Raising Confident Girls with Melissa Jones
Growing up Melissa was no stranger to the self doubt that so many girls feel everyday! She felt invisible and lacking a safe space to confidently be herself. This feeling took her to hard places that she hopes no girl ever has to reach. However, this journey helped her find her purpose…teaching!
Through 23 years of teaching, Melissa took her experiences and her passion for girls and launched The Girls Positivity Club!
Once a small group of girls from her class, The Girls Positivity Club is now a global movement partnering with parents and their daughters to embrace who they are and learn how to stay positive amidst life's biggest challenges.
Join Melissa every Tuesday on 'Raising Confident Girls' (A Girls Positivity Club Podcast) to talk about self care, positivity, raising confident girls, and practical lessons to integrate into your everyday! The Girls Positivity Club is spreading empowerment across the globe and you’re not gonna want to miss your chance to get on board!
Raising Confident Girls with Melissa Jones
5 Things to Say When Your Daughter Is Being Really Hard on Herself
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Welcome to Raising Confident Girls. In this episode, Melissa Jones dives into a challenge many girls face—but don’t always talk about out loud: self-criticism. She explores how negative self-talk can quietly shape a girl’s confidence and emotional world, and why it so often comes from pressure rather than truth.
Melissa offers 5 practical, compassionate phrases parents can use to help their daughters soften their inner critic and build resilience through kinder self-talk. She reminds parents that perfection isn’t the goal—connection is. By recognizing pressure, naming the inner critic, and meeting girls where they are emotionally, parents can support their daughters in developing a healthier, more supportive relationship with themselves.
In this episode, we discuss:
- How self-criticism shows up quietly in girls’ everyday lives
- Why pressure—not truth—often fuels negative self-talk
- The power of naming the inner critic to reduce its hold
- Simple, supportive phrases parents can use in hard moments
- How embracing imperfection builds emotional resilience
- Why meeting your daughter where she is matters more than fixing feelings
Join Melissa for this thoughtful and reassuring conversation that will help you support your daughter’s confidence from the inside out—by fostering kind self-talk, emotional awareness, and a deeper sense of self-acceptance.
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