More with Mike

In this episode of the Hey, Am I Adopted podcast, Gene and Emily Trowbridge revisit their conversation with Mike, an adoptee who has dedicated his life to understanding and advocating for adoption. The discussion delves into Mike's personal experiences with abandonment, family dynamics, and the impact of being adopted. Mike shares his unique perspective on abandonment, viewing it as a new adventure rather than a loss. The conversation also explores the relationships between adopted siblings, the influence of foster care, and the importance of names in shaping identity. Throughout the episode, themes of adaptability, resilience, and the complexities of family connections are highlighted, providing valuable insights into the adoptee experience. In this conversation, Mike shares his personal experiences with adoption, family dynamics, and the impact of addiction. He reflects on the importance of community, the significance of birthdays, and the lessons learned throughout his life. The discussion emphasizes the positive aspects of adoption and the idea of viewing life as a series of opportunities to learn and grow.

• Mike views abandonment as a new adventure.
• The name change during adoption impacted Mike's identity.
• Family dynamics in adoption can be complex and supportive.
• Foster care experiences shape the understanding of family.
• Adopted siblings often share unique bonds and experiences.
• Mike emphasizes the importance of adaptability in life.
• The role of names can significantly affect one's identity.
• Connections to biological family can be meaningful yet complex.
• Adoption can foster resilience and a sense of community.
• Understanding addiction in the context of adoption is crucial. When the cops show up, I want to be and have my sound mind.
• Addiction can also be control.