes so it's it's just really acknowledging those big ideas even writing them down you know that's key I mean I do write down my inspired next steps because it really sets the tone or the stage for the whole moon cycle when I do that and then I can watch how those actualize or not and if they didn't actualize why they didn't and it just gives you a lot more perspective on it. Right yes opens everything up yep um yeah yeah okay buddies wow did we miss anything you think oh my gosh no just kidding we could talk for another couple hours I know we could yeah we absolutely could but yep this is when I say until next time life is a journey of curiosity wonder and adventure live it and be it