sit down and watch a step-by-step. Now welcome to full step on. I'm jack, he's changed yo and we're back this game with another one. This game what the hell is this?
Speaker 3:game that drink, that drink. Got you that drink, got you bent.
Speaker 1:Watch what you got to be got you bent already well, I'm sorry, it's you learn I'm over here slurring my words. Watch you, gsp. Never been behind me today, but anyway, we back with a special guest y'all, a special special guest gates. I don't need to talk, no goddamn, I got you.
Speaker 3:I got you. Go ahead, we got a special guest here with us today sj, lady ass, miss J a number of different aliases, but she here with us today, yo yo, but she like a whole symbol.
Speaker 1:You know that she like print.
Speaker 4:You know what hey?
Speaker 1:hey, mighty well, shit we here, but I'm, hey, I'm happy to see you here, though happy to be here by the end of this episode, she gonna cuss my ass out. I'm just gonna let y'all know that you saying by the end hey, before we even started recording, this motherfucker gonna ask me are you supposed to be drinking?
Speaker 4:on medication. Wait, who was the motherfucker cause? It wasn't me. I asked you cause? I just want us to be clear. If he pass out, get to twitching. I'm talking about change. I just want us to be clear.
Speaker 3:If he pass out, get to twitching. I'm going home, I just need to be prepared for what's going to happen.
Speaker 1:That's why real friends don't take people to the hospital.
Speaker 3:I'm going to call the people for you, though.
Speaker 1:What people you better not call? No goddamn people, for my ass. You better take me to the Woff House. I'm going to call 9-11. Take me to the Woff House and give me an all-star. That's what the fuck I need.
Speaker 4:I'm going to call 9-11. I'm going to call 9-11 on the way out. Nah, hell, nah, what.
Speaker 1:Yeah, because they're going to need hit you with a. Uh, yeah, hell, no, never mind wrong analogy.
Speaker 1:You ain't sticking shit in my chest, but y'all we gonna, we gonna have fun with this episode y'all, like we always do, like y'all know what's for so shit, you know what. Let's say let's go ahead and screw it. Hey, this episode y'all is about the table. What the fuck do you bring to the table? Hey, and you tell my son I bring this fire ass pussy in this goddamn mouth to the table. What the fuck do you bring to the table? And you're talking about something? I bring this fire ass pussy and this goddamn mouth to the table. Take your ass right out the motherfucking door.
Speaker 1:That's great, I can't take that shit to no ATM. That's awesome.
Speaker 3:I mean that, ain't it though?
Speaker 4:I was going to say that's all you need.
Speaker 3:No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. I ain't saying, that's all you need. But we not going to, you know, devalue that or like undermine that.
Speaker 4:That's supposed to be a part of the package, though.
Speaker 3:For sure it's a part of the package. It ain't the whole package, but that is a good part of the package.
Speaker 1:That is a good part of the package that's a good part of the package Hell nah, shit, fuck that. I need you to, hey look. That's why I believe in feed fucking finance.
Speaker 3:So you telling me if, okay, If she can't suck dick she better watch some goddamn Pornhub. Okay, if she can do that, Go ahead go ahead.
Speaker 4:You're contradicting yourself. What do you mean?
Speaker 1:What do you mean? What do I mean? You can work up. It's like learning. That's why they call them educational videos. Shit, how many times y'all done sat there and watched goddamn Pornhub? I'm like shit. I'm going to try that the next time I fuck.
Speaker 4:No, I don't watch it for educational purposes. It's for entertainment.
Speaker 3:You've never watched pornography? No, no, not for educational purposes. Shit To try to figure out the moves or something?
Speaker 4:no, why not?
Speaker 1:I ain't read no damn book, this shit I'm.
Speaker 4:What kind of book?
Speaker 1:even teach you instruction manuals how to build some shit, yeah, but I you need visuals you damn right. That's why I go to pornhub, yeah, that's why you watch.
Speaker 4:But I've never watched something to be like, oh yeah, I'm gonna try that shit. And I saw a goddamn meme.
Speaker 1:The other day this motherfucker said she, the meme, said she gonna ride him backwards and tickle his feet right before he comes.
Speaker 3:Don't do that.
Speaker 1:I said what the fuck?
Speaker 3:I said Not only would that piss me, off.
Speaker 4:Wait, I wasn't ready, I wasn't ready.
Speaker 3:You gonna ruin the whole moment.
Speaker 1:That was a wave, I'll be ready for I don't even know dog Tickle my teeth. I'm going to die.
Speaker 3:If you don't get your goofy ass off me. That's some goofy shit. That's some goofy shit to do.
Speaker 1:But back to talking about the table. But you got to do. Y'all believe in the whole 50-50 bullshit.
Speaker 3:No, 50-50 meaning I pay this half, you pay that half, or 50-50 as in, I'm 50% in the relationship. Either way you want to take it, I'm going to let SJ go first.
Speaker 4:I don't believe in 50, anything Like I believe 100-100.
Speaker 1:Absolutely.
Speaker 3:Okay, I'm going to second that, because I'm you know what leave 100-100.
Speaker 1:Absolutely. I'm a second. That Because I'm you know what. I'm at the same stature with the whole 100-100. Because if I'm only putting 50% in this motherfucker, that means I'm only 50% invested. That means I'm 50% hot in the rest of the aspects about me. That means I'm halfway in this bitch and halfway out.
Speaker 4:Yeah.
Speaker 1:But if I'm all in shit, hey, what's up? Yeah I got you, you got me, because, hey, I ain't gonna be 100 every day and so that's where that part comes in, though like.
Speaker 4:So you see, like the different posts on like facebook or what have you, and they'll be like well, just the same conversation, like do you do 50, 50, or how do you? You know what are you doing? My'll be like well, just the same conversation, like, do you do 50-50, or how do you know what are you doing? My thing is like, like you said, things are gonna change, like life is gonna be life every single day of the week. You know what?
Speaker 4:I'm saying you never know, I might not have 80 to give you today, I might only have 70 and that means that you need to come with your authority to make that match up to 100. But however we get to, it is how we get to it. People be so busy, worried about the next motherfucking or the next people like how they doing their relationship. That might not work for you, yeah no, you gotta do what works for you in your household to make sure your stuff working.
Speaker 3:You know I'm saying yeah, yeah, what's that? I mean, like you said, lcece was going on on social media and didn't want to kind of bring that into their situation. That's not going to work because, like you said, I might not be with it today. Something might be going on on my side, you know. So, yeah, you're right. But in that 100%, what does that consist on? You know, I'm saying I think that depends on your partner, like what they need, what you need, because it's not all about financial. You know, because when people like, if you say 50, 50 people gonna think financial, you know, money wise, but shit.
Speaker 1:I might need you to just sit there and tell me hey, hey, tap me on the flip, hey, tighten up. Man, shit get, hey, get in the game that's part of the 100 you slipping that's where that whole it's gonna fluctuate.
Speaker 4:Your days are not gonna look the same today. I might not be able to get my ass out the bed and maybe I need you to pull me up out of it that's where you putting in your part comes in, as long as it ultimately equals 100%. Whatever, whoever did it shouldn't matter.
Speaker 1:You're absolutely right, because it's like when we, when I hear this goofy shit, I need my man to do this shit or what do I need a man for Shout out. I don't give a damn what they say. They got somebody in the talk, they got somebody in the backfield, they got somebody on the bench helping them out, because when you look at it, oh you think they sitting over there solo dolo, going through whatever they're going through by themselves. Oh, they got somebody to call.
Speaker 4:Maybe they don't, but even still, no woman honestly wants to be independent, like they say that shit because that's what they're they lack of something and they don't want to look like you know they don't have what they need, so they go I don't need a man. No, yes, you do. Yeah, you do.
Speaker 1:You're just doing this shit right now by yourself because because you have no choice, yeah, but the moment that a man comes in and wants to do it for you, you're gonna step back and let him do it right yeah, because because that's that's, that's the main basis of a relationship, or why you get in a situation with a person, because you want them to be your better half, you want them to make you better all the way around in the, in a certain stature that you lack yeah so it's to hear somebody talking about some shit.
Speaker 4:I'm out here, I I ain't doing shit, I don't rely on nobody, just because, like you said, they don't have it, they don't have that power, and they want you to see it and be like, oh well, she ain't got no, so they make it seem like they're good.
Speaker 3:You know some people. They've been having to do it on their own for a little minute, so that's probably like they.
Speaker 4:But it's a defense mechanism? Yo, no for sure.
Speaker 1:Because you don't want nobody out here to see that you weak or you faulted.
Speaker 4:Exactly.
Speaker 1:You don't want nobody to see that you at your low point. Because, man, I'll be honest. Through the trials and tribulations, who Shit? I'll try to save face. Try to God. Don't want to bury that shit deep Like Jacques Cousteau Shoot. You ain't't gonna find this shit unless you got them. You got a submarine and you're going down a marionette trench, you, you, really you figured out what happened to the black because they went down trying to find shit yeah I'm talking about I bury emotions, I bury my problems.
Speaker 3:Well, you know, you know, being a man, that's what they kind of. But we drilled that shit, yeah yeah, from birth like not to show your emotions, and that's unfortunate. Why say that?
Speaker 4:Because you're still a human. You made up of the same things that a woman is made up of. So why is it okay for a woman to be emotional and to show that and it's not okay for a man? Because you can still be strong and honestly, let's be clear, showing emotions takes more strength than hiding them.
Speaker 3:True, you're right, I feel then, then then hide.
Speaker 1:No, true, you're right, I feel about it. Though how many times have we been sitting there and you see this outside dude just going through the motions like they were picking it. Who was it? Uh, um, jane, it went tyree's when he was up there going through his shit, yeah well, one man don't put your.
Speaker 3:Why would you even put that out there? You know what I'm saying. Like, if you're going through it, you put it on social media. Of course people gonna climb like they don't take nothing serious also.
Speaker 4:It was a bit extreme, of course, but I mean this, though.
Speaker 1:This is what you say, though when can we control, when we crash out?
Speaker 4:you can't control when you crash out, but that's the reason why it's just like a volcano it builds and builds and builds and builds until it finally erupts. You're right, right, but if you're not stopping that at each interval, then you won't have that huge explosion. You're right, that's. The problem is that they suppress it for so long that it comes out the way his came out. Yeah.
Speaker 4:You're right long that it comes out the way his came out. Yeah, you're right, but if you're trained or feel safe enough, comfortable enough, to go ahead and express those emotions when they arise, then you won't. You won't see these crazy ass outbursts you're right.
Speaker 3:You're right because that was crazy. My whole thing is, though, putting it on social media, but you don't put. See that you're showing the masses and then expecting them to give you sympathy, like but he's no different from a regular person.
Speaker 4:A regular dude or a regular girl will go off on social media and and talk about what it is they're going through.
Speaker 4:They get them to cry on, live and do all of these things. But we hold like I ain't even gonna say we people hold celebrities that like such this high standard, like they're not humans, they're the same, they go through the same shit because they have money and and and some fame doesn't stop them from being human. So because if your, if your cousin did it, you would just clown him a little bit. But if Tyrese do it now it's a whole big, huge, whole big issue like why is that?
Speaker 3:I would say in general you don't have to put anything on social media.
Speaker 4:That's the misconception you might not have anyone to talk to, and that's that's the outlet. It's a quick outlet. Actually, I've done it. I've typed some shit up real quick just to get it off, because maybe I don't want to talk to nobody for real on a one-to-one. I don't want you to give me your feedback. I have a conversation.
Speaker 1:I just want to run this off and get it and I can close the app and be done. Yeah, because I know shit, even when I was going through my trials not too long ago. Shit I ain't want to talk to no motherfucking body yeah but I wanted to jump on that game yeah and that was my outlet. I ain't, but I just didn't want to let the masses know what the fuck I'm going through.
Speaker 4:Yeah, obviously it can also be easier to talk to strangers. If I meet somebody new that don't know me or know my situation, or don't know none of the people involved, it's easier to talk to them than it is to talk to somebody that thinks they know, and so they having like an overpowering opinion because they think they know Somebody on the outside. They don't know shit. You don't know me for real, so I could say whatever, because I really don't care how you feel anyway.
Speaker 3:Yeah, so going to people you know it's kind of like a fear they might judge you too much too.
Speaker 4:It could be if they haven't made that space safe for you, yeah.
Speaker 1:Because honestly do you trust everybody that's around you 24-7?
Speaker 3:For sure.
Speaker 4:That's why they around I don't do you trust them with everything, though. So that's the thing like do you categorize your friends and family?
Speaker 3:yeah, if anybody that's close to me I rock with to the fullest.
Speaker 4:I could trust for sure right, but do you categorize them right? Categorize them, meaning like well, let's say, you can tell it's worth I have one friend who I might be able to talk to about my relationship yeah and I have one who I can trust with my wallet.
Speaker 4:If I leave it at her house for 10 days, I know it's good, yeah, but they may not be able to crawl, they might not be able to switch hands. I still trust them with something, but I don't trust them with everything. I trust them with what they've shown me that I can trust them with yeah, um yeah, I don't think about it if you say something like that like you got somebody you call if your girl piss you off.
Speaker 3:You got somebody you call yeah it ain't no question you calling that one person um, I have multiple people I could call, but it's um, it's not like I, I can go to this person for this person, for this situation, this situation. Like all my people in my circle, I go with anything and I know they're going to keep it 100 and not say something to me and then go tell somebody else oh man, you know that nigga was tripping man or like you know clown or whatever, because that's why I rock with them. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:Everybody can relate the same cause I know shit, it's certain shit. Cause it took me a while to learn that everybody isn't privy to everything that you go through, because I've been in relationships dog, well, next thing I know this motherfucker disrespecting me with that safe space that I thought I had with this motherfucker bringing that to light, whatever you told him and all that and they're using that as a damn dagger, oh yeah yeah malicious yeah so can you trust everybody around you to to that standard?
Speaker 4:that's the, that's, that's the fucked up part I just think you just have to know that you can't trust everybody with everything of course.
Speaker 1:So I got another question for you. I know this, just segue back to the table. Um, do you feel like salaries should be like? You should let the other person know the entire amount that you bring to the table are we married?
Speaker 3:that's a that's exactly what I'm about to say.
Speaker 4:If we not married, nah, if we just, you know, together we go together yeah, it's none of your business nah now, unless you tell me if we, even if we cohabitate, um, still no, hard, no, why do you need to know everything that I have going on? You can know that I can pull my weight, but do you need to know everything that I have going on?
Speaker 3:no, now, when we become one officially, legally, then yeah, but not a moment before if you live with that person, are you asking like money, you asking money, right, should they know how much money you bringing in, how much being taken out? Nah, because then something I got you might not think that's important, like why you paying for that? You don't need that.
Speaker 4:You see what I'm saying Right, I get you.
Speaker 3:Yeah, Like a lot of women, or some women, like you said, you got on the game. Some women don't like the game or men that play video games. You got to pay for that. You know they might think that's a waste, but to you it's an outlet.
Speaker 1:Her lashes and her damn nails are wasted.
Speaker 4:But you like it.
Speaker 3:Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:I might have to agree with her, but I'm just saying, but I'm saying that game, keep me in the house, that's my stress relief. But a lot of women like, oh, he at the house playing a game, he's straight.
Speaker 4:See, for me personally, I don't have an issue with the game, unless the game is all you care about. Oh, hell, nah, If you have no motion outside of the game issue if I walk past naked and you still in that game issue shit who we goddamn giving up?
Speaker 1:get tucked. You better not sleep with your mouth open, shit what. But that's what I'm saying. That's where it becomes an issue.
Speaker 4:If you're ignoring other things of importance to pay attention to the game, then absolutely I'm gonna write it. It's gonna be a problem absolutely there's.
Speaker 3:Some women do on purpose, though, what walk past naked and you want a?
Speaker 4:game. Okay, what you mean? They want to be nailed to the cross. What's the problem, hey?
Speaker 1:hey, I've been in mid zombies, high rounds. I'm someone who got the damn ray gun and all bro. The next thing I know oh shit, I'm getting hit.
Speaker 4:I gotta got to go, you don't even know what you were playing at that point.
Speaker 1:I don't give a fuck about this goddamn game Shit. I'm killing somebody. I ain't killing that goddamn zombie.
Speaker 4:I know that Exactly.
Speaker 1:Who I'm about to hey what you over there doing Boy. I'm killing this Easter egg over here, boy, which is funny as fuck.
Speaker 4:If I ask you to get off the game for no reason just because I want you off that's. That's insane like get.
Speaker 3:Get a man something to do, well, what you want him off the game for my argument on that is you know what I'm doing, you know where I'm at, you know what I'm thinking about. What's the problem?
Speaker 4:that's why I said if I need you for something, then okay. Yeah, but if, if I don't need you and I'm about to just sit across from you and maybe scroll my phone, why do I have an issue with what you're doing?
Speaker 1:But that's one of the situations we get faced with every day.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I'm telling you, I see, it, you're not spending time with me. I'm right here with you. We in the same room, we in the same room.
Speaker 1:Which one Rub your feet?
Speaker 3:Come on, put your feet right here, shit. I wrote that every time I got them get knocked, but then, but then my thing is um, I'll get off the game, all right. What you want to do, I don't know like, and that's what I'm saying. Yeah like nah, like I'm back on the game like what was the whole point of? That but, but back to what you were saying, though, um about the finances. Yeah, if you're not married man, nah, I don't.
Speaker 1:I don't think I'm just gonna, just gonna but I think you'll see that.
Speaker 4:You'll see that if you live with a person, though I think you just need to know that I am responsible yeah and that I'm going to take care of whatever it is that I personally have to take care of, and I'm also going to contribute whatever it is that I need to contribute to, as it relates to us, any money that I have outside of, let's say, for instance, I don't just have work income, but you know that my job can handle it. Why do you need to know about my other money too?
Speaker 1:Because they want part of it. They want to include that into the household.
Speaker 4:Yeah, that ain't your business, baby. They want part of it, they want to include that into the household? Yeah, but it ain't your business, baby. I'm paying the goddamn utilities, right? You told me to pay the utilities and buy the food. So that's what I'm doing, and you know I'm capable of doing that. So now, at this point, you're just in my business. Who have you.
Speaker 1:Because that's like when I hear all these females talking about something they want their significant others to make $300,000, $250,000.
Speaker 3:Do you? No, go ahead you being. You got to be realistic. You got to be realistic when you think about stuff like that. Only a small percentage. Let's just say you want, as a woman, you want a black man, right that, right there, decreases that $300,000. Or man, right that, right there, decreases that $300K, or whatever right, the average person in America is making $50,000. That's like the average. I think you know what I'm saying. Then, if they got kids, they got bad credit. You see what I'm saying. That's just decreasing all that.
Speaker 4:You got to be realistic, see, I don't knock anyone for their preferences, because I mean that's your business. But a lot of those things are not realistic.
Speaker 1:But that's like me and Chance were talking about it one time this remedial-ass female said that men should not date if they make less than $50,000 a year.
Speaker 4:And why is that? The bitch was told I just wanted to like. Did she expound on it?
Speaker 3:She was saying you shouldn't be dating if you make less than $50,000 a year.
Speaker 4:I will say to me I feel like if you are scraping and you can barely make your shit match, maybe you shouldn't be dating define scraping though scraping like you talking about dick in the dirt scraping?
Speaker 4:yeah, are you, because I mean like I mean, okay, maybe maybe your bills getting paid, but maybe your shit got cut off and you had to be off for a couple of days before you could pay it. To get it back on, like if you in those type of situations, maybe you as a man probably shouldn't be dating because the process of courting a woman would be. Now you got to pay for two meals, nigga, you could barely pay for one, yeah I mean, yeah, you got to pay to play.
Speaker 3:I agree, it'll be crazy if you want to date and then the card done decline, hey.
Speaker 1:But to be honest, bro, my car hey, when that motherfucker take too long at the register, no matter where I'm at Be right.
Speaker 3:Be right, my goddamn heart beat up. But it's even worse when you trying to date, you taking somebody on a date, and that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4:So you know that now things are times two multiply by two. You got to buy two meals.
Speaker 4:You want to have two drinks. You're going to go to the movies. You're going to pay for two tickets. Everything you want to do is going to be multiplied by two. If you are barely able to take care of you, it doesn't make sense for you to try to take on another person. Hell, nah You're right, but outside of that I don't feel like there should be like a set number. You could be making $40,000 and maybe your bills, whatever you got.
Speaker 3:you might be good at budgeting you might be good at budgeting, but that's what. That's what the the woman was saying if you make less than 50 000, you shouldn't be dead now. I think she just said it wrong, because I I think what she was trying to say was what you said. If you're struggling, if you're in survival mode, like we've talked about before, your priorities need to be on getting right instead of trying to get somebody.
Speaker 4:But see, I don't see, I don't see that as one side either.
Speaker 4:I think the same goes for a woman oh yeah like, just because you might be the one that might reap the benefits of dating. Finding in a financial situation. That still doesn't mean that it should. You should not be out here dating either, because that time that you're out with him you might be able to make some more money, because, being gonna require the same way, he might pay for your meal today. Okay, but that took y'all some time, and now you gotta spend a little bit more time with him because he paid for your meal. That's how you might be able to get to another bag yeah so I think it goes.
Speaker 3:It goes both ways, for me, it's always attractive when you have something going for you or goal set for yourself or something you're trying to achieve. You know, women and men, you know what I'm saying yeah, man, because I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 1:I ain't gonna lie to you shit I lied to a motherfucker in a heartbeat and tell him man, I ain't got nothing going on. I work one job and that's it.
Speaker 4:But that one job might be all you need what you mean.
Speaker 3:you're a lot on, a lot on, like you won't tell them.
Speaker 4:You're saying you're a downplay.
Speaker 1:I downplay myself. That's fine, because, man, I can't tell you how many times I get asked oh, what do you do for a living, or is that all you do, or something like that.
Speaker 3:Mm-hmm, that's all I do. I mean, that's all you're going to tell them for now, yeah.
Speaker 1:Because like that's like, I get judged all the time about having five kids.
Speaker 4:Okay, but you can take care of your five kids.
Speaker 1:Ah but the thing is, when you start hearing my stats, you be like oh shit.
Speaker 3:I think it's because when you say you have five kids, people think already you not taking care of them five Bullshit that motherfucker's my life. Because some people don't even take care of they one, so you got five.
Speaker 4:It poses a number of issues right, or concerns Five kids. Okay, I mean, I don't know, maybe all those kids might come from the same woman, Maybe they didn't. If they did, I mean if they didn't come from the same woman, that might be five different women that I now have to encounter.
Speaker 1:Hell, no shit, because I got that no, no, no, no.
Speaker 4:but see, at the end of the day, you don't know, so you have to always view it as, like this could potentially be a lifelong situation you were so I mean, how would you that thought? Process. You gonna never know. You might have to deal with five women, but you know, I want to deal with five fucking women for the rest of my life but you got to understand.
Speaker 4:That's where it comes into playing your part that's why I said those would be concerns, because that's something for you to now. I got questions about that. Now it doesn't mean that that's like, oh, it's an ultimate red flag for me. You got five kids, you might have five different baby mamas. Y'all might be fine. You know me, I don't. You wouldn't even know if I had a baby daddy or not. I don't have those those type of issues. So for me, I don't want to be in a situation where you got drama. I'm not doing it, so that's a concern. That means now this is something I might have to ask you. Okay, you got five kids. How's the relationship with their, with their mothers, what does that look like? Some people might not even care that care.
Speaker 1:To dig that far, they might be like he got five kids, fuck that yeah, but but this is what I was saying, though I I agree with you wholeheartedly, because some people don't know their position or their place right, because, like on the other side, that drama bull. Let me go ahead and nip this in the bud of course if we don't have an understanding, that's my problem off the top. That way, I don't want you to be involved in that until I can control that right but so many people feel like, oh, I gotta, I gotta say something, yeah, I feel obligated to say something.
Speaker 4:You play pussy, you get fucked so it may not only be that, but think about this. That means that, as your partner, anything that affects you also affects me. So if you constantly upset because you're dealing with five different women now plus me six, then that might not be a situation I want to be in absolutely so that's why you have to ask those questions, though, because everybody's situations are not the same that's why I tell people all the time give me head, don't give me headaches.
Speaker 3:I mean shit, I mean truly if a, if a woman you talking to says she had five kids, I mean, yes, you have, but you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:Bro, I had this one chick one time People gonna be like, okay, she got five, what's going on?
Speaker 3:Those same questions that you would have. They kind of would have for you, Not to say it's a bad thing on your part or make you look crazy. They just you know.
Speaker 1:But this is the question, because I had a chick one time tell me this, like when I was in my 20s she had eight. I'm sitting there thinking in my head different, different baby daddy I ain't even get that far.
Speaker 1:I had two things in my well. I had three things to go through my head. I said whoever she fucking with, they pull out game weak as fuck, or that pussy fire as fuck, or uh-oh, red flag flag on the place. I need, I need, I need to, I need to figure out something. What the hell you got going on over there?
Speaker 4:maybe she got two sets of cards.
Speaker 1:Maybe she got some trip man, let me tell you something, because I ain't finna. Jump in that motherfucker and not, and find out that means that might be that motherfucker? Nah, that might be. Hey, that might be superman's kryptonite. It might be that motherfucker. Nah, that might be. Hey, that might be Superman's kryptonite. It might be.
Speaker 3:You might be out there getting them like I said on the other episode, man, she might be a German Shepherd.
Speaker 1:No, she a German Shepherd, she swallowing all them kids? No shit, it was her teeth white. That's what I'm questioning. Hey, bro, you so stupid bro. Hey, scrubbing bubbles, I mean shit, it's like toothpaste, swish it around, you know what?
Speaker 3:yeah, hey, shit it's like a toothbrush, how you brush your teeth. So that's part of what you bringing to the table. Of course, would you consider that a negative thing or a positive thing? What bringing that to the table? What a number, kid yeah, cause I have no kid, so I would prefer my partner not to have no kids, the woman that I'm with to be at zero with me so let me tell you something.
Speaker 1:So what I realized? Like throughout my years, if you talk to a female with kids, you have to be able to stand on your shit, because what you going into that situation, her stresses, are now yours. You have to look out. You have to, you have to look out for those kids, no matter how much, no, no matter how bad the relationship might get or how good the relationship is. Them kids look to you. So you got to understand in your head Okay, if these kids were mine, how would I treat them? How would I want?
Speaker 1:somebody else to treat my kids. Yeah, but on the flip side you got to understand you have to play your part. Yeah, because it's not you just worrying about that female, you got to worry about them kids also you think the role is different for a man in that situation?
Speaker 1:no it's the same as a woman same as a woman, because you gotta understand if I'm at work, yeah, and hey, I'm supposed to be doing xyz. My son got to get to work. Will you please take him to work? I'm not gonna be able to get there in time. You got to be able to be my parachute, yeah, you got to be able to. Oh shit, no problem, I got you, and vice versa.
Speaker 3:And vice versa.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah so it's to think, because that makes to me I understand it's value to not have kids. But you can also gauge a motherfucker on how they treat their kids, on how they are in life, because if they show an ounce of responsibility, they're going to show you responsibility and qualities to you that you value. Because, like me, bro, my kids mean my world. Call I text are you straight? You good? Okay, you got something to eat. You got money? Oh, you gotta be a worker this time.
Speaker 1:Yeah, because with those responsibilities, I'm I'm growing a human being because 90 of the time, a lot of motherfuckers these days don't take care of their kids. True, they just like shit. Lil Ray Ray out there got them playing in the field. I don't give a fuck. Yeah, I'm in here watching my show. I don't give a shit. True, lil Ray Ray done broke his goddamn leg outside.
Speaker 3:What the fuck you want? Man fuck that kid, nah, nah.
Speaker 1:You got to think about it like this, bro. How many times do you think you go to a club and 90% of the people in there got kids?
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's true. And they in the club, instead of they balling out at the club, instead of making sure to make sure to get straight. Now, for sure and I'm not saying it's a, it's a negative thing that you have kids and you searching for somebody- or whatever.
Speaker 1:Make sure their throat, oh, their throat, well, where my guy drink, get it God damn Stop drinking man Stop drinking why? Shit, I need to drink some more, god damn it.
Speaker 3:I need to drink some water, nigga. Get some water man.
Speaker 4:I'm right for the jugular.
Speaker 1:I'm putting myself in time out.
Speaker 3:I ain't saying shit for about a second.
Speaker 4:It's a very short period of time. It's up already.
Speaker 1:It's okay Some of them motherfuckers jumping pussy and be out of it in two seconds. That's terrible.
Speaker 4:They be getting that shrug in their shoulders. What you mean? That's terrible. What you mean If you, if you hey, hold on now.
Speaker 3:That's a hold on. We got to get.
Speaker 4:Uh-uh, hell nah. No, I know no no, no, hold on, hold on, hold on. I'm talking over this.
Speaker 3:Okay, it's terrible, but one once again. I'm going to say it again. You did not tell me it was like that.
Speaker 4:Why you no?
Speaker 3:first of all, you didn't tell nobody like that why you didn't rub one out before you got here.
Speaker 4:What are we talking about? You don't always do that, hey man Shit.
Speaker 3:Sometimes you don't even know that you about to get some.
Speaker 1:You know you might want some. You better prepare, you better say.
Speaker 4:Hey, it ain't always it's the same position. Listen, it's the same position, so always have to get the quick one out before you get ready is.
Speaker 3:Hey, listen, I ain't know, you was like that. Now, granted, granted, the question is gonna be how you redeem yourself.
Speaker 4:All right, you went and hey, we've had this. But are you coming back from this like immediately, or do I gotta wait three hours?
Speaker 3:that's up to how you respond to that oh fuck, that are you instantly, instantly going into group chat. Girl, you won't believe what this fuck nigga just did.
Speaker 4:Yes.
Speaker 3:Or are you going to let me hey? I know it was two minutes. I know the song ain't even over with. Let me go ahead and need that box till I'm back to where I need to be.
Speaker 4:We're going for round two, round two, but see, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 3:How, where I need to be going for round two, but see, that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 4:How long is the intermission? How old are you? Shit, I'm old. How?
Speaker 3:old. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. As a man, you know, when I was 18, shit, I'll be right back. I'm 26 now. You know I might go get some to drink.
Speaker 4:No, not after the two minutes. No, no, no, no, no, no, I'm saying I'm saying I'm saying.
Speaker 3:I'm saying what I'm saying is a regular session.
Speaker 4:I'm going to get something to drink, but it wasn't a regular session. You just told me it was in you in there, melted in there.
Speaker 3:I'm not a two minute man. Well, you just, I was just saying. I was just saying if it just so happened to be two minutes, if it just so happened, right, which it's not gonna happen. But if it does, if it do, I'm still shrugging my shoulders Fuck it. Relax, let me eat this box. I'm gonna get back, right? It ain't gonna take no whole long order episode it ain't gonna take no whole long order episode.
Speaker 1:It ain't gonna take 45 minutes, give me a few minutes. Chance, chance. You better get them hit with them. Bluetooth. You need no Bluetooth man. No, I'm saying like, if you saying yeah, I know myself.
Speaker 4:If you know that, alright, let's say you might just start fucking with me in this bit of a minute. You ain't been in nothing, okay? So if you think that it's a possibility that something might happen tonight, go on, baby, and run one out, rub one out. Go on and rub one out. Why wouldn't you? You know you ain't had none in a couple of weeks. Why wouldn't you rub one out?
Speaker 3:I had a time to see.
Speaker 1:Hey boy, I had all day, that's a shower that takes time, man.
Speaker 4:Okay, shower before our day. You always gotta watch that.
Speaker 3:So time to rub because you gotta, you gotta find the right video. See, that's your problem. You know, I might take a peek at that one, but I ain't gonna do it at that one that's when you want to really like set the mood for yourself.
Speaker 4:If you want to rub one out, you mean to tell me you need all that set up in order to get that done. That ain't setting the mood. It is when you get a video.
Speaker 3:If you, as I'm telling you, as a man, if you open up safari, you go to the first thing.
Speaker 4:You see, you, just you just you ain't got no, you ain't got no. Man you're hitting phone, you were honed or that you can.
Speaker 3:I mean, of course you got the tabs, for you know I I'm saying you ain't got nothing that somebody might have sent you one day.
Speaker 4:Ooh, like an attachment that you can go back, yeah, and you can go back and look at it and go ahead and rub one out real quick.
Speaker 3:I grew up in the age of videos. You told them today. I need a video Today, can't look at no picture.
Speaker 4:Today. I'm talking about today, right now, if you needed to rub one out, you don't have no attachment that you got, that you can go ahead and look at and get you done real quick.
Speaker 3:Not no attachment. Nah, I'm about to go. I have the attachments, but it ain't going where I could just sit there, you know I'm saying ain't nobody sent you no video. Yeah, the video might be like 10, 15 seconds oh, I want better for you. I want better for you I want better for my age, if I want better for myself. If she's sending me the whole attachment, maybe a little 10, 10-minute, what's she doing? Oh, that would be great. Of course I'll do that Shit. I ain't never got that Shit. I'll take a.
Speaker 1:FaceTime, I'll take it. Ooh shit, play that guitar girl, play that guitar, I'm just saying Play that guitar, if something happens. I'm going to knock that out. But shit, if I'm in that struggle, if I look I ain't even finna say shit, I'm like damn, I don't, I just bust fuck shit. This motherfucker ain't finna know I'm finna. Keep stroking these goddamn shoulders and thug my way through it. Shit who you wildin?
Speaker 3:well, my record fuck, that's why you got five kids you goddamn right.
Speaker 1:I'm saying pull out, gang weak as fuck. Goddamn back in the parking spaces where I have trouble pulling out. I need to see where I'm pulling out into.
Speaker 4:Because why you can't keep? Why you, you know, okay, you fucked up, but keep going.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4:That intermission is going to piss me off every time.
Speaker 3:How.
Speaker 4:If.
Speaker 3:I'm still doing something to you.
Speaker 4:No, sir, because maybe I had enough of that and I wanted that and you done fucked up and brought me a. I gotta send my damn meal back to the kitchen.
Speaker 3:I done waited all this time for this and I got all I'm saying is I said we've had this conversation before. If you give me the opportunity to redeem myself, I'm definitely gonna redeem myself yeah, but I don't want it to take 3 or 5 business hours.
Speaker 4:That's my whole point. So let me ask you a question?
Speaker 3:what's up? I'm definitely going to redeem myself, yeah, but I don't want it to take three or five business hours is my whole point. No, it don't ever take that long.
Speaker 1:So let me ask you a question.
Speaker 4:Okay.
Speaker 1:Before you saying that, what about if the box was weak as fuck?
Speaker 4:Okay.
Speaker 1:Is there a way to redeem themselves?
Speaker 4:Shit, I don't know. It depends on what that weak consists of. What you mean. What was weak about it? Was it? Was it hollow, was it dry?
Speaker 1:man shit. Because I, because I know this is one of my stories man shit. So I don't, I man fuck it, I'm just gonna get down to it yeah, please don't.
Speaker 1:She's about to be, I don't understand why people talk so much shit. And they might have been good for the next motherfucker. But they talk so much shit, put their shit on a pedestal man. They treating their shit like it's Superman. I'm talking about that motherfucker. Come swooping in with a cape, like that motherfucker, like dun-dun-dun-dun, a whole superhero, right, this motherfucker? A Marvel movie, the number one superhero getting that motherfucker man what the fuck is this bullshit?
Speaker 4:so what was wrong with it? What was wrong?
Speaker 1:with it. Yeah man, I'm talking about the look of it this motherfucker trying to throw it back.
Speaker 3:Shit, what the look good yeah, yeah, the look of what, though at a bar. No hell, no her. Oh, how she was doing things.
Speaker 1:Bro what.
Speaker 4:Okay, so wait. So do you tough it out and let her do it? No, I wouldn't fuck, I broke that rubber.
Speaker 3:That's some funny shit.
Speaker 4:If she don't know what she's doing, you don't take over Hell. No, that shit was weed.
Speaker 1:I started thinking about grocery shopping and everything. Fuck that shit. Your mind was weed and I started thinking about grocery shopping and everything Fuck that shit.
Speaker 3:So that's what I'm saying. Your mind was gone?
Speaker 4:Did it feel good?
Speaker 1:Hell nah that motherfucker, felt like I was fucking the edge of a couch.
Speaker 3:That motherfucker just felt like straight wood. Oh, oh hell.
Speaker 1:What the fuck is this? Well, she's skinny, hell yeah. That's why you don't fuck skinny bitches, Uh-huh I heard Some of them be deep as fuck. I ain't even hold you, I don't. I ain't gonna lie to you. They say that motherfucker got in the entomologist, that motherfucker be like a whole tunnel.
Speaker 4:You know what?
Speaker 1:Where you at that motherfucker like like. I'm from a. That motherfucker felt like a doorway when I walked in one time. No way in hell feed you a couple of times.
Speaker 4:I need to get you some protein. No skinny shaming, no skinny shaming.
Speaker 1:But that ain't for me. It ain't for me. I need somebody where we got them sit down. I ain't watching how many calories I eat. Oh man Girl, eat that steak, eat that potato, because once you get full I'm going to fuck the shit out of you tonight and then you're going to be over there asleep like a motherfucker, like that.
Speaker 4:I'm talking about whole sleep go home and burn them cars out, sweat the fuck out of you.
Speaker 1:Well, we both look. We can't say shit. Goddamn looking at the goddamn roof just stuck nigga you alright. Hell yeah, you alright that's when you.
Speaker 3:That's when you lose your hearing. What? What? Here y'all. Hell, yeah, you all right. That's when you lose your hearing. What?
Speaker 1:Here y'all go, you got that right. Go deaf, yeah Well, you can't even see straight. Oh, I can't see.
Speaker 4:But that damn shit was good though I ain't never lost my hearing, but I think I had an aneurysm though.
Speaker 3:A couple times I thought I had a heart attack.
Speaker 4:I definitely had a couple aneurysms, that's like this that chest.
Speaker 2:Feel like you can see your goddamn heart. Watch this God.
Speaker 4:If you just see me through this one time, I know If you just see me through this.
Speaker 1:If you see me through this, I promise I'll be to church on Sunday.
Speaker 3:Next time what?
Speaker 1:happens, I'm in that box again, but but nah shit, I think everybody done been in a box so good the way you just got them. It feel like you in the heaven's gates that motherfucker get the splish splash. And I was taking a bath. Shit good, god, almighty. I mean I, that motherfucker get the splish splash and I was taking a bath, shit, good god, almighty, I mean I personally haven't been about so good that I felt like I was taking a bath it's okay, it's okay, it's okay. But you know what the fuck I'm talking?
Speaker 1:about though I do shit if it don't make a mess.
Speaker 3:I don't want it that is something that women do, though. After like y'all, you definitely go to the group chat and clown though, right?
Speaker 4:so I might not go to the group chat. I'm gonna go. I got one. I got one person. I'm going to.
Speaker 3:Okay, I'm like somebody's being told about this it depends on if it's a text or phone call would you say when they, when they come back, well, really would you give another opportunity to redeem themselves?
Speaker 4:it depends, though. It depends on what was trash, what was like. It's so many, it's so many variables, like what was good, what can I say that was actually good about that, and how do I feel about you, like? Do I feel like we got a good look like you know it's got to be something. Something got to bring me back, to make me want to give you a second try, because if everything about the whole experience was trash absolutely not you won't waste my time again.
Speaker 1:That motherfucker been in there two minutes again.
Speaker 4:You won't waste my time again.
Speaker 3:That's some funny shit.
Speaker 1:Do you feel like if it was, that's grounds for being ghosted, or do you just tell them hey, it was enjoyable.
Speaker 4:Hey motherfucker, your dick was trash. I'm not going to lie to you. I'm not going to lie to you. I'm not an ego booster. I've been dealing with somebody and we had one time and it was like, and I told him I was like yeah, I don't know what was going on with you last night. He's like damn, for real. Yeah, for real. He's like I thought I was.
Speaker 1:No, you wasn't that was that perky.
Speaker 4:That was that perky that he was on like I let him know, because this my we mean to talk about this what. What did you think you were doing so I could tell you what? You should what you should never do again. Let me give you some like let's, I'm, I'm gonna listen. We can sit down with a pen and a pad and figure that shit out shit.
Speaker 1:She said, she gonna do mad.
Speaker 4:I mean no, Honestly, if it's somebody that you really want to continue fucking with, like, let's figure this out. Like, what do we need to do? Because, every person ain't the same. You can't fuck me the same way you fucked the last person, exactly. So let's talk about this so I can tell you what you did that I liked and what you did that I didn't. It's real easy, I mean, but if I don't care enough, then nah, it was trash, and I forgot you existed everybody don't deserve the Rusty Trump I mentally unfucked you mentally unfucked you, mentally unfucked somebody.
Speaker 4:I forgot. It even happened. I could see you and not even know who you are, god damn yeah.
Speaker 3:I think that is grounds for ghosts to know you owe me my pussy back yeah.
Speaker 4:Oh shit.
Speaker 1:I done had some bad escapades. I learned my lesson. Let me tell you something. When I hit my 30s, bro, I tried to goddamn fuck a little 18 yo. That was the worst decision of my fucking life when that motherfucker Bro, that motherfucker tried to rob me.
Speaker 3:You know what you walking into, though, in that situation. What the fuck man that motherfucker was talking rob me. One thing is, though, you know what you're walking into, though, in that situation. What the fuck man.
Speaker 1:That motherfucker was talking cash shit. Next thing, I know what the fuck are you doing. Yeah, do not pass gold, Do not collect $200. How the fuck.
Speaker 3:Hey boo.
Speaker 4:My text message just went off. I got to go help my homeboy with his head Like it just fell out his car. So that's because 18 year olds should fuck 18 year olds, Cause don't none of them know what they doing? You're right. So they don't know.
Speaker 3:You're right. They had a great time 18, 18 year old me and me. Now is two different people. 18 year old me was just happy that we getting some. When I think back to 18 year old me, like I didn't know what I don't.
Speaker 4:I can like visualize that shit Like baby. What are you doing? What's going on here? Why are? You doing that, like that.
Speaker 1:That ain't how that go, it's just inexperience. Hey, your back still Keep moving them shoulders. That's why.
Speaker 3:It's being inexperienced.
Speaker 1:Man shit Because you don't know, that's like we were having a discussion one day Like this is so off topic, SJ's like we were having a discussion one day. It's so off topic, SJ. Let me ask you a question. I don't know if this is off topic, SJ. I got a question.
Speaker 4:I'm scared, go ahead.
Speaker 1:Would you rather fuck a virgin or a whore?
Speaker 4:What am I gonna do with a virgin At this big ass age? What do I want with you? Because, first of all, you ain't never been in nothing, so you don't know.
Speaker 1:you're not gonna last that motherfucker gonna shoot that club up. You're gonna say yeah, you ain't gonna let that go them two minutes.
Speaker 3:You was just I don't want that two minutes yeah, well, watch this chance. What a virgin or whore first off, when you say a virgin, how old is virgin? Is this virgin the same age as me?
Speaker 1:Yeah, okay, we're going to go. A 40-year-old virgin.
Speaker 3:Fuck that, no, a 40-year-old virgin.
Speaker 4:First of all because I want to know why you ain't never had pussy, sir. Have you been locked up your whole adult life?
Speaker 3:Nah, as a man, that's different.
Speaker 4:Yeah, as a man. If you say you a 40 year old virgin, yeah, you, you looking, you looking like. Hmm, if you have not been locked up, you know how your adult life could. I think there's absolutely something wrong with you that you have not had?
Speaker 3:no, they made a movie about it look, they didn't.
Speaker 1:They don't have some. I don't want it, they didn't they don't have some boy puss that bus.
Speaker 4:Yeah, I don't. I don, there's nothing he can do for me. That's wild.
Speaker 1:It's hard though, but my whole thing is like for me. I don't even think I've ever slept with a virgin, honestly.
Speaker 3:I know I haven't no me neither.
Speaker 1:I don't think I have. It's like a rare commodity.
Speaker 4:Because I think the times that I would have when I was younger. What do two inexperienced motherfuckers have? They're like we don't have no business. No, I don't know what I'm doing. You don't know what you're doing. We just going to lay here and just slide on each other.
Speaker 1:Punch. Hey, I'm going to tell y'all. Hey, this is the funniest shit, because I'm going to tell y'all my first time and it's going to hey, it curved me like a motherfucker. So, man, tell me why. I'm trying to do something. I'm like 15, 16 years old. I'm trying to. I'm trying to do the do. I don't know what the fuck I am doing at all. I don't got the rub on.
Speaker 1:I'm good, I'm good on that notion. And, by the way, y'all, one side does not fit off. Don't jump in. No goddamn Magnum, if you ain't built for one. They're going to be looking like they stretched out tube socks. But anyway, man, I tried to. I was trying to slide in, wasn't working, so I thought it's like you got to have like a running start, man, man, all that hurt was oh, game over, game the fuck over. I'm done. I don't know what the fuck that was. I don't know what the fuck that was a condom. I don't know what the fuck that was. You but game over, uh, no, hell, no, that was not supposed to be sounding like that. Nigga said a running star.
Speaker 3:I'm so confused.
Speaker 4:I'm so confused what I know you.
Speaker 1:I ain't break my shit. I was scared. I broke my shit. I literally got up and ran to the bathroom On tomorrow. It's like 5 o'clock in the afternoon, it's like 4 or 5 o'clock in the afternoon. Man. I got up and ran to the bathroom trying to see if my shit was goddamn looking like the letter L.
Speaker 3:That's embarrassing bro.
Speaker 1:Well, I thought my shit looked like a boomerang.
Speaker 4:So did you ever figure?
Speaker 1:out what the sound was Hell. So did you ever figure out what the sound was Hell? No, I didn't give a fuck what the sound was, my shit still worked. Yeah, shit, she's talking about something you okay, bitch, are you okay?
Speaker 3:That's crazy. Obviously he figured it out.
Speaker 4:He didn't figure it out, he had it out. That's what he did.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I think I did, I think I did. Oh, it was over with. I think I did, I think.
Speaker 3:I did. Oh, it was over with you didn't try. I ain't tried, no more. What the fuck.
Speaker 1:Oh man, I was discouraged. That motherfucker was womp, womp, womp. No hell no, that's tough bro. What the fuck.
Speaker 3:That's tough man, that's real tough. Sorry to hear that. That's tragic who.
Speaker 4:He the crazy part about it is this is the fucked up part.
Speaker 1:So tell me why. Later on that day my cousin got on. I see my cousin. No, it was the next day. I see my cousin. Yeah, bro, you remember that? That chick that came down here I said yo, I had just told him right before that. Oh for real, bro, Shit I bust that motherfucker that night. What oh just told him right before that.
Speaker 3:Oh for real, bro, shit, I bust that motherfucker that night. Oh, she was gonna get it from somewhere, wow, hey. But that's that also showed me that, oh shawty that you were about to get your cousin hit. Yep, late on that night, bro. Hey, that's even tougher. That's, that's because you know she definitely told him about it, she said.
Speaker 4:She said you didn't finish the job somebody was coming.
Speaker 3:Hey, and guess what?
Speaker 4:that's tough it is what it is ain't what it ain't.
Speaker 1:That's tough hey, if they gonna fuck, they gonna fuck wow if they want some dick, they gonna want some dick I guess she yeah, was she a virgin?
Speaker 3:I don't fucking know, wouldn't ask, obviously not but do you?
Speaker 1:do you literally walk up to a person and say, hey, I, I was just wondering, you know, since we're about to do whatever we're about to do, are you a virgin?
Speaker 4:I mean, at that age you normally, y'all normally know I would think what the fuck I knew?
Speaker 1:Man, look, I got two boys that are 17 and 15, right. Yeah they 17 and 15. And when I go and pick them up at school, I'm looking at all these little girls and that'll remind you I'm not perverted, I do not look at little girls like that you just saying, I'm just saying how they dress yeah that's all these motherfuckers, because these kids they don't, because they don't have no, they don't have no like dress code for real, like none.
Speaker 4:Like I remember. I like I remember catching my daughter like how you feeling you went about the wedding to school, how you could wear your whole list. I mean she like, yeah, everybody, what you mean that's what y'all wear at the school, confused because I want to see all of these, everybody, all of them got their stomachs out man all of them got crop. All of them got a little bitty ass shorts on, with their ass hanging out the bottom.
Speaker 1:Man. I'm looking at these goddamn them leggings man. These motherfuckers live in leggings nowadays.
Speaker 4:Yeah, they do. That's all they wear. They wear leggings and hoodies.
Speaker 1:Look like when I was in my 20s, shit. I know what the hell happened with gauchos. Them ga, hey, them gauchos are death sentence. You know what I mean? You ain't got to take them off, you just got to spread the leg wide open, just slide in, fuck it.
Speaker 3:A gaucho. You don't know what gauchos are. Yeah, I don't know what gauchos are you know what gauchos? Are I know what gauchos are how many times?
Speaker 1:you going to get in?
Speaker 3:trouble with them?
Speaker 4:I don't know tight it's like, yeah, it's like leggings, but they wide at the bottom they real wide at the bottom.
Speaker 1:So the only thing you gotta do is slide them all the way up they leg, yeah, and stretch them out, yeah, bro, shit, you ain't got you ain't got.
Speaker 4:Yeah, you ain't gotta take them off.
Speaker 1:You just slide on in that motherfucker yeah, I've never, uh, never spent now.
Speaker 3:When I was in high school, you had they had dress codes. You had to wear polo shirts, khaki pants and all this stuff.
Speaker 4:Like, even if you didn't have that like your clothes had to be, you couldn't have like your midriff out, you couldn't have short ass shorts or skirts on. Like you might be able to get away with it a little bit if you hunch your arm up when they come by to check you. But you had to adhere to certain things. Like now they just wear whatever they want to wear. They either wear the boys all wear pajama pants to school, every last one of them they wear pajama pants and basketball shorts and they either wear leggings or little bitty ass shorts.
Speaker 3:And this is what kids doing today.
Speaker 4:Yes, high school right now.
Speaker 1:My son got done. Go like dressed to the T. My youngest son, well, my 15 year old. They told him he was weird because he wearing jeans and yeah, yeah, man, that's.
Speaker 3:I don't man. I don't know how. I don't know how you could do it.
Speaker 1:I don't think my mom would even let me leave like that, though honestly, bro, my mama caught me outside of my goddamn uniform one day at school, she who whooped my ass yeah, bro, that's why I whooped my ass Took me into the bathroom and whooped my ass at school.
Speaker 3:Even if that was like cool to do, I don't even think my mom would be like. My mom would turn it around and be like, yeah, I'm not buying you school clothes. You don't wear clothes to school, no way. You don't wear shit, no way, that's what my moms I already know. Yeah, I know moms would do that, but yeah, man, that's crazy. I'm sorry that that happened to you.
Speaker 4:Jack, but after your five years.
Speaker 3:I seen you eventually learn.
Speaker 4:He figured it out. He figured it out.
Speaker 3:That's tough though.
Speaker 1:You know what? Fuck you Chance. Yeah, I figured it out, but hey, thank y'all for listening to Four Steppers. Only, I'm Jack he's Chan. Appreciate y'all for listening and thank you, sj for coming and sitting in with us and having us have your wonderful insights. Of course, of course. Hey, I just want to tell y'all, sit down and watch us step by step, we out Peace.