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S4E2: Matt at Stanford, Daniel's Conspiracies, Volleyball Fyre Fest

Matthew Houlihan, Arielle Houlihan, Chad Gordon Season 4 Episode 2

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Matt shares a short-term leap onto the Stanford bench, how it reshapes his voice and time, and why serving the team takes priority over hot takes. We also unpack the canceled Honda Center NIL event, question rankings logic, and preview Stanford vs UC Irvine with deep club ties.

• a three‑month Stanford coaching role and its constraints
• honoring family coaching legacy and purpose
• social media boundaries when you represent a program
• the NIL tournament cancellation and missing details
• credibility risks for men’s volleyball events
• rankings transparency and results over potential
• Stanford vs UC Irvine storylines and Beta Bay roots
• community moments that keep the sport vibrant

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Season Four Kicks Off

Matt Houlihan

Quick little detour for all the viewers out here. So Daniel and I we coached. I was with Daniel on Staff of Safer for nine seasons as a volunteer when he was the assistant. And we would room together. And we nine seasons.

Arielle Houlihan

That's a long time.

Matt Houlihan

Yeah. I didn't trap. I didn't start.

Arielle Houlihan

Yeah, I didn't start conspiracy theory number two.

Matt Houlihan

Correlation is not causation.

Chad Gordon

That's not how starting to work.

Arielle Houlihan

No wonder Killen's crazy.

Chad Gordon

You start in polite tune off the rails already, guys.

Matt Houlihan

Hey, it's good to be back. Episode two, season four. We're calling this season four. I officially decided when I posted this on YouTube last time, it was season four, episode one, so we're back, season four.

Arielle Houlihan

Episode two. Matt, you're wearing a new hat.

Matt Houlihan

And my actually, it's actually an old hat and old sweatpants and an old shirt.

Arielle Houlihan

Never mind. Forget it. New segment.

Daniel Rasay

But new mustache. Did you buy that at my garage sale?

Matt’s Stanford Coaching Announcement

Matt Houlihan

No, but you gave all of this to me once upon a time. He stole it from you. Yeah. I have a life update for us. I couldn't talk about life updates last week, but we can now. For one season and one season only, I have been officially hired to replace one Spencer Wickens, one beloved Spencer Wickens for the remainder of the NCAA men's collegiate volleyball season at Stanford. So I'm uh I'm a full-time employee now. When I was with Daniel at Stanford for nine years before, I was the volunteer, just the lowly, lowly volunteer. I was a slave to whatever Daniel, whatever Daniel asked for. Um and now I'm filling in. So uh yeah, that was the uh that's the genesis of what I've got going on. And and you'll uh you'll hear some my my opinions will be less spicy as I am very biased as to who I want to win and succeed, and I want everyone else to fail.

Arielle Houlihan

So what does this mean for you and your next three months? Is your content gonna change? Is your takes gonna change?

Balancing Bias, Content, And Team Trust

Matt Houlihan

Uh content will change a little bit. I I'm focusing specifically on coaching, but I want to keep sharing stories. I think that's one of my favorite things to do. Um still want to do some breakdowns, still want to give love to the men's volleyball world. Um again, you'll know I'm very biased on on the things that I do come forward with, but uh yeah, I I think a lot of what I'm trying to focus on is this was a cool opportunity. Uh John was kind enough to reach out to me when spent when he got news that Spencer was gonna be leaving for Minnesota for the women's job, which is a great opportunity for him, and we love you, Spencer. Um he doesn't listen. I know, but someone does and someone will send it to him. So if that's you and you know Spencer, send him that little clip. Uh yeah, it was just a it's such a unique opportunity to step in to a full-time role and jump in and coach at a highest level team. I literally was driving to practice today, and I had the feeling I was like, I got to to to run some drills during practice yesterday, and it felt I love my 15 team, I love getting to coach at Beta Bay and do skills practices and work with all the little kids. But there's this degree where you're like, I feel like I'm driving a Ferrari when I go to practice. We're like, wow, these guys are they can they can institute exactly what I'm looking for right away, and they can see a lot of the things that we're trying to do, and they can physically go up and do these things at a level that you know we're just not not traditionally getting. So it's it's very fun in that sense. And my wife over here has been very kind and very supportive. Uh my wife, my wife Chad Gordon, um co-host and wife.

Daniel Rasay

A weird podcast.

Matt Houlihan

Uh yeah, it gave me gave me a lot of sport and freedom to be able to go do it. Our kids are at a young age where they're gonna come to games with us and do a lot of stuff still, uh, where I'm gonna miss some time with them after schools for practices, but get an opportunity to bring them along and and be in these moments. Uh, I had a I had a the the final closing thought for me on this uh was I had this like childhood dream of being a college coach. My grandpa was a college coach at Santa Clara for basketball, and then he was the athletic director there, and we grew up in the gym being around it, and it was just so cool. He was like the mayor, and everyone knew him, respected him, and he is and was a fantastic coach. Um, and so I always saw him in that moment and how cool it was for my family for him to be there and to be a part of it. Uh, and I knew pretty quickly that I don't want to be a full-time college coach after doing volunteer for one year. I love the job that I get to do, but to be in this environment where I get to step in for a three-month period and be to be hopefully useful and helpful to this team in a moment where they need it, and then gives John and the staff the flexibility to go and hire someone full-time afterwards. It's a it's a unique environment that I felt like I could I could do some good and help. And for me, it's uh there's a selfish desire to want to go do this and and have this opportunity and be a part of it. Um, and hopefully there's a degree as well where the team can feel a lot of the support that I'm I'm trying to give them and the love I'm trying to give them because they deserve it. Um that's the sentiment I shared with them on Monday when I got to talk to the team. Um and hopefully they'll they'll learn to feel that continuously, um, even if I do a fifth-set breakdown of a different team at some point too.

Daniel Rasay

What does John think of the live fifth-set breakdown?

Arielle Houlihan

I'd like a reaction video from him.

Matt Houlihan

Yeah. Uh I actually I asked him, I was like, what do you I I asked him about? Like, are you worried about my social media? Like, would you like me to stop posting? He was like, I'm not concerned about like that that does not concern me. Doesn't concern me until it becomes a concern to me. No. Um no, he was like, he's like, I trust, I trust you to do that.

Family Legacy And A Three-Month Window

Arielle Houlihan

But you do know you represent something that is not just yourself with stuff too. So there is a little bit of a like a different tinge to what you are gonna be doing for the next couple months, but still, yeah.

Matt Houlihan

And I mean, to be fully transparent, like my my priority with it is I want this team to know that I'm there for them. Yeah, and so I'm I don't want to put them in a situation where they feel like I'm I'm not there for them or I'm not fully invested in their success versus anyone else's success. Um, and I think I can I'll prove that to them day in and day out. But uh yeah, transparency-wise, I'm I'll be a little bit more reserved in some of the things because also time-wise, man oh man, like this takes up a lot of time to try and make this make these programs run uh so that they fire on all cylinders.

Daniel Rasay

So would you say mission accomplished?

Arielle Houlihan

Yeah, would you say mission accomplished?

Matt Houlihan

Mission accomplished for what?

Daniel Rasay

Uh when you called me and you were filling me in on kind of the going-ons about this happening, my crazy brain thought uh conspiracy theory and cue the cue the conspiracy theory theme music. Yeah, please. Someone someone can't someone someone make that happen for us. Yeah. I when I was thinking about leaving Stanford, you were very supportive, and I was talking starting my own business and seeing if I could get this support of Beta Bay, and you were just like, Yeah, whatever you do, you're gonna kill it, and like kind of helping me make that decision and giving me the support. But it seems like there's some full circle here of you're trying to get me out.

Arielle Houlihan

Push you off a clip.

Daniel Rasay

Yeah, because you're in the position I was in, and I'm sure you were feeding Spencer the same. You know, yes.

Arielle Houlihan

Yeah, Spencer, Minnesota sounds like a great opportunity.

Daniel Rasay

Yeah, so congratulations on You did it. Yeah.

Matt Houlihan

My full mission was to get Daniel out after a decade plus of service.

Daniel Rasay

You've been dreaming about it since you were a little kid. Like, you know, commiserating in our hotel rooms of like, yeah, this is really tough, and then supporting me when thinking about going elsewhere. The long con. Yeah. You were you're amazing. Committed. Yeah.

Matt Houlihan

Um I'm on it. Welcome to the newest episode, the newest weekly segment, Daniel's tinfoil hat corner over here, where I've replaced him to get paid.

Arielle Houlihan

I think it's a good start of uh conspiracy theories.

Daniel Rasay

Yeah. And I think for the sake of more viewership, the internet loves some conspiracy theories, so that's what I'm trying to get going here. Co-hosts are already five.

Arielle Houlihan

I wonder if there are other people that also have this conspiracy theory.

Social Media Boundaries As A Coach

Matt Houlihan

I bet you there's a whole group of them. Spencer, who doesn't listen to this podcast, is now gonna get sent us and he's gonna be like, Wait, he was supportive at me?

Daniel Rasay

Did I make the wrong choice? But I also thought, like, if you really wanted my position, we shared a room, you could just smother me with a pillow, and that's that's an easier route back.

Matt Houlihan

Your short ribs are too tasty. I can't do that to you.

Arielle Houlihan

What's going on in the men's volleyball world right now?

Matt Houlihan

Do you guys see the NIL? You saw the NIL tournament.

Arielle Houlihan

It just got announced today. This will come out tomorrow.

Matt Houlihan

Yeah.

Arielle Houlihan

So like yesterday.

Matt Houlihan

Yes. The there's a there was supposed to be math is math, in there was supposed to be an NIL tournament hosted at the Honda Center where they're hosting the 28th century. In Anaheim. In Anaheim. Yes. Um, so it was gonna be it was gonna be at the Olympic venue getting ready for men's volleyball. It was gonna be the quote top four programs.

Arielle Houlihan

When was this supposed to be? April, March?

Matt Houlihan

Um what? No, no, it was February. Yeah. Oh, geez. And so it was supposed to be Hawaii, USC, UCLA, and Long Beach. And they were gonna play a mini, mini four, four-team tournament. Winners would face off. So you you know, the big west and NPSF schools would play each other, the winners would then face each other, the losers would face each other. Yeah, and there was gonna be a big NIL prize. You know, there's there was some hype around it. Um, and it turns out we might need to get Daniel Daniel's conspiracy theory over here, but my conspiracy theory is we've got we got a little bit of a fire fest of volleyball type of situation going on.

Arielle Houlihan

I haven't heard anything for real yet, other than it got canceled. It was a USA volleyball event. Uh I didn't even realize that they were in the eye. I didn't realize that either.

Chad Gordon

Uh it was part of the UH like announcement. They were like, hey, like, we're sorry that they to announce that this has been cancelled. We were informed by USA volleyball and the other like organizers. Go for it, yeah.

Daniel Rasay

Supposedly, like the page on the USA volleyball site went missing this morning.

Matt Houlihan

And yeah, there was there's a couple posts about it. Like it was it got removed from the USC schedule and then it got put back up, and then I mean, so few people even knew about this event.

Chad Gordon

Like, nothing was marketed unless you were like a diehard, you know, following one of your one of these teams, right?

Matt Houlihan

Like, I mean, I think it was in the story. So there was, I mean, there was kind of some some inklings of like, is this thing actually happening for for a little while, right? Like, people were like, it's it's everything says TBD, TB announced, like we haven't really heard anything. Yeah, and it just seemed like an idea that didn't like someone did not have the legs to get it to get it off the ground. But I did not realize it was a USAV thing, which of course Conspiracy. We don't that does not blow back nicely on uh on our governing body in that sense. Like Hawaii was pretty quick to throw USAV as it looks like that's the Hawaii graphic. Yeah, that Hawaii graphic makes it seem like USAV has canceled.

Arielle Houlihan

Yeah.

Daniel’s Conspiracy Corner Debuts

Daniel Rasay

Well, I know their fans were like, when can we buy tickets? When can we white tickets? And I think that's when things started to come clear.

Arielle Houlihan

And they were like, Oh, wait, this wasn't real. Right. So I mean, those are that's that was that was gonna be bus that they threw in there.

Matt Houlihan

Oh, yeah, that would be two big matchups. Well, not anymore.

Arielle Houlihan

Who was it? It was like volley station. People were like, Are you guys going to the Honda Center thing?

Chad Gordon

And we were like, I didn't I didn't know about this event two weeks ago and now it's canceled. So tough. I mean, I we were supposed to be there.

Daniel Rasay

Oops. I think Ja Rule was supposed to be there too.

Arielle Houlihan

Ja Rule Kendall Jenner.

Matt Houlihan

The volleyball foot. Billy McFarland's back at it. Billy McFarlane. But he's going after small Olympic sports instead of large music festivals. Um I saw that we had, I believe it was UCLA Long Beach added to their schedule that weekend. They're playing each other, I believe, at UCLA.

Arielle Houlihan

Um, so they called each other and they're like, okay, so this is canceled, so where it can go to your place or mine.

Matt Houlihan

But interesting interestingly, nothing from USC, nothing from Hawaii, and Hawaii's press release, they say we're we're looking for other solutions. But I would you would think that that would be the immediate reason.

Arielle Houlihan

Well, there was obviously an alliance made between two of them, and they left the other two out. Do you want to form 100%? Yeah, the alliance. There was an alliance form. McRae and Hawks stubbed on the phone with each other and they were like, hey, you guys want to put your hands in the middle? And then the other two were like, Lord of the Rings. Yeah, that's probably what happened.

Matt Houlihan

The Riders of Rohan formed joined forces with uh Middle Earth.

Chad Gordon

I think I think that's a butchering of how I think I remember that movie.

Matt Houlihan

The Riders of Rohan are real.

Chad Gordon

I understand that. Roh Rohiman. Sure. I would have just assumed that UH had their flights and would be flying into Los Angeles anyway. Right. Yeah. Could just play SC.

Arielle Houlihan

Except if SC's gym, if Galen Center was booked, now they're probably scrambling through like Galen Center's hosting the Kids' Choice Awards again.

Chad Gordon

Probably like something's going on. I'm sure that they can play at any one of the many gyms that are around the Los Angeles metropolitan area.

Arielle Houlihan

That's probably why, since it got canceled this afternoon, that's probably why we haven't heard anything yet. That's fair.

Matt Houlihan

But yeah.

Arielle Houlihan

That's just a guess. Honestly, none of this is founded on any facts.

Matt Houlihan

That's why that's why we lumped this under the Daniel conspiracy corner.

Arielle Houlihan

This is all part of Daniel's conspiracy. You got anything else in there? You got anything else up there?

Matt Houlihan

Tell us more.

Arielle Houlihan

Men's volleyball?

Chad Gordon

Nothing. I think the rankings all say the same, like for like the top nine or ten or whatever it was.

Daniel Rasay

I hate the rankings.

Chad Gordon

Yeah. We should have our own rankings. What happened to our own rankings? Yeah. It's true.

Daniel Rasay

It's based on conspiracy. Potential, basically. Right?

Arielle Houlihan

Oh, can we talk about the rankings for a second? Concordia. Concordia has posted multiple times this week saying for the first time in program history, number 20 in the rankings. There's like 30 schools. They're like they've like been really excited about this 20th ranking.

Chad Gordon

The top two thirds.

Daniel Rasay

The funny thing is they beat Princeton, and Princeton is ranked higher than them.

Arielle Houlihan

That's crazy too.

Matt Houlihan

Well, they used to that was our complaint last year, and why we started our own rankings, was they used to make coaches publish. Because you just get coaches who are lazy with it and they're like, we gotta bring that back. Maybe we do. Maybe this is the call. The call for your for your for you guys.

Arielle Houlihan

Then it turned into the media poll.

Matt Houlihan

There's gonna be a lot of Stanford number ones in this poll.

Arielle Houlihan

Yeah, this is just a we can't even do that poll.

Matt Houlihan

Yeah, you guys can do it.

The NIL Tournament That Vanished

Arielle Houlihan

We have our own biases as well of like what we like, I guess. Sure. But like I don't know.

Chad Gordon

Yeah, you guys can certainly do that. Well, there was at least movement like over the course of a couple months rather than that.

Matt Houlihan

I think that's I think that's what we when we went off on it last year. The main thing is A number one, there's no transparency as to who's voting to what. So we made it very clear when we were voting, this is what we're voting, and B number two, I agree with Daniel. It's more like potential rather than like here's where it currently stands. You lose, yeah, your ranking changes. That's that's the way and like big swings.

unknown

Yeah.

Chad Gordon

Yeah, get out of my top ten. Yeah, get out of my top ten.

unknown

Yeah.

Matt Houlihan

And then the explanation we gave the explanation scenario would be like vibes. My vibe is bad.

Arielle Houlihan

Yeah, my vibes are bad.

Matt Houlihan

I get bad vibes.

Arielle Houlihan

I don't like the way that they looked at each other.

Matt Houlihan

Yeah. So hey, you guys could I think you guys can bring that one back.

Arielle Houlihan

He's saying you guys.

Matt Houlihan

I can't do that one. I'm at I'm out on that one. That's okay. Okay, fine. But I do think we have we have more traders to join that trader poll, right? We've got you got a you could bring in a Matt Worley for that one. You could bring in a Spencer. Spencer? You can bring in a Spencer for that one.

Arielle Houlihan

Yeah, yeah.

Matt Houlihan

You get some couple options. You got a couple options to bring in there.

Arielle Houlihan

We can bring that back.

Matt Houlihan

Excited. I like a Spencer McLaughlin again. You know, now he's a head coach.

Arielle Houlihan

He is.

Matt Houlihan

Might might be a little bit more responsible with his voting. You know? Spencer responsible? Daniel. Clip that and send it on.

Arielle Houlihan

Daniel's only conspiracy today. Only conspiracies.

Matt Houlihan

Daniel's like, that's not a conspiracy, that's just a fact. All right, we're leaving. He's like, what are we doing? We're leaving this week. We've got Stanford versus UC Irvine. We have a we have a couple big matchups here within this dynamic. Number one, you've got John Costi versus his son Cameron Costi. Big time. Cute. Cute. My first order of business when I got uh hired on Monday. I took Blue Painter's tape, and John's got a big picture of Cameron in his beta Bay jersey in his office, and I put a big X over Cameron's face and wrote not this week, and I sent Cameron a picture of it. Um that was my first order of business. But actually, most in the first order. That was the literal my first action besides saying hello. You're gonna do that to my newcomer of the year. Yeah. All right. Besides that saying hello, but the the real most important matchup we've got here is we've got some we've got some Chad Gordon quarterback lineage about to go down. Chad, can you can you tell the tell the viewers this little backstory here?

Chad Gordon

Yeah, my my first summer coming back from Illinois. Uh I wanted to assist some older team. I was like, no, here's the 12-2s. Go be the head coach. Um and so Cameron Cossi is on this team, Theron Briette is on this team, Rowan David Alviar, Princeton's Libera is on this team, who's like eight. That's a different story. Um best player on the team. Not even close.

Arielle Houlihan

Oh man, who's the best player on the team?

Chad Gordon

No, Rowan. Like, not even close. Yeah, yeah. He walked he walked this different aside.

Arielle Houlihan

Not even close in a good way.

Chad Gordon

He walked in 20 minutes late. He's like, I'm so sorry, I'm so sorry. I'm like, Rowan, you're eight. Like your parents drove you, like it's all good. We're like in butterfly. He like step closes and yassis the ball. I'm like, Rowan, you can show up whenever the hell you want. This is the best player I've ever seen in your four years too young. You're a whole college degree, too young for this team. Um yeah, no, quarterback controversy on that team for sure. Um, I guess you'd call it a 6'6, and you know, T and Cameron and Rowan at that time were like Rowan was small, but like really good. But T and Cameron were like two of the bigger kids, and so like that you put them in the middle and you just yeah. Chuck. You let them, yeah, dude. Cameron, Cameron was slinging it on the 12th.

Arielle Houlihan

Slinging it. For sure. That's the right word.

Chad Gordon

Uh T was yachtsing a lot of two balls. Nice. Um but yeah, no, we got a good uh good Stanford uh Irvine matchup coming up here uh pretty quick. And uh I'm interested to see how it plays out.

Matt Houlihan

Battle of the twos. Uh the other dynamic that I I just have to get your your sense and your vibe on is like, are you gonna are you gonna drift either direction? Are you just rooting for a good side? Are you do you have anything that do you root do you root? Stanford Irvine? Yeah, do you root a certain way?

Aftermath: Schedule Scramble And Speculation

Chad Gordon

Yeah, Stanford. So live in the Bay Area and we got more of those kids. Yeah, it's true. Santa Santa Barbara was interesting though. Yeah, that was kind of Santa Barbara that was a lot. Drama modern. Yeah, right. So like I'm talking with like I'm talking with John Wallace, and I'm like, oh man, I'm like kind of in the middle. Like he's obviously like with his scout sho folks. Sure. I'm just like, man, I'm just kind of hoping for good volleyball.

Arielle Houlihan

Yeah.

Chad Gordon

Prayers weren't 100% answered both nights, but that's all right. One night. One night. One night was good. One night was one night was less good. But yeah, no, you like you like to support the chose when they come to town. Obviously, those teams haven't played in a couple of years, I think, up here. It's been a little bit. Went down to Santa Barbara two years ago. Yeah. So no, it was just it was it was cool to see all those guys. And obviously, like there's like two dozen Beta Bay kids between those teams. So it's it's literally 11.

Matt Houlihan

And then you had Marty. Marty was on the bench. Uh, and then we had shout out. Andrew Weisner was the line judge. Wheezy. Wheezy's. And I believe Wheezy can correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe that was his first Division I men's volleyball match. Oh, wow. So that was a big moment for him. I got a video. I need to actually send it to him. He was he was uh he was on the line. He did get uh he did get overruled Stanford Challenge, one of his calls, and it was actually out, so he got overruled on one, but for the most part, Wheeze was on it. So we had 13 Beta Bay people out on that. That's a lot of kids on the floor. It was pretty it was pretty cool. That was a pretty cool.

Arielle Houlihan

And honestly, the rest of the people there were Balboa.

Matt Houlihan

Yeah, and there was a ton of Balboa too.

Arielle Houlihan

There was like there was, I want to say like 10 Balboa kids that were playing as well.

Matt Houlihan

Yeah, so it was crazy. It was just funny to see those, all those. I mean, a close-knit group, and and literally one of my favorite moments watching from this from the stands for that match was Moses versus Ben. It was so funny. Yeah, I think the downrest literally thought they were chirping at each other and they like told them to stop, and they're like, no, no, we're actually just friends. We're cool, it's all good. Yeah, like we like each other and we're good. So there was some some really funny. Yeah, so it was that was a a pretty cool dynamic to watch play out.

Arielle Houlihan

Uh Super Bowl's coming up.

Matt Houlihan

You going? You said you're sneaking in.

Arielle Houlihan

Yeah, I'm working on it.

unknown

All right.

Arielle Houlihan

I am currently I have two events that I'm going to. One is a like go girls women thing.

Matt Houlihan

Go girls, yay, women.

Arielle Houlihan

Uh that's like a one thing. And then I'm going to the DraftKings party.

Matt Houlihan

We like that.

Arielle Houlihan

Where 50 Cent is performing.

Matt Houlihan

Nice.

Arielle Houlihan

And Kernata. So that's cool. My agent texted me today and said, This is the one that you guys.

Chad Gordon

Sounds like I'm not invited to that.

Arielle Houlihan

You are not.

Chad Gordon

Fair enough. You go to the one with the jaw rule and firebox.

Matt Houlihan

We'll be in Anaheim. Matt's going to the Honda Center for the Stanford got the invite. We're going now. Huge. We're filling in. Just by themselves. Yeah. Us versus the world.

Arielle Houlihan

What's the opposite of the Super Bowl?

Chad Gordon

The Taunted Classic.

Arielle Houlihan

The Honda Bowl.

Matt Houlihan

The Honda Ball. Conspiracy. Great, great week. Great week too. Nicely done, everyone. Someone work on that uh that Daniels tinpula soundtrack, please. Maybe I'll have Eli play it on the violin.

Arielle Houlihan

If anybody else has if anybody else has any uh conspiracy theories they want Daniel to go in on, please let us know in the comment section.

Matt Houlihan

Like, comment, subscribe. Or don't. Yeah, I don't care. Email me at madhoolahan at stamper.edu.