For Steppers Only: Raw, Uncut, and Unedited
Welcome to For Steppers Only—the podcast where real ones from all walks of life pull up to chop it up about everything under the sun.
We dive into relationships, careers, education, sports, the supernatural, sexuality, personal growth, entrepreneurship, family vibes—you name it. This is the space for raw conversations, honest laughs, and deep reflections. It’s all about learning, leveling up, and spotlighting voices you don’t always hear.
Whether you're on the rise, finding your path, or just looking to connect, this podcast is your corner of the world to vibe, grow, and step into something real.
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For Steppers Only: Raw, Uncut, and Unedited
Single and Burning
Have you ever been tempted to "get back" at an ex who wronged you? Before you plot that revenge, this brutally honest conversation might change your mind. We're diving deep into the psychology of revenge, the emptiness of retaliation, and why leveling up your own life is the only truly satisfying response to heartbreak.
Through raw, unfiltered dialogue, we explore why revenge is ultimately a childish pursuit that leaves you stuck in the past rather than moving toward your future. When you're focused on getting even, you're still giving that person power over your emotions and decisions. Instead, we make the case for quiet dignity, personal growth, and letting your success speak for itself. The best revenge isn't complicated – it's becoming better than you were when you were with them and redirecting that negative energy toward positive self-improvement.
We also tackle the problematic trend of broadcasting breakups on social media, airing dirty laundry, and why these behaviors reflect more poorly on you than the person you're trying to expose. Through honest conversations about relationship boundaries, respect, and authentic living, this episode challenges listeners to examine their own behaviors and consider whether they're contributing to their own happiness or sabotaging it with petty pursuits.
Remember that people's opinions are like assholes – everyone has one, but that doesn't mean they're entitled to dictate your happiness. Your life is yours alone, and living it authentically is the greatest freedom you can give yourself. Subscribe now for more unfiltered conversations about relationships, personal growth, and finding your path to genuine happiness.
Goddamn, every time you pick me up you listen to that goddamn Jason Aldean Talk about chillin' on the dirt road. Goddammit, I just wanna goddamn get home, play some of that goddamn new shit I like. Now, give me that. This my shit. Well, you love me right now. If I was smarter, I'd have stayed my ass at home and leave the rock and record alone. Now Everybody in the board again. Timpsi, woo, woo.
Speaker 1:I just want to welcome y'all to oh, steppers Only, where we tell you to sit down and watch a motherfucking stepper step. I'm Jack, that little motherfucker that rolls down hills Because he got his legs too short To jump out of a goddamn sitting, goddamn trike. What the hell did I fall out of that night? I think I fell out of my Jeep. True story I tried to jump in my Jeep, drunk as fuck. Next thing I know I was rolling down a goddamn hill Right in front of a goddamn club. Still don't remember when I got ribs. I don't even remember how I got home. I just remember I woke up in my homeboy's living room that next morning they gonna wake me up and tell me Boy, you want some eggs? Fuck you. But anyway, I just want to welcome you all to four steppers only.
Speaker 1:Um, one of my listeners hit me up one time and I just want to let y'all know I do appreciate that when people, when I put a poll out, and people give me a, give me a topic or whatever, whatever. But I'm gonna go ahead and be honest with y'all. I'm sick and tired of fucking relationship shit. I don't want to hear that shit, I don't want to talk about that shit, whatever Shit. I just want to hear some funny shit when I crack jokes, whatever, whatever, whatever, put my little dark twist on it, whatever, whatever, whatever. But anyway, he hit me up Talking about some hey, do you think it's worth getting get back.
Speaker 1:I don't feel like get back is really. I feel like get back is childish, to be honest, because I mean, what are you actually getting back out of shit? A nut, a STD, herpes, gonorrhea, chlamydia, some shit like that. A baby Shit. Disappointment. Herpes, gonorrhea, chlamydia, some shit like that, a baby shit. Disappointment, because, hey, nothing's more disappointment than you you got now. Think you about to get your, get your, uh, your boyfriend back. Everything goes. And you about to goddamn go over there. You about to get your girl, old lady back. You get over there and the pussy is weak as fuck. That shit dry. That shit damn near like you rubbing your dick across goddamn sandpaper or the shit goddamn got an echo to it.
Speaker 1:That motherfucker. The only thing you hear is hello, hello, hello, hello, hello. All the way through that motherfucker, because that shit just ran through Like a whole goddamn line of football players done ran up in this motherfucker, like this motherfucker been on one of them goddamn bang bus episodes where you'd see like 50 dudes versus one a shot have been through that whole thing like one versus gorillas, a hundred gorillas, and you already know what type of type of goddamn you see them. But anyway, what are you gaining out of? Get back. Just just, I'm sorry, I went on my tangent, I'm sorry. I'm sorry, I know I drugged that shit out too long, but anyway, what are you getting out of? Get back?
Speaker 1:I want to hear what y'all get out of get back, because I don't believe in get back. I believe, I believe in moving the fuck on. Stop, stop talking to the person. Shit Dead, that shit. Dig a ditch, let that motherfucker lie in it. Piss on that motherfucker. Hey, rest in piss. I mean shit, because I mean from that point on shit. You just dead.
Speaker 1:To me, shit, there's no need to get back somebody that's not worth you know, that's no longer In your realm. Because, hey shit, say the shit. Does you know? Shit, shit, that just happened and y'all goddamn end up working some shit out. Now you gotta go to the goddamn grave With some bullshit and God forbid you get that goddamn bullshit, that goddamn itchy and scratchy, that goddamn Ren and Skippy, that Rick and Morty, that, as I Die Slowly Cause I mean how you gonna go, goddamn see, say, okay, y'all go back for makeup sex and next thing you know you goddamn, uh, what's that shit called? We are the crabs your pubes will grab. We be on bed seats and toilet seats, but but I mean, how do you, how do you explain that to your partner? They're saying oh shit, I ain't been fucking around. But shit, we've been broken up two hours and now I got the clout. Now my goddamn dick dripping, goddamn green puss. Now I gotta take these goddamn pills because of it. I'm just asking Because I mean people out here try to get back, play that shit.
Speaker 1:Like I was telling one of my partners, the best get back you can ever do to somebody is level up, be better than what you were when you were with them, which sounds bad. But I mean shit, because a lot of times it's like oh, because I love to hear when a motherfucker talk about something. Oh girl, after I let that nigga, that nigga ain't shit, that motherfucker goddamn went back home to his mama. Or that motherfucker ain't got a pot to piss in, he ain't got no job, he ain't got no car Shit that nigga. He been like that for the last 10 years. I don't know why I still fuck with him anyway.
Speaker 1:Girl, like you don't want to be that person, man, because I mean shit, that shit sound bitter as fuck. I mean absolutely bitter, because I mean like, who the fuck, who the fuck thrives off that shit. Because I mean the mean, the way I look at it is, nobody really wants to hear that bullshit, except for another bitter motherfucker. Because in my mind it's like okay, what are you doing now, since you done? Left this man alone, left this dude alone? What are you doing now? What do you got going on now? Because, and but oh, oh, another thing, shit as soon as the mother.
Speaker 1:Hey, this is hey, just fyi for y'all individuals out there. Don't go run to social media and type in single, single. As soon as y'all break up or y'all get to arguing or putting y'all shit on social media. That shit is play the fuck out and I just want to let y'all know. Y'all be up there talking about some single asf, oh, no, no, no, it's not ASF, it's AF Shit. You wonder why, when dudes got down to see that shit, they hurb and got down to get in your inbox. Because that single AF means single and fucking, fucking and fucking. That's all that means. Because I mean shit.
Speaker 1:Why do you have to broadcast if you even worth something or you even worth anything? Why, bro? And for y'all dudes out there, let me tell you, quiet is kept, bro. Sometimes you got to sit back and watch a pot stew. Because why you got to go back and dirty air out all the dirty laundry of what this person went through, or all the bullshit just to paint a picture of this individual, of how bad they are, or the fuck, the shit they done did in their life, the bullshit they done went through, or the trials and tribulations they done went through. That shit. We get fucked, bro.
Speaker 1:Like I tell folks all the time man, shit, if you goddamn fuck me over, you do me wrong. Shit. I ain't got to air out your shit. I ain't gotta air out your shit I don't because you're gonna air out your shit, your damn self when people start fucking with you and they start realizing the truth and sides of you you ain't, you ain't, you ain't shit. That's what they won't say. You really weren't shit.
Speaker 1:Because, like I tell people shit, hey, there's a line in the sand. You choose which side you're gonna be on. You're either gonna be you choose which side you're gonna be on. You're gonna be on this side or you're gonna be on this side, you choose. You choose sides regardless. Or you can say no, neutral, like I. Like I tell people all the time man, I don't draw, I don't choose sides, because everybody got a story. Everybody might tell their story fucked up, but there's always truth in the middle. Because if you listen to this side, this side, there's always truth in the middle. But but I mean, why sit there and entertain the bullshit anyway? Because that shit, that shit, we get fucked. Because I mean shit, like, like, like.
Speaker 1:I remember that one dude was out there talking about some boy man, shit, the big cat show that anyway. But the pussy was hitting and then get mad. Three of her homeboys, don't try to go over that goddamn back door's ass. Try to goddamn hit it. How can you be mad at them? They probably been eye-spying y'all before you started fucking with them, or they used to fuck with them, but you just didn't know about it. But then you find out. Then you say, bro, that fuck daughter, you shouldn't have told him how good the pussy was. That's your dumb ass fault Talking about some shit. It ought to be goddamn shit. Shit. The pussy's hard Shit. The motherfucker ain't got no grip at all. Man Shit. The motherfucker ain't got no tread in that motherfucker bro. But shit, that head hitting. I ain't even going to lie, man Shit. I need to go back over there for that head I. I might not fuck with y'all, no more, but they got them head on point.
Speaker 1:So why be mad at the dude that you just told that to if he get curious, honestly, why get mad at him? Because I mean, that's y'all weak-ass niggas' fault. Shut the fuck up. Sometime. Stop telling too much information on the motherfucker, because once you start telling too much information, that's when motherfuckers get curious. That's when motherfuckers start plotting. That's when motherfuckers start plotting. That's when motherfuckers start connecting the dots them all. Some shit, shit he ain't fucking with. Hey, bro, you mind if I, I mean shit depends on like, but it it's, it's, it's a four-door situation.
Speaker 1:So y'all tell me, do y'all believe in get back? Because I don't, I don't once. Once I'm done with you, I ain't even hold you because I mean shit. I sit there and watch shit. I just sit back and watch because you'll see somebody like like, I'll watch people. They movements tell it all, they mannerisms tell it all, because I mean like shit, you can tell when motherfuckers insecure about certain shit, they hover, they hover around, they got now it's like, it's like sharks in the water, this, that and third, oh, I know what I want to talk about today.
Speaker 1:So I got a question. So I posted something the other day. It's a little clip from you know Finding Nemo About when the shark shark bait, you know swimming up on Nemo and the little goddamn blood goddamn came out. Right, or was that Dora? The little blood came out, but they ended up. The shark goddamn got turned on by the smell of blood, bro. The shark got turned on by the smell of blood, bro.
Speaker 1:I just got a question do y'all really be hitting shit on folks periods, cause, if so, y'all some nasty motherfuckers. That's the time the body cleanses out. So why you can't wait a week? You can't wait a couple of days and don't be? And man, I'm so tired of female talking about something.
Speaker 1:Oh, when you get in the shower, it stop bleeding for real, for real. Are you fucking serious? No, it don't stop bleeding. You just don't see the blood because you goddamn washing it away with water. What makes you think it's gonna stop bleeding? It ain't like you putting a cold compress on a motherfucker. It ain't like you you holding it with pressure, unless your kegels that strong shit. Well, I can't lie. Some, some motherfuckers kegels are that strong because shit, I done heard a couple stories. It ain't me.
Speaker 1:I done heard from other folks experiences how they got down. You know, get that gripple and they got them rubble. Come off with the goddamn. And you got to go in there fishing for the motherfucker. You know you got to go in there. You know, got them acting like you a goddamn surgeon or OBGYN or gynecologist trying to find that motherfucker in there. You look like you got them Harry Potter trying to find that motherfucker. And you got them pull that motherfucker with two fingers.
Speaker 1:But anyway, because I got a funny story about that, this acquaintance I know it ain't a friend, it ain't a homie, he's an acquaintance he was goddamn panicking one day and and we were at work, why you panicking, bro? Man, shit, oh my God. Oh my God. I got a girl going over my house. I said, okay, shit, what's so bad about that? But I just, I just I was fucking somebody earlier and the bloody robot's still in the trash. Can what?
Speaker 1:Nigga you run red lights. Nigga you run red lights, bro, that's how niggas catch shit. I know, oh my god, if y'all can see my motherfucking face, but you can see my face over on youtube, but or spotify, where I post the videos of this also um, it's just disgusting to me because I don't want to get in nothing. And it smell like straight panties. It don't smell. It smell like alkaline, it smell like goddamn, it smell like some goddamn blood. I just can't get off. I mean, I just can't do that.
Speaker 1:But the the the idea and the fact of the matter is, is you just hit somebody two days prior and knock their rag on, ran that red light, and then now you about to knock down another motherfucker Bro. That's how motherfuckers get BV. That's how motherfuckers get bacterial vaginosis. That's how motherfuckers get that stanky odor, bro, by you adding goddamn, throwing off bitches', ph balances and shit, and you want to get mad when a motherfucker burn your ass. Nigga, you're a dirty dick bastard. You deserve to get burned. Goddamn dick over here looking like a goddamn red highlighter. But in my aspect it's like what is what do you like? You can't wait, because I mean, that's the natural flow of a goddamn vagina or the person's body cleaning all the toxins out of their body. So why not wait and let them recover for that little period of time? Then shit you, because I don't know shit.
Speaker 1:I got a lot of male listeners out there. I'm gonna go ahead and peep y'all on some male listeners. Y'all steppers, this ain't for the stepettes. So hey, y'all stepettes, use earmuffs. Hey, bros, hey, hey steppers, listen to this.
Speaker 1:That first seven days is their most fertile period that they ever going to be in. So if you trying to goddamn trap a bitch, that's the time you're boasting. I'm just fucking with y'all. But anyway, shit. But that's a true statement. That is their most fertile period. So shit, if you ain't. If they ain't on that pill. They ain't on that goddamn contraceptive bro. Shit, bro, steer clear, shit. That's why them vampires be goddamn talking about some and the fangs be coming out and them motherfuckers be talking about some. I mean heat, yeah, that motherfucker ain't heated because that motherfucker finna be pregnant. Bro, don't jump in that shit.
Speaker 1:It might be to tell you, but shit, we just got to do better, man. Shit, because there's no way in hell, because, fellas, let me tell y'all something, steppers, that y'all that goddamn do all that. Goddamn. I'm fucking like sick bitches how y'all do it. I'm just trying to figure out how y'all do it.
Speaker 1:My mental capacity, my level of frustration, my, my, my lane, my lane of focus ain't there. I'm gonna go ahead and tell you my shit, don't be there at all, because it's like man. I gotta remember this, I gotta remember this, I gotta remember this, I gotta remember this. Oh, she don't like this, but she do like this man. I ain't got time for it. Or, oh, it's like chest, but I gotta move these chest pieces of this, bro, that's too much work, shit, I, I can't do it, I can't. It's too much work. What? What's the point of doing it, just so you can go get another piece of ass. It's not worth it.
Speaker 1:I mean that's why I tell people fuck with people, how you fuck with them or how they, how you want them to fuck with you, because a lot of people don't want, don't understand that, because people out here don't really fuck with you the way you thinking sometimes, but the person that really fuck with you you might not even know it that motherfucker worrying about you, goddamn, looking out for you, doing this, doing that, goddamn cooking for you, make sure you fed, make sure you goddamn got clothes to go to work, make sure you get rest, make sure you feel well. It's that aspect to life. You just can't be goddamn just out, because I mean, you can't be out here jacking off trades, because that's how niggas get burned, that's how females get burned, and now shit, oh my God, get burned, that's how females get burned. And now shit, oh my god, these, these demonized females out here doing this. They on, they on attack mode bro. They talking about them, they the new, they the new niggas. I mean shit for real, for real, because I mean shit, bro, I would tell, I would joke with my partners the other day I said, boy, these females out here moving like we used to.
Speaker 1:We're in our 20s. What do we do? How do we? Y'all want me to settle down With goddamn John Rambo over here?
Speaker 1:She, goddamn, trying to let every nigga shoot up the club. She trying to go for every nigga pocket. She robbing niggas blind. She got, boy, I can't even hold you. Oh, I got a question, can't even. I can't even hold you. Oh, I got, I got a question.
Speaker 1:This is, this is my question for all y'all say, y'all living somewhere and you know, you and your, you and your significant other, your, your spouse, whatever, whatever, and y'all having rocky times. What would you do if one of your kids, cousins, find your significant other's secret page they secret or private, their members only Snapchat, like. What would you do? Like we talk about or you shit Hell, not even just the goddamn they cousin. What about your neighbors or more? Or your homeboy at work, or one of your partners, or your cousin or your, or your goddamn paymaster ass uncle? They tell myself hey, hey, baby, what you gonna do for the 250? Shit ain't nobody gonna know, shit, it's our little secret. See, I'm just, I'm just curious. What would you do if your significant of somebody in your family or somebody you know closely, tells you that your significant other has a secret page or shit. That motherfucker selling pussy on the back page. Oh, that motherfucker, oh shit. I ask you shit.
Speaker 1:The other day, this streamer I can't remember what his name is got exposed for being on a male like male on male site at 19. I mean, I don't. I don't condone nobody's choices. I don't condone Nobody's choices. I don't hate on nobody's lifestyle or the way they choose to be happy, but this dumbass Motherfucker talking about some old year Shit. I was just trying something out when I was, you know, finding myself back then this dumbass motherfucker Talking about some. Yeah, but I ain't like that, no more.
Speaker 1:That nigga done sucked a dick. What y'all think I think he done sucked a dick. He either sucked a dick or took a dick. I'm just saying, just because you tell him something, oh, he sucked mine, shit. That don't make it gay. Please, please, please, hey. Tell him something. Hey, it don't make it gay if you don't make eye contact. Please, please, please. I don't know who lied to your motherfucking ass, but because I mean I believe 90% of all females out here done had a lesbian experience. So I mean, if that's you, that's you, that's whoop, whoop, whoop, whoop Because I got a homegirl. Because I got a home girl.
Speaker 1:This motherfucker tells me every time, like tell me something, hey, I successfully completed a mission this weekend. I said, oh shit, for real, what kind of mission you done, goddamn completed, shit dead. I fucking chinese finger trap, fucking chinese finger trap. I was the force in between the lightsabers, oh shit. And I'm just like holy shit. And this ain't this motherfucker like bro. I mean this motherfucker be recruiting motherfuckers. I mean recruiting making dick appointments, making goddamn like she. This motherfucker gets turned on by getting tossed up. I mean there's no judgment, I'm just like shit. But hey, do you boo, do you boo? She's talking about some goddamn big john got a goddamn third leg. I don't, I don't give a fuck about listening to this motherfucker dick size. But shit, I'm glad you goddamn got hit with a roto-rooter. I'm glad your insides just got churned like some butter back in the 1976. I'm just saying they do you boo shit. I love it for you.
Speaker 1:Sometimes you got to do what makes you happy, not what other people find or judgments last, or what they're going to say about you. And shit man, fuck their opinions, fuck their thoughts and opinions, because sometimes it don't shit. Sometimes it don't even fucking matter about their opinions. Because people have opinions, are like assholes. Everybody has one and everybody feel like they entitled one know the fuck? You don't know the fuck. They're not entitled to have an opinion based on your life, your happiness and what makes you happy.
Speaker 1:It makes you smile at the end of the day, knowing that your life is fulfilled. Why, why should I? Why should I place judgment? All I say is goddamn, go get your dick wet, have a little fun. Jump off in that swimming pool. Goddamn, get in that motherfucker's throat. Some shoulders. Drip some sweat off in somebody's mouth. Spit in somebody's mouth. I mean shit. Tie a motherfucker up, restrain him Shit. Do whatever you got to do Shit. Pop a thumb in the ass. Do. Do whatever makes you fucking happy. Hell do he. Goddamn, even goddamn, while you in there stroking, tell them, reaching the top drawer, get that little and goddamn you both at the same time. But hey, at the end of the day, do what makes you motherfucking happy and that's all. Hey, here at four steppers, only we out, peace. Fold Step us, only we out, peace.
