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• The C.H.O.D.E.S. Podcast • Season 1 • Episode 18

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Ever wondered how you can juggle everyday life's hustle while prepping for a dream trip? We kick off this mini Q&A episode sharing our rollercoaster of emotions—excitement and anxieties alike—Leslie gets ready for an upcoming adventure to Hawaii, with plans to visit the historic Pearl Harbor. We open up about the everyday challenges of commuting to a new job plus, we dive into the world of social media strategy, offering invaluable tips from former OnlyFans workers on leveraging Twitter to launch new ventures.

Navigating criticism isn't easy, but we share our approach to handling feedback and keeping our confidence intact. Growing up in Spanish-speaking households adds its own quirks to our communication, which we discuss candidly. We also talk about how we're stepping up our podcast game based on constructive criticism from you, our listeners. Job hunting on your mind? We've got practical advice on recognizing when it’s time to move on, securing a new role before quitting, and maintaining professionalism throughout the transition. To wrap it up, we share some fun anecdotes about recent dreams and upcoming tattoo plans, ensuring you leave with a smile. Tune in for a heartwarming, humorous, and insightful episode!

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Speaker 1:

welcome to the chodes mini episode. Welcome to the q a 2, because y'all have questions, we have, we have some answers not all the answers. Yes no, this is true. So I'm just gonna say that this is from the last time I did they're not gonna lie and I just never opened the questions because I was like I'd rather. So I'm just going to say that this is from the last time I did the Not Gonna Lie, and I just never opened the questions because I was like I'd rather, both of us be surprised by them.

Speaker 1:

So this is going to be news to you and me. Oh, mm-hmm, bring it on. So the first one we got says how are you today?

Speaker 2:

Hmm, Such a great question. Yes, how are you today? Such a great question. Do you want this short message? Hi, I'm sweating. I'm trying to get my stuff together for my trip. Oh, hey that's true.

Speaker 1:

When are you leaving?

Speaker 2:

I'm leaving on the 4th of July. I keep wanting to say 4th of January, but it's 4th of July, independence Day, you're like the D-Day.

Speaker 1:

You're traveling on D-Day. Yeah, I know right, that's crazy. What time are you traveling In the morning? Oh damn, imagine seeing the fireworks from up in the plane. No, hell, no.

Speaker 2:

That's one of the things that scared me.

Speaker 1:

I was like, what if a firework hits the plane? My stupidity, it goes that high.

Speaker 2:

But I would love seeing the fireworks from like the plane. I'm gonna do that. I'm gonna book a christmas flight just to do that, just to do well, I I figured like no one wants to travel on the day because they want to be at their destination already. So I was like, oh, and I'll get it off because it's a holiday. So, and it was a little cheaper and yeah, I'm going in the morning.

Speaker 2:

Go see my mans. I'm so excited for you. I'll be kind of like traveling back in time, because Hawaii is three hours behind, I guess. Yeah, that's how you say it.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, so like right now it's like what 11 am? Yeah, basically Nice so.

Speaker 2:

I would get like it's kind of like going to Guatemala girl. It's like four or five hours.

Speaker 1:

So by the time, I get to, can't move yeah.

Speaker 2:

I thought it was like a two-hour flight. No, so by the time like I get there it's gonna be noon, but here it would be like three oh, okay, so you get a little time back.

Speaker 1:

That's good. I hope you enjoy it. Have a lot of fun, have a lot of uh, whatever hawaiian alcoholic drinks they have you've been there before. Right my ties, yeah well, yeah, that's nice, I'm very happy yeah, we already have plans. We're gonna go to pearl harbor and then that's on north shore huh, I'm like that's where that's at girl, is that a little way?

Speaker 2:

you're like this is, this is how you're going to get educated. I'll bring you a souvenir. How about that?

Speaker 1:

Oh my God, yeah, please do.

Speaker 2:

Maybe a man's too.

Speaker 1:

That. Nah, please, I don't need no fucking paper. Well, that's good. I never knew that, but now I know.

Speaker 2:

See this podcast is educational after all. Yeah, yeah, for the people who didn't know now you know.

Speaker 1:

Now you know. Oh, my god, I'm gonna answer. How am I doing today? Same hot and sweaty. I'm freaking tired because of what we said. The commuting is kicking my ass, other than that, I'm just trying to stay afloat, y'all. I went to see a job for to be a waitress, like at nighttime at a club, and the guy's like this is not like a restaurant. I'm like I know he's like this is like a club, but like drunk guys, and I was like okay, and he's like you have to know how to deal with drunk eyes and I'm like sir, you kind sir, like don't, don't you worry about me, I know what I'm getting myself like I've dealt with drunk men a lot yeah.

Speaker 1:

And then my mom's like are you sure you know? And I'm like what are they gonna do? Try to grab my ass. That happens already on the bus. So what's the difference? But yeah, that's how we're doing.

Speaker 2:

Dang, I didn't know you were trying to get another job.

Speaker 1:

That sounds fun.

Speaker 2:

Well, yeah, because the struggle is real. Girl, I understand I kind of want to sell my ass too, but here we are and I've been thinking about doing what our lovely cousins did with the bartending. But I actually want to become a bartender because that would be fun. You're like, not have it just for show, not just have it for a fucking, for my pleasure to be an alcoholic, but you know um, girl, you should do it.

Speaker 1:

I mean, look, anything with education, I think, is an investment on yourself. I don't. I don't do it because the classes are usually monday, no tuesday, thursdays, at night, or whatever. I don't. I don't do it because the classes are usually monday, no tuesday, thursdays, at night, or whatever. I don't, I don't have time. Um, I haven't found anything on weekends, but I was actually looking into it. I'm sure in your area there's more options, but that would be good. You already like that, so it won't be as hard. Yeah, but yeah, yeah, girl, because the business of selling fit pictures is not taking off, girl.

Speaker 2:

On that note, girl. So I've been doing some, like you know, getting to know people and asking questions and the ones that are ex-OnlyFans workers.

Speaker 2:

They all told me that they all got started on TikTok. But TikTok, back in the day, we're talking like circa 2016 to 2019 because tiktok was, you know, easier to advertise yourself and create accounts where you wouldn't have links to your family or whatever. But now it's some another ordeal, so it's harder to promote yourself on tiktok, but that's how a lot of them got started. But I was just so curious, you know, because, like I'm saying, the struggle is real. Y'all, like I don't want to, you know, go back into the sugar daddy days, but no dude sugar daddy nowadays.

Speaker 1:

Oh, let me tell you so. Okay, look, listen for educational purposes on this podcast. I went and I got an account of millionaire matchcom because I saw like a bunch of TikTok videos of people saying like, oh, I found this guy on Millionaire Match and I'm like, ok, let me see Girl, tell me why. I see guys there that I used to see on Tinder. Well, I saw, because I deleted the account already because I'm like this is fucking annoying. But there was guys there that I saw on Tinder and I'm like like, if you're a millionaire, you're a millionaire match. What the fuck are you doing on tinder? You know what I mean? Like it just doesn't add up. So these guys fucking scamming as well. But when?

Speaker 2:

when are men not scamming us?

Speaker 1:

let's um, but okay. Our next question is are you seeing tiktok? No, sorry, edit that out I said tiktok yeah damn it, it's twitter, so I need to edit all that no, you just, we just need to do a corrections corner next episode. That's good, because then we have content for no, no, I'll just redo that real quick okay because that was bad.

Speaker 2:

okay, all right. So for my personal research, I was getting to know people and I was asking about you know only fans, because they're ex only fans workers, and they said that they promoted themselves a lot on twitter because twitter back then was easy to you know, post your stuff and everything like that. So that was like during the 2016 to 2019 years, but now it's hard to like post things on Twitter and now it's all on TikTok.

Speaker 1:

I think both Twitter and TikTok are are freaking not the business anymore because twitter, since it's not twitter anymore, it's x, it's owned by this fucker, ellen musk, or whatever. Yeah, elon musk, if he does fucking toilet paper looking like man, he changed the whole, the whole thing. Like a lot of guys that had only fans would promote themselves there, like that guy that I follow on instagram. Remember that thick boy that I like, um, he used to promote himself a lot there because he's there um, but yeah he stopped.

Speaker 1:

He stopped because of, like the whole changes and stuff. I don't know. I think it's getting harder now, but I mean only fans. I think it's still a super lucrative business. You just need to like if you're coupled, you need to have a partner that is down to do it for you. If you're not coupled, you have to know that that's gonna attract a certain type of person. You know and it's scary because I read somewhere sometime last year that some girl had like her biggest. Her biggest client was her dad. Oh shit, yeah.

Speaker 1:

So can you imagine that shit? Like we don't know exactly who listens to our podcast. We could see like the area they're at and stuff. But like, imagine like you're over here fucking digging yourself lot of people. That's the reason that they don't do it. Or some people might, but they would do it with like masks and stuff, but still the promoting of yourself is still kind of like fuck. How do I do this without people seeing me? You know, I cannot do that shit for the life of me because I would have to put an ass size sticker on my ass to cover.

Speaker 1:

To cover your what your birthmark yeah, so anyway, going back to online businesses, I also, for educational purposes on this podcast, downloaded millionaire match and girl. No, the guys I would see. There are guys that I had seen on tinder, and so I'm like the fuck, are you doing on tinder? If you're on my new millionaire match, you know what?

Speaker 1:

I mean like it just doesn't add up scamming, scamming all the way, but I deleted the app because there was nothing like honestly dating apps, sugar daddy websites everything is trash right now. I bet. I bet I saw some guy's profile that he's like I want a girl who's under 130 pounds, she's 47 to 51, she is a housewife and she doesn't eat carbs. And, like the, the freaking description of the girl that he wanted was like sir, do you want a wife or do you want a daughter? Because there's a difference I don't know.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, there's a lot of twisted people out there.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, okay. So next question Are you seeing anyone, leslie, are you seeing anyone? I am, I am how long have you been with your man since?

Speaker 2:

Shit. No, I've been with my boyfriend for a year and some change, that's cool.

Speaker 1:

I'm trying to do the math right now. Hold on like four months, a year and four months five months? Oh, okay, that was a little close, a year and five months but it already feels like two years.

Speaker 2:

Well, you make it seem so incriminating.

Speaker 1:

I just I meant it in a good way. I meant it in a good way. I was gonna ask is that a good or a bad thing? Huh, I was gonna ask is that a good or a bad thing? But no, it's usually good, because when you feel like you've been with someone for longer, it's like I'm not seeing anyone me myself personally right now, girl. So I I'm gonna be honest with you. I opened facebook dating again, but I put on my profile like I'm looking for gym buddies because I want somebody to go to the gym with. Like I get annoyed going by myself and the people that are hitting me up are ages 21 to 27.

Speaker 1:

And I'm like and the ones that are you know what, I used to be against it, but for personal reasons I am now all for it. But no, and the guys that are my age, girl, these are guys that I'm like what made you, sir, think that you could send me that message? Like I just, I don't know, girl, like I might be, like okay, I know that I'm not the last Coca-Cola at the dessert, you know what I mean, Like, but I have a certain we're not.

Speaker 2:

We're not like ugly.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, Like I have a certain standard for myself and I'm like why would you think that you have a chance with me, bro?

Speaker 2:

Like really, yeah, I know the amount of confidence these boys have.

Speaker 1:

Huh, If we had fucking 5% of the confidence men and their audacity have, I swear the world would be a different place. But yeah, short story long, I'm not seeing anyone right now. There's people that are coming back from the dead, but we don't want, we don't, we don't want to go back to anything that we've already you know our repeats yeah, okay. So next question how do you guys navigate criticism?

Speaker 2:

my head is like calculating the question I know um, what does that, what does that mean?

Speaker 1:

how do you navigate, like, how do we deal with it? I guess honestly, can I just say I'm answer, I have to use fancy words, big words.

Speaker 2:

Did you not hear the?

Speaker 1:

last episode. We're gonna need fucking a dictionary open here. I'll answer that one on my end. Uh, for the most part, I'm the one that looks and listens. Well, looks at the, the instagram page, but honestly, y'all are not engaging enough to for us to get criticism. You know what I mean. Like we don't really get. We haven't gotten any crazy feedback. That is bad. Um, as much as we've gotten is like the guys that messaged us last time saying, like how are you going to find a man like that, or who's going to want you like that or like whatever. But that is not new to me because of the way I am. I've always faced that, you know, and I just feel like the people that are going to be in our life are going to like us and be with us for who we are. So that's just kind of how I manage it, but we haven't gotten anything. Like you fat fucks, or like I've seen comments on other people's stuff.

Speaker 2:

You know what I mean, damn Maria, damn Maria, were you holding that in?

Speaker 1:

No, look, there's this, like Hispanic girls that I follow on TikTok and like they're chubby girls. You know they're funny, they're funny. They're like out there like us. Their podcast is more like Spanglish, but I've seen the comments and that's literally what the fuck they comment on their shit, like, oh, like why you thought that I was talking like that or some shit like that, you know, like we haven't. So when did time?

Speaker 2:

come. I mean serious, I haven't gotten anything on my end. No, yeah, I guess how I navigate through negative comments I don't know I haven't gotten any and like the comments that I receive in person and like the ones that I see on the on the instagram, it's nothing bad. It's basically like encouraging to do better, to more, to get better at this.

Speaker 1:

We've just been told that we're illiterate.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, just that we're illiterate and we're dumb. No, just kidding, but no, we're entertaining. I guess eventually, if we do get more listeners and people tell us more things, we'll figure it out. But it's a conversation that you and I have had already, where it's like are we ready to endure negative comments Because we're going to get some kind of backlash? So we were kind of expecting it and we're kind of glad that we haven't gotten it yet.

Speaker 1:

Because I know it's going to happen, but when?

Speaker 2:

we get it. I mean, maria and I, we I were pretty like we're strong and not 100 confident on my end, but I mean we're confident enough to like. Well, your words are just words and your comment is your comment. Your opinion is your opinion and I have my opinion about myself and what we're doing. So and as far as, like, the things that we tell you guys about ourselves the past, the past, like we can't change it those are things that happen. Those are things that we tell you guys about ourselves the past, the past, like we can't change it those are things that happen. Those are things that define us and you know, everyone has a respectful opinion about us and we have a respectful opinion about ourselves and how we care about them and about them.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I mean, I don't. As of right now, there's nothing that phases us like, oh okay, you're gonna call me a slut. Fine, what's new cool? You know other than that? Like, you wanna call us illiterate, that's fine. We fucking are like there are words that we don't know.

Speaker 2:

Like shit with your snobby ass, we come from a Spanish speaking household and we had to learn a language which is English, and I mean English is our second language.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, my friend asked me yesterday he's like I don't understand how he only speaks Spanish. Right, he just got here. He's like he only speaks Spanish. So he's like I don't understand why you guys mix in Spanish words with English words and I was like, honestly, dude, like my brain is constantly thinking in both languages, like I have to be translating everything constantly on both languages because, depending on who I'm talking to and sometimes I don't remember the word in Spanish, I remember in English. So your brain fills in the gaps, like when you're like multilingual or whatever, your brain fills in the gaps on what you're trying to say. So people who haven't experienced that, like they wouldn't really know, but we're telling you guys. So, just, you know, bear with us, be cool to us, understand us, gift us a dictionary.

Speaker 2:

Mm-hmm.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, that's how. That's how we deal with that. Okay, this one might be constructive criticism. They say you should be more active on your official podcast page.

Speaker 2:

We should, we should, we should and we know that we take full accountability on that. We know we should. It's just me personally I don't to do to post on the podcast page, but I forget, and by the time I remember it's too late because if I post it, it's not going to get seen and it's like there's a lot of things. Okay, you have to figure out what time you're going to post, because that's when people are going to be actively online and you're going to get most response. And it's going to be actively online and you're going to get most response and it's going to be on the feeds. But if you post later on or too early, it's not going to be in the feeds. Something else is going to overpower it and you're not going to see it. So, yeah, we should be more active. Sorry, but again, when we put stuff, and we want your guys' feedback.

Speaker 1:

We don't get as much feedback and, but we appreciate we get all the, we get all the views. We don't get any likes, comments like the follows have just like stopped. Maybe also it's our fault because we don't plug in our social media as much, but like I'm on facebook groups that I'm constantly promoting the podcast or, uh, I be posting on my story like the podcast story, and like no one is engaging, you know, and like I know that we're just barely starting. Sometimes it gets frustrating and like I'm the type of person that I fixate on certain things a lot and sometimes I'm like all I need to do is post, like it doesn't matter what the fuck I post, I just need to post. But also I feel like a lot of the followers that we have are on your side more than my side, and so sometimes I feel like if I post something on my end, for example, like on my podcast page um, not my podcast page, my personal page I'm like okay, I would want to post this on the I don't know.

Speaker 1:

Like like the one time that I posted something about the paris stairs, right, because it was related to our episode, um, I didn't post it on my personal page. I posted on the podcast page and things like that I'll do. But also, like my day to day, I'd be posting on my personal page all the fucking time, like I post almost every day. Right, it doesn't matter what I post, I just I be posting, but I'm like, would leslie's friends want to be seeing what I'm doing? I, I don't know, you know, because again we don't get feedback, we don't get anything. So I sometimes I'm like, oh, they're, I don't know, like I just get in my head.

Speaker 2:

You know, I'll tell you this. You have, uh, one of my friends that follow that used to follow your story times. If you, I'm sure if you put posts a lot you'll get, if you post those story times, those will get a lot more attention oh well, I'm doing them on snapchat again, like the ones where I got lost in the bus.

Speaker 1:

I did on snapchat. I was thinking about it, I was like, but now maybe you should do it do like a facebook.

Speaker 2:

What do you call it instagram? Live on the podcast page and post your adventures on the bus so people can see.

Speaker 1:

I know, yeah, I thought about it. I was like I'm gonna post this story, but we hadn't talked about my new job yet, so I was like, would it make sense? You know what I mean. But now that we did, maybe I'll do it. But yeah, that's why we're not active on the social page. We are and also look, it's easier for other podcasts to be active because they are video podcasts right like they they have content and they can get snippets of the episode.

Speaker 1:

Ours is mostly audio and the things and the people that we talk about, sometimes, like the one in europe, we posted the reel. I posted the reel of my trip to guatemala, so those are things we can post but, like when we're talking about people people, I know you want to see faces and other things, all the tea, but we need to get, you know, consent from these people and it's just a lot of things and we're trying to we're trying to do this make it fun and also professionally, and not have anyone sue us or come at us.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I was gonna say not get sued for the most, not get canceled either.

Speaker 2:

You know we're trying to be making all inclusive. We're just trying to make this fun, yeah everyone.

Speaker 1:

So that's that next question do you ever ask for help? Y'all got deep with this shit.

Speaker 2:

Do we have? Do we ask for help? Yeah, For this Is that I know.

Speaker 1:

Like in what way do you mean it? Like in our personal life and for the podcast? Hmm, how do we answer this? I'm used to doing everything myself, like I'm used to being the caretaker for most people and in most scenarios, I try to figure shit out by myself. If I absolutely can't, that's when I'll go to someone and be like hey, I have this, can you help me out? Or whatever. Usually I'll go to my best friend, like when it comes to the episodes, like the naming of the episodes, I go to Leslie For content. Like I'll ask my friends like a like what do you think we can talk about? In my personal life, more times than not, I will not ask for help, like, for example, the two, three times that I got lost on the bus. On the bus, I'm sure I could have called somebody and be like hey, pick me up, but I was not gonna do that, sorry I think me and you are very the same in that sense, Like we don't rely on others.

Speaker 2:

So, it's hard for us to ask for help when we do, and when we do ask, we kind of get discouraged if it's like a no, because we're like, oh, okay, yeah, like I already fucking knew that.

Speaker 1:

Where the fuck did I go out of my way to ask you?

Speaker 2:

This is why, I don't ask, and this is, I think, for the most part, we're independent. But when it comes to the podcast, like you said, yeah, when it comes to themes, me and you try to come up with ideas and if we don't, we ask around. We ask our listeners.

Speaker 1:

We ask our friends what they think, but I think you answered that, because I'm the same as you with that. Yeah, same, yeah, we're very similar. If you guys haven't noticed. The next question noticed noticed.

Speaker 2:

The next question why? Why would you want to know this? Do you snore?

Speaker 1:

yes, I'm sorry, I do. I'm a snorer girl. My ex-boyfriend used to say that I was a snorer and and that I would fart in my sleep and I'm like, what do you want me to do? Like, how do you control that girl?

Speaker 2:

like you know, yeah, why would you guys want to know that? But yeah, we, I mean, I snore. I have different types of snores oh, and I'm tired. I sound like a depending yeah depending on the yeah, the level of tiredness. Yeah, because sometimes I'll be on the phone with my boyfriend and I'll be falling asleep. I my snores wake me up oh my god, yeah my snores wake me up, and then I'll be like, oh, he's like.

Speaker 1:

You know what wakes me up I don't know why I drew a lot when I'm sleeping and this is like tmi. You guys are fucking, I know. I'm like I'm blinking right now. I'm like, no, but like sometimes, when I like, when I'm in a deep, deep, heavy sleep where I'm so tired, like I'd be, I'd be drooling and so like, because my pillow is wet, like my face is wet, and I'm like, and I get disgusted by myself because I'm like what the fuck? I don't know what, I don't know how to fix it, but anyway, yeah we do so.

Speaker 2:

Maria snores and drools it's, you know what.

Speaker 1:

It's part of the human fucking nature. Okay, like yeah, I want to know who doesn't. Yeah right, if they say they don't fucking liars and you are not to be trusted anyway. The next question is what did you dream about last night?

Speaker 2:

um, last night well, it was the last night that I had, probably the night before, I just had a dream that I kept, uh, getting into arguments with my roommates. Oh yeah, that's what's been on my mind, but lately I haven't had, like you know how I used to have a lot of dreams and whatnot. Yeah, lately it's just been whatever's going on.

Speaker 1:

That's the last dream I have. In my dreams I had a plan. What did I dream about? So recently I've been having how do you call them?

Speaker 2:

you've been having what dreams bitch?

Speaker 1:

I've been having like sexy dreams, bitch, and the worst part is that it's about the last person I hooked up with, who are, who we are not going to talk about, uh, and I'm like fucking amen, because it's not an obsession, okay, because I know people are gonna go there with that, but it's not. It's just like I think it was so good that I'm still like, fuck I, I should have gotten more of that. You know what I mean.

Speaker 2:

So so she's dick obsessed.

Speaker 1:

Bitch, I knew you were going to say that.

Speaker 2:

No, if you know, you know.

Speaker 1:

I hate you, but anyway, that's what I've been dreaming about you love me.

Speaker 2:

You accept me, so I have to.

Speaker 1:

So I, I have to. I'm just kidding, um, but yeah, that's that's kind of what I've been dreaming about, um, basically every night, dude, I think it's just because, like, we talk and he sends me videos and I'm like fuck, I remember sitting on that, so damn anyway. Um, let's go on to the next question. It says how do you quit a job?

Speaker 1:

oh, that's perfect for you right now I know, um, someone who just recently did it you just fucking quit, dude like, depending on your reasoning right? Because for me, for example, I loved my previous company to a point, but then things started changing with management, things started going south and there's a lot of things that started happening that I just, I just couldn't deal with it anymore. I was working a lot, I was constantly mad, and the part that would get me is that I would snap at literally anyone but mostly my mom. And so in this economy I will say do not quit your job if you don't have something else lined up, because no one can afford to live off, I don't know, disability checks or whatever because, it's not the same right.

Speaker 1:

And so make your plan. Find another job, start applying, start going on interviews. Use your PTO to go to the interviews. Honestly, look, use your PTO in general. Don't fucking keep that shit there, because when you quit or you get fired, they don't give a fuck about you. So use your time, use your vacation time. And then, once you go through all that process for me, I found out that I got the job that I have now, before leaving to my trip.

Speaker 1:

I didn't really plan it that way, it just kind of happened that way. The universe knew what I needed, and so when I got back, I still I already had a start date at the other place, so I didn't even give my two week notice. I just gave them like a week and two days, seven days basically. And I was like I called my supervisor and I told her hey, I want to talk to you. And I told her, like before I emailed my resignation letter, I just wanted to know, I just wanted you to know that it's coming, and we talked about it. She asked me why. You know like, if you want to tell them, you can. If you don't, you just be like my bitches, I'm out. No, don't, don't be like that. Always, always, try to always try to keep a good standing in your company. But yeah, for the most, part.

Speaker 1:

Don't close any doors that could be remaining open for you yeah, but you know, be professional, write your resignation letter in a generalized way. If you want to cater it to your current company, you can. For the most part, people just use a letter they used before but yeah, yeah, like I your name, I your name, mm-hmm the name of the company Signing from this company. Do not use like to whom, yeah, do not use the to whom it may concern, because you know who it concerns.

Speaker 1:

So address it to that person specifically and then just be like I've enjoyed working for this company and this amazing group of people and this amazing group of people and I am happy to um. What is it that I put? Um to train any, any person that's gonna replace me or whatever. You know, most times they will tell you no, but just offer to be nice. Or if you don't want to do that, then don't. But yeah, that's how you quit a job. Hope that was helpful. If you need a template, template, let us know. We got you. How did you quit your job? The other one?

Speaker 2:

The office one, the nursing home, mm-hmm, the same way. Well, I knew I wanted to quit because it was not for me, so I was already low-key, looking for my replacement and kind of training them. The person that took over for me was very helpful and she was always. She was kind of like my little mini assistant without having the title. So I knew that this was for her, this was her career path. So in a way I was kind of like showing her what I was doing without telling her. And then once I like thought about it real good and saw my opportunity to go back to my other job.

Speaker 2:

Um, I took that offer and I went back and I did the letter of resignation. I put my two weeks and I also offered to train whoever and that if they needed some, I guess, recognition of someone that could take my spot, I offered this person and you know they had their eye on some other people too and they ended up taking my recommendation and they took her and she took over my job and she's way better at it and she's good and I helped her get her pay because I knew what they were going to offer her. And I told her no, you have all the credentials you need to ask for this, and she's good, but that's how I quit.

Speaker 1:

That's good. I didn't know that. That's really nice of you.

Speaker 2:

Mm-hmm. Well, yeah, it wasn't for me. The medical field is not for me, it's not for everyone. It's not for everyone. Yeah, exactly, I'm one of those people who I have seen the ins and out of it and I'm like I appreciate the people who actually go into it to actually help other people. I don't appreciate the people just going to it thinking that there's money involved in there.

Speaker 1:

That's what I was going to say. Like there's nurses that should not be fucking working as nurses.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, I feel like we said, it's not for everyone and I feel like it's. It's within people who actually want to help and care for others.

Speaker 1:

That's cool. Well, there you go. You have two options. You can take either one, but, like we said, you have something lined up. Oh, this one is perfect for you right now. It's like they knew. It's like they knew we needed. It says you should get a tattoo, you should get a tattoo, that's all it says. You should get a tattoo to who? To me, or you? Well, I don't know, but this is, this is us dude.

Speaker 2:

So yeah, because you already have tattoos. That's all my to who?

Speaker 1:

I already have tattoos, but I can get more.

Speaker 2:

I get yeah, but that's all I was like, why is?

Speaker 1:

it for me Because of what you told me. Oh yeah.

Speaker 2:

Well, I'm getting a tattoo. I'm thinking about getting a tattoo. I'm saying thinking because it's not on me yet, but when it's on me it's like, oh, there's no more thinking and so far I picked the spot already. I haven't picked exactly what I want. If I do get one, I'm going to ask the artist to come up with their own little thing. I don't want to just copy someone else's ideas or someone else's already existing tattoo.

Speaker 2:

So I want something custom, but I do want something with a shark in it. So it has to either have a shark fin or shark in it, and it's gonna be on my right ankle oh okay, that's a good spot.

Speaker 1:

That's just gonna hurt. Well, you have a high peritolerance, but there's one of the spots that hurts the most, just if I I know I'm planning on fixing my tree, because I feel like my tree looks a little stupid the top part so I want to add to it and I want to get another one, but I don't know. I'm going to wait.

Speaker 2:

You have two tattoos right or three.

Speaker 1:

I have two. I would have three if I would have gotten the boob done, the under boob tattoo. But because my boobs are too big, there was just no way, because any which way the guy was drawing it, the the boob would cover it. See, everybody wants big boobs. Until these problems arise. But yeah, I already have an idea of the next one. I want mine's, a more geometrical type of looking ones, but we'll see. We'll see when the time gets there. For now, no, but yeah, okay. The next one says have you ever given a hickey? What are you guys in high school, bro? Fuck. Yes, I've gotten some too.

Speaker 2:

No, I was going to say I've gotten some hickeys I have not given, or I think I don't know if I've given one or not, but I don't think I have. Well, I've had them. You've never given a hickey, bro? I don't think so. I don't think I did it on purpose.

Speaker 1:

I've given several in my time. It's not something that I like or enjoy doing, you could say, but because it's dangerous. Dangerous. Did you know that you could possibly die from a hickey? Because, especially in the area where you, where you do it, your vein could pop inside or whatever. So it's, it's kind of dangerous. This is. It's not as appealing as most people think it is, but you know, if that's your thing, by all means damn that I saw some people almost on the brink of death yeah, for real.

Speaker 2:

Because some people got in like massive ones and I'm like what the hell did you get attacked by a chupacabra or what the hell?

Speaker 1:

I don't understand how, like girl I've given some and I can never make them like super huge, like because because I'm in my head I'm always like fuck what if this kills this person? You know, like because again I go back to my medical training and I'm like I don't want to be the reason you die. You know I'll suck on other things, just not your neck. So I don't know. But yeah, that's the reason I don't really give them. But you can give them to me, it's fine. Just don't remember the one time that we were at the beach and I had like hickeys all over my neck and I had like this like two front ponytails not ponytails, yeah, pigtails and like oh yeah.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, you were trying to cover it because we were in the family outing. Yeah, oh, that's so fucking obvious.

Speaker 1:

And the next one, the last one. It says girl, are you ready? It says name all your exes.

Speaker 2:

Bitches, y'all thought that's funny, they try to get us they try to get you. Mariah, we were gonna do that I know for real I could summarize them all in one word trash i'ma quote little wayne on this one and I would say these hoes names, but then I would be snitching, so i'ma leave you with that on that note y'all.

Speaker 1:

This has been the mini, mini Q&A episode. We hope you enjoyed.

Speaker 2:

Name all your exes. This bitch, who the fuck sent that?

Speaker 1:

I don't know. That's why it's anonymous girl, because these hoes incriminating hoes.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, they try to incriminate. Like I said, trash that's all I'm gonna say we're not trying to snitch on all these hoes, because some of them are still being hoes out there.

Speaker 1:

Some of their hoes are still following us. So if you want to know, ask your mans, don't ask me, right Damn. Anyway, for next week y'all, we're going to leave a little question box on the page. If you listen to this episode, you motherfuckers are going to be engaging, so we're going to leave a little question mark and we're going to give you options of story times that you want to hear from us.

Speaker 1:

Like we did on like what the second episode, and then y'all are going to choose for us, so be on the lookout for that, and we'll see you next week. Okay, have a good day everyone good night bye.

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