Join Sharon Jenkins & me, Diane Brandon Moody, as we talk 50+FlirtySummits - coming March 17!

Rarely have I had an instant connection with another woman as much as Sharon Jenkins, who is founder of 50+FlirtySummits where you can learn ALLLLLL about dating later in life. 

Just in time for the end of Black History Month, we talk about knowing what you want while dating, what works and what doesn't. We talk about her upcoming summit and about all the great information coming your way.

I'm a speaker at that summit and I'd love to invite you to join us. Here's a link for you to find out more. 

www.dianebrandonmoody.com/50-places

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Diane Brandon Moody: Hey, everybody. This is Diane Brandon, Moody. And I'm back again with another episode of 50, something, love.

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Diane Brandon Moody: the podcast who is for all of the genius women over 50. We let men listen to. It's okay. Sometimes we want men to listen. We won't borrow you from that. As if we could if we wanted to. But anyway, we're glad to have you. I am very excited to introduce this guest.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Her name is Sharon Jenkins, and she is the creator of 50 plus in flirty summit that's coming up, and just in time for the end of black History month.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Woohoo!

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Diane Brandon Moody: I am so delighted to welcome, Sharon, and we're going to get into it more. I want to hear so much more about the summit, how you got there about you, and maybe we can explain how we just connected so well, because I already think you're one of my besties.

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Sharon Jenkins: Feel like a bestie. I love it. I love it. Well, about the summit idea.

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Sharon Jenkins: I

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Sharon Jenkins: read some statistics about dating after 50, and I was like, oh, no, you know what I mean, and I was like, well, how do you? How do you fix something that's broken? You come up with viable solutions. So I'm a strong supporter of people finding love

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Sharon Jenkins: in their later years might have a little something to do with the fact that I'm in my later years, but

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Sharon Jenkins: I've always been a romantic, and I've always wanted the best for people, especially when it comes to love. I think, finding your one, or making a connection that causes a romantic explosion. There's nothing like it on the face of the earth except for a mom's love, or you know what I mean.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Yeah, yeah, I do. Very well.

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Sharon Jenkins: So I I didn't want to become a dating service.

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Sharon Jenkins: but what I did want to do is become an informational portal

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Sharon Jenkins: for people who are navigating the dating pool, or who are interested in the dating pool, or dating again, or they might be married and married for a while, and they forgot all about out of date. So we want to be 50 plus at flirty.

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Sharon Jenkins: What our aim I want to be because we've already started the initiative. This thing is a movement. We've decided that we want to be that informational portal.

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Diane Brandon Moody: That is fantastic. I'm delighted to say that

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Diane Brandon Moody: invited me to be on this summit as a speaker, and I tell all about our magical story. Because.

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Diane Brandon Moody: I, I do this podcast and I do the work I do for many of the same reasons that

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Diane Brandon Moody: people are told by society that they're just too old at this point. They're, you know. Nobody's going to go for you. At this point

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Diane Brandon Moody: I got married for the 1st time, and hopefully the only time at age 58.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So it happens. And I tell about that a little bit in the summit.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So I thank you very much for having a portal, because people can get so much information.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Tell us a little bit about some of the activities that you have ongoing on in this summit.

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Sharon Jenkins: Well, initially, we have plans to do 3 summits that focus on dating. This is the 1st summit scheduled for March 17.th Through the 21, st we have 16 speakers, including yours truly, and we just have some wonderful things happening.

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Sharon Jenkins: We have matchmakers, dating coaches, mental health, professional psychologists, and we're just, and and we got folks who just talk about you

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Sharon Jenkins: and being the best you that you can possibly be, maybe not so much in being a dating magnet, but showing up and being clear about who you are and what you want in this phase of your life. So think about this. When you were 1819 20. Your goals were quite different

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Sharon Jenkins: from what they would be now if you were widowed, or if you were recently divorced or separated, so it gives you an opportunity to go back and really look at this is what I want. And how do I get it in today's modern dating world? What tools do I need to brush off

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Sharon Jenkins: or acquire, so that I can have the best possible dating experience ever. So this summit will concentrate on

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Sharon Jenkins: information, and also we have a magazine. So you'll get to after the summit is over you'll get to run your fingers through the pages and get more information. Okay? And then

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Sharon Jenkins: I love sewing into young people. So this semester, which started in January, I have a writing intern, and she was tasked with writing

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Sharon Jenkins: a ebook for seniors or people who are 50 plus and above and want to date.

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Sharon Jenkins: Excellent writer. I was so impressed, and I've been in this industry the writing industry for almost 20 years, and I know what a good writer looks like. And so she wrote this book. Now keep in mind. She's a senior in college.

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Sharon Jenkins: And so yes, and she had to go and do her research because she hasn't had the mature experience when I mean that 40, 50, 60, 70.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Yeah.

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Sharon Jenkins: Okay, so we have that going on. And then

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Sharon Jenkins: we did some snapshots, Diane, of people who found each other later on in their lives. And, by the way, I want to do you and your hubby.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Oh, yeah, okay, sure. And.

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Sharon Jenkins: We've had such good how can I say it? Engagement with one particular video we did Pierre and Rhonda. And they? They were all the way live, that's all I could say. And so

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Sharon Jenkins: we're building a Youtube channel. And if you want to see our love stories, or if you want to find out more information about what 50 plus and flirty is all about, you want to go and subscribe to our Youtube channel. So the goal is simply to help you make the right decision for you, and it comes

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Sharon Jenkins: to dating and to not be influenced by

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Sharon Jenkins: you. Know the society or your particular people group

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Sharon Jenkins: really look inside and say, Hey, I didn't like that when I was coming up, but they said to do it, well, now you can say, this is what I like, and this is what I want, and we want to help you do that in a freedom that's not traditionally been ours.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Right. You know I have come across several women in the last couple of weeks, and

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Diane Brandon Moody: you know, like they'll say something to the effect of well.

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Diane Brandon Moody: the date again, I mean I've done it. I'm done with it. Well, that's fine. I mean, we are in a stage of the world where you don't have to date.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Then there are some women who make it into a binary decision that either they're dating to get married or they're not dating at all. And again, we're not in that world anymore. You don't have to date. And because you have a goal of being married, I did. I wanted to be, but not everybody has that as a goal.

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Diane Brandon Moody: You can see each other once or twice a week and go back to your own house, if that's what you're really into. I mean.

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Diane Brandon Moody: we have so many choices as women in this world these days.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So we just don't need any of this.

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Diane Brandon Moody: These rules from, you know, beyond

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Diane Brandon Moody: long time ago. We just don't have to do it, I think, knowing what you want is so so important.

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Sharon Jenkins: Absolutely. And how can I say it? Just getting rid of all that stinking thinking? Oh, I'm too old, or I'm too fat, or I'm sagging here, and things ain't where they used to be, and all that crazy. Nobody wants me, girl, that ain't.

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Sharon Jenkins: Oh, that is not true, fella.

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Sharon Jenkins: They love you with hair or without hair, they love you with the belly or without the belly. Who are you? That's what they want to fall in love with the genuine, authentic person that you are.

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Diane Brandon Moody: That is so true. I have a theory that I think really proved true when I was dating, although it's anecdotal, it's not scientific. But

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Diane Brandon Moody: I really believe that

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Diane Brandon Moody: way a woman feels about herself is really what men fall for. Now, if it comes in, you know the the incredible body and the beauty and all that other stuff. Yay.

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Diane Brandon Moody: but think that if you have a less than perfect body and let's face it. Who, after 50, doesn't

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Diane Brandon Moody: you know? I mean, seriously, who is that person?

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Diane Brandon Moody: they're really falling for? How you feel about yourself? It's not as much about

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Diane Brandon Moody: the external things like it was when we were 20, you know, when we were 20 we were all gorgeous. We may not have known it, but we were.

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Sharon Jenkins: I didn't owe it, Diane. I didn't owe it, and I look back at those old pictures, and I'm like I was hot.

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Diane Brandon Moody: I was, too. I just didn't. Well, there were times I thought it true, but there, it wasn't all the time so, and and men. This goes for you, too.

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Diane Brandon Moody: I can't speak for every woman alive. I just can't.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Women want to know more about you, about your heart, about your soul about your brain the way you think how you show up for people

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Diane Brandon Moody: the guy who's kind.

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Diane Brandon Moody: We'll win over the guy who's an

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Diane Brandon Moody: Fighter who came after me on Tiktok this week. I'm so much better. I'm an mma fighter. Guess what I don't give a shit. I don't care who you are like you're you're treating me like an asshole right now. So I'm guessing you're pretty much an asshole. So

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Diane Brandon Moody: You know, we're much more into how you treat us at this age than we are to. If you have the 6 pack, or

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Diane Brandon Moody: being an Mmi fader, mma fighter, it's so hard for me to say, but you know, it's just not that important anymore.

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Sharon Jenkins: And the beauty of walking in this liberty is that you get to do a deep dive into that person. That person gets to really show up in their authenticity, and I know I mentioned that before. But I want people to think about the

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Sharon Jenkins: the fact that when you breed happiness, when you are okay with who you are, what what skin you're in when all those things are, you know, working together. Yes, that makes you more attractive. But the person that you're looking for

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Sharon Jenkins: the main thing that they need to be in concert with about is, how

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Sharon Jenkins: do you want to live your latter days.

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Sharon Jenkins: How do you want your the rest of your life to be the best of your life? That's the thing. If you're looking for a partner to join arms with to have some fun with. I mean, that's that's wonderful. That is so wonderful.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Absolutely. I think that's great. I think one of the things that sold me on my husband so early on is, he is just a very, very kind man

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Diane Brandon Moody: he treats. He's nice to telemarketers. I swear to God when they call. You know I'm I'm on one end of the phone going. Oh, fuck off! And he's he's in there saying, not today, thanks. You have a blessed day.

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Sharon Jenkins: Oh!

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Diane Brandon Moody: He's even nice to telemarketers, but he's nice to me. He's nice to my mother, who's moved in with us recently. He's very nice to her. He plays cards with her 3 times a day, he volunteers taking seniors to doctor's appointments during the week. I mean, he's just a very nice, nice man, and that goes so far, and men seem to be under the impression

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Diane Brandon Moody: that it doesn't. I mean, I'm talking global, not individual men. But you know, globally, they still seem to think that they have to be in the top 10%, whether that's income or looks, or whatever, in order to get very far.

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Diane Brandon Moody: and I just don't think that's true. What do you think.

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Sharon Jenkins: Well, at this age, sweetheart.

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Sharon Jenkins: men aren't. Women aren't look. Most. Most women have retired. Well, okay. And or at least

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Sharon Jenkins: they have retired normally, in essence, they can handle taking care of themselves. So

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Sharon Jenkins: that being in the top, 10 or top, 1% might be nice.

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Sharon Jenkins: in my perspective. It's not what the woman is looking for. She's not looking for sugar, Daddy. She's looking for companionship. She's looking for somebody who has who is kind like you said, and sincere, and and gets her, gets her, is attracted to her

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Sharon Jenkins: or him is attracted to him.

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Sharon Jenkins: Okay, yes. So if you got a. A. A hefty bank account that that sweetens the deal. But it's not the main factor for women. Our age.

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Diane Brandon Moody: No, no, I don't think so. There was

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Diane Brandon Moody: yet again another. I had a 1 of my tick tock accounts kind of blew up over the week, which was nice, there is some more traffic. But one guy was saying, well, what are you guys gonna do

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Diane Brandon Moody: when you're when the septic tank gets clogged like hire a plumber. What would you do like seriously? Are you out there digging through the septic tank? Come on, you know, like the idea is that women are so helpless

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Diane Brandon Moody: That's why they need a man. No, that's not why we need a man. We're not helpless.

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Diane Brandon Moody: We we want them for companionship, for love, for

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Diane Brandon Moody: physicality, for sex, for you know, whatever it is that's going on. We want them for that whole package. But you know I can get my own oil changed. I wasn't. I was 58 before I got married the 1st time, and you think I never got oil change. I've managed

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Diane Brandon Moody: so.

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Sharon Jenkins: So I

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Sharon Jenkins: I think we all need an updated mind, and that's why 50 plus and flirty is so in season, because we help you change your mind about some of these antiquated ideas.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Right, right.

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Sharon Jenkins: Yes, some wisdom is good, no knocking wisdom here, but also these

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Sharon Jenkins: stuck in the mud kind of ditch kind of fall in the ditch kind of ideas that keep you stuck in a place and not moving forward. That's our goal is to be like a magnet and pull you out of those places into the modern dating world for people 50 plus and above. And that's why we went after people like Diane. And you know

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Sharon Jenkins: well, we got some dating coaches and matchmakers, and

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Sharon Jenkins: we're not afraid of controversy now. We don't want the stinking stuff, but we're not afraid of controversy. I have a gentleman who write, who has written about relationships. He's a New York Times bestseller author. He's been in the industry for over 20 years, and some of his ideas about relationships

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Sharon Jenkins: quite digestible. I'll put it that way. But

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Sharon Jenkins: when you hear someone like that, Diane, that helps you decide a couple of things. Hmm

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Sharon Jenkins: interesting perspective. But I think it's dated, or you might say I

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Sharon Jenkins: I feel that way, and it didn't quite feel right to feel that way, or doesn't quite feel right to feel that way anymore. So

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Sharon Jenkins: you know, we, we want you to have some fun.

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Sharon Jenkins: But we want you to have some clean fun. We don't want you running to and from the doctor because you was hopping bed, hopping, and switching this one, and we don't want all that for you. If you want genuine love, that's 1 thing. But if you want to do that stuff that's on you because you want to swing, okay.

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Sharon Jenkins: that's all. But that ain't our goal. We try to put you in a place where you can really have the love that you desire, and for some women, because of the mores of our days. This will be your opportunity to find that genuine authentic love

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Sharon Jenkins: that seemed to escape you so many years ago. Don't give up. That's what we're saying. Get empowered, informed, and you know what. Get ready to jump the broom this Black history month.

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Sharon Jenkins: Jump the broom, baby, if that's what you want to do. Jump the broom, hey? And for those ladies out there

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Sharon Jenkins: who, you know you're kind of like Dolly Parton, and you got your plastic surgeon on call. That's okay, too.

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Sharon Jenkins: If you if you 70 and you want a 50 year old body or you're 50, and you want a 30 year old body. Do what you got to do, baby, that makes you feel good about you. That's the moral, right? Right?

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Sharon Jenkins: But if you you okay with where you are what you look like, and and we encourage you to be okay with that in this season and time.

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Sharon Jenkins: I believe wholeheartedly that you can have that love

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Sharon Jenkins: that you always dreamed of having. I really do, or else I wouldn't be doing all this interviewing people, Diane, you know, doing.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Yeah.

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Sharon Jenkins: Ads. I'm doing ads. I'm encouraging my my speakers to promote them. This is a major undertaking.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Yeah, that's a lot of work.

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Sharon Jenkins: Yeah, this ain't no joke, baby

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Sharon Jenkins: serious about helping you, and that's that's it. And look.

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Sharon Jenkins: I know there's some craziness going on in the country, and there's a whole bunch of division. And let me tell you something.

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Sharon Jenkins: baby, sometimes you gotta look over the fence to see what you to get what you're looking for. Don't put yourself in a box. Okay.

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Sharon Jenkins: don't let the culture dictate to you what you can and cannot have cause you deserve.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Absolutely, absolutely, preach, preach.

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Sharon Jenkins: Yeah. And we got we got. Oh, we got somebody coming to talk about interracial dating. Okay.

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Sharon Jenkins: and we got somebody. And I won't tell you who you have to show up to find out

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Sharon Jenkins: who is writing a book, an ebook for black women who, you know traditionally, have been not us based, but encouraging them to go to foreign lands and look for men who are looking for their baby. Okay.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Yeah.

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Sharon Jenkins: Yeah, you you.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Controversy. There.

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Sharon Jenkins: Yes, so you you know what you got. You might have to change geographical, your geographical area I'm talking about in regards to your search.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Right, right.

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Sharon Jenkins: You might have to take that list that you got with 50 different things on it and minimize it to 10.

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Sharon Jenkins: Find the things that you really are looking for and be tenacious as a pit bull until you see those things in someone. And another thing, Diane, you ready for this.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Hit me! Hit me!

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Sharon Jenkins: Baby, you know, have to date everybody that comes your way.

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Diane Brandon Moody: No, you don't.

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Sharon Jenkins: Yeah, just because somebody says, Oh, you cute, you come gorgeous. Be careful.

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Sharon Jenkins: Be careful.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Yeah, yeah.

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Sharon Jenkins: It's concerning. Yeah, be just.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Yeah, we watch, yeah.

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Sharon Jenkins: Safe and sane.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Exactly.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Bye.

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Sharon Jenkins: Insane and single until you're ready to jump the broom.

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Diane Brandon Moody: I think it's so good to stretch the muscle of knowing

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Diane Brandon Moody: the difference between discernment and fear.

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Sharon Jenkins: That I do is the room jumping conversation and the I will is, you know, you've decided that you've given permission to be in this kind of relationship.

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Sharon Jenkins: I looked at a whole season of Pop, the balloons, and on Instagram there are numerous dating coaches, and they have different theories, and they give different kind of advice, plus the sessions that 50 plus and flirty have done. We've done outside of the summit.

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Sharon Jenkins: We've had a matchmaker. Come on. Who's with South Carolina matchmakers. She's been in the industry for over 26 years we had her come on, and then we had a panel discussion with about 4 matchmakers and a mental health professional, and then we did a panel

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Sharon Jenkins: We found out that men are being dictated by the women in their lives. So much so for the one panel where the men were talking about what women should know about dating. The men were scared to come on the panel, Diane, because they were scared.

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Sharon Jenkins: Like you play checkers or monopoly, or you know what I mean. And so we have seen some interesting phenomena.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Right? Right? Yeah. And self-centered. I'm assuming what you mean by that is very centered in yourself.

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Sharon Jenkins: I spent a whole Saturday all day long looking at every episode. Research research. I want your viewers to know that we're not just concocting these ideas. We're actually doing our research so that we can come up with a viable program that will really make a difference in your dating search. But

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Sharon Jenkins: I looked at the later Daters, and I saw so many things like this. One. Guy came to the came to the restaurant to meet the young, to meet the sensational sexy woman, and the beauty of it was, she maintained her composure. But he put it out on the table. He's looking for a sex partner.

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Sharon Jenkins: you know, in regards to your initial conversation with someone. Okay, and I don't. I don't know. Diane. You tell me you're the expert.

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Diane Brandon Moody: and I mean Yay for bringing it up. I guess if that's the way you want to be, but I can pretty much guarantee that most women don't want that.

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Diane Brandon Moody: I recommend that it not be brought up until she brings it up, or the 3rd date, whichever comes first, st because I understand a lot of reasons that men bring this up is if they're on their second marriage, or more

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Diane Brandon Moody: unless they're very good at it, they may have less sexual interest, and so they probably haven't had it in a while, and that's why he's bringing it up so soon. But it's a mistake if you want to have anything lasting with a woman that's just a mistake.

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Diane Brandon Moody: She has a job. Her job is at home. The job is the man. The job is the kids. She goes out to get her hair fixed once a week and and have fun with the girls. They have people over and chat and get together, and all of that stuff. But dude, you're the one that has to.

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Sharon Jenkins: They do, Diane. They do need you. They need your sincerity, they need your experience, and they need your counsel. And so that's why we are honored to have you as part of the summit, because we recognize the reality

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Diane Brandon Moody: No, not at all.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Well, Sharon, this has been a blast, and I'm sure you've got stuff to do today. But I want you to tell us all about the summit one more time. Just so. People don't have to

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Diane Brandon Moody: forget it. Tell us all the details about for 50 plus and flirty.

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Sharon Jenkins: Okay.

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Sharon Jenkins: now, 50 plus and flirty is happening. March the 17.th Through the 21, st we have our wonderful website where you can see all of our wonderful speakers, and guess what?

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Sharon Jenkins: We are not only going to have our speakers, but we may play a game or 2, and then guess what you get an opportunity to get a copy of the magazine, get a get a copy of the book, you know all that, and then have

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Sharon Jenkins: decide you want to be a vip. Now, I know everybody who's listening is a vip.

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Sharon Jenkins: and Diane is gonna have a little something to share with you to give you half off.

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Sharon Jenkins: Well, I might get crazy and do 75% off. Oh, no!

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Sharon Jenkins: Want you to be a vip because you are a vip, all right. And then not only that, you get to go to the Youtube Channel and all that wonderful kind of stuff, and see people who have actually, you know, had success.

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Sharon Jenkins: Okay? And then, last, but not least, you get to meet fabulous me, and I was checked.

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Diane Brandon Moody: You're a fabulous chick.

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Sharon Jenkins: With a big vision.

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Sharon Jenkins: And all this you know all this when you go to the number 50

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Sharon Jenkins: plus spelled out and flirty.com. Now that tells you about 50 and flirty.com. But let's go to over to the summits. Hold on 1 min. I'm getting that link

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Sharon Jenkins: together because I want you to have big fun. So, and then, too, I want you to bring a friend.

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Sharon Jenkins: Shouldn't they bring a friend, a friend, Diane.

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Diane Brandon Moody: I think they should bring about 12 friends. We know, you know, a lot of other single ladies, so you should bring them, and I will post the link in the show notes, but go ahead and give them that information.

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Sharon Jenkins: That's good. That's good cause

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Sharon Jenkins: I think it's important. So look up 50 plus and flirty.com, and then you gotta look up 50 plus

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Sharon Jenkins: And Diane's gonna give you all that wonderful information.

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Sharon Jenkins: And you're going to get to see me a lot because I interview everybody.

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Diane Brandon Moody: I am looking so forward to it. It'll be so fun.

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Sharon Jenkins: I interview everybody, and again, that is 50, the number plus PLUS. Flirty summits.com. That's the summit, URL, where you get to go and get a snapshot of some of the things that we're doing at the summit. But, Diane, I just you are such a team player. I love you.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Oh, you're so sweet! Well, I am delighted to be a part of it. I think this is so much fun.

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Diane Brandon Moody: so I am gonna end this episode. Otherwise you and I will talk all afternoon. But because this is so much fun, I'll have to have you back someday.

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Diane Brandon Moody: But I did want to remind people. If you're sick of all the scams that you're getting online, you can always download my 50 places to meet people over 50.

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Diane Brandon Moody: It's at Diannebranded, moody.com slash 50, both numbers 50 dash places, and you'll be able to get my 50 places to meet people over 50, because sometimes it's just easier to meet them in person than to go through all that Scammer crap.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So and then you're on my list, and you'll get even more information about the summit. So

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Diane Brandon Moody: thank you again, Sharon, I have a great summit. I'm so looking forward to being a part of it, and

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Diane Brandon Moody: to promoting it as much as I possibly can, and this has been a blast. Thank you for being here.

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Sharon Jenkins: You know what it has been a blast for me. You have totally turned my day into one full of love.

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Sharon Jenkins: and hugs and kisses that good stuff that makes your tummy.

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Sharon Jenkins: you know, just feel real good in your heart, sings so thank you.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Oh, that's very sweet, and thank you so much for being available last minute. It was. It was great to be able to talk to you, and

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Diane Brandon Moody: this is my business, bestie people. So we look forward to broom jumping. I want to be there. My friend Kathy was one of my bridesmaids when I got married 6 years, almost 6 years ago, our anniversaries in 2 days.

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Diane Brandon Moody: And she used to tell everybody she was the world's oldest bridesmaid, because she's 2 years older than I am, and I was the world's oldest 1st time bride. So her husband told me that they were going to have me jump over a broom, and I said, Get out of here. I am not appropriating somebody else's thing. Go, sit down, you go sit down. He's a nut.

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Diane Brandon Moody: He's my favorite person, but he's a nut. So, anyway, every time I want to end it I keep talking. That is so like me. But anyway. Again. Thank you. And yes, we are going to get some people jumping brooms. If that's what they want to do. We're going to get them over that broom sooner rather than later.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Thanks again, Sharon.

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Sharon Jenkins: Thank you so much, Diane.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Bye-bye.

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Sharon Jenkins: Bye-bye.