For Steppers Only: Raw, Uncut, and Unedited
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For Steppers Only: Raw, Uncut, and Unedited
All That Sneak Dissing
Feeling overwhelmed by negativity and competition in today’s world? In this episode, we take a hard look at the impact of gossip, sneak disses, and inflated competition among peers. Our discussion reveals how these elements can hinder personal growth and create barriers in our relationships. We dive into the nature of adult competition, questioning why so many are preoccupied with comparing themselves to others instead of celebrating successes, both theirs and theirs.
Join us as we explore the relationship dynamics that come into play, addressing the often confusing line between friends and frenemies. Understanding who genuinely supports your journey is vital in building a healthy, uplifting environment. By recognizing feelings of insecurity and the urge to compete, we can realign our mental focus on what truly matters: mutual growth, support, and leaving behind the toxic cycles of negativity.
Tune in to discover practical strategies to distance yourself from harmful behaviors and cultivate a mindset focused on empowerment. Let’s challenge the norm and foster connections that uplift rather than undermine. If you’ve enjoyed our insights, share your thoughts, and subscribe for more empowering conversations!
Featured song:
🎶 “Buss at YOU” - Saint Lamaar
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Speaker 1:Because I'm so fucking sick and tired of folks talking about this, talking about that, or telling this to that person, telling this to that person. Then, when they come back to ask you hey, man, fuck you, and whatever information you bring it back to me, believe what that motherfucker said over there, because I ain't got shit to explain to you, nor that other motherfucker over there. Just so you can run back to that motherfucker over there and tell him whatever the fuck I said, so you can suck a sick dick and that motherfucker can sick a sick dick. Also because, hey, that's that's the type of mind frame we are in today, in this time and era, because it's like man, shit, I don't give a fuck what you got to say about me. I don't give a fuck what that motherfucker got to say about me. Hey, tell them. Bring to my front though, say, tell them say in my vicinity, because a lot of people are scared to say it in front of the person, but they want to play goddamn messenger, they want to play secretary, they want to go through this person, that person and a third person just to get some shit back to you, knowing that this motherfucker gonna run their dick sucker back to you. So I'm just at this time and place in my life to where it's like you know what, believe what that motherfucker said over there, because I know the truth, they know the truth and god knows the so between me and you, fuck. You fuck your opinion and this, that. And the third, because I'm so tired of sneak disses, all these sneak disses in the world, but ain't got the testicles or the stroke to say it in front of you, but they got all these ha-ha kikis, what's up? Man, da-da-da, man, man, take your goddamn sedidus fake ass on somewhere else. I mean shit. That's why that the song at the very beginning by saint lamar hey, that song is called bust at you. Um, I'm gonna have the link down into the what you call it on for y'all, but it that that is. That is a true statement of how I feel.
Speaker 1:I feel about motherfuckers nowadays. It's not like to figuratively saying I'm about to shoot the shit out you, but you're gonna feel these bullets come at you just by my, my, my, my aura, my energy, my, my looks, my demeanor, the vibe you get from me. Now, man, it's, it's, it's to the point where it's like seven, six, two. I just want to say fuck you, fuck you, fuck you. I'm just saying, man, because it's we are now too big in our age and to worry about what the next man has to say about yourself, because we if I used to hear this one thing on v103 I'm sorry I get this stuttering because, hey, if y'all didn't know this, all this shit is freestyle I might come up with the topic before the episode, or two days ago, three days ago or, shit hell, even six weeks ago, but but at this point it's just like. I see the topic, I know what I want to talk about, but it's just, people are like assholes. They have opinions and they're going to say whatever the fuck they want to say, no matter whether it's true or not.
Speaker 1:Because I heard this goofy shit the other night at work. They told us hey, man, I heard y'all got a bet going on. I said a bet, a bet about what, oh who can smash the most bitch? I said if y'all don't take that elementary school shit on somewhere else, because that shit is unfeasible and childish as fuck, why the fuck would I be? I mean, like, go ahead and keep shit funky.
Speaker 1:If you go ahead and measuring yourself on how much pussy you get In your life, nigga, you a lame ass motherfucker. I'm sorry to tell you this. I mean shit. If you worried about what the next nigga Sticking his dick in, or this, that and the third man, shit you, a lame ass nigga. Shit, we on pocket watch, we on dick watch. Cause if you dick watching and you got Bitch tendencies To me you are a ho, ho.
Speaker 1:I mean straight up, because I don't get. I don't get the, I don't get the constant competition. The only thing I'm worried about is shit, hey, bro, shit, hey. You know the woot, woot just hit, goddamn woot, woot, oh boy, I sure I heard that. Nigga burning, bro. Shit, there's a confirmed boy. Shit, murder, death, kill, goddamn shit. Shots fired, pop, pop that nigga goddamn knocking folks off with that. Goddamn hurt that nigga. Knock a goddamn over there, goddamn tightening folks over that gonorrhea I'm talking about. Clap on, clap off. I'm talking about, I'm talking type shit.
Speaker 1:But a lot of these motherfuckers are so worried about what the next man is doing, or or, or pillow talking to the next motherfucker to even spread lies, spread rumors, spread this, that. And the third man. I just can't fuck with nobody like that, no more. It's. It's like everything goes back to that. Saint lamar, I can't even fuck with you, with you, with you, I can't even fuck with you. But I mean shit. But I know y'all over there laughing your ass off. They talking about this, singing nigga yo, that little nigga can goddamn hold the tune, can't he? But it's just to the point where.
Speaker 1:Where the fuck are we at in society now? To where we're so worried about what the next man is doing. I mean shit, it's eardropping. I mean it's airdropping. I mean it's breathtaking.
Speaker 1:It's like y'all have transitioned social media into your actual lives, to where you think you got to tell everything, you think you got to comment on everything. I mean one thing for certain, two things for sure Everything don't need to be said, everything don't need to be explained, everything don't need to be saying, everything don't need to be said, everything don't need to be explained. So where the fuck are y'all getting this? This? This mentality is thinking that just because you got a mouthpiece means you got a comment. I mean that shit sound dumb, stupid and retarded to me. I mean honestly and truthfully. I mean we live in a new era, man.
Speaker 1:So people, so many people want to be popular, so many people want to fit in, so many people want to be Like in the mix. To where they try so hard or they try to dirty another motherfucker's name, no matter whether it's male or female. Hell shit. I heard niggas hate on bitches. Where the fuck do we do that at? Who raised y'all motherfuckers? To where y'all? To where? I'm sorry, I don't give a fuck what you got going on. There's no reason to hate on the next motherfucker like I mean shit. I mean I appreciate it.
Speaker 1:It's like there are some entrepreneurs, there's some workers. You're gonna have the haters and you're gonna have the motivators. I mean, like they say on v103 uh, if you ain't got no haters, make them your motivators. If you ain't got no haters, you're doing something wrong. I mean shit straight up. Because I mean shit. Let them motherfuckers hate from the, from the bleachers, because they're gonna be like them. They're gonna be like that motherfucker off belly when he's sitting up there eating a banana. They, they running the city. Now they making all this money doing whoop, whoop, whoop, whoop, whoop, whoop. But now he's sitting there because they tapping into his territory. Man, he don't like this shit he talking about. He going to have to drop a dime. That mean he going to have to tell the folks, that mean they going to try to take the feds.
Speaker 1:These are the same motherfuckers that running back to your supervisors and your directors and your managersall managers talking about some man, guess what I heard. Guess what this motherfucker said here. Guess what this motherfucker doing here. Man, you a whole bitch and I'm talking about if you're a male, female, whatever, man, you a bitch. Because I mean shit.
Speaker 1:Say that shit in front of me, because I feel like you ain't got the goal and audacity to say it in front of the whoever you talking shit about, because now you want to be a goddamn secret spy agent type motherfucker. I mean make that shit come correct, man. Shit, yeah, man, I mean shit. Hey, man, you need to go call somebody and tell them go go to therapy so you can erase, erase your whole tendencies, your whole mentality, all that shit, because that shit don't add up, because I like to see niggas doing, but when it was with progression, men with progression, they doing better than they what they did yesterday, I want to goddamn.
Speaker 1:I mean, we don't do. Yes, we do boast and brag, but it's to con, it's to put ourselves on that top tier to where we're like shit man, shit man. I had to go get it man. I saw you with yours. I had to go get me some boy. I saw you got down. You know, crunk all the business man. I had to go got down. See what I could do to got down. You know, make myself better, put myself in a better situation or put my family in a better situation, because that's what all we really need to do in life, instead of being hating on the next motherfucker Because why?
Speaker 1:Why are you dick riding and wishing the downfall of this next motherfucker? I mean you. And oh, On that note, hey, we got to do better as a people, because I see so many people out here that will tap Celebr, tap, goddamn the chick with fat ass, tap the dude with the goddamn six-pack abs. Oh shit, I ain't got no six-pack, so don't worry about that, I got a one-pack. It's called a keg, but I'm working on it. I'm working on it. Shit, no El Zempico, no zempic not. Hey, not to hate, but I'm just saying every man, everybody, ain't meant to be skinny.
Speaker 1:But back to the story. Why don't we congratulate our friends and our peers and share our peer shit versus somebody else's on the internet? That's shit. Weird, because I mean shit.
Speaker 1:I'd rather see somebody I have come in contact with and been in contact with in real life versus something they got and watched on the internet gotten on, show up a whole rack full of money, because a lot of y'all don't understand a lot of that's a tax write-off and yeah, they say I got this load, I got one and pick up this much money. I'm going to put this much money. A lot of that money is is under their llc and they're paid by the company or used to carry by the company, because the company can use it as a tax write-off because they made a donation or they paid an employee which is themselves, and y'all don't get that because you got to understand as an individual. Yes, you have a certain um amount of money that you can withdraw, but once you go into that business mindset, you go into that business realm, you can take it to the next level where you can get more money and you can put your hands on more money because your business assets hold more weight than personal assets. Um, and a lot of people fail to realize that and I just want to know what.
Speaker 1:What is everybody doing to grow this year instead of just splurge? I understand where people are taking vacations isn't this than a third? And going on trips, right than third. Like I told my partner the other day, I said shit, we already got these llcs. Why don't we put these llcs on our business venture? Because we're traveling to make money for our businesses and to spread word about our businesses, because sooner or later, y'all going to see me in different cities and hear me in different cities and shit Hell, even countries spreading the word about this wonderful podcast called Four Steps Only.
Speaker 1:But it's just, it's just mind boggling how you don't see no return on the money that you're spending, and it's it's. It's a mind fuck, honestly and truly. It's a legitimate mind fuck, because why would I not want my money to make money for me? Sorry y'all, I had to take a drink. My mouth started getting dry. Sorry y'all. I had to take a drink. My mouth started getting dry, because when we look at certain aspects in our lives, we need to try to elevate and do better than we were the next day.
Speaker 1:Don't worry about those haters and those, those motherfuckers that you said glares at them, karens them, earnesties them, damn them, whatever you want to call them, them, darrens, whatever you want to call them. They going to continue to hate to the day they die. That's like the old, miserable man that lives next door that don't want you to step on his grass or hate the kids making loud music, because he ain't there, no more. He couldn't live up to his dreams and his aspirations when he was at that age. He was at that caliber in his life. So he's going to hate. He's a member of the hate olympics. Shout out to HPL.
Speaker 1:But it's just. Where do we want to be? Do you want to be that hater or do you want to be that motherfucker that's got motherfuckers hating on him? I mean yes, yes, we all don't like people talking shit about us. It makes us angry, it makes us loathe them, makes us want to, you know, wrap two hands around their throat and just choke them for a little bit, not too long bit, just a little bit. I'm talking about just wrapping around their throat, shake it one time and let go Just watch them fall time, and let go just watch them fall and it's. It's getting outrageous because a lot of people don't know how to translate that into motivation and um, like benefits of their lives, instead of just being fucking miserable, being a miserable hater, being a bitch um, I'm sorry, not, let me go ahead. Let me go and clear this up.
Speaker 1:When I use the the term bitch, it's an. It describes a male or female. It's not, it's, it's a word I use. I'm sorry, I and I'll start doing better. Y'all, I know y'all be like god, don't these motherfuckers just up here talking about bitches and hoes and this? Then a third, but I mean, like, I use the term because it can describe a male or female, because you got bitch ass niggas, you got fuck ass niggas, you got this. Then a third, but anyway, um, I just think we should do better and start pushing each other to be better. Better because that's how we come together as a whole. Because I mean, if you look at certain like OK, I'll give you a perfect example President Trump he's in office right now.
Speaker 1:Elon Musk took 250 million out of his business account and placed it to Trump to push his campaign Right. Elon Musk does not hold no place of authority in US government. He has not been elected Right. But since he looked out for Trump, now Trump got to look out for him. Now where do we at now? He he trying to got down. Now he gave his little partner a little, a little, got on power and a couple of platforms to talk on. Now that motherfucker feel like he. That motherfucker.
Speaker 1:Sometimes you got to put your partners in position to win. We ain't saying just monetary or saying you got to make donations to their campaign. We're just saying like sometimes you got to put your play, your partners, in position to win because you want to see them win versus whatever else you got going on. Because a lot of people don't understand that and understand what what growth actually is. Because with growth, you have to have some people to encourage you and to focus you on some type of level, to make you know that you're doing a good job, no matter whether it's your analytics, no matter whether it's your numbers or or whether you see somebody, just someone's on. Boy, I see you over there, boy, my boy, I'm fucking with your campaign, my boy, my boy. Just that type of vibe. Because everybody is not privy to every situation that you're exposed to, because, man, some people just want to see you fail. That's why, like in the last episode for motivational mondays, y'all need to go check that out.
Speaker 1:Understanding, you got friends in your circle that are really frenemies. You get me, they are really friends disguised as enemies. You get what I'm saying Because they are only around you just to witness your downfall and put you in positions and fuck with your mind and make you and help you and assist you with making bad choices. So what do you do? Do you sit there and be like shit hell yeah that my home, but he be making fuck dog choices there and be like shit? Hell yeah that my homeboy but he be making fuck dog choices. He a bad influence, he like the little devil on my own. But I can't.
Speaker 1:What do we do? I mean, we have to go from some point at some point in time to make shit better for us. So what do we do? Do we, do we take that shit and we do we? We, we grow that shit to a different element, or do we keep fucking with that homeboy? There's going to be a bad omen in our lives. He's going to be toxic, because a lot of people are placed in our lives just to be poisonous, because they don't understand what growth is or how to be a positive being in our environment, or they don't, and, honest and truly, they just might want to see us fucking fail and fuck up or make fucked up decisions or lose a job or lose, lose your girl or whatever.
Speaker 1:Because I'm, I'm sorry. I've heard some fucked up stories. Hell, I've had fucked up shit happen to me, shit. I remember, god damn, once upon a time I went overseas when I was in the military and, within 30 days, who I thought was my homeboy? He was sleeping with my ex At that time when I found out that she became an ex. But it's crazy because you got to think about it. But karma has a way of clapping back. I mean shit, certain shit popped off, certain shit happened. I'm just saying karma's a motherfucker and I and I love the way that karma came back because I like then I see that that motherfucker, a couple years later he trying to say what's up to me, and I'm sorry, I, I am, I am a leo to heart. Am I'm a Leo to heart? I'm gonna go ahead and tell you like that. Because when he came up trying to shake my hand, man, I looked up and down this motherfucker, and said man. And looked at my big brother that was sitting beside me. I said man, hey, man, you know this weird ass nigga trying to shake my hand. I said I don't know this nigga. But that was.
Speaker 1:That was to prove a statement at that time that I ain't here to fake kick it with you. I don't. I ain't here to suck no other man's dick. I ain't here to, goddamn, congratulate you on your wins, because whether I fuck with you or fuck with what, if I don't fuck with you, that's the right way for me to say it, because if I fuck with you, I want to see you win, nigga. I want to see us all win. I don't want to see me win over top of you. I don't want to see me win at your downfall. I want to see us climb this ladder together, because at the time at the top, we all gonna be sipping goddamn matas on a beach somewhere, thinking about the bad times and think about the struggles and trials and tribulations that it took to get here.
Speaker 1:So you guys got to think about it is is the people that are on your journey with you right now, and are they in for the short haul, the long haul, or they just here to see the glitz and glam, or they see, here they got, don't celebrate with you at your wins, but don't want to help you with the milestones and share your shit. So you gotta understand certain people don't mean you the best in life. They want to see you fail. So, like I tell people all the time, you'll see who really fought with you. Because if they, if they poisoning your mental, making you help hate somebody, man, are they really? Are they really that good person? Or, let's flip it, the same way they hating on somebody else could be the same way they hating on you when you not around. So you got to watch out for them. Wolves and sheep, you feel me, because everybody ain't meant to be a shark, everybody ain't meant to be a predator.
Speaker 1:Some motherfuckers got on, scavenge off the bones and the downfalls and your least likely triumphance in life to where you? You don't know what ahead you're going and it's hard. It's hard to do that, it's hard to say these things. It's hard to goddamn decipher some shit because sometimes you be having folks in your corner. They'll be telling you hey, man, don't fuck with him. He might he ain't no good person to be around, but you so jaded, you so blinded to where you continue fucking with this individual. I'm just saying, because it this, this, this shit gets toxic, this shit gets gets like hard to breathe around certain people. Then once you figure out this motherfucker done, fucked you over. This motherfucker done, fucked you over this motherfucker talking shit about you, this motherfucker talking shit about you, then you got somebody yang yang, yang, yang yang, that you constantly. It's like you start looking at everybody like they're a suspect, like got them, like they got something in for you.
Speaker 1:So what do we do? Do we gauge our situations? Do we do we try certain motives? Do we gauge certain shit, or do we just take that shit on our chin and keep it pushing because I mean shit? What are we here to do? Are we here to? What are we here to do? Are we here to win or are we here to lose?
Speaker 1:Because everybody's not here to win with you, because everybody don't want to see you win, everybody don't want to see you. Some people just want to see you fall, some people want to see you crash. But you have those genuine, those genuine people that truly fuck with you, that truly want to see you win, that truly tell you hey, cool, pop your shit, bro, man, I'm proud of you. Congratulations. And people fail to realize that when they're in the, or they in traffic, or they in motion, and they get so blinded by the bright lights and stars and their come ups and a wins to where they thinking everybody means good for everybody's not good for you, everybody's opinion is not good for you. Just remember that when y'all get up here with these people and y'all don't know how to take them, because I mean shit, everybody goddamn ain't for you. So thank y'all for joining us on four steppers. Only I'm out. Peace, you Peace.
