Kay, Emily and Gene - Lessons from Adoption Stories

In this episode of the Hey, Am I Adopted podcast, hosts Emily, Gene, and Kay Trowbridge reflect on their journey through adoption discussions over the past 30 episodes. They explore the emotional impact of sharing personal stories, the search for biological families, and the importance of community and connection among adoptees. The conversation delves into the primal wound theory, family dynamics, and the lessons learned from their interviews, emphasizing the need for stability and openness in adoptive families. They conclude with thoughts on curiosity and the common experiences shared among adoptees, while inviting listeners to embrace intergenerational storytelling.

• The podcast has revealed common threads of abandonment and relationship issues among adoptees.
• Many adoptees feel a strong desire to share their stories but often feel unheard.
• The emotional impact of adoption stories can be profound for both listeners and speakers.
• Finding biological families is a significant aspect of many adoptees' journeys.
• Creating a community for adoptees to share their experiences is essential.
• The primal wound theory highlights the lasting effects of adoption on both adoptees and birth parents.
• Openness about adoption within families is not the norm, but it should be encouraged.
• Stability is crucial for adoptees and can help mitigate feelings of abandonment.
• Curiosity about biological families is a common theme among adoptees.
• Connections require effort and work, whether in finding biological families or building community.