thiscantcomeout's Podcast

Isn't, Isn't Girl ft Br3nya

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On this episode of TCCO: This Can’t Come Out, I sit down with my good friend Br3nya for a raw, honest, and seriously inspiring conversation about her journey in UK rap. I’ve said it before: I believe Br3nya is the best female rapper in the UK—and this episode shows you exactly why. From the first freestyle memories to headline moments, she breaks down the grind behind the glow-up, the risks she took, and the lessons she keeps close.

We start at the roots: the early days that shaped her sound and confidence, plus a wild bit of history about the role Br3nya’s actual house played in the rise of the UK Afrobeats and Afroswing scene. It’s a slice of culture most people never hear about, and it sets the stage for how community and creativity built her foundation.

Then we dive into the music business. Br3nya opens up about the road to getting signed—the highs, the hurdles, and the hard truths about navigating labels, timing, and trust. She talks candidly about what it’s like to be a woman in rap: the double standards, the pressure to deliver both hits and aesthetics, and the power that comes from owning your narrative. Expect gems for artists trying to find their lane without losing themselves.

The conversation gets personal as we discuss the loss of her father. Br3nya shares how grief reshaped her perspective, sharpened her purpose, and pushed her to turn pain into art. It’s vulnerable, grounded, and a reminder that the person behind the bars is carrying real life.

 We also celebrate family: her sister Hemah, a standout content creator, and how their collaboration fuels both discipline and inspiration. From brainstorming ideas to keeping each other accountable, it’s sisterhood as a superpower.

Of course, we talk stages and co-signs. Br3nya shares stories from going on tour with Headie One—what she learned about stamina, presence, and consistency—and the boost of respect that comes with co-signs from Dave and Stormzy. Those moments mattered, but what matters more is how she’s building something that lasts, on her own terms.

If you’re into UK rap, Black British culture, and the craft of making songs that stick, this one’s for you. It’s equal parts game, warmth, and real talk—two friends unpacking the journey, celebrating the wins, and telling the truth about the challenges. Tap in, drop your favorite Br3nya bar in the comments, and tell us when you first discovered her.