The cost of doing nothing, Ep. 74

=We talk a lot about what a program costs, what a coach costs, what it costs to finally invest in yourself. We almost never add up the other number: the cost of doing nothing at all.

In this short, honest episode, I ask the question most women avoid. What does it actually cost you to keep coming home to an empty house you don't want to be alone in? What does it cost to want love and keep waiting? What does it cost to finally meet someone promising and freeze, terrified of getting it wrong?

I've been there, and I name it:

Why "doing nothing" is never actually free, even though it feels like the safe choice.

The quiet trap of "I can't, I can't, I can't," and how it shuts the door before help can even find you.

The reframe that turns staying stuck into finally moving.

Short, warm, and a loving nudge to stop counting only one side of the ledger.

Ready to stop doing nothing? Start with the free class: Same Man, Different Outfit, this Thursday, July 9 at 7 p.m. Central. Sign up at dianebrandonmoody.com.

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Transcript

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Diane Brandon Moody: Hey, everybody, Diane Brandon Moody again, as you can see, I'm kind of cash today. But today, what I wanted to talk about. And we're doing this marathon between now and when simply irresistible gets started.

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Diane Brandon Moody: and many little snacks of information about it. So

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Diane Brandon Moody: Today, I just want to talk to you about the cost of doing nothing.

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Diane Brandon Moody: The previous episode, what I talked about was, how…

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Diane Brandon Moody: When you want something, everything that isn't that will show up in your life and will become an obstacle. If you want love, everything that isn't love will show up.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So I also mentioned getting help.

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Diane Brandon Moody: And this is what I want to talk about today, is…

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Diane Brandon Moody: What is the cost of doing nothing?

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Diane Brandon Moody: I know what the cost of Simply Irresistible is. It's not a cheap program.

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Diane Brandon Moody: I guarantee you I give a lot more than what you pay.

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Diane Brandon Moody: And you're gonna have to…

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Diane Brandon Moody: hook me up with the Love Audit, dianebrandertonmoody.com slash love dash audit, in order to get the exact cost. I know it's… I know it's money. I get it. It's a lot.

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Diane Brandon Moody: But its value is about 10 times more than that. If you count

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Diane Brandon Moody: What does it cost you to stay at home alone when you don't want to be at home alone?

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Diane Brandon Moody: What is the cost?

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Diane Brandon Moody: of not having love when you really want love.

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Diane Brandon Moody: What's the cost of finally meeting somebody you think you think there may be some place this will go?

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Diane Brandon Moody: And you're afraid of messing it up, and so you don't know what to do.

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Diane Brandon Moody: To me, that would be…

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Diane Brandon Moody: That would be the worst, because I… let me tell you, sister, I've been there.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So what is the cost?

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Diane Brandon Moody: I guarantee you… The cost… is high, right?

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Diane Brandon Moody: It is.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Yes, sir.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So, there we go.

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Diane Brandon Moody: what I want you to do, if you are at all interested in Simply Irresistible.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Which is a 12-week program.

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Diane Brandon Moody: And you can stay in a whole year.

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Diane Brandon Moody: then I need you to book a love audit. You can find it at DianeBrandonMoody.com, and let's talk about it. Let's figure out a way how we can.

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Diane Brandon Moody: If you're busy saying, I can't, I can't, I can't, I do understand that.

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Diane Brandon Moody: But you're not even letting your brain or God or whatever power is greater than you to help you find a way because you block that. You're so busy saying you can't.

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Diane Brandon Moody: You can't find what might happen, what could happen, how you might be able to make that work.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So that rant is over for today. I am so glad you're here.

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Diane Brandon Moody: And I am looking forward to seeing you Thursday, July 9th.

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Diane Brandon Moody: It's seven o'clock PM.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Central Time.

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Diane Brandon Moody: We're going to talk about,

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Diane Brandon Moody: Same man, different outfit, if you've ever experienced…

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Diane Brandon Moody: A relationship with someone who didn't work out.

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Diane Brandon Moody: And you swore you would never go back to a relationship like that. And what do you know? There's another one just like him.

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Diane Brandon Moody: This is gonna be for you.

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Diane Brandon Moody: So thank you so much for being here and listening to me. And again, book either The Love Audit or.

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Diane Brandon Moody: Same Man, Different Outfit at DianePrintedM

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Diane Brandon Moody: Thank you so much, look forward to seeing you. Bye.