The C.H.O.D.E.S. Podcast
Two cousins, Maria and Leslie, discussing wild personal experiences in relationships, current events, and just life. We are sharing our experiences for relatability and entertainment. There will be laughs with a lot of gasps and we will also get down to the very intimate and raw details of the dating world and life lessons at every turning point.
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The C.H.O.D.E.S. Podcast
The signs are there...
Ever been on a date that made your intuition yell "run" but you stayed put, mesmerized by a charming smile? That's the kind of red flag territory we're unpacking in this week's episode.
We dig into the influence friends wield in your love life, the sticky situation of staying buddies with an ex, and just how much weight to give to outside opinions. Sit back and join us for some cozy conversations, laughs, and maybe even a few lightbulb moments as we navigate through the choppy seas of interpersonal connections.
By the end of our talk, you'll have a fresh perspective on spotting those subtle, yet significant, signals that scream it's time to reassess your romantic radar.
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Hi guys, welcome to Cousins, honestly, openly Discussing Everything Spicy. Welcome to the Chodes. Oh well, that was a little faster girl. You're getting better? Oh well, she's trying, she's trying.
Speaker 2:I just tried not to laugh.
Speaker 1:To work is I find it funny and I find it funny, so I just start laughing. I'm not gonna stop. Yeah, okay.
Speaker 2:Well, that's good. How are you? I am good. How are you? Oh well, it's been a day for me. I woke up with Murphy's Law on my head and today I went as it should.
Speaker 1:You know what Murphy's Law is. Right, you don't know what Murphy's Law is.
Speaker 2:Oh well, murphy's Law is it goes somewhere along the lines of anything that can go wrong will go wrong.
Speaker 1:Oh will go wrong. Oh, I didn't know that was, I didn't know that was, I didn't know it was that full oh yeah, well, yeah, that's what it is, but yeah, everything that could have gone wrong today went in background.
Speaker 2:So, I lost a nail in fucking painful, but I would have survived that is painful.
Speaker 1:Right here I'm with two dinky nails, but I'm sure whatever happened to you was bad.
Speaker 2:No, like my nail went almost to the hack and you know what's crazy I was telling my mom. On Wednesday I was like I'm just gonna go take them off and I'm just gonna leave my natural nails on, but because you know I was sick, I didn't go do it and so my nails were getting already too long and so today at the laundry man. It got stuck in the washer and it just like snapped, oh yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, so not good.
Speaker 2:So that was my day, that was your day.
Speaker 1:Not like that. I was chilling. I was just at home because you know how we were both sick. I just stayed home and chilled because I didn't have any plans this weekend. So I was like let me just work on you know, self recovery Still.
Speaker 2:That is honestly a good day by yourself, just chilling, watching movies on the phone, doing whatever it's needed every now and then.
Speaker 1:And especially after the month we had. Yeah, I'm still recovering from February.
Speaker 2:Same girl. I feel, like February, february. We were like all out, we were doing the most. And then March 1st came along and we were like, yep, no, we're done.
Speaker 1:Energy zero around the third month of the year.
Speaker 2:That's crazy on the second week of the third month of the year. Like, can you? Believe the wedding was already two weeks ago. Like literally two weeks ago, we were dancing around and it feels like it was just last weekend. I know Well, I mean, time is going by fast. I don't know how I feel about that, oh well tomorrow's.
Speaker 1:uh Well, when the episode releases on, yesterday was daylight saving so we lost an hour, yeah no, yes, wait till tomorrow.
Speaker 2:real time yesterday episode time right, yeah, oh, I didn't know, came so soon.
Speaker 2:Oh girl, we have a lot. Well, not a lot, but we got more responses on our question of the week this time around. Do you want to get into it? Yeah, let's go All right. So the question was what was the question? The question was Um, what did you consider red flags in a relationship? We get some answers. The first one we got was people who are rude to way staff workers. Yeah, that is a better one. But when I read that I was wondering like, am I one of those? Would you consider me a person? I was rude to wait staff.
Speaker 1:Well, I haven't been with you like as a significant other one.
Speaker 2:No, but I do. But okay, the reason I'm asking you is because you know, like how my side of the family, how we always have a good, you have to complain about. Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:So I personally don't consider that to be rude, but you know, I don't know I can come out as rude, like you know, when we went to the place with the employees, like our parents, oh, yeah, yeah, that's how I think it was. Yeah, you guys were. You guys were extra as a person or a member of the service staff committee.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, I'm a fucking walking red flag, then I'll be better. No, but I do. I do consider that to be rude to because I've gone on dates where, like the guys have been, but like waitresses or whatever, the waiters like a fucking come clean this shit right now you know how to talk to them like that yeah, you don't want to be with people who this have no respect, respect.
Speaker 2:Murphy's. Well, yeah, that's, that's a good way of like, because, especially if you go out to a restaurant or a bar or whatever like on the first day and they are like automatically, you know that's like their, what you call it, their Factory mode, right, because when you go to our first day you always have to put your best of all where. But if something happens and they like like snap real quick, that's a good way to see. Oh no, I don't want to be with this person. I don't want to go on another date with person.
Speaker 1:You know, I mean yeah, Mm-hmm, Like if they're very impulsive and yeah that they snap over again. No, no, no.
Speaker 2:Okay. So second one we got was friends have so much, but can they ruin a relationship? I'm not sure so much, but that's that's what it says. Friends have so much, but can they ruin a relationship so much have? So much help, so much that no girl, I don't know, that's just what it says. So, like friends can. Can, because I'm guessing what they're trying to say is friends have so much to say, or like Mm-hmm, they're valuable. Like friends are valuable, but can they also ruin our relationship?
Speaker 1:Yes, I mean for me, yes, I think yes for me to depending where the intent is. You know, Like, if your friends have, like, good intentions, then they'll probably help, but if they don't have good intentions, because you know there's fake friends, there are fake friends out there and if they have their own personal agenda they can sabotage your relationship.
Speaker 2:Mm-hmm, yeah, exactly, yeah, like an example would be. What would you give us an?
Speaker 1:example. An example would be like I don't know now.
Speaker 2:How do you say? The word sounds like that in English like you know, when don't like you you, you don't want to go out. But like your friends, like no, like you know, it's just fucking go. And then you're like no, but like my, my boyfriend or like my girlfriend is gonna get mad and they're like, well, who the fuck cares?
Speaker 1:like they should go, you know like when friends like pressure, you like yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2:I think your pressure would be a little yeah, like when they do that, just just because they don't want to go out alone, well, let's, let's not just say, like my, my girlfriend, whatever is gonna get mad like, just out of respect for my partner, I don't want to go out. I don't know, it's 8, 9 tonight, you know. But like the friend like keeps pushing, let's just go, let's just go drink or party or whatever the hell like that. And they love them. So that's, that's a red flag and that's a bad right. Mm-hmm, I'm guessing that's what they're trying to say. I don't know, I'm just assuming.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I don't know, it feels like also, if, like, if you like you right, you're my cousin your opinion matters to me. So if you tell me, you know, don't date this person because XYZ and because I value your opinion, I, you know, follow your intuition instead of following mine, where I really like this person, and I'm probably passing up an Opportunity because I went with your feelings, because I value your opinion, instead of me having my own self opinion or what is it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, you're your own opinion.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah. So the Short answer would be yes, friends can ruin your relationship. Only, though, if you let them and if you let them. You're a red.
Speaker 1:Yes, if you're easily manipulated by your friends or by people, then, yes, you're right back.
Speaker 2:Okay, the other one is quite uncle. I'm still friends with my eggs. Is that a red fog?
Speaker 1:I'm gonna ask you that see, I'm friends with an X, or is that a red flag? Because you know more about red flags, I think everything is fine. I see the red light. That's green. I'm colorblind.
Speaker 2:I.
Speaker 1:Used to laugh about it later, but at the moment I'm like huh, I'm very confused.
Speaker 2:Well, I think we all like, at a certain point in time we're always like, oh no, but Red Flag, why this is? You know, it's a warning light. Um, so I'm so friend girl. I can't answer that objectively because I would be exception of like two people. Maybe I'm friends with all of my exes and like kind of situations of shit. You know what I mean. Like, yeah, I don't. I think like there's a very fine line okay, because I'm friends with them in the sense that we still talk every now and then, but nothing has ever, will or will ever happen again.
Speaker 1:Because I want to let it happen.
Speaker 2:I don't know, like, where they stand, if, like, they want to or not, but that's you.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but, like me, you meet someone that their friends with an ex. How would you feel about that? Well, would you use yourself as the example, like, well, I'm friends, so, like I said, I guess I trust you because you'll be the same with me.
Speaker 2:That's what I was going to say, because prior to everything that happened with my ex, you know, when we were in good terms, like he was actually friends with two of his exes, like that I met personally and you know it was like, hey, hey, how are you? Oh, there's my girlfriend, daughter. And like then, when I asked them, I was like who she? You know, because you obviously always have to ask he's like, oh well, we used to date whenever the fuck. And I was like, oh, okay, but I didn't think anything of it.
Speaker 2:Like because I think, because my problem is that I think everybody's going to behave the way I do. So because I don't do anything, I assume whoever I'm talking to is going to behave the same. So I personally don't think it's a red flag, but it really depends on the situation because, like, if it's like, oh, I'm still friends with my egg, and then, I don't know, on Valentine's Day or the day after Valentine's Day, they're going to go hang out with them, like where the fuck are you going to hang out? I think that's unacceptable. Yeah, then you know.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I really think it has to be like you have to have a good judge of character. If you trust your partner enough and you, or if you know your partner enough or you know your person you're talking to is not going to be like that and you trust them enough, and, yeah, I think it's cool In fact, me personally I think it says a lot about them if they can still be friends with an egg.
Speaker 1:Like if it was just like a amicable breakup and that's why they still were able to remain as friends. I think that's cool, but I, you know, like if someone fucked over the other person and they're still friends, like, oh you, you have issues, how?
Speaker 2:can you be friends? I don't know.
Speaker 1:I really think it's a good. You have to have a good sense of character.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I think you have to be very centered as a person because, okay, the way I see it, the way I see it, right, I don't understand how, if I'm dating someone again, I don't want to keep using my exes and something, but like that's the last relationship I had. So like I have to this day, I still don't hate it. Like even after the breakup and everything that happened. Like I've told you this before like I wish I hated him, but I, but also like what I wasted energy, but like I don't hate him at all because I didn't understand the concept of like yesterday I was in love with you, you were the love of my life and I was, you know, like like I loved you with all my heart. And then today I'm gonna be like nah, fuck it, I hate.
Speaker 2:I don't think those feelings go away like that so fast. And then like let's just say this is like years into the future, right, and like people have an established relationship and they have two kids together and a whole ass fucking marriage and then the marriage didn't work out. You still have to co-parent with that person. So like you don't necessarily have to be like besties with your ex, but like in that situation is like well, how are we not going to even communicate or talk about our kids? And it's better when you like?
Speaker 1:And there's a respect if there's like no, but also if there's like a good sense of respect between those people because, like I said it, didn't happen like one day to the next, where you hate them.
Speaker 2:So I think it's about emotion, yeah.
Speaker 1:At one point in time, like there was like a lot of love for that person and respect, and I mean it's okay to lose the love, but to lose the respect is a different level.
Speaker 2:Yeah, exactly I, and that's what I was going to say. It's about emotional maturity and, like, most of the time, what happens in like like, let's just say like custody battles, or well, not necessarily custody battles, but like you know, when like a person breaks up, what's the first thing that they do? They just go around fucking town spreading bullshit about their exes, talking Like to me somebody that's a red flag right there, somebody that talk almost shit about their exes and like, oh, she's fucking crazy, or like he was such a fucking manipulator. It's like okay, cool, that's your side of the story.
Speaker 1:What's the other side of the story.
Speaker 2:I can tell you for a fact that my ex has said that I was a super toxic and that I didn't let him go out and that I didn't like him having fun. But like my side of the story on that is, it's not that I didn't like him going out getting drunk, it's that I didn't like him going out getting drunk and driving, because every time he would do that he would crash his car, you know. But like to his friends, I'm a fucking psycho because I didn't want him to go out. So, like there's always two sides of the story, you know what I mean. But calling your exes or just talking shit about exes in general, big red flag, right there, so short answer.
Speaker 2:What is the short answer? Is it a red flag or not?
Speaker 1:Based on the situation and if you have a good sense of character. I don't know. I guess that's the answer to that. This is true.
Speaker 2:What was the other one? The next one is when he questions, I guess when he she questions, every move he makes, oh okay, and he goes back to but that's trust issues, but it is a red flag, though that's trust issues, yeah. Then he can't deal with his emotions Because, like, why is he questioning every move? Like if you haven't given him any reasons to question your every move, he's questioning it because I don't know. He's been cheated before and he's been cheated.
Speaker 1:Yeah, trauma, past trauma, mhm.
Speaker 2:Go to therapy. Fuck, get so mad. But yeah, I think she's triggered. She's triggered. I'm triggered, no girl, because you know why I say that? Because emotionally unregulated people hurt people okay.
Speaker 2:So if you don't know how to control your emotions, whether it's by yourself or with a therapist. You need to work on yourself. Because I saw a news article today, the some fucking idiot I don't read the whole article so like he won't quote me on his own like take anything from this. But some guy threw his girlfriend onto the train tracks and she lost both of his feet because he, both of her feet, because he was mad. You know what I mean. So like people who are not, yeah, so people who are not emotionally regulated do shit like that. So that's why I'm like fucking gotta work on yourself. And important part of life. But yeah, if he's questioning your every move, girl, get out of there. Big red flag, because then what's next? Is he gonna put a? What is the air tugs on your car?
Speaker 1:A truck or yeah.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you know, you just never know, Uh-uh that's scary. Because it could become like obsessive behavior right.
Speaker 1:Mm-hmm.
Speaker 2:Mm-hmm. Alright, so then the last one we got was the way they talk about their moms and, basically, women in their life, right.
Speaker 1:Mm-hmm.
Speaker 2:So if they talk bad about them, mmm red flag, Yellow flag, I.
Speaker 1:No, I think it's a red flag. Uh, I mean, well, everybody has a different upbringing, mm-hmm. But I mean, I don't know how, you know, how would you put that? Because, like, not everybody has a good relationship with their mothers or their fathers. So, Exactly yeah. I mean, I don't know it's weird, huh, it's. Yeah, I feel like I'm being put on the spot, I don't know, but it's not even like me. Um, okay, so Well, I never had a relationship or talk to someone that spoke ill about their mother or their sisters, mm-hmm.
Speaker 2:I have, and then it turned out that they were beating their mom up. You know, like I obviously didn't find that out until like years later, well, like two years later, um. So then it's like okay, well, if you're willing to beat up the woman who gave birth to you, literally brought you into this world, like what am I expecting? Yeah, to look forward to yeah, so I think I think it is a red flag, but it also depends.
Speaker 2:Yeah, it depends on the upbringing, because this is was a mom that was like, really abusive to other children. Are we gonna be like, oh no, but it's your mom, you have to respect her. And also depends on the situation. But yeah, like I think 90% of the time is, it is a red flag.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it goes back to the first question, like how they treat people. Mm-hmm, how they treat people.
Speaker 2:Yeah, yeah, girl, because, well, remember my dad, like obviously we didn't like him, but uh, like the way he would treat my mom was horrible. And then when we would go to church or when we were good friend gatherings or whatever, people would be like, oh my God, like your dad is like such a security, like da da, da. And when I would call people what my dad had done, like everybody was like, no really, but he seemed so nice, you know. So some people are also fucking psychos. They're charming in the street. Yeah, it's a facade, mm-hmm, also a red flag.
Speaker 1:Everything's a red flag.
Speaker 2:Yeah To me, girl, I see now. Now I see the world in red, Also red.
Speaker 1:Yeah, okay, that's a. That's a. I don't see him. I'm like I'm blind or something, or a color blind. I see them as yellow lights, I don't know, but I don't know. I feel like if in a different person I can see them and myself I can't see them. So is that a thing, like when you're in a relationship, or like, uh-huh, I said go to therapy?
Speaker 2:No, sorry, but finish your question. When you're in a relationship I don't know, I lost my thought. I'm sorry. I think where you were going is when you're in a relationship. Are you blind to the red flag? You just not want to see them.
Speaker 2:I think it's that you're either so in love or so infatuated with this person that you make excuses for them and you see the things that they do and you're like, oh, but maybe this is the reason why they did it. So, like you justify everything for them, yeah, like defining them. And so when you're out of because usually you're looking, you're looking at your your relationship was like, oh, it's me, me and him, but like people that are outside, which is when you see them because you're outside of that bubble that's when you start to be like, oh shit, that really was a red light. You know, which is what happened to me when I broke up with homeboy, because there was a lot of things that I was. I thought they were entirely normal and then, like, with time, I was like, oh shit, like I really did that, you know.
Speaker 2:So, I don't think you're blind, I think you're just. I think you just haven't. Well, let me, let me think of a way to phrase this and to not be hold on, because I'm not going to say that you haven't been hurt enough, because that's not, that's not the way to put it, you know, like yeah.
Speaker 2:I think it hasn't been something so major and that's why, like, maybe you kind of like let it go or like ignore it, but I think, like be down in your heart, you know it's there and eventually you will see.
Speaker 1:But then again, if you haven't seen them in the past, Right, I was going to say, like girl, like I feel like now I know all the bad times, I wouldn't call him a block, but I just feel like there's just individuals that are just bad, like the devil was just bad, the devil was in fact the devil, yeah, and yeah, he worked again as a whole episode just for himself, but we don't want to give him too much credit and but yeah, he was fucked up.
Speaker 2:Dude, I think there's just men that are like narcissistic that's another thing like men who are really narcissistic, like yeah, like best to see her clear of them, like the, the hubby dude that I was dating, I don't know. We haven't, we haven't come up with a nickname for him, but that dude, like he was like oh, I think I'm a great catch Dude, starting with the fact that, like he swears that he's five seven, this fucker is like five, one Like.
Speaker 1:But OK, I was talking about that with my friend yesterday about the height. How men lie about their height Is that?
Speaker 2:a red flag. That is a red flag because what? What is the point? There's a guy on Instagram.
Speaker 1:Is it the key? That's all I can see. That's an, that's an insecurity. I don't know how that can be a red flag.
Speaker 2:But OK. So I think the lying part in the gas lighting you into, into making you think that they really are the height that they say they are, is the red flag. But like the bigger red, like there would be the insecurity behind their life. Because why are you insecure, like, why can't you just be a shorting, you know? But there's this guy on Instagram that he literally walks around gyms in like Venice Boulevard with a oh my God, come say some metro in English. Yes, I like this guy. He walks around Venice Boulevard, or like anywhere really, with this measuring tape and he asks guys, hey, like dude, what's your height? And some guys are like, oh, I'm six foot. And then he's like, would you mind if I measure you?
Speaker 1:Yeah, no, no, no, no bro.
Speaker 2:Like I sent him to you, right? I find it so funny because it's like real time seeing men in their security Instead of English. Yeah, I mean, there's so many red lights so like if I tell you name five red flags right now, you couldn't.
Speaker 1:I'd probably just say the ones that we just mentioned. I'm the walking red flag. I am no girl. I think you just said that. Well, I'm just a driver and I see everything in yellow.
Speaker 2:Yellow means go.
Speaker 1:That's scary.
Speaker 2:Oh, my goodness. Well, I'll name a few that I think are like, aside from the ones that we sent.
Speaker 1:You warned the people because I'm just like, yeah, I'll believe whatever you tell me. Okay.
Speaker 2:So I think love bombing is a big red light, making an incredible amount of land in a short period of time. Red flag is that just means that. So, like I always say, do not make plans with the person you're dating for twice as long as you've been dating. So if they go over the, let's just say that you've been dating for two months and they go to like the six month mark, seven month mark, with like plans to do whatever the fuck. Just know that she's not going to happen. What else, girl, now I tend to think like I think, being on the phone while they are with you. So put it as an example I'm dating someone, right, and we don't see each other. Like I don't know. Let's just say that we don't see each other for like the whole week and then like Saturday, or something Like me.
Speaker 1:I'll say it I know I'll say it.
Speaker 2:Oh your whole ass name is walking red flag. Just kidding, I'm just kidding. I was actually thinking about my ex, but I didn't want to mention him again. So but like, okay, I'm just going to say my experience, right, him and I were in a long distance relationship. We wouldn't see each other for months at a time, like one time we literally went 10 months without seeing each other. And then I get there and I get a little bit of like, oh my God, I'm so happy I'm here. And then, like, just sitting on the couch on his phone, like scrolling on TikTok, like no girl, that was a big, big red flag because, like you haven't seen me in 10 months. You should want to be all over. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1:Yeah, that to me is like just prioritizing, like if you don't prioritize me, then what are we?
Speaker 2:I don't know.
Speaker 1:You're red flag. Yeah, I found one, yeah.
Speaker 2:Men who don't own any, any bedsheets, or like they just sleep on their mattress without bedsheets Fucking disgusting dude, and I think that just goes into preference. Do women do it too?
Speaker 1:I don't know, I don't know, I haven't, that's my personal.
Speaker 2:I can, I could say one word and you'll be like oh, you know what, never mind. Do you want me to say it?
Speaker 1:Oh yeah, please.
Speaker 2:Rose grins girl.
Speaker 1:Oh, but that's not a female, that's a man. I was like, yeah, men do that all the time.
Speaker 2:Oh, I heard you, I I heard that you know, like you haven't met.
Speaker 1:No, I don't know a woman that does that. I said oh, oh yeah, I don't know anyone that sleeps with this or on their bare mattress, but oh it's just gross. I was like, oh, who's she gonna rat out right now?
Speaker 2:Oh, actually actually I can write it out Someone else, but um, I'll tell you in private.
Speaker 1:All right, I'll be looking forward to that.
Speaker 2:That's for me and you and you and me, um, but yeah, those were the comments we got. Those are the red flags of the week. I guess, if we think a more We'll post them. And then do you want to tell us what our next episode is going to be about?
Speaker 1:Yes, on the next episode we're going to talk about how dating apps where are. Where is everybody at everywhere? We want to know, we want to tea for the single people out there, like, where should they be at? And for those that are in a relationship. What have you heard your friends say about the dating world? Because to me, the market is not great, not.
Speaker 2:Ladies, man, I can't concur with that. I hear horror stories, Horror stories and horror stories.
Speaker 1:Horror stories, but yeah, but also I feel like, as we're like you know, as time is going by, I feel like yeah, the dating world is just accessible. There's shit going on in there, you know. You're gonna have to deal with baby mama or baby daddy drama, or you're gonna have to hear about Some crazy divorce at this age.
Speaker 2:It's like yeah, no, you know it's crazy, because when I was in my 20s I was like 30s, but I'll be married by then. I don't have to worry about it. And look at me now.
Speaker 1:You had high hope.
Speaker 2:I had very high hope. I used to think that I was gonna have my first kid at 30 years old.
Speaker 1:Well, I thought I was gonna have my first kid at 20, but here we are, at 21. I was like, yay didn't happen. 22, I'm like it's not gonna happen and I'm happy about that. And now I'm like why didn't it happen?
Speaker 2:and girl for real. But All right, uh, we left, uh, we left. Oh well, by the time this comes out, it's gonna be gone. We're just gonna do it again the poll, poll, the survey, yeah on instagram. Oh, what dating is? It's a fair and uh announcement we're finally on apple podcast, if you guys don't know, oh, Baby.
Speaker 1:So, fucking funny. No, mariah is a child sponsor of the android world. I'm the representative of the basics of the apple because I don't know how to work technology, so I have to be here.
Speaker 2:Right.
Speaker 1:Oh.
Speaker 2:If they're gonna, if they're gonna sponsor, a shout out to, but if not, samsung, you're my guy. Fuck your blue bubbles. I hate you guys because you would always take me out of the group chat because of my music. That's why I talk to you on every other app but message and I've. I've been scarred by that. That's another red flag girl. Okay, let me just tell you, because you have no idea, the amount of people that have stopped talking to me, literally because I have an android which is because it it is so stupid.
Speaker 2:So my camera is fucking better than yours, bitch.
Speaker 1:You're a red flag.
Speaker 2:You're a red flag.
Speaker 1:I found a red flag Anyway. I swear we should have been siamese twins. I don't know how this happened.
Speaker 2:No, because then I would like apple let down. You need to know, all right. Oh yeah, that's a bit All right. Well, this is a good episode, babe, if we get a teacher about red flags, I'm still learning.
Speaker 1:I'm gonna go to therapy. I'm two, oh my god. So what did we learn today? Red flags go to therapy.
Speaker 2:Horror stories and horror stories. Right of the data.
Speaker 1:They're different. They're both out there.
Speaker 2:Both important. All right everyone.
Speaker 1:It's time to say goodbye, but not for long. We'll see you next week. Have a good day or night.
Speaker 2:Send us your story.
Speaker 1:Bye, bye.
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