For Steppers Only: Raw, Uncut, and Unedited
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Delete My Browser History
Your browser history might be your most closely guarded secret. We all have those moments—hovering over the delete button, wondering if anyone else might see the digital breadcrumbs of our curiosity. This episode dives headfirst into those moments when our private digital lives suddenly become exposed.
Jack kicks things off with a provocative thought experiment: what's your honest reaction when you discover something unexpected in someone else's browser history? Through hilarious personal anecdotes—including an unforgettable night at a Guam nightclub called "Denial" that takes an unexpected turn—we explore how these moments of accidental discovery can create both comedy and crisis in our relationships.
The humor here isn't just for laughs; it reveals something deeper about how we navigate privacy, judgment, and acceptance in the digital age. When someone's browser history exposes interests or preferences they haven't shared with you, is it a betrayal or simply a part of their private world you weren't meant to see?
This episode also debuts our new segment "No Face, No Case," where listeners can anonymously submit their relationship questions and dilemmas. Our first submission tackles a painful situation: discovering a long-term partner is bisexual and has been unfaithful with a mutual friend. Through this discussion, we examine how couples might better navigate curiosity and desire together rather than separately.
Whether you've had your own "delete my history" moment or you're curious about how others handle digital privacy in relationships, this raw, unfiltered conversation offers both entertainment and insight. Share your own anonymous questions or feedback through any platform where you listen to For Steppers Only.
Songs Featured:
Leon Thomas - MUTT
https://music.apple.com/us/album/mutt/1770204463?i=1770205275
Dj Drama Feat. Chris Brown
https://music.apple.com/us/album/mutt/1770204463?i=1770205275
And I know damn well, I can't think y'all motherfuckers are ready this morning for four steppers only. I'm Jack, by the way, that little motherfucker Like y'all. I always say all the time, but hey, we tell y'all like this all the time, no matter how big or how small I am, we tell you to sit back and watch a motherfucking step for step. But I don't think y'all are ready for this episode at all. I mean at all. Because I mean shit, we got to hit y'all with this all. Because I mean shit, we gotta hit y'all with this. Uh-oh, I know y'all a lot of y'all freaking motherfuckers out there know what that sound mean. But hey, I just got a preference because I mean like, like, I'm gonna tell y'all like this right now, the name of this episode is Delete my browser history. So there's a reason why I came up with this concept. Because I mean, we were having a discussion the other day and me and a couple of my partners, you know, we were just talking about this shit and we was like shit, man, there's some freaky motherfuckers out here, there's some real freaky motherfuckers out here. I mean shit. I mean like I say to motherfuckers out here I mean shit. I mean, like I say to people all the time, I don't judge shit. I mean because why would I want somebody judging me off my situations? Because, like shit, like a philosophy of mine is, if you buy Plan B, you better make sure you use that motherfucker to the fullest and maximum extent, because I mean you got, got, what is it 24, 48 hours that motherfucker goddamn start gesturing and doing that. Whatever you got to do, so you better goddamn get your money's worth, your 52.95 out of that motherfucker we talking about down at the local cvs. So what we're saying is this this is my question to all the masters out there.
Speaker 1:So I asked one of my sisters and I asked a couple of my partners. I even asked my 19 year old son is hey, what would you do if you know you, you, you, you and your partner kicking it and you need to look up some? Now you tell me hey, bro, look, look this X, y, z up and a motherfucker pulls up his browser and the first thing you see is this motherfucker been looking at chicks with dicks, them, lady boys, them. I come and you, you come on floor, type shit. What do you say? What is your response? Because I mean to me. I was just like, I just tried to shrug that shit off like it's regular porn.
Speaker 1:You know what I'm saying, but in my mind it's like, bro, what type of shit you on, bro? Shit, man, because I don't want, I don't want to be goddamn hitting something from the back and I feel this hitting, but hitting back on my leg. What the fuck, what the hell is that? What the hell is that? So we were having a discussion and one of my, one of my friends, she, she, she out, though, she out though, um, and the the biggest thing that that she said was you know, jay, you know I'm bisexual. So woo-da-woo-da-woo-da-woo-da-woo, bitch, come on, bitch, be for real. There's no way in hell you're going to sit there and tell me that you would be okay with your boyfriend, your husband, this, that. And the third, hitting something with a penis but has titties up top and real pretty in the face, but it still has a penis. I mean, if that's your forte, that's your forte because I'll tell y'all a funny story that happened, um, when I was stationed out in Guam to one of my buddies he gonna kill me. When I talked about this. I, I know for a fact he going to kill me.
Speaker 1:So you know it was our first night on the island. A lot of y'all don't know I'm five fucking six Motherfuckers. Be telling me I'm short all the time. I don't give a fuck. I still bite your motherfucking ankles. But anyway, we're going to go back to the story. So we're gonna go back to the story. So it's our first night on the island, our first weekend of liberty after we didn't got checked in everything, and it's in the third.
Speaker 1:So we hit up this club called denial in tuman. If anybody know about tuman, they got one, they got one bar down there. They used to sell drinks when I was there. For what was it? It was like. It was like you paid ten dollars to get in and you get free. Well, drinks until 12, as many as you can handle it, as many as you can. Um, you know, digest because.
Speaker 1:So that was our first spot for hitting. So we ended up. We, we walked outside, you know we walking on the strip. It's a lot of fucking clubs, strip clubs, you know, shit like that on this strip. So we see this one bar, we see this one club bar, whatever the fuck you want to call it, and the line is like like it's like one of those spots you be like, god damn, what the fuck going on in there. I need to be in that motherfucker. So we end up going standing in line so we ain't paying no attention, no attention at all. The name of the club is fucking denial. So shit, we just know motherfuckers, we got down naming clubs weird shit just to get motherfuckers attention. This, that and the third, whatever, whatever. So we ain't paying no, nevermind to that shit, because we are highly inebriated.
Speaker 1:When I tell you we are highly inebriated, we got to that fucking club at like what was it like like nine o'clock and we were drinking until 12 till they cut off the free will drinks. So we like I'm double fisting shit. I'm talking about two cups, one in each hand, type shit. So I'm, I'm, I'm good and we're gonna say liquid or lubricated or, you know, highly hydrated. You know what I'm saying. But so we get inside but we vibing, they got, I'm talking about the music is on motherfucking point. I'm not, I'm talking about I'm in that motherfucker, just goddamn. I'm talking about just vibing.
Speaker 1:So I look over my home, but he just got them over there grinding with a motherfucker. So after I've drank all this, the liquor, now I'm just drinking water and beer, you know, just to keep, you know, just to keep myself hydrated so I won't have a hangover in the morning. So, boom, I'm starting to look around, I'm trying to figure out why all these fucking females are taller than me. I'm talking my homeboy over there. Goddamn. I said, boy, he got no getting it, so the shit. But that's so the lights come on. I'm starting to realize these motherfuckers are a little tall, and I'm not saying that like, like by a couple inches, I'm talking about these motherfuckers like a couple feet taller than me. I'm like, god damn these motherfuckers, hands big, feet big, but I ain't paying, no, never mind, because you know I'm fucked up.
Speaker 1:So my homeboy got done, we got outside. He told me something hey, jay, you saw that little motherfucker I was with she talking about taking me to the hotel. I said, okay, bro, what hotel you going to be at? You got your little you know, your little goddamn international phone on you so we can, you know, if you need us, come pick you up, because we had a little Guam bomb which is like a little like a little beater car that you pay a little bit close to little, to no money for when you get on the island. So you know you can move around and you ain't got to rent no car. So boom, so you know it's a little beetle man. I'm talking about that motherfucker, like that type shit, like the motherfucker look like he been through some world wars and shit.
Speaker 1:So we out there and next, so we get all the way back to the compound, my little guy, and the international phone starts ringing. I'm like shit, who the fuck calling me this late? Because, to remind you, back in the states it's 16 hours ahead. I'm thinking it's my mama or somebody else that just want to see how I'm doing, whether I made it or not. Whatever, whatever, whatever, it's my partner, this motherfucker sound like he goddamn running for his life I'm talking about. I said nigga, what's wrong with you, hey man? Hey man, can you come pick me up? What's wrong with you? Don't worry about it, don't worry about it. Just come pick me up, please come pick me up, okay.
Speaker 1:So we get there and the motherfucker is only in a hotel robe, his tennis shoes, no-transcript, just y'all. Hey, y'all gotta take this shit to y'all grave. Y'all gotta promise me, y'all take this shit to y'all grave. I said what the fuck man promise me? Hey, okay, bro, what's up? He told me, so, man. So I was up there, you know, you know kissing and shit. And I said, okay, y'all. Um, next thing, you know, he told me something. Man, we got, you know, making out and shit. I ain't paying no, not mine, because we still up in the hotel taking shots. He's talking about something, bro. I was fucked up. I had to go take a shower to bounce back, you know. Just, you know, tighten up. I said, okay, he's talking about.
Speaker 1:I came out, you know, in this little bathrobe that when I got on and the motherfucker just pushed me down and, you know, got the core, I said, oh, bro. So I said what's the problem? You you down, you you called us like you were in emergency. What the fuck happened? Tell me why this motherfucking gonna tell us, man, I'm talking about. Man, I got the rubbing. He's talking. I'm feeling titties, I'm feeling woo. He's telling me.
Speaker 1:I started trying to grab the ass. Motherfucker kept pushing my hand down. He said, no, you know, I'm trying to grab the ass. You know, just trying to. You know, grab a grab. You know, do the pat, pat, shit. He's talking about something.
Speaker 1:The motherfucker might have Wiggled a little bit and he felt something slap against his leg. I said, bro, you felt something slap against your leg. What you mean? A hell or something. He told me something, bro.
Speaker 1:I didn't realize the motherfucker was naked in the room Because all the lights were off, but I'm you know, I ain't feeling no cold when I'm feeling the titties. I said okay, well, that's cool. He told me something, bro. I went to reach down there. You know, try to play with the, the p, the puss. Motherfucker ain't got no puss.
Speaker 1:I said what I said. I said what it was, what it was? Like a barbie doll, like the motherfucker just got them a piece of plastic and ain't nothing. He said no jay, no jack, no jackson. The motherfucker ain't had no pussy.
Speaker 1:I said nigga, I'm slow, tell me what the fuck, what the fuck? He said nigga, it had a dick. It, goddamn had a motherfucking penis. It had a cock. I said oh shit. I said. I said so what did you do? He said I panicked. I said well. I said dude. I said well, it's too late to panic. You already goddamn got your dick in his mouth I, I said you already enjoying it, so why not finish it off?
Speaker 1:So I'm making a mockery of this shit. If you know me, I make jokes and shit to make shit lighter because we all get placed in traumatic situations where we cannot function off of bullshit. So I'm making, I'm making a joke of this shit. So I I'm bad about that. I got a very dark sense of humor because I find funniness in the worst of shit. That's like what me on a previous episode about narrowing my balls and other things. Um, that's like somebody asked me one time like this is another thing. Um, I mean, I mean, I understand, people have their own preferences, like one of mine is.
Speaker 1:They told my son, jack, would you ever hit a skinny chick? I said no, dog. I said I'll never sleep with a sanity person. I did that shit one time. They said why. I said what, jack? What was so wrong with it? I said, bro, have you ever hit the edge of a couch? They said what you mean? The edge of a couch? I said, bro, hitting a skinny chick is like hitting the edge of a couch. I said you're gonna feel nothing but bone every time you hit that motherfucker if that motherfucker ain't got no curvature. He told me something oh my god, only your ass would think about that shit.
Speaker 1:Uh, because I'm ignorant. I'm gonna tell y'all, like that, I'm ignorant, I don't have a filter in real life. In certain situations I do have a filter. In other situations I don't have a filter and it and it and it gets me in trouble sometimes, but sometimes I don't just, I just don't give a fuck. But because, like I remember this one time this shit pissed me the fuck off.
Speaker 1:I remember I was, I think I was early 20s, because I had just started. Yeah, I would start going to. Well, I started going to a club at 16, but we ain't going to talk about that. So I had met this chick and I think it was. Was it the day before Valentine's Day or side chick Valentine's Day? If y'all don't know, valentine's Day falls on the 14th. Side chick Valentine's Day is the 15th. But anyway, that's because you can get everything on discount. But to go ahead and put it blatantly, so I had, you know, did some of this chick and I wasn't able to finish.
Speaker 1:You know, release, feel bliss, feel that little flow of emotion. You know, feel bliss, feel that little flow, emotion. You know, feel that emotion. So it was oblivious to me to the point where it's like, okay, whatever, whatever. She said, hey, can you take me home? I said, okay, cool, I'll take you home.
Speaker 1:This motherfucker tells me I gotta go. I gotta go sit in the bathtub for what? Motherfucker talking about something? Next time, no, motherfucker gonna call me back talking about something. Um, I mean, like dog, I ain't gonna lie to you.
Speaker 1:The motherfucker sound like she was having a full-blown asthma attack. I have asthma. I asked the motherfucker do you want to use my inhaler? Do you want to got down? You know, whatever, whatever, whatever, man, the motherfucker, goddamn. Yeah, it was too much, but anyway it. I just found it fucking hilarious. This motherfucker talking about some shit. He gonna take up a goodie power and a hot bath to eat, eat some shit. I was like what the fuck? I don't. I've never heard about this shit before. Um, so I'm gonna tell y'all another little thing. I'm gonna tell y'all the funniest shit that I've ever been through in my life.
Speaker 1:Um, so when I was like I was younger, I think I was like 15, 16, I think I was trying to lose my virginity for the first time and the, the, there was this female that was in my neighborhood, like she would come down every summer To spend time with her grandparents. So you know we would all look forward to seeing each other during the summer. So she came down. We're chilling. Next thing, I know she's like shit. My mom was at work.
Speaker 1:So shit, what's up? Let me, I'm nervous, I'm trying, I'm trying to do something, what's up? So I'm trying to do something next time. I know we try and do some blah, blah, blah and I'm gonna go ahead and tell you I got a lot of fucking stories. I don't know understand why this bad shit happens to me, but it happens, but it is what it is. Um, so one of my. So we're trying to do the world. So I'm, I'm happy. I got my little durex that y'all do. That got from the little health clinic I'm talking. Well, I think I'm about to. God don't do something. I'm trying to. I'm trying to see what it's like, because I hear all my cousins talk about it. But whoop, whoop, whoop, whoop.
Speaker 1:Next thing, I know I'm trying to go to slide in. Only thing I hear was and I feel something pop in my penis. It immediately sends me into tears. I don't know what the fuck just happened. I said, oh my god, I done broke my shit. I done broke my shit. I done broke my shit. So I fuck around and take off, running to the bathroom and I'm like I'm in tears, I'm panicking, like, oh my god, I might have to go to an emergency room. I done broke my shit. What I'm gonna tell my mama, blah, blah. So I'm sitting here going this, all this shit is running through my mind, running rapid through my mind, and she comes in and tells me it's okay, it's okay. I'm like motherfucker, you saying like you done, you done been through this shit before. I've never experienced this shit. I think my dick broke. So that was the end of it. So I just, you know, I just chalked that shit up and I mean shit, I was scarred for a while.
Speaker 1:Next thing, I know my cousin calls me later on that night Because I done called my uncle. No, no, I didn't call my uncle. I called my daddy and I told him what happened. He told my son Baby boy, shit, I ain't never had that happen. Is your shit swollen, is it curved, is it crooked, is it pointing to the left? Blah, blah, blah. I'm like no, no, daddy.
Speaker 1:He told my son does it hurt when you're pissed. I said no, blah, blah. I'm like no, no, daddy, he's talking about something that hurt when you're pissed. I said no, daddy, I ain't got no STD, he's on good, good, good. He said you might have just sprained it. He said you might have just sprained it. You ain't probably hurt it that bad. You probably just sprained it. Just put some ice on it and it'll be all right. That's what daddies are for.
Speaker 1:When you go through some bullshit that you can't tell your mama, because you know what the fuck your mama gonna say to you. You can't do that sometimes. So it's, it's good to have those type of father figures in your life that understand the bullshit that you go through as a man. So I mean shit. Rest in peace, jimmy ho. Shit, I miss you. I love you forever. But it's it's just amazing of what we go through as men and as children.
Speaker 1:So I got a new segment to do today. This is called no Face, no Case. So I had one of my listeners message me the other day and ask me a question or to tell me to talk about it, and he told me hey, bro, please don't put my name out there. Blah, blah, blah. I told him bro, I would never. Please don't put my name out there. Blah blah, blah. I told him, bro, I would never do that to you. Blah blah, blah. So you know, we, just we.
Speaker 1:So I just want to talk about his situation that he was telling me about, and then I want y'all to give me y'all feedback after I give me, give me y'all's, but I want to tell y'all y'all can reach out to me through any platform that you see my, my podcast on. I mean, if you're on apple podcast, it says send me a text message. That means you can reach out to me directly and I'll be able to answer your questions. Um, or if you want to give me feedback and you want to tell me it's a good episode, you can send me a straight a text message and it comes straight to my cell phone. It doesn't't go to anybody else, it comes straight to me. So this is, this is what he told me, and now I'm reading this verbatim. Now Don't get me fucked up, because I mean shit, I'm old.
Speaker 1:Imagine you was with a girlfriend for three years and a week after her birthday she comes out to tell you to you as bisexual. Then comes February, a week after Valentine's Day weekend. Y'all just came from back from a vacation that you paid for. You found out that she had sex with a woman last summer Remind you, he's been with her for three years. Last summer, remind you, he's been with her for three years the same woman, woman that you considered your friend and played in your face after they cheated also did you? You did also, you asked her did you have? Did you, did you had sex with a woman, or is there a woman you want to have sex with? And she said no. After she came out, came out.
Speaker 1:Hey bro, let me tell you something. It's fucked up. I ain't even going to hold you because some shit like that happened to me one time. Shit, I found out one of my exes was talking dirty to a goddamn female. Then I didn't know nothing about it, so much she couldn't handle this yet. And third, I flipped out because it was a younger version of me.
Speaker 1:Um, and sometimes you just gotta you gotta talk to them about it, talk them through that situation. But this is the question why Did you ask? For a reason, did you ask them To be included in anything? So y'all could explore those boundaries, so y'all could do certain things and go about it that way, so y'all could do certain things and go about it that way, so y'all could have fun together and and so y'all wouldn't have to be so hell-bound on just her sleeping with another woman, because a lot of times that's made it made it fun, that makes it more fun, it makes it a little bit more interesting.
Speaker 1:Um, because a lot of people don't know how to get into that realm or get into that situation to where they can explore those boundaries, explore those situations, because we we get lost in the sauce, we get lost in the escapade, we get lost in the adventure. Because I mean I'm gonna go ahead and be honest with you. It is an adventure, it's a full-blown adventure that you're experiencing with this other individual. Because a lot of times we don't know how to explore because I mean I get asked all the time jack, have you ever done a threesome? Nah, I mean shit, because I'm, I'm. It's not because I'm not curious about it, it's because I'm like okay, man, I got ADHD.
Speaker 1:I like to focus on shit. Because if I don't focus, it's like, bro, I'm, I'm, I don't know what to do. It's like, it's like squirrel, it's like which way do I go? Which way do I go? Which way do I go? Do I go here? Do I go there? Do I go here? Do I go to it? I just have never done that in my life. So it's like what, what do we go from here? What do we go to? Experience these things? Because, I mean, it's hard to say what we will and won't do until we go and go through these things, go through these motions.
Speaker 1:Because a lot of people out here man, I'm saying, man, I'm starting to listen to all these people's conversations and they are telling me they've had threesomes left and right. They've done things, they've done something strange for a piece. Right, they've done things, they've done something strange for a piece of change. They did this, they did that. I've, I have a friend that tells me all the time that she does, goddamn, she gets turned into a chinese finger trap and which blows my fucking mind. I'm just, I'm just amazed at the shit, because it's like what do you do to be turned into a chinese finger trap? If y'all don't know what a Chinese finger trap is, it's when you have something that goes in like this, you get what I'm saying. You have one on this end, you have one on this end and a little plastic piece, a little paper piece in the middle, so you get turned into a Chinese, what you call it.
Speaker 1:Then I had another friend that used to tell me that when her and her husband were going through it shit and they were on the midst of divorce they ended up saying, shit, fuck this, let's go um, let's go take an experience to, um, one of these goddamn orgy houses, one of them goddamn sex parties and shit like that. What do you do? What do you? How do I? How do I process this shit? How do I do the things that I need to do to make sure this is okay?
Speaker 1:And a lot of people don't know how to respond to that. How do you respond to that? Because I somebody asked me could I watch another man sleep with my significant other, my girlfriend, my wife, or something like that? I said, bro, I don't, I don't think I could. I don't think I could because next thing, I know you over there hooping and hollering and you making sounds that I don't think I could. I don't think I could Because, next thing, I know you over there hooping and hollering and you making sounds that I ain't never heard you make before in your life and we're lost in the sauce and it's like, what do I do? I'm fucked up now Because I don't Like.
Speaker 1:Now you over there split splashing For a motherfucker that you just met At this party, and I'm over there fucked up because you ain't never did that for me. You ain't never, goddamn, done those tricks for me. I didn't think you could do that, I thought it was impossible. But now, what do we do? Where are we at? So how do we chase these desires, how do we chase these dreams? And now, how do I look at you the same, if I know you over here, goddamn, full blown on a goddamn as a water faucet for another man? And now, how do I look at you the same, if I know you over here, goddamn, full-blown on a goddamn as a water faucet for another man. And now I'm over here at home trying to struggle, trying to get you to that point.
Speaker 1:Now do I under do? Now? I'm feeling insecure over there, I'm holding, I'm sucking my thumb in the corner, thinking I'm less of a man. What do I do? Because now I'm lost, because this is where we're at. I mean, where do we go from here? So that's that's my take on no face, no case, and thank you to my viewer out there that sent me the message through. He sent me through the message through. We're going to say TikTok because that's where he messaged me from, because he saw my clip. We're going to say TikTok because that's where he messaged me from, because he saw my clip. But if you want to send me a message, my podcast is on Apple Music, spotify, pandora, oh shit, where else? Youtube, anywhere you can possibly fucking think of. But thank you for listening to Fold Steppers. Only we out Peace.
