For Steppers Only: Raw, Uncut, and Unedited
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For Steppers Only: Raw, Uncut, and Unedited
Pissing On Territory
Ever been stranded on a road trip because someone forgot the essentials, like gas? Join us on "4 Steppers Only" as we stumble hilariously through a mishap-filled adventure, which serves as a comedic reminder of the importance of preparation. Amidst our laughter, we ponder the absurdity of cultural portrayals in horror movies, especially the instinct of black characters to flee the scene of danger. This light-hearted banter sets the tone for an episode filled with candid conversations on relationships, rumors, and the need to metaphorically claim your territory.
Navigating through the murky waters of jealousy and respect, we unravel the metaphor of "pissing on territory" in relationships, as strange as that sounds. Inspired by Floyd Mayweather's views, we debate the fine line between ownership and respect, highlighting how misunderstandings can spark unnecessary jealousy. By sharing personal stories and humorous jabs, we underline the importance of handling responsibilities to safeguard personal boundaries, all while questioning the need for such territorial instincts.
The complexities of relationship dynamics and the business-like nature of child support also make their way into our conversation, with reflections on how these issues reshape communication. Discussing motivations and misunderstandings, we offer insights into the art of choosing battles wisely and preserving authenticity amidst chaos. With anecdotes about gaming consoles and the absurdity of unexpected schemes, we wrap up with a nod to personal growth and an exhausted yet heartfelt thanks to our listeners for keeping up with our antics.
Goddamn nigga, I told you not to goddamn pirate, so I told you you didn't get a goddamn. Go get some gas before we goddamn we're goddamn out here in the motherfucking woods.
Speaker 2:I didn't know where the fuck it was going, bro. You said get gas, nigga. Then you said go get a suitcase. Then you said go do that. I didn't know what the fuck you mean you was going to do A suitcase?
Speaker 1:What nigga what you?
Speaker 2:trying to get a suitcase for I don't know what the fuck you're doing, bro Nigga?
Speaker 1:I know you got a whole bag of baby wipes and shit like that. I do.
Speaker 2:But nigga, I don't know what the fuck you're doing. I thought hell shit. You said shit. You said let go. I thought we was going to go out there. Listen, you ain't never heard on the goddamn trip they be saying goddamn.
Speaker 1:One of their famous parents said let's go and they had to pack a suitcase goddamn slow as fuck Shit. That's why we're going to the goddamn Dominican Republic next year and get my knees done and ankles done, bro. I swear to God, I'm going to be taller than you next year. The fuck you laughing for nigga.
Speaker 2:Now you're ahead of me. Now go, go ahead, go.
Speaker 1:Nah, shit, what you mean? Go, go, go, nigga Shit, nigga. I ain't slow, nigga Shit. All this goddamn ripping and running, nigga. You hear that. You hear that, oh shit, what the fuck was that, I don't know. But that's hey, hey, hey man, what? No, no, no, no, no, no, no. You can't. Hey, give me a stick. I'm about to trip this nigga up. I swear to God, you ain't got to be the fastest one. I got to be. I ain't gotta be the fastest one, I just ain't gotta be the slowest one, you just ain't gotta be the one to get eight. Who you telling shit? You better beat me to the goddamn gas station. That's all I'm telling you. Hell, yeah, shit. What the fuck you mean? Man, shit your ass up here, goddamn bullshit.
Speaker 2:What the fuck listen? That's why I ain't never got the scary movies when the black person die first. We always hear that shit. Oh hell, no, we're going the other way, we getting the fuck on through. I ain't never understand that shit, bruh. I ain't never understand.
Speaker 1:Hey y'all, Welcome to 4 Steppers Only. I'm Jack, that's Smiley. Yo, hey, Smiley. I fucked up and fucked up the intro man. I don't think they remember. Hey, sit down and watch a motherfucking stepper step here on four steppers only. Yeah, you know it's only right if we say that shit twice. Yeah right, that's like the first nut. You got to get the first one out before you get the second one.
Speaker 2:Yeah, man, that second one, deadly bro, shit, motherfucker, like when you finish, when you finish. Yeah, now you want me to be done, uh-huh.
Speaker 1:Yeah, nah, ain't no done shit. Hey, you better be glad I ain't took that goddamn Seattle Survivor shit. I'm about to hit your ass for four hours straight. I ain't into a goddamn crazy bitch. Big, fat, big fat big fat, big fat. Hey, you got them hitting up all my exes telling me everything they did. Big fat making lies on me. Big fat talking about I stole money from bitches.
Speaker 1:Big fat hey, hey, y'all shit. We talking about pissing on territory today. Amen, they talking about. What the fuck you talking about pissing on territory? Yeah, we refer that shit to like dogs, man, and we ain't talking about motherfuckers squirting on folks. They say our motherfuckers be acting sometimes, but what you talking about? Shit dog, hey man. I got a quick question. Yeah, hey, this a real subject. What a lot People don't understand. Do you know what I mean by pissing on territory? Will you elaborate to some of these ignorant motherfuckers? We got listening.
Speaker 2:I would say make your presence felt, or make your presence known without you being around or without a motherfucker even knowing you, like you just feel the need to just. Hey, I'm here, but your ass all the way down the street, why, that's what you refer to? Pissing on territory? Hell, yeah, you're doing some bullshit and nigga we. We ain't nowhere near where you think we are so.
Speaker 1:So you want me to tell you why the x definition go ahead. My definition of pissing on territory is when somebody is let's be known that they are their territory like, even if y'all are just y'all, just initially talking, y'all don't fuck, y'all conjugating, y'all situating, y'all, playing hide and stick. I want you to have my roger wood, you know just something like that. But then you bring it up to other motherfuckers that feel, like you, a threat. So therefore, you, you acting like this dog when I come around, just hey, how you doing, you have a problem with me because you've been pissed on your territory.
Speaker 1:In my mind it's like, bro, if you ain't goddamn laid that motherfucking pipe right, you ain't taking care of that motherfucker, you ain't goddamn being that motherfucker distraction, then guess what? You must not be handling your business to 110%, because if you my motherfucking territory, or you my ownership, or we've established this, even if a motherfucker come up and try to goddamn sniff around you, curve, but if you ain't doing your job, shit that motherfucker look at you like come up and try to goddamn sniff around you Curve, but if you ain't doing your job, that motherfucker look at you like shit, this nigga wasn't here.
Speaker 1:I get it motherfucker the number, I get it motherfucker the business. And to me that's fucked up, because a motherfucker can hate on you, spread lies on you and have this ill intent or that ill mindset about you just because you high-high kiki with his territory, or his perceived territory.
Speaker 2:You ain't need no it Boy, what you talking about? Some of these motherfuckers, I ain't gonna lie. Some of these motherfuckers be having hidden, hidden, goddamn fictional territory, like the bitch don't even oh I'm sorry, the woman don't even know that she on territory and I think that might be the strangest.
Speaker 1:When a woman don't know that you her territory, I think that might be like that's when of them, oh, oh you, one of them, motherfuckers, huh, yeah them tender, dick them soft leather, yeah you trying to them make you woo, woo, woo.
Speaker 2:Yeah, he trying, he trying to seek ownership before he gave me a damn hit, hey.
Speaker 1:But you know what my daddy always told me though this, hey, this a fucked up philosophy, but you don't sign on them dotted line unless you know what your car running like.
Speaker 2:You get what I'm saying exactly that's what I said before you even hit your turn she mine.
Speaker 1:Uh, just because I'm talking to her, she mine bro, I saw her, bro, I thought I saw her first. What bro, that's some old, weak, tender dick.
Speaker 2:Tight shit I'll let you have it, just so you can have it right, just so you can get denied, bro, because a lot of folks, don't they?
Speaker 1:they jump to conclusions yeah, real fast. I'm sorry y'all, I'm tired as fuck shit. I've been up since last night been sipping a little bit, like when I tell y'all I've been up since last night. I've been up since like what, what? 5 o'clock, yeah, 4, 5 o'clock yesterday, and that's pm, that's not am, but um, and it's what? 11, something, 12. Bro, it's 12.30. 12.30 am, 12.30 noon. Is that a real time?
Speaker 2:12.30 noon.
Speaker 1:Nah, I think it's fucked up you understood what the fuck I was talking about, though I did I was like what the fuck is that?
Speaker 2:after I said it, I was like what the fuck is a?
Speaker 1:but to talk about that jealousy shit? Cause I look at that jealousy shit like a female trait. But yes, men do have it, but it's like motherfuckers done killed, motherfuckers over pussy.
Speaker 2:I won't say. I'll say this Depending on the individual I don't classify. I heard Floyd say this shit and it made perfect sense when he was like he got asked a question. It was like so, if somebody came up to you, well, came up to your lady while you was with him and tried to talk to him, he was like. He was like nah, I'm not.
Speaker 2:I'm not a, I'm not a jealous type, but I'm a want to be respected type. I'm like like you wouldn't want me to come up to you and your old lady while you with her, or even at all like that you would try to come chop it up. If you know, or even if you got like a little hint of you thinking that you know that we together, why would you even try to? You feel me. So he's like I'm the, I'm the one to be respected, but I feel that 100, I feel like that's how. I won't say I'm a, I'm I'm that, I will. I will say this 110, I'm a. I'm a defensive type. That's what I'll let you do, whatever you do, but I'm going to defend myself, however I need to be, whether I need to defend my family myself, friends or whoever the fuck if I feel like they need help. That's what really probably 10 out of 10, really just hurt me most of the time because I'm trying to help others.
Speaker 1:I told somebody this the other day man, if you my partner, if I'm associated with you in any shape, form or fashion, and you telling me you're fucking with somebody, guess what, I don't fuck with them. Exactly Because if I fuck with them, that means I don't fuck with you. Because a lot of people fail to realize that. Because that loyalty shit run deep, but that jealousy shit runs deeper. But, like you said, it's about respect and all that. Like, I can come kick the bobo with you If I know you're my partner, like soft leg or tender or linker or whatever, or situation, shit, shit. I can come ha-ha, ki-ki and never cross that line, mm-hmm. And that's a blatantly form of respect. Because you like the old shit man and he ain't no threat, I ain't worried about him. But if I know you want them slimy, grimy ass, then we got an issue.
Speaker 1:Hell yeah, shit, we bro, shit, hey, guess what? Like I used to tell folks in the back, like back in the day when I was like Bro, shit, hey, guess what? Like I used to tell folks in the back, like back in the day when I was, like my early 20s, bro, I was a savage, savage, pure D, fucking savage. Like you try to pick a fight with me, you piss me off or whatever. Bro, I just do my research on you, find out who your old lady is and take her out on a date. I ain't going to try to screw with him.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that date is just enough To get y'all arguing what, what you talking about? Just to get in that ill. Just enough for y'all To get to arguing. Just enough for her To come back to me. Look at that. Look how the cookie done crumbled Jack To be more careful.
Speaker 1:But that ain't, but that shit got. They don't scare the fuck out of them, though. Yeah, they don't get them to act right.
Speaker 2:That's what I'm saying. Ain't no scaring them. Listen, the trap is already set. When the trap is set, it's set. You're absolutely right.
Speaker 1:You just got to let that shit play out, but that bait going to either get you in there or shit. You like this why?
Speaker 2:that's my point bro, uh oh what you over there reading now listen to me, I don't even talk about this shit. I just picked up a phone. Just, I don't even know why, cause I usually don't do this shit. Bro, tell me when I see a fucking lizard in this man hotel room in Miami, like one of them iguanas. Yes, bro, he got a fucking wooden a two. One of them iguanas. Yes, bro, he got a fucking wooden two by four about to smack that motherfucker Bro.
Speaker 1:You know them motherfuckers like bro. What would you do? What?
Speaker 2:would I do? I would just close that door and go downstairs and ask for my refund. To be honest, Bro, that's like Ask for my refund and ask me another room. So I'm staying here for free. Now I'm finna. Have fun.
Speaker 1:For real. That's like I was telling somebody the other day. You know how some folks be talking about they scared of spiders and shit. I know this is off the top of y'all, but yeah, I'm sorry y'all.
Speaker 1:But you know how folks be talking about. They scared of spiders and shit, uh-huh. So I said and land on them One of them, big old palm metal balls Shit, that motherfucker making that sound. And you got them. And that motherfucker just land on you, boy, that motherfucker is going to turn into a whole hole. Listen In 3.5 seconds.
Speaker 2:Nope, that's what I'm saying, but you can't even really use that shit, because first off, number one, you don't know what the fuck just hit you bro.
Speaker 1:Okay, I'll give you a perfect example. Then Say, you walking out in the dark, right, and you just walking, walking, walking, walking, walking and you hit a big-ass spider web. That too, I'm talking about one of them, big banana, them yellow and black motherfuckers spider web. Nah, I'm not trying to hit that you what I said?
Speaker 2:nah, I'm not trying to risk death, but uh. But what about this, bro? Yeah, I know your ass been in the dark and you hit like a whole big ass pile of next, oh what?
Speaker 1:oh, I got one better. I think everybody did that shit. I got one better for you. You've been sleep and you feel something crawl on you and you. When you goddamn go like this to get it off of you, you feel how big it is in your hand. You throw it and you hear that motherfucker tap something in a corner like ooh.
Speaker 2:Hell, no, I ain't never been. I done did like to where, like I thought you was going to say you know? So the ground is facing you. I smacked you, I done did that shit.
Speaker 1:Bro. No, I was out in the field and that motherfucker big ass goddamn water bug crawled on my fucking face and head. Bro. I about lost my whole religion.
Speaker 2:Damn boy. But back to goddamn jealousy and shit like that. Sorry y'all, we had to goddamn take a detour to get back on the road. But yeah, that jealousy motherfucker Cause I don't know whether it's a, I don't know bro's a, I don't know bro, it gotta be something that's pulling at your heartstring, like you love that motherfucker so much that you just you ready to risk it all for me?
Speaker 2:You ready to risk your whole life? Like you ready to risk your fucking freedom, your right to carry a weapon? Like you ready to risk every fucking thing just because a motherfucker don't want to fuck with you? No more, that shit just don't make sense.
Speaker 1:I'm sorry, I'm different. If you don't want to fuck with me, no more. It's just like okay. It's like okay, yeah, I'm going to have to eat that shit, especially if I started developing feelings for you. Exactly, I, I'm gonna have to eat that shit, especially if I started developing feelings for you.
Speaker 2:Exactly, I'm gonna have to eat that shit sometimes you can come back and redemption yeah, but once you done, had your redemption time, and you still show to be that crazy motherfucker. You still show to be that person who can't get it right. You still show to be the same little girl.
Speaker 1:Little girl, little boy.
Speaker 2:I'm sorry I said little girl because I'm a man, I ain't talking about little boys. But yeah, I mean shit. Don't let the goddamn dough hit you with a good little split yet. Hopefully I don't see you on the flip side.
Speaker 1:Y'all might not know, I was on child support for a long time Still on child support, but that's like how I used to my baby mama's. Once you put me on child support, it's a done deal. Now, this here a business. Now we ain't got shit to talk about this seed. You get your money, you do whatever you want with it. Hey, that's your business. I'm worried about this over here, ain't?
Speaker 2:no, ain't no, coming back from goddamn putting me on cs. Yeah, ain't no goddamn putting me in them folks business?
Speaker 1:yeah, because you done told them people on my ass.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I told the people on my. You felt the need to, like you said, be jealous. You felt the need to since I don't want to be with you anymore, since we can't work this with you anymore, since we can't work this out Well, we can't work this out. Since you don't want to talk to me like an adult, you feel the need to get a mediator.
Speaker 1:Bro, that ain't no mediator. That's a motherfucking packet.
Speaker 2:They think that's a mediator, though that's what I'm saying. They think that's going to be the end, all Well. I don't know if they think that's the mediator or they just think that's just the end. All be all Uh-huh or get what they're going to get. Got your ass Three different goddamn things that could be.
Speaker 2:Some people do it because goddamn nigga just ain't trying to be in the life, so now they got to do it. Then it's the people on goddamn both sides, both of them trying to be in their life. They just can't get their shit together Absolutely. And then you got the goddamn motherfucker who just ain't shit, who don't want anyone to be there at all. I feel like those are the ones who need to be on child support, them ain't shits, the ones who don't want to be there at all, who don't want to show shit, who don't want to do shit, who don't want to do nothing. You know, you motherfucker, look just like that. If you don't want to do shit for him, that's like I'm going to be there. That shit is dumb as fuck to me.
Speaker 1:I'll give you a perfect example. My ex-wife hit me up yesterday. She's like John. Your son told me you got a daughter out here. I said what's the daughter's name? She's talking about some Cassidy, cassidy.
Speaker 2:I ain't got no daughter, that ain't.
Speaker 1:Cassidy, I Cassidy, cassidy, I ain't got no daughter. That ain't Cassidy, I got a Kennedy. Sorry y'all, I'm yawning like a motherfucker, but she was like, yeah, he told me da-da-da-da-da, da-da-da-da-da. I'm like man, this shit ain't even resulted to that. Like, if you're having to Check somebody about X, y, z or them fucking around, make sure you got concrete evidence About what you checking them about, because you gonna look stupid.
Speaker 2:You gonna look stupid as fuck when that shit don't even check out. Now you just Ruined your reputation. Am I trusting your ass, yup? Or was somebody who, you and me fucking up? Yup? Now look at me Looking fucking stupid as shit, but I didn't bitch. I'm sorry. I'm sorry y'all. Let that shit Fuck it, keep it moving, bro, what you talking about Sometimes.
Speaker 1:But you know what Every discussion doesn't turn into an argument. Every fight doesn't deserve a reaction, right, every negative response doesn't deserve a reaction.
Speaker 2:But sometimes they push you to the edge, though, to make you have to, or to make you feel like you have to, because at a certain point, how much, like Tyrese did, did what more do you want from me? Like that, and to be honest and I've been for a whole lot of days when you just keep pushing the envelope, keep doing shit and a motherfucker like it's, like that's how motherfucking feel like what more do you want? Like like what else? I will give it to you. Just ask, because, nigga, you doing too much at this point. Like I'm ready for this shit to be over with, because this shit ain't even Cool. Yeah, I can't get jiggy with this shit at all.
Speaker 1:That's the crazy part. A lot of these motherfuckers like need shits bro.
Speaker 2:And secretly behind it, it. And then, like I said, like we had a conversation yesterday, bro, about this shit man, you supposed to wait until you get in the shit to show your true colors? To show your true colors off the goddamn, off the front end. You supposed to show it off the back end, cause at least you can get a little bit of shit first.
Speaker 1:God damn depends on what line of work you in, cause sometimes you gotta show them teeth, for at least you can get a little bit of shit first. God damn depends on what line of work you in that true cause sometimes you gotta show them teeth for the people to understand that you actually ain't no pushover, yeah, and then other times it's good to just back off. It's like shit, you wanna create this funk.
Speaker 2:Ay, you got it but that's the code switch.
Speaker 1:Bruh got no idea what that too oh my bad shit, boy ay, y'all ay. I done fucked up, man, I done dozed off like a motherfucker over here. Bitch, I ain't even gonna hold you, man, I done dozed off like I'm talking, my eyes closed. Man, I started dreaming and everything bro. Usually it's me, not this motherfucker over here doing it, boy ay. But remind y'all shit, everything bro. Usually it's me that is motherfucking for doing it, boy.
Speaker 1:But remind y'all shit, I'm up here sipping, being up for like what, over 24, almost 24 hours now, about six hours, boy, motherfucking, we're struggling like a bitch dog. I'm talking about hey, nah, we gotta get like 24 minutes bro, because, shit, that's the only way we get our sponsors on this shit. But that's what a lot of people don't forget. Like, hey, if you got a podcast, hey, hit us up because we can tell y'all how we doing this shit and how we grow and how we started our community to grow. Hey, remember always scared money don't make money and all money ain't good money. You know what I mean? Mhm, sometimes you gotta turn certain deals down when they don. Remember, always scared money don't make money and all money ain't good money.
Speaker 2:You know what I mean, mm-hmm. Sometimes you got to turn certain deals down when they don't sound right. Hell yeah, we could have been had different shit, but the deal just didn't sound right for us at the time.
Speaker 1:Hell nah, so have it pushing Shit. I remember when we got, hey, remember our first goddamn business. That's what I'm talking about, bro. We weren't even how many episodes we had. We had three. We didn't have a lot. I think we had like three or four.
Speaker 2:We didn't have a lot.
Speaker 1:And we went to go talk about this motherfucker, this motherfucker, like we were just going to go be visionaries on the podcast. Yeah, just go look at somebody else's pod, bro. This motherfucker has not even worked, even work shit out. You hear me, yeah ain't when it got like nothing, crazy. So how do you, how do you say this is the person I want, this is the person I want to be with, but you ain't got, not shared a piece of armor or anything. So how can you say that's your territory exactly, or that's yours, that's your bitch, that's your, that's your honeypot.
Speaker 2:I say that's that. That's the person on the territory before you even get, before you even hit, before you even grab what you need out of the situation and get the fuck on yep that's like shit, bro.
Speaker 1:I've been in a lot of situations where I just said, fuck them clothes, fuck this, fuck these clothes, fuck these shoes, everything. And you know what? I made sure I took my motherfucking PlayStation.
Speaker 2:My game. My game got to come down. My game ain't laying stand nowhere.
Speaker 1:Your new nigga ain't finna, pay my shit.
Speaker 2:Listen to me, he can't even get in my shit.
Speaker 1:Fuck you, he ain't finna play no goddamn new goddamn 2K on my shit.
Speaker 2:Right. Black Ops 2, Black Ops 6 and shit. You got me fucked up, Crazy. They'll try to do you like that, though Try to make it seem like you're the one who did this shit. Though Just try to get you out of pain. Let them do what the fuck they want to do bro.
Speaker 1:Shit, it's my kids, bro. Mhm. These motherfuckers done goddamn, worked something out with somebody.
Speaker 2:Mhm what the fuck you mean? Huh, what happened?
Speaker 1:this this motherfucker is up there sleep talking I don't even remember what I said, bro your kids worked out something with somebody oh god, my kids over here doing putting the whole rico in my goddamn sleep, man, god damn man, boy, shit. That's why, that's why you don't do no podcast and why you goddamn half asleep, bro, but boy, I don't, I don't. I don't snitch on my kids and do it just because they done did a whole rico, hey. But I just want to welcome y'all to. I'm sorry, hey, we gonna end this shit out, man, I'm tired as fuck. Thank y'all for sitting through this. They got doing this. This tired as fuck episode here on four steph was only we out.
