I Beg Your Partum?
Whoever said the journey to motherhood was a straight path clearly never had to decipher an expired pregnancy test or navigate the labyrinth of fertility treatments. Join us, Jade and Katie, as we swap tales from the trenches of pregnancy symptoms and trying to conceive. We're here to provide dubious advice, hot and lukewarm takes, and a feminist perspective on pregnancy and parenting. Whether you're in the throes of your own pregnancy odyssey, cheering from the sidelines, or just here for a good story and a laugh, pull up a chair. We're glad to have you along for the ride!
(Please be lovingly advised that WE ARE NOT MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS and are not providing any medical or legal advice of any kind. We are just a couple of women talking about our experiences as honestly as possible.)
I Beg Your Partum?
Episode 2: Symptoms Circus, Or, A Detailed Description of Everything We Can Actually Stand to Eat
In this episode, Jade and Katie give their opinions on nausea-friendly and unfriendly foods, provide you with too much information about our digestive issues (Progesterone is the ENEMY, and Zofran has gross side effects), and discuss The Bump's list of weird, wacky pregnancy symptoms. (Including unchecked hair growth, "lightning crotch," and excessive drool.) The Boys discuss the evolving role of dads in the delivery room and plan what kind of cigar they'll bring to the birth (jokes).
Katie has extreme giggle disease throughout this episode, since the lack of calories has apparently made her go completely bananas, but has learned not to laugh DIRECTLY into the microphone, for the most part. You're welcome, eardrums.
Jade makes Katie laugh really hard, schools The Boys on infant poop-tracking apps, and waxes poetic on the delights of yogurt, dates, and fruit. She also has perfect skin and eyebrows.
We also introduce a terrible (but also terribly informative) segment we like to call "Pat's Pervert Corner." You get to learn what a vagina pump is! It's a doozy - thank you for sticking with us. Email us with your favorite and/or most memorable pregnancy foods at hello@ibegyourpartumpod.com! We'll discuss them in a later episode!
Hi, I'm Katie and I'm Jade and we're pregnant and this is.
Speaker 2:I beg your pardon, and today we're talking about symptoms symptoms score.
Speaker 3:Yes, listen, yes, and we're going to get there. It's not like we trained in that or anything. I did not, are you?
Speaker 2:a theater kid? Oh, 100%. Yeah, this podcast, I mean, it's already perfect. I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 3:Okay. Well, I have this list of symptoms from the bump, which I would not. It's an app you can get which I would not have downloaded If Jade had not shown me um, are you okay?
Speaker 2:Walker had to check the plant's pulse.
Speaker 3:He was gently lifting the frond of the aloe plant up, so gently checking its heartbeat, oh, okay that's fine, all right. So distraction also a pregnancy symptom?
Speaker 2:that you didn't know about. So you wouldn't have known about the bump if you didn't have a nice younger, millennial friend to know I would.
Speaker 3:I knew about the bump because it's the post, the, not Right, it's the same company, so I did know that the bump was a. I just don't download apps like that because it I don't know freaks me out. They track you oh there's a lot of ads on it. So like 100 million percent, they're tracking my shit and I don't. I don't love that, Um, but yeah. So I wouldn't have downloaded unless you show, if you didn't show me that kick ass visual that it has where you can see the baby develop each week and it's this like you can.
Speaker 3:it's 3d and you can look at it and you can look at it in your uterus shrimp. It also looks like a shrimp, but the shrimp has little paddles, oh my.
Speaker 2:God, when it got to it was five or six weeks and you could see it's a little heart beating. I stared at that like so much Right, it's wild.
Speaker 3:It's so crazy, yeah, so that I definitely still have that, and it's it's it's the culprit for why everyone is like your baby is the size of this small fruit, and then this other fruit, and then the next size of fruit, and fruit only the way to describe your baby because ladies like fruit Is that, is that what it?
Speaker 2:is Well, that's all we're allowed to eat.
Speaker 3:Oh, yes, of course.
Speaker 2:Wait. So what's the size of your baby? This weight, tina. I actually I strawberry.
Speaker 3:Okay, think where it's strawberry Nice.
Speaker 1:Right 1.6 inches.
Speaker 3:One crown to rump length, 1.6 inches. Amazing, we're at naval orange.
Speaker 2:See, you knew the fruit immediately. I did because I keep eating naval oranges and being like huh yeah.
Speaker 3:I I am traditionally not a fruit girly. Like I like a smoothie, I don't hate, fruit, just not like daily fruit, no daily vegetables. Yes, currently fruit is the best thing in my life, oh my, God yes. Strawberries, pineapple, green grapes Fuck a red grape, okay, fuck them. Only green grapes, crunchy tart only, oh honey, crisp apples.
Speaker 2:Bra, oh shit, cravings that was. That was an early one, and I think it might have been peaches too, where I was like how does this taste so good?
Speaker 3:Right Like it's.
Speaker 2:It's better than normal and sweet potatoes. I would like kill someone for a sweet potato at any moment.
Speaker 3:We have one at the home. Oh, you have some here, yeah, baked.
Speaker 2:Or boiled, just however. I can get it in. Mash them, put them in a stew, yeah.
Speaker 3:Got it With butter and salt man Delicious. That is traditionally something that I like very much, but I'm still in the. I can barely eat. Everything is disgusting, except for fruit and fruit and pat.
Speaker 2:And maybe a.
Speaker 3:PB and J. Okay, yeah, we went. We had the PB and J phase, so I guess we could talk about that before I do the 10, the bumps list of 10 surprising pregnancy symptoms no one warns you about. Yeah, so the food craving have been there since. Obviously, if you listen to the last episode, since the first day of pregnancy, yeah, the prosciutto was bad, the goat cheese is bad, meats are suspect. I think you had like a. If I smell the beef I will puke face.
Speaker 2:Yes, and it's like oftentimes over now we had like a steak dinner with Walker's family and I was like I got through like a few bites and was like, okay, I'm done.
Speaker 4:But it's yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's just it tastes so I wasn't good with meat beforehand, so like I'm working on it.
Speaker 3:Well, is this due to the fact that steak should really nice. Steak at a steakhouse should never be well done and you have to eat it well done?
Speaker 2:It's also that, like I, was so jealous of Walker's ribeye, oh my God. I had my little filet that's cooked all the way through.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I'm having a hard time with fully cooked eggs. I scrambled eggs are okay, I can, it's fine, but like man fried egg bun.
Speaker 2:Yes, I ate a runny egg the other day because they served it to me at end.
Speaker 1:You just weren't thinking.
Speaker 2:And I, yeah, I just ate it. It was. It was earlier on in the pregnancy.
Speaker 3:You're alive, See, like you people won't die Right. And I was eat one thing that we're not supposed to eat.
Speaker 2:Yes and I like cold Walker and was like I fucked up, but everything was fine.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I think I'm sure that I have eaten an egg yolk without thinking about it at some point. No have I not Okay.
Speaker 1:You, you, you are, you are committed, you are you basically for the for the few times a day that you actually feel like eating food? You follow all the rules. You have never broken them once.
Speaker 3:No, I did, I did break them. I smoked a tiny bit of my stupid lost Mary vape, like two days after I found out.
Speaker 2:Oh no, oh, my God, the police are going to be after.
Speaker 3:I know the police are coming.
Speaker 1:I that's a nicotine.
Speaker 3:I actually probably be better if it was weed like I don't know whatever. I guess that's illegal or whatever.
Speaker 1:To get tested by the frickin OBGYN. Oh yeah, oh shit.
Speaker 3:It's out of my system it's fine, oh my God. No, so yeah. So the cravings have been intense. Yeah, I went through a phase of of eating peanut butter and jelly only strawberry jelly, seedless smuckers, strawberry jam oh skippy, natural peanut butter, farmhouse home style oat bread, pepperage farm that sounds really good, lux. It's good Sometimes if you toast it like in a little pan. A little butter in a pan, oh my God, like a little gooey in there. Oh, you had the uncrustables phase I did. Do you eat them frozen?
Speaker 2:I read about this. Yes, and so you like crunch into the peanut butter.
Speaker 3:I don't know. This will never happen to me. I don't think I could eat one.
Speaker 2:So I used to buy them at the grocery store in like the hot summer days of South Georgia and then like bust them out in the car and eat like a frozen uncrustable in like my 200 degree car and be like yes this is the greatest thing that's ever happened.
Speaker 3:That does sound delightful.
Speaker 2:It was nice, are you the?
Speaker 3:strawberry or the grape girl, Because there is a. There's a controversy.
Speaker 2:I grew up with grape, so I do grape, yeah, okay.
Speaker 3:I love this, yeah, but that's in cereal honey, bunches of oats currently. Crap, crap, crap, crap, crap, crap and crunch.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I'm just crunching, oh God.
Speaker 3:Oh no, he's not going to stop calling me that. Okay, all right.
Speaker 1:Get those crunch berries worked.
Speaker 3:No, I specifically did not trigger warning poop, did not get the crunch berries kind, because it does turn your poop like a weird blue green.
Speaker 2:Oh boy, if you have normal poops anyway, I need.
Speaker 3:All right. So do you have anything else you want to say about the food cravings? What have I been?
Speaker 1:craving. Have they changed since you entered the second trimester? Yeah, any changes since the second trimester.
Speaker 2:So I hit the second trimester last Wednesday, so I've had the solid eight days here. Day one, I like, wanted to eat the entire contents of a Publix. I got a sushi roll like a cooked sushi roll Cooked sushi roll people. It was like a shrimp tempura with like the crazy, like sauce and mayo and stuff on it and I was like in heaven eating it and was like getting sad that it was eventually going to be gone.
Speaker 3:I really miss that feeling Like when you really love. Like. I think that's what I hate the most about this and we can probably talk about more of the intersection of the eating disorder garbage with all of this at another time but, like, I think that's the thing I hate the most about being nauseated even though I hate being nauseated, period Like the queez is flocking rough, it's also exhausting, but what I miss the most is like enjoying that moment. You were just talking about where you're like I got this food that I really wanted and I'm tasting it and it tastes exactly like what I want it to taste like.
Speaker 3:And it's like it's very specific pleasure that is out of reach right now.
Speaker 2:Yes, I totally get it.
Speaker 3:So I can't. I'm really waiting to be in the second trimester so I can be like really enjoying things Right.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and so we had. I had a sushi roll and piggies in a blanket. Yum, that evening. Fantastic, it's like little Pillsbury croissant, yeah, wrapped around the tiny little piggies. Yes, that was fantastic. And then, oh my gosh, there was something else Greek yogurt and berries. Oh my God, I wanted a smoothie, like so bad last week. What kind? Just like any, like fruity smoothie, sure, and that was a difficult one, because if you speaking of eating disorders, when you look at the sugar amount and like a smoothie, or you like pick up on the shelf at Whole Foods like an ardent's garden or something, there is more sugar in that than there is in the glucose test they give you at the doctor. Oh really.
Speaker 2:And I was like I like cannot do this, and so I got like a bunch of frozen fruit instead and just ate like frozen cherries and mangoes.
Speaker 3:Did you eat the frozen like straight?
Speaker 2:frozen. Yeah, it was great, I loved it.
Speaker 3:I'm having like brain freeze thinking about that, oh yeah.
Speaker 2:Wow, but I was doing that before. I was pregnant as well.
Speaker 3:No, no, I just it's weird, like I don't think it's actually weird, nothing Eat food that you like to eat. I have never no judgment right. I just I like would never think to do that.
Speaker 2:Yeah, speaking of that was my main issue with the glucose test was I kept getting a brain freeze because they're like, drink this in five minutes and they give you something that's like ice cold, really Out of the refrigerator.
Speaker 3:I thought it was like a teeny, tiny, like little Dixie cup worth of stuff.
Speaker 2:No, it was like a, like a colonoscopy thing, a bottle thing, yeah, not like a gallon, okay good. But I was like trying to throw it back and kept having to like take a break because my brain was like frozen. You passed it, I passed it. You made a fucking A people.
Speaker 3:Yes.
Speaker 2:And that that was like a big victory in itself. That was kind of like hindering me in the first trimester because I just was convinced I was going to have gestational diabetes. I've had like insulin resistant PCOS my entire life, fuck. So like even pre pregnancy like, and it sucks with like the eating disorder shit too. But it was like I was having to be so careful with sugar.
Speaker 3:Right, that's not fun to like go from. I don't have to count my calories anymore. Hooray to like I have to watch every sugar thing that goes into my mouth.
Speaker 2:Yeah, down to fruit Right and so like, yeah, naval oranges are like my thing right now and I was like feeling guilty about eating oranges the other day. I've got to calm down Like this is not it, but yeah, so like I would have eaten chocolate and popcorn for the entire first trimester and pretty sure, but I was like I need to like be relatively okay. I had a ton of dates that was. You didn't like the date, so yeah like fuck, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:I would eat dates with like fruit and yogurt. That was like the tried and true, like when I didn't work. It was like I'll just do another round of yogurt. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I love yogurt.
Speaker 3:This makes me feel so good on the inside.
Speaker 2:All right, jamie Lee Curtis, I'm going to talk about trauma next Speaking about like, but not being regular in the slightest, oh no, no, it is really bad Pad tie.
Speaker 3:I would smash some pod tie right now. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, I would like to go to basil.
Speaker 4:Yeah, but then we have my brothers, that's right, you socialites, whatever.
Speaker 2:Yeah, we've been eating a lot of meows like egg drop soup is like.
Speaker 3:I had. I never had egg drop soup until Patrick introduced me to egg drop soup. I don't even know what the fuck that is I have, so go.
Speaker 1:I don't think I've ever made you my egg drop soup.
Speaker 3:No, you should do that, you should make me that.
Speaker 1:That was like one of my budget meals in college. I'm going to save up money to see you.
Speaker 3:So we're about to have budget time going to happen, so we're going to eat egg soup so delicious.
Speaker 1:I love tofu.
Speaker 3:Tofu's been the only protein I am very interested in Interesting.
Speaker 4:Yes.
Speaker 3:That's amazing, but I've always liked tofu, like even kid. Since I was a kid, I like it. It's weird because it tastes like whatever you wanted to taste like and it's just. Most people have never had it cooked correctly.
Speaker 2:Correctly, yeah, right.
Speaker 3:I don't have any flavor, but it's a perfect. I don't know, I love it.
Speaker 2:Okay, do we want to hit this list? Yeah.
Speaker 3:Let's hit this list, okay. So yeah, crave is blah, blah, blah. All right, 10 surprising pregnancy symptoms. No one warned you about Jade. Did you sprout facial hair? Are you having any hair hairs in places?
Speaker 2:you did not have hairs before I don't know if they're in places they weren't before but they're definitely more aggressive, Really yeah.
Speaker 3:Like the thickness to the hair, the face hair I was talking about Do you have a mustache?
Speaker 2:or like a burly hair at all. Walker might disagree. I was like I don't have a mustache, Don't do this.
Speaker 3:I'm like he's not inserting himself in front of me.
Speaker 2:It's really refreshing to me that, like you don't know this about me because I like feel like it's so obvious all the time but you and me and one of our friends and Walker, were hanging out at the coffee shop the other day and I was so worried because the sun was shining in the window that everyone was just going to see like the hair all over my face.
Speaker 3:Oh my God. No, also, we're supposed to have hair on our face Also.
Speaker 2:Your skin is gorgeous, thanks, Thanks, but yeah, I like have to shave all the hair off my face every morning. Do you not have to deal with that?
Speaker 3:What are you talking about? Are you serious? Yeah, like the little derma plane things, it was like teeny, tiny little baby raisin Are you using my like you shave your face, yes, every single day.
Speaker 2:Otherwise I would have like dark, black hairs and like patches on my face.
Speaker 3:So I have two moles on my face that sprout long curly witch hairs, and then I have the sparsest eyebrows of all time and I'm so jealous of your eyebrows.
Speaker 4:This is.
Speaker 3:Nace Up. Look at his nice kind face, being confused. I never thought anything about your eyebrows ever. That's totally normal. You are man, that's true.
Speaker 1:And you know, since we're not the stars of the show, you know like we just you know we're retreating into ourselves and okay, from our mirrors.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I'm so jealous of all this attention you're getting.
Speaker 2:I think if Walker got any more attention in his life, he would just die. He would just grow a turtle shell and swoop into it.
Speaker 3:Cannot handle it, he pulls himself into his turtleneck Like a cold penis. All right, so no, I'm not. Nothing is different is happening with my hair at all. No hair on my, I mean. I sometimes I'll shave the little teeny things here at the edges, like the very top of your lip, on the very sides yeah, but that's not none of that is new. And I pluck the little hair. I have one on the side of my face and one the little moles which moles that I talked about are like on the side of my face in a way that I cannot see them when I look straight on in the mirror. So I actually have a horrifying story from being at the governor's school for visual arts of like the cute boyfriend.
Speaker 3:Actually it was not cute. I don't know why I said cute, the boyfriend that I had. He one day we were hanging out in like the rec room and he comes up to me and that we were talking to people and he pulls it. He like cause it's long and curly. But seriously, when I it's on the side of my face, like closer to my ear, like up here on my jawline, and he pulls the hair straight and I can see it like in my peripheral vision, oh no, and I was like what the fuck is that? What is that? And he's like I don't know what is it and like is laughing at me and showing it to people. So, yeah, I think about that mole a lot. Yeah, I would have liked that. It's like my little thing. I like I don't, I don't bite my nails, I don't like none of the normal, like little nervous tick things, but I pull at that little hair. No, yeah, yeah, childhood trauma, okay.
Speaker 2:So no facial hair. This has been a really healing week from my facial hair issues. This is the second time it's come up. I've genuinely been like so ashamed, and everyone's like I've never even thought about it or noticed it.
Speaker 3:Also can I just say, like from a microbiome standpoint, like the hairs on your face are like there to protect your eyes there for your immune system. All the little hairs in your nose like this is all very good for you.
Speaker 2:And I don't think. I don't know. Yeah, they're not. Yes, not a big deal.
Speaker 3:I got a facial once and they shaved all the little peach fuzz hairs off my face and I couldn't fucking stand it. But I think that's like a sensory problem. Okay, yeah, I think a good poop might seem like a distant memory. This is currently happening to me. I do not like it. I did not poop for four days. I hated it so much. Sugar warning for poop.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it's for the next. Like 15 minutes. Oh Lord, I'm yeah, I should probably pay more attention to how often I'm actually pooping.
Speaker 3:You're gonna be writing it down a lot when the baby is here. Yeah, I'm gonna go with the whole you have to write down every time they poop Data button things for you like diaper slaps.
Speaker 3:Yeah, they have buttons. Now what? Yeah, we'll show you. Yeah, why? Because you have to write down every time they eat exactly what time, just like you have to do with my dad when it's taking care of him with dementia. Like, did he have a bowel movement, did he not? You know, did he eat, did he not? Do you take his meds, did he not?
Speaker 2:Is it primarily?
Speaker 3:for, like the pediatrician, you just need to know because you I think it's because you're sleep deprived we're gonna find out about this. We're gonna be great moms and dads.
Speaker 4:We're gonna figure this out.
Speaker 1:Don't worry about it.
Speaker 3:But I know Don't worry about us.
Speaker 1:That was an important like day of like needing to know whether or not it happened, but like if it's a week later I'm like, oh my God, he shit at 6 pm and now it's 7 pm.
Speaker 3:I don't think it needs to be like that, but I think we you'd have to have enough data to understand. Is this happening regularly? Are they getting enough food, Like? Are they processing Like? It's just like really important information to like keep track of.
Speaker 2:I also know that babies go through a phase where they only shit every like three or four days or something, and so, like I remember, I had a friend who was like any day now it's gonna happen, and like it's gonna be we're waiting.
Speaker 3:it's gonna be an explosion. Yeah, when it happens, it's what babies just shit all the time.
Speaker 4:Yeah, they go through three or four days.
Speaker 2:I think they do. At the beginning, I wanna say her baby was like five to six months or something and it was like going through progression or something like that.
Speaker 3:I don't know. We're gonna find out. We're gonna know all about it so soon.
Speaker 2:It's gonna be a notebook Exactly.
Speaker 3:So yeah, we need the apps.
Speaker 1:We continued in a bigger postpartum. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3:Right, yes, I love you. Oh, my God, all right. So yeah, constipation.
Speaker 1:Like drinking coffee, just like.
Speaker 4:Baby didn't shit today, not again. Good.
Speaker 2:The baby starts babbling and we're like into the mic, into the mic, baby Ready, no.
Speaker 1:Never be a start. We talked about this you went through media training.
Speaker 4:I did not.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so progesterone makes you not poop, but also are not. My nausea has been so bad.
Speaker 3:Your nausea was so bad that we were both popping that Zofran, yeah, which I've been calling Zofram. I've been calling Zofram. I've been calling Zofram. I've been calling Zofram. I've been calling Zofram. I've been calling Zofram. I've been calling Zofram.
Speaker 2:I just thought you were right. I changed my ways when you started spelling it.
Speaker 3:Well, my sister-in-law is a nurse and she's a very fancy nurse and she like slowly she said Zofran like a couple different times because she's not going to outright correct me, but I'm like, no, she knows what she's doing, she's smart, yeah. So we were eating that and then I switched over in order to poop. I've switched over to half the unisom and a full B6, which is like the anti-naja over-the-counter combo. That's like perfectly safe.
Speaker 2:Is that?
Speaker 3:working. It has worked fairly well, Okay You're Kind of just. It's almost like cycling, Like it's like I can take, I don't know I hear that it's kind of also hit or miss, like sometimes the Zofran is still like nope, fuck you. Yeah, lay on the ground and cry instead Like I don't care, oh my gosh, oh yeah, so even with fiber and stuff, it's just been terrible. I have a technique which I'm happy to share with people but it's graphic.
Speaker 2:I've discovered some things too. Tell me your technique. I just sometimes say you need to lean in different directions. I'm literally never experienced conservation in my life, me either. I can see.
Speaker 3:Like maybe once or twice maybe so, katie.
Speaker 1:I'll just add that you bought the again, like in the house young days of us thinking that this was a possibility. Before we gave up on it being a possibility, before it became a reality, you bought squatty potties for the entire house. Do we know what these are?
Speaker 3:Yeah, squatty potties For those who don't know, are just little stools that are not terribly ugly. I got the nice kind with little like here looking legs and like white I don't know, nice heavy white acrylic plastic or whatever, and so, yeah, so you have your knees real high up when you poop.
Speaker 2:And it like aligns your colon or whatever, right.
Speaker 3:So the reason I got it was because I was terrified of having pelvic floor issues. At post pregnancy, or like during or whatever, because it was like pinging my pants is preventable, so this is part of it. And so, apparently, apparently, if you, if someone told the baby, boomers.
Speaker 3:No, no, no, no, they haven't. This is the problem. So I'm very passionate about this and I'm very excited to see the pelvic floor therapist that we're going to go see. But so the piece of physical therapist told me she just wishes that if everybody would put their feet flat on the ground when they pee and poop, that they we won't have pelvic floor issues. Oh my God, like just don't, don't do anything weird Like I do, like I put my little tippy toes up Me too. Right, like balance or something I don't know. But yeah, put your feet flat on the ground to do it, and so squatty potty.
Speaker 3:you're still flat footed, but your knees are higher up because it's a little stool.
Speaker 2:Yeah, we need to get a squatty potty again. I think we threw ours away. Right, it got moldy oh grody yeah. It was like over the air vents.
Speaker 3:Oh yeah, yeah. Yeah, that makes sense. Yeah, just need a little lice. All baby, you're gonna be fine.
Speaker 2:That's a really good tip, though, yeah, right.
Speaker 3:So we'll, we'll, we'll be back with more tips after we take this class in. February with the very cool pelvic floor therapist.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah. I'm so super stoked about that, yeah, and two other unlucky couples who get to hang out with us every week for six weeks get to learn from like a doula, a lactation specialist, a night nurse and a pelvic floor person.
Speaker 4:Oh yeah, holistic.
Speaker 2:I think there's like a postpartum therapist in there too, or something. Fuck yeah, it's gonna be fun. I'm so excited I know I am too To have informed birds.
Speaker 2:Right, a holistic approach yes, pregnant, so I did. I was supposed to be having like a business call with a new person yesterday and then I told her I was pregnant and she was like, just went on and on about like her birth experiences. Oh, was that good or bad? It was really good. Good. She was like she'd gotten up a girl and her and her husband were just like joking around and laughing like the whole time until the nurse came in and was like you're ready to go? And then like she had the baby and it was like amazing. And then the next one. That's not gonna happen for me.
Speaker 2:And then the next one she had to have an emergency C section and they like asked if they wanted like a clear curtain so they could watch. And she was, like would you?
Speaker 4:watch and her husband was like absolutely not, I would want you to watch?
Speaker 3:Yeah, of course, is that weird.
Speaker 1:So when I wouldn't want to watch my little sister, would you want to watch she was. She was over 10 pounds and like something happened to me Something happened with my mom. I don't, I don't remember like the. They never, my parents never gave me the details, but basically my dad recounted, basically like standing, literally like with his shoes, like soaked in her blood. Oh, essentially like she's pushing and there's just blood gushing out of her vagina as like a, as like a crown, as being pushed through as well.
Speaker 3:All right? Well, that happens, you'll be fine.
Speaker 1:Basically full of your mother's blood is what he told me.
Speaker 3:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:I don't want to, I don't want to, I don't want to miss that oh okay.
Speaker 2:That's a different story, sorry.
Speaker 3:Well Walker, would you want to watch, or would that be too weird for you? Or would you have to make decision in the moment, or like like are you that interested in like seeing the baby like?
Speaker 1:I'm interested in C-section. We all know.
Speaker 3:We're going to have like a pervert pat warning too.
Speaker 4:I don't. I got to think of a better way to say this, but what immediately comes to mind is I don't really care. Okay, Like I. I will just no, no, no, no, no.
Speaker 3:Like I was going to be outside with cigars, like in the fucking 60s. Like like like, if you want me to watch a watch.
Speaker 4:If you don't want to watch a watch, if you don't want me to watch, I won't watch, like I don't. I just I'm just going to do whatever everybody decides I should do. You know, it's not, it's just not that important to me. I just, I just want there to be a baby that's like healthy, and we take it home and, yes, the process is sort of yeah, yeah okay, I'm with that.
Speaker 1:Oh wait, in in pregnancy, day by day, there was that, that statistic where they basically said in this, in the 60s, only 6% of fathers actually, like, attended the birth.
Speaker 4:I.
Speaker 2:Where's my?
Speaker 1:dinner. It's like yep like like yeah, hope she comes home ready to cook.
Speaker 4:They're just like ripping sags, neat and TV dinners.
Speaker 1:I was like six percent what?
Speaker 2:That is wild actually I wonder if, like a lot of the women, didn't want their husbands.
Speaker 4:And.
Speaker 1:I didn't even know she was pregnant.
Speaker 2:We didn't talk about things like that.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's incredible to take about another reds.
Speaker 2:I, I, I want you to be like near my face, you know. So, like when the baby is like placed on me, it's like oh, look at us, you know? Yeah, I don't want you like seeing the like Freddy Kruger scene of my vijine.
Speaker 4:So my mom told me that One of my uncle's friends. This is a long, long time ago, but one of my uncle's friends.
Speaker 2:He was one of the six percent.
Speaker 4:Watched the his wife give birth. Yeah, and it like ruined their sex life. Yes, this is also, I think, a thing that people talk about and like it sounds terrible, but apparently they like went to therapy like he tried to make. It was not, it was not, he wasn't being just a little fucking dick yeah okay, yeah, yeah, yeah. I really don't want this to be a problem and they tried everything and it just was a problem for them.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I don't know. I have like, I mean like instinctually very little sympathy, but I also I also understand why it happened. Here comes the judgment I'm such a dick, I'm so sorry. I don't know this guy at all. No, no, no, no. But no, it actually does make sense to me because the vast majority of people that is having a full conception. Am I just the most katie's anger thing that I'm?
Speaker 3:sorry, I'm traumatized to like Katie, it's just like whatever, I don't care, yeah, so I I understand why, though? Because, culturally, the concept that like mothers, it's that like, uh, the the triad of like, uh, maiden, maiden, or virgin mother, whore or, excuse me, um, and then like crone, right, so it's like, so crone is like a very old woman, so, like Women only fall into like these different categories, and you can't both be like a mother and Like a, like a maternal kind of figure, and like the maiden, which is kind of the like virginal, virginal, sexy, young Person, right, and so then they equate. There's a lot of it that's like oh, now you're a mom and your vagina is not just for my penis, is pleasure only. So now I feel weird about your vagina.
Speaker 4:Yeah.
Speaker 2:I think maiden mother whore would have been a really great extra alternative name to the podcast.
Speaker 4:That's the next one. Right, just watch out Um but it is interesting, like I have no clue, you know psychologically like what was going on, but it is. It is sort of interesting to think like why I can some people see that and it they're and it's no problem.
Speaker 3:Yeah, so my immediate theory, which is probably wrong, is that is that, uh, some men see women as women and some men see women as people, which, like I think, I think you know, we very luckily have the husbands that fall into women or people category and not, like women, are vessels or women are Sex objects or women, right it. It turns them into like 2d characters, right. So I think that's that's why I have little sympathy for that man. Sorry to that man.
Speaker 2:I doubt he'll listen to this.
Speaker 4:It's fine, no he'll hear it's gonna be like my uncle was like 70. This guy might be dead.
Speaker 3:And that's why I had to have a lot of sex workers in his life.
Speaker 1:Okay, I tried to like, lean into, like with you, especially like, like you know, like, like, sort of like, like making Like, like, like recognizing how miraculous childbirth was, and, and you were just like I'm gonna shit on the table and she's. That is the fact of pregnancy that you have repeated to me the most. Of any single thing in all of this. Well you, you better be there when I shit on the table.
Speaker 2:Where else would you be?
Speaker 3:I'm very sorry. Probably it's probably me like enuring myself to the concept that this is gonna happen, but like I'm preparing myself that this will happen because even though I'm happy to talk about my constipation relief technique and like fine to talk about poop some, but I generally this is not Great territory for me. I hear that, like most things, I'm not, but I think it's just like programmed southern stuff where we don't you don't even call it a bathroom. You say I need to go to the restroom. Yes, only yeah. No, it's not restful currently.
Speaker 2:That reminds me I was watching this is gonna age so well already has. I was watching like a bill cosby special like a stand-up special as a child and that's how I like learned about childbirth.
Speaker 3:Are you kidding me?
Speaker 2:He was talking about how like surprise, um, like his wife had like her feet up in like the stirrups or whatever, yeah, when she was giving birth. And that's all I needed to know, to know that I would never be a mother.
Speaker 3:That was like you're horrified by this concept that you would have your like feet up in stirrups.
Speaker 2:Yeah, anyone would be like looking in that region and obviously I had to get over this at some point in my life.
Speaker 3:So you had kind of an opposite childhood situation where I was literally present in the room for my brother's birth oh my god, who was 10 pounds 11 ounces and I drew a picture about it and the picture was a picture of me, of mom, like lying on the bed and then like dad and me and my godmother Ruthie, all who were in the room and. The picture had the title at the bottom and all the way around the edge of the paper where it said mommy said that's beautiful.
Speaker 2:I hope she still has it does she does have that yep drawing.
Speaker 3:Yeah so no, I so no. I witnessed the birth at five.
Speaker 2:Wow, yeah, I just witnessed Bill Cosby.
Speaker 1:Oh god.
Speaker 2:Fuck me. Oh my god, I do hear that the uh, we're a consent pro consent podcast. Yes the labor and delivery nurses will just straight up lie to you if you shit while you give them. They do just tell me if you're like, did I poop? They'll be like no, just yeah nothing's, only a baby, a clean baby.
Speaker 3:I already making plans to like have a liquid diet like very.
Speaker 4:Yes, we know like evolutionarily why we shit like like. Why do we shit after we die, why do we ship when we?
Speaker 3:well, I know, I know that one Like that one, I do know, because we're you're just having, well, you shit when you're scared so that you can run. You're just like get it out fast lighter. We got to go Run away from predator, right. So like same. So that same like neurological loop, uh happens. But I think there's also something that happens when you're like, if you're talking about when people are like hanged or whatever, oh I think everybody when they die, they uh.
Speaker 1:There's elimination of some sort. But I mean, if you think about, like the, the amount of, like Musketeer, that like holds your, your your. Bm in. You know, like, like, of course, like, as like if you had to pee even in the slightest bit right now, and and like somebody just like, like, put you on morphine Right you just all yeah, you just evacuate, you know.
Speaker 3:That make that make sense to me. So I think that's, I think yeah, so I think that's what's happened, because you're pushed, I mean all of that is connected. You're literally pushing exactly the same way you would push out a poop. That's the whole. Your pelvic floor is also keeping your poop in.
Speaker 4:I guess you got to push so hard that it's like it's coming out. There's no, you don't get like a.
Speaker 3:Yeah, this isn't like how, like in this, like strippers can do like one butt cheek and the other butt cheek and like you know, like the, that incredible stuff like you we can't do that with. Like vagina versus anus, like that's not possible, or maybe it is, but we haven't reached that level. Maybe we'll learn that in pelvic floor class right have not poop, your we're gonna have like people call in be like katie. You don't know the answer to anything.
Speaker 2:I'm looking forward to how many people we have offended, or or how many things we've said wrong at this point ready.
Speaker 4:I'm sure they'll solve that problem and you'll just be like. You know, when I had you, I had to.
Speaker 3:Yes, exactly. Oh, this is a fun one. The next one is your vagina will swell up.
Speaker 2:Okay, that one. I don't think that's happened. I don't.
Speaker 3:I don't know. I don't like look at it all the time and currently I'm like bloated. My tits are so big that, like I can't see anything, I can't see my feet. My boobs are too big, I can't see my feet. I'm sad, okay, yeah, so I don't know about that one. Oh, it's like in this little paragraph it says it's about like discomfort, level of swelling.
Speaker 2:Okay so that's not happening.
Speaker 3:And that you can apply a cool pack. Oh, I don't want to.
Speaker 1:No, oh a pass and a cycle.
Speaker 3:That's not happening, yeah.
Speaker 1:Do you know about like, like vaginal, like pumping, like, like what you apply, like a suction cup basically, and you're basically it's like same as like penis pumps?
Speaker 3:Oh, like in the Austin penis pump in Austin.
Speaker 1:yeah, yeah, you can you can, you can pump your vagina. You can basically like oh not vagina.
Speaker 3:You can just like.
Speaker 1:An enormous like mons, basically.
Speaker 3:So your mons pubis just gets huge Like rush of blood. It's got to be your vulva and your mons pubis.
Speaker 2:Yes, yeah, okay, and that was that's perf corner.
Speaker 3:I'm not, I I like, I'm not even going to ask. That's perf corner.
Speaker 1:This happens all the time in Germany.
Speaker 3:Oh no, well, I don't have one of those pumps. No, that hasn't happened. And then you can also get a varicose vein down there. All that blood flow coursing through your vaginal area increases your, increases your chance of getting vulva varicose. I don't need to worry about varicose veins in my vulva.
Speaker 2:I can't even talk to them about that, or even worrying about that. Who?
Speaker 1:cares, nobody likes the vein.
Speaker 2:Yeah, they do, but they're products for that too.
Speaker 3:Probably, oh my God, you'll probably get really gassy, gassy. Yeah, I'm not gassy, I had one. I'm Belchy, that's true. Yeah, that does qualify.
Speaker 2:Yeah, but I mean I also like drink club soda. I can't always.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I do have, because it really I think that is the most discomfort that I am in. It's like a, it's like a burp where you can like feel whatever you ate a little bit, because I'm not puking. I'm like it's like right right in the esophageal area and I'm just kind of and then, I'm like the little burp, and then I, and then I cry.
Speaker 2:Do you dry heave? Are you like yacking, like coughing Well?
Speaker 3:I the cough I do. But I do that because I still compulsively like when I brush my teeth, I brush my tongue all the way far back and I've done that since I can remember, like as a teenager, like I'll make myself gag when I'm brushing my teeth and a yeah, and then that's actually. That's the one of the two times I've puked. For real was brushing my teeth, oh man.
Speaker 4:Really, yeah, did you really do that to yourself? Yeah, I thought I was such a weirdo.
Speaker 3:Yes, I don't want to tell you why I started doing that, because I don't think it's the same reason.
Speaker 4:Probably different reasons. Oh my God.
Speaker 3:Yeah, but I've had not a lot of toots or farts, just one extremely terrible one. It's like so bad, it was memorable.
Speaker 2:Oh, my God.
Speaker 3:We're getting real. Okay, oh, you might drool a lot. Did you get the weird like I have lots of spit in my mouth thing?
Speaker 2:Yes, what the fuck is that? Yeah, it didn't last very long but I did find maybe I just got used to it, but like I would be talking like I am now and would like have spit coming out of my mouth, like gathering on the sides of my mouth. So and it was happening a lot in like meetings or like when I was reporting and stuff like that like long stretches of talking and I was like, oh, this is happening, that's not something.
Speaker 3:Did you know that it was a pregnancy symptom?
Speaker 2:Yeah, I already knew when I was pregnant at the time, so I knew.
Speaker 3:See, I had never heard of this. I don't think I have that much of it, but I do. I got like really weird sweet breath for a while. Interesting, and we think Patrick actually does think, though, that that's because not due to like gingivitis or that weird teeth softening situation. You think it is because of that? No, we think it's because of the, because I was eating so very little Because nothing of the peanut butter and cereal, peanut butter jelly sandwich and cereal phase that that gave me like ketosis like that.
Speaker 1:It was basically like starving.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah that could have been it.
Speaker 1:One of the bizarre like indications that basically like that your in ketosis is like this sort of weird sweet, smelling breath that smells sort of like overripe apples Interesting, which essentially kind of fit the description. Freaking, so I was like what's with my morning breath? And I was like, yeah, it's different. But I was like I thought about it. I was like, you know, kind of sweet and weird, like I used to get breath like that when I was like Mr CrossFit and like paleo all the time.
Speaker 2:Yeah. So, Interesting Freaking. I did get like severe dry mouth and that happened before I knew I was pregnant and that was weird. It was like, because that reminds me of like keto-iness as well.
Speaker 4:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Like it can make you just have like the driest mouth ever. And I went out and got a Stanley and was, just, like you know, stuck to it all the time, but that went away too.
Speaker 3:I just can possibly have something to drink at all times.
Speaker 4:And if I?
Speaker 3:don't I kind of panic a little? Yeah or the gun, excuse me, see fucking burps. But yeah, there's, there's a couple more, oh, there's two more. No lightning crotch.
Speaker 2:That hasn't happened to me either. Like shooting pain in your like a vulva? Area I have a friend who that happened to and. I get wouldn't stop, cause her baby was like sitting on her, like sciatic nerve.
Speaker 3:So that's like later in pregnancy? Yeah, yep, that sounds. I've had like weird little shooting pains, but I wouldn't call it lightning grudge.
Speaker 2:I've had round ligament pain Round.
Speaker 3:So what is that again?
Speaker 2:So I think it started around six weeks and it would be like when I like stood up or something, I would get like pain on like my sides, like where your obliques would be like oblique, like muscley sides. Yeah, I guess so.
Speaker 3:Okay.
Speaker 2:Side of belly. Okay, and that freaked me the fuck out. That was the only time I've like called the doctor and been like what is going on? Cause it was so early, but it was all fine. And now, like today, they were like bad because, it's like. This is like the span of time where your like uterus is like stretching Right, Right and tilting and growing. I had like like today, like tugging on my uterus, feeling like it was like is this okay. And I, like, googled it and it was fine.
Speaker 3:But yeah, I think that's very normal right now from the pregnancy day by day book. Yes, so I know, oh my gosh. Yeah, mine's been kind of weird little random crampies, but nothing that bad. Are you peeing your pants? You might pee your pants a little. No, no, great me neither.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I think they might have been a close call once or twice.
Speaker 1:Does this indicate like where in pregnancy this occurs, or is this throughout?
Speaker 3:Yeah, it's throughout. These are all different times in pregnancy. First you might a little yeah Shit, again the oh my God, and then the last one is you'll break out in a sweat. Any temperature regulation issues or sweating issues?
Speaker 2:No, and I keep waiting for it. I have another friend who's like I'm a furnace, and it started at like 12 weeks and I've been freezing.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I am normally overheated very easily and I have been the coldest I've ever been, but I think again due to the fact that I might actually literally be starving. Yeah which is not normal for me.
Speaker 2:I eat plenty of food normally, but like I will wear like a sweater to bed and then have like three extra blankets on my side. Oh yeah, those casual socks you got me are all fucking amazing.
Speaker 3:I love them. I've been wearing them constantly. I wish I had them on right now, I know, and I'm sad I don't have them.
Speaker 2:But I'll make Walker turn the fan off and give me like 30 minutes to warm up before he like turns the fan back on.
Speaker 3:Y'all are endlessly patient and darling Patch, I'll be like Patch. Will you bring me the tea that I left four steps away, that I can't be bothered to reach and he'll just throw it. No he just brings me anything I want.
Speaker 2:I was about to say this is it. You can't be comparing, as that's the best.
Speaker 3:No, I know they're endlessly kind. I can feel it's so kind. This is truly everything I've ever wanted in terms of being able to just be a tiny little baby brat and get everything done for me. Yeah, it's great.
Speaker 2:Walker's been really awesome. Got me everything I want from the grocery store.
Speaker 3:Yes, and Patrick, I changed my mind a lot about food like normally, but this is like at an 11. Just, I think I want this thing. Will you make it for me? And then I switch a route to like Nope, potato leek soup now sounds gross, I'm not going to have that. And he made this delicious potato leek soup for me and we. I did not eat any of it. I ate Chipotle.
Speaker 2:Hell yeah, chipotle's been great.
Speaker 3:I just do like the rice and like guacamole.
Speaker 2:Doesn't sound too bad, it's fine.
Speaker 3:One day I'll enjoy a shrimp tempura sushi, like you, yeah.
Speaker 4:I was going to say you eat the whole bowl like you get all the stuff in it.
Speaker 2:Now I do. Yeah, I've had Chipotle, I think, twice this week and it's been like great.
Speaker 3:I think it's just like fatty and not like totally drowned in, but not like drowning, like oil fat Right, like like fajitas. Yeah, Fajitas Mexico.
Speaker 1:Yeah, was that, did you enjoy? Oh, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:And then Walker's making me and taco salad sea stays.
Speaker 3:Bra, that sounds good yeah.
Speaker 2:Lots of. I want a lot of Chinese food. It hasn't happened for me, but a lot of Mexican food has happened, just been great. Or a good Tex-Mex, a good breedable, oh yeah, good stuff.
Speaker 3:Well, I think that we've done a great job of talking about our symptoms. I'm sure we missed a lot of them. And then I know that we're very early. I'm very early in pregnancy, so I'm sure there are many more fun things to come, god, I hope not Well, I guess?
Speaker 2:I hope so. Yeah, they will, they will be good. Because, you're like waddling around.
Speaker 3:Yeah Well, and we're in a southern state that is hot, hot, hot, hot in the summer and humid, super famously hot and humid. So it's going to be bad, real bad. It's going to be bad Doing the summer.
Speaker 4:No, she's.
Speaker 3:June. I'm July. Yeah yeah, Terrible for me. The boob sweat, holy shit I cannot imagine. I'm going to have to make that the boob buttress thing. That. Patrick thinks is a stupid idea. That's okay.
Speaker 2:What was I going to tell you? Oh yeah, today, literally, I was going to tell you and then I was like I'm going to hold it in for the podcast. I think I started feeling the quickening. Are you familiar with this?
Speaker 3:No, Sounds like an A24 film Master of none, like the quickening it's happening.
Speaker 2:But that's the second, yeah, but this is the quickening. Okay, apparently that's what they call when you start to feel the baby. Finally, we were in anthropology and I was feeling this weird feeling on the left side of my bod and I was like that's not cramps, that's like something Hapement. Yeah, feels like little feetsies, and I looked it up and it's like, at this stage, like the earliest I'm feeling is like little flutters or whatever. And then I went and laid on my stomach and I was like on my computer in bed and it was like hello, it's like all of this going on, which is shocking because I have a little goose bump, I have an anterior placenta, so they're like, oh, you might not feel the baby at all, but I'm like, I'm almost positive, that's what it is. I don't, yeah, like I have the round ligament pain, but I like know what that feels like.
Speaker 3:Now, so I'm like what is this? I'm so stoked. That symptom is the one I'm ready for. Let's have the actual feeling of a live human thing.
Speaker 2:I know, oh my God. I have a friend who, like I think she's 22 weeks and she's like the kicking is constant. She's like it'll wake you up, Like it's all the time, she's like it's the best thing ever. But wild yeah, but I didn't realize it was all the time. I thought it was like oh, you just like feel a little kick once a day.
Speaker 3:Yeah, yeah, I didn't realize that I'm ready. I'm not, I'm really not prepared to be pregnant.
Speaker 2:Oh, God, I really was not expecting this. Yeah, I was like this morning I woke up and I was like I think I'm actually like showing, Like I don't think it's like cause I'll like suck in all the way like pressing in the morning and it's like, oh, there's something, there is something there, it's happening Are you taking pictures of yourself? No, and I should. I took one.
Speaker 3:I'm going to take another one this week because I actually I do. There's bloating. Yeah, but I do think there's something happening.
Speaker 2:Right, and I love to like hold my belly as I walk around. You know, if you just touch your belly when, like, you need cars to stop for you, they just will, which is great J. For getting into Chipotle faster. You know that Chipotle on Trinum Plaza. We have to risk your wife to get in there.
Speaker 3:No, no, it's Frogger. It's the worst, it's fucking terrible. Yeah, they don't like their job. I don't blame them. I'm sure it's terrible. It is disappointing yeah.
Speaker 1:And you expound what are the implications of an anterior liposytonia.
Speaker 3:Because of the implication. Yeah, okay, sorry.
Speaker 2:Okay, so do you know where your placenta is?
Speaker 3:No, no, I don't have one yet. It's not finished developing it's 10 pm.
Speaker 2:Do you?
Speaker 3:know where your placenta is.
Speaker 2:No. Four points. How many weeks are you? 10 weeks and five days, okay, so I found out almost exactly then too, because we did like a recreational ultrasound and she's like oh, you have like this boutique game that you go to which I don't I've only done it the one time and it's on Main Street and it's like 50 bucks and you can go get like videos and stuff of your baby and it's like fun. I don't know?
Speaker 3:Yeah, you got one on your birthday, right, yeah?
Speaker 2:And our doctor gave us a coupon to like go, so I don't know it was fun All right, but anyway, let's get tattoos.
Speaker 1:I would go hang out there, just go get tatted.
Speaker 3:Why would there be tattoos?
Speaker 1:Let's get tattoos.
Speaker 2:Of whatever the baby looks like.
Speaker 1:Yes.
Speaker 2:Yeah, the ultra.
Speaker 4:It's down the street from Epidian, so you could just.
Speaker 3:It is down the street from Patrick's most beloved place on earth, the tattoo shop run by kickass ladies, which is really, which is really, objectively cool.
Speaker 4:Yeah, tattoo of fetus on you.
Speaker 3:I think Shannon would kick you in the head.
Speaker 2:Oh, my God, okay, so typically actually it's 50 50, I found out, but they make it sound like it's so rare. My placenta is on like the outside of my uterus, so it's like closer to my stomach instead of my back.
Speaker 4:And so.
Speaker 3:Like your belly button.
Speaker 2:Yeah, so like it doesn't harm the baby. The only thing that would be negative is if, like, your placenta is covering your cervix and then, like you couldn't give birth. Right, I know, but that's not the problem. But, anyway like the baby's kicking the placenta instead of like my belly, so like it can take longer to like feel kicks, but you can still feel them.
Speaker 3:It's like the karate thing that the karate coach holds. It's kicking that. Yeah, that's immediately what I was thinking of. It's not a problem, no.
Speaker 2:Yeah, but it's also not that different. I I thought it was like you know, 2% of people have this or something, and I was like why me? And then I Google it and it's like this is fine, it just goes where it goes and it's fine Fuck yeah, oh, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2:It is crazy. I don't know what other ultrasounds look like, but like our latest one it's like the baby's there and then it's like placenta is like his little roof and it's so close to him. I was like, does he have enough room? Like, and he. They were like he's fine, but it just looks like his little like roof is caving in or something.
Speaker 1:This baby's not going to be claustrophobic, that's kind of he's just getting used to it by by the time that that that he goes to like like no attempt to own property.
Speaker 3:That's awesome. By the time our children own property, they will they will essentially be living in uterus.
Speaker 2:Right, like I, I prefer a five foot ceiling.
Speaker 3:Right they get close to weekends, him being good, right I was listening to our show, whoever you are. I'm so queasy I have to go lay down now All right.
Speaker 2:Well, bye, katie. Thanks for doing this. Bye, love you. Love you too.
Speaker 1:Thanks for watching this video.