For Steppers Only: Raw, Uncut, and Unedited
Welcome to For Steppers Only—the podcast where real ones from all walks of life pull up to chop it up about everything under the sun.
We dive into relationships, careers, education, sports, the supernatural, sexuality, personal growth, entrepreneurship, family vibes—you name it. This is the space for raw conversations, honest laughs, and deep reflections. It’s all about learning, leveling up, and spotlighting voices you don’t always hear.
Whether you're on the rise, finding your path, or just looking to connect, this podcast is your corner of the world to vibe, grow, and step into something real.
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For Steppers Only: Raw, Uncut, and Unedited
Yall 304s Talk Too Much
Ever notice how some people can't keep their mouth shut about anything? That's exactly what this raw, unfiltered episode tackles head-on. We dive into the recent censorship of adult websites requiring ID verification and question whether this represents genuine protection or just another form of control in our increasingly surveilled digital landscape.
At the core of this episode is a powerful message about personal boundaries and privacy. Why do we feel compelled to broadcast every detail of our lives? Who actually deserves access to your personal business? Using a brilliant basketball arena metaphor, we explore how certain people will join you on your journey while others merely watch from the sidelines—sometimes with motives that aren't in your best interest. This distinction becomes crucial when deciding who to let into your inner circle.
The most compelling moments come through vulnerable personal stories, including a shocking revelation about a family member living a double life and a traumatic encounter with an ex-partner that resulted in physical injury. These raw experiences underscore why processing difficult truths requires time and space, and why walking away from potentially explosive situations can prevent regrettable decisions. For anyone struggling with oversharing, maintaining authentic relationships, or setting healthy boundaries, this episode offers both tough love and practical wisdom. Listen now, then ask yourself: are you letting the right people know your business?
What the fuck? Welcome to so many words. I can't even name Woo. What the fuck.
Speaker 2:Welcome to God. Damn, I forgot to turn my shit off.
Speaker 3:What the fuck? Yeah, I was just calling the highlights, jack, man, the nigga fucked up. Man, you know, I ain't gonna say a nigga been crying or nothing like that, you know, because the hub gone. I don't know if you know, but the hub gone, man, it's gone. That nigga been going through it. Man, I ain't gonna say, I ain't gonna say I've been crying, you know, I'm just, I'm devastated, man, I'm I'm, I'm hurt, disappointed, more than anything you know what I'm gonna do, man, you know nigga called the cable company.
Speaker 3:They, they can't. They can't get me right, man. The nigga said I got to move to Alabama. You know, jack, I done packed my shit, man, I done packed the U-Haul. I'll just call and tell you I'm gone, man.
Speaker 2:Bye man, man, I got to call them man. Where the hell are y'all man? They done got rid of the hood. They passing laws for shit that don't concern them. Oh my God.
Speaker 4:Gang man Trump is getting on my motherfucking nerves, bruh. Check this shit out, bro. Check this shit out gang. You know what I'm saying. Ain't no like what 1230, 130 type shit. You know what I'm saying. I'm on the hub, right, I'm on the hub. What the fuck? I'm getting text messages from Trump trying to see like from Trump, trying to see like mind your business, mind your business, trump. What the fuck? What this got to do with you gang that?
Speaker 2:nigga, he over there ready to fight.
Speaker 4:What this got to do with you, g? I just wanted to know were you aware that Trump is-.
Speaker 2:Man, I did not know, the fuck Shit. Let me goddamn go love one of your goddamn hoops and see what the fuck they talking about.
Speaker 4:Just follow my channel, bro Kyle the Gemini. Let's get it, Goddamn.
Speaker 2:Kyle, you too. Shit what my boy's going through with Shit.
Speaker 3:What's going on bro?
Speaker 4:Shit man. You heard about this shit about the hood, About the motherfucking hood. Shit man, shit wow Ram too.
Speaker 2:Man, I'm getting notifications at the notifications. At the notifications text message. At the text message text message. Um, my partner's hitting me up time out, bro, did you know they? I'm talking about these boys hitting me up actively, like what the fuck is going on? I mean shit. I'm sorry, but I was since was rudely interrupted. Let me go ahead and get this shit together right. Welcome to Fo' Steppers. Only I'm here with you. Know that, little motherfucker, they tell me all the time I can stand up and fit in the size of the camera at the DMV. My other partner, the goddamn Joe, calls me the little motherfucker off Bad Son-O, but as y'all know me, I'm motherfucking jack.
Speaker 2:Um, a couple of my partners sent me some voice messages the other day talking about the, the hub gone. I'm talking. I'm talking about bro, and it's so bad. I know this is this is you got to understand him and our culture and the way we grew up? As soon as you tell me something, I gotta google this shit. I gotta tap in, I gotta look it up. I don't give a fuck where I'm at what I got going on. I'm finna, goddamn. You know, look around, peep the scene, making sure nobody ain't behind me before I tap some shit in I tap the shit in next.
Speaker 2:I'm gonna go ahead and keep it frank with y'all. When I first got the messages, I was at work. All time I was shoot. I'm trying to goddamn ahead and keep it frank with y'all. When I first got the messages, I was at work. All of a sudden I was shoot. I'm trying to go off in the cut chill a little bit, make sure I ain't got nobody around me. And I'm looking in the hood, damn Boy. I start panicking. Niggas start sweating. I said what am I going to do? No more Roxy Reynolds. No more, goddamn cherokee the ass. No more old school pinky. Oh my god, what are we doing? No more the, oh the, the amateurs, or what are we gonna do? What are we gonna do, boy? So I immediately panic and go over to a goddamn twiddle. I said whoo, whoo.
Speaker 2:They ain't take my twiddle, whoo whoo but at first I was sweating a little bit because I ain't see the usual shit I see on my feed, on my Twitter. You know if you, if you, if you know, you know, if you know what your Twitter be looking like, your Twitter be looking crazy if you got a cheat code on your Twitter. But like somebody was asking me, jack, what is the? What is the grab? I feel like it's a money grab. I feel like, if you're gonna have, you're gonna have chaos and shrewued, because I mean, when we were in war times, this is what you do to to warriors, this is what you do to battle mates. You sexually deprive these individuals so they'll become more aggressive, more violent and they're more controlled. They don't have that actual release because, like I was telling somebody I said you don't see other countries, like other countries ban certain shit, cool, no problem. But now they want you to put your driver's license on the motherfucking hub or you gotta submit that shit to get on that motherfucker.
Speaker 2:Some just to say that you over a certain age to eliminate child pornography, y'all can't go through other measures. You think this? I mean you think motherfuckers can't go to reddit. You think motherfuckers can't make up fake identities. You think motherfuckers can't got down? You know, make fake ids, I mean shit. I know a couple places I can go pay 250. I get a new birth certificate, driver's license, social security card. My name will be larry joneson, not johnson joneson, you know, just just just to just to be funny about it. But you know that shit really does happen because I mean, I was scrolling through tiktok the other day and some this, this female, had got deported by ice and she is videotaping her whole journey about coming back. I understand that you want to be back here, so bad, but why do it to that extreme? You know what I understand? Why do it to that extreme? But this is my thing. Some things are meant for you to shut the fuck up and just do what the fuck you gotta do and don't broadcast it to the entire world because it ain't everybody's business.
Speaker 2:Speaking on that, I'm tired of these goddamn big mouth ass females and these goddamn loud mouth ass niggles. Yeah, I'm talking to y'all motherfuckers, y'all motherfuckers that can't keep y'all's dick suckers clothes, male and female, because I don't, I wasn't raised like that. I mean shit like like I, like I told somebody, I said whatever we do but me, and you just know I fuck with you and you fuck with me. It ain't every Tom Dick or Harry Joe, susan and goddamn Paul's business whether I'm fucking with you or not, or how nasty you get in the bedroom, or the goddamn what the extras that we go, or the trials and tribulations that we go through behind closed doors or in our private lives, away from everybody else. Because the way I feel is, if you were meant to be included, nigga, you would be present. I'm just saying because it's like why you got to run to your goddamn business, to every 304? If y'all don't, motherfuckers, don't know what a 304 is, type it in your phone, turn your phone upside down and that's what a 304 is, because most of y'all are that, but anyway it's. It's just like what the fuck are y'all doing? Shut the fuck up, do your due diligence to take care of your business, have fun, enjoy the moment and just do what you gotta do, because everybody ain't privy to every experience.
Speaker 2:Oh lord, I mean shit. I'm just baffled about motherfuckers. Just keep and keep and keep trying to include other parties and situations, and then you get, and somebody get mad, they get the beefing. Oh, I don't know why that. Yeah, yeah, motherfucker, it's because of you. It's because of you you decided to run your dick sucker to the wrong motherfucker or vice versa. You decided to have the wrong motherfucker in your circle because that motherfucker wasn't really wasn't a friend, he was an enemy. Because I don't give a fuck how you dress that motherfucker up. Goddamn, put a suit and tie on this bitch. Goddamn. Glaze that motherfucker up with honey or and did his turn, put baby oil on that nigga.
Speaker 2:Everybody ain't supposed to be around you. And I mean I have made mistakes and I'm still making corrections in my everyday life to where certain niggas ain't privy to everything that our experiences, because I mean that's why a basketball arena is made the way it's made. I mean let me break that shit down to you for your slow motherfuckers out there. A basketball arena is built because certain people will go on. You will go with you on that journey and some people will watch you go on that journey.
Speaker 2:The same people that are watching you on that journey are the same people that are going to hate on you. Well, I'm sorry, not the same people. They are sitting next to the same people. They're going to hate on you and never got on and cheer you on just because they feel like it's cool or they might be recognized, or you, or they might get a little kudos points because, oh, man, shit, me and that nigga used to play in the sandbox together, bro me and my man, man, me and that man used to eat at the same restaurant. Hey, me and that man were the same shoe size. No matter what they can do, they just want to compare to you and and like I tell people, I don't give a fuck. I don't give a ever-loving fuck, because I'm a big leo. A big leo, I am the epitome of assholishness.
Speaker 2:If you piss me the fuck off because people be having secret agendas, secret beefs and different, different situations going on, because my cousin called me the other day hey, bro, you know such and such. Yeah, I know such and such, me and bro do buddy got down and grew up together. Man shit, I just saw his brother the other day and I just saw his mama at a little festival. I hugged his mama, kissed his mama on the cheek. Why, what's up what going on, bro? Shit that my cheek. Why, what's up what going on, bro? Shit, that nigga got down.
Speaker 2:You know he was saying you know some choice words. When I brought up your name and when I asked him what the problem was, the first thing he says is won't you go ask that nigga? Why don't you go ask him? And when he asked me, I don't know what's your problem. Partner, if you want to, if you got a problem with me, come bring it to my first front doorstep.
Speaker 2:I mean, like, if I got a problem with you shit, like I don't, I don't, like I tell people all the time I don't want to smoke, but I blow smoke all the time. I don't give a fuck. I mean, you will know that I have a problem with you. It will you. You will feel it. You will feel it in my energy. You will feel it in my aura. You will feel it in my motherfucking words. You will feel it in my glare. You will realize when other motherfuckers around you and I speak to individuals by name around you and skip over your aura and to speak to this motherfucker, even though you're standing present, that means I don't fuck with you. I mean, I mean literally I don't. And a lot of people fail to realize because I don't fake kick it.
Speaker 2:I don't, I don't fake kick it, and a lot of these motherfuckers will goddamn, will dress up in full on costumes and sing around and mingle with individuals that they truly don't care for. Man, y'all, some sometime, ass bitches. I'm gonna go ahead and tell y'all like that, and that goes for men and women. The term bitch ain't just for a goddamn female dog, it's for some of y'all men out there that act like straight up hoes, sensitive dick tucking ass nickels oh, I'm sorry, not niggas, because I mean shit. Let me go and tell you like this y'all dick tucking ass, tender dick, ass, dick in the booty, ass. Men, straight up, because I mean shit. What I mean. Where are we at in society? To where I got to wear a whole mask and ensemble just to get your approval.
Speaker 2:Man, fuck you your opinion and the shit that motherfucker wrote in on, because I don't give a fuck and a lot of people got down. Care about what the next person say. I mean shit, man, I came in this world by myself. I believe in this world by myself. The couple of people that I fuck with on a regular basis, that's who I truly fuck with you.
Speaker 2:Once you cross on that side and like shit, like I get a bad vibe off you or you piss me the fuck off, or just we just gonna keep it frank. I no longer fuck with you like I ain't bringing shit to your cookout nigga, I won't even be there. That's why a lot of times like even if somebody having a kickback, a certain situation or whatever they got going on shit, I ask whoever over there, man, let me hear one motherfucker's name that I don't fuck with. Nah, bro, shit, I'm thinking I'm just gonna chill. In other words, you might not know it, you just told me a name that I just choose not to fuck with at all on any capacity, any level, or even on a high bystander. I just don't truck, I just don't fuck with you. It's like, look the way I got doing.
Speaker 2:I like I tell people like this me treating a motherfucker like that is treating a motherfucker like he got a disease. You get what I'm saying. We, we, bro, oh, what the fuck you got going on, you infected. I mean it's your real nigga shit. Like you like, like that's. That's the type of like I'm talking about. Like like when dro said oh, like that's, like that's the type of goddamn vibe I get off you. So I choose not to fuck with you. I mean respectfully, I mean shit. Some people goddamn I mean oh, I got.
Speaker 2:I gotta tell people all the time everything ain't meant to be spoken and everything ain't meant to be exposed. You get what I'm saying? Um, because so many people out here do that fake kicking shit and I just don't understand why. I really don't understand why. Because what are you gaining out of fake kicking it with an individual? Just, we're just gonna ask a question what do you gain? Write in my comments, send me a message, ask me or tell me what the fuck you gain from fake kicking it with somebody, somebody, man, I see motherfuckers all the time. When they fall out with somebody, next thing you know they they throwing every little piece of dirt they can throw out there on a motherfucker name. Even shit, that ain't true. I mean, I've had so much bullshit said about me and I just sit back and laugh when I hear these rumors and obnoxious ass comments.
Speaker 2:It's like I did what for real. I did what like like I'll go ahead. I'll go ahead and put y'all on some shit like once upon a time shit like I got caught up in some bullshit and poof. Everybody found out this motherfucker wasn't really. Uh, this motherfucker was a mask in disguise. This motherfucker was a transformer. This motherfucker was a decepticon. If you know, you know. If you don't, you don't. Hey, just read between the lines and maybe we'll figure it out. If you don't know, ask dm me, send me a message, everything the same, all four sepals only. But If you don't know what a Decepticon is, we gonna have to have a talk.
Speaker 2:So boom, they tried to accuse me of sleeping with a Decepticon. I just bust out laughing. I was like there's no way in hell. There's no way. I mean, we close to Atlanta, but we ain't that close. You get what I'm saying. You dig, you dig and there's no way in hell. I'm not, no goddamn Undercover brother. I'm no social. No shade, no shit like that. You know what Fuck that? I do have some shade About that undercover brother. Shit, bro, you might, because I tell y'all A funny story about the shit. So my mama calls me up. John, what, ma? You won't believe what happened. I said what happened, mama, you won't believe what happened. I said what happened.
Speaker 2:Ma, you know your uncle. Which one? Ma you know you got a couple brothers, you know, not the one in the family, the one married into the family. Oh, okay, oh yeah, ma, I remember now. Yeah, you talking about the firefighter. Yeah, I said, mama, that's a big motherfucker. Remind you, the firefighter in my family that was married into my family, um, he, he was like six, eight, like he won one of them, jack buff, motherfucker, like motherfucker, lived at the gym, type motherfuckers. So my mama would give me the rundown about what happened. So she was.
Speaker 2:She was telling me your aunt was looking for some shit down in the basement. I said, oh shit, mom, what'd she find? Spiders, creepy crawlers, a snake or something, john, no, it was worse. What'd she find, mom? She was talking about something. She was going through boxes. She found some size 13 heels, some extra large frilly frill Victoria's Secret underwear and what's them damn things, what them little spring dresses called the females don't wear no drawers with? I can't think of it. But she found that meals don't wear no drawers with. I can't, I can't think of it, but she found that. So she bought.
Speaker 2:She bundled all that shit up, took it upstairs and asked my uncle, whose it was his ass, gonna say he started sweating, he started hemming and hawing. Now like this is a this a big motherfucker, and my aunt ain't nothing but 5'2", she like 5'2", 160. So he over there sweating Because his wife done found this shit. She said, hey, who the fuck the bitch you been cheating on me with? And he ain't had nothing to say. She said I need to know who the bitch you cheating on me with right now. You know what I'm sick and tired of this shit. This motherfucker comes out and says it's his, it's his, it's his dress, his heels and his underwear. She don't know what the fuck to say now. She don't know how to respond. She don't know what to say.
Speaker 2:What do you say when you find some shit about somebody like that, that they've been living a double life, they've been living in disguise? What do you say? How do you address it? I'm sorry. Like when I find certain shit out, I have to regather myself and I had to separate myself and try to get my thoughts together before so I can process it. And I'm pretty sure she was trying to process the shit about everything that was just transpired and what she just found out. Because I mean, I'm sorry, when you find out some certain things even even remotely devastating to that extent, what do you do? You can't. You can't do nothing but process it. It's like because when you don't process it, you crash out and a lot of people will goddamn, set a whole house on fire and then they then next thing you know, they say they didn't mean to.
Speaker 2:That's like a certain situation I went through. I got hit by a car by one of my exes. I went through. I got hit by a car by one of my exes on some hit the windshield, got doing um, hit the windshield. Uh, had glass in my shoulder, had two broken ribs, four bruised ribs, bruised hip, bruised knee, mild concussion. I end up get. I end up walking a mile home. It was like 3, 4 o'clock in the morning because we had gotten in an argument because I had told her to take me home and I didn't want to be with her no more, and so I started walking. So I thought she had pulled off. I hear whoop whoop.
Speaker 2:And so I know I hear I get on down's here so I end up sliding and the motherfucker end up getting out the car something. Oh my god. Oh my god. I didn't mean to you talking about some traumatic shit. Man, I was scared to walk on the sidewalk for almost three months because I was scared a guy the motherfucker was gonna sneak up and hit me or I was just gonna get hit by a car.
Speaker 2:Um, but I mean sometimes you gotta let shit process. You just can't let shit just be forced upon people because you don't know how they're gonna be right, because, I mean, certain reactions are warranted. It's just your reactions. What you can control, you can't control theirs. Sometimes you try to walk off, like like me, for instance, no matter how bad shit gets, because once I get to a certain point I either I either shut down, I don't talk about it and I just walk off because that's the only way I know I will get a breather and be able, and before I make an irrational decision that I might regret for the rest of my life, and a lot of people say, oh my God, I would never do that and you don't know what you'll do until you, placed in a situation and placed with that degree on you for people to react.
Speaker 2:But that's all I got for today. Thank you for joining me on four steppers. Only we are peace, and I love this motherfucking cell phone. That's all I got for today. Thank you for joining me on 4 Steppers. Only we out Peace, man. I love this motherfucking cell phone case, but shit, you know what? I need? Some motherfucking food, man. Shit, I'm finna. Eat these guys, we'll be right back Outro Music.
