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Happy New Year: The Boyfriend Episode
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We bring Josh on to clear the air, trace our Hinge origin story, and relive how a rooftop idea became back‑to‑back dodgeball championships. The chat moves from LA rent shock and influencer crosswalks to fantasy book bonds and a spirited Wicked debate.
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Alex Hinsky
Josh Joins And Relationship Banter
SPEAKER_05Welcome back to the A-list podcast with Allison and Alex. I'm Allison. He's Alex. And today we have my gorgeous, sexy, hot, nice, talented, athletic boyfriend. Josh.
SPEAKER_01It's me. I'm here. I know you guys don't really talk about me that much. So we talk about you actually.
SPEAKER_05We do. We actually stopped because you got mad.
SPEAKER_01Is that what happened?
SPEAKER_03No, it's it we didn't even stop. It's just now you just give preface to it when we're recording. You're like, well, we're talking about Josh.
SPEAKER_05I did cut out something that could have been mildly taken the wrong way. So now you've you're in my head.
SPEAKER_01And I Oh, that's right. You were spreading lies about me on this fight.
SPEAKER_05Oh, yeah. Do you want to clear it up now?
SPEAKER_03Oh, that's right. I forgot about it. That's really why we brought you here. Everyone's been wondering and we need to clear the air. Uh yeah. What was it about?
SPEAKER_05I actually don't know.
SPEAKER_03I'll tell you. So do you remember? I know I remember the the thing that you were worried about when you had me take out. And it wasn't. It wasn't.
SPEAKER_05No, it really wasn't anything. No, what you got mad about was that I said we did something at the last minute. Like of course, of course it was at the last minute.
SPEAKER_01And Alex immediately agreed.
SPEAKER_03Oh, and here, and I I told her I wanted to defend myself because imagine you're we're recording a podcast in conversation and I want to like help contribute. So I'm going, yeah, yeah, sure, sure. It's like what you do.
SPEAKER_01Yes.
SPEAKER_03It wasn't like that. I was like, I know Josh so well this track.
SPEAKER_01That is what it felt like. Okay. And for that, I apologize. And for that, I apologize. Wow, Alex just jumped right in on that. That was that was great.
SPEAKER_05But in that, in those line, that line of thinking, he only knows what I tell him. So if before I've been like, we this happened at the last minute, then that's what he knows.
SPEAKER_01And so So did you come back and tell me cleared the air. I did. People watched it.
SPEAKER_05I did. You apparently didn't listen to that one.
Dodgeball Origins And Championships
SPEAKER_03I can't listen to everyone. Well, no, and he was too hurt, I'm sure. He didn't worry.
SPEAKER_01I'm going right back to it.
SPEAKER_03Um listeners also uh know that you were on we were all on dodgeball team together. Okay. And that you got and congratulations officially. We haven't talked about it officially on being the champions. Oh, thank you so much.
SPEAKER_05Two time championships.
SPEAKER_03Back-to-back champions.
SPEAKER_01Doge say that the hardest thing to do is win back-to-back championships. Is that what they say? Not for us.
SPEAKER_05And you know what? Maybe we'll go three times.
SPEAKER_01And what if you like want to I do not my dodgeball career is done. We actually owe the championships to you, Alex.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, you you started that. By leaving the team.
SPEAKER_01On your rooftop. No, no, no. We were on your rooftop, and you were like, Oh I had just met all you people. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You're like, let's show a dodgeball team. And I was like, Well, I'm not doing that. But everybody else was like, every single person we're in. And that's the team.
SPEAKER_05Why didn't you want to? Because we we were just so new, you weren't there.
SPEAKER_01I didn't know you people. Well, and also it was so impulsive for all of you. Like, I just didn't want to be left out. I actually like yours is FOMO. No. You didn't know that that was going to happen. No, I'm literally like, guys. I made a dodgeball team. Do you want to join? And all of them were like, yes. And I was like, whoa. Yes, that was our first season.
SPEAKER_03On House. Beaverhausen. And then we got Josh to sign up season two. Yes.
SPEAKER_05I actually didn't want to play at all. I just didn't want to be left out.
SPEAKER_03And then it turns out you like it more than I do.
SPEAKER_05And then I it turns out I'm really good at dodge. Turns out sporty. Well, I've always been sporty. Sorry.
SPEAKER_02My bad. Always sports.
SPEAKER_05Speaking of, Josh and I are in the middle of a thing where we're going to have a three-point contest.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_05I bought a basketball for this.
SPEAKER_02Yeah.
SPEAKER_05Because he didn't, neither of us owned one. Do you have a and I've challenged him to a three-point contest because I'm for no real reason.
SPEAKER_01No, I know that.
SPEAKER_00Where's the hoop? We got a park. There's one.
SPEAKER_05There's a park by us.
SPEAKER_00Oh, okay, okay.
SPEAKER_05I'm sure that I can win. I was a really good shooter.
SPEAKER_00Okay.
SPEAKER_05And I won the free throw contest.
SPEAKER_00Free throw. Free throw.
SPEAKER_05I was also a really good outside shooter. I played AAU, okay. I'm I wasn't just, oh, I'm on the seventh grade basketball team.
SPEAKER_02What's AAU?
SPEAKER_05It's called the Amateur Athletic Union. It's really just like when you play outside of school. Oh, okay. And like you travel. It's like travel ball.
SPEAKER_00It's like travel ball, basically.
SPEAKER_01Oh, okay, okay, okay.
SPEAKER_05So I wasn't just like I'm on the seventh grade team where they let everyone on. Like I had to try out for that. I was traveling.
SPEAKER_01I was well, you had to try out for my seventh grade basketball team without a doubt.
SPEAKER_05We also had to try out, but it was like most people got on. Is it so much? You had to be really bad.
SPEAKER_03Because there wasn't enough ladies?
SPEAKER_05No, there was a girls' team. What?
SPEAKER_03Like, but that's what I mean. Like there were enough to be able to have to.
SPEAKER_01There weren't like 24 girls who were like, yeah, we want to play, so we have to cut.
SPEAKER_05I think like some people probably got cut, but it was like you had to be pretty bad.
Three‑Point Challenge And Sports Chatter
SPEAKER_03How many people are on a basketball team? Well, I'm sorry. How many people are on the court on a team? Five. Five. It's really only five? That's just five. There's probably like nine or ten minutes.
SPEAKER_01When you're at like middle school, no, okay, but a professional NBA team. Yes, there are actual.
SPEAKER_05I don't know.
SPEAKER_01That's what's like 15 plus one, like there's one exception, something like it's a lot. Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_05Okay.
SPEAKER_01Amount of actual signed players you can have on the team.
SPEAKER_03And that's because there's offense and defense, everyone. So as you know, the number one sports podcast, let me explain basketball to you. There's an offense and a defense. So you have different players who do offense better than defense, I'm sure. Is that true?
SPEAKER_04That is true. Okay.
SPEAKER_05I mean, yeah. But like you all, there's so little.
SPEAKER_03Wait a minute. Oh but in basketball, you offense and defense switches like every second.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, I was gonna say, so you kind of have to be good at both in basketball.
SPEAKER_01No, actually, you do not have to be good at both. Wait, really? Well, there's so few people on the court. Scottie Pippen. Sure.
SPEAKER_05That's a person that played basketball.
SPEAKER_01Yes, but he's really good at eating jam. What team was he on? Do you know what team he was on? I think he played Scottie Pippen Jr.
SPEAKER_03Well, who's the one that was on Space Jam? That's neither. Neither. So I just so it turns out I know someone who wasn't even in Space Jam.
SPEAKER_01Oh wait, no.
SPEAKER_03Do you know Michael Jordan?
SPEAKER_05Michael Jordan.
SPEAKER_03Uh Scottie Pippen was on the same team. He played with Michael Jordan. Oh, so it was the Bulls?
SPEAKER_05Yes.
SPEAKER_03I know something. Chicago.
SPEAKER_05Good job. Speaking of before we started recording, I asked you if you knew what a pacer was.
SPEAKER_03Yes, and I said basketball team, which is accurate.
SPEAKER_05True, but do you know what it's that means?
SPEAKER_03The car that starts the pace for the Indy 500 cars.
SPEAKER_05Okay, that is true. That's a pace car, and that is part of it, but there is another thing that it is, which Well, I'm trying to think of the logo.
SPEAKER_03The Pacers logo is just like a basketball on fire, isn't it?
SPEAKER_05What? Is there a basketball on fire?
SPEAKER_01Like a comet? That's that's an old one. There is one with a uh ball in a hand that's like the shape of a pea and an old one that exists, yes. Okay.
SPEAKER_05So what you know the the Indianapolis football team?
SPEAKER_01The Colts.
SPEAKER_05You know what that is?
SPEAKER_03A horse.
SPEAKER_05A horse. A pacer is also a horse. What?
SPEAKER_03Why does Indiana care about horses like that?
SPEAKER_05I don't actually know, but both teams are horse related.
SPEAKER_03What's a pacer?
SPEAKER_05Both things, the the car and a horse.
SPEAKER_03I'm sorry. What kind of a horse?
SPEAKER_05Oh, I don't know.
SPEAKER_03Like a cult is a specific kind of horse. Isn't a cult a baby horse, actually? Yeah, I think so. This is her trivia. Right.
SPEAKER_01This is I also do not know the answers.
SPEAKER_05A pacer horse is known for its unique lateral gait where it moves both legs on the same side of its body together, offering a smooth, fast ride, historically exemplified via the extinct Nara Ganset pacer, and now prominent in harness racing via the starbred breed, using equipment like okay, it doesn't matter.
SPEAKER_03That's enough. Is a colt a baby horse?
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Right. So interesting to name a football team after a baby horse, right?
SPEAKER_05Yeah, what if we just called the Indianapolis baby horses?
SPEAKER_03And that's essentially what it is.
SPEAKER_05Doesn't sound very behind that.
SPEAKER_03I feel like they used to be a different team. It wasn't the Colts back back back in the day. I want to say. Oh, the Ravens.
SPEAKER_01And they've moved from Baltimore to Indianapolis.
SPEAKER_05I was gonna say we were the Indianapolis Baltimore Ravens. The Indianapolis Baltimore Ravens? No.
SPEAKER_01They moved the Indianapolis.
SPEAKER_03Baltimore Raven baby baby horses.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_03Okay, we're getting carried away on this sports podcast.
SPEAKER_01Really? There's so much with the most sports you guys talking about.
SPEAKER_03I do want to say also Josh Bean here, that's another first. It's the first straight man we've ever had in the vlog.
SPEAKER_05Oh my god.
SPEAKER_01Whoa, really?
SPEAKER_03Yep.
SPEAKER_01I feel very proud.
SPEAKER_03Okay, yeah. You should. I mean, it only is right that you're the first straight man on this play. You might and probably will be the last. I well, Allison has like no straight guy friends. Yeah, there's none.
SPEAKER_05I have a couple like that I grew up with, but they don't live here.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, none of them live here.
SPEAKER_05So they're either back home in Indiana or like Chicago or so.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, none out here. Do you have you don't have a single well? You're your uh CrossFit coach.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_03Maybe we'll have him on, but only if he brings his twin dog.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, they do have twin dogs. Kujo is his name.
unknownOh.
SPEAKER_05So, okay, Josh, you're here.
SPEAKER_03Yes, I am.
SPEAKER_05And I really appreciate it.
SPEAKER_03Yes, thank you, because you are a busy, busy man.
SPEAKER_05Let's give the people some background on you yourself and maybe us.
SPEAKER_03Well, I love an origin story. Everyone on the pod knows that. I love to know how people know each other. Okay. And so we need your first your origin story.
SPEAKER_01My origin story.
SPEAKER_03Where were you born? No, no. Just how do we how are you a part of this group? Well, you're dating Allison, so I am dating. I am dating Allison. Are you guys a hinge story?
SPEAKER_05We are a hinge story. And honestly, I should try to get a brand deal.
SPEAKER_01You should. A success story. A success story. I don't think you've ever, but you like never like talk about it at all. It being hinge.
SPEAKER_05I mean, and people ask, yeah.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, people ask. Yeah. But then that's as far as it goes. It's like oh, we met on Hinge. And then that's it. And it's like everybody's like, oh, okay. Hinge. I love Hinge. Love's a success story too.
SPEAKER_05I think it's romantic because I was so excited to see that someone was from Indiana, but it turns out you didn't actually care about that. So it's less romantic.
SPEAKER_03No, that's true.
SPEAKER_05That you weren't like, oh my gosh, my Indiana queen.
SPEAKER_03When I was on the apps, that was all whenever I would swipe with an Indiana guy. I'm like, that was a thrill to me as well.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, I was like, wow, we're meant to be.
SPEAKER_03It's like, oh my god, because because there's a there's a relatability to it, I think. It's like there's a there is something that you guys will just connect on at a level that someone else won't just simply because where you're from.
SPEAKER_01I will say I do I would get excited if the girl was like in the Midwest. Okay, for sure. Actually made me feel better about the person's like character.
SPEAKER_03Totally, and also proximity to your families. That's nice.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, we have a great.
SPEAKER_03It wasn't like she just.
SPEAKER_05But you were like, she's a Midwest girl, so she's probably really nice and courteous and all that checked out.
SPEAKER_03Aww, and true.
SPEAKER_05Well, uh wait, what was I gonna say?
SPEAKER_03Did you think that she would cry so much?
SPEAKER_05Literally, you guys, I'm gonna say this. It's embarrassing for me, but I'm gonna say it just for content. That's I'm sorry.
SPEAKER_01You don't have to tell this story.
SPEAKER_05I will, because it's nothing you didn't do anything. It's literally me just being insane. Um we were coming home from a Christmas party like in the IE, so we were had like an hour and a half drive. And um we drove my car and we had to stop to charge for like five minutes or whatever because our trip was going to put us up.
SPEAKER_03It would and the battery left. The battery would it would be the car would have died.
SPEAKER_05So it was like you need to go charge somewhere for five minutes and then you can be on your way.
SPEAKER_04Okay.
Hinge Story And First Dates
SPEAKER_05And I don't know, it just got was getting it got dark, and the I swear to you, I was following the directions, and all of a sudden he was like, You missed your turn, and I was like, There's no way because I've been looking at this amount of miles I have to go, and it was like at eight or something, and then it was at three when he said that, and I was like, There's no way I missed this turn because it's not it could not have been enough time.
SPEAKER_03No, okay, okay anyway.
SPEAKER_05I missed the turn, we had to like turn around and go so we could get to the charger. And then we charge, we're leaving. So that was like the first thing that I was annoyed at myself because I was like, How in the world did I do this?
SPEAKER_02Oh, so it's starting to build up. One more thing goes wrong and that's it. Absolutely.
SPEAKER_05Yes. And then as we're driving after we charge for the few minutes, and I almost miss another thing because it was like a almost. Yeah, it was like a fork.
SPEAKER_01There was a fork in the road. I was like, you need to go over it.
SPEAKER_05It was a fork in the road, and it was kind of like on the map, one of those things where it's like the the thing moving was so close, and it's like, which side is it actually on?
SPEAKER_03I do know what you're talking about, yeah.
SPEAKER_05Whatever. So at the last minute, I like literally was pretty dangerous maneuver that I did. Okay. Like I was past where the exit was going.
SPEAKER_01But that would have saved us.
SPEAKER_05I guess. But I I think I had so so he said, We need to be over there. I make a a pretty bold move to be in the right lane. And it was like there's a guardrail right facing us that we could have hit. Not we weren't like that close, but it was like it was a little so I had a little bit of adrenaline because I made a crazy move.
SPEAKER_04Oh, crazy.
SPEAKER_05And he was like, Are you okay? Like, what's going on? Because I was not driving in the best way.
SPEAKER_02That too back to back like that.
SPEAKER_05I don't know. I guess I was just embarrassed, or I was just like stressed at myself and anxious. All the emotions came up and I just started crying.
SPEAKER_01Yes. And I was like, What happened? I was like, well, like, we're good. We just turn around, we go back. Yeah, no big deal. And I had to take some responsibility. It was my birthday. My uncle had called and I was on the phone with him, so I wasn't able to be also navigating. And it was great.
SPEAKER_03Oh, do you usually assist with that?
SPEAKER_01I usually drive. Oh, got it. Okay. I usually drive.
SPEAKER_05But when we go further than an hour, it's tough on my um car sickness. Oh, okay. So when we go we go that far, I usually I I'll either try to make it and then if I start getting sick, then we will switch and I'll drive the rest of the way. I took a preemptive one. And I had to finish editing in the car and upload.
SPEAKER_03So too many factors. I know.
SPEAKER_05So the Zophrin didn't work. Because I was like, I'm gonna have to immediately upload the blog in the car. I know I'm gonna be looking at the computer. I'm gonna take a Zophrin.
SPEAKER_02Yeah, yeah, that was smart. That was smart.
SPEAKER_05So yeah, I don't know. Wait, back to the question. Did you think that I was gonna cry as much?
SPEAKER_01No, absolutely not. She couldn't have predicted the amount of times.
SPEAKER_03She is an exceptional crier. It is for any and all occasions and never just for sadness. So I think it's you know, it keeps you on your toes.
SPEAKER_01It definitely keeps you on toes. Like I said, when it happened, I was like, what just happened? We we're good.
SPEAKER_05Like we're just I just needed a minute and then it was fine.
SPEAKER_01And it was like, yeah, it was fine.
SPEAKER_05I feel like I don't really like ruin the night.
SPEAKER_01You don't ever ruin the night. Like, no, she bounces back.
SPEAKER_05I like it.
SPEAKER_03I think it's truly when like you're very anxious about something and then it's done, it's that release.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Because like anytime we've had tough conversations, it's always it's always fine. But then at the end, then you have to let it go.
SPEAKER_05Oh, I cry in every conversation.
SPEAKER_03Well, yeah, with him.
SPEAKER_05I think with him, whenever it's like a serious conversation, I'm always crying. And it's like, I'm not, this is not, you're not making me cry right now. If you didn't do anything, it's me. Like, I just like don't know how to have a serious conversation without my eyes watering. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. But it's always tough when you're trying to have a conversation with other person crying. You're like, I have to get her to stop crying. Right, right, right.
SPEAKER_05Okay. Well, if anyone has any tips, I'm already I'm already on an SSRI, so I don't really know how to do it.
SPEAKER_01Um Okay, sorry, origin story. That was quite the sidetrack. That was. Oh my gosh. Okay, origin story. And what what do we what do we met?
SPEAKER_03Okay, so we met on Hinge. You guys have been together for a year and a half? Year and a half. About a year and a half. A year and a half. Um, I was gonna say the first date.
SPEAKER_05The it is kind of weird that we met on Hinge because very early in this podcast, we had a whole episode where it was me going through my hinge.
SPEAKER_03Yes, and I and you were changing prompts.
SPEAKER_05He I wasn't on there, probably not. He recorded a prompt for me on Hinge that was like, why dating out what what's it like to date, Allison? Or like why you should date me. Because I think it was a new prompt that had come out on Hinge that was like say something, yeah. Yeah, and he did that for me.
SPEAKER_03I did. So I'm responsible for this. Thank you.
SPEAKER_05Wow, but yeah, we had a whole episode where it was like my Hinge profile. So that it's a full circle that that's how we met.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. And ever since she let everyone know that she's taken, we've lost listeners.
SPEAKER_05So guys are girls.
SPEAKER_03Guys are girls.
SPEAKER_05Shout out to the guy that Little Girls?
SPEAKER_01Little girls love.
SPEAKER_05But shout out to the guy that stopped calling in and leaving messages. I'm really sorry that I am in love.
SPEAKER_01And oh, did he stop as soon as literally as soon as it was official?
SPEAKER_05If you're still listening, we still do appreciate you.
SPEAKER_03Send us a speak pipe. Let us know.
SPEAKER_05And maybe I'm being narcissistic. Maybe it wasn't about that at all.
SPEAKER_01No, no, no. I think it probably that's what I can. Yeah, I can imagine.
SPEAKER_05Um our second date was to watch the Pacers play the Knicks.
SPEAKER_01Skip the first date. Well, for I was you don't like the restaurant that I took you to. Oh, you didn't?
SPEAKER_05Okay.
SPEAKER_01Oh, I don't even know this. So when I She recently told me this. This is I I recently learned this.
SPEAKER_05I think we should go back and I should just give it another shot because I was just so nervous. Our first day we went to Lala.
SPEAKER_03Oh, okay. Lala's good. Lala's good.
SPEAKER_05I was just so nervous that, like I ordered like.
SPEAKER_01No, she wasn't, she wasn't doing anything like that. I wouldn't have to be a good one. No, it was all in my head. It was all anxiety.
SPEAKER_05It was all anxiety. That would have been like a lot.
SPEAKER_01It would have been so nice to meet you. I'm so glad I'm gonna take you back home.
SPEAKER_05Um, I will say that he picked me up, which no one had ever done before, and I did I was scared he was gonna kill me.
SPEAKER_01For one. For one. But the trick, do you know? Have you told them the trick? Do you know the trick?
SPEAKER_05Well, no, I think it's probably they can figure it out, but you can say we don't I don't have to.
SPEAKER_01I don't know, I don't know if they know your audience, but they want to know. If you pick a girl up on the first date, you know where she lives. You have to take her home. That's right. So the chances of having sex with this woman goes up because you have to go to her house to take her home.
SPEAKER_05Which didn't happen.
SPEAKER_01It did not happen.
SPEAKER_05I set a it did not happen. I said a chances are always higher.
SPEAKER_01You're right, you're right, you're right. The odds were in your favor. Odds become more in my favor.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. So it's like if someone knows where you live, then they can kill you easier, more easily.
SPEAKER_01I'm not about to kill anybody.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, no, you're not, but someone might. So I did think twice about it.
SPEAKER_03No, you did not meet Macy.
SPEAKER_05He did not. And so he doesn't get it, and that's fine.
SPEAKER_03I don't.
SPEAKER_05He doesn't get he doesn't get Macy.
SPEAKER_03That's okay.
SPEAKER_05He doesn't get the It's okay.
SPEAKER_03It's okay. He doesn't have to get it. It's okay. Macy wasn't his burden to bear.
SPEAKER_01She was for us. And I just I feel sorry about it. I feel very sad for her and I miss and I'm sad that she misses Macy as well.
SPEAKER_03I loved Macy and Stanley has never gotten along better with a dog. He loved Macy too, and that was always nice. We always knew that they were together.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_05But no, he did not. Um was I gonna say? Oh, so yeah, the first day we went to Lala. I was very nervous. The food, I think I was just overwhelmed by the menu. I just got some rice and chicken dish.
SPEAKER_01And I just don't really become her staple when we go out. It's clean, it's easy.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, it's like you can't really go wrong. But if I'm gonna go to like a Mexican restaurant, like chicken and rice is like, yeah. Um, but I just like don't think that that.
SPEAKER_01No. Oh my goodness. We'll update. We'll update, but okay, we'll just sorry, yes. Yeah.
SPEAKER_05I just don't think it was maybe the right dish. Okay. And I it was so much, also, too. And I was like, I'm so nervous, I can barely eat. This is so much here. So I had then it had to be taken. It was a whole thing. Well, then we went to Dave and Buster's. We had a great time.
SPEAKER_03Okay, yeah. Hard to have a bad time there.
SPEAKER_01It is true, yeah.
SPEAKER_05Just ran into like a friend of his and we did some like nice.
SPEAKER_01Like played a racing game. Yeah.
SPEAKER_05We like did a lot of people watching and drinking. Yeah. As you do.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, what's it? You know what? Dave and Busters is nice real quick because it's so loud and so much is going on that there it leaves very little room for any awkwardness. No, you gotta like, we're doing this, you're doing that, we're doing this. Okay, let's go get a drink.
LA Moves, Road Trips, And City Changes
SPEAKER_05Yeah, I don't think we've really had awkwardness, but it would have been yeah, just in like a normal sense, but um and then Where was your second date? We went to Thirsty Merchant and watched the Knicks play the Pacers because we hadn't talked in a minute and I he no, I responded to a story of his because she slid into my DMs. I did. I slid into his DMs because the Pacers and the Knicks were in the playoffs. Oh and he I just like talked a little shit about it, and it was that that had been game one, and so he asked me if I wanted to go watch game two with him. And we were at that bar for like seven hours. Like it was a full workday.
SPEAKER_01It totally was because we watched the game, we played Cornhole.
SPEAKER_05Game is two hours long. Okay, then we watched karaoke, then we played Cornhole. I feel like okay, maybe five.
SPEAKER_01But it felt it's five's probably more appropriate. Long time. I'm an old man.
SPEAKER_03My first day with Chad was four and a half, almost five hours. That's a good day. That's a good day. Well, we literally just we went to a well, we just went to a he was sober that month, so we had mocktails and food at Ivory, which is right by where we went for this that 420 event this year, that parking lot by the and then we went to the the weed lounge. Oh yeah, and we had like a an edible drink in this really cool lounge and just talked and talked about the one that is in that thing. Okay, second date.
SPEAKER_05Second date, yeah.
SPEAKER_03We watched the basketball game, and then from there, and I'm not gonna give away your addresses, but you guys live comically close. Insanely close. And it's really convenient.
SPEAKER_05That honestly probably was like a it helps.
SPEAKER_01It 100% helps everything. Um I talk to friends and they're like, yeah, 45 minutes away, and I'm like, that sucks. Like that really sucks. I have four minutes. Okay, I was gonna say it's like a walk by the way. It's a quick walk, but it's yeah, it's a very quick drive.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, sometimes I will just like go on a walk and it takes me like 15 minutes.
SPEAKER_03That's what I think twenty. It's actually really like that part is really nice. So this ties into the Mexican restaurant because that was your guys' local watering hole.
SPEAKER_01Yes, that was that was my local watering hole. And then we started dating Allison. I brought her along, it took her a little time, but what is it? It's like taco. There's Mondays is just half of everything, half of it. The entire drink, including alcohol. And they'll give you drinks to go. So now$16 drinks are eight bucks, and we're talking about legitimate like margaritas really real drink. So it's perfect for Monday, right?
SPEAKER_05Yeah, the problem is it used to also be on carryout. So that was his normal Monday thing before we even met.
SPEAKER_01Get home from work, yeah, stop there, get dinner, boom, go home. Yeah, easy. And then we used to start going in and a couple times. We would do takeout too, but then we start kind of going in a couple times. We met, we talked with uh the hostess who no longer works there. No, and she just like disappeared. Yeah, her name was Miriam, yeah.
SPEAKER_05She was like, Literally, we would I would go in and to pick, she would know it was him that ordered. I would go in.
SPEAKER_01I used to order the exact same thing every week. So eventually they were like, Oh, we know who this is.
SPEAKER_05And yeah, I would go in and she would be like, and she would then recognize me and she'd be like, Are you picking up for you and Josh? And then we would chat, and then one day she literally disappeared.
SPEAKER_01And it's so then the people there tried to act like they didn't know.
SPEAKER_05Oh my god, yeah, we asked about her, and the guy was like, I don't know.
SPEAKER_01She asked about her. She's been I've been going there for like four years. Yeah, okay. Like, I'm like, where is this lady who's been here every week that we have been here?
SPEAKER_05They're like, The guy we asked has also been there for a while. Like we recognize him. Like, this man has also been served.
SPEAKER_01Did you ever get an answer? Do we need to look for her? No.
SPEAKER_05No.
SPEAKER_01No, we don't. Okay.
SPEAKER_05I assume that she doesn't live in the country anymore. Is my I think she probably went home. Okay. Which is fair.
SPEAKER_03And so out of protest, you don't go there anymore?
SPEAKER_05No, we do.
SPEAKER_01Oh, okay. No, no, no. Yeah, we definitely still can't do that.
SPEAKER_05But it is we go less now because of the the takeout isn't half off, so it doesn't always align with his.
SPEAKER_01That's a bummer.
SPEAKER_05I think we'll probably go this coming Monday though.
SPEAKER_01They're just like, no, not this Monday. What?
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_01It's capitalism.
SPEAKER_02Okay, yeah, I guess that's how it is.
SPEAKER_05If it's like single de Mayo, or if it's like a a holiday, they'll just be like, nah.
SPEAKER_01Okay. All right. It's how it is. Yeah. So yeah. So we're there lesson last night. Okay.
SPEAKER_03Still cute. Yes. Is it but because it was between your homes? It was.
SPEAKER_05It is. Yes.
SPEAKER_03Can't write this stuff.
SPEAKER_05You know where we can't go that's also in between our homes because he doesn't like it is iHop.
SPEAKER_01Why? Wait, whoa. What that face? Why don't you like iHop?
SPEAKER_03It's um not good. Oh, okay. Just Denny's IHOP. Where are you going? Neither. Okay, if you had to go. No, I would just go to a diner. No. Denny's or iHop. You must choose. Only exit on the highway. You have to go left or right, Denny's or iHop? It's iHop.
SPEAKER_05Oh.
SPEAKER_03Okay, that's all I need to know. Okay.
SPEAKER_05Oh, I would go to Denny's.
SPEAKER_03That's that Denny's is worse. I would go to iHop only because I do think their pancakes taste better. They do. They're do their pancakes do taste better.
SPEAKER_05Well they are the international house of.
SPEAKER_01And as they must. Where as a kid, I was always an original House of Pancakes kid. What's that?
SPEAKER_05What's that?
SPEAKER_01Oh hop? Well, yes. Like literally. Is that an Indianapolis? And Gary? That is in Indianapolis.
SPEAKER_05Never heard of that in my life.
SPEAKER_01You ne what? Is this a bin?
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_01This is real. Look it up. The original House of Pancakes. It is literally the same thing. It's the same thing. It's the same thing. Wait, what's the O stand for again? The original. Original. Oh, the original House of Pancakes. I think I might have seen this logo, the the original, like I have no clue if they're actually if they're actually a simple website. Are they still in business?
SPEAKER_03Um that is what I love. You get sausage wrapped in a pancake, and that is delicious. Yeah.
SPEAKER_05You can I can make that for you.
SPEAKER_03Well, iHop does. I mean, but yes, please. McDonald's pancakes are better than Denny's. That is actually very true. I want more than anything in this world for McDonald's to release a candle line, and I want them to release the pancake candle. Because that smells.
SPEAKER_05They don't have that like plate that you used to be able to get, right?
SPEAKER_01What?
SPEAKER_03Do they still have it? There's no way they still serve it on that plate.
SPEAKER_05Oh, I loved that plate. The styrofoam.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, the styrofoam. There's no way they still feel it. Yeah. No, they definitely don't. But the smell of a McDonald's pancake, there's nothing like this.
SPEAKER_01It just gave you happiness. You're like, I'm about to eat one of the best things I've never seen.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, we would stop when we would drive down to Disney World. We would stop and get McDonald's breakfast.
SPEAKER_03Did you guys ever do the Burger King breakfast, the mini cinnamons? Which would have been one of the show. That was like on on the way to school. Get those. Well, I was homeschooled, but loser. Whoa.
SPEAKER_05So you guys moved to LA sort of around the same time. Josh went to college in Florida and then went, moved to New York for a handful of years. I did.
SPEAKER_01Live there for four years. Yeah. Wow. Which I'm very jealous of. Nice. Yep. Best city in the world. Yeah. Live in a lot of cities. Best city in the world. Still think that. Still think that. Do you prefer the weather here? I prefer everything here. Oh, got it. Okay. But the city is better than everything. Got it. The city is better. Okay, okay. Yes. The people are better. The vibe is better. But here, I would only live here. Okay, okay. That's understood.
SPEAKER_05Alex has not been to New York yet, and I never him too.
SPEAKER_03Never. Yeah. You gotta get on that. I know. I really do. I was supposed to go for the wicked premiere from work they were gonna send us. And then at the last minute, they were like, eh, seems too expensive. And I was like, huh.
SPEAKER_01It sounds like it would be expensive. Yeah, and it would have been. It would have been. Um when what year did you move to LA? 2013, December, 2013.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_05You were 2008 or nine?
SPEAKER_0110.
unknownOh.
SPEAKER_012010. Just kidding. Uh he's got some years on me.
SPEAKER_03September of 10, yeah.
SPEAKER_05I was one of my questions here.
SPEAKER_03What's your graduation year? College. 2000. Uh that's why we'll figure out your age. 2005. Oh, okay. Oh, you're my sister's age. Okay. Okay.
SPEAKER_01I could just say it. 36. Oh, eighty. Two two days ago. 87? 87. Yep. Best year ever. I mean, I do really like my sister.
SPEAKER_03Best year.
SPEAKER_05I think 90 is pretty good. It's a nice hole.
SPEAKER_0390 is good, but you know what? 87 got? They just got a couple more years of like the best part of everything. Like the teen years. Just right. Early 2000s. Like good. Yeah. Yes.
SPEAKER_05That's fair. That's fair.
SPEAKER_03But I do like 90 because it really makes math really easy. It does.
SPEAKER_05It really does.
SPEAKER_03You know?
SPEAKER_01My brother was born in 1990. It does make it extremely easy. I was going to ask. Oh, you have a brother and a sister, right? Brother and sister. Older sister, younger brother. Yeah. You're the middle guy. I'm the middle guy, which is traditionally the middle.
SPEAKER_05Do you like being the middle guy?
SPEAKER_01Is that what it is? I thought it was traditionally like the scariest. I think somewhere, somewhere you guys tried to flip that. Oh yeah. Okay. We were so good. We were so good that you guys were like, we gotta turn that around. So um I've always been.
SPEAKER_05Well, as a youngest, I know that I know the benefits that I got as a youngest.
SPEAKER_01Well, you don't there's no middle though. It's just you and your one sister. So you don't have the third one. Now I will say my mom was also a middle child, and she is the one who told me how great the middle child is.
SPEAKER_05So maybe she's biased.
SPEAKER_01So maybe she so as I've gotten to be an adult, I'm like, oh, maybe my mom. She just tried to make you feel better. Yeah. Guess what? Guess what? It worked. It worked. I do believe that I'm the best. You're a middle child.
SPEAKER_05Do you feel it?
SPEAKER_03Well, I'm like, I'm second of four. Like, I don't know.
SPEAKER_05It's Oh, the two the two don't count as middle?
SPEAKER_03I don't think we have kinda. I mean a little bit. But I don't feel like a middle child.
SPEAKER_01But what is the feeling of a middle child? I I don't know this feeling.
SPEAKER_03Here's what I Okay, so I feel like the middle child is either like forgotten in a way, like easy to blend in and hide and be forgotten about, or they're the standout child. That's what I think a middle child is.
SPEAKER_01I think that's accurate. I think we're actually both of those things.
SPEAKER_05Ah You're chameleons.
SPEAKER_01Yes.
SPEAKER_05Well, you were like, I'm gonna be the best boy.
SPEAKER_01So you just thought if you were just a good child, they would just be.
SPEAKER_03Oh, I was my parents' favorite, without a doubt. Oh. I was yeah because you were just doing it.
SPEAKER_05I was doing it all.
SPEAKER_03I realized keep mom and dad happy and life is easy. Absolutely. And so I took that assignment and ran with it. So I guess that kind of is middle child behavior a little bit. That is, absolutely.
SPEAKER_05All right. I'm the youngest and I got away with everything.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_05I got everything easier. Like my sister had, you know, strict rules.
SPEAKER_03Did you find those your par with your parents' divorce that your dad did your dad treat you both similarly? This was more like mom behavior towards you? Yeah. Ah, okay, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. It was more like Amanda's uh her what's it called? Curfew. Okay. Was like 10, 9, 9 or 10, and mine was like midnight. At this like that's at what at what point in college. Or no at high school. In high school.
SPEAKER_01Okay.
SPEAKER_05Like when I could drive. Is it because maybe perhaps my sister's was earlier.
SPEAKER_03Amanda, and if you're listening to this, you know, like do we think that this was more about the fact that maybe your mom thought Amanda was like around doing some things around town?
SPEAKER_05Well, she did have a boyfriend.
SPEAKER_03That's our own.
SPEAKER_05And I was running around with a gay boy.
SPEAKER_01So your mom is like this is before, but this is before people knew.
SPEAKER_05Um during and after.
SPEAKER_03So maybe your mom was like, We know about him, Allison's fine. It's just yeah, she's like, Oh, that's that's just don't drink again. Yeah, safe.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, no, but if I was late, then she didn't. Oh, you would get in trouble. Oh, she called me every minute on the minute until I was home.
SPEAKER_01Okay, well, I'll be home. Oh, my mom will not stop calling me. I'm gonna leave that. That's pretty fair. That is wow.
SPEAKER_05But living in a small town, it is easy to get home really fast.
SPEAKER_02That's true. Yeah.
SPEAKER_05So I was driving a little too too fast, but I got there. My first car was a red Ford Escort. Oh, okay. Then I um got in a wreck really fast. And then I got you got what really fast? I got in a wreck really fast. And that's like really been my only wreck. It was like six months after my I got my license. Okay. And then I got a tan Volkswagen bug. No. Tan Ford Escape, the old model. Oh, okay. And her name was Mocha.
SPEAKER_00Right.
SPEAKER_05And then once Mocha died, I got Herbie.
unknownHerpes.
SPEAKER_00That's what I thought she said.
SPEAKER_01I was like, you didn't name your company died. I got herpes.
SPEAKER_05No, Mocha died and I got Herbie, actual Herbie. If you guys don't know that, it was really an embarrassing time in my life.
SPEAKER_03Or a very epic time.
SPEAKER_01I just I take it like that, like you had Herbie. Yeah. Like that was an epic movie. Like it wouldn't be embarrassing if we didn't know what it was. And it would be cool to have it now, too, even.
SPEAKER_05Well, I did take the numbers off, but so the stripes were the only thing, but people still knew what it was.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, well, yeah. Recognizable car. That's how cool it is. Yeah.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. Okay, sorry, rewind.
SPEAKER_03Yes, sorry.
SPEAKER_05You guys, you moved here in 2010. You moved here in 2014, 13th.
SPEAKER_03December of 13th. December. Why December? Was it just timing of housing and stuff?
SPEAKER_01No, I had just quit my job in November. I was chilling at home. And then my ex, who was like ready, she had been home for six months. She just graduated. She had been home for six months. She was like, I'm ready to go. She was like, you need to be here by the time I get here.
SPEAKER_03Oh, okay.
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SPEAKER_01It was a hurry up. I was like, okay. Time to go west. So wait, here we go.
SPEAKER_05Were you like thinking about moving, or was this like you were going to be able to do it? Yeah, yeah. That's why I had quit my job already.
SPEAKER_01I had left New York. Oh, the plan was to get out here anyway. We were coming out here. We were coming out here, but the timing was like, I was just chilling at home, relaxing. Yeah, yeah. And uh she was like, right now.
SPEAKER_05It's not at home in Indiana or in New York?
SPEAKER_01In Indiana. Oh, okay. I was home in Indiana just chilling. She just went boom. Boop, boop. Yeah. So I drove, took the scenic route, went north. Nice. Saw um Mount Rushmore, through Yosemite, just saw some random stuff throughout the country that I've never been back to. Yeah, it took my time. I had like 11 days. So I wish I would have had more like 16 days, but 11 days.
SPEAKER_05Oh, you went I didn't go that slow. Did you go the north route too?
SPEAKER_03Does that take you through Colorado at some point? Then yes. Yes. Come down through Colorado, yeah. I've done both. I've driven to and from Indiana at least a dozen times since I moved here.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. I left, I moved in February, so I kind of Oh yeah, you went to that crater, I remember. I kind of had to go the southern route because of the weather. I guess December, you that was a risk you took.
SPEAKER_01It was a big risk. Let me tell you something. Driving in Montana on the highway in winter is a terrible idea. Yeah. Uh they don't even have like the real, like the you would expect there to be a level of guardrail on the size of these actual mountains. I would have cried.
SPEAKER_04I would have stopped and cried they are not there.
SPEAKER_01Literally, for probably about four hours of driving, I was like, at any slip, I could fall off and it's over. Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_01And I was like, this is this is crazy. It was a really bad decision to go up there, but I was like, I've only I've been to month. That was the only time I've been to Montana, I have not been back. So I'm like, that was the chance. So I took it.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, I was too scared since I was alone. So I was like, I'm gonna go south.
SPEAKER_02Drove through because you wanted to see the crater.
SPEAKER_05I did. I wanted to see also the Grand Canyon.
SPEAKER_02Oh, okay, yeah.
SPEAKER_05But I went through, I don't know, uh Louisiana first, Alabama. I don't know.
SPEAKER_03Louisiana, no way.
SPEAKER_05Wait, let me look at the map.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, too. Yeah, that's way too much. Oklahoma, Oklahoma. Oklahoma, that makes more sense.
SPEAKER_05Then across Texas.
SPEAKER_03Did you go through Nebraska? Probably maybe a little bit. A little bit of Nebraska.
SPEAKER_05I didn't see through Texas. I stopped in Texas. I went to like, you know, something touristy there.
SPEAKER_03And it's kind of just through the top of Texas, right?
SPEAKER_05Yeah, the very top. Yeah. And then I stopped in Arizona, and then I went to the Grand Canyon, and then I went to the meteor crater, which I really don't recommend. You were still. Yeah. So that wasn't much to see. I mean, it is really big, and it is like, whoa, this is crazy that like something hit the earth here, but then it's like five minutes and it's like, all right. But it's kind of like it looks like it's right off the road, but it's actually like a half hour into the straight up desert, and it feels like actually scary.
SPEAKER_02Oh, okay, yeah.
SPEAKER_05I don't know.
SPEAKER_02I felt like I was in like a tension zone mascara.
SPEAKER_05So that was all, but I didn't, I only took like four days versus that many days.
SPEAKER_00Oh, you yeah, you weren't stopping. But I would like to see intentionally stopping those things up there.
SPEAKER_05So one of my questions for you two is what are some things that have changed in Los Angeles since you moved here, or what are some things you missed that aren't here anymore?
SPEAKER_03That like I wouldn't have. So I went to school in Hollywood. So crossing to go to my classes in Highland and the Hollywood Boulevard, waiting at that GD light was so annoying, and now it's a scramble light.
SPEAKER_05Mm-hmm.
SPEAKER_03That would have been nice.
SPEAKER_05He you hate scramble lights, don't you?
SPEAKER_01Uh yeah, I wish we would go back to the no scramble light era. Ah, okay. I remember when they first made them in the promenade area for. Prominent area, and I was like, What the does that do you guys cuss on the show? Yes, I was like, What the fuck is this? I was like, What? We're we're stopped way longer, so people can go all the way across. Like, that's not necessary. We already have a terrible pedestrian culture in this city. That is true, that is necessary. Just adding to making it worse. I was not wrong. I wasn't happy.
SPEAKER_05I had a scramble in college, so I was I don't care.
SPEAKER_01Right.
SPEAKER_05Like I was used to it.
SPEAKER_01I had no clue. That was my introduction to them. I was like, what is this? I was like, people start going to the colour. Oh no, I never remembered. I'm like, what is that? Yeah, why are people doing that? That's weird.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_05It seems normal to me.
SPEAKER_03Well, that's a big change, I'll tell you. And it was the dole, it was the Kodak Theater. No, it's the Dolby Theater.
SPEAKER_05Okay. Yeah. I know you miss Soup Plantation.
SPEAKER_03Well, that was because of the pandemic. That's gone because of the pandemic, and I do miss Soup Plantation. Never got to go. Hometown buffet, also gone.
SPEAKER_05Awesome.
SPEAKER_03Buffets really didn't stand a chance after COVID, let's be honest.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, I mean, it's fair.
SPEAKER_03Golden Corral is still around somehow.
SPEAKER_05That's crazy.
SPEAKER_03They're gonna be around forever. That's true. There is always gonna be a need for Golden Corral.
SPEAKER_05Um, yeah, there's not like uh like a lot of buildings have changed.
SPEAKER_03I mean, Hollywood looks different because where I went to school, there was nothing but parking lots around it. Now it's all huge apartment buildings.
SPEAKER_01Everything is an apartment building. Everything's or a parking lot. Like it's just like all of the that's a good one. Like all the different cities that have changed, like downtown Culver City. That's all completely different area now. It's like completely different, like things like that, like a lot of stuff like that.
SPEAKER_03Even like just here where I used to live in North Hollywood was a Macy's. It was a two-story Macy's, and now it's Noho West. Now it's huge. No Ho West.
SPEAKER_01It used literally just the Macy's and a huge parking massive parking.
SPEAKER_03Yeah.
SPEAKER_05I wonder if they've updated. Also the dollar theater.
SPEAKER_03I used to go there every Tuesday for dollar hot dogs and movies and turn it down. Yeah, they're turning it down right now. Yeah.
SPEAKER_05Where is it?
SPEAKER_03It's the you know the Wells Fargo, the tall Wells Fargo bank?
SPEAKER_05No. No.
SPEAKER_03It's the only thing you can see around here. Oh, where that is, actually. Right by right by that. Okay. Truly right by No Ho West.
SPEAKER_04Okay.
SPEAKER_03And they're expanding.
SPEAKER_04Okay.
SPEAKER_03It's just a lot of apartments.
SPEAKER_01And there's a lot of apartments. A lot of the city is still the same. Getting around still feels the same. Traffic is obviously worse all the time.
SPEAKER_05But yeah, what was the traffic like when you first was it you could drive way easier when you first moved here, or was it still bad?
SPEAKER_00No, it was still bad. Yeah, it was definitely still bad. Like the 405 is the 405.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, the 405. That's been that's how it is. That has literally how it been. My little my first job was driving around LA. And like it's all the same. I don't know. Rush hour starts a little bit earlier, but it's all the same.
SPEAKER_03I also had a stint where I worked for a company called Schleppenfetch, where I was driving around town a lot. And yeah, it's like, well, I don't know, you pay your dues in that way, and you just there's a you couldn't pay me anything to be an Uber driver.
SPEAKER_05You're telling me that you had a job that was driving and you still have no idea where you're going.
SPEAKER_01I would get lost constantly. This is one of my biggest pet peefs. I'm so upset at these drivers who don't know where they're going. Oh, I never know where they're done. I never know where they're going. I'm like, you are driving for a living. But you know what I won't do?
SPEAKER_03As a driver who doesn't know where he's going but uh considers himself a good driver, if I am confused or lost, I'm not fucking everyone else's day up. I'm getting out of the way to my own space till I figure it out.
SPEAKER_04Okay.
SPEAKER_03Because that's how I'd want to be treated.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Oh man, say it louder for the people back. And I I decided this yesterday with a boyfriend as we were driving in and count encountering the most annoying driver, in my opinion, in LA is the one where you are in the lane, you see them creep out, they they want to turn in and you're like, don't do it, don't do it, don't do it. They do it, but they don't get up to speed with you, right? And it's like, oh, and then it does bring me a lot of joy to safely get around them, but make them known, make it known that you're a fucking idiot. Yeah.
SPEAKER_05I can't talk about all the things in driving that annoy me because the list is too long.
SPEAKER_03Sure.
SPEAKER_05I'm really, I really get passionate about driving.
SPEAKER_01She does pretty passionate. Some people some people call it road rage. Sure. Also, it's just passionate.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, okay. Sorry, yes, of course. I will say the biggest change is rent. Can't actually can't believe it. What was your rent? My first apartment was a bachelor pad that was a like um comically small. Like they turned the closet into a half kitchen. I only lived there for six months. My first real apartment in North Hollywood, I lived there with my brother and our my roommate from Indiana, and our rent total for a two-bed, two-bath was$16.50. I looked at that building, haven't updated the apartments. What is it going for? That same apartment is going for$3,600.
SPEAKER_01Oh,$360. My first apartment we split, it was$13, like$75. Splitting that. Oh my god. Yeah. My first anything. Anything to pay$700 in rent again.
SPEAKER_05My first apartment in Indianapolis, my first like solo apartment was in Indianapolis, and I paid$690.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, well, that is crazy. And that's probably the same price still to this day.
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SPEAKER_05No, it had gone up a little bit, even like the last year I was.
SPEAKER_03I mean, I was living, I lived at one point, I lived in a house, a three-bed, three-bath house with my friend Jane and my ex. We thought it was so expensive,$2,500.
SPEAKER_05Wow.
SPEAKER_03I should have never left. Because it was right now 2800. Yeah. Exactly.
SPEAKER_05You had a washer and dryer.
SPEAKER_03We had a washer and dryer, two-car garage, backyard. We had everything. We had it all. You did have it all. A living room, a dining room, and a kitchen. Okay, why did you leave? Well, I was in a closeted relationship, Josh. I was like, and I wanted to live privately with him.
SPEAKER_01And so sorry. So sorry to bring up old wounds. No, no, no.
SPEAKER_03I've healed from that, but that is why I was like, I'm tired of living with a girl. Let's live secretly together. Well, it doesn't work.
SPEAKER_05Okay, one thing I do feel like definitely has changed is influencers have arrived.
SPEAKER_03That is true. It's so funny to say that we'll never forget the first time.
SPEAKER_01Including yourself. Influencers have arrived.
SPEAKER_03I will never forget the first time I encountered a like influencer. Influencer in the wild was right when the Paul brothers started to get some fame from Vine. Okay.
SPEAKER_05And they The Wars Cons.
SPEAKER_03I was on Vine. From Vine. I was on Vine near 1500. Is that what it is? That building? 1500 Vine. Yeah, it's the same. At the stoplight, they they both run into the middle of the road. There's a 1500.
SPEAKER_05Well, 1600 is the is the building. That's like where all the viners are.
SPEAKER_03That intersection, they go stop traffic to do like the most ridiculous like dance stunt in the middle of the road. I remember being like, what the hell is going on here now? Yeah.
SPEAKER_05And then it all just every time there's a red light on Hollywood Boulevard, someone's dancing in the dance. And I will say that we dance in public, but we dance on a mountain, and we at least don't dance in the middle of the thing. We do try to find a little bit. We have a section that is off to the side. Okay. We're not in people's way.
SPEAKER_03That is good and nice. Yes.
SPEAKER_05But it is embarrassing, and there is one day I fear the day we end up on influencers in the wild. Someone it's not.
SPEAKER_01I mean, you are an influencer in the wild. So you do not have to be able to do that.
SPEAKER_05It is a little less like. I think that people are probably filming for that less because they are so used to seeing people filming in public.
SPEAKER_01Okay.
SPEAKER_05That it is a little less like it's just normal now.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. You just kind of expect it. You expect everybody to be recording everything.
SPEAKER_05That's true.
SPEAKER_03And that you're right. That is probably the biggest change, is that there's a whole different kind of actor out here now.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, it used to just be mainstream.
SPEAKER_03Right.
SPEAKER_01To the good old days, huh? Yeah, I wonder if Hollywood's been dirty the whole time. That's true. That's true. Been dirty the whole time. Dirtier than New York? When you first come here. I mean, every part of New York, but yes, dirty than some parts of New York, absolutely. Didn't know. First time I came here, I was like, oh, Hollywood kind of sucks. Yeah, no one.
SPEAKER_05The movies don't show you that part.
SPEAKER_03I'm also still astounded every time I have to drive through Hollywood, which is every day that I go to work.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, what?
SPEAKER_03I am always astounded by the amount of tourists. It's like, hasn't everyone seen it here now? Hasn't everyone been here at least once?
SPEAKER_01There's no way. But some people fall in love with these places, right? Like people like he'll still go to Times Square. I think if you went to New York, you would go to Twitter. I would, I would. I would be as far away from it as I possibly could. For sure. You're right. You're right. Because it literally is like the worst place in the world, but you haven't been. There's always gonna be people that haven't been. The thing about the people who are in love with it and be like, oh my god, I go to the ball drop every year. I've went gone three times. That's too too many. But uh the people that go every single year and sit in the wear diapers and all that. All of that stuff in insane. Yeah.
SPEAKER_05So well, I just wanted to hear from you.
SPEAKER_01Uh old wise. Old Angelinos. I mean, I will we both put our decade in, so I guess we can in four years.
SPEAKER_03I will have lived here longer than I lived in Indiana.
SPEAKER_04That's crazy.
SPEAKER_01I have already lived here longer than any other place. Oh, okay. Any other city. Yeah. So you're an Angelina girl. Oh yeah. We're Angelina. We're Angelinos. We are. No, you're not.
SPEAKER_05Well, it's ten years, is the who knows?
SPEAKER_01Who comes together? I think it's more of an attitude and acceptance that this is home. Which she does not take on. She is like Indiana. I am an Indian girl.
SPEAKER_03I would agree with him. And not in like a derogatory way. I just don't feel like you've adopted that this is your city.
SPEAKER_01I tell her all the time, I'm like, yo, this is LA. This is how it's just like, no. I'm like, whatever, it's LA. Nobody cares.
SPEAKER_05I will say that this is the first year I went home and I was like so cold. I think the other times I went home, I was like, I can still I can still rock the Indiana. Like, I don't need a coat, a big coat, like 40 degrees. That's not that cold. And then this time, this trip home, I was like, oh. It's cold. My god. Yeah. So I guess maybe that's a turning point.
SPEAKER_01There you go. I definitely took my pea coat home.
SPEAKER_05You did?
SPEAKER_01Full winter coat. Because I knew. Yeah. And you took us to the coldest of the cold. You went to the like light experience thing. We went to the light experience thing.
SPEAKER_05We weren't outside for a total of five minutes.
SPEAKER_01I was like, do we have to be outside? I literally asked probably like three times. Yeah. It's like do we have to be outside? And like, yes. I'm like, are you sure?
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_01And then we were outside taking pictures.
SPEAKER_05It wasn't that long.
SPEAKER_01Hey, and the memory lasted.
SPEAKER_03Taking pictures. You can you're like, I can see my breath. That's true. So yeah.
SPEAKER_05Well, speaking of outside. Oh, okay. Something that we've been this actually that wasn't a good segue at all.
SPEAKER_00I was like, I was crushing that with the segue.
SPEAKER_05Something that Josh and I have been going back and forth with recently is um he has a lot of opinions on my fantasy books and on Wicked.
SPEAKER_00It's nothing to do with outside.
SPEAKER_05No. Well, fantasy, it's a lot of a lot of it takes place outside.
SPEAKER_03It would have been a stretch. You maybe could have gotten there, but yeah.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. And I just I we have we had said that we should bring this up when he's on the podcast.
SPEAKER_03I am curious what it what we had said. As in the two of them. No, you two. Oh, the two of us.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, we were like, we should we should talk about this on the podcast.
SPEAKER_03I also have feels about it. I have more feelings about like the AI book series she's currently reading about, I don't know, the pumpkin spice latte cafe and well I did just finish my current book and now I am ready to make Christmas tree photography. It's AI. Oh.
SPEAKER_05You think Lori Gilmore is.
SPEAKER_01Yes, I don't have enough yes. Oh I believe down this pleases expelling a series.
SPEAKER_03I thought I did tell you this. I think it's a human being that's prompting AI to write these series because you're so outlandish and stupid.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_03But know that it's like watching a Hallmark movie. But it is like watching, she explains it as a prompt is give me a comp of a book that is like a Hallmark movie, but is also like Gilmore Girls. Yeah.
SPEAKER_05And these are the characters' names.
SPEAKER_03It's so many words I want, how many chapters? Like I think it gives it these prompts. And then they're quite easy to do. Yes. And then I think they probably go in there and do a little bit of editing. Correct. They do a little bit of editing to make like take out some things that don't make sense, whatever.
SPEAKER_04Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Illustrate it, send it to print.
SPEAKER_01They do end up getting really crazy as they go forward. Like they get more crazy. It's like, what's happening? What's going on?
SPEAKER_03But the pumpkin spice cafe and the candy cane bakery are the gingerbread.
SPEAKER_01I will say the names are at complete shit. And that does actually lead me more to the AI theory because the names are really bad. Yeah. It was a gingerbread book store. Sorry, gingerbread book store.
SPEAKER_05And now that I did finish Direbound, which we'll get into.
SPEAKER_01That's a fantasy book.
SPEAKER_05Um, I'm now ready to read The Christmas Tree Farm.
SPEAKER_01Here we go. All right. She's ready. Because the second one kind of turned her off.
SPEAKER_05She's at the pumpkin spice latte cafe or whatever. The pumpkin spice cafe.
SPEAKER_03Pumpkin spice cafe. You were like that one, the ending. I don't know.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, it wasn't that bad. But then the gingerbread.
SPEAKER_03Oh, this is another reason I think that it is probably AI. Because you said that in each book there's a like a B character that's introduced that is the lead in another book. Yeah. So easy to do that. It's like make the cast this, make one book focus on each of them. Like it's like that.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. Well, we'll see what the Christmas Tree Farm has to offer.
SPEAKER_03Can't wait to hear. Yeah, I'm sure. I'm sure it'd be great. Perfect for Christmas. How how do you feel about these fantasy books?
SPEAKER_01Avatar and uh I don't there's not there's nothing that I necessarily feel about the book, so I'm glad that she enjoys the books. Yeah, there's a part of it that she's not really like understanding about the books that's going on in the books, but she's like blocking out.
SPEAKER_05Because I'm wholesome.
SPEAKER_01She's she's wholesome and she won't she Yeah, it's kind of I mean that's there, and she recognizes that obviously they say the way that that it's written is very much like smudge. So she doesn't she's not blocking that out. Okay, but it is the specific um connections that the humans have with non-human characters and the bestiality at play. Oh sh thank you.
SPEAKER_03What?
SPEAKER_05Yes, no one is no bestiality. First of all, everyone, I want everyone to know that's listening. I'm not reading anything that is bestiality. All these books have written.
SPEAKER_01The bestiality isn't written, it is implied.
SPEAKER_05These books have an elephant element of being like bound to a non-human thing. A non-human thing-ish. Because the in Avatar, the the like the only binding that's happening is the girl to her mate.
SPEAKER_03But what's a mate? Her true like the same gen or g same um species.
SPEAKER_05Well, but but not because he is he is a human body, but he does have wings. Like a battery.
SPEAKER_01Would you consider that to be a human body? If somebody was walking down the street and they had wings, would you consider that to be a human body? I would have to see his penis.
SPEAKER_05Then the first guy that she's with, he can shape shift. And he shapeshifts into he is a human, but he shapeshifts into sort of a beast-like situation. The story kind of rips off um Beauty and the Beast a little bit, except for it's it's not a curse that he has, it's a it's a gift that he can shape shift. But they never have sex or with when he's in that form. He's always in human form.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_05Then the other this other book I read, Fourth Wing, the the humans do um what's the word I'm looking for? Bond. Bond to the word.
SPEAKER_00They bond.
SPEAKER_05To the dragons, and they can speak to the dragons through their heads, but the it's really a military thing. Like the dragon rider, they ride the dragon and they go off and they fight bad guys.
SPEAKER_03Does the dragon know when they're saying in distress?
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_03So are one could argue that the dragon also knows when you're feeling other things.
SPEAKER_05But the dragon has its own dragon mate.
SPEAKER_03Does the human feel the emotions of the dragon?
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Oh, interesting. Here's where I think Josh is getting the same.
SPEAKER_01This is the whole point. It's like I'm trying to just explain to her in normal human words, the way you're saying right now, that the bond is in fact sexual, and she is saying that it is not. And I'm like, it is all of it. It's mental, it's physical, it is also sexual. I don't want to accept that because it makes it more these dragons.
SPEAKER_05But they're not.
SPEAKER_01They're having sex, but they're not these dire wolves. They are doing it. That's the bond. It's when they do that bond thing, that's it. It is similar, it is a very normal fantasy trip. The bonding. Does this happen with what? Lord of the Rings. No. No, it's not. We don't care. She asks if it happens in Harry Potter. I was like, no.
SPEAKER_05The newest book I've read is called Dire Bond. And that is another military school situation, but it's it's humans and then dire wolves. And they also bond with them to so the human can like, you know, ride on it and like fight people.
SPEAKER_03Oh, right.
SPEAKER_05They're fighting siphons, aka vampires.
SPEAKER_03Wolves against vampires, tales of the time. Exactly.
SPEAKER_05That's true. But anyway, I don't want to accept that because it makes me feel icky because I don't they're not have you seen the Avatar movies? No.
SPEAKER_03Oh. Because I would compare it similarly to how when an Avatar creature bonds with its flying thing and they connect their little tassels and they kind of act like they've just had an orgasm. Kind of a thing. Similarly.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, but they don't do that.
SPEAKER_03Have you seen Twilight? Of course you have. So if you'll recall in the last second to last film or last film, Jacob, our beloved imprints on an infant, who he then later or vows to protect, and then later in life ends up marrying.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. I never liked that part of it. Well, I know it wasn't sexual.
SPEAKER_03It was always sexual, let's be clear. He was what he was respectful of her age, but like Yeah, I don't know.
SPEAKER_05We didn't need that. We didn't need that, but that is that is this. Okay, but what I'm saying is when I'm reading these books, like now I'm this is tainted for me because I was just like, oh, this is just a you know, an emotional they've they are bonded, but it's like for the good of the military, and they're going and fighting the bad guys. But I don't want to think about it.
SPEAKER_03No, I know. So but they're making these into a film, right? They're making the acaton. Fourth wing.
SPEAKER_05Apparently, but that I don't know how far along. Fourth wing is becoming a television.
SPEAKER_01That's just the shape-shifting one. Yeah. Where so he'll be he'll look like a human most of the time. Yeah, okay, that's true. So that's true.
SPEAKER_05They'll just have wings. It's this fourth wing will be a TV show.
SPEAKER_03Okay. Well, you'll get to see some of these things you're gonna wear play out right in front of your eyes.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, we'll see if it is doing that.
SPEAKER_03I fear that the people who love these books would be upset if they didn't stay true to the books.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, but there's no but there's no sex happening between No, we uh we don't want to see any.
SPEAKER_01Again, I think it's right. It's like it's more implied.
SPEAKER_03It's more like that. It's like when you watch Twilight and you leave that going, something's happening.
SPEAKER_01Something is happening right there. You look at them, mm-hmm that's something. Yeah, that's something.
SPEAKER_05I did have Wicked up because uh as a topic.
SPEAKER_03Well, because I am frustrated with you about Wicked. She's told.
SPEAKER_01Podcast so random. I listened to a podcast. They said something about Wicked, and I was like, clip. It resonated. Did it resonate with you? It did.
SPEAKER_05Did you know that you can send someone a message in Spotify with a specific timestamp?
SPEAKER_01No. Brand new.
SPEAKER_05So he sent me this, and it was like he a specific timestamp he wanted me to start listening from, sent it to me, and I clicked it. It started playing from that spot. And his message was like a little bit more.
SPEAKER_01It's automatic. Wow. Yeah. That's cool. Anyway, do you want to tell us what I'd like to know because would you like to know of them or my thoughts?
SPEAKER_03Well, first, let's clarify in case you guys don't know. I saw Wicked, the first film, with these two. Yes, we all three of us saw it. We all three went. It was really hot. Terrible theater. Terrible theater.
SPEAKER_05Okay, I'm sorry, guys.
SPEAKER_03Um you I remember you're you were like fine with it. You were like, whatever. No, he hated it. No, I hated it. He was fine with it. No, I didn't enjoy it at all.
SPEAKER_01Don't want to say it all.
SPEAKER_03And what I want to say, what frustrates me is that Allison tells me, like, oh no, he's good to never see it. But you did see the musical, so you know how it concludes. Absolutely.
SPEAKER_05He likes the musical.
SPEAKER_01I enjoyed the musical so much more.
SPEAKER_03Fantastic. I cannot wrap my head around not wanting to see the second one to just conclude it for yourself.
SPEAKER_01No, no. The first one, I don't need to continue the story. One, I now know the conclusion anyway. Sure. And I don't want to continue down this road that I don't like anymore. I'm just gonna get off.
SPEAKER_03But did you do you agree that in the musical, act two happens way too fast?
SPEAKER_01Like it's- You're meant to believe all these things so quickly. I think um act one and act two went way too fast. So in the musical. But I don't like that the movies are drawing it out. I specifically noted that. I was like, whoa, that was they're going through it. Um but what what did you ask me?
SPEAKER_03But but you didn't did you but the pacing of the movie didn't go like you weren't like, oh, that's better.
SPEAKER_01No, it's not about the pacing, it's about the story. I I honestly don't I didn't enjoy the story. Okay. I enjoy uh the singing specifically. I did make this. There's there are some things that are in the movie that are absolutely better. The singing for one, okay, Jeff Goldblum as the wizard was way better, and I was kind of disappointed in that because he was a pretty lackluster uh wizard wizard.
SPEAKER_05So I was like, Yeah, our wizard, yeah.
SPEAKER_01Yeah. Uh the the story, the so he was even worse than Goldblum. So uh that was tough. So Goldblum was better, the singing was better. They did a better job in the movie of explaining why her name is Glinda and not Glinda. Yes, they do in the movie. Yeah. In the in the theater show, it was just like commenting. Yeah, that's it. And I was like, oh, that's interesting. They did that worse. Uh, but as a the the clip that I sent to Allison, it was just like it's so like dark and like kind of like unintentionally funny. Like Do you know who Charlemagne the god is? No.
SPEAKER_05Okay.
SPEAKER_01Uh the girl who's um Alphabet's sister or whatever, who's paraphernalia? So when she yes, that's her.
SPEAKER_04Obviously, you guys know, yes.
SPEAKER_01Her being in the wheelchair the whole time and like it being kind of unintentionally funny about the house being dropped in and her legs being kind of out like that, which is really funny. Um how the like the Tidman and the Scarecrow and the the line became that yeah was just like, what? Like, why is everybody so bad at magic yet they keep trying to be good at it, yet everybody's so bad they can't actually do anything like complete. Like we keep trying to be the best of all time. I'm not wrong. And for some reason, Elphable literally did nothing wrong ever, and yet everybody was like, yo, that's get get her.
SPEAKER_03He's not wrong. Madam Morible is like behind that. But you're right in that she's the most powerful witch to have ever lived. Yeah, she should be able to just be like and everything be the way she wants it to be.
SPEAKER_01Anything, no, anything, not just everything, anything. Anything that she should be able to do should should be able to happen. One thing. Give me one thing she completed purposefully and to complete it.
SPEAKER_03Right, because she is this incredibly powerful witch that turns the love of her life into a scarecrow.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, yeah, but she doesn't know about like she doesn't know how to use these powers because when she's younger, like she's so her dad is so like, get out of here, I don't like you.
SPEAKER_01And she just like doesn't know what and she was the result of a result of an affair as well. So like get you're in my face every day.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, so she like didn't know that she had these things, and whenever something would come out of her, she would get in trouble. So it wasn't like she was trying to hone them, and then then she's in school to learn how to do it, but really like her teachers all kind of don't know how to teach her.
SPEAKER_01Absolutely.
SPEAKER_05So it's not really her fault that she that's that's my whole point.
SPEAKER_01She's literally not wicked. Remember at the end of the movie, I was like, she's when was she ever wicked? She was never this the title is wicked. She literally is never wicked, right? That was a good one.
SPEAKER_05Well, she does feel wicked in the second act when she finally gets it on with Fiero.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, when they have sex. She's like, I feel wicked. Do we need to pause? I think your team won. Oh, yeah, I know they won. Oh, okay. I'm very aware.
SPEAKER_05Your team trophies.
SPEAKER_01I was gonna mention it later. Oh, okay. Oh, that can be your A-list of the winning. I already got that.
SPEAKER_02Cut this out, Allison.
SPEAKER_01Come on.
SPEAKER_03I've done podcasts.
SPEAKER_05Oh, I'll get to I'll get to that.
SPEAKER_03A pro. Okay.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_05All right.
SPEAKER_03Well, so yeah. I appreciate your opinion, and I'm glad I've I prefer that I like that you have like an actual actual explanation. You're not just one of those people that's like, oh no, it's gay. I did look at it.
SPEAKER_01I watched it. You did.
SPEAKER_03You gave it a watch. You willingly came. And I was ready to give it a power.
SPEAKER_01I was like, wow, this was bad. I'm gonna stop. And you even went to the musical.
SPEAKER_05And I just straight guy. Like he enjoys arts and culture.
SPEAKER_01I do enjoy it. And give it a try. I have a super plug with the pantages, and we get free tickets. That's true. You guys just saw some uh we saw Milan Rose. You also hated it as much as her. Did I hate it as much as her?
SPEAKER_05It was cool. Oh.
SPEAKER_03Because it is cool. It's like five.
SPEAKER_01It's good. It's good, it's entertaining. You know, it's very it's like the epitome of meta. It's a story. I was entertained. It's the story of the story. You were what I was entertained. Yeah, okay, good. Keep it, keep it. Yeah, keep that.
SPEAKER_05I will. Okay, well, we are over an hour. So good for us.
SPEAKER_00Oh, wow, we're just gabbing, huh?
SPEAKER_05I know. Isn't it so fun?
unknownIt's fun.
SPEAKER_00It is fun. It's fun.
SPEAKER_05I'm having such a great time. Well, I'm trying to think, I'm trying to think of where we go from now. Um we go to A-list of the week and then Okay. Thanks. Josh. It's time for A-list of the week.
unknownHey. Okay.
A‑List Of The Week Picks
SPEAKER_05Aylist of the Week is I gave you a little bit earlier, but this is where we share something about our week that we think everyone needs to know. It could be a wreck. A piece of art you saw, food, a some piece of art you saw. It could be a podcast you listen to, it could be a movie, it could be literally anything.
unknownYes.
SPEAKER_05And I also don't have one. I told you, I never come prepared.
SPEAKER_01I can start. I do have one. Oh, do you then you start? You're a guest. Why should I start just because I'm a guest? Go for it. Sure. Um, so uh I know that this is the number one sports podcast in the country at the very least. Thank you. So I absolutely wanted to shout out um the New York Knicks. Uh I am a big Knicks fan. Like I said, I didn't live in New York, picked them up pretty much immediately, and it's been a roller coaster of a ride. But we just won the NBA Cup tonight, which is like the new NBA's like mid-season tournament. It doesn't actually mean anything, but we won it. Okay, so that means something. Nobody else won it, and they were also trying to win it, but we won it.
SPEAKER_04So congratulations.
SPEAKER_03So wait, were you a Pacers fan or were you not really into Pacers?
SPEAKER_01He's always hated the Pacers. I've literally always hated the Pacers. For what reason? I grew up in Gary, Indiana, which is much closer to Chicago. Chicago, because you're a Bulls fan. The Bulls, right? Okay. So Reggie Miller can hates Reggie. Fuck a duck. And we love Reggie. I love Reggie. Uh and yeah, and he still commentates now, and I disagree with him pretty much. Okay. Just out of anything he says, I'm pretty much like, get out of here. But I will always have that hatred of him. Uh so then I was a kid, and I Michael Jordan retired, the bull sucked. I was like, wow, this team sucks now. I don't want to watch them anymore. So then I just like relinquished and I was like, ah, well, you were open to whatever team would come to you next. And then like never thing happened. I root for this team for a year, roof for that team for a year. I moved to New York and I was like, it's the next one. I think this is me.
SPEAKER_03So mix in the jigs.
SPEAKER_05I should have worn my patrons hat.
SPEAKER_03Thanks. I'm gonna say something so annoying. And I'm sure you get this all the time, but you're from Gary, Indiana. Yes. So birthplace of Michael James.
SPEAKER_01Absolutely. Absolutely. My grandmother taught him in third grade. Okay, I was gonna ask you had any connection to him. My uncles and aunts went to school. They're the same age. They went to school with uh That is very cool information.
SPEAKER_05The ones I know?
SPEAKER_01The ones you know. Yeah. That's pop culture. Absolutely. That is very cool. My mom didn't go to school with anyone, but my two uncles did. Wow.
SPEAKER_05That is pretty cool. Fun fact.
SPEAKER_01Absolutely.
SPEAKER_05What's yours?
SPEAKER_03Okay, so my list of the week.
SPEAKER_05Oh my god. It's gonna be another stupid food that you know it's not a food.
SPEAKER_03Okay, it's an audiobook. Okay.
SPEAKER_05Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_03I was on TikTok, as one is. And I was served a clip by, you know, our Lord and Savior, Melissa Joan Hart, and she was being interviewed, and she mentions she mentions something about her book in this like interview. She's like, well, if you read my book, you would know this. I'm not getting into it. Something like that. And I was like, Well, Melissa Joan Hart has a book. I have had this weird fascination with Melissa Joan Hart like my whole life. Sabrina was in my house. It was not a big thing. Witchcraft.
SPEAKER_05He couldn't wait here.
SPEAKER_03I would stay the night at my grandpa's. I would do anything in my power to make sure I was there Fridays so I could turn on TGI F. Um, anyway, obsessed with Sabrina. And the first DVD I ever bought as a when I was 16 and got my first job was the season one of Sabrina the Teenage Witch.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_03I am anyway. So I go, I find I find out that she releases a book in 2016 called Melissa Explains It All. A play on Clarissa Explains It All I'm like. I am on chapter eight, and it is a thrilling biography. Yeah, really? Wow. It's first of all, they have the their family is a business. Her mom is a genius. She so the way that this the thing that I the chapters I'm on right now, it's all on Sabrina. So I've gotten through Clarissa. Now we're into the Sabrina era. The way that this happened, so she was a child actor. Her mom put her and all of her siblings in it, but they they lived in New Jersey. But they had such a normal life and normal upbringing, and her mom took such good care of her finances. Like she never stole from her. Like it was just she was the best mom. Then a friend of hers, after Melissa had done like a couple, a couple features at this point. Her mom's friend is reading the Archie comic. So Sabrina was an archie comic that ran that they only ran like one uh spread of every Halloween. And she was like, Oh my god, this like she kind of looks like Melissa. You should totally like create this character. So her mom looked into getting the rights to Sabrina, and she licensed Sabrina, Sabrina's boyfriend Harvey, The Ants, Glenda and Zelda, and then Salem the Cat for one dollar. They licensed it to her. Oh shit. And in with that, with that, she got she pitched this movie. Sabrina was a movie first. Pitched a movie, got it sold. They flew, she they created this movie in Montreal, and then she took the movie to all the networks, got into a five network bidding war, sold it to NBA. Wow. And just exploded in this huge thing. They were just like, yeah, sure. And this book was in 2016, which was before the chilling adventures of Sabrina. This this franchise has exploded.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_03And uh which got weird.
SPEAKER_05I liked it, then it got weird.
SPEAKER_03I never watched it. But I think the whole thing is fascinating. Her life is fascinating. She's had one husband that she's still happily married, even to this day. I had to look.
SPEAKER_01Because she is in a new Christmas film that I always mention is she's in a new Christmas film with uh the girl from Clueless.
SPEAKER_03Yes, yes, Alicia Silverstone. We watched it, it's cute, it's her and her mom produced it, and she plays. Did you watch it? No, we just we saw her. She's just like a side character in it, but she plays like a drunk aunt and is really funny. I was like, okay. So again, she was like in my orbit, and I was like, oh. Anyway, I'm really enjoying this book and I'm fascinated by the case.
SPEAKER_05Wow, that was a great pitch for it.
SPEAKER_03So that was a fantastic pitch for it. Melissa explains it all. I'm finding out all the juicy details about the boys she's kissed.
SPEAKER_05Oh, did she ever date Joey? What's his name?
SPEAKER_03They never dated. They were best friends always, and Joey Lawrence. Joey Lawrence. And uh still are very good friends. And then they did Melissa and Joey, which she says is her favorite project to date.
SPEAKER_05Did he have a hair transplant?
SPEAKER_03I'm sure. 100%.
SPEAKER_05Do you remember the show Melissa and Joey?
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_05Did you see his hair on oh yes, yes.
SPEAKER_03He definitely looked like he was amazing. Or like it was like painted on the perfect buzz cut. No, it doesn't exist like that. Sorry, man. Um, anyway, Melissa explains it all. It's on Spotify premium or audible.
SPEAKER_05Okay, well, they're not paying us.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. So well, I'm letting the listeners know if you want to listen to this book.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_03It's on Spotify or Audible, and Melissa reads it, so it's entertaining.
SPEAKER_05Okay. I have an anti-A-list first. This has never been done. So a D-list? D list. D list. Is the um American insurance institution.
SPEAKER_03Oh, just all of America.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, I hate it. And I think Health Insurance.
SPEAKER_03Oh, yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_05And that's all. I can't really get into the weeds on it, but I just wanted to say that I hate insurance.
SPEAKER_03We know the weeds, and it is. All of us know the weeds, and we all also. So for instance, like all of us knowing. I won't get into details either, but I have I need to see my doctor. And I was like, explaining that it's not an emergency, but serious. Well, I'm sorry, our closest appointment is January 20th. Okay, what do you suggest? Urgent care of the hospital.
SPEAKER_05Oh God.
SPEAKER_03Okay. Thanks. Thank you.
SPEAKER_05I would have been like, do you know how much of a hypochondriac I am?
SPEAKER_03You don't understand.
SPEAKER_05Um, but my actual A-list. Mm-hmm. So I did just finish reading this book, Direbound. And I will say I did only give it three stars. And that's because the end, that's because the end got a little crazy. But I did enjoy reading it.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_05So I would I would recommend it. It was a intriguing read.
SPEAKER_04Okay.
SPEAKER_05Uh on the on the plane coming home, I had Josh read a couple pages and it was Is it horny?
SPEAKER_01Yeah. Oh, okay.
SPEAKER_05That's what I had him write.
SPEAKER_01I'm like, are they having sex yet? She's like, no, not yet. I was like, all right.
SPEAKER_05I had him, I came across on the plane, I came across a uh a section of the book that was very horny. And I was just like, you need to read this. And he is just like, I can't believe they are still using these words that are like from you know like throbbing my throbbing, my wetness, my my sex.
SPEAKER_01Do they refer to it? Yes, they do.
SPEAKER_05They do, but I feel like it's usually less with that.
SPEAKER_01Sure, but they still do it. But it's like, oh, this is like what it was written with. Like 30 years ago. He touches my sex.
SPEAKER_05What? Never I hate it. Never look into my eyes and say, I hate it. But I had a good time reading it. It's just like the very end was like the very end, like it was a lot that they just threw at the end of the day.
SPEAKER_02A lot of a lot of twists and turns. Oh, they just like bunch. It got through a lot of things.
SPEAKER_05A lot of plot was really just like at the very end, like bam, bam, bam, like a whole bunch of weird stuff. Yeah. But I will read the second one and I'll see what's going on. So I do, I do recommend. Okay.
unknownYeah.
SPEAKER_05Okay. The the last thing before we go, I know that we are going long, but this is this is the episode uh before New Year's.
SPEAKER_03This is our New Year's episode.
SPEAKER_05And we haven't said anything about that. So do we have any 2025 goals?
SPEAKER_0326.
SPEAKER_0526. 2026.
Goals, Dogs, And League Talk
SPEAKER_03Do we have any 2026 goals? Um, well, first I do want to say it's the it's our year. It's the year of the horse. So that's our year. Thank God. I hate horses.
SPEAKER_05Would never have known that. You really do.
SPEAKER_03But it's in the Chinese Zodiac 1990 horse.
SPEAKER_05Okay.
SPEAKER_03Um that already means good things for us, except well, except for your back.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, I want my back to not hurt in the new year.
SPEAKER_03I I don't know if I have goals, but I'm continuing with my having boundaries stronger than my empathy.
SPEAKER_05Oh, put that on a t-shirt.
SPEAKER_03It's on a keychain. Boundaries stronger than my empathy. I do like that.
SPEAKER_05Okay. Hmm. My goal is something I don't want to say on the podcast, so that I sorry about that to everyone. Um I don't think so. No.
SPEAKER_03Um, I she just wants everyone to get along and I actually don't have a goal.
SPEAKER_05I I need you to go if you have something and we'll come back to that.
SPEAKER_01I was gonna say, no, I don't. I actually don't have a goal.
SPEAKER_05You don't have any goals? You just said that.
SPEAKER_03Do you guys have anything? Do you have anything? Do you have anything fun already planned that's gonna happen next year? Any trips, any um milestones?
SPEAKER_05Reagan's getting married, so that's something. Next year it's gonna happen for sure. October.
SPEAKER_03Oh.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_05That's in the books. I already know.
SPEAKER_03There you go. That is in the books. A fall wedding in Indiana. Cute.
SPEAKER_05Pretty cute. Cute. Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Maybe wet. Hopefully not too cold or wet.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. Hopefully. I don't know. I just want to be happy, have less anxiety, and continue to grow with my darling angel over here.
unknownJosh.
SPEAKER_03Darling angel lover. Wow. Is that what you said? Yeah, I said over there. Darling Angel Lover.
SPEAKER_05Darling Angel Lover. And I just wish us an amazing year.
SPEAKER_03Are you gonna get another dog? No. You're loving your independence.
SPEAKER_01I I can't convince her to get one. I think in your entire twenties, you were a dog. I brought it up a few times and she's she's really rebuffed.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, I don't think I'm ready for a dog yet until I have Central AC. A home, a backyard, someone to raise the dog.
SPEAKER_03Oh my god.
SPEAKER_05What? What is that breathing point?
SPEAKER_01This is Los Angeles. The home in a backyard.
SPEAKER_03It's a cool 3.5 million. I can rent a home. It's true. That's true. That's true.
SPEAKER_01That is true. Yep.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_01You're right.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, I don't I don't know. It's not in the goal of the next year.
SPEAKER_03I will say Karina's brother does have. A two-bed, two-bath, brand new build about to open up for thirty five hundred a month. All utilities included, two parking spaces in its own private big backyard.
SPEAKER_01Whoa, uh apartments.com.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, right. That's me.
SPEAKER_05Do you have that listing?
SPEAKER_03Yeah. I have a video of it.
SPEAKER_05Where is it?
SPEAKER_03It's here. It's in North Halloween.
SPEAKER_05Don't put it on here. Alright, well, we'll talk.
SPEAKER_01Okay.
SPEAKER_05Wait, did you think of anything?
SPEAKER_01I did not, and I was trying to. There's things to accomplish to us.
SPEAKER_03What is the next sports season that you'll be working on?
SPEAKER_01Not to um my own at the end of January. What sport is that? I'm referring high school basketball right now. Oh, really? Yeah.
SPEAKER_03Track starts in end of January. Track is the end of oh, we're in SoCal, for sure. Right.
SPEAKER_05Uh flag football will be January.
SPEAKER_03There it is. Right. Super Bowl happens in February, everyone. Yes.
SPEAKER_05But it's flag football. But yes, but yes. Yes. But yes. Yes.
SPEAKER_03And you just completed beach football. Football. Yeah.
SPEAKER_05Yeah. Dodgeball will be starting up. I don't know.
SPEAKER_03Is right now the draft season? Is that what's happening? You guys aren't doing that right now. No, and not everybody's too scared.
SPEAKER_05We just want to be together. I know. Yeah, we want to be together.
SPEAKER_01We can meet some more people. What happens if we like go to the city? Yeah, but how annoying if you're on really good and you bring them back.
SPEAKER_03But if you have games at different times, then you're like, do you stay for the person? You're there for all three hours? You just don't know.
SPEAKER_01No, then you become then you uh bring that person to your team.
SPEAKER_03I would like you to take over the league, but I don't think you're queer enough. No.
SPEAKER_05Damn it.
SPEAKER_03I'm not. I would play again under Josh's league.
SPEAKER_05Well, he could just start a league on under his should I start a queer league?
SPEAKER_03No, just start a league.
SPEAKER_05You can start a dodgeball league. Okay.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. So I would join, yeah. Let's do it.
SPEAKER_01Start a rival dodgeball league. Dodgeball league. Yeah.
SPEAKER_05In should I do it in West Hollywood or should I do it in like um I would like to play at the Wii Ho at the aquatic center.
SPEAKER_01Downtown. Downtown.
SPEAKER_05You want to drive downtown?
SPEAKER_01Well, if we're if we're gonna be rivals, they go to West Highway where it's like clean and nice. We gotta go to Dart downtown where it's dirty. Yeah, come come on. Oh let's go. Okay. Um probably gotta get less people down there.
SPEAKER_05Perhaps.
SPEAKER_01But then we get the downtown people. That's true.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_01I don't know those people. Sometimes there's he wouldn't know we won't know until we try.
SPEAKER_00Yeah.
SPEAKER_01And that's facts. Does you do do your people know about the differences of like the neighborhoods in LA?
SPEAKER_05Oh.
SPEAKER_01About how like downtown is like a pretty much a no-no. I'm sure they can guess.
SPEAKER_03If yeah, I feel like we've got to do that.
SPEAKER_05They know that Sky Row lives down there.
SPEAKER_03So talk about when I've worked downtown, and that was a trip.
SPEAKER_05Okay, my back hurts so bad. I'm gonna just get to the birthdays. Okay. I love you guys so much. But um today, December 29th, the birthdays. Famous birthdays. Um, Dylan Manette is 29. Did you watch? You know who that is?
SPEAKER_03I sure don't either.
SPEAKER_05He's in that one movie, Thirteen Reasons Why?
SPEAKER_0313 Reasons Why?
SPEAKER_05The show, 13 Reasons Why.
SPEAKER_0313 Reasons Why? That's not a show.
SPEAKER_05That is a show. That's where the girl offs herself. My 13th reason.
SPEAKER_03Okay. I did not watch that show.
SPEAKER_05Oh, it's actually pretty dark.
SPEAKER_03Yeah. Yeah.
SPEAKER_05But I was intrigued. Uh John Voigt is 87. Jude loves. Jennifer.
SPEAKER_01Nope. Met John Voigt in grocery store. John Voigt. Actually, a lot of celebrities in grocery stores. That they do.
SPEAKER_05I never see any.
SPEAKER_03I have seen a lot. John Voigt is Angela Angelie's dad.
SPEAKER_05Yes. Yes. Jude Law is 53. Allison Bree is 43. Remember that weird movie? Who did I watch it with? You? Oh no, it was the new Black Mirror. Wasn't that Alison Bree? That first episode?
SPEAKER_01The first episode? No, the first episode was um Rashida Jones.
SPEAKER_05Yep. They're different people.
SPEAKER_01Very different.
SPEAKER_05Ted Dancing is 78, the good place, which Josh won't watch.
SPEAKER_01Love Ted Dancing.
SPEAKER_05Not enough.
SPEAKER_01Did you watch Cheers?
SPEAKER_05I've seen Cheers, yes.
SPEAKER_01Oh, you've seen Cheers. Well, why don't you watch it?
SPEAKER_05Okay, let's watch it.
SPEAKER_03No, you guys are too busy watching Supermarket Sweep.
SPEAKER_05Hell yeah. Don't even, don't even.
SPEAKER_03Has its own channel, I've learned.
SPEAKER_05Yeah.
SPEAKER_03I there's a literally happened, just happened upon.
SPEAKER_01I think it's even a supermarket sweep channel. Yeah.
SPEAKER_05Isn't it like direct TV? Don't you have a direct TV? Yeah.
SPEAKER_01It's that's actually incredible.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, it's 24-7. You can probably get into it. You can step away from it. You can come back to it.
SPEAKER_01Yeah, easily come back to it. Oh, you want to see a couple of the trivia and then be like, let's get to the sweep. Yeah, yeah. Like, yo, if they get if they get three minutes, you're like, I want to watch. If they get two twenty minutes, they're not getting anything.
SPEAKER_05Yeah, yeah.
SPEAKER_01They're not doing something special. But you know. Um, if they brought it back and you guys went on it, that would be a good one. Well, they did bring it back. They did.
SPEAKER_05It was on Netflix.
SPEAKER_01I guess you were not a real fan. Was not good.
SPEAKER_05It wasn't as good, no.
SPEAKER_01Oh, okay. Damn.
SPEAKER_05Okay. Uh Mackay Pfeiffer is 51. Thought he was older than that for some reason.
SPEAKER_03What's that? Who's that? Oh my gosh.
SPEAKER_05And so many movies in the like 90s.
SPEAKER_01He played MM? No, no. I said MM, but I meant 8 Mile.
SPEAKER_05Oh, oh, oh.
SPEAKER_01Dredd's guy was Dredd is like his best friend.
SPEAKER_05Is Mackay Pfeiffer in O? Is that the one him?
SPEAKER_01I'm not. I haven't seen 8 Mile. What?
SPEAKER_05Get out of here.
SPEAKER_01Oh, no, you don't. I get to say that. I know that Brittany Murphy's thing.
SPEAKER_05Oh my gosh, Brittany Murphy, we just Oh, of course, of course, of course, of course.
SPEAKER_01Alex, Alex. You knew that the new girl in Clueless is Brittany Murphy, right? Yes, of course. Of course. Yeah. Literally, I ran it on it on. I ran and had it on, and then she comes in and I say, dang, R-I-P. And she I was like, I was like, what? I was like, that's Brittany Murphy.
SPEAKER_05I had no idea that was hers. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01She was like, what?
SPEAKER_05Yeah, that's like young. I don't know.
SPEAKER_03Have you seen Drop Dead Gorgeous?
SPEAKER_05Or Drop Dead Diva?
SPEAKER_03No, Gorgeous.
SPEAKER_05Um, no, I don't think so.
SPEAKER_03You must watch. Brittany Murphy is iconic in that movie.
SPEAKER_05Well, he has a connection to, I was telling you, who I don't know if you want to say it on here.
SPEAKER_03So well, I spent time in her house months after she's had and her husband had passed. I went to school with her cousin, and she was living in that house with Brittany Murphy's mom while she was going to school up in Sunset Plaza. And we would go back there and I would play Janice Joplin's guitar because she was Britney was like training to be her in a biopic. We would read from the Happy Feet script like all of her notes and like like I have a little black book. Did you feel her presence? It was so dark in that house. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01See, that's why just really heavy and bad. Yeah. Well, yeah. I mean, I couldn't have it's imagined being going in that house.
SPEAKER_03I mean, I went would go to the bathroom in the bathroom she died in. Like it was like hate that.
SPEAKER_05Would never do that.
SPEAKER_03The piano in there was Justin Timberlakes gifted to him by Britney Spears when she lived in that house before breaking Murphy.
SPEAKER_05And honestly, she Brittany started, isn't that where she kind of started going downhill? So maybe the house has something.
SPEAKER_03Well, the house is gone. It's been demolished.
SPEAKER_05It should have been.
SPEAKER_03Which is probably appropriate.
SPEAKER_05But I will say this is why you need to believe that when he says he can feel presence and he doesn't feel them in my apartment, that you should probably I feel nothing in her apartment and I have no ghost.
SPEAKER_03But do you feel you're not going to be able to do named Cher?
SPEAKER_05Wait, what was her name?
Birthdays, Pop Culture, And Sign‑Off
SPEAKER_03She was wearing a pantsuit and had hair like Cher. Her name was Gladys. Had or have? I haven't seen her in years. You haven't seen her in years? She was a friendly presence. She did follow me to the channel. Didn't she used to open all the. Friendly presents.
SPEAKER_05Didn't she used to open all the clo the doors?
SPEAKER_03When I lived with Jane and she was there, we came home.
SPEAKER_05She didn't like Jane.
SPEAKER_03Yeah, I don't think she liked that. I was living with a girl. And all the cabinets in the kitchen were open. The freezer door was open, and in the middle of the floor in the kitchen, a pile of berries from the freezer. Away from the freezer. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And like normally I'd be like, was that a dream? But Jane was there. Like we saw this together. And then two nights later, we're watching a movie. Jane used to hang her headphones on the corner of her TV and we're just like watching the T and the headphones go.
SPEAKER_01I told you.
SPEAKER_05But I'm saying he doesn't feel a presence in my apartment.
SPEAKER_01But that doesn't mean he feels every presence that is that exists on this plane. If it's a negative one, maybe I can only feel the positive ones. I don't think that it's a negative one.
SPEAKER_03Oh, okay. Then he's quite positive. He is not. Oh, and it's a he is. I'm inclined to believe Josh. But I don't feel a presence in there at all, so it can't be bad. You know, like when you're in a dark place, you can feel it. Yeah, you can feel that. Your partner doesn't feel like that. He's cool. He's he's macho.
SPEAKER_01He just wants to light. All he wants is attention, and Allison will not give it to him. Well, I just don't want to open myself. Let's just get the board. No, no. No, she doesn't hear that.
SPEAKER_03Okay.
SPEAKER_05But I will say Mackay Fifer is an O.
SPEAKER_03Oh, is he no?
SPEAKER_05Yes.
SPEAKER_03He's also in that dance movie, I think, that I love immense.
SPEAKER_01Oh. Not yes. He was a honey.
SPEAKER_05To wrap this up, Dylan Mulvaney, I know you don't know who that is. She is 29. And then the only um entertainment thing I could see was the song, the explicit version of potential breakup song by Allie and AJ came out in 2020 on this day. And that's the literal only thing in entertainment that happened on December 29th?
SPEAKER_03Because entertainment shuts down at the end of the year.
SPEAKER_05Did you watch Allie and AJ?
unknownNo.
SPEAKER_03What did you watch?
SPEAKER_05The show?
SPEAKER_03They didn't have a show.
SPEAKER_05They didn't have a show?
SPEAKER_03Allie and AJ? I thought they did. No, they're sisters that happen to be in advance. Wasn't one of them in a show? Phil of the future. Okay.
SPEAKER_05The other one was in that show. Okay.
SPEAKER_03They were in Cowbells.
unknownOkay.
SPEAKER_03All right.
SPEAKER_05Thank you all for listening andor watching. Thank you, Josh, for being.
SPEAKER_03You're welcome.
SPEAKER_05If you're a fan favorite, you must come back.
SPEAKER_03I'll be a fan favorite. Only if. We'll let the numbers tell us.
SPEAKER_05Um Happy New Year.
SPEAKER_03Happy New Year, everyone. Um go into the year with good intentions and pure hearts. If you want. No pressure. Whatever.
SPEAKER_05Um subscribe, rate us, listen, all those things, and we will see you in 2026.
SPEAKER_03Bye.