It's Time with Jillian Melissa
Reality is not what we’ve been taught. But how do we discern what is True? It’s Time with Jillian Melissa aims to serve as a compassionate conduit and catalyst for awakening. It’s time to understand that you’re a part of the source of all that is, divine and sacred. It’s time to tap into the limitless potential within. It’s time to understand the energetic and subtle realms and their relationship to the material plane. It’s time to build your intuitive skills through a grounded approach. It’s time to anchor in more Love and Light. It’s time to take ownership of that which needs to be healed to build a better world. It’s time to step into your fullest expression so we can all receive your gifts. Jillian Melissa is an intuitive channeler, psychic medium, energy healer, spiritual mentor, teacher, and guide. She supports souls in connecting to their own internal guidance systems so they can use their own hearts as both compass and flashlight. She works to create a safe space for individuals to decode recurring patterns, gain meaning and then mastery over current life experiences, and create an exquisite life by design. She couples her empathic, emotional capacity with logic and rigor and holds a degree in Medical Anthropology from Harvard University. It’s Time With Jillian Melissa.
It's Time with Jillian Melissa
It's Time to Detach
Welcome to It’s Time with Jillian Melissa. In this soul-expanding episode, Jillian dives into the deep and tender terrain of attachment, detachment, and the spiritual lessons that lie beneath both. From cinnamon roll metaphors to tunnels under Harvard, she weaves personal story with sacred insight, offering a transformational perspective on how attachment shows up in relationships, manifestations, and identity.
You’ll journey through the lens of twin flames, attachment theory, and intuitive manifestation, gaining clarity on why detachment isn’t apathy—but a deeper surrender to divine timing. Jillian explores how attachment is often rooted in early wounding and how it keeps us spiritually stagnant, blocking the flow of true love and abundance.
Whether you're navigating a soul connection, questioning your attachment style, or feeling stuck in obsession or longing, this episode offers a loving, truth-filled tunnel to the other side.
What You’ll Discover:
- The difference between detachment, avoidance, and healthy unattachment
- How to spot spiritual bypassing in manifestation culture
- Twin flames vs. toxic obsession
- Understanding anxious, avoidant, and secure styles
- The connection between discipline, nervous system regulation, and real love
Chapters
00:00 – It’s Time: A Portal of Love and Truth (spiritual awakening, podcast intro, soul evolution) 00:29 – Cinnamon Rolls & Manifestation Timing (manifesting with patience, divine timing, spiritual metaphor) 01:56 – Why We Struggle With Waiting (energy healing, nervous system regulation, surrender practice) 04:33 – Attachment as a Tunnel to Transformation (emotional healing, inner child work, identity shifts) 06:58 – Let’s Talk About Attachment Theory (anxious attachment, avoidant dynamics, secure love) 13:08 – Manifestation, Desires, and the Lie of Detachment (spiritual bypassing, new age traps, twin flame wounds) 17:09 – Codependency vs. Divine Love (trauma healing, relationship patterns, codependent behaviors) 24:11 – Unattachment vs. Detachment (emotional clarity, mindfulness, energy codes) 30:10 – Healing Identity-Based Attachment (ego death, self-worth, transformation) 35:15 – Attachment Theory & Mother Hunger (attachment wounds, childhood trauma, inner safety) 49:20 – Twin Flames, Obsession & Letting Go (twin flame journey, divine union, spiritual tests) 56:09 – How Attachment Blocks Wealth & Abundance (money mindset, spiritual wealth, detachment) 01:06:43 – Final Blessings: Love is What Prevails (channeling love, faith in divine order, spiritual guidance)
spiritual attachment healing, twin flame obsession, how to detach from outcome, anxious attachment, avoidant attachment, codependency in relationships, manifestation and trust, divine timing, healing attachment wounds, spiritual growth podcast, detachment vs unattachment, mother hunger, healing inner child, how to heal your attachment style, secure attachment practices, nervous system and manifestation
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