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Beyond Fear: Finding Your Voice and Sharing Your Gifts with Crissy Conner

• Angie Leitnaker

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Ready to break free from fear and step into the spotlight? In this episode, we're joined by the incredible Crissy Conner, certified coach and visibility strategist, who guides women to become confident and impactful CEOs. We dive deep into the power of mindset, the importance of self-belief, and practical strategies to overcome the fear of visibility. Get ready to unleash your inner leader and make a real impact!

In this episode, you’ll discover:

  • Conquering the fear of visibility
  • The importance of mindset in achieving success
  • Strategies for authentic self-promotion
  • The power of vulnerability and connection
  • Building a freedom-based business


Key Takeaways

  • Embrace discomfort: Stepping outside your comfort zone is where the magic happens.
  • Believe in yourself: Cultivate a positive mindset and trust in your abilities.
  • Share your gifts: Don't be afraid to be visible and make a difference.


About Crissy:

Crissy is a certified coach and visibility strategist who empowers women to step into self-leadership as visible CEOs, connecting with their ideal audience to amplify both income and impact. Known for helping entrepreneurs captivate and convert their audience into loyal, raving fans, she specializes in offers, launches, impactful content, and sustainable business growth. Despite being an introvert herself, Crissy leads by example, showing others how to embrace visibility and build iconic, unforgettable brands. She supports those who value strategic action, self-leadership, emotional intelligence, and stepping outside their comfort zone as the keys to building a freedom-based business that accelerates impact, growth, sales, and limitless opportunities.


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A Soulful Sip to Ponder

What is one step you can take today to step outside your comfort zone and embrace visibility?

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Angie Leitnaker: Hello, everyone welcome back to the sip and soul. Podcast I'm really, really pumped to have today's guest because it is something that I am actively working on. She actually called me out before we press record and said, Are you actually going to act upon what we're talking about today? And I just really feel like she is such a blessing to so many of us that have a dream on our heart, and

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Angie Leitnaker: won't if it, if no one knows about it. So this is Crissy. She is a certified coach and visibility strategist, who empowers women to step into self leadership as visible Ceos, connecting with their ideal audiences to amplify both income and impact

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Angie Leitnaker: known for helping entrepreneurs captivate and convert their audience into loyal, raving fans. She specializes in offers, launches impactful content and sustainable business growth. Despite being an introvert herself. I don't believe you. Chrissy leads by example, showing others how to embrace visibility and build iconic, unforgettable brands.

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Angie Leitnaker: She supports those who value strategic action, self-leadership, emotional intelligence and stepping outside of their comfort zone as the keys to building a freedom-based business that accelerates, impact growth sales and limitless opportunities. Welcome, sister.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Thank you for having me.

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Angie Leitnaker: Thank you so much for being here, and it's been really awesome to watch you, because, as you were saying, you had a really great last year. It's been extraordinary for you, and you have really broken out of some paradigms, programming, limiting beliefs. Self perceived shackles, all the things, and you are helping so many women do the same. And so I'm just really excited to share your work with everyone today. Thank you.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Thank you. Thank you. I'm excited.

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Angie Leitnaker: How did you become this person like we were just talking before we were getting ready to have a conversation. I was like, no, no, we need to press record because you were talking about the Mel Robbins book. Let them. How you know, we all have these, these paradigms, these fears. Can we talk a little bit about that.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Yeah, so how did I get here?

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Well, it's funny, because I always said, like, early back in 2,016, that video changed my life.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: and I had to retract that statement, because, honestly, I had to get tired of my own ish. I got tired of being comfortable. I got tired of being. We were talking about this too normal or average, or just getting by. And I realized you're never going to get the results that you want

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: by hiding. You're never gonna get the results that you want by your by aligning with your fear of video. Because I was, I was so scared of video. And honestly.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: I've noticed throughout my business every time I do something uncomfortable. Magic happens. So, being uncomfortable and being okay with discomfort, even though it's painful, even though it's scary, even though all of these things come into play when it comes to discomfort, like honestly

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: understanding and acknowledging where I'm afraid to move next, or what feels uncomfortable, and honestly taking that step to go in that direction. Being very self aware and taking that step, was, I self aware in 2016. No, I literally said, you're going to do this. Get over yourself. But now I'm very self aware. And honestly, even back in 2016 when I started getting on video.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: it was very uncomfortable. But I also, as a woman, and I think a lot of us can agree with this. I had to do it for other people and not myself. I had to say, I'm doing this to serve and support you versus getting on video to say, Hey, look at me! Look what I can do! It was really about the other person, and that gave me a lot of peace, because I knew, no matter what my servant heart was leading me to push the

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: go record or go live button, even though it was still uncomfortable. It helped tremendously.

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Angie Leitnaker: So I know you have an entire business around helping women get visible, which means I might not be the only person who it holds in a headlock.

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Angie Leitnaker: Why do like help us understand? I know you specialize in subconscious programming. Help us understand this like, why is it so terrifying to push the go live button. Why do so many of us struggle?

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Angie Leitnaker: We have a dream on our hearts to impact a lot of people, and that one thing seems to hold so many of us back.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: I think there are a couple reasons. Number one. Fear of what other people will think is a huge one, like I was so worried about what people would think about me.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: I think the second thing is, I know the second thing is perfectionism.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: We want to be perfect.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: And I remember recording videos over and over and over, and editing for 2 h, and still not

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: accepting of who I was right, like accepting of how I said things or my ums and things like that. So perfectionism was huge, the fear of what people think right. But if I'm perfect, then I'm not going to worry about what people think. So that kind of goes hand in hand. And I also think, sometimes we think.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: why do people want to hear what I have to say

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: like, why do people care what I have to say?

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: And a lot of that can come even from being a child? You know, as children in our generation. We were heard a lot. It was like, What is it? Children are meant to be seen, not heard, and things like that. And in my honest.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: in my honest, I was a Pk, so I was a preacher's kid.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: so I was forced. We'll call this forced visibility. I was forced to be the example for everyone. I was forced to get up and sing solos. I was, and I don't want to say they forced me, but I felt like this. I had met major people pleasing, so I felt like I never wanted to disappoint anyone, and that could be a huge reason why people. They don't want people to feel disappointed, or, you know, like I see this a lot too. Well, I don't want to seem salesy.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: I don't want to seem salesy, like people should just magically see me and know that I have something to offer and magically ask for the link. None of those things happen. So I see a lot of that. Some people really do have issues that have happened in their past and abuse and things like that. And they really do have this massive fear of this person finding them online and things like that. So I've seen deep things like that as well.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: But for the most part it's fear it's it's we want to be perfect fear what people think and not not being good enough? Or why would people even want to hear what I have to say.

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Angie Leitnaker: Yeah, like the imposter syndrome or not wanting to be like and know it all. It's just like this could help you. Yeah.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Yeah.

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Angie Leitnaker: So let's talk about sales, because I know that you do a really great job in your work of marrying sales in a way that feels more aligned and yummy and exciting. Can you talk to someone? Let's just say that the person listening to this.

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Angie Leitnaker: they are an entrepreneur. They have a dream on their heart. They have not put themselves out there to the capacity that they would like to. And they have a paradigm around sales like. I don't want to. I don't want to be salesy. I know you hear that all the time, so can we talk to that person.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Absolutely absolutely. So this is another one of my uncomfortable things. I actually hated sales. Everything I'm good at now. I hate it. Can we just like clear the air right now?

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Hi hated. I had a fear of it, I said, I will never

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: fill in the blank, and today I will never say I never, because I always end up doing it. So

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: I had a massive fear of selling, and I went through this period where I didn't sell at all, because I felt like it wasn't working. So it was like, why should I even sell? Why should I? Even nobody's buying, so I shouldn't sell, and I again every time somebody said No, or every time somebody didn't buy it was a reflection of me.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: I made it all about me. It was my offer, my pricing me as a teacher or a mentor, or as a coach. So everything was about me, and it was so personal. And I think that's 1 of the biggest things that I see is that

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: we take it so personally, it's it should always be data here and drama way down here

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: because we make it like we want to be drama like it's all about me. It's all I shouldn't be doing this. I should just quit while I'm ahead. We say all these things to ourselves. So I see that a lot. And that was a lot of my problem.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: And so I went on this

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: hiatus, and I said, I'm not selling. I'm done. I'm going to be so visible. You're just going to magically again, like I said before, ask for the link and know I have offers, but I'm never going to talk about my offers

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: in 6 months.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Do you think I sold a lot.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: No, I didn't. And so the beginning of 2022, I got over myself and I said, you struggle with selling, invest in somebody who knows what they're doing and really dig deep. And so I did. And I found out so many things about selling that I wasn't aware of like

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: This thing called lean back energy.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: So I would sell something. This is what I did. And a lot of people do this, and I've seen a lot of my clients do this thankfully. They don't know but

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: we're waiting on the cell. We put an offer out. We're waiting on a cell, or we only talk about an offer 3 times.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Well, of course you saw it. I posted it 3 times. Nobody saw it. We don't talk about our offers enough. We make it all about us.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: instead of truly making the invitation, and believing in your heart and soul that the person this is meant for will buy, and being confident

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: in that, and knowing the result. And talking about that result, I think visibility feeds into this a lot because I build all my like, know and trust by showing up online, by doing podcast interviews, by, you know, really nurturing my audience and building those relationships, even if they're one sided. So when I have an offer I will always sell it.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: I don't expect them to buy, but I know that someone will. And that was a big game changer, because, you know, I always had expectations. I'm going to do this free event.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: They better buy right like. This was just like a thought process in my head. They better buy, because I'm giving them all this for free. And I did a free event back in a couple weeks ago, and it was like this is so different, because now I'm like, I'm doing this free event. I'm serving you. The right people will buy. I already know this, but I don't expect them to. I'm not sitting around waiting on a sale to come through, or anything like that. So it's really

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: everything is mindset. We just like own that everything is mindset. Everything is emotional intelligence, everything is subconscious work like, what are you thinking? What are your expectations? What are you saying to yourself? Because if you say I don't want to be salesy, you're going to remember that. And you're never literally going to talk about your offers. If you say I suck at sales you're going to suck at sales. You're not magically going to get better by continuously repeating that in your head, over and over I suck at sales. Nobody buys from me. You're going to get that result. So it's really about

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: owning that you have a product, a a offer, a service that is going to facilitate change in someone's life and owning that and not willing to keep that to yourself, because you know the transformation that's going to happen in somebody's life, and you never want somebody to go through what you've been through, or you've seen others go through ever again, and you're not willing to be quiet about it.

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Angie Leitnaker: I mean, I'm sure I'm not going to be the only person listening to this like it gives me butterflies to hear you talk like that, because I feel like there is a part of us that knows that that's truth, like, it's like we're doing this work because we know that it can help people. And so it's like.

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Angie Leitnaker: but if nobody knows about it, you literally can help no humans like nobody gets.

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Angie Leitnaker: So can you talk to us about visibility in particular. So

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Angie Leitnaker: I know that a lot of people that listen to this are entrepreneurs, and I know for myself, I've had the same thing. There's so many places to be visible that sometimes we can get analysis, paralysis.

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Angie Leitnaker: to us, manifesting generators. We tend to want to all over the place, and don't know really where to go. So how do you talk to like various people within your community, in regards to where to be visible, how to be visible, because I know there's the energetic aspect. But there's also the strategy that you're very good at. So can you kind of guide us through that.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Yeah, absolutely. So the 1st thing that I'm gonna say is, be visible where you like being

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: like, if I told someone to go be visible on Tiktok, and they're like, I hate that platform. It's going to show up in everything that they do. So number one. Obviously make sure your your audience is there? But be on the platform that you want to be on like I'm not saying don't diversify, because I think you should but start where you're comfortable, start where you where you are and where you're going to show up most consistently. That's what I always tell people. The second thing I will say is

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: video, almost every platform. Strategically. Let's let's be honest. If I

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: typed out some of this stuff that that we said right, that I said it would not have the impact that the feelings were. You know, Angie and I, if you're listening to this, but you can hear it in my voice. But if you like, if you could see us right now, like I'm moving my hands, I'm getting really into this. You can see my passion and my confidence where you may not see that actually through text. Here's the kicker about text when you're typing something.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: the person reading it is reading it in their space. So if they had a crappy day

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: and nothing works, they're going to read that and be like, oh, this is another one of those coaches trying to sell me something. Nothing works for me right. But if they hear my heart, that's going to come across a lot differently than them reading it in whatever space they're in, right, because people take things the way that they're. It's the mood that they're in. It's in the mindset that they're in. So they're always going to read things in their context with their voice, not mine.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: unless they've heard my voice enough to know what my voice sounds like. And so this is another reason why visibility.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: even a podcasting, is a form of visibility. Because you can hear people's heart. You can hear their confidence, you can hear their conviction. You can't do that necessarily in text again until they've built that relationship with you and seen you show up a lot. So

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: I believe, number one. Whatever platform you want to choose. Video is huge. Do I care what kind of video you do? No, I don't care if it's live. Video. I don't care if it's recorded video. I don't care if it's reels. I think there is a place for all of it, and I place I think, that the more we diversify our visibility the better. And that means

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: you've ever heard a nutritionist say, when you look at your plate you want a variety of colors, right? Because they all contain different types of nutrients. So the same thing is true with your visibility. Strategy video is a huge component, and also so is your face

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: in an image. Right? So is your face in a pr publication. So is your voice on a podcast. Again, different people digest different things, even sometimes at different times. I love videos. But sometimes I don't want to hear a video. So I just want to go to the bullet points and read, really quick, right? Or I want to go to a carousel. So giving them that variety, but

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: focusing on video as the number one facilitator of your visibility and knowing that that's going to be the big relationship builder and cause them to read and be attentive to the other type of content that you put out.

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Angie Leitnaker: That's very good. So number one is, start where you love to hang out.

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Angie Leitnaker: Just if we're going to do nothing else today, like today start where you hang out. Okay, do you have any strategies to help people? Let's just say someone totally freaks out when they see the live button. What are some things that you've done to help people, you know, overcome it? Is it subconscious programming? Is it rewiring? Is it strategy? Is it

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Angie Leitnaker: like blow into a bag. What is it.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Number one. I will always say tap into your person, because it's not about you, and that makes it easier. Number 2 have somebody interview you.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: It's way easier to respond than to go on this stage. Right? We're going on this virtual stage where there could be thousands of people watching, because that's what we tell ourselves. And so, and we mess up in front of all of them. So sometimes, having that interview process as well, subconscious programming can also work. Some people have a very, very deep fear of video. And me telling them, go get on video, just go press the record button is never going to work.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: And then also, the other thing I will say is that maybe you're somebody that's been visible.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: and you're going through a season.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: We all have seasons of hiding. We all. Unfortunately.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: it's the worst place to be, but we go into shame. We go into guilt. We go into all these things, and you may have seasons where you just have to like, take baby steps to get back to being visible again. So I think there's many different tactics and many different strategies to get on video, but

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: obviously working with a coach, one on one who can do some subconscious programming can really help because they go in and remove those things that are blocking you even back through childhood, which is crazy. We wire those memories so that they're not the same. We create new ones.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: which is fascinating. And then, again, having someone interview you, I interview all my clients because it's 1 of the easiest ways for them to get a ton of content, and they love it. And it's again anybody I've ever had that I've worked with, even back when I did social media for my clients like that's what I would do. I was like, let's let me interview you. I'll pull it out of you because I know how to pull it out of you. And it's so much more of a natural response to talk to somebody versus feeling like you're talking at everybody in the online space.

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Angie Leitnaker: Yeah, that's a great, and that's something that you're very, very good at. I've loved watching. I just watched Danielle's. I just watched Biggie like. It's so fun to watch those interviews because you do. You bring out like the best in them?

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Yeah, I'm showcasing them, and I know what what their audience is going to be looking for.

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Angie Leitnaker: It's amazing. So why do you feel like it's so important for

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Angie Leitnaker: for the women that you work with to really step into their greatness.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Because the impact I call this the impact and the ripple effect. So we all have an impact that we can make right. And if I am not supporting Ceos to become visible, there is a piece of the market that's not receiving their impact.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: And so I taught a program about this called the ripple effect, because we have an impact that we make and we forget about the ripple effect that happens after that, if I teach a woman to get visible, to be comfortable in her own skin, to be vulnerable, to be authentic?

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Is she teaching her daughter the same thing? Is she be an example to her clients to be the same thing right? There is always a ripple effect to what we do. Is it helping somebody create more revenue so that they create more. They can create more income. They can pay off debt, they can go on more vacations. They could put their kid through college again. There's always a ripple effect that we forget to tap into and what we do.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: we think, oh, I help people. Xyz. Actually, you help them, Xyz, and that helps them this and that helps them do this, and that helps them do this. And so there is a massive ripple effect that we forget about that comes from our impact.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: And so

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: it is a disservice for me not to support women, to put themselves out there and truly stand up as the visible CEO, of their industry, of what they're known for. Because, again, I know the power in the results that they provide, and in that impact, and in that ripple effect.

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Angie Leitnaker: It gives me feels like actual feels. I can like see it. I can see even just knowing some of the women that are in your community, and it's like they go out and spread their greatness. They go out and spread their greatness. They go out and spread their greatness.

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Angie Leitnaker: Now, what would you say to someone who I know a lot of women in this space are multi passionate. I know you have some clients. I'm sure that they do network marketing, they serve in that way. They do coaching, and they serve in that way. They're in various. They don't necessarily have a quote unquote niche. What are some ways to be visible? Do you recommend, you know, being visible in in separate communities? How do they become visible without confusing their audience?

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: This is a good question, and I think

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: most of the ways that we serve and support humans is probably there are some similarities into that. I think

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: focusing on one thing to start out. And then we build, we've built this visibility. We've built this one sided relationship. Sometimes we've built these this like, know and trust with our audience. And so when we introduce something else, right? They're like, Oh, my gosh! I already know she does this. I love how she does this! Of course I'm going to support her to do this, too, and a lot of times, and what I've seen, and I'm sure you've seen this, too, Angie. And maybe even in your world.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: you've seen this. You get pushed into doing other things because it just happens naturally, like maybe you're in network marketing, and you're so good that people want you to coach them

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: right? It's like this natural thing that happens. And you're like, I didn't really think about that. But I love doing this. I do this already for my downline, or I do this already for my team. Of course I could coach people. And so sometimes it can gradually happen like that. But if it's already something you're into, I think, being clear, but also being very

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: focused on one thing at a time, like in the same day. Don't go talk about 5 different things that you sell 5 different things that you offer like. Have a plan for it. I mean, it's almost like a sales calendar if you think about it right like, we're not going to talk about a different offer every single day. But maybe I'm going to focus on one thing a week, or I'm gonna like, you don't necessarily have to have 2 different platforms, right, or you can, but you don't necessarily have to. If you can find a way to marry them together. If you can find a way that

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: here, and your ideal person here have these similarities again you're talking to. It's about them. What do they want to hear? It's not about you. It's about them. So where can we marry those 2 together and really get that information out there? So it's very clear. And there's a lot of clarity in what you do. Another thing I like, and I think I heard Melanie and Layer say this before, but she talks about talk about what you value like. I work with women who value.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: And then that's a great indicator, too, because

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: they value all of these things right? These are all the things I offer, and I can help them with. So if you can't narrow it down to one thing, really talk about the things that

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: that you value, you value working with women, or you value, or you work with women who value and find the similarities there, because our values are the top reason why we do anything.

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Angie Leitnaker: Wow! That's so. I think I do remember her saying that that's so good because it does, because she she's a great example of someone who does not have a niche market like she she sometimes does. Social media sells, sometimes she does like various things. I hadn't thought of it that way. But

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Angie Leitnaker: yeah, she she works with women who value like

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Angie Leitnaker: freedom, fulfillment, living their life as their masterpiece.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Absolutely.

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Angie Leitnaker: So I know we're getting ready to wrap up here. But tell us about your pro, your offers like, what are your programs? What are your containers? What is coaching with Chrissy like.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: So I rebranded in 2024, and so coaching with me is like, I want to become the visible CEO. And this is really important to me, because I believe everybody desires and should become

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: the visible CEO of their industry, or the thing they're known for, or their mission right, their movement. And so this has been really important to me. So all of my offers help create

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: you, or help you become that visible CEO. So in your visibility in your sales, getting your offers, getting the spotlight, your content getting really clear, and having so much clarity, so that when people read your content, they know exactly that you're you're their coach, you're their service provider. You're their whoever they want to work with. So I really do everything surrounded about around growing your business, but

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: we do it in the aspect of we're going to be visible while we're doing it. We are becoming the visible CEO in the process. Because our messaging isn't tight. Our messaging isn't clear. No one's going to know why they should work with us if we aren't getting visible and then improving and tweaking that visibility like being more vulnerable and being more authentic. Again.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: people aren't going to understand why that we're the person to work with them. And so I think there's so many facets of our business that should be visible and should be out there to the world, and so becoming the visible CEO helps all of that happen, and it makes selling easier.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: It makes getting asked for additional visibility, opportunities, like podcasting and stages and things like, that it makes all of that even easier. So we literally expand ourselves by becoming the visible CEO. We truly expand and maximize all of the opportunities that are available to us. We maximize our revenue potential. We maximize so many things that we do. And again, that just results in that impact and that extended ripple effect that we want to have on the world.

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Angie Leitnaker: Chrissy, you inspire the heck out of me. I'm sure that every woman listening to this feels the same way. Where can we find you?

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: You can go to the visible ceo.com has a lot of information there. You can also find me on Chrissy Connor pretty much on any platform. Instagram, Facebook, Tiktok, Pinterest, Youtube. Linkedin. I'm everywhere for real. You don't have to be everywhere. But I am because I'm the visibility. Queen. So. But yeah, it's important for me to have a presence on every platform, so anywhere, anywhere you are, I'll be there.

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Angie Leitnaker: And you have a book.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: I have 2 books, actually, 2 books tell us.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: yeah, I have the Content Creation Machine Journal, which teaches you how to create value based content. And then I have the visible CEO planner and guide. So how the things I do every single day to be the visible CEO, that I am. So it includes, like the visibility impact method and how to get into your CEO state every day. And if you've ever heard, like Tony Robbins getting in your peak state. It's really my version of that as a business owner.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: So yeah, and both of those are available on Amazon. If you just type in my name, Chrissy Connor. They'll both come up.

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Angie Leitnaker: Awesome. You are the best, Chrissy. Thank you so so much. I am honored to know you and be in your world, and to answer your question. Yes.

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Angie Leitnaker: yes, I will take action on this time with you today. So we appreciate you everyone. Thank you so much for listening in. I hope to see you visible as well, because together we rise.

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Angie Leitnaker: Thank you, Chrissy.

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Crissy Conner @ItsCrissyConner: Thank you.