Ep 52: How to Make a Clear Decision about Simply Irresistible Collective - LISTEN NOW

Did you know your decision-making abilities can be clouded by your body not signaling safety to you? 

Did you know I extended The Simply Irresistible Collective to 11:59 p.m. Dec. 1st, 2025 (Cyber Monday)?

Did you know I created an INCREDIBLE BLACK FRIDAY BONUS for The Simply Irresistible Collective? 

Book a call on www.dianebrandonmoody.com/love-audit so we can make a decision.

50 places to meet high quality men over 50 who want to connect is a great place to connect to Simply Irresistible

Transcript

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Diane Brandon Moody: Hey everybody, this is Diane Brandon Moody. I'm here again with another episode of 50-something Love.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Brought to you for people who are looking to find love after the age of 50. Maybe it's your first love, maybe… and hopefully it'll be your last love.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So, what are we talking about tonight? So…

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Diane Brandon Moody: What I'm talking about is Simply Irresistible Collective is still open. It closes at 11.59 PM, December 1st, Cyber Monday.

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Diane Brandon Moody: And until then, you have the opportunity to book a love audit with me.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Go to my website, dianeBrandonmoody.com, and you'll see Love Audit and book.

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Diane Brandon Moody: A meeting with me.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So I can tell you all about it. This is a 12-week group intensive, and this is all about

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Diane Brandon Moody: So many things. This is tips and tricks of dating, but that isn't the important part. What I'm so excited about…

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Diane Brandon Moody: Is that we are working with our bodies and our minds in terms of creating safety and expanding capacity for love.

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Diane Brandon Moody: before we get to the tips and tricks. Now, you may say, that's a whole lot of talking, Diane, what the heck do you mean? Well, let's face it, most of us have had some kind of…

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Diane Brandon Moody: issue somewhere over 50. We've had our heart broken, or a marriage didn't work out, a relationship didn't work out, or worse, you haven't had a relationship and you don't know why.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Something's gone on, and the more this happens, the more you feel distrustful, the more you feel…

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Diane Brandon Moody: even perhaps a little bit unsafe. Now, I've been very clear with people, I am not a trauma therapist. This is not something that I even pretend to do. So we're not talking deep trauma, but we're talking to patterns that exist within us.

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Diane Brandon Moody: I have used this example before, I've explained it before about my father. I love my father. We were close. He died almost 20 years ago.

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Diane Brandon Moody: But when I was very young and impressionable, he was gone a lot. He was working a lot.

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Diane Brandon Moody: As a young child, I created a belief in my head, which is so common.

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Diane Brandon Moody: that, because he wasn't there, it must have been something that I did. And so, I wasn't getting his full attention. Now, my dad did a lot more than the average guy did in the 60s to raise his kids, but again, I'm talking about the lens of a

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Diane Brandon Moody: 5-year-old, 6-year-old, 7-year-old kid. So, they don't always know what they're talking about. They just interpret what looks like what's going on.

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Diane Brandon Moody: And so, I felt like I was always fighting for my dad's attention. There were 5 kids in my family.

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Diane Brandon Moody: By the time I was 10, there were 5 of us, and I'm the oldest, and I just felt like I was always fighting for his attention. I couldn't get his attention. And so…

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Diane Brandon Moody: you know, I'd be a good girl, I'd be an even better girl, and it was still, like, not always his attention. Now, I know my dad loved me, there was never any question about that.

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Diane Brandon Moody: But it kind of created, distance in my head, and in my head, distance felt safe. Now, again, this is…

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Diane Brandon Moody: If I'm telling you that this makes sense, it doesn't. It doesn't make sense to me, and I lived it. So, when I was looking into relationships, and I was getting to be the dating age.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Distance felt safe.

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Diane Brandon Moody: The guy who was interested, but never fully committed. The guy who kind of made me the backburner girl, that was sexy in my head.

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Diane Brandon Moody: it wasn't the close, impersonal person, because that was a little bit scary to me. I didn't know what to do with that. Now, I'm looking back on all this now, with the eyes of a dating coach. At the time, I had no clue what was going on. I did do coaching later on, and that helped a lot for me to be able to get through

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Diane Brandon Moody: You know, meeting my husband without running away.

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Diane Brandon Moody: But I'll also tell you, a bigger part of that was learning to feel safety in my body, and that was with some nervous system work. What's that look like? It's very simple. It's simple exercises, and we work through those first in my program.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So that you have the capacity for love. So that you have the ability to see clearly who you're dealing with, rather than to get fooled by whatever may be in your head at the time.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So…

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Diane Brandon Moody: This is extremely important, extremely important, that you are able to see clearly, and you don't have the blinders on of whatever beliefs you created in your childhood, like I did in this particular instance.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So…

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Diane Brandon Moody: I'm so excited about that, because I have looked everywhere, I've done a lot of research, and I haven't found a single dating coach who does this. There are people that teach this, but not in dating.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So, I'm excited about this. So, the Simply Irresistible Collective, we start off with feeling safety and getting to know each other, and doing some of these exercises, and then we move into the tips and tricks if you have questions, like how do you write a good dating profile?

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Diane Brandon Moody: If you're VIP, then you get a copy of my template that I wrote for myself.

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Diane Brandon Moody: you get to create that yourself. I got 300 responses overnight, so it's a pretty good ad. I never saw one any better. So, you get a copy of that if you're part of the VIP as a bonus.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So, we're gonna be running this also as a Black Friday special. I'm very excited to announce that I have a huge bonus that's going to be coming along as part of that.

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Diane Brandon Moody: And that I'll be going into more in the very, very near future.

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Diane Brandon Moody: It's coming pretty quickly. But… not yet. So your closest way of figuring everything out as to whether Simply Irresistible is a great program for you or not is to…

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Diane Brandon Moody: go to dianebrandonmoody.com, Click on Love Audit.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Book a time with me. We have a conversation.

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Diane Brandon Moody: And after that conversation is over, you'll know, you'll have a clear idea as to whether this is for you. So, I know there is money involved.

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Diane Brandon Moody: But there's also money involved in all those dates that you're going on. The new outfits, the better makeup.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Maybe the better night cream.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Maybe the nails.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Maybe the nails again.

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Diane Brandon Moody: And again, because you never get to do nails just once. The different haircuts, the blowouts.

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Diane Brandon Moody: The new shoes, because all of this, you think, may be a part of why you're not finding the one. So you have to keep getting the better and better stuff. I'm here to tell you that isn't necessary. None of that is. So…

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Diane Brandon Moody: We will get on a call. DianeBrandonmoody.com.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Book a love audit. Let's discuss this so you can make a clear decision as to whether or not it's right for you. I'm so looking forward to it, and I hope to see you

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Diane Brandon Moody: On my calendar, very, very shortly.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Looking forward to it again, and thanks for being a potentially simply irresistible woman.