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Welcome to "The Nichole Show," where we dig into the real stories that lead to genuine transformation. I'm Nichole Hamilton, your host—a mom, a survivor, and your companion through life's highs and lows. Tune in for straightforward talks about the ups and downs of motherhood, personal battles, and the strength that resides in all of us. No frills, just genuine insights, compelling guests, and a space to find courage and wisdom. From overcoming addiction to embracing sobriety, navigating family changes to personal growth—this podcast is where each story becomes an opportunity for transformation, and every voice is significant. Let's dive in together and navigate life's journey.
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Owning Your Pleasure, Power & Wealth: Creating Your Turned-On Life
What if your pleasure and your power were the keys to building wealth and a life you love?
In this episode of The Nichole Show, we sit down with Alex Harvey—money and business success coach, creator of The Modern Woman Academy, and a fierce advocate for women getting paid for their gifts while living their most turned-on lives.
Alex shares how sexual energy, pleasure, and embracing your true desires are central to wealth, creativity, and living in your authentic power. We unpack how shame, conditioning, and people-pleasing disconnect women from their creative genius—and how reconnecting with pleasure can transform not just intimacy, but your finances, business, and everyday joy.
In this conversation, we explore:
💗 Why your sexual energy is your life force and creative power
🌿 How pleasure connects to business success and money flow
🔥 What it means to live your “turned-on” life and why it matters
💰 Letting go of shame and self-doubt to receive more abundance
👑 Creating wealth doing what you love while honouring your feminine energy
✨ The power of healing numbness and reclaiming your body’s wisdom
If you’ve ever felt there’s more to your life, business, and pleasure than you’re allowing, this conversation is your permission slip to explore it.
Whether you’re a mother, entrepreneur, healer, or simply someone ready to step into your fullest expression, this episode will remind you that you can own your pleasure, power, and prosperity.
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Connect with Alex Harvey:
✨ Website: www.themodernwoman.academy
📸 Instagram: @alexh.co
📘 Facebook: Alex Harvey
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Welcome back guys to the Nicole Show. And if you're listening, that's amazing. And if you're watching even better, because you have two pink beauties today on the podcast. The beautiful Alex Harvey, she does have her hair up, but she is a pink beauty as well, bringing that unconditional love and. Feminine power to you. I've been following you, Alex, as I was just saying off air, but for a little while now, maybe a couple of years. And I just am so captivated by your authenticity, your vibe, and the frequency. And with the Nicole Show, I've really diversified as to taking the masks off and not just talking to Mama Bears and kids. It's about everything. And as. You know, a mother myself, like I'm really putting out there now and no, no holds barred about, um, owning all parts of ourselves into me. Intimacy, sexual exploration are beautiful and innate energies 'cause that does feed into every part of our lives. And from what I see in your socials, that's what you're about. I was like, yes, yes, yes, queen. Let's get you on. So without me fangirling again. Alex, please like give us a little synapsis, give us a little bit of a introduction on you. Yeah. Thanks for sharing that. Thanks for having me. I'm excited for this conversation. Um, so I am essentially, uh, coach for women helping them. Connect with what they truly desire out of life. What's their creative genius, you know? And to live from that authenticity and create, actually, I just realized something that I, something that I often say is like, create their wet dream life. Like what's their most turned on life, you know? Yeah. And. Yeah. And to access their inner power to do that. You know, because people, and you know, women in particular just come across so much resistance and so, so many blocks to being able to fully own who they are, you know, their individuality, what makes them unique and different. Everyone's kind of in theory all about that. But then when it goes to actually like owning that we have all this conditioning around how we need to fit in, how we need to be. Good people pleasing, not upset anyone. Not offend anyone. Not be too much, don't be too much. Don't be, don't be not enough. Like it's just like minefield. So a lot of my work is also very focused around, um. Actually giving women the tools to live from that power and that turn on and, you know, and, and have a modality that really works for women. And something that you were just touching on, like what I have found over my years of a co, uh, of coaching, I've been coaching for, uh, about 10 years. And I started off with a focus around sexuality. You know, I went through my own very big journey with that. And then. Um, and then my, my coaching shifted to empowering women to do what they love, do the work they love, like earn thrive, doing the work they love. And you know, what I've just found over my time is, is, you know, that there's, there's different things that really work for women that are left out of most, mm-hmm. Coaching models and modalities and at the heart of it, you know what's really been like rocking things for me and my clients is specifically being able to be connected to their sexual energy, like their turn on their life force energy, their creative energy, um, and their pleasure. And to create out of that place. So that is a, a really like central theme in the, the way that I work with women to, to live their truth and who they are and, and create what they want in their lives. I love that. I love that. And yeah, thank you for, you know, being that permission slip and being, you know, outrageously courageous in all the things that you are putting out there on your socials because, you know, it can be quite scary. Uh, I was literally just saying that this is some of the things that personally. I had kept hidden because I have been in the coaching world a long time too. And, and also, you know, have a, uh, reputation and persona for, you know, kids therapy and mother's therapy and family therapy. And yet in my containers or, you know, with, you know, one-on-ones I was talking about all the, um, sex therapy and intimacy therapy and, and, you know, things for women because that's something that I have explored, uh, in depth for many, many years with, um, my wife. Before that, my ex-husband. And so, you know, relationship intimacy, your turn on your pleasure is an innate human desire and want and should not be held from anybody yet. It's so, um, paper, bag, bottom, bottom shelf. And so yeah, thank you for like, opening this conversation because if that part of your life is. Um, is at the bottom shelf or is hidden away, then it does creep out into all other areas, into your friendships, into your business, into your, you know, connections with other humans because you are not living at your, your highest capacity, which is joy and pleasure. So, I'd love to know yeah, a little bit about some of the, the, you know, the things that you've come across and the, and the whys, because. Again, we just need to spread this to some women so they feel not so alone. Mm-hmm. Yeah, and I really relate to what you shared in terms of getting, getting comfortable or, or just choosing to actually share, you know, what you've, the truth that you've found in this when you know you have a certain, like you're in a certain space or you have a certain image and. It doesn't feel like people already see the validity of that. And, um, like I, so I started out with coaching, um, uh, around sexuality and then I took a break from coaching for about a year. And then I, um, when I started coaching again, it just kind of. Naturally happened through like this, all this work I did on myself with money. And so it was kind of very like money earning from what you love focused. And you know, when I, when it felt really true for me to actually like really bring back in practices, which I'll, I'll answer your question in a second. Around connecting with your body, your pleasure, your sexual energy moving your sexual energy. I noticed, you know, that I had now had this kind of big conflict because I had been building my brand as a money coach, and then it, you know, all of these beliefs were coming up of like, oh, well, if I'm a money coach and I start talking about sex and sexual energy and pleasure, that's gonna discredit me. Yeah. Um, so it was something that, you know, like I, I knew that the girls and the women that I were working with were, were real, like, wanted that from me. But initially I just, it was just in my backend programs, you know? Yeah. Like deeper programs. Uh, and then, you know, it was, it was a bit of a process to me to let that out again. Like it was something that I, I did kind of have out for a while. So I really relate to that. Um, but why, you know, how I, yeah. How I came into just discovering the, the power of these tools was Yeah. Was in my own journey. So I had, I, I guess I had a lot of. Blocks that I experienced in my sexual experience when I was younger and mm-hmm. You know, I, I had a period of time where I just, like, I couldn't get turned on at all, even if I wanted to have sex with my partner, like I just couldn't access any turn on, I couldn't get wet. I experienced such low limited, almost no pleasure sexually, and I just basically felt. Super broken and fucked up and I, um, it was something that like I really then started searching for answers for and was finding nothing. If you were searching today for this kind of thing, you would find a lot of stuff on the internet. Oh, correct. A lot of people that have done tantra and stuff, yeah. Now put on out so much stuff about it, but at this time there was nothing and. And I went to my doctor about it. It was this whole thing. I ended up. Getting long story short put on antidepressants, you know, no one knew what was was wrong. It kind of, I know it was like really this thing of like, oh my God, there's something wrong with me. No one even knows what it is. Like, um, you know, like, just, just sidebar with a DH, ADHD here. But did the a, um, the antidepressants make it so you couldn't orgasm? Because that is my, um, experience with multiple women. So anybody listening to this, if you are on certain medications and you can't climax. It's probably them. I don't know if that was your experience, but it definitely was. So I already like the level to which I was blocked. I wasn't climaxing, I wasn't having orgasms before. Um, you know, like I really was not experiencing any pleasure. And so I, fortunately I only was on them for a month or so. And one of the side effects though was like lower libido or whatever. So anyways, um. Anyway, long story short, eventually a few years later, I found, I, I, I just started looking again and I found someone who had done a lot of tantra that was starting to put out content online on YouTube, and she just explained how people could experience numbness or shut down sexually in a way that just. I was like, oh my God, that's so obviously it. That just makes so much sense. Right? So then I started doing her work and I went on this big journey where I guess I, yeah, I finally found, I guess, all these resources to really help me with what I wanted to shift, which, you know, had been a journey of sitting in that pain for at least four years before I found this. And, uh, and so I did, and it, you know, took, took time and chipping away and hoping there'd be just some magic bullet that made it all shift suddenly. And that's quite a story and a journey, but eventually, um, I, I, I got. Everything I want. I like, I didn't believe it was, it really was possible that I was gonna get to experience pleasure like other women and be able to orgasm and all of this kind of thing. And I, you know, through the work that I did on myself, I just completely opened it all up and I could have, you know, energetic orgasms, every type of orgasm. Squirting. Like everything, everything just, I'm blaming you. I love this. I love this. Yeah. It's so, and you know, yeah, keep going. I'll come in as I'm trying to shorten this as much as I can. So I, so I got all that and it was amazing. And then. It was actually kind of like a co couple of years after that and I had a partner where it just, you know, just expanded more and more and just like everything I could have wanted and more, more beyond. Beyond. And anyways, a couple years later, something took me back to these sacred sexuality practices that I had tried when I was more shut down. And it was part of kind of my process of trying to. Access my sexual energy, and I came back to these. From actually having, I guess, a flowing sexual or being able to access my sexual energy and just immediately like the, the shifts in my energy when I would do these practices and I would move the sexual energy and I would just, I would just use, like, I would use my sexual energy to come into expanded states of consciousness and it was just like. I was just, was having mind blowing shifts right away and just going into states of absolute bliss and just. Oneness and, you know, and just knowing of who I am, what I'm about, like all of the ego shit, just dropping away, like self-doubt as a concept just didn't, wasn't, didn't make sense. The, the, the idea of being worthy, you know, I struggled so much. In my work with like worthiness and, and just all this kind of issues around self. And it's like, this just doesn't make sense. This is just what I wanna share and it's obvious and all that stuff I've been preoccupied by like, just doesn't matter. And I was able to just step into like, you know, just know myself and my essence and, and the truth of what I wanted to share, um, and overcome so much resistance and, and access just. In just such a more significant way, like my intuition.'cause I was just so connected and turned on and you know, that's when, that's when I was really like, wow. You know, and I, and it became then really about that for me to be, to be able to like. You know, work fear through my nervous system, work blockages through my nervous system, and use my sexual energy to come into elevated states of consciousness and connect with my essence and my like power. You know, that that's something that. A lot of women reflect to me as well, and that I also experience is like this sense of feeling your power and like, fuck yes I can do that. And it's obvious and you just, you just show up to whatever you are creating so differently. You know, when you actually like really shift your energy in that way. So that's when, yeah, it really, you know, became about connecting with myself and my power. I love this. I love this. And for those listening to this, you know, um, I, yeah, I totally resonate and it's, you know, every human, but we are talking specifically for women's, you know Right. To feel your pleasure and your courage and your passion. And that is something that you have to feel yourself. It's not a gift that anybody else can give you. Yes. But we can guide with tools and only. Speaking for myself. These are things that, you know, all my friends, all my students, like Nicole, you should be a sex therapist like I am. I am the intimacy queen. There's nothing that I haven't like touched, worked on, discussed. You know, I can hold space for all of that, and I was doing it, so I. I guess so privately because of my branding and my thing, and I had this internal conflict for ages because I am an energetic person. I hold space, unconditional love, like, you know, and for me it was this internal conflict. I, and I just kept being pulled and pulled more to intimacy and healing in the energetics world. And I was just feeling it. And it was really a few about a month of like this. Like the black dog, like that energy, the depression was eating at my heels and was pulling me back into some old cycles. And I was like, what is this? You know, why is this coming up? And honestly, for not being honest, I. And the day, like it was a couple of weeks ago before I came to Bali a few weeks ago, this, um, other person that I've known for a really long time, and that podcast is now out, it's an 18 plus one, but a beautiful friend of mine, A-B-D-S-M Dom, he's like, I wanna be on your podcast. And I was like, oh fuck. And then I asked my wife, I was like, should I do this? And she's like, okay. And so here we are. And then obviously you're my like, next guest. And I love this because fuck yes. Permission slips to all like, you know, if there's anything that's. Past your comfort zone? You know, back in the day, like when I was looking for all my sexual exploration and my counseling and myself, there was nothing out there. Had to answer ads in the paper. There was no Facebook, there was no tantrum. There was no, you know, Google. All of that. And so, you know, my intention just shifted and, and from that moment, like the freedom and the difference that's happened in not only my energy shift with, you know, with abs, with my business, with all these things is just melted away because I said yes to that energy that I was suppressing.'cause I was, you know, fear of judgment on this professional coaching woman who is a mother. You know, and a coach as well. I was like, I can't do both. And then I was like, fuck yes, I can. Actually, I can. And you know, it won't be everyone's cup of tea, but I guarantee there's other mothers and women out there that feel like they can't. Have it all and you know, we're here to say you absolutely can. You absolutely can experience anything that you desire in your life. And so I love that you are, yeah. That you're promoting this and showing that, you know, it's not just about business and coaching and wellbeing and mindset.'cause it's not it, it literally comes from our feminine power. So, yeah. I love it. I love it. Yeah. I love that you're doing that as well and I think, you know, that's what keeps your energy flowing, right? Like you were just saying, that is like when you act on the truth, you'll be on your turn on when you're open and you act on the truth and that just like energizes you. It lights you up, it turns you on and. And I think it's so powerful, honestly, for you, particularly as a mother doing that because something that I've noticed from the women that I've worked with is like, there can be this, you know, like when we, when we sort of step into different roles, or I guess you could say in our lives, we unconsciously can assume, or it's very common to unconsciously assume. The like beliefs that you didn't even know you had about that role. And so for a lot of women. When they become a mother, there's, there's this unconscious thing that comes over that's like, I can't be sexual. I'm not meant to be sexual. I'm, you know, I, or you know, like,'cause I'm meant to be this way. Yeah. I'm meant to look different now. I'm meant to dress different. I'm meant to behave differently. I'm meant to be a nurturer and blah, blah, blah. And it's, yeah. Correct, correct. There is a lot of, there is a lot of labeling and conditioning and, and ideation of what it's looked like to be a mother. Um, so yeah, it, there, there's so many stories and so many misbeliefs and, um, honestly, through breaking through some of those molds, um. With different coaches and, and therapists and, and things in, you know, our lives. It has created the most abundant, best communication and sex life and, and, and intimacy. And when you have that, not only with self, but if you have intimate partners as well, that that frequency of love and connection f filters out into every aspect of your life. Every aspect. And so it is so important to work on that, whereas a lot of people think, oh, I've got the partnership now. I've just gotta hold it together for the kids. You know, let's put that, put that aside, or whatever that might look like. Or, I'm single so I'm gonna put that aside. That frequency really disempowers us. And so, yeah, I'm so grateful that there's, you know, women like you and, and sex therapists and coaches out there changing, changing it up, and. For women that haven't, you know, I, I come across it a lot as well. Women that haven't had pleasure or have had sexual trauma, like, you know, blown away that we can shut down and have numbness down there, and yet that can be healed and changed and yeah, with the right coach and right therapist as well. So there's. My mind blows. And, and if you had spoken to me, you know, I'm 44, so if you'd spoken to me 20 years ago about a yoni massage, oh my God. I would've been like, what? I'm like, sign me up now. You know? But yeah, there's so much healing that can be done with hands and the right people and um, yeah, I think that these conversations need to be had more because people are literally missing out. Hmm. Yeah, totally. And you know, just like you, you're saying, just even opening the conversation, and I think that it's a relief for so many people because people actually, you know, want to talk about it. Women want to be connected to their pleasure. They wanna feel more, they wanna have like what they see. Um, well, depends I guess like if you've been on like a tantra retreat, like what they see other women having, um, and it's possible for everyone. Like you mentioned that in like, and my story, I just want to be the ultimate demonstration of that is like, there's no such thing. As women that can squirt and not squirt. There's no such weird thing as women that can have internal orgasms and women that can't. There's no such thing as women that can be highly energetically orgasmic and women that can't. Everyone can. It's just, it's just getting that connected to your body and your energy and your sensation and, and removing the barriers to that. And then, you know, every woman can experience. Whatever degree of pleasure and energy and orgasmic energy and pleasure, like it's all, it's all there for everyone. Yeah, it totally is. It really, really is. So, yeah, thank you for letting you know, women know that as well and, and places and spaces that they can come to and ask questions of. Um. So I would love to know a little bit more, more about, um, how that came into your like business and your frequency. I've seen some of these like. Cool little posts, some things that you are adding into your business. So I'd love for you to do a bit of a shout out to your packages, and I think you are, um, creating some resources I saw that's being made in Bali. I don't know if you're announcing all your bits and pieces, but I, so I would like Yeah. Lay it all out, baby. Let's go, Alex. Like, tell us what you're doing, where you're at, what you, you know what you have because Yeah. Let's, let's shout it from the rooftop. Yeah. Let's have some fun. Yes. Yes. Yes. Um, okay. Yeah. Well, so as I said previously, it was more like in my mastermind you could get this kind of thing. Although I did actually run a membership for two years that was. Centered around that. We did a sex magic ritual once a month. So that would be like a guided self pleasure practice where I'm guiding you to connect with that energy, shift energy in your body digest, you know, if there's fear or resistances, and then move the energy, you know. Into an expand, like bringing you into expanded and elevated states of consciousness. And I do have all of those recordings packaged together. Uh, now that, that you can access as well as, um. Yeah. Um, some also short feminine connection practices, which are mostly, they're mostly Daoist and tantric practices that you can use as like a daily practice with things like, you know, breast massage, womb breathing, things that are gonna connect you with your body and your sexual energy and, and help with the whole process. So that's my Sex magic ritual collection. So that is now available for people to access, which is very exciting because I don't actually know anywhere else you can just get something like that. Um, and I recently just ran for the first time a new program that I will keep, uh, running a couple of times a year called Erotic Magnetism. And it, that's about how to. How to actually like, connect with your erotic energy and, and let yourself, it's not about like being out being. Sexual with like anyone that's around you, but it's actually that you allow yourself to inhabit that energy in your life. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. And have your life be driven, like, you know, that you inhabit the, the, the magnetism radiance, like frequency of your just most vibrant self through embodying and owning your erotic energy. I love that. I love that. Um, and that's, yeah, some women dunno how to do it. Like some women do not know how to shift their energy, shift their captivation to turn them like, you know, just, you know, but look at themselves in the mirror and be like, yeah, fuck yeah babe, you're gorgeous. Or whatever else that is, and embody that frequency. And he just reminded me. It was so funny, I was trying to teach this too. A friend of mine because for some reason, I don't know why. I can just, I, I've always been able to do that. And we were out one night and I said, watch this. And so she followed me and I literally walked around this pontoon and I did, I turned that energy on and I kid you not. Every single person looked at me and gave me, gave me eye contact.'cause I was walking around in that energy in that wasn't like, yeah, come have sex with me. It was just like, Hey, look at me. Like here I am. And this other person is, um, very like, just, it just was in awe. She was in awe. She did not know. She's like, how did you do that? I'm like, I actually don't. I, I, I, I haven't had the thought process of how I download and how I do that. So it's great that you're teaching that because women need to know, like, how do I. Put it out there, how do I turn it off? How do I have my boundaries? How do I connect, how do I play with that frequency, um, to captivate, to turn myself on, to, to get people to notice me, to get outta my comfort show? Like, how do you do that? Um, so I love that. I I absolutely love that they've gotta practice with that and showing women how to Totally. Yeah. Well, and I, I love that you're out there spreading it as well. And Yeah, it's a. An experiment owning it. Yeah. Yeah. And also most women, no, you go, you go. Sorry, I think there's a bit of a time delay. I was just gonna say, most women, you know, don't even feel comfortable accessing that at all. Like even with their partners, you know, that can be, they don't, they don't know how to let themselves be really sexy and hot and own their sexual energy. And then there's also like women that, you know, can do that in the bedroom with their partners, but don't know how to like bring that. You know, energy into their life and just fucking own themselves in that way in their life. So erotic magnetism is also about like, how do you live in this? How do you, how do you create and live as like a turned on radiant magnetic woman? Yeah. And because that's right, like, I mean, it's in everything. Like if you wanna, you know, I was using that for, you know, get attention. But, you know, if you wanna, um, you know, public speak and you wanna gain attention, if you wanna, you know, be in a board meeting and make sure that all the men are listening. Like, it's not that you wanna have sex with 'em all, but it's like, Hey, I've got the power here. I'm captivating. Watch this, watch this space. And yeah, I think it's, it's, it's innately in women and yet with whatever conditioning or stories it had, some women are just so totally disconnected from that frequency, from that personal power, which just bubbles up from, you know, from our base and comes through and, you know, explodes out of our heart. So important to, to teach that. And, um, yeah, definitely. As, as, as I was speaking, like moms, we do tend to think, Nope, shut that down. Like, I'm only allowed to be this portion of myself. And so yeah, I, I love, love, love, love that you've got some resources. And we will, by the way, guys, pop all the links underneath so that you can contact and, and get all those bits and pieces. So I love sharing all this information.'cause again, it just so wasn't available when I was. You know, first looking or, you know, whatever else. Mm. Totally. Um, you go, uh, I was just gonna ask, I'm curious like what, you know, because you shared like this is something that you are wanting to be more open about sharing in your brand and bringing through this, this message and, um. And just, you know, the, the power of what you actually do with your clients around this. And so I'm just curious, like, what is the message you would really love to share with women around stepping into their sexual energy, sexual sovereignty, sexual power? Yeah, I, I feel like, um, you, like you nailed it before. It is such a sacred sexual energy. Um, the sacredness of our women's power is something that's not normally celebrated. It's normally like, ah, she's a sex worker, or she's, you know, a stripper and, you know, I do my pole dancing. And so there's such, you know, connotation to like, she looks better than me. It's not about that every single woman is divine and sexy and has this magnetism and beauty within them. And for me it's helping them find that, because, you know, I've worked in so many industries from beauty to, you know, to pole dancing to different ones and every single. Women will look at all their flaws first and forget their radiance and their, and their actual personal power, their, their energy, their frequency, and what they're capable of. And for me, I am very, very blessed that in my past relationships and even this current one, um. My authentic truth in all sexual exploration has always been held and celebrated and encouraged. Whereas I feel like some women and maybe more than others, have been shut down, told it's wrong, told it's dirty, it's not okay. You're not allowed to, and I'm here to say. Fuck yes, queen. You can do whatever you like with your body and let's celebrate that, and let's do it anyway. Hey everyone, Nicole here, and I hope you're enjoying today's episode. I just wanna take a quick moment to talk to you all. If you're finding value in our conversations and loving the raw, honest dialogues we're having here, I've got a small favor to ask. This podcast is a passion project for me, and there's nothing I love more than bringing these stories and insights to you. So if you haven't already, would you consider subscribing to our show and leaving a review? It's completely free and it doesn't take much time, but it really helps us in two big ways. It's getting the podcast in front of more listeners, which keeps our community growing. It helps us attract more amazing guests, which means we give you more value in the episodes we bring to you. Just hit that subscribe button, drop us a review, and let's keep these conversations flowing. Now let's dive right back into our episode, and thanks so much of being a part of the Nicole's show. Regardless of who you are, what job you have. If you're a mother, if you're a daughter, if you're a aunt, if you're a grandma, like you can have the intimacy and connection with your own body and with others in your life that you choose, and I mean that from not even just your intimate partners like I'm. Bisexual. And you know, I have a, a partner who, a a a wife and I still need cuddles from men. Like I know that I've got safe men that I can ask and have that male connection from and different things. And you know, I was out of breath work the other day and there was this 80-year-old woman and she just, you know, OG breath work. Rolled over and cuddled her best friend, you know, another female, and this young 20-year-old was like, oh my God, that's amazing. And I just literally forget that in this world of coaching and intimacy, that we are so connected to being able to know consent and boundaries and asking. But intimacy and touch and love is. Every human's, right? And you are not just conditioned to get it from your sexual partner. Like let's open our hearts to knowing that we can come back to that. And when you're in that frequency and energy, you will attract more of those beautiful humans in your life that will. Hold that sovereignty and sacredness of what human beings are genuinely put on this earth to experience. Hmm. So that was a bit of a long one. Sorry. Yeah, no, I love it. And I, I so agree with what you said. Like, you know, especially as you were saying, like women. You know, appreciating their own beauty and radiance and connecting with the truth of that and, you know, and, and how that is, that's natural when you connect, you know, with your sexual energy and your sexual power. And yeah, just every that I feel like you shared it so well. Um, and I, I just totally agree. Yeah. And I love that. And I think it's just so powerful for you to share it. Thank you. Thank you. Um, and yeah, as I said, like I feel like there's a, a deep connection here for like, wherever this may go, more conversations or whatever else, but, um, I'm personally running like a women's retreat here in Adelaide, but I would definitely wanna run women in Bali. I know that's where you live. Um, but around all this stuff, because women do need that, you know, that sacred. We need to hold space and have that privacy to heal, to then, you know, recom out again and learn. And I, I think that that's, yeah, that's, that's where I'm going with it. Like, I'm just, I chose a couple of weeks ago to be like, fuck it. I'm, I'm actually gonna put it out on socials instead of just. Privately in my containers and, you know, invite only, I'm just now having my own awakening, reawakening again into the fact that I am at a place that I can hold space and put it out there. And if I'm judged, I'm judged. You know, and that's okay. But women can have their cake and eat it too, like you are. So you can have your orgasm and squirt too, like whatever the, the vi whatever the, the meme works for you. But you can absolutely have whatever you desire. Mm. Yeah, I love that. And you know, you even saying that just made me think of, I have this one client that I work with one-to-one, and I think we've been working together for, uh, a l well, maybe over at least a year, one-to-one. She was in my mastermind before that. And um, one of the things she told me when she started working with me was that. One of the reasons she did was because the content that I put out around sexual energy and being connected to your sexual energy really triggered her and it made her feel really uncomfortable and she didn't like it. And she was a bit judgmental of it. And she was like, right, so there's something for me here. And she leaned in. So it's like, you know, being, being willing to. Trigger people, but knowing that whether people love what they see immediately or it triggers them, it's, it's still serving them because it's, it's offering them like a new way of looking at it and a new perspective and something that they either immediately resonate with or they're at first like really triggered by, but that's then like. Setting something in motion for them. You know, that might, you know, they might then just go on their own process with that for a few years. But it's, it's still like serving them. I. You never know where those seeds are gonna drop and who's actually watching, because um, yeah, sometimes I get, you know, dms and comments from people that have been following me for years or, you know, different. Yeah. It's, it's so interesting. And, you know, people who would see me would obviously think that I am the most confident, um, outrageous person. Uh, but I have my people pleaser and my doubts and my, you know, all those things because, um. I, I, I do care. Like, you know, I, I, you know, I do still have fear of judgment, but it's meeting those edges within myself to go, okay, do I have the, you know, the resources and the capacity to hold myself through this? And yeah. And that, and then I was like, okay. And for me, every part of my journey from way back when, from when I started talking about drugs and addiction, my mom was. Horrified. She's like, you know, because back then it was like, you, you deal with it and you heal it. You didn't talk about it. And then I did, I started talking about like money and finances and different things, and dad's like, oh, you don't, you didn't talk about money. And now, okay, here's the next one. So sorry, mom and dad, maybe skip these podcasts. But you know, it it, for me, it's always a journey. Like, and, and, and. Honesty is my number one value. And so if I learn it, then I have to share it. And I feel like this is just a, a, a new level of unlocking that, of the things that have always served me and helped me heal. And definitely, you know, when you have, um, the most beautiful, intimate relationship with self and you know yourself, you know your heart, you know your, your energy. You can then share that with whoever. And it does start with self. It's when I'm not just, we're not just talking about our own sexuality and, and, you know, connecting with others. It really starts with us. And so many of us have been taught to shut it down, not talk about it. It's not okay. It's not available to you or whatever that is. And so, yeah, I, I love this conversation, so I'm hoping that it is. Triggering and also inspiring a curiosity and also welcoming people that are, you know, ready to work in these places and spaces with us. So, mm, yeah, absolutely. And I think it's, I think it's something that, you know, women are, are really like looking for and wanting as this way to connect back with themselves and all of themselves and, and to have this part of themselves so fully that. You know, they are unconsciously cut themselves off from at some point because of what was allowed, how you should be, how you shouldn't be. And as you said, it's just like not spoken about. Like so many, so many women don't like have anyone to e to talk to about, about this stuff. Or if they do, they don't, they feel like this, you know, shame or there's something wrong with how they're experiencing things. Um, yeah. And, you know, assuming that everyone else has, has it all figured out a lot like money. Um mm-hmm. And so, yeah, it's really just, I think, really healing for everyone to just, you know, even have conversations about it. Yeah, I absolutely, absolutely love this. I have to share this story. This story is about 14 years ago, and it's been coming up a lot in my, in my memory banks because, um, yeah, it's a part of the journey. And maybe this client, I don't even remember who they were, but, uh, I had just come learning scripted, hypnotherapy and energetics. Like I hadn't. Wasn't fairly new to coaching. All I knew was unpack their, you know, their beliefs, what do they need help with? And the style of therapy I was doing was you read them this massive, like 10 minute scripting and really get, get them deep into unconscious trance. Like really, like, you know, play the music, talk to them, and then to rewire whatever the, the challenge or the, the, you know. The issue was you obviously replace it with something. It was to like, um, speak really quickly about like an anchor in the, the solution. Like the solution is your body is this, or you can blah, blah, blah. And I. Literally straight out of, out of beauty therapy to, to people laying on the bed. And this lady that I had known from a beauty client came in and had pelvic floor issues and had had an operation. And the first thing, and I was in, God, it must have been like late twenties. And, um. She said, like my pelvic floor, I've had an operation. I'm too tight. My vagina doesn't work, my husband can't fit in. It's excruciating. It's painful. Now, through my therapies and through the things that I've been through, I've had. Coaches or a psychiatrist, like lean back and be, you know, totally stunned by the things that I've shared.'cause I'm quite open and I vowed never to do that to someone. Now in my mind I was like, holy fuck, we did not cover this in, in hypnotherapy. We were covering emotions and anger and, you know. Body imagery. We were not covering this. And I was like, and just for something, and I guess maybe that's re sparked me here, you know, 10, 15 years later I was like, we got this. And I just was like, okay, what does she need? She needs to know that her body is perfect, that she can have the pleasure and, and that it works amazingly. And I just went into this, you know, free rant around her body working exactly how she needed it to. And I swear to God, she texted me the next day and said it. Wow. And I'm just like, wow, you know? And here I was like, I'm talking newbie, like no experience, no tantrum, no, you know, energetics. Like, just very, very new. But the power of belief and holding space for somebody that they can tell you anything that you can, you know, offer that. And my, you know, my initial terror of like, oh fuck, you know, what do I do here? And then I was like, Nope, we've got this. And, you know. That, you know, that is everything. And, and it's just really, Remi reminded me that you can heal anything, you can work on anything, whether it's physical, emotional, whatever. And, um, if by any chance. You are met with somebody that can't hold space, just keep asking the question.'cause there's gonna be other coaches out there that can and, and that's the thing. So yeah, I'm just eternally grateful for that memory because I literally remember it was one of my most like, confronting things and I just was like, okay, we've got this. Like, yeah, let's go from facials to vaginas and let's go there and, and you know, and hold space and, and it works like the energy, the frequency. The belief, the recoding, that changing that frequency for that, that client, that person made all the difference. Yeah, totally. It's like psychological, you know, it's, it is, um. And yeah. Removing it's, and it's just about removing the barriers, right? And being able to surrender into it. And I totally agree with what you said, that you can shift and heal anything. And you know, as I was saying, that's what I feel like my story really proves that, you know, my, one of my main things that I wanted to, uh, also like shift and heal around that time was. I won't go into it now 'cause it'll take too much time, but was like these bladder issues that I had, that I had when I was a kid. Mm-hmm. And then kind of came back when I was, um, 20 and. You know, like I had been to every type of alternative therapy, like kinesiology, acupuncture, all these things, all these people that said they could help me, no one could help me. So it was like years, like so many years of my life of seeing people that said they could help me and then they couldn't. And the conventional system had no answers. And yeah. You know, and then I just, like, I did the emotional work on it and it. It just could, like the doctor told me I would need to be on medication for the rest of my life. And I was like, that does not make sense to me because it's not always like this. And, um, mm-hmm. And I, I, I shifted it, I healed it and I, I was like, you know, if you can do that, like you can do anything. I love that. I love that. And there'd be heaps of women. I actually probably have got about three that just popped into my mind that have incontinence, things that have come up and from whatever reason, and one literally just been told she needs to be on medication. So yeah. So, such a cool reminder. Yep. So I've got clients for you anyway. Um, but I love this because, but it's not talked about, oh, I'm peeing myself and, and you know, it's happening now more and blah, blah, blah and all these things. And yet most. Most of us are so conditioned, like go to the doctor, get some medicine, and you know, for all these things. And yet we can ultimately heal ourselves with the right. You know, and we might, you know, these two crazy Pink Egg girls might not be the right ones for you, but we definitely know also a lot of other, you know, people in this, in this world too. So. I had love for people that are sending questions.'cause we could literally Yeah. Go so deep on this and maybe even do a, you know, a sequel, but sending questions or curiosities and they can all be anonymous because this could be really cool. Um, you know, opening these conversations and chats to, to women that are struggling with, you know, anything that's with their bodies or their emotions or their. The desires and, and how it works. So I love this. I would love you to share one thing that, you know, you continuously come up with the women that, that they just need to either like hear or embody or feel like. I'd love you to share something that you think that women. Need to hear today as a, as this podcast lands in their ears. Okay. The thing that immediately comes to me is just such a central theme that comes up in my own personal process and with my coaching clients. And, you know, it's too, like we all feel like there's something. Wrong with us in some way, you know? Mm-hmm. It's the, the thing that, you know, whatever you resist about yourself, right? Like maybe you resist and feel so wrong that you have this habit or like this addiction or this, you know, thing, or you can't seem to get over this, or you can't seem to get your money shit together, or you can't, you know, whatever. And, and there's this thing that you resist about yourself that within yourself that you're trying to overcome. And. That you know, that there is like, that is an illusion. There is nothing that like, there is just nothing you need to get rid of about yourself. And the way through that thing I. Is that you just fully allow it to exist and it doesn't need to go away and there's nothing wrong with it. And you know this, depending where you're at with the thing that's, that's alive for you. The step that I would even encourage people to take is to, is to just celebrate it. Like, just make it a full switch on like whatever you're resisting about yourself. That that you do or that you feel you are, that you just absolutely unconditionally unapologetically. Embrace that thing. Allow it to exist. It doesn't mean you can't have what you want. It doesn't mean, you know, you can't reach your end results and even to like throw it a party and just be like, yes, you get to be here. You are awesome. You know, you kind of fucked up maybe, but like you're awesome. You get to exist. I don't have to resist or reject any part of me because the most disempowering thing that women do is resist and reject parts of themselves. That is what, that is what fucks them a hundred percent. I love that, and thank you for that reminder because yeah, there's all, there's always a part that we push down, push aside, ignore, or, um, villainize. And for me it was my drug addiction. I always came back to that. And, you know, it's, it is a long time coming, but I thought that was just a part that I held onto that I was so guilty and ashamed of the money and the things and the whatever it was attached. And then one day I fucking loved her. I was like, fuck this. She kept me alive. Like I was in a really bad state, but even though I was addicted, she kept me alive. And she's a crafty motherfucker. She can lie, she can con, she can manipulate, she can get through the darkest times. Actually, she's not, she's not to be hidden and told off and blah, blah, blah. She's just here to be celebrated. And that's just exactly what you're saying. And that's just. That's my version of addiction, but I, I held onto so much like energy and grief and disappointment and guilt about her. And then, yeah, when you love all parts, and I guess maybe that's the other thing that's coming out with me now. I'm just so in love with my sexual side. I'm in love with the energy and the frequencies and the people that are in my life and I just need to explore that and maybe I'd, you know, push my siren, you know, away or whatever. And so yeah, celebrate all parts of you because they are. They are worthy of that. Yeah. Then that's a perfect story to drive it home. Yes. I love that. If you were to be or come back in this life as anything else, and it can be make believe or um, or you know, animal or anything like that, what would you come back as? A cat or maybe a lion? Yeah. You love it. I love cats. I mean, cats are amazing. Cats are What is the, what is, yeah. What's the reason behind that? What's the intention? The, the feeling, because they Okay, okay. Okay. I'll go with cat. Okay. So the thing behind it is like a cat is like a ninja, laser focused killing machine. Like a cat puts its eye on something and it gets it. It's like it can jump off. Probably a five story building. It can jump up that tree. It is like so agile, it's so flexible. It's so like in its body. It can literally like bend over backwards and lick its back and. And it's just like this sensory, I don't know, this amazing sensory creature where like you pat it and it's just goes into ecstasy. Like it goes into ecstasy, you know, and it's purring just in this pleasure and ecstasy and you know, and it lies in the. Sun and I just feel like it's just got this incredible versatility, um, and ability that I just adore and then how much it can just like fully receive and enjoy life and it knows what it wants and it's direct and just so many epic things about cats. Cats are just unapologetically them. They have attitudes, they have behaviors. You know, they're used in witchcraft, like they just have so many cool facets. Very feminine, very, yeah. Feline energy. I'm really feeling that fierceness from you, so I love that. I love that. That's so epic. Yeah. Someone asked me, asked me that question the other day, and I was like, what would it be? And for me, I instantly said, mermaid, like I would come back as a mermaid. Like I'm a, you know, colorful and I love, you know. You know, that the, the thing. But I would come back as one of the sirens, like I was just saying, like one of the ones that cool the man out to sea and they're just like so beautiful and captivating using that energy. And then I would devour.'cause I take what's mine too, like, you know, like that's just, yeah. So I know that's just funny. So that's, that's what I would come back as a beautiful mermaid slash siren that plays in that energy. Hmm. Well guys, thank you so much for listening. Um, it's been a like a little whirlwind journey. Um, I'm gonna pop all Alex's details on her, um, courses and where you can find her underneath. And like I said, if you have questions, you can DM us or whatever else, and we might even do a part two. But thank you so much for joining us and, um. Yeah. It's honestly just, yeah, still fangirling a little bit, but so aligned. Thank you for, for sharing everything that you have and, um, keep doing the work that you're doing. Yeah, thank you. And you too, keep sharing this stuff and it's been such a pleasure. Thanks for having me. Of course.