Have you ever snuck away from a gathering, phone pressed to your ear, wondering if everyone's imagining the worst about your clandestine conversation? Jack and Chance chuckle over such phone faux pas and the comedy that ensues when privacy and suspicion collide. We're beyond grateful for the love you've shown since our launch and we’re eager to share more – from my own shoulder surgery saga and a family mystery involving eerie nocturnal calls, to tackling the towering topic of height disparities in the dating game. It's all about the little things (and the tall tales) in this episode where we navigate societal expectations with humor and honesty.
Picture this: you're lying next to your partner and suddenly height differences don't matter – it's one of the many amusing truths we uncover when discussing romance with a significant altitude adjustment. We exchange stories about the highs (quite literally) and lows of dating taller women, and how society's measuring stick often misses the mark. Then, we pivot to the intriguing courtship dance of modern times, questioning whether intellectual allure trumps physical attraction and debating the merits of a 90-day trial period to get to know someone truly. Whether you're a WNBA fan or just fascinated by the evolving landscape of love, you'll find a kindred spirit in our candid banter.
The episode crescendos with a bold exploration of the OnlyFans phenomenon and its ripple effects on trust and exclusivity within relationships. We confront the thorny issues surrounding personal content in the public domain, shared pasts among friends, and the delicate dance of discussing the dreaded 'body count'. Amidst the humor, we dare to dissect the boundaries we set in our personal lives, questioning how far is too far when it comes to voyeurism and the intersection of past and present rendezvous. So, why kick back, relax, and join us for a journey through the quirks of connectivity, both digital and romantic?
Have you ever snuck away from a gathering, phone pressed to your ear, wondering if everyone's imagining the worst about your clandestine conversation? Jack and Chance chuckle over such phone faux pas and the comedy that ensues when privacy and suspicion collide. We're beyond grateful for the love you've shown since our launch and we’re eager to share more – from my own shoulder surgery saga and a family mystery involving eerie nocturnal calls, to tackling the towering topic of height disparities in the dating game. It's all about the little things (and the tall tales) in this episode where we navigate societal expectations with humor and honesty.
Picture this: you're lying next to your partner and suddenly height differences don't matter – it's one of the many amusing truths we uncover when discussing romance with a significant altitude adjustment. We exchange stories about the highs (quite literally) and lows of dating taller women, and how society's measuring stick often misses the mark. Then, we pivot to the intriguing courtship dance of modern times, questioning whether intellectual allure trumps physical attraction and debating the merits of a 90-day trial period to get to know someone truly. Whether you're a WNBA fan or just fascinated by the evolving landscape of love, you'll find a kindred spirit in our candid banter.
The episode crescendos with a bold exploration of the OnlyFans phenomenon and its ripple effects on trust and exclusivity within relationships. We confront the thorny issues surrounding personal content in the public domain, shared pasts among friends, and the delicate dance of discussing the dreaded 'body count'. Amidst the humor, we dare to dissect the boundaries we set in our personal lives, questioning how far is too far when it comes to voyeurism and the intersection of past and present rendezvous. So, why kick back, relax, and join us for a journey through the quirks of connectivity, both digital and romantic?
Speaker 1:
Welcome. Welcome Back to another installment of Four Steps Only. Yes, sir, welcome, welcome, welcome. I'm Jack Chance and this is For Steps Only. We want to welcome you all back. If you're not here, you should be here with us. But I want to give a shout out to everybody who viewed our very first installment. Appreciate all your rates and reviews. Matter of fact, hold up, chance. You got your thing on vibrate man. I got my phone off. Everybody was telling me turn your phone off.
Speaker 2:
They heard the ding in the background. He up here going like ding ding, ding, ding, ding Everybody was lighting me up. Man, Everybody just wanted to hit me up. Like I said, it was not my time to do it. Hey, do you realize that people hit you?
Speaker 1:
up at the wrong times. People hit you up at the wrong times always Phone dry all day.
Speaker 2:
Not that I'm busy, I'm dingin'. Group chats, hitting Text messages, notifications, all that.
Speaker 1:
But we got it right, hey, chance. Hey, let me ask you a question, man, I bet you it's a double standard if your phone was going off like that and if you were around somebody huh, who is that? Oh, what's her name?
Speaker 2:
Oh, that's your homeboy again, huh yeah yeah, yeah, who hit you up?
Speaker 1:
Well, your thing going off a little, hey you need to answer that.
Speaker 2:
Go ahead and answer that, Right? Hey, but look though, is it wrong if I answer the phone and leave the room?
Speaker 1:
I don't know. Sometimes people don't need to hear your conversations. True, because if they were needed to hear your conversations, they would be included into the situation For sure, but everybody don't need to hear your conversation. Sometimes you need to leave the room for privacy, in fact, I mean, that's what I feel, but you know, some people have different ideas about oh, you can sit right here and talk to him, yeah, but that also makes you look suspect, do you not agree? When you leave the room, you look suspect.
Speaker 2:
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it depends, it depends, it depends. So if I'm with somebody and they say they sleep, get a phone call, bro bro.
Speaker 1:
I know, if your phone ring before you answer and hit that door and then you run green button and slide up on it, they're going to do the undertaker. They're going to sit straight up with their eyes open.
Speaker 2:
And look dead at you when you?
Speaker 1:
going. Oh, who is that? Hey Chance, remember, my mama got on me about the last episode, man.
Speaker 2:
I got clean up a cuss man. Yeah, we got to clean up. We was a little too raw. We got some views.
Speaker 1:
It was a little too raw, but we do appreciate the honesty from everybody out there that they just help us grow and foster an environment where everybody can listen, because we have some certain things that we do talk about that people draw from. And I know Chance over here looking to have crazy because, if y'all didn't know, I just had shoulder surgery. He over here looking like All American linebacker D1 offers.
Speaker 2:
They got my boy down, bad man. Why Tell my hey somebody?
Speaker 1:
going to tell me the other day won't you put a T-shirt on? This is not the early 2000s. You're in my white tee. This is not that.
Speaker 2:
Yeah, you know, the way he look right now is crazy.
Speaker 1:
I got my titties out. I'm just going to let y'all know hey nipples all the way out. I'm just going to let y'all know, hey, I'm just letting you know my big aerials.
Speaker 2:
Titties out is crazy. But um, do you know if, if to me, if you sleep in that leader room? I'm trying to be respectful for you.
Speaker 2:
My question is, especially if it's if it's, if it's my homeboy calling me, If, for instance, I know, if you call me, show they sleep I'm going to have to leave because we're going to be laughing. You know what I'm saying. You trying to tell me something, or you know what I mean. So, staying in the room, I rather you get mad on. Ask why I left because I'm going to just be 100 with you. I'll have your jet calling Then me being on the phone in the room and now you throwing the pillow at me. You loud.
Speaker 1:
Yeah.
Speaker 2:
Like, you know what I'm saying, so I already know. If I already know you, let me just go ahead and get up out of the room. Quick little conversation come back, but you know but let me ask you this question.
Speaker 1:
It do look suspicious, but I'm going to just tell you, hey, but the crazy part about it is what time of day are they calling and what time of day are you answering? Or does it look more suspect for you to ignore the, ignore, the ignore the? The? Uh, um, the call?
Speaker 2:
yeah.
Speaker 1:
I'm sorry. I'm sorry, I got distracted man, right now I'm all on. I'm on. I am over there on the Perkins.
Speaker 2:
I'm still just one let y'all know, man, the prescriptions, the good though, but it's.
Speaker 1:
I think it just depends on the situation where they look suspect or not, because they ain't gonna hold your man shoot. My one of my uncles got in trouble for this, but it was an underlining issues with it yeah but I tell you I ain't gonna say no names, but my auntie was trying to figure out why he had to keep going out to the front porch and answering the phone.
Speaker 1:
Talk this home, boy what time of day was about 8 9 in the evening yeah, but every time he called he had to go outside and talk on the phone yeah but then, but this is the this, this the background story, though she was down there cleaning out the basement dog and she found some guy doing heels, some size basement in the basement dog.
Speaker 1:
Size 13 heels, huh bro yes 13 heels and I mean, hey, don't get me wrong. A, this is not no bash, and a nothing like that. A. If it's your forte, it's your forte. I still love you the same way you got a size big.
Speaker 2:
I weren't 11 and a half bro.
Speaker 1:
He was size, though he is 6, 7 bro. She found a week.
Speaker 2:
Oh, this is not going well. I thought it was going on a minute.
Speaker 1:
Wait a minute well, she found a week, some heels and a and a and a red silky dress, bro silky dress.
Speaker 2:
I'm thinking uh, had somebody, I'm gonna have a female with a size, 13 size here. Often it's a shorty. Got sure they got some big feet bro, let me ask you a question.
Speaker 1:
Could you talk to a chick with bigger feet than you?
Speaker 2:
that's what I was just about to get into we got some things to discuss. But why you can't be you, it gotta. It gotta be proportionate, you gotta be tall portion.
Speaker 1:
Oh, oh, oh, we go to go there. Go go there, listen, listen, listen. No, no, you say we gotta be proportionate.
Speaker 2:
Go ahead if you have a size 13 size heel, but you look at me in the eye. What are you doing with these? What she working the circus yeah, what are you doing with these scuba diving? What's that song for?
Speaker 1:
the circus.
Speaker 2:
What you talking about. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:
But that's but. But that's why I say it. Sometimes it looks incriminating if you go out the area to talk on the phone yeah because sometimes people take that in a different light.
Speaker 1:
Because, like we said, it's a double standard, because you could be handling business and you don't want to involve the person in your business, or you need a quiet area to go talk to business, or you could be up to some sneaky stuff, true, but yes, chances. You talk about proportion. I'm just saying no, no, no, no, don't try to back paddle. Now let's talk about proportion let's talk about proportion.
Speaker 1:
I'm just saying look, look, if she got size 13 foot you better do we do. On the pat pat check. You know the pat pat check is no chance. Come on chance. You gotta know the pat pat check here.
Speaker 1:
I got an idea what the pat pat check is, but just but in enlightening, but you better be got done, pat, pat, and see if she got some twig and berries, and that's what I'm selling but I mean, I mean listen if that show, if you play over there, play over there, but don't, hey, don't be, don't be out here tricking for folks, don't be pulling on magic trick, tada man.
Speaker 2:
But chance.
Speaker 1:
Hey, what's the tallest female you ever talked to?
Speaker 2:
don't laugh at me, but it's a long time ago. I was in the sixth grade. Man sure he had to be like five, eight at the time. Five, eight, six, great, yeah, sure he was. Sure he was tall bro oh you know. You know girls develop quicker than you know boys and men. So really and truly winning sixth grade she already was, you know.
Speaker 1:
I mean you're afraid if she gonna pick you up and carry like a baby come on man, why everybody?
Speaker 2:
you know, that's, that's and that's why I did it, cuz I'm like everybody want to joke like I really like sure he like I'm really gonna shoot my shot. So I said you know what, go ahead and shoot my shot, shoot my shot, three pointer switch. That, my old lady.
Speaker 1:
Now you know, I'm saying sure he, sure he was tall, but but you know what I you know what is crazy, though, man, that's where the double standard comes in, because you hear so many women bash shorter men because they'll say oh you, man. I got told some disrespectful stuff one time. Like she said you know, you'll be cute if you're a little bit taller man I look that more up and down real fast. I said no matter if you grow or shrink, you would still be ugly. I just want to let you know that fact, and cuz I wouldn't even try to holler at her man, you just talking, just just kicking a bobo, yeah that's it, but I ain't gonna hold you, man.
Speaker 1:
The tallest chick I've ever talked to was six one how was that?
Speaker 2:
me and Jack about the same height. So I want, I want everybody to know that, hey man not tall kings. Like I said in the last episode, we not tall kings, but we will still handle business hey, we are steps to shoulders.
Speaker 1:
Remember that step still quickly, quickly, who? But hey, remember, we lay down.
Speaker 2:
We ought to say hi, remember that but now, man, that experience, man, a six one short man, she was crazy, but she was crazy.
Speaker 1:
Oh too, she was crazy.
Speaker 2:
I mean that, mean, I mean you, did you think you prove my point?
Speaker 1:
no, I like crazy crazy like over yeah, crazy, crazy. Oh, but I was scared. Stop sleeping with the mental health hey, it's not nice to talk about me like that.
Speaker 2:
I'm just messing with you you mental health, you mental health on another level, like experiences got you mental health. We talking about the skit souls, oh, my poor, the crazy thing about it.
Speaker 1:
Do you have you ever heard the slogan that shoot the crazy the battle. What's your it? Do you think it's true?
Speaker 2:
100%. Hey, and that's the man.
Speaker 1:
Man, you're, there's around stalk, you slice your ties be, outside your bedroom waiting hide in the ceiling. Hey cuz you gotta sit up then walk outside. Check your back seat.
Speaker 2:
Yeah, fellas, check your back seat, cuz they are some crazy females out here but, but as you know, being with a tall chick, they was gonna make that joke. Man, you gonna get up there. You gotta climb that tree.
Speaker 1:
I definitely will hey, we say a the funny thing me and my brother always say man is, don't make me jump on the top rope like Ray, mysterio boy, what you gonna?
Speaker 2:
do I'm telling you definitely will do it, like Ray Mysterio yeah, you high five after. But I, the last tall girl out, I want to say the last talk girl, but the taller girl that I tried to shoot my shot with shorty was 6 to play division one basketball, definitely shot my shot. Sure, he was beautiful. So, hey, you know. But what I mean by that's what I mean by proportionate. Now, if you six to you playing the division one basketball, if you got a size 13 hill, I could see why?
Speaker 1:
but you know what, man? I think some of them basketball chicks actually pay better basketball than Some of the males out here. They just don't get the same prestige as some of the males going on.
Speaker 2:
You're going on a hill that I think I Don't want to say, that you will die alone on. I want you to be honest with what you said right now when the last time you watched the WNBA game Crickets. I mean I get what you, I get it. I get it. They can ball, they come off. I'm not gonna, not gonna say females came off, cuz as we can see Andries, what's the girl from Iowa name Caitlin Clark doing her thing, but Put them in the NBA. I mean I'm not gonna say that they not gonna do nothing.
Speaker 1:
I'll say they'll start on On some teams. They might start a. They listen a. You put a all NBA WNBA team on Atlanta Hawks. I bet you with them championship for sure. Hawks, y'all gotta figure out something, but Right, you know they're the only team in Georgia that's never won a championship, I believe. So, hey, they might. They might tell you something.
Speaker 2:
If I was one superbowl? I Know y'all Atlanta people hate talking about a superbowl, but we can't have that?
Speaker 1:
I don't know.
Speaker 2:
After this show we gonna look and look up and see if you ever want a superbowl. We'll get back to that on episode three. But yeah, like Okay, you know she got a people portion it, man, I mean, but you know what chance.
Speaker 1:
Like I was telling somebody one day. I said physical beauty does not always attract me. It's, it's all. It has to be a plethora of things like you have to be smart, ambitious and Different things like that. But that also goes back with a double standard. Do you feel that, when we analyze things on the same side as a woman does, when we look at partners, do?
Speaker 2:
We analyze the same do you take in everything? Do you do you take in everything? You said no, no because we are First, we look at physical beauty, okay that's what attracts you. Yeah, like I said on the last episode, if a female see you driving by and you at the bus stop, she think you cute, she think you fine, or whatever girls say. Women say Mm-hmm. She's literally gonna say oh yeah, he fine, but he had a bus stop we oh man shawty bad oh they're gonna swoop what's up.
Speaker 2:
We gonna swoop. You need a ride, so we we Off-rip, we go for the physical. You know, I'm saying we go for what we seeing now, after what we see when she open her mouth, when she talk, but that that Determined that, that that sometimes will you know that might kill me.
Speaker 1:
They killed my whole body Because I mean, if you're not intellectual, what are we gonna talk about after the sex, though? After?
Speaker 2:
the nah before man. No, no, no, jack, post nut, post nut. Clarity is a thing, you know, somebody else said that to me.
Speaker 1:
It's real.
Speaker 2:
It's real.
Speaker 1:
No, this might tell y'all a little too much, but why am I here? It's like you can't. I put myself in the wrong situation.
Speaker 2:
You shouldn't even be stroking there, man, right. I shouldn't she was talking about shoot. I know what.
Speaker 1:
I don't know what man. I was young, young diamond for the car, but but it was like what? I take ownership of mine. Yeah, but does that count as one on your belt if you didn't even finish? I? Must say no but I don't count numbers, though. I tell you, I'm gonna say no, but she might say yes.
Speaker 2:
So but yeah, we go for physical first, then everything after. In my opinion, men, women tell me if I'm right or wrong.
Speaker 1:
When it comes to me, because I mean, even if I'm gonna take that leap with you, I want, I want to see where you had it.
Speaker 2:
Because I mean you gonna talk though.
Speaker 1:
That's that's part of speaking game you gonna talk but some folks just tell you to feed you a pipe dream or tell you what you Want to hear. That's why I tell a lot of folks shoot, man, shoot. I got a 90 day god doing our course, but anyway. But um, I'm sorry mom but uh.
Speaker 1:
It's just that 90 day or however fan of time it takes me to get to learn somebody, because I don't want to waste my time. I mean, I'm 37 now, yeah, so it's. I think it's because I've grown and understand Human nature and I've made my mistakes and bad choices and and spouses and people I've been in a relationship with, to where I've I've loved, lost and trying to grow, because I don't want to waste that time, no more, yeah, on just that, just that little 15 minutes of fame. Well, I'm gonna tell you right now.
Speaker 2:
Who's actually waiting 90 days? Well, that's it.
Speaker 1:
But it's that 30 era, though man era I don't even think it's a 30 era.
Speaker 2:
Um, I don't even think it's a 30 era, like it's just how we doing things now is I?
Speaker 1:
think folks have lost track of the morals and guidelines and they just think with their bodies now and they just don't Look to like look past, just getting that gold.
Speaker 2:
Well, it ain't, it ain't the 50s man, it ain't the 40s, it ain't. It ain't what you mean, oh what?
Speaker 1:
you mean, I'm not saying.
Speaker 2:
We're gonna fight after this man.
Speaker 1:
Tell me about the 90s and 40s. It's really y'all fuck what you mean. Y'all 80s babies, y'all crack babies turn the world around, man. No, it's social media where all these folks get blinded by social media and they see okay wrong people Do, pushing the wrong message because it has a part to play in it.
Speaker 2:
Yeah, of course, but that's like a chick, bro, that's like a chick, that's like a post.
Speaker 1:
I saw the other day when the chick was home. Awesome, you shouldn't amend men, should I date make unless they make over 50k? Shotted drunk, shotted drunk.
Speaker 2:
I see what she was trying to say though she was just trying to say, if you broke, you shouldn't be dating. But the thing is. But the thing is, what does she bring it to the table.
Speaker 1:
But hold on, now, let me finish. Let me finish my bed. My bad, my bad, my problem she was. She was trying to say if you broke, you shouldn't be dating, but now you.
Speaker 2:
50,000, that is An average, it's the norm. To me, it's the, it's the where wages should be.
Speaker 1:
But you shouldn't tell me when or when I I should date, because the way I feel about it is Shawty, we can go out and have a picnic and everything be cool. Right, shawty, we can go. Got no one, grab go half one salad. I don't kill, bro, I've been broke before so well to well. A we finna have a, we a we a babe, we finna have some ramen noodles for dinner, but at the same time though you that's.
Speaker 2:
Somebody who's in that position with you? You wasn't, you wasn't Dating them like y'all was locked in.
Speaker 1:
Y'all locked in, but I mean they got a you can't.
Speaker 2:
I'm telling you not, I'm telling you can't. Try to get to know. No female talking about. Oh yeah, come link with me and and now you could do the picnic thing. You know that's nice, whatever. But oh yeah, come over my house. You know we, we eat in. Uh yeah, I got some noodles. I'm chop up some Garcia sausage in there, throw that over some right. They can be looking at you like what he broke I'm telling you. But you know, I'm saying now.
Speaker 2:
I'm saying now y'all, because look I'm 97, okay 1997, now I'm. I'm that generation that we grew up with technology, but we also, you know learning ride bikes learning ride bikes. We was outside sitting on the green thing in the front yard. Everybody was out.
Speaker 1:
Shout out to shout out to the little green thing outside.
Speaker 2:
Shout out to the green, if you don't know about the green box in the hood?
Speaker 1:
You ain't rid of the that's the og group chat.
Speaker 2:
For sure the green box, but I'm saying so. That's why I say social media has a part to playing it. Now, this next generation, these, oh, four babies, oh, that's a yeah graduated, bro. That made me feel like a for real man, you graduated with a Opho X, white T strap Air Force ones. Your fit was crazy when you guys were that.
Speaker 1:
I know what you talking about, hey go straight to the god known foot locker by five. What was it? Five for 25? Tall T's. Yeah, got done. Gotta grab the jeboles.
Speaker 2:
Yeah, the jebos, and they got the one uh forces.
Speaker 1:
Hey, you gotta have the one with the strap, not not the, not the highs, but the strap the bad boys. The bad boys. Well, what was it? 65 back in the day now.
Speaker 2:
now look at loads they, they 120 that boy, jack, had Sylvester on his jeans.
Speaker 1:
Hey, you could see me, the club on the hardware, do your dance.
Speaker 2:
But not, it is, it's social media and then, like I said, y'all crack babies, y'all raise these. You know Some of these men and some of these women.
Speaker 1:
But it also shows you a lot of times about the people that they grew up around to true.
Speaker 2:
If, if, if you dealing with a shouty and she was raised by her grandparents, you already know what type of time she on you right, don't? And y'all don't crucify me, I'm speaking from experience. Now, if you was with your grandparents and he was raised and he was Going to church, they gave you good values.
Speaker 1:
More rules and the guap walk three thousand. Listen, am I what? Why lay a chance? The, but chances is true. I don't want to get killed.
Speaker 2:
I'm just saying from my experiences, shorty, raised with them grandparents, you already know what time it is now. Some, um, they, they write, they did it the right way, but, yes, who they raised by. You know what I'm saying, but what I all I'm trying to say is the ways of you see the girl step to the girl, how you doing You're beautiful. Oh, my god, thank you. Hey, listen, let's grab a. Grab a shake. Yeah, grab something to eat. You get to know each other. Okay, I would like that you call up. You know what I'm saying Take out on the first date. You know you got to take him out on a date and y'all, you know, man, listen, some of these girls, man, nadm, sitting a little emoji, they, they hearted, ain't look good. Oh, thank you. Hey, listen, what we gonna link. I want to take you somewhere cool. Take her to the bar, get some food, get some drinks in you it's a high percentage you gonna go back and you gonna. You gonna have a successful mission. I'm just speaking from today's terms.
Speaker 2:
But does that does that mean? Does that mean it makes it too easy? No, I wouldn't even say it's too easy, because If, if a girl let you go on a first date, you gotta thank man. You know how long you know this girl, how, how. Now if you just seeing the, you know, let's say you swiping on Tinder, hey, but you know what man, a lot of the dudes got no ain't strapping up when they meet.
Speaker 1:
On her first time, though, that's how they that's how we say welcome to the itchy and scratchy show.
Speaker 2:
Yeah, and that's a whole another episode In itself. But I'm just saying, depend how you meet, you know what I mean. You swipe right one day, y'all chop it up for a little minute, you know. I'm saying y'all go out, she let you through. Hey, man, she's, she's.
Speaker 1:
But what would you call her back the next time, or would you just call it that done, would you?
Speaker 2:
hear what a follow-up.
Speaker 1:
You sure she in a rotation. But would you take her serious not at all.
Speaker 2:
Why not? Because you let you? I don't know you I.
Speaker 1:
Don't know cuz like my whole thing is. Don't know you like it's like I mean, if you let me hit on the first time or you even hint at, let me like within, like it's real fast bro.
Speaker 2:
I'm back. I don't even say real fast, like If we go on date number four or five, cool, and I'm not gonna say if we smash we need a nothing physical.
Speaker 1:
I'm cool with that because I feel like you've Giving me that vibe that you not that girl, but let me ask you this question, though, just because she's not doing it with you Do you think she's going with somebody else?
Speaker 2:
Are we talking about my generation?
Speaker 1:
or any generation generation.
Speaker 2:
Because I feel like, if we talk, about if we talk about the older generation.
Speaker 1:
Because I feel like it all these few years out here got a black book. Bro, Depends on who they were raised by and what they were raised around true, true that too, but Ages of fattening man. Wonderful question for you, bro. Let me ask you the question cuz I heard this one dude asked his chick. This one time Would you ask a chick her body count? Let me tell you like this, I ain't asking, nobody count it ain't a my concern cuz.
Speaker 1:
You know. You know why it's not like I'm agree with you Because if I look at it, that's like I asked to do the other day. Would you rather wife, a virgin or whore? But that, but. But he couldn't answer the question. Right because my whole determination is it doesn't matter your past, it doesn't matter you, it doesn't matter your past, your past, your past determines you, of the things and trials and tribulations that you've been through. But right now I'm here. Right now, yeah so therefore it females.
Speaker 2:
I went to high school and we talk in high school. They was getting down. I mean, golly, you use. You was known for that. You was known for being either yeah, I.
Speaker 1:
Bro, you know what you got. You know what you happily married. You know what you happily married.
Speaker 2:
But I'm just saying he don't know that, but that's not his concern because, he had because he's had practice, because now, let's be real with you. They say you find out, you gonna be devastated. You gonna be devastated and to me, like we've been saying, standard guy, if a female finds out, a man's body count. She's gonna look at you some type of way, but she's not gonna cut you off. No, she's not gonna cut you off.
Speaker 1:
No but.
Speaker 2:
As your female a, a baby. You know I'm saying because you can't really, just you got to kind of sauce it up. You can't just ask a female and what's your body count? You just got a baby. You know, I love, you know this stuff. She want to know how many, how many being, how many mean you to be with right, and this is when your heart gonna drop. Well, let me think damn.
Speaker 1:
Let me ask you a question, bro, straight up. You remember that on. What is that? What's that podcast they were talking about, and Both from all the Joe button when they on. When they were there, tommo, they didn't hit 15 of the same chicks.
Speaker 2:
They didn't hit 15 of the same 15 or more of the same chicks. The whole game.
Speaker 1:
No, just them two. Two guys, two guys. They can hit them the between them, this in their circle they don't hit 15 of the same chicks where these girlfriends, or was he? I don't know, they didn't, they didn't specify. That's weird, that's real weird, because I mean that's like let's say this if my partner doesn't hit him, I don't want him because I don't. I mean, I don't cross that threshold, yeah.
Speaker 2:
To me that's weird now, If all that happened before we became friends.
Speaker 1:
Yeah.
Speaker 2:
Hey, I didn't know. You don't you know what I mean, but it it's kind of like nah, man, if you been my dog Forever and we just alternating shorties is weird. But if it's like hey, I just I met you in the middle of life and we locked in, we got cool, and it just so happens.
Speaker 1:
I would think that's some funny stuff, but still though shoot you know what, unless you my my ace and you can't get me no straightening and you don't like if we ain't, we can't break down and break bread together, I don't feel like there's no reason that I should tell you every female I don't slept with. There's no reason. But because I don't like kissing and telling, because I mean I feel like that's like this if a female screen shot you and send it to somebody, right, that's like you working for the feds, that means you can't hold water. Because I feel like what happens between me and you should stay between me, between me and you, because it ain't nobody else's business, because if it was their business they would be here with us.
Speaker 2:
Yeah so. So If, if a circle back, that female tells you a man she slept with? Let's be realistic.
Speaker 1:
What's they do with two hands?
Speaker 2:
What do you mean?
Speaker 1:
What let's say what two hands 15, 20? Oh yeah, cuz J Cole said it perfectly. She tell you 10, you got to multiply by three.
Speaker 2:
Let's say, as a man, I'm 26, but you, are you been, I do it. Oh, conversation purposes. What's that? What's that?
Speaker 1:
person of you.
Speaker 2:
If you tell somebody like since 26, let's say you lost your virginity at 17, okay, and you 26.
Speaker 1:
Now, right, that's nine. No, no, no, they say you smash to a year, let's say two year to a year.
Speaker 2:
That's 18 18 as a man, okay, 26 your man. Now your girl, 26, she smashed 32, 30 something.
Speaker 1:
Because you know a couple for blast.
Speaker 2:
You see, you see what you just did right there. That was your the first thing that you said it wasn't okay, it wasn't oh 34. All right, cuz you got to instantly to and I know she don't love you, you went. You know, I'm saying, that's why yeah, nah, I mean you Cannot know that as a man, because it's gonna mess with you.
Speaker 1:
You're gonna mess with your mental. Yeah, I'm gonna mess with your ego cuz you, cuz. I mean you think about it, bro. You oh that they eat you with that hot one all the time. Oh, man, that's your my friend.
Speaker 2:
Okay, that's your friend, oh, okay you know you're gonna act completely different.
Speaker 1:
You're right, absolutely.
Speaker 2:
Cuz now.
Speaker 1:
I'm gonna be looking at you side after now 34.
Speaker 1:
I know 34 people, but you gotta think about it, she but you. When you break that down for the two people, a year there's 24 months, as mean six months out of that time You've been smashing two people. So you got, you got roster, you got. I mean, this is a mathematical equation, cuz you think about it, thank you. You're mad thing, math and darling. So when you break that, jump down your period, last what we said, a maxing a week, that's three more weeks in a month.
Speaker 2:
You had it going, and Then that's 18.
Speaker 1:
That's bro. That's 18 times. Oh I ain't mad, I ain't doing, I ain't good a man. Yeah, I'm going to channel that.
Speaker 2:
Especially feel, girl, if your girl got tricks, treats man, she doing that swirl thing you, and then she tell you that now you like man who taught her that Was, do that daughter that how she learned that she did that with man. Bro, that's it, hey, but we're about to have folks.
Speaker 1:
Some folks go there drinking out of bottle. Got the one listening to this no we're gonna have some.
Speaker 2:
We're gonna have some couples looking at each other. But what I think?
Speaker 1:
I think my man will care a little a. Speaking of this okay, since when is air this, this, this thought air Okay?
Speaker 2:
you calling the thought air? Why you calling the thought air?
Speaker 1:
Because what you mean.
Speaker 2:
I'm not offended. I'm just saying what make you, what make you think it's a thought air?
Speaker 1:
Only fans. It feel like it would you talk to a chick that has only fan. Bro, oh, why?
Speaker 2:
not, cuz you was supposed to be exclusively for me.
Speaker 1:
You out here. Well, let me, let me depends on what she doing on it?
Speaker 2:
No, no, no, no. Are we? Are we locked in like you, you, my you, you, my girl? Yep, oh, I'm I just.
Speaker 1:
No, no, she's your y'all, locked in y'all.
Speaker 2:
I'm not man cuz. What's exclusively for me is now accessible for 599.
Speaker 1:
But what if you to do it in it? They're making the video it's a different story. But what you just said To me, if you, if you show an x, yz, your tricks, trades and everything else, is the accessibility that's getting me, because that means everybody out here can just send you a guy doing dick pic.
Speaker 2:
A girl having the only fans, man, if I'm in it like we started together okay, okay, okay, I'm cool with it, but I meet you. You know, I get feelings for you, just so happen. Twitter and I'm scrolling on Twitter.
Speaker 1:
Hey.
Speaker 2:
I'm already got that same Snoopy tattoo. Why, what is that? Hey man, I that.
Speaker 1:
Do you think um? You know, roxy Reynolds is known.
Speaker 2:
I.
Speaker 1:
Okay, okay, I know one name that you know pinky. Okay, hey, shout out a big thing now a shout out pinky.
Speaker 2:
Pinkie forever chair.
Speaker 1:
Okay. But okay, say, say you meter you how little blah blah, blah, pinky, yeah, then you get the scrolling Baby I'm talking about this shit retired from the game. But so happily, magically, you to found one of the old VHS DVDs and you see, on the front of me to you, sam, with him.
Speaker 2:
If you are grown man and you've never seen some of pinkies artwork, you literally lived under a rock. So but for conversation purposes. Oh, it's over with, dog. I don't think you gonna be heartbroken. Yeah you gonna be. Oh my god, I can't believe. Can't believe it, man. Shout out the touch, man. Hey, y'all gotta excuse my dog.
Speaker 1:
They let you know I do have a pit over here. But he's my service animal, yeah yeah, he's my mental, my mental, my mental stability.
Speaker 2:
Yeah, yeah, he helps out with all that. Yeah but yeah, man shout out the pinky. But yeah, no, you can't. Uh, if Shorty got only fans, it's over there but I Don't know. If a man has only fans in his female, find out.
Speaker 1:
I think it's dead for that too. I think it would be too.
Speaker 2:
I think it would be too. I think it would be too. All right. I think that's a common ground that that I can agree on. Both men and women wouldn't be okay with that. Okay, some people though they might want to join in, like you said oh shit, I cut again.
Speaker 1:
Yeah, I don't know, man, um, but that's like you saying, that's like I see some of these dudes be sitting in the corner watching as somebody else lay there. Old lady, I couldn't do it. I.
Speaker 2:
Could, you are man that is into that, oh yeah but you know what I? Think it's time for us to end it for today.
Speaker 1:
Thank y'all for listening. If you ain't you, if you hadn't been here, you should have been here for Four step, was only sure. See you next week out, peace oh.