131: Chores Matter More Than Extracurriculars for Teens — Here’s Why

Healthy Parenting Handbook with Katie Kimball

Healthy Parenting Handbook with Katie Kimball
131: Chores Matter More Than Extracurriculars for Teens — Here’s Why
Jun 09, 2026 Episode 131
Katie Kimball

If you’ve ever looked around your house thinking, “Why am I still doing everything for these capable humans?” — this episode is for you.

I’m deeply passionate about helping parents raise kids who are not only healthy, but independent, resilient, and prepared for real life. And honestly? Chores and family responsibilities are one of the most powerful tools we have to make that happen.

In this conversation with Hunter Clarke-Fields from the Mindful Mama Podcast, we talk about why chores are about so much more than getting help around the house. They help kids build confidence, ownership, problem-solving skills, and even better mental health.

We also talk about:

  • Why responsibility protects teen resilience
  • How to start chores with toddlers and preschoolers
  • What to do if your teen has never really helped before
  • Why contribution matters more than perfection
  • How to stop nagging and build systems that actually work

And yes — I share the exact chore system we’ve used in our family for over 10 years.

Whether your child is 4 or 14, it’s never too late to start building the life skills they’ll carry into adulthood.

Resources We Mention for Chores for Teens

Get your kids REAL skills for real life - register for #LifeSkillsNow!

Shop Thrive Market right here: https://kidscookrealfood.com/thrive

Affiliate links used here. Thanks for supporting the Healthy Parenting Handbook!

Episode Artwork 131: Chores Matter More Than Extracurriculars for Teens — Here’s Why 53:50 Episode Artwork 130: Food Allergies, Inclusion, and Building Community with The Allergy Chef 19:32 Episode Artwork 129: Hope for Families with Food Allergies: The Allergy Chef’s Incredible Story with Kathlena, the Allergy Chef 27:47 Episode Artwork 128: Family Dinners, Tech Boundaries, and Resilience: A Recipe for Teens Who Launch Well with Tania Johnson 25:39 Episode Artwork 127: Why Teenagers are Like Toddlers (& What That Means for Practical Parenting) with Tania Johnson 24:44 Episode Artwork 126: What's Still Worth Teaching to Prepare Our Kids for the AI Age 29:51 Episode Artwork 125: Why Bother Teaching Life Skills When Robots Will Do Everything? 22:41 Episode Artwork 124: Raising Kids Who Can Problem Solve and Become Independent Adults with Amy Carney 22:13 Episode Artwork 123: How to “Launch” on Purpose: Teaching Life Skills to Your Teens Today That Will Prepare Them for Tomorrow with Amy Carney 23:19 Episode Artwork 122: Making Repairs When Dad Blows Up with Engaged Father Project Founder Jon Hord 18:52 Episode Artwork 121: The Dad Shift: How to Become the Father Your Kids Actually Need with Jon Hord 25:55 Episode Artwork 120: Eating God's Way for Christian Families with Wardee Harmon 42:27 Episode Artwork 119: Make Perimenopause About Gain, Not Loss (& What You Need to Eat) with Cynthia Thurlow, NP 38:06 Episode Artwork 118: The Menopause Gut: Understand How to Respond to Changing Hormones in Your 40s with Cynthia Thurlow NP 31:42 Episode Artwork 117: Heal Your Hunger: How to End Emotional Eating Now with Tricia Nelson 47:39 Episode Artwork 116: How to Translate the Language of Your Child or Teen's Behavior with Wendy Snyder 28:04 Episode Artwork 115: Why Starting Over Is a Parenting Superpower with Wendy Snyder 29:47 Episode Artwork 114: The Truth About Time Management for Moms (It’s Not Your Planner) with Anna Dearmon Kornick 42:52 Episode Artwork 113: The Two Stories of Every Cluttered Space with Ingrid Jansen of the Declutter Hub 44:54 Episode Artwork 112: Financial Literacy for the Whole Family with Amanda Teixeira 44:07 Episode Artwork 111: Troubleshoot Your Child's Poor Digestion with Tara Hunkin, NTP 44:35 Episode Artwork 110: Ask Me Anything: Picky Eating, Screen Time, and Intentional Choices 31:15 Episode Artwork 109: Quick Change Tastebuds, Slow Biology, & Why Gut Health May Impact Picky Eating with Elissa Arnheim 45:55 Episode Artwork 108: Why You're Stuck in a Clutter Loop (and a System Won't Save You) with Katy Wells 19:51 Episode Artwork 107: Helping Kids Take Ownership of Their Space and How Decluttering Can Solve Your Anxiety with Katy Wells 26:51